5 TIPS FOR HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS | watch us give our first speech together
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
- It was such a rush to be able to practice what we have been learning here on YT with the Masters Fam and use it to a live audience (even if it was through the internet lol) And let's be real, these people would have never have reached out if it weren't for you all supporting us, so thanks for giving us this opportunity!
As some of you may know, my word for the year is Patience...It's been both very hard and really "humbling" how long some of this stuff that Tori and I are doing... You see, we put our audience first. Not trying to make ourselves sound cool, but we limit how many partnerships we accept, hired help to produce more content, and do our best to create content that is focused less on going viral and more focused on hitting your hearts. All of that has taken some serious time and investment. We feel like we are getting closer to this being a "well oiled machine" but in some cases it still feels so far away. I keep coming back to this word "patience". And I am learning things. Like my heart is changing, slowly may I add, to continue focusing on what we are giving versus what we are getting. I think if this channel would have quickly blown up, we would not have the appreciation, love, and connection with you all. I mean heck, there are probably like 15 people actually reading this, but I'm willing to spend half and hour writing it because my patience has grown and taught me to change what I value. Do I value huge numbers or do I value real connection and impact? Now I feel like I' ranting, but anyways, I wanted to say to you to keep an eye on what waiting for what you want is teaching you. There are so many good things to pick up on the way to where you are going.
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Finally uploaded! hahah Let us know what you think!
Tori and Chad Masters 4 words: the best, as always❤️
You give us more credit than we deserve :)
You said you were talking too fast but it was a really nice pace and it felt like a conversation. You guys did great!
Love the description 😊
As a single person, I found this so exciting!! I cannot wait to find a person to pursue these things with. Thank you guys for sharing this wisdom with us all!💗
I guess I'm one the 15 people who reads the encouraging description with dedication.😎
Me too :)
Grace Nayak me too🙌🏻
Yeeees me too
Wow the description.. I'm just blown away by how you represent Jesus & are willing to be sooo humble!! I don't think I understand and know even half of how much effort and time and work you two put into all of this and wow!! I value you so so much and it's so special to see in this type of society. I would say have grace and don't do too much eventhough we love seeing content of course but really don't beat yourself up and stress over things you can't control! ❤ looove you and praying for you!
Thanks a lot, Angela! So happy you read it and it meant something to you! We value you a ton.. Love you!
I just wanted to say how much I appreciate everything y’all do! I love the Messy Masterpiece!! Please keep doing what you’re doing. 👏🏼♥️
You're so kind, Veronica!! Thanks for saying all of that! And we didn't come this far just to come this far! lol For sure gonna keep going!
I am agree with you. I hope they know that everything that they’re doing here in RUclips is so helpful and amazing!
the fact that Tori is constantly smiling is sososo sweet
I can bet there’s more than 15 of us that read the descriptions!! Super grateful for both your hearts for us ♥️
THAT speech was golden!! I love the positive attitude and reflecting on how “it should’ve been hard because the cards were stacked against you” however, you guys were able to pull through. All glory to God 🙌
I honestly think you guys are getting better and better with each Podcast episodes and unedited youtube videos. Like I hear the difference and it’s inspiring. Thank you for showing up and accepting opportunities to spread the love. 🙌 I hope you continue to stay healthy!!!!
I loved the part about always assuming the best!! I think anxiety tends to make you assume the worst and it's usually nothing to be worried about
You guys did so well, praying for more speaking engagements for you too 🙏🏽❤
Thanks a ton, Elle! WOOOO!
I loved when Tori was saying How can I out serve my spouse? And well personally I am not married nor I am not dating simply a Christian High School student focused on school but once I read a devotional that showed this verse which reminded me of what Tori said: “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
Romans 12:10
And I like to apply that with my family because I live with them and there are times we get frustrated and so outdoing one another in love and in patience really helps because we can’t change the other person’s habits but we can change how we respond and how we act
You say you didn't hit home run but that was wonderful and exactly what I needed to hear right now for my relationship. So much biblical wisdom! Love it.
You guys did so well! I like the “ I profit nothing from upsetting you” That’s healthy right there!
That was literally so amazing and encouraging!! Even though I’m single I can still have these tips in the back of my mind for if/when a romantic relationship or marriage happens. Thank y’all so much for sharing this, I LOVED it!!
How sweet you are apologizing for not making eye contact 😂❤
hahahah 👁 👁
Imma make notes for when I have a relationship 😂
hahah works for any time!!!
Also - I just read the description box for this video. And wow. That hit home for me. I cannot put it into words at the moment, however, I want to let you know that I appreciate the time you spent to write it. It was something I needed to read. Thank you!
Favorite tip is always assume the best. I tend to get in my head which then the Enemy gets into my head. Insecurities get the best of me. I’ve been with my bf for almost 2 years and he doesn’t communicate the way I do. I’m always quick to respond. Him not so much but he usually has a reason. I’m quick to think he’s just not into me or I annoy him or I love him more than he loves me. This is the first relationship I’ve had since being saved and I’ve never dated a Christian. Having an old mindset gets me into trouble haha! He’s not like any of the men I’ve dated (which is great!) so it’s a learning experience. God has grace for me and I’m learning to have grace with my bf. Sorry for a long comment. Thank you for sharing. God bless ❤️
Y'all I was grinning so hard the entire video. Your authenticity SHINED throughout the entire speech. That Jesus glow was BEAUTIFUL!! I love your word for the year! God has definitely been speaking to me about patience recently. I know we don't see all that you do but I know you guys work hard and serve so beautifully. Also, "Do I value huge numbers or do I value real connection and impact?" WOW! SO GOOD! I really appreciate all that you guys do and I am just sending you guys SO much love and prayers. Love you guys!❤️
answer to the question you guys asked on the podcast where do we listen to it:
Every monday morning i go and get starbucks and listen to your podcast on the way and it really starts my week off right. then the rest of the days of the week i don’t get starbucks (cuz that’s wayyy to much money😂) and i’ll listen to it while doing my make up or in my airpods in the hallways at school. I honestly love it so much so Thank you guys for doing it. I know that’s a lot of work to make a quality episode every day! you guys are doing a great job thank you ❤️❤️
"I wanted to say to you to keep an eye on what waiting for what you want is teaching you. There are so many good things to pick up on the way to where you are going." Wow, that almost moved me to tears. I am in a long distance relationship and I'm planning to move this year at some point, and it is really easy for me to focus on missing my S.O. and wanting to rush into the move, but like you said, there is value in the wait. It's not about my timing it is about Gods and what I need to learn through it!
I appreciate you guys, and thank you for role modeling what a healthy, God-filled relationship is!
I don't see your description as ranting, so much as expressing how you feel. It happens, where it takes some time and effort to figure out how to take the thoughts swirling in our minds and find the right words to convey them in print. (I'm one of those) It's all a matter of perspective in how you look at things and whether you see challenges as obstacles or stepping stones. As to patience, good things come to those who wait and with God being an all knowing, all seeing God who sees/hears what is going on behind the scenes that we do not, it's important to remember and trust in His Divine timing, since He has a plan to work things out for our good. Stay safe and stay blessed. Btw, you both did an excellent job. I didn't notice any mistakes yet even so, mistakes just means you are human like the rest of us. lol. Congratulations.
Y’all did great don’t worry ;) Thank you for being the amazing people you are! May God bless you alwayz
God bless you, sweet Maggie! Thanks for the love!
I love the message that you put out there for your followers - and there's no doubt that God has given you both the wisdom, patience and heart for people to do the things that you're both doing. Your videos have impacted me in a way that I didn't even know was possible - you help me see relationships in a different lens, you are constantly pointing us all back to Jesus Himself, and you've truly helped me get through a really tough season of heartache (fresh out of a long Christ-centred relationship) by reminding me to focus on my purpose, calling, and run the race that God has set out for us, with our eyes fixed on Jesus. And that the person you're meant to be with will be running their own race and your lives will intersect in God's perfect timing.
I hope you'll both continue doing more videos on singleness, relationships and all the things that aren't talked a lot about in church. I was reading "Relationship Goals" by Michael Todd. I've only read 1.5 chapters but it has already impacted me in a way that I didn't think was possible, and I'm excited to read more. And the book that is next on my list will be "The Wait" by Devon Franklin and Meagan Good which was suggested on one of your other videos. Thank you for reminding me + helping me pursue Jesus wholeheartedly. I love you both, and am so grateful to you both.
Wish you nothing but the best! May God continue to use you both and minister to those whom He desires.
In your description box you never seem like you are ranting. I love how you always take the time to type a thoughtful description box. Congrats on your first speech engagement together. You guys did great.
"Keep an eye on what waiting for what you want is teaching you. There are so many good things to pick up on the way to where you are going." So good!! And I read and love the descriptions!! Thanks for the encouragement and effort! ☺️
Aww thank you for reading it! That means a lot to me!
Yeah I loved that part too!!! It's funny I heared the same thing in a podcast yesterday with Tauren Wells and I think God is really trying to tell me something Lol ☺️😂✨
My favorite part that touched my heart. We tend to grumble and murmur in out wait and miss out on the progress of our growth. I'm learning to appreciate that about my singleness.
@@reethuabraham3186 Yesss powerful, so true!! I've been doing that with my career and education goals lately, the process is so long and tiring but God has been telling me "take it day by day"
I saw another comment that said, “I see Tori and Chad... I click”. So so true! I always want to hear what you guys have to say because I know that it’s coming from a place filled with Jesus! Love you guys. Thanks for everything you do. 💕Oh, and you guys did great with your speaking engagement.
“Keep an eye on what waiting for what you want is teaching you”.... thank you for that!
Thank you for the lovely encouragement as always!! I think atleast a 100 plus people read it for sure!! :) (And a million more very soon)
You two spoke so well!! I love your examples and how you try your best to simplify life.
So so excited to see and hear of all the new developments on your life. Thank you for inadvertently teaching us patience too...we are learning with you! Proud to be part of the fam! 🙂
Love reading the descriptions in all your videos and the little tidbit at the end of your videos! So encouraging
You guys did a great job!! I believe what made this speaking engagement effective was how REAL and unscripted it was. I believe the "short notice" actually worked to your benefit and as a viewer how and what you shared was relatable. Thank you for sharing content, on all your social media platforms, that is edifying the Body of Christ.
Thank you so so much! You were INCREDIBLE! I love how you help point us to the Lord and how you lay each other’s needs before your own. You are an incredible example of what I should look for in a romantic relationship. Thank you for this. 🤍
This is so good. So happy for your first online talk. The description box never fails to amaze me. Everything was so good, how spontaneous you both talk on having healthy relationships. The tips are very useful that people can relate and apply on their relationships. 🐢🐨
you two lift my heart to a closer relationship with the Lord through each episode! Keep up the awesome gift of spreading Gods love for us. God bless you both! Have a blessed week!
You both did an awesome job! Your talk flowed well, there was wonderful give-and-take between you two, and the content was excellent. Trusting more great speaking opportunities come your way! Congratulations on a superb job!
Thanks a ton, Elizabeth! That means so much to us!!!
You both did soooo well!!🎉 Those 5 tips were so helpful and it challenged me to put them into practice. Over time I see more and more of Jesus reflected in your love for each other which is amazing and I pray God continues blessing you both! Thanks for setting a great example and being such kind hearted and genuine people.🙏🙌💕
You guys are greeeaaaaaaatttt !👍🏼 good job guys! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Ahhh!!! I love this channel so much ... I feel like I have a big brother and sister when I watch these videos, that are just like mentoring me and giving me the best wisdom and advice 🙈😂❤️🙏 Thanks so much , for being the blessing that you are in the world 🌎 by just being yourselves
I wish you guys would do more of these, I truly admire you and your relationship. Is truly what I'm working/looking forward to have in my relationship. You're such an amazing couple, I love you guys. Thank you very much for what you're doing for all of us.
ahhh , I love this , you guys did amazing , but like let's be real , wouldn't expect anything less from you two. I fell behind on keeping up to date with video watching , but I'm back on track and already can't wait for the next one.
Love you both , a lot
Hahah I legit was wondering about you the other day! Hadn't seen your name in a while and hoped you're doing alright!
@@ToriAndChad I’m still here , just fell a bit behind , always think about you guys. Just spent the whole afternoon the other day catching up on all your videos and of course love love love them all ! I’m all good , hope you both at doing well too ! ❤️
Aww thanks stef! We love you!
@@ToriAndChad of course ! thank you guys for being so awesome ! love you both !
Ahh the descriptions are always the best!! Love the intentionality y’all put into everything!!
Such great advice! Thanks for sharing these tips with all of us! You both did a great job. I wouldn't have even gone back to edit it if I were you. Love it raw and real!
this was helpful! i also love how it was literally christ centered even if you guys couldnt be explicit about it. reminds me of what chad said a whileeeee ago “I’ll show you my philosophies, and then show you my philosopher” proud of yall!
You did so well! And your words truly are quite helpful and eye opening for many areas and topics! Don't stop chasing after Jesus and letting Him working through you! Love you!
You guys absolute naturals when doing your speech.
I thought your pace when talking was good I didn’t t think it was too fast.
You guys were awesome! Brilliant tips and going to let my hubby also listen. These days people seem to be living past each other due to stress and self-centeredness that may not even be on purpose, so it's definitely important to work at putting your spouses needs above your own. Thanks for the awesome videos you two, you inspire me ! 🤗
Im also one of the 15 people reading your description Chad lol thanks for encouraging us love you😘
I think you two made a fantastic job for your first speech!!! You were clear, nice and honest. While I was listening I didn't feel like you were rushing or going to fast. 🎈 And also thank you for what you wrote in the description, that you are trying to hit our hearts more than going viral. I think we all appreciate it so much, and we see and feel it in your videos! Have a good day!
You guys totally crushed it!! Everything that you both said was so well received and understood by the viewers aka us. The tips about understanding the love language of your person and at the same time treating them the way you would want to be treated but also respecting how they like to be loved is so essential. I wish I had learned this sooner. Thankyou you guys!!
I think you guys sounded great like always. I love hearing you guys speak.
You did amazing!! It was so good and more great advice! You two are a powerful team impacting us in many positive ways! 🙌🏻 Love you both so much. ❤️
You guys did so good! I loved all the advice you guys gave and you both are naturals at this :)
"keep an eye on what waiting for what you want is teaching you". Loved that SO MUCH.
Thank you for being so open and sharing all this, you did soooo sooo good, it was great. Ly
Watching the video now, i’m sure it will be wonderful as always! congrats on the first speaking engagement!🥳🙌🏼
Thanks a ton Bella! We had a lot of fun doing this!!!
You and Tori did so well, Chad! So proud that yalls did so well for your first time! :) I hope to attend one of those talks someday, I'm looking forward to yalls speaking in more live audiences! Perhaps film it too? ;)
You two are a blessing. :) We read your description Chad, love em!
Could you guys do a video (or IG post) on the books that you've learned the most from and a video on money management/ investing/ budget etc.?
You did it so well ☺️ as always by the way ❤️ you two are so natural and close to us that everything you do reflect the love from God 🙏
Y’all are gonna blow up & go places 🙏🏽
you guys did awesome!! don't be so hard on yourselves :) keep doing what y'all doing and bringing glory to God! ❤️
YEs and amen! To God be the Glory!
Amazing advice, as always! 💛 Tori and Chad, you are inspiring, open and vulnerable in the best possible way! Thank you for sharing wisdom with us and also entertain us! Sending you my love! 🤗
Also, my birthday is literally in one hour and this video is like a gift to me! 💛
Sending love to you too, Lulia!!! Thanks for believing in us and pushing us further to God!
You are too sweet! 💛
:)
Happy Birthday
@@kaileyb767 Thank you very much! Be blessed!
So good🙌🏻 Love it❤️ You did great! You didn't look stressed or nervous at all, actually you look very natural and relaxed, just like in your vlogs hehe🥰
That makes us feel great!!! Thanks sweet Andreea!
You did amazing! Honestly its so easy to be hard on yourself but you didn't fumble or speak fast at all. You spoke so clearly and gave so many awesome tips that I will take forward into my own life. Thank you for filming this!
I thought you guys did great! It was very insightful. Now I know what going into any relationship, in order for it to be a healthy one.
Thank you guys some much for sharing!!
You guys are such an institution to me. 😘 May God give you the strength in all you are doing🙌
Awww dang that sounds so sweet hahah even thought I don't really know what it means! Also thank you for praying for us!!
Inspiration*
I get it now! hahah
@@ToriAndChad 👍
Oooo I loved, very encouraging, and that was amazing especially for your first time!
You guys did amazing! So encouraging and insightful 🙏🏾❤️
Thanks very kindly, Jocelyn! We appreciate you!
I can tell Chad was nervous!! You guys did amazing!! ❤
I thought you guys did great. You touched on the most perfect points, and if anyone was seeing you guys for the first time I'm sure they were inspired and encouraged based on that talk! Anyone watching it would not remember the fumbling if there even was any- they would remember the love you guys clearly displayed for each other and the wisdom you brought from your experiences. :)
You did really great for real for real💯
I actually noted a lot for the first time as I watched y'all speak
I'm always blessed by these videos
God bless you Tori and Chad Masters😊
I love the encouragement you shared in the description! Y'all are incredible role models that I look up to!
The description yess! Enjoying the where you are is so hard sometimes when you keep thinking about the future! Importante!!
I was wondering if u guys could do a video on changing from old self to new self after accepting God as Lord and Savior and being saved, specifically in regards to society and that transition in changing my thoughts towards maturing into adulthood quicker/marriage etc.
I was saved almost 2 years ago and I’m 22 years old, and right now it’s been really hard to change the view I have of society expectations, marriage, pleasing my parents but convicted otherwise etc.
It’s been really hard for me to change my views of maturity and growing up in a world that tells me to be single and an emerging adult - with no
emerging adult - with no responsibilities - for as long as I can !! Love ur content and how u pour into us so much! God bless you and your marriage
The points were relevant, I learned a lot and you guys flowed. I was blessed. It was great!
you guys did AMAZING wow I am so happy for yall!! You both are definitely naturals when it comes to speaking!! Stay encouraged!! Love yall so much
That was absolutely beautiful and encouraging. Thanks y’all
Ahhh love this !!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I bless your guys ministry to keep growing! 🙌🏻
God bless you enormously! I'm so happy for you. You're doing your best for the Lord!! Thanks for sharing with us about patience during the waiting. God has so much to work in each one of us. It is a priviledge to learn what he has for us.
Thanks for everything!!
Yaayyy!! Was waiting for this one!!
Love you guys lots💛
Hope you like it!!! We love you!
@@ToriAndChad I'm loving it!
WOOOOOO!!!!
Guys you did so well, couldn't even tell you were nervous! This is so encouraging and helpful. Taking notes as always 💛
Sooo good. You both did great and these were wise tips. 💕
Dude y’all did great. As always. I can’t believe you’re second guessing. These tips are awesome
I think it was great just like the many videos you do on here , I didn’t even notice the speed y’all keep talking about , great work of wisdom 💞💞💞
Congratulations 🎈🎉🎊🍾 on 52.7k subscribers.
Thank you!!!!
Seriously, this was very encouraging and uplifting- you guys👏🥰 Thank you, for your willingness to share this on YT. XO
You two did amazing :) don't undersell yourselves!
I just want to thank you for everything you do from the bottom of my heart!💞 I have been so blessed by your RUclips channel, Talks with Tori and the podcast beyond measure! Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom that God has taught you over the years! Also know that it is okay when you're not able to do everything all the time💞
Blessings from Austria!
I loved this! For your first live speaking engagement I thought you guys did really well! You guys hit all the points, I thought you actually flowed well together ❤
This was so helpful! You both are such a blessing- the Lord always speaks to my heart through you all! Always praying for blessing and protection for your relationship as you do Kingdom work. xoxo
I see Tori and Chad I click❣️❣️❣️❣️
We see Irene, we comment! hahah
I think you did really good job and these are a great tips! Love your podcast!
You guys are just the best
Y’all did so good!!❤️ I was wondering if you guys could do a video dealing with comparison and Godly tips about it!
Working on not comparing ourselves to others is a great video idea.
Looveeedd this one . Definitely one of my favourite ❤😍 the moment behind the scenes started it felt sooo good ..so much to learn for you . You guys are legit teachers 😭 Thanksss you guyss 💕
i would LOVE a video on how to realistically practice the sabbath in 2021. I know the laws are lair out in the old testament but i don’t think we’re supposed to follow it as strictly now. i would love to hear you guys talk about that and how to not neglect that commandment.
You guys were amazing! Great advice to couples 💗
Y’all did so good!!! And this was on live!! Thats crazy, it felt like one of your yt videos!! It was super personal and encouraging, I loved it! Thank you two for your wisdom and sweet encouragement!! 💕💕
Also you two, we love and appreciate Y’ALL more than u know!! Thank u for always putting in the extra effort to uplift hearts in ur video descriptions! 💕
honestly, I really value what you have to say because you have proven your fruits. doesn't matter the views because God sees it and He is your biggest fan. that's all that matters. And if your doing that then you are doing kingdom business.
Quality over quantity, always!
I really enjoy the Chad's descriptions, it's very encouraging for the everyday mundane. Thank you, guys!!
Thank you for this
You guys did so great!! I’m so proud of you both, honestly you all need to write a book!! You have so many good tips and helpful ideas we need a book from y’all:) I’ll be your first buyer lol!
This was so good you guys!! I used to always joke that I'd need a course on how to be a girlfriend hahahha but now with all these content of yours, I'm kinda like on it???! LOL. Also, I am amazed by how you didn't need to say Jesus' name and YET SCREAM IT to our faces somehow. Those words are so on point and eternally true. And yo Chad, count me on the 15!
I think you make a good talk 💕💕 the first time is not easy always and it was like seeing one of your videos , i like it was so natural , casual and funny to see , congratulations 💚💚✨