Dear Future Wifey S3, E316: Love, Cherish, & Obey (Carrington & Ashley Brown)
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- The marriage vows have undergone several revisions since its introduction in 1549. The biggest revision came on September 12, 1922, when the Episcopal Church voted to remove the word “obey” from the bride’s section of the wedding vows. Let’s unpack the original vow “to Love, Cherish, and Obey” with our dynamic special guests, Carrington and Ashley Brown.
IG: Carrington: @fthecarringtonbrown ( / thefitpastor ) | Ashley: @ashleyempowers ( / ashleyempowers )
DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH
www.DearFuture...
SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW
RUclips Channel: / dearfuturewifey
Apple Podcast: podcasts.apple...
Google Play: play.google.co...
Stitcher: www.stitcher.c...
Spotify: open.spotify.c...
FOLLOW US
IG: @dearfuturewifeypodcast | IG: @laterrasrwhitfield
Facebook: / dearfuturewifey
Twitter: @dfwifeypodcast
This husband is so mature, grounded and full of wisdom!! He is a whole preacher and counselor.
Right 🔥🔥🔥
Is all God and it’s magnificent
So true 🔥
This was more POWERFUL than I anticipated. OMGGG!!! Mr Brown was sooo on point. And I can see the humbleness, even in all her glory and power, Mrs Brown sat on the side of strength beside her “younger” husband. Simply beautiful. A true BOSS, to be still while her King takes the lead in communication. I love it.
Well said!
Queen you better talk, this Chapter of my life is called doing it God’s way. He has shown me multiple times that doing it my way won’t give me the desires of my heart. God does things on purpose and with purpose.
I know that's right!
She said it soooo intentionally!!!!
"Be Still "
by Gooden and Cohen
I've come a long way still have a longer way to go it's been a Lonely Road but I know I'm not alone sometimes the going has gotten tough and I was down could not get it up but when my Sin I had enough Jesus took me by the hand
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through
I've left it all behind
To find the one above
I had to die inside
To Forgive and learn to love
I've found that letting go
Turns faith into a rope and so now I'm holding on to the only one who gives me hope.
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through it
ruclips.net/video/F7fk7aS3O5s/видео.html
Amen 🙏🏾
I'm not even married ,but I'm grateful to be able see these wonderful examples.
Oh my...Love, love, love this podcast. Been married for almost 8 years and still learning and growing. ❤
Amen. Welcome to the journey
"Be Still "
by Gooden and Cohen
I've come a long way still have a longer way to go it's been a Lonely Road but I know I'm not alone sometimes the going has gotten tough and I was down could not get it up but when my Sin I had enough Jesus took me by the hand
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through
I've left it all behind
To find the one above
I had to die inside
To Forgive and learn to love
I've found that letting go
Turns faith into a rope and so now I'm holding on to the only one who gives me hope.
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through it
ruclips.net/video/F7fk7aS3O5s/видео.html
🥰
Carrington!! You better PREACH!! We need more men of God like you. God bless you and your beautiful family!
Honored. Thank you for having us 💕
Y'all didn't come to play. Thank you.
Thank you Latteras for introducing Ashley and Carrington ...Such a powerful.and illuminating conversation!! Glad to see my fellow Kenyans...taping into the podcast ... 🇰🇪!
A woman's influence when used the right way, is powerful. She influenced him and look what the Holy Spirit continued to do. This is praiseworthy..🙏🏼
"Be Still "
by Gooden and Cohen
I've come a long way still have a longer way to go it's been a Lonely Road but I know I'm not alone sometimes the going has gotten tough and I was down could not get it up but when my Sin I had enough Jesus took me by the hand
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through
I've left it all behind
To find the one above
I had to die inside
To Forgive and learn to love
I've found that letting go
Turns faith into a rope and so now I'm holding on to the only one who gives me hope.
Be still and know that I am God
With me there's nothing that's too hard
I'll get you through it
ruclips.net/video/F7fk7aS3O5s/видео.html
Yes, Amen. God is truly amazing!
I used to work with a Carrington YEARS ago and he does not just talk the talk. I have so much respect for Carrington.
This was very powerful , I’m just so honored to be alive at this time in life and to have access to this type of material .
Omw! That's exactly how I feel! ❤ The future generation is blessed I tell you🙌🥺
Yeeeessss!!!
He said give her something to commit too😩👏🏽🙌🏽 a king is in submission to the father which in turn inspires a woman to follow you.
I don’t mind the word “Obey” to be in my vows. God is not going to send me someone who will abuse the word obey. Plus I been waiting so long, God I can’t wait to obey/submit 😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾
Girl!!me too...me too.
Amen! I trust God!🥰
@Shareen Ladd Don't say that God is not going to send you someone who will abuse the word obey. Why? We all fall short of the glory of God....me...you...everybody. There are no perfect people. Look at how often we really desecrate the scriptures...that need no explaining like thou shall not commit fornication. What if adultery is not his weakness...but he struggles with cherishing?
😂😂😂 I’m there with you sis!
@@HoneyBee4163 Yes, we all fall short but Heavenly Father does not. She is putting her trust in him to send her a man that doesn’t abuse the word Obey. So that is what he will send her, u seem like u trust in man alone, so therefore u will receive the shortcomings of man.
Was I just in premarital counseling? Wow everything said was ingested and digested. God is intentional, as my relationship deepens with my purpose partner these podcasts are enriching my life for my future. Thank you 🙏🏽
Laterras, your podcasts are so beneficial and necessary, and I thank you for sharing your platform with those who are willing to be transparent. These topics are definitely penetrating the minds and hearts of your listeners! This particular episode was such a profound, eye opening one! Much needed…
Ayyeeee Carrington and Ashley!! Carrington is my personal life coach and he’s helped me so much with the way I move through all of my relationships in life.
We discussed you yesterday
@@DearFutureWifey 👀👀👀 talking about me while I’m not in the room?? Lol, I hope it was all good 🙏🏽
@@nikkirowland I was being nosey and ended up subscribing to your channel lol you go girl!!!
@@desij.7487 ayyyeee!!! Lol thanks being nosey for subscribing girl!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂
@@nikkirowland are u in the place to date yet?
Less than one minute in and Carrington is already preaching 🔥🔥
Love these two ❤
That is exactly what my mom says “ It works if you choose well”! Amen
This show is “Essential” exactly “LIT”! Another great episode that is inspirational and has the right foundation about marriage Love, Cherish, and Obey! Awesome couple, the word obey, submit don’t intimidate me either but when people don’t understand the true meaning of it they reject it. Lead Guide and Direct, preach!
YES
Yes it is! Agreed…People are sleeping on this show. That’s why I always share.
So true
This is my favorite episode so far hands down! This is truly an example of a healthy marriage. Thank you for so much wisdom and knowledge on a weekly basis. We are all watching to grow more and more
All the episodes are 💥💥💥but SEXPECATIONS ..is 💥💃🏃♂️👋🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 and I'm ionly 3 episodes in🤣
Are you single?
I am 61 years young, but I am learning so much from Carrington. I can listen to him talk all day 🙂 thank you for having him on your show 😊
Humbled by this
Been following Ashley since her single days. Watched every single episode of “Ashley Empowers” and was so happy for her when she got married to a great guy who genuinely loves God as she does. It’s been amazing to see them grow their family and remain so grounded and inspiring. ❤
This podcast is so profound. The part of being with someone who you are able to have the tough conversations with.
She said, " If nothing changes, nothing changes..."
Wooooowwww! Golden!
The way I’m always looking forward to this podcast I always literally counting down to Wednesday! This deserves a TBN or similar kind of platform! The lessons we learn here! 🙌🏾🥰 Love from South Korea 🇰🇷
Thank you so much
This was an Awesome, AWESOME Episode!!!!! Hubby and I will be married for 16 years next week, September 23rd, and I took a lot from this video because, in marriage, you always have room to grow, learn, and be reminded. Thanks for sharing this with us!
Thank you for sharing the name of the movie! May your marriage continue to grow in love!!!!
@@DvnWLZ thank you so much for being so kind! I googled it to find the name of the movie. It appears to be an old movie so I hope that's the one he was referring to. If you find something different, please let me know!
Wow! Happy Anniversary Enisha.
@@michelleharper7020 Thank you so much dear! To God Be the Glory!
It's been 18 years for us and I'm.always learning and growing from other couples and this channel.
This podcast is way better than going to marriage Counselling. I’m grateful for the this content.
Beautiful couple!! I, too, have struggled with the idea of dating someone younger than me. I'm 48 now and God recently made me realize that I have been limiting myself by having this standard. BUT I definitely don't want to go lower than five years younger. 😂 This episode was encouraging in many other ways! When you have the right partner, you have no problem obeying them. I obeyed men who didn't deserve my obedience so I will have no issues obeying the one God has for me! Laterras, your letter is so sweet!❤
Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R Whitfield…Thank you and ALL of your guest for helping to discover, uncover and recover love, this channel is AMAZING!!!!
Thank you so much
We as humans get it wrong, The Bible says wives submit to your husband, not boyfriend, not side piece, not one night stand But Husband. We get in these relationships that aren’t from God. And want to have a problem with submission. When a wife sees her husband submit to God she will not have a problem with submitting to her husband nor will she have a problem with the word obey in marriage. Especially when the relationship and marriage is God aligned.
@Joyful n Blessed Hello! Queen! I absolutely agree with you on that. But that’s why we have to asked God to remove the blinders and asked for the gift of discernment. I recently came across a man that was just like this his background was he use to be pastor but somewhere down the line he lost his faith. But I’m telling you my spirit of discernment was strong when it came to him, God wouldn’t even allow conversation to flow naturally like it started off because I prayed. Any time I come across a man. I go to God and asked him if he’s not for me or doesn’t have my best interest at heart remove him and it never fails God removed whomever it is. So when it comes to that, our spirit of discernment has to be stronger than our flesh, you won’t be able to tell
If he’s Christ like or if he’s the devil dressed up
In everything we’ve ever wanted. And we have to pray and make sure that our ears and hearts or sensitive to God’s voice and his presence.! When we are more concerned with pleasing God Instead of people our choices in life becomes more easier.
Well said
@@lunsha25 you said some powerful things! God bless you!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m laying here listening to this married couple who exude the Holy Spirit who is full of wisdom I’m 62yrs old I’m learning so much through your podcast. Thank U Dear Wifey Podcast. WOW 😮
My favorite episode so far! I got emotional too. Hearing two people so convicted and living out God’s will in marriage. It’s beautiful. Thank you for having them on and for always referencing scripture. It was a seamless mix of Bible study, commentary and personal testimony. Thank you for letting us be on this journey with you 🙏🏾💙
24 is not young. We've put numbers on when...It's about mindset and maturity. When we do this, fornication creeps in, fatherless children, and disease as overwhelmingly seen in our community.
Facts!
Unfortunately, children can be fatherless when they are conceived in marriage.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Come!!! Onnnnn!! Sis!!!! When you have the right perspective in your mind it’s easy to cherish your spouse ♥️ 💎 Gem!!!
Amen
THIS HIT ME HARD IN SO MANY WAYS. Often times I’m led to the podcasts at a very specific time. EVERYTIME these couples confirm so much for me.
That's God!
Individuals can marry but we have to become one flesh, one mind, and one heart beat in order for the marriage to succeed. Submission is humility, we obey out of reverence which is another word for love and honor. We can't dumb down what God has established for us, it's for us!!!!
Amen King
@@AndreaSylve 🙏💕
@@chrisparker6249 Thank you for speaking truth. We women often shy away from it, especially from a God fearing King.
@@AndreaSylve Thank you for acknowledging me. I believe it's important and vital for us to work together in a relationship and marriage towards fulfilling God's purpose. I've seen first hand and from mere observation where individuals marry and remain individuals. Where's the team work and goals???! Where's the love between mam and woman these days????!
@@chrisparker6249 I learned from the first so it's what I require to marry again. I agree with you.
I’m almost a year behind. However, this is right ON TIME! This is EXCELLENT! LOVE this episode so much! A great marriage counseling on the spot! This is so GOOOOOD!! God Bless them! I followed them on IG! Thank you Laterras for this🔥🔥🔥💕💕💕💕
This was so gooood. I was hesitant to watch due to how my spirit responded to the Tavia and Jewel episode. But I like what you're doing here. So I had Ephesians 5 read at my wedding and referenced it often throughout my marriage of 28 years. I so wish I had the nuggets of wisdom and insight shared during this episode when I was trying to live out this scripture in my marriage, I lacked understanding on what it meant to be married in the context of Ephesians 5. Me and my husband had the wrong focus and we were headed in wrong direction then God put an end to our marriage by calling him home. So I watch this marriage vow series as a retrospective summarizing lessons learned and opportunities for growth and healing.
Thank you for this podcast.
Wow. Just wow, I’ve been following Carrington & Ashley for a year…but this is the BEST I’ve seen. “As a season changes, so does my love language”. This is so powerful and so vital! If many people knew this, many marriages would have stayed together…WOW 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This video just happened to be a part of my recommendations and at first glance I hesitated to watch, but after listening to this beautiful couple share their wisdom, knowledge and understanding of not just one another, but of the presence of God in their lives and their decisions, it became clear to me that this is the very conversation that's needed in relationships and marriages today. This was absolutely amazing and extremely necessary! Thank u, thank u, thank u! May God continue to pour into u and give increase and favor to your life and platform! God Bless!
Totally
This episode was so necessary for me as a
divorced woman. Understanding the vows and what they look like in action is key to knowing if you can commit to living them for the rest of your life. This episode was L.I.T. and so full of gems. I will certainly view this one a few times.
Love this
Man this touched my heart deeply. As someone who was married and now divorced, i realize i had no clue what God's purpose meant for or in marriage and i was not intentional with MY choice. This was just beautiful. Thank you!
AshleyEmpowers and TheCarringtonBrown. Such a refreshing constructive example of a loving marriage, Was happy to see them here on your show.
Carrington is a good human being, so humble, caring and loving.
Excellent episode! Carrington and Ashley broke down wedding vows in the most significant way. Marriage is not just a vow to your mate, but most importantly a covenant with God. Choosing a marriage partner is life and death! Powerful!
I loved several men, but I know very few men who I truly respected.
Next time, I will not give my love to a man who has not first earned my respect!
I’m reading a book called Love and Respect and this episode content resonates almost exactly with the content of that book. It’s based on Eph 5:33. The command to love the wife isn’t dependent on whether the wife respects the husband. And vice versa, the command to respect the husband isn’t dependent on whether the husband loves the wife. But if both strive to do their parts, in obedience to God…then it would be a little easier to always go back to praying/relearning/aligning to marriage as God would have it. 🙏🏾 So help me God, when the time and the man from you comes 🙏🏾
Thank you sir for this podcast 🙏🏾
From Dubai, UAE 🇦🇪
I could binge listen to this podcast all day!
Carrington is a WISE👏🏿MAN👏🏿!!
I was NOOOTTT ready for that letter at the end 😭😭😭. How am I just now watching your videos after it’s been sliding in my recommendations for MONTHS! Now I gotta go to the gym more just to binge listen lol
Omg I just love this show. I gain so much knowledge Everytime I see one his episode. Keep up the good work my friend.
Good morning Laterras 👋 And thank you for another great episode, this time with Carrington and Ashley. I have watched some of their videos on RUclips, and they produce great content. I am excited (for them) about the exposure they will get from being on your podcast (meaning that more people will know about them).
I am 47 mns into the episode, and I am thinking of rewatching it (already), and taking notes. I LOVE your exchange with them. You are a great host, usually knowing when to ask a guest to expand on something s/he said (and it is usually something I was curious about as well). I also LOVE that you contribute your own (hard) learned lessons about relationship and marriage, like the one about sitting down, and having a review of the relationship (mentioning what is working, and what isn't), like a company does. I LOVE that I am learning not only from you, but from your guests as well. So please keep that way of interviewing up.
I also appreciate their wisdom, how they complement each other, their transparency, and just how they are with each other. Their body language is very telling (and interesting): Ashley reaches out to Carrington often (physical touch), which he reciprocates. 2--They don't interrupt each other (no need to dominate, or control the conversation), 3--They seem to have a lot of respect for each other, 4--They know where they want their marriage to go, and be like, 5--Their relationship, and obedience to God. 6--Their humility. 7--They also compliment each other, when one says something praiseworthy. 8--They actually like each other. 9--They don't want drama in their marriage. I could say more, however I will stop here (for now).
Tom Bilyeu (an entrepreneur who also produces great RUclips content) (re)posted a Twitter text of a gentleman who married the love of his life at 54. I'm in my early 50's, and that lets me know that there is hope, even for me (I have never been married, and I don't have children). And If I get married, I want to do it right, AND get it right. My mom wasn't blessed to be in a thriving and loving marriage, and I have seen how it deeply affected her and us, the children, to the point where in my early 50's, I am still unpacking that.
So I know you get confirmation of it daily, but please be assured that you are doing VERY IMPORTANT WORK: people (men and women) like me see and hear men (and women) being vulnerable on your platform. We see married men being respectful to their wives (and vice versa). We hear men address their past mistakes, and what they have learned in the process (same for women). We see you (and hear you) being transparent, we (I) learn the importance of healing, counseling, and of changing our mindset, so we (I) can learn that I deserve to have a great relationship, and eventually, a great marriage (and not sabotage it).
My hope in (relationships) is being restored. My hope in breaking generational curses (in my family) is being restored (it can start with me). I feel encouraged to see what God is doing in other people's lives (He can do it for me as well), and I'm learning to be patient (in life, and in relationships), because I want the best (for me), if I ever get married.
I'm also from an African country (Cameroon), and so what I am learning watching your podcast, makes me wonder how that can be taught (by example especially), back home. And as you know, you have viewers in different parts of the globe, so you know your podcast is impacting a lot of people (I don't need to tell you that, I am sure).
This is (another) long message (I didn't intend for it to be), however I just wanted to express (once again), my gratitude for your obedience to God, and for your willingness to take the time needed to let your guests (and yourself) express what needs to be expressed in these episodes (this one is almost 1h21mns long, which tells me that a lot was shared, and many grounds covered). I look forward to your episodes every Wednesday, and every Wednesday, I am reminded of the many reasons why.
God bless you (and your family), and may He continue to bless the work of your hands 🙏
This is what Douglas Lumsden wrote on his Twitter account (I apparently can't post the link on RUclips):
For what it's worth:
I was 43 when I got my PhD
I was 51 when I started my dream job.
I was 54 when I married the love of my life.
I was 55 when I ran my first marathon.
I was 67 when I self-published my first book.
I turn 70 next year, and I can't wait.
So if you 're thinking it's not happening fast enough for you, hey, maybe you are just a late bloomer like me (to which I say, yes, I definitely am).
Yes, marriage is like a life or death decision, the right person will cause you to keep moving in the right direction.
The wrong person can destroy you.
Beautiful couple
This has made my day. Thank you for being consistent sir!
Waw, I'm so grateful for the wonderful teaching. I'm 48 and about to marry a 4yrs junior and after this I'm so excited to learn to obey my man. I've learned so much. Big up 👊 from South Africa
This episode was so much more than I expected. I’ve heard their story before but the LIT conversation just brings it to a whole ‘nother level lol. Good stuff!
Let me just say how excited I get when I see another couple I've been following for years on this podcast!! I love it! Carrington & Ashley are such an inspirational Kingdom couple and I am always here to take in the wisdom they pour out! This series has been blessing me! Thank you so much for being obedient and taking us on this journey with these amazing couples/guests.I'm excited to see who's next.
"God develops and grows us!" Is a word. Thanks Carrington!
"To obey" historically can mean a controlling and abusive environment for women. Some men have abused the word and meaning of obey. Therefore, as women has gained their power, they have reacted and are scared of being mistreated when that term comes into play. As men do their own emotional work leading to healing, they will understand that it is a privilege to be in a position where someone obeys you, and it does not represent a "less than" posture of their wives.
There’s a reason that some men abuse the scripture. They don’t fully understand it. Please know the difference between Kingdom principles, cultural norms and context of the time (i.e., Greco-Roman household codes, Renaissance laws concerning women). In God’s Kingdom, we are to submit one to another. It’s a harmonious and healthy relationship mutually interdependent. See Genesis 1. The fall created a hierarchy between God’s creation. Sadly, we still believe and practice domination over other human beings.
Now that I watched and listened to this episode in it's entirety, now I have to replay it so I can take notes and meditate on the nuggets that were shared. E316 reminds me of God's love (John 3:16). Not sure if it was intentional, but I was led there. Thank you for being obedient and providing this space for all of us to grow in how we are to love.
Wow. I love the coincidence. Or was it God being intentional?
Cherish....🤔 this was thought provoking for me... cherish is defined in my mind as something/someone to be respected, valued, adored, honored, held sacred, and protected.... something worth sacrificing for... you said something one time that ive struggled with most of my relationships years.... you werent the first man to say it... you were just the first one to say it and I meditated on it... you said something about not treating every man a certain way.... I struggle because when I see or partner with a Black man... I dont know how to just see HIM... I see him... I see his father... i see his grandfather, i see his great grandfather.... I see before me the legacy of our men... I see the great they are... i see the strength, the power.... I see the plight for freedom... I see the torch being carried... I CHERISH OUR MEN/PEOPLE... you made that statement and I had to dig deep to find out why I treated them this way...it was because I cherished US as a unified people... it was bigger than me or the man that I cherished... it was the joining together for the PURPOSE and MISSION of RESTORATION... to take back EVERYTHING that was taken.... I didnt cherish my relationship with God because I didnt know I needed too...now I KNOW it didnt work with the others because it was KINGDOM BUILT OR ORDAINED... I was their PREFERENCE NOT THEIR PURPOSE Partner.. cherish....you cant cherish something/someone... if you dont know what/who/whom it is...or from which it came... cherish the journey...the experience...the purpose... in order to cherish the person... just my 20 sents on it 😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This was powerful what you said about Cherish our relationship with God. I didn't always.
This has been a blessing. I made want to cry because I wished I got this message 32 year ago. A little over a year now I walked away from my marriage. I intended to leave for 1 year to find me. I don't know why 1 year, but that was it. My husband reaction, lead me to my decision to leave permanently - a divorce. During this time, I meet God, and He's opened doors to counseling, your podcast , and more that poured into by soul. Thank you for this episode. I learned a lot. ❤
“Another One” (DJ Khalid voice)!!! I throughly enjoyed this episode. I’ve been watching Ashley’s RUclips videos for a couple of years now. 1 Corinthians 13 is my favorite scripture. So much so, that I have it plastered all through my house, to remind me how to love and receive love. The scripture describes Gods undying, unwavering LOVE for us. When Carrington talked about submission ➡️God ➡️each other and then about being chosen and loved by God. I lost it. I had to pause the video. The tears wouldn’t stop. I look forward to experiencing this kind of love with my future spouse. God is faithful. Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I stand in agreement for you to receive a 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love
Prioritize the preparation for marriage relationship above the marriage ceremony✅
This episode was phenomenal!
Marriage changes every area of my life!
The quality of my life is determined by the choice of the marriage partner I make.
Marriage is the antitype of Christianity!
Thank you Carrington & Ashley for sharing with us the bread of life.
Thank you Laterras for nourishing our souls.
May God bless you all.
To God be the glory
Amen!
Ephesians 5: 22-33 was laid in my heart this week and wondered if you would touch on it with one of your guests, I was in disbelief to hear you bring it up, the Holy spirit moves in remarkable ways. Wow, this episode deserves to be watched more than twice. Thank you to Mr & Mrs Brown, you showed up and ministered to our hearts in the most filling way.
WOW Preference is lust 👏🏾💯 Love lust & infatuation have similar feelings...Father God lead us in the way of love 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Absolutely amazing podcast!🔥 Love the way Carrington broke down how JESUS said to obey and the submission role. The husband obey and submit to Christ and the wife THEN obey and submit to him! And when Carrington said respect is Love therefore not just the husband requires respect but as so do the wife. Remember the man is the head so if he is in the position of Christ he will be the example! Then the wife will follow if you are on one accord and representing a Christ-Centered marriage! May God continue to bless this lovely couple...I have set my posture to give God permission to move me as he pleases!🙏🏾
Dropping gems gems gems! This was an eye-opener! These places they learned to be in their marriage and the places they have learned to be for each other are what PSALMS 91 speaks about. What an episode!
I accepted Christ at 7. No experience at all. Lol I re dedicated my life to Christ in 2012. I'm not perfect, but it was the best decision I made.
Listen 48:39-49:50... I’m about to run 🏃🏾♀️ in my apartment shouting!!! Thank y’all for clarifying the real definition of submission!!!!
Ashley won with him! 🙌🏽
Recommendation- have Dr. TONY EVANS on to discuss widowed.
Yes, that would be a good one for they'll death do us part," or Even Marvin Sapp bc he in Fort Worth
That's my hope!
This is one of the most powerful episodes I have watched so far. Such spirit filled lessons. I had to pause the episode and call my best friend and her fiancé to ask them to watch. Continue to empower couples with your podcasts. Thank you
Another SPOT ON🎯 episode!!! I'm open to learning & developing the tools needed so my next marriage lasts💞 Simply awesome, thank you for using your platform to take us higher.
My first comment ever and ive watched many episodes! This was by far thee most amazing informative episode Ive watched. They’re all great however this was superb!
The age and the wisdom is unmatched!
Wow! I had to pause to take notes. I m about to watch it again! WOW!
Im 53 years young and in preparation for my husband!
Thank you 🙏🏾 so much Laterras
This platform is so so needed! keep them coming! See you in Jamaica May 4th
God bless you 🙏🏾
There was a meme that said men if you asked your girlfriend to marry you and she says no is the relationship over ? You all are in my head lol I just told my cousin I feel like couples should do a check up and check in with one another to see if one another is still one the same page with their needs and wants from and with the relationship, wanting to be married, long term and short term goals. A relationship or marriage shouldn’t be stagnant.
The no could be, let’s work on something’s together first and then make another assessment
A WHOLE SERMON!! Thankful for the way God is using this beautiful couple and you! Wishing an abundance of blessings to you all! God is faithful and He is not finished with y’all! Keep leading and loving! ✨✨
I found great value in this episode less than 30 minutes into it. There are so many gems in this episode. By the time I got towards the end, my mind was blown. I am learning so much about marriage, and wanting it so much more- with the right person! Thank you Carrington, Ashley, and Laterras.
Through you, God is changing marriages one couple at a time. Needless to say you are absolutely amazing!
Thank you
Sis was tired lol Still watching so far this is so good!
I know right. Lol
Lol the yawning 😔
Laterras Whitfield.....I thank God for bringing this podcast idea to you. It has truly been blessing me in my new Christian walk with Jesus. I too am preparing for the spouse God has for me so I received so much from The Browns' wisdom and testimony. My prayer, Laterras, is for what God is doing in you, for you, through you and around you. God is preparing your future wife in the same way, and in His perfect timing He will bring forth that divine connection. I declare and decree that the world WILL be filled with Kingdom marriages as God intended. The lost will see His true Body of Christ as THE model of what REAL marriage covenant is and should be. God bless you, your podcast and all the guests! 💞
I love this couple! Carrington 🙌🏽. He seems wise beyond his years. Listening to him speak, makes seeking a man of God a priority. I mean, you always want someone that believes in God, but his understanding of the word and application surpasses belief. It’s intentionality at work, it’s light shinning through him at work, it’s God’s will at work. He said it best when he spoke about a man submitting to the will of God first, before expecting a woman to submit to him (that was a drop the mic moment). This was truly an amazing episode. I agree with you, I’ll have to watch this again and take notes 💖
I love when Carrington spoke about quitting football for God and how it all played out. It reminded me that God knows us soo intimately that he knows the exact seed to plant in our minds and hearts that will propel us into action that aligns with his will. Not everyone would have reacted the same way to "...Being a good person won't get you into heaven..."
or even taken any action at all. But our omniscient God knew him sooo well that he knew that in that moment those words were all that needed to be said.
Isn't God just AMAZING!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Go off Carrington and Ashley! Carrington is my relationship coach. He is awesome! And Ashley's courses are life-changing! Connect to them❤ Thank you for this amazing episode!
I was happily married. I really liked my husband. We were boring to others because we had no drama. I believed we made marriage like good even for our children.
Yes I was intentional about cherishing my husband. I prayed to God for me to be the best wife for him. That was my prayer. When that goes marriage can become very challenging.
I'm so excited for this episode ! Love them so much !
I’ve seen early RUclips videos of Ashley and maybe one or two with them together but who the heck knew brother Carrington had all this wisdom??! The MOG was preaching & I loved every bit of it!! So happy that God is so intentional about bringing His children back to Kingdom marriages! ♥️
I LOVE Ashley and Carrington!! I've followed Ashley for years and have gained so much wisdom and encouragement through her. She even took the time to respond to an email I sent, pouring life into me when I needed it most. I greatly appreciate both of them and love this interview.
Thanks Laterras for all the great content you provide! It's life changing!!
Blessed, blessed and blessed! A beautiful reminder of what God will do when you say no to the flesh. Thank you for being transparent.
I hollered at 49 minutes 🔥👏🏽👏🏽
Loved this episode!!!
And I hollered 50!!!😂🔥🔥🔥
This episode will be a blessing to grow the people who appreciate the counsel and either think this way or desire to do the work to grow into thinking this way (God's way). Thank you Laterras for your dedication to your own growth and obedience to God regardless of what it looked like or took for you to show up.❤
This is one of my favorite episode thus far and all of the episodes are spectacular!
When Carrington said even if your wife is a bad wife, that does not give me permission to be a bad husband, I'm doing this for God. Also, Ashley said that obey is not a scary word for my because I chose well in the beginning (She trusted, but verified that he was who he was) and know that I can trust him! #powerful🔥
This is one cohesive, compatible couple, everything about their body language says so! 🖤🖤🖤🖤💕💕💕💕🗣🗣🗣🗣💎💎💎💎
Thank you for unpacking those verses in Ephesians 5:25-33.
I get it. This was very powerful in a different way for sure Laterras. I had to pause myself. I think it's the POWER of God in self-actualization. To do GOD'S will with who He has for us, we can't miss the step in knowing who WE are in Him....it's a challenge of doing the work to graciously receive divine abundance and favor. That is overwhelming in such a wonderful way! Whew! Needed in THIS here day! 🙌 Wonderful again!
Isn’t God good?
@@DearFutureWifey MORE than I am deserving of!!! 🙌🙌🙌
7 is the completion of a cycle. I believe it's a biblical reason why marriages swim or sink around that year.
Wowwww!! I tell people all the time when we understand how to love God first then ourselves second then we know how to love other’s. Love in most people’s eyes is what can you do for me ? Most of us haven’t seen it growing up, so therefore we don’t know what it looks like. So that’s why when a man go upside a woman’s head most women think that it’s love because of what they saw. When I was a child my mom was in an abusive relationship I seen her get beat. However as a teenager I knew that wasn’t right and I said they no one could ever put their hands on me and I accept it as a form of love. As an adult no man can ever put his hands on me and think he’s going stay in my life. No form of abuse is love, it’s that simple.
Your work is so special. I don’t even have the words. I thank God for working through you and I thank God I found this. I’m 30 and lost when it comes to love. You have no idea how much this has helped me!
The first 40 seconds just knocked me upside my head!
All I can say is THANK YOU. Carrington I'm Thanking God for you, for being so obedient in the word and pouring into others the way that you are. This has blessed me beyond words❤🤎🖤. Thanks Terry!
You are so welcome
This is one of the most powerful episodes. I can sit and listen to this couple for the whole day. I've learnt a lot from them.
Beautiful couple - I love their matching outfits
I’ve been following Ashley and Carrington since “8:02 Gametime.” I forgot how much wisdom they have between them. This episode is so good! 💖
Nobody cares if Ashley is tired? lol lol the yawns made me giggle but GREAT episode! Lots of truth bombs from both perspectives.
She sure was. Lol.
I was distracted by them like what? She yawns right when her husband is preaching fire also 🤣🤣🤣
@@neliswajokweni5872 lol poor girl was tired.....I'm guilty of doing this in church a time or two
This podcast gets better and better every episode, and this is only God's doing. I feel like dancing 💃 after this one , so much I have learned and keep learning. I am on the same journey as you Latterace. You are the vessel that God is using to help people like me. I am so grateful 🙏. I pray the holy spirit continues to guide you. Blessings my brother.