Rudy Francisco - Scars/To the New Boyfriend

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @ButtonPoetry
    @ButtonPoetry  7 лет назад +244

    Read this poem and more in Rudy's fantastic book, Helium: bit.ly/rudyfhelium

  • @Nourtzrt
    @Nourtzrt 7 лет назад +2057

    "loving you was the last thing i felt really good at"

    • @stephaniedonahue1272
      @stephaniedonahue1272 6 лет назад +1

      Nourhane Atmani agreed! Impactful

    • @pollyprd7903
      @pollyprd7903 6 лет назад +9

      that shit hit me so damn hard

    • @masters284
      @masters284 5 лет назад +2

      Felt that!

    • @tonystrevelii3455
      @tonystrevelii3455 5 лет назад +5

      This line pulled at my heart’s strings much harder than I was prepared for

    • @kasperwilliams7933
      @kasperwilliams7933 4 года назад +1

      On god im playing that part baxk to back stuck like wtff deep

  • @mylifeasaninitialism6792
    @mylifeasaninitialism6792 6 лет назад +1870

    “I bet if we dusted her heart for finger prints we would only find yours” what a beautiful way to be able to express bitterness but not hate. People think the two always go hand in hand but that’s not necessarily true.

    • @JFLO-tj9gp
      @JFLO-tj9gp 5 лет назад +5

      I thought the same thing as well.

    • @madikobekotsedi1163
      @madikobekotsedi1163 5 лет назад +13

      I relate to this poem. I've been there. Letting go is hard especially when the one you love love's somebody else. But god makes a way. These are just growing pains

    • @JFLO-tj9gp
      @JFLO-tj9gp 5 лет назад +6

      @@madikobekotsedi1163 I had to let go of someone who I loved with every single cell in my body. Memories are still there haunting me. Still feel her next to me still smell her. I hate it. LOVE SUCKS

    • @shaziyasheikh1137
      @shaziyasheikh1137 4 года назад +1

      Can you explain it please????

    • @Moozymo
      @Moozymo 3 года назад

      That part made my chest cringe… I felt that

  • @NancyEggy
    @NancyEggy 4 года назад +521

    'Cupid is fucking irresponsible and I'm tired of him using me for target practice'..... that hit deep 😫

  • @mrpeijay
    @mrpeijay 7 лет назад +1689

    I did not give consent for you to touch my soul, sir. Touch it, you did however.

  • @maxtryhorn9527
    @maxtryhorn9527 2 года назад +119

    what i love about these poems. Rudy in particular, is that they have millions of views but I know for a fact that it’s the same few thousand of people coming back again.

  • @kaylamatton9131
    @kaylamatton9131 7 лет назад +307

    What a gift to be able to articulate human emotion so vividly.. I love Rudy.

  • @alexisliberty468
    @alexisliberty468 Год назад +15

    Whenever I am going through a writers block I come back to this video. Reminds me how powerful spoken word is. Will probably forever be my favourite

  • @thetypewriterbtch8763
    @thetypewriterbtch8763 2 года назад +21

    He made me cry and laugh in the most vulnerable way possible.

  • @Demtor83
    @Demtor83 7 лет назад +344

    "But the definition of love is being robed in an alley 8 times in a row and hoping there is something about today that makes all of this different!"

  • @hopepaschall35
    @hopepaschall35 6 лет назад +288

    The first time I watched this, it was 3:30 a.m. and I had just gotten my heart broken for the first time. This resonated with every part of me that was hurting, every part but just wanted to let go of this and not feel anything anymore. It made me sob like a little kid and helped me heal, helped me prepare for the coming day. Thank you for sharing with the world this beautiful piece of art.

    • @preacher475
      @preacher475 4 года назад +3

      It would get better and ik it has been 2 years but it always get's better

    • @rlmelendez91
      @rlmelendez91 3 года назад

      I’m here now...😞

    • @collinames4078
      @collinames4078 2 года назад

      Bro I’m just watching this and it’s 4:30 am

  • @waddlebottles
    @waddlebottles 6 лет назад +103

    it's been almost a year since you've left.
    i remember the first time i listened to this poem, i cried and cried and cried. i think i played it nearly every single day from then on, and cried each time, varying between gut-wrenching sobs to silent tears. writing this today, it's been a while since i've listened to this poem. i cried, of course, but these tears feel different. these tears feel like healing.
    i am waiting for the day i can listen to this poem, not shed a single tear, and can only remember you as a distant memory.

    • @Valenescov99
      @Valenescov99 4 года назад +4

      I hope this pain is gone for you, I hope you can finally watch this video without a single tear and I hope when you think of them it really is just a memory now

    • @jonathanbullock5788
      @jonathanbullock5788 2 года назад +1

      It’s so powerful, you may still have the tears but always for different reasons, no shame in it!

  • @JaysNest
    @JaysNest 7 лет назад +396

    Ouch. 😢 Always speaking to the deep parts of my pain that lay hidden in drawer never to be found.. until you write them on paper and speak the words right through me.

  • @jahmessed
    @jahmessed 6 лет назад +269

    "there is nothing logical about cutting off the most important part of yourself and then putting them inside of hands that shake, that trembles, that crack like a Haitian sidewalk"

  • @rebeccahutchison413
    @rebeccahutchison413 7 лет назад +265

    Rudy. Your words are beautiful.

  • @neirasworld
    @neirasworld 6 лет назад +45

    "Love is clumsy and my heart refuses to wear a helmet." Oh my!!!!!

  • @BLGhomiie
    @BLGhomiie 7 лет назад +74

    his book is becoming my absolute favourite book of poetry. he is phenomenal. I wish he would do an audiobook so I can hear all this passion off the pages.

    • @1cjblacks85
      @1cjblacks85 7 лет назад +1

      BLGhomiie you can buy his audio cds and get the digital copy.

    • @BLGhomiie
      @BLGhomiie 7 лет назад +1

      Dora Milaje I didn’t know he had an audio CD! where? button store?

    • @1cjblacks85
      @1cjblacks85 7 лет назад

      I got it from a website called Bandcamp a while back. Google it.

  • @Maria-kr6zc
    @Maria-kr6zc 7 лет назад +989

    Scars
    One, if I could, I would nail these hands to the edges of stars I would sacrifice this body to the sky, hoping to resurrect someone that’s spiteful enough to not care about you anymore.
    Two, staple me to a cross. Pierce my side with a broken promise and I will bleed all the crippled reasons why you deserve one more chance.
    Three, loving you was the last thing that I was really good at.
    Four, you wanna know how I got these scars. Well, I ripped every last piece of you out of my smile.
    Five, I whispered you stardust.
    Six, I spoke you into sunflowers.
    Seven, I dipped my hands in forever, I touched you infinity, treated you as if you were the last molecule of oxygen inside of a gas chamber; I was good to you.
    Eight. You wanna know how I got these scars? Well, I swallowed my pride and then it clawed it’s way out of my mouth and Nine, I realized that I was never really your boyfriend, I guess I was really just your height man.
    Ten, I hope your next boyfriend gets small pox.
    Ten Yes I said small pox. Ten, I hate you. ten, I miss you. ten, but I still love you. ten, it’s hard for me to count when I get emotional.
    Ten I heard that over 90%, 90% of human interaction is not verbal..so..
    Ten, if I could, I would tie your arms to a day dream and then auction you off to my fondest memories.
    To the new boyfriend
    To the random dude who started dating my ex girlfriend two days after we broke up (yes, I read that on facebook). When I saw that you were in a relationship with the girl that I thought I would someday spend the rest of my life with, I walked outside. I said to myself, “There’s no way Ashton Kutcher is gonna catch me off guard.” I waited 45 minutes and then I realized, there hasn’t been a new episode of “punked” in almost three years, so I guess I’m the only practical joke in this entire situation.
    One: The first time I saw you and her in a picture, I wanted to take my entire arm, shove it inside of the computer and snatch the happiness right off of your face.
    Two, if I ever see you in the street, I’m probably going to punch you in the throat. I apologize in advance.
    Three, I’m sorry for hating you so much. And I know that it makes no sense to have this much anger toward a man that I have never met face to face, but my definition of love is being robbed in an alley 8 times in a row and hoping there’s something about today that makes all of this different. There is nothing logical about cutting off the most important parts of yourself then putting them inside hands that shake, that tremble, that crack like a hatian sidewalk.
    Four, there is nothing rational about love. Love stutters when it gets nervous, love trips over its own shoelaces. Love is clumsy, and my heart doesn’t wear a helmet.
    Four, cupid is fucking irresponsible, and I’m tired of him using me for target practice.
    Five, I was told that time would heal all wounds. But what exactly do you do on days when it feels like the hands on your clock have arthritis?
    Six, she always wore her heart on her sleeve. So tell me, why do you look so familiar?
    Seven, I think I’ve seen you somewhere in her smile.
    Eight, I think I’ve heard you in her laughter, I bet if we dusted her heart for fingerprints, we would only find yours.
    Nine, you see I have this envelope, I carry it with me all the time, it’s full of all the butterflies I felt the first time she relaxed the velcro on her lips and smiled in my direction. Most of them are still alive. I can still feel their wings through the paper. I suppose these belong to you, too.”

    • @GlowandLuna
      @GlowandLuna 6 лет назад +11

      pismo love thank you! It was really nice of you to do this

    • @ewilliams685
      @ewilliams685 6 лет назад +8

      Yessss thank you. You are the real MVP

    • @zachmoss3727
      @zachmoss3727 6 лет назад +35

      It's great that you did this, but your numbers are off.

    • @daesia7403
      @daesia7403 6 лет назад +42

      Not all of the wording is right

    • @BlackButterfly204
      @BlackButterfly204 6 лет назад +9

      Dani Emily Hernandez that one is from his re edited version of this poem

  • @jemikagardner6106
    @jemikagardner6106 7 лет назад +9

    This beautiful man speaks to my soul every time I watch him preform

  • @colinmadison6005
    @colinmadison6005 5 лет назад +183

    The 108 dislikes are from the new boyfriend

  • @EireMarx
    @EireMarx 5 лет назад +636

    Man I hope this isnt about the girl who worked in the coffee shop

    • @sucio130
      @sucio130 5 лет назад +5

      👏👏👏

    • @Rudeboy876
      @Rudeboy876 5 лет назад +4

      Brian Glynn lol might be

    • @boingotlomoremi4181
      @boingotlomoremi4181 5 лет назад +2

      He is

    • @littlemissprissxoxo
      @littlemissprissxoxo 4 года назад +10

      No this was written way before the starbucks girl

    • @totalweirdo8538
      @totalweirdo8538 4 года назад +7

      @@littlemissprissxoxo I'm actually so glad to hear that! If someone he loved like that hurt him like this I might have had to cry about it.

  • @ambergeddes8157
    @ambergeddes8157 7 лет назад +61

    This is one of my favourites of all time. Rudy is such a wordsmith, I’m in love with his tongue.

  • @keeranneal3473
    @keeranneal3473 Год назад +1

    Since discovering this video, I've been listening to it every time I feel happy... every time I feel sad... every time I'm unsure about love

    • @el_sinatra
      @el_sinatra Год назад +1

      i just had my heart broken, and hearing this. he articulates heartbreak so well - particularly seeing the one person you love, move on.

    • @keeranneal3473
      @keeranneal3473 Год назад

      Losing love is tough. I wish you blessings on your journey.

    • @keeranneal3473
      @keeranneal3473 Год назад +1

      ​@@el_sinatraLosing love is tough. I wish you blessings on your journey

    • @el_sinatra
      @el_sinatra Год назад

      @@keeranneal3473 thank you so much.

  • @Zoe-gd1lq
    @Zoe-gd1lq 6 лет назад +2

    Rudy is one of the most captivating and impactful poets I have ever heard. His loud presence mixed with his emotions artfully verbalized creates something I have never seen or witnessed before; his work is indescribably brilliant.

  • @lifewithlwerh
    @lifewithlwerh 7 месяцев назад

    the silence after that “i think i’ve seen you somewhere in her smile” line? BEAUTIFUL. this is ART 😭❤️

  • @backbreaker925
    @backbreaker925 7 месяцев назад

    I always find myself coming back to Rudy's video's whenever I'm struggling. Somehow his words always make me feel better. Even this many years later and hearing them hundreds of times.

  • @shezmartins9221
    @shezmartins9221 Год назад +1

    this will never ever get old .

  • @FreedomFighterQuel15
    @FreedomFighterQuel15 7 лет назад +26

    I love this guy and his poems. I feel like he's delivered this particular one in better ways before, but I'm glad to see him still performing.

    • @ToshiJ89
      @ToshiJ89 7 лет назад +1

      LadyWolf15 I feel like delivery of poems can change depending on your current emotional status in relation to said poem.

  • @DEMEON123
    @DEMEON123 5 лет назад +2

    Real fans know this is a throwback but it's still one of my favorite poems!

  • @malihah4205
    @malihah4205 7 лет назад +188

    I dee Rudy
    I click even though I almost know the poem by heart

  • @carriebrooks4174
    @carriebrooks4174 5 лет назад

    I can never understand why people don't see it coming he's got so much love and passion for this woman and clearly she didn't give a damn how can you not see that coming

  • @sabrinamcdonnell3037
    @sabrinamcdonnell3037 Год назад +1

    "love is clumsy and my heart refuses to were a helmet" 💘

  • @damagedlips5934
    @damagedlips5934 6 лет назад +2

    his voice when he says "I have these envelope s... " oh! Rudy.. my heart ! ♥

  • @bipinchandrag642
    @bipinchandrag642 7 лет назад +114

    Damn.. It's breaks your heart a little bit.. And he makes you laugh at the very next moment! :( :D

  • @captaarkesh
    @captaarkesh 4 года назад +1

    “I guess these belong to you too.”......I clenched my chest hearing that.

  • @laiseemilia
    @laiseemilia 6 месяцев назад

    “Amar você foi a última coisa em que me senti realmente bem”. Desde que esse verso fez sentido pra mim pela primeira vez, em 2017, nunca mais deixou de fazer.😢

  • @tinaima01
    @tinaima01 5 лет назад +2

    'LOVE IS clumsy, it studders and trip over' perfect description....👌🏽

  • @sucio130
    @sucio130 5 лет назад +5

    Love watching Rudy.
    Love his book Helium.
    So deep.
    Thank you sir

  • @ericrichards5537
    @ericrichards5537 5 лет назад +1

    You truly have a gift Rudy, i was utterly captivated by your words i felt like i was in the room while you were recording this, Please never stop writing and expressing yourself, the world needs power like this to survive .

  • @madisonparis2303
    @madisonparis2303 6 лет назад +2

    this guy is dead ass my favorite poet i'm so fucking attracted by the common ground between the clever jokes and the effortless wordplay that feels so romanticizing and easily relatable there was not a moment my mind wandered and that my man is impressive you are a talented god damn person

  • @The-Enchanted-Library
    @The-Enchanted-Library 6 лет назад

    This man is a real man.. speaking his truth of compassion and heartbreak... more men need to feel as deep as him.. I could relate to everything in this poem... and his words except obvisously in reverse

  • @empathicpurplesoul6110
    @empathicpurplesoul6110 5 лет назад +1

    Iv watched you recite this beautiful amazing piece of art all day sporadically and I must tell u how good u are

  • @wompwomp1015
    @wompwomp1015 2 года назад +4

    Just found out my boyfriend cheated and lied about it for two weeks, while he continued our relationship like nothing happened. I can’t even sleep in my room anymore because all I can remember is how he slept like a baby in my bed knowing what he did to me. This piece helped so much more than he could ever understand.

  • @anthonyfarthing1756
    @anthonyfarthing1756 2 года назад +3

    "I realized I was never really your boyfriend, I was your hype man " fuck I felt that.

  • @emillyneary763
    @emillyneary763 6 лет назад +2

    " you wanna know how I got these scars, I swolled my pride and then it clawed its way out of my mouth"💜 fantastic, absolutely and uterly fantastic 💜💜😘

  • @bricecalice2079
    @bricecalice2079 6 лет назад +2

    When you listen to this video it lasted 4 min 14 sec but when you feel the message its like you lived these words

  • @chaytonmoffitt1276
    @chaytonmoffitt1276 6 лет назад

    I’ve watched this poem about 20 times now. I’m 14 and Rudy is inspiring me to become a poet just by the words he speaks.

  • @Brickcityluv
    @Brickcityluv 3 года назад +1

    This made me cry. All I was trying to do was look up a poem to think about my ex... this is why you don't look back 😰😰😰😪

  • @aminaconteh4062
    @aminaconteh4062 4 года назад +1

    'i swallowed my pride then it clawed its way out of my mouth'. This line gets me EVERYTIME

  • @orlvndo
    @orlvndo 7 лет назад +12

    He’s so amazing, I got the chance to see him at my college. One of the best things that I’ve done in school

  • @tay3974
    @tay3974 3 года назад

    Rudy has one of the most beautiful techniques when it comes to metaphors, stunned with every poem. Beautiful word usage.

  • @hiddendurability3901
    @hiddendurability3901 6 лет назад +1

    Love stutters when it gets nervous... amazing

  • @fatemamurray7629
    @fatemamurray7629 4 года назад +1

    I can relate to this...i felt each spoken word....it's sad how good people always get treated unfairly smdh

  • @jungwooza3426
    @jungwooza3426 7 лет назад +5

    No matter how many times I listen to this work of art, I still feel the emotions pour into my soul and out the window into the world around me.

  • @sollego9684
    @sollego9684 5 лет назад

    Rudy. I love your poems. I hope you know I listen to you every time I fall for a girl and for every time my heart breaks

  • @heavenly981
    @heavenly981 Год назад

    “ wanted to reach through the screen and snatch the happiness right out of your face “ how I felt when I saw the girl my fiance was talking too.

  • @jayne3360
    @jayne3360 Год назад +1

    "if I could, I would tie your arms to a daydream and auction you off to my fondest memories"
    Hits. So. Hard.

  • @ToshiJ89
    @ToshiJ89 7 лет назад +5

    This poem is still a wonderful soliloquy of a broken heart💔

  • @jessicasaadeh8772
    @jessicasaadeh8772 4 года назад

    His voice and poetry puts peace in me...❤️

  • @kittttygirl5
    @kittttygirl5 6 лет назад +1

    wow. all my favorite rudy quotes in one powerfully delivered performance. you are truly magical with your words..

  • @MissChelsea
    @MissChelsea 4 года назад

    He describes love so damn beautifully, I love his words!

  • @cuetziezz
    @cuetziezz 7 лет назад +1

    I love this poem so much, I loved it before I could relate and even more so now that I can
    Rudy, thank you. For putting these feelings into words for me

  • @Elocute360
    @Elocute360 6 лет назад +2

    I let my tears drench my smile. I totally love this. 😍

  • @francesvandermerwe2497
    @francesvandermerwe2497 5 лет назад

    My fav poem of all time !

  • @i_WatchStuff
    @i_WatchStuff 21 день назад

    I love your poetry. It reminds me in ways of mine. Looking forward to listening to more

    • @ButtonPoetry
      @ButtonPoetry  19 дней назад

      you should definitely consider submitting to our chapbook contest! buttonpoetry.com/chapbook-contest/

  • @baileylantman1348
    @baileylantman1348 4 года назад

    Rudy Francisco saved my life, and he inspires me and my poetry every single day.

  • @enicole2090
    @enicole2090 5 лет назад +8

    "...If I could, I would tie your arms to a daydream and auction you off to my fondest memeories... " Damn. I felt that.

  • @amsa9541
    @amsa9541 4 года назад +2

    When you're the only one with the memories and heartache and they've moved on...

  • @xhariaanderson
    @xhariaanderson 6 лет назад +2

    My ex girlfriend broke up with me 2 days before our 6 month anniversary.... i was crushed. And i feel understood with this.
    Thank you

  • @carrielynnbrown173
    @carrielynnbrown173 2 года назад

    If I could first say thank you for helping through your talent. God knows His soldiers. May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @jonakafunda6635
    @jonakafunda6635 3 года назад

    Rudy is one of the main reasons I started writing and sharing my content here, he is so amazing! 🙌🏾🔥

  • @niatheegoddess
    @niatheegoddess 2 года назад

    my favorite poem from the first day i watched it. helped me get through so many things,, and i bought his book ‘helium’ :) love you button poetry & rudy francisco

  • @Joys_Crown
    @Joys_Crown 5 лет назад

    I love this guy.

  • @michaelhardy9264
    @michaelhardy9264 4 года назад

    I'm glad I saw this today. I saw my ex passing on the street today. Time heals wounds.

  • @mx.brightside
    @mx.brightside 7 лет назад

    This poem spoke to my soul. Fml Im crying

  • @adelmispuello73
    @adelmispuello73 4 года назад +2

    The way this poem hits... a complete assault on my emotions.

  • @akshadajagtap9445
    @akshadajagtap9445 6 лет назад +1

    Beautiful!!simply beautiful;loved the part when you say that "love is clumsy and my heart refuses to wear a helmet"

  • @winterrain4881
    @winterrain4881 5 лет назад +1

    This is for you, Ben. And I hope you heal soon. ♥️

  • @nadasabry8902
    @nadasabry8902 5 лет назад

    Forever watching this masterpiece

  • @evancilynsiba1533
    @evancilynsiba1533 5 лет назад +1

    I don't know why, But I keeeeeep on watching this amazing poem of you.

  • @Meganxoxo20
    @Meganxoxo20 5 лет назад +1

    I felt him when he said I still love you

  • @saramartins8681
    @saramartins8681 7 лет назад +5

    God damn Rudy!! Always making a girl cry (loved the poem btw)

  • @lostsoul4475
    @lostsoul4475 7 лет назад +2

    My favorite poem of his

  • @ladlesss7887
    @ladlesss7887 4 года назад +1

    The fact that it ends on 9 is so powerful damn

  • @empathicpurplesoul6110
    @empathicpurplesoul6110 5 лет назад

    I love yr words. Iv listened on repeat crying my eyes out

  • @cupidbasill
    @cupidbasill 5 лет назад

    I love Rudy’s poems. They’re so good! He’s inspiring me to write my own poems. Thank you Rudy, for inspiring me. ❤️

  • @tremainemcgill560
    @tremainemcgill560 2 года назад +1

    Well way to break my heart all over again

  • @nikkifox2068
    @nikkifox2068 5 лет назад +1

    Beautifully done.

  • @collettecaraway2759
    @collettecaraway2759 5 лет назад

    What an AWESOME AWESOME rendering. WORD ART at it's finest! ... AND his delivery 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @dwill3173
    @dwill3173 5 лет назад

    Literally every word of this beautiful piece hit home

  • @Simply_Deanna_726
    @Simply_Deanna_726 5 лет назад +1

    Ugh! So relatable. I discovered he was in a relationship shortly on Facebook too, and had the same reaction.

  • @soumiabenrekia5796
    @soumiabenrekia5796 6 лет назад

    I love Rudy soooo much

  • @juicienyad7582
    @juicienyad7582 6 лет назад +18

    I fell inlove with a sorry ass fuckboy dressed as a loving good man.... This poem made me cry softly and beat myself up for still wanting him...im human

  • @kennedy5182
    @kennedy5182 7 лет назад +1

    Know this whole poem by heart💓 hes my fave💓💪

  • @tmotionz3512
    @tmotionz3512 Год назад

    I love this piece, Rudy

  • @icecreambodyrolls
    @icecreambodyrolls 4 года назад

    Rudy is my favourite poet...i wish someone sincerely would be as passionate as he is...🤕💔for me...someone to adorn both ways

  • @rory3155
    @rory3155 6 лет назад

    Saw Rudy perform this live last night and oh my god, he is amazing.

  • @RayChill1738
    @RayChill1738 7 лет назад +2

    Beats by Dre were made for Rudy Francisco, you can hear every single word and every letter perfectly.. It's like melody to my ear.

  • @ManoBDraycko
    @ManoBDraycko 3 года назад +1

    I ripped every last piece of you out of my smile...I felt that

  • @bernadetteemmerenchiampots1622
    @bernadetteemmerenchiampots1622 3 года назад

    I love this poem so much!!!!