Why Am I Not Good Enough?
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- The importance of having positive self talk and how destructive constant negative repetitive thoughts such as "Why am I still not happy? or Why am I not good enough?" will inhibit you from finding joy in the moments of your life and lead to you sabotaging your success.
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Corey Wayne
Be happy for rejections up front! Be so thankful it didn’t take years to find out she/he didn’t want to be with you.
What happened 10 Years oh my damn
thanks, this is so true
Yep better than being lead on
I found out 2half years on my own later after discard. She was sneaking around with him whole time even on Valentine's Day. I've never got an apology or anything. Just discard ghosted and blocked. Didn't even get to say goodbye to the kids. But she did send me a bunch of pictures of her and him even one with her, him and the kids all together. What I have done in this life to deserve this I honestly do not know. kinda sucks.
@@stephenherrington3549 one word KARMA
Rejection is better than regret.
Sounds like me at 4:40
months, and years of not achieving is probably the peers around me not striving for things which brings me down, and why I’m not happy.
BLESSED TO HAVE THIS AT 19!
XGEN shocks awesome bro. All the best ✊🏽
@@President-Elect_Cory been out with a good amount of girls, have had a relationship, am confident as a 3% man and in general way happier in my purpose in life
Rejections should make you happy........... it is a big timesaver; Putting you closer to your goal!
Pain gets you closer to youre goals
Happiness or sadness is just a thought. Dont identify with the thought and you dont have the feeling. Thoughts come and go, they are not real. The thought is not who you are. Who you truly are is the awareness of these thoughts. "There is neither good nor bad but only our thoughts make it so" William Shakespeare.
You are truly a light in this world, and you help me so much. You are legit, and the eyes don't lie. You can see the truth in your words reflected in the sparkle of your eyes. You love your life, and you have high standards. Thank you!
James1:2-4
2 Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. 4 And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
Philippians3:13
13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead,
Thanks Corey, I'm definitely going to hold out for the knock my socks off guy! Settling: been there, done that. This is a great reminder to never return 😃
I appreciate your book and knowledge. The only I disagree with is walking away too early just because she isn’t into you right away. 80% of the women I’ve dated weren’t into me at first and out of that 80%, 40% of those women i met outside of my social circle. Sometimes you’re just not asking the right questions or come off weird but you can still overcome the initial rejection by being patient and getting her to talk like you said. They call them no and maybe girls but they may be going through something or anything could be in her head. I mix up different thinks from you, Ross Jeffries, and Justin Wayne, and you by far have the best ways to deal with rejection externally and setting up dates. Keep up the great work coach! Ive had many successes with women since discovering your book and videos and i am thankful!
Corey, my in again off again 5.5 year relationship ended months ago & although it's been hard not to try yet again (she 59 this year i'm 42 this year) yoyr book and video's are honestly helping me exponentially revolutionize my stinking thinking and tweak my approach with new women!
Robert Pirsig's Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was rejected by a record 123 publishers. It is now considered one of the greatest novels in 20th Century literature. If he'd given up, the whole world would have been deprived of a great book.
The phone is just for setting dates.
By far one of your best videos
I am thankful for finding coach Corey in my way.
love you man... i ll never have any idea in life what to do without your guide, wish i could afford to phone you personally but appreciate all thsese free stuff.. you are givin a light of hope to a worthless loser to me to change.. thank you coach :)
Thank you so much for this. I have dealt with rejection over and over in my life. It's become a normal nightmare for me 😥
This is a down to earth core video, which I would recommend to someone else.
Love the Saban quote...Roll Tide!..all successful ppl talk the same way
Thanks a lot for posting this video and for your insight.
Very unique advice. Really enjoy watching this videos.
COREY IS MY COACH & ONLY COACH ! 🙏🏻🌟❤️🔥🦋🦋💯💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you coach!
when are you free to get together!!??!!
Corey that was profound dude. Nice work.
I've delt with everything you said, never heard I love you, I'm proud of you, never had hugs, kisses from my parents. And been rejected by my first love ever, it was a very toxic relationship, which really fucked up my body image. Eventhough, I'm happy with the way I look now, I'm still full of insecurities about it. Also I feel like everybody tells me that getting a PhD is so hard, so I'm really not motivated, as I feel like I'm really not good enough, smart enough, or strong enough to get a PhD 😩😩😩 I can't stop procrastinating because of that fear 😓
This must be directed at me! This is totally me when it comes to women (romantic wise). As friends I don't think twice, but romantic I fall a part. I'm learning my thought process and how sadly majority of the time it was my part that I'm single. I'm the one who builds up walls cause of shame, insecurity, negative thoughts, "am I good enough." Learning to change that. Its a bitch. lol.
@@bdmenne Very nice! 💕
@@cindiheaton1048 I will NEVER be good enough.
@@hanzohattori2492 😞
"Wouldn't it be nice if I felt good enough for everyone I meet."
And, if they don't act like I am, it's because there's something wrong with them.
☺
@@cindiheaton1048 hi Condi.my problem is I'm ugly and have Bern rejected so many times...women don't even give me the time of day.if I'm out with friends in a bar (and just to be clear I don't drink alcohol) and my mates start talking to a group of girls I just pretend to be deaf and dumb so I don't have to talk to the girls and get rejected.it used to be so bad that all I had to do was say just one word such as hi and instant rejection...I have even been psychially told on many occasions by girls "I wouldn't talk to you if you were the last man alive" despite I'm in shape and look after my appearance,am fit and a snappy dresser and have a great attitude towards life in General but it's because of how my facial features are so by pretending to be deaf and dumb I prevent myself from getting shot down and rejected yet again.
@@hanzohattori2492 You should tell them "Well, it's a good thing for you I'm not the last man on earth because if that I
ever become the last man on earth I will get to pick from all the women left on earth and I will definitelly pick one with a much more attitude than yours."
Coach Corey has a video called it's your vibes not your looks.💟
Also maybe, greatest come backs ever.
Corey, as always your advice is so empowering. I love the baseball metaphor. I don't even know my batting average, because I am a pinch hitter, sitting on the bench. I'm aspiring to be on the starting line up. Would James bond sit on the bench???
They need to make a James Bond baseball movie.
The countries hes talking about is France. and its French language compared to French Canadian that hes talking about. Good vid!
However, I think the country is France.
I can handle rejection. I can't handle constant rejection.
TheMrKlassy exactly
Fall seven times stand up eight
22? I'm 17 I'm applying this stuff :)
One day your going to be out of days and hours. And your journey on this planet it's going to be over
Another Great Video,Coach..
You should make podcasts!
All prayers are answered 🙏🏼
process, so true
The look he gave when that guy said the thing about having a demanding girlfriend killed me. Thanks for the vids coach
What a great episode, great learning material and funny as shit. Thank you.
500 rejections? Dude... At that point you need to take a good, hard look at yourself. Plus to all, even if you get her - no guarantee she will not cheat on you or leave you breaking your heart.. Sad but true.
Mediocre is Kryptonite!!!
Coreys a damn life saver read the book be on 4th time and also read 5 love laungages an why women test an wat women want in a man all audio books much better to pick more of it up then to just read it thanks and keep it up corey do anyone got any help on helpin memerys take it all in but have a hard time remembering it all ! thks!
People changes coach everyone deserves second chance
Unfortunately most people don't change
What about those who start getting “yes’s” or getting the interest of damaged women after years of rejection?
I’ve lost hope.
Corey toke over sorta for Tony Robbins sorta & I’m reading the book again and again .. listened to 500+ videos .. maybe I’ll take over for him one day lol!!! 😝
The guy in the 3rd email is funny lol
Shout out to Bob, lol.
0:58 “like attracts likes” does that mean if your kind of like an outlier in your group of friends and in many places it might be harder to find a girl?
Dude, i know now, thanks to you, what to expect "at the end of the day." My question though is "what should I expect at the beginning of the day?" :P Balls Drop?
Morning wood ;)
Coach Corey Wayne Can't beat that, ... well you can but that goes against all the good advice. :)
+Coach Corey Wayne Hi i really have a bad relationship with myself I feel i am the only one in my family who is not accepted. My mum is no longer here, sh ewas always complimentary. my dad on the other hand seems to relish criticising about everything i do..... How can i deal with this. i have asked for help, but nothing is ever done.
Great advice
26:50
This hits me so hard. Not only does it apply to my dating life but also my career/job. Having to trust your feelings can be really difficult
Some people find Corvettes to be the best looking cars I find them to be really ugly it’s just the way life is you cant expect every women to think that you’re hot everyone’s got different taste don’t take it personally man
The guys I like, my friends can’t see the attraction. It can happen anytime, anywhere but someone is out there for you!
23:36 True
❤️
My mom says you’re not a sweet girl I used to be sweet and special to everyone now I feel like I’m not the special girl and sweet girl I used to be so now I feel rejected unwanted feelings my mom says you have a bad personality I feel ignored people used to call me sweetie but now i feel rejected and a failure wish people would be interested in me I had someone who asked how are you doing, I want to get to know you , you’re beautiful I liked him until he disappeared this happens with hot guys and I am depressed and feel so worthless I take things seriously and he no longer talks to me
Girl,I can relate to those struggles..
Lindsey, mothers are highly over-rated.
What do I do if I don't have the option of dating a lot of women because I live in a low population area with few available women and fewer ways to meet them?
Try online dating (from reputable sites) -be prepared financially to travel if need be -if you find someone you like who truly wants to be with you.
Wayne Taylor True. I am currently trying out Tinder and most of the dates I have been on were in a city 90 miles or so away.
Where do you live ?
@@fleadoggreen9062 I live in a shitty little town called Deming in southwestern New Mexico on the U.S./Mexico border.
Good video Corey, everyone check out RSD, and this video on Entitlement Stop Waiting To Be The Man! The Truth About Why You Should Feel Entitled RIGHT NOW
Thumbs up so everyone can see it
damn, I have issues, I find myself asking myself two questions everyday, "Why do I suck at life", and, "why the fuck am I alive".
Nothing is a right in this world, who said its a birthright to get a woman like that?
Germans generally think like that. It does help the pride they take in their work.
Good vid Corey . A friend of mine was killed in Afghanistan he was a family man and had 3 children...if you can please give his family some support ...words of encouragement on their youtube tribute...it only has 78 views.
Major Walter David Gray
It has 6,000 now. 😞💕
Well I know I'm not good enough because I have no friends and women will not give me the time of day, no matter what I do, how upbeat or positive I am. Doesn't matter. Almost 29 and I feel like I've missed out my whole life.
I texted this girl asking her if she wanted to go see a movie on this wednsday. She texted me back pretty quickly (3min) saying that " it depends if i have to babysit. :/ If not then ok!! :)" Then I said alright we'll see. If not then some other day; goodnight. She never texted back goodnight. Does that mean something?
I like a girl but she's way out of my league so nope.
Tommy Varnado Great advice.
Why haven't you settled down with some of these great women and had kids and family, is that what you want, or are you with a woman that your happy and looking to have a family or you like being more independent and don't want a family and kids, just out of interest
I am sorry but the country MUST be GERMANY LOOOOL I live here and it is normal like this.... funny how arrogant some people here are XD
When it comes to arrogance, Germans corner the market.
But if you compare her power, her water crab can easily do 70 to 200k vaporize damage 😂