@@papichulo1577 you have no idea of all of the reasons that someone has to do this or does and it destroys their life; they are already suffering without you soulless humans burdening them further. Some have one bc their baby died inside them, some bc it is going to so it's have it and hurt/kill themselves or abort it since it will die before/during birth, some bc they had health problems told by doctors they couldn't get pregnant but did, some don't have money to feed themselves let alone a child and adoption costs along with any method of keeping them; etc. It's cruel to blame people for things they are suffering thru when you have absolutely no right to speak on situations you know nothing about. Kindly worry about yourself and your choices rather than speak on what others should do with their life. You can't know the kinda pain losing a child is like and that its never just for the sake of not wanting it(unless it's a kid/teen) but rather necessity for the mothers safety or simply a child having a crap life if born
@@corinnejernigan i hear your perspective but imagine for a moment people had the same "justifications" for killing a living person. Someone they love _and_ it became normalized
@corinnejernigan The main reason is selfishness. That's a big one to get over. But hey, none of this matters now, better keep em closed if you want a healthy life.
My guy wants me to have an abortion but my gut is saying no. I know he will be mad but this baby is a life. I’m 37 and it is such a surprise it is absolutely a blessing
He won't be that mad, he might be scared out of his mind but if he is honest with himself he can't be that mad at you because he knows he is responsible for crating that baby aswell.
@@Lovelytrini82 you will never regret it and it will be him who will have to face himself when the baby is born and say to himself "I almost killed this child"
I regret aborting my child every day. If I could go back in time I would not do it. I don't know what I would do if I didn't know Jesus was taking care of my baby in Heaven.
If I'm being honest I always feel a tinge of sadness, sympathy and anger when I hear these stories. The sadness I feel for the child which has sadly been taken from this world. Sympathy for mothers like you didn't truly realise what they were going through with. And anger with the people who don't inform you of these problems. Along with society spreading more and more lies. Causing this to happen more and more. On behalf of those who should have informed you and helped you understand what you were doing. I'm sorry.
Nobody wants to admit that many women feel regret. This is such a politicized issue. And often time it comes down to money and shame. If people who are pregnant knew about our options, that you can get Medicaid as soon as you are pregnant, maybe more women would choose to keep their babies. There’s also the issue of how often men coerce women into abortion, but don’t have to live with the consequences. They wave it away as a simple “empowering” choice because that’s how feminism has framed it. It’s not that simple. And some women lose their only chance to have kids when they make this choice.
Most people wouldn't understand they can run her mouth but they will never ever understand....... Thank you.... I know 1 person was lost not completely.She lives in your heart.... She gave herself up so that you could do the right thing.... Thank you very much.The world needs more people like you
Currently my ex girlfriend is pregnant. We broke up a month prior to realizing. She's 6 weeks and won't keep the child unless we stay together. I tried so much and we don't work and it's sad. I make over 100k a year and said I'd take care of everything for the child. Even would take full custody. Life is better than none. She says relationship or no kid. She cried she wasn't pregnant when we broke up (which she was then but tested negative at night. Positive a week later in the morning) but I swear she never wanted the kid it seems, just me. She's going on 27 years old. I can't help but think she'll regret this... my heart hurts. She can literally go through with it in less than a weeks time. Idk why I wrote all this. I guess just to vent. Nothing a man to do.
I'm in a similar situation. My girl is pregnant but don't want the baby. I do. She's giving me dumb excuses for not wanting the baby like she's trying to go school n saying we're not financially set for a child which is dumb cus we both have full time jobs.
I even suggested moving in wit her n paying the bills while she go to school. I just feel she don't want this baby for sum other reason she won't tell me. She's 30. I told her she gon regret getting rid of our baby.
Same here, my girlfriend has suddenly changed her mind about having it. I had already pictured a family together, we both have stable jobs and are mature. I think she's afraid of the judgment from family and friends. Idk why but I had accepted this idea and now it's hard to let go of it.
She is a couple months into what she's done and keeps trying to talk to me about how bad she regrets her decision. Sucks. I miss my kid. And the woman that took the kid from me keeps telling me how ass her decision was and how she's looking into if she's bpd. Like that brings my kid back. Just sucks.
I'm actually.rying, her voice broke and all I got were my memories whilst listening to her story. I've not had an abortion but I have lost a child. Fully formed at 5/6 month, his twin sis is about to turn 18, she's called leah and I gave him the name lukas. Bless her, I can relate to that feeling..... Alot. Not enough is taught about what women are encouraged to do if they are young. It's disgusting especially when young girls don't understand the impact of the aftermath.
Guys who joke about that, have no conscience. They don't understand what it means to be a father or to bring life into the world and are not worthy of such an honored and holy position as being a Father. You don't deserve the great legacy of having children and the power of knowing that you helped to create life and what level of manhood that takes and the responsibility that comes with it. Every single day you look into their eyes knowing that you would take a bullet for them and knowing that they love you.
"for the courage to tell the truth." They are telling THEIR opinion. It may be the truth that they regret the abortion, but that is their personal opinion. Other women will tell you the abortion was the right decision. The bottom line is if YOU think abortion is wrong, YOU shouldn't get an abortion. Problem solved.
@@cnault3244 Oh if only it were that simple. Don't want an abortion, don't get one. Not easy to do if you're being pressured, threatened, coerced or even forced to abort. Don't worry. I'm going to work on getting laws passed to Stop the Coercion.
This issue will always hit close to home. One of my classmates in college got pregnant & didn’t know how to handle it & decided to have an abortion. The guilt & regret consumed her for years & she eventually committed suicide.. and people’s judgement still lingers on.. That she’s a bad person for taking matters in her own hands. Killing a baby & committing suicide. People called her selfish, coward, crazy, dumb, bi+ch, etc. and that she will go to hell for all that she did. But she is not that kind of person. I will always remember her even if we’re not that close as someone who is very smart, witty, and has this charming smile. It’s been 15 years when it happened but we still can’t believe how tragic her life has become.. I hope she is now at peace & pray that God has forgiven her. I guess Abortion not only affects the mother who did it but everyone around her..
Omg im in tears right now. That "empty" feeling you described was 1000% how i felt when i woke up from anesthesia for the abortion. Its soo weird. You literally feel empty. Like something is missing. Im now a heroin addict. I cant deal with the pain.
I'm so sorry. I went through an abortion too and never felt so much shame, grief and loss. I felt all manner of darkness. But I've been slowly healing... I've started feeling that although I made that decision almost 7 years ago, the fact that I regretted it means I'm not that person anymore. The fact I had that experience does NOT diminish my inherent worth. It made me realise how valuable life is, that it shouldn't just be thrown away, which is why i decided not to end my life. It made me realise that I will feed myself well, love myself well, care for myself financially, surround myself with the best people, so that if I ever fall pregnant again, I will have the means to bring the child into the world and love him or her to my fullest ability. I didn't give a crap about myself before i had an abortion. But I've slowly reached a place where I love myself now more than ever. You are worthy of forgiveness, God already forgave you, so now you can work on forgiving yourself little by little every day. You are worthy of getting help for the heroin. Fill your life with so much purpose and good food and good sleep and good information and beautiful music and loving thoughts and compassion for yourself and others, that a drug doesn't seem appealing anymore. You became a mother the moment you conceived, that's why the loss was so huge. You didn't stop being a mother. Care for your self as you would a child. You are not worthless just because you made a decision you regret. You are valuable. You are worthy of love, from your SELF. You are worthy of a peaceful and beautiful life that you've built for your SELF. Do it in honour of your child. Let him or her see you grow from your experience. Let him or her see you enjoying your precious life. All my love to you.
@@jellybablushI tried to cope with the pain with this mindset and I cant even imagine getting pregnant again because it will just be a constant reminder of the child that I aborted. I had a medical abortion at 7 (and a half?) weeks pregnant. Maybe it was 7 and a half weeks because the amniotic sac had a fetus in it that looked like it had eyes. It was extremely traumatizing. As crazy as it sounds I have pictures saved of the small amniotic sac because it’s the only thing I have left of the baby. Seeing the pictures traumatizes me all over again. The abortion felt like a robbery (and it was) and it altered my sense of reality; I started feeling like I was in alternate reality where everything looked the same but didnt feel the same anymore. I had the abortion almost 5 years ago now. Someone told me I can just get pregnant again. It isnt about getting pregnant again because not being pregnant is not what I’m upset about. I’m upset because I ended a life. Period. You cant replace a child with another pregnancy; my womb isnt some factory that churns out replacements smh. The nerve and mentality of some people I tell you.
I wrote a book, "My Abortion My Regret," on Amazon. I'm turning my mess into to a message . I hope to save millions of babies. Please share. Thank you.
There not doing it for fun they understand that they are killing the kid it’s just circumstances. Same way dad run away if your blessed enough to have a kid and know it’s just going to add your life then your in a blessed position.but have sympathy
They did have a choice that they made. Can't really expect to take that away from others. Seems wrong to have this much regret over something that should have been a very serious decision.
The only cure is repentance ! If you have life in your body then you have hope. Jesus Christ is right there willing to forgive you and remove your sin of abortion from you. My husband and I regret our abortion terribly and the only thing that keeps us sane is that God has forgiven us!!! He will forgive you too!!
@@nimanixo hi (same person as above logged in on a different account) so God created humans to be in relationship with but God is all love and reighteuosness and cannot have sin any where near Him. So he created Himself into Jesus and sacrificed Himself on the cross as a blood sacrifice to pay the debt for our sins so they can be removed and we can be in relationship with God again. That's kinda how it works. All you have to do is believe in Jesus and repent (turn from your sin) ask God to forgive you and He is faithful He will remove all your sins and bring you peace ❤️
@@nimanixo because he loves you! He created you and he knows you’re sorry. Repent turn to him and ask for forgiveness and you will be washed clean 🧼. ❤ there is no sin that God wont forgive . Jesus died so we can have eternal life with him if we confess, receive his forgiveness and repent
"If you have a fetus in your body you have hope"? What if the fetus has severe brain damage and will need 24 hour care for it's entire life? What if the fetus has no arms or legs? Would you have the courage and strength to care for this child all your life? I seriously doubt it. Will your God care for it? No He won't.
I wish I had a burial spot then. I'll never know whether it was a boy or girl. When I got married it took me and my husband 5 yrs. To have him and he only lived 10 weeks. I often wonder if it was my punishment. It was SIDS and when I lost him my husband left too. I think it was the guilt.
People need to weigh the pro's and cons carefully before an abortion. Both parents need to discuss the benefits and detriments of bringing a child into their life. Only if a child can be cared and nurtured properly by both parents should it be birthed. I'd say the final decision is with the mother after the father has given his input.A woman should be allowed to chose what can and can't be done to her body.
What about the body of the separate human inside them? What are their rights? What you are saying is that human beings should die if they lack their mothers love and approval and that that's an acceptable point of view in society. That due to a human beings size, environment, age and degree of dependence they should be allowed to be slaughtered. What about the inherent value of human life? What happens when you are 90 years old, shrunken, in a hospital and no one wants to care for you? By the same token, you should be put to death because your size, environment, age and degree of dependence is inconvenient to the members of your family. That your value is nothing. Think about it.
I had an abortion at 6 weeks and I would be due in just over a month now. I’m really starting to struggle although I know I made the right decision. Life can be so hard.
@@Sallyisfailingtofunctionx If the pregnancy or the delivering can danger the mother's life then the mother has the right to kill the baby, but if she wants to kill the baby because it is inconvenient to her lifestyle then it is definitely evil . If a woman doesn't want children then she should use protection and be cautious but if she got pregnant then the solution isn't to kill the baby but rather to deliver it and put in a place willing to take care of it
Adoption exists, abortion isn’t the only way to avoid raising a kid. Without medical conditions you were not at risk of dying. Own up to the decision you made, don’t hide behind excises
I had abortion at 8 weeks. İt has a heartbeat. I fell guilty but i know it was the right choise too. I have 3 boys. My husband didn't want baby 4. We dont have enough money. What kind of life i was going to give to this baby? I think giving a bad life worse.
Next year will be my 50 years since it. I was empty heartbroken and lost! I was 18. It wasn't legal here I had to go to Chicago but I laid in that back seat and cried my heart out. But something changed, I heard they closed the place down and it was from doing abortions with no fetus! I freaked because the vacuum went into a jar and I saw nothing! $500 they made off of us!
That's how I felt after my baby passed hours later I had this big feeling of lost and empty and a part of me missing and it was 😢, i have a baby angel and some writing on a bit of wood i regret the abortion so much it really hurts and makes me sad i grieve my baby i choose to lose but i really did not want to but i had no choice i wish i could go back and change that day 😢 im sorry 😢
I’m struggling so bad right now! I don’t know what to do! I don’t believe in abortion but he doesn’t want the baby! I already have 3 and I know GOD Will provide. Idk what but this is hurting me so much to even think about doing!
I can fully relate to your dilemma Renisha. I was in the same spot 2 years ago and I chose abortion. I cannot begin to express the amount of regret, depression and self loathing that weighed me down thereafter, including the desire to just die. It is only by God's grace and His forgiveness that I'm able to continue living and find joy in life. It is your choice to make. All I can share is my experience. I'll pray for you.
@@elsieawuor2710 i really appreciate your story! I’m truly sorry you went through that. I don’t even know what to say because I’m sure I would be feeling the same. God Grace and Mercy is unmatched!!!! It’s good to hear your in a better place! 💖💖💖💖
@@lilia7870 I did! I’m currently 16 weeks now! We are not speaking and I’m ok with that! I will love her and with GOD help everything will be just fine!
I don't feel bad for these women. They chose to exterminate life. They decided not to take on the responsibility. Maybe if they didn't want kids, maybe they shouldn't do what gets them pregnant in the first ace.
@@courtneyfruit570 no man I ever heard of has asay in it. He should since it takes two but still....I call bullshit that the man is involved in the abortion.
Maybe since you feel so strongly about "unwanted" children you should consider adopting some of the the numerous parent-less children growing up in State and County shelters. Or at the very least donating your time and money to a worthy cause? That would make you feel better wouldn't it? Good luck.
God is Amazing. God knows our hearts. He also understands humar, why else would it be an option. ALL Makes mistakes. ALL! GODS GRACIOUS AND KIND AND HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY HOW MANY MISTAKES WE MADE WE'RE HUMAN. EVERYONE ON THIS EARTH MAKES MISTAKES. GOD WANTS US TO BE HAPPY HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY! HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY! COME ON NOW LIKE HOW AMAZING AND AWESOME CAN WE BE WITH LOVE OF GOD IN OUR HEARTS. I HAVE MADE MANY MISTAKES MANY MANY MISTAKES AND I HAVE BEEN SO HEARTBROKEN FOR IT GOD IS AWESOME. AND I'M NOT TRYING TO BE ONE OF THOSE LIKE FREAKING AWESOME CHRISTIAN. I AM SITTING FOX. AND AGAIN I'M GOING TO SAY THIS I'M NOT BEING ONE OF THOSE OVER ZEALOUS CHRISTIANS I AM JUST THINKING RIGHT NOW, GOD KICKS ASS FOR SURE THANK YOU GOD YOU'RE PRETTY AWESOME YOU ARE AMAZING THANK YOU FATHER YOU ARE F****** AWESOME
Thank you to these women for sharing Christ is using their pain to prevent the murder of innocent babies Let us help through prayer and donation pregnant women with little support
That’s sad but they r right. I would never ever get a abortion because I know myself to well. I just had a miscarriage last month and I’m absolutely devastated just dying inside.
A person regretted getting an abortion and that's an argument against someone else having that option? In that case, the fact that some people regret their marriage is an argument against someone else getting married.
@@AA-kk1kg There are also women who had an abortion and say it was the right decision. Their experience is an argument that abortion should be an available option.
I did now I am still bleeding after abortion of 5weeks, it’s have been 9:43 night I am walking around sea and crying .i did this stupidly for so called husband careers but today he slap me and said that I am his infant mudder🥹 it’s really hard to for me I lost my baby,I lost me.please my ladies don’t do this mistake.i just want to jump inside a deep of this sea but still I feel like my baby inside my belly
I am 7 week pregnant planning to abortion next week on friday l have appointement with my Doktor but my hearting bleeding ,please l Dilemma Situation l dont what to do
Dont do it. Please. I did. Only a few days ago. At 9 weeks. It was tiny and fully formed and my beautiful son is now dead because of me.. how can i live with it? I did it because i already have 3 children and i was struggling to look after them and terrified of money problems and how id manage four.. but now all i have is regret. Please if i knew i would be giving birth to a tiny child... they lied they said its just a "heavy period" absolute LIES it was horrific. I will now have to bury my tiny child and live with this for the rest of my life. I am utterly devastated. This is the worst thing ive ever done.
@@sophiescosmicgarden l have another 2 kids as well 14 years and 11 ,l am single mum in nursing school l suppost to finish next year march l dont know how will do,my dear l am not in Peace imaging doing abortion l cant sleep just tired and stressed.Thanks alot for encouraging me may God bless you
@@hay-love1 hi there i hope you are well. Whatever you decide to do no judgement from me. I just wish someone had been honest with me. This didnt feel like an informed decision and the reality of what id face was hidden from me. I wish you the best and good luck with everything x
Please keep your baby. You will love your baby once it is born and your baby will love you. There will always be some one out there to help you. Phone your local Catholic church for help. Will pray for both of you.
@@jamesbonagofsky7905 Oh you people dont care you only want them born so they can suffer. Ive seen too many of your kind wish death on women for choosing abortions. You people act all nice and begging then when women make the choice you dont like. You people wish death on them...
This is exactly why we need to ban abortion. It is disgusting what happens to those babies when they are mutilated in the womb. On top of that, look at the trauma this woman and so many others are going through .
I don’t support abortion truly but I hate seeing mothers be they married or single and suffering and the child suffering worst of all from poverty while people worry about animals
Everyone in the comments is just living proof that abortion should be a choice. Some of you guys felt pressured to abort… that choice was stripped from you… why strip women who know they want one or need one of the choice that may save their lives!
Just because they regret theirs doesn't mean they should have the right to force other women to go forward with a pregnancy. And the waiting the state of Indiana imposes forces a later term abortion which is physically harder in the woman.
Granted some girls or women will regret having an abortion, but other won't, so leave it up to each individual to make the choice and live with it, good or bad. This ruling isn't just about abortions, it is about women's rights to have the health care they deserve. Caring more about a fetus than a living, viable woman or girl makes no sense.
How is abortion health care? It is killing a human life. A fetus is a human being, just smaller than you or I. And contrary to popular belief, it is not the woman's body that is harmed, it is a completely separate INNOCENT human being's body that is being harmed. Through zero fault of that baby's, he or she is being slaughtered for the actions of his or her parents.
Both are living, both are very viable. That's discrimination against size and natural development. I lost a baby at 16 1/2 weeks. I didn't originally want or plan for this beautiful soul and body. As I held her tiny but significant body in the palms of my hand.....you could never tell me I ever or a doctor had the "right" to destroy and/or dismember her frame. We are asleep to the truth.
Their trauma doesn’t mean it’s ok to remove fundamental reproductive rights away from others. They should have had a choice, sure, but that doesn’t mean they can forcibly remove the choice from everyone else. It’s just deeply self-centered.
Praise GOD I have never been forced to make this decision. Nevertheless, Heather! You aren't in anyone else's family but your own. I was so happy to hear you found a path to heal. But, don't be a religious zealot. Other women should have the choice. & honestly, I think you're angry with yourself for being too weak to stand up to a guy who didn't want you. So, Maybe deal with that, & understand thousands of women in Indiana should not be affected by or have to atone for your weakness. GOD Bless you.
i dont careee let her suffer my ex wife was pregnant she cheat on me before that she beat me every day she kild my child for that other man she lives with him and i must live with MENTAL PROBLEMS
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This is such an honest perspective. These women are so real and so courageous for sharing their story. Thank you, all.
Courageous would’ve been taking care of the child they helped to create.
@@papichulo1577 you have no idea of all of the reasons that someone has to do this or does and it destroys their life; they are already suffering without you soulless humans burdening them further.
Some have one bc their baby died inside them, some bc it is going to so it's have it and hurt/kill themselves or abort it since it will die before/during birth, some bc they had health problems told by doctors they couldn't get pregnant but did, some don't have money to feed themselves let alone a child and adoption costs along with any method of keeping them; etc.
It's cruel to blame people for things they are suffering thru when you have absolutely no right to speak on situations you know nothing about.
Kindly worry about yourself and your choices rather than speak on what others should do with their life.
You can't know the kinda pain losing a child is like and that its never just for the sake of not wanting it(unless it's a kid/teen) but rather necessity for the mothers safety or simply a child having a crap life if born
@@corinnejernigan You think that people should ignore the blatant murder of children because it has nothing to do with them?
@@corinnejernigan i hear your perspective but imagine for a moment people had the same "justifications" for killing a living person. Someone they love _and_ it became normalized
@corinnejernigan The main reason is selfishness. That's a big one to get over. But hey, none of this matters now, better keep em closed if you want a healthy life.
My guy wants me to have an abortion but my gut is saying no. I know he will be mad but this baby is a life. I’m 37 and it is such a surprise it is absolutely a blessing
Honey you got this, :( there are so many other solutions rather than to take an abortion
He won't be that mad, he might be scared out of his mind but if he is honest with himself he can't be that mad at you because he knows he is responsible for crating that baby aswell.
@@Lovelytrini82 he will thank you when he's ready
@@Lovelytrini82 you will never regret it and it will be him who will have to face himself when the baby is born and say to himself "I almost killed this child"
You're about to have the cutest little munchkin!! Congrats!! 😊
I regret aborting my child every day. If I could go back in time I would not do it. I don't know what I would do if I didn't know Jesus was taking care of my baby in Heaven.
Me too 😞
If I'm being honest I always feel a tinge of sadness, sympathy and anger when I hear these stories. The sadness I feel for the child which has sadly been taken from this world. Sympathy for mothers like you didn't truly realise what they were going through with. And anger with the people who don't inform you of these problems. Along with society spreading more and more lies. Causing this to happen more and more.
On behalf of those who should have informed you and helped you understand what you were doing. I'm sorry.
Bible says the unborn is not a person. They become a person when they have drawn their first breath.
No sympathy from me!!! How could a mother do such a crime against humanity??
@@horseandcart5978 How exactly is it a crime against humanity?
tens of millions of mothers and fathers are DESTROYED by this regret and guilt for the rest of their lives
Nobody wants to admit that many women feel regret. This is such a politicized issue. And often time it comes down to money and shame. If people who are pregnant knew about our options, that you can get Medicaid as soon as you are pregnant, maybe more women would choose to keep their babies. There’s also the issue of how often men coerce women into abortion, but don’t have to live with the consequences. They wave it away as a simple “empowering” choice because that’s how feminism has framed it. It’s not that simple. And some women lose their only chance to have kids when they make this choice.
Most people wouldn't understand they can run her mouth but they will never ever understand....... Thank you.... I know 1 person was lost not completely.She lives in your heart.... She gave herself up so that you could do the right thing.... Thank you very much.The world needs more people like you
Currently my ex girlfriend is pregnant. We broke up a month prior to realizing. She's 6 weeks and won't keep the child unless we stay together. I tried so much and we don't work and it's sad. I make over 100k a year and said I'd take care of everything for the child. Even would take full custody. Life is better than none. She says relationship or no kid. She cried she wasn't pregnant when we broke up (which she was then but tested negative at night. Positive a week later in the morning) but I swear she never wanted the kid it seems, just me. She's going on 27 years old. I can't help but think she'll regret this... my heart hurts. She can literally go through with it in less than a weeks time. Idk why I wrote all this. I guess just to vent. Nothing a man to do.
I'm in a similar situation. My girl is pregnant but don't want the baby. I do. She's giving me dumb excuses for not wanting the baby like she's trying to go school n saying we're not financially set for a child which is dumb cus we both have full time jobs.
I even suggested moving in wit her n paying the bills while she go to school. I just feel she don't want this baby for sum other reason she won't tell me. She's 30. I told her she gon regret getting rid of our baby.
Same here, my girlfriend has suddenly changed her mind about having it. I had already pictured a family together, we both have stable jobs and are mature. I think she's afraid of the judgment from family and friends. Idk why but I had accepted this idea and now it's hard to let go of it.
She is a couple months into what she's done and keeps trying to talk to me about how bad she regrets her decision. Sucks. I miss my kid. And the woman that took the kid from me keeps telling me how ass her decision was and how she's looking into if she's bpd. Like that brings my kid back. Just sucks.
So what happened?
😢😢so heartbreaking. This is the most heartbreaking trauma for a woman in my opinion.
I'm actually.rying, her voice broke and all I got were my memories whilst listening to her story. I've not had an abortion but I have lost a child. Fully formed at 5/6 month, his twin sis is about to turn 18, she's called leah and I gave him the name lukas. Bless her, I can relate to that feeling..... Alot. Not enough is taught about what women are encouraged to do if they are young. It's disgusting especially when young girls don't understand the impact of the aftermath.
Guys who joke about that, have no conscience. They don't understand what
it means to be a father or to bring life into the world and are not worthy of
such an honored and holy position as being a Father. You don't deserve the
great legacy of having children and the power of knowing that you helped to
create life and what level of manhood that takes and the responsibility that
comes with it. Every single day you look into their eyes knowing that you would
take a bullet for them and knowing that they love you.
Bless these brave women, and WTHR for the courage to tell the truth.
They’re not brave they’re killers
How are they brave???? Seriously. "Brave" would have been caring about their responsibility. Not exterminating human life like it was some bug.
@@I_g0T_WoRmzare you a man?
"for the courage to tell the truth."
They are telling THEIR opinion. It may be the truth that they regret the abortion, but that is their personal opinion. Other women will tell you the abortion was the right decision.
The bottom line is if YOU think abortion is wrong, YOU shouldn't get an abortion. Problem solved.
@@cnault3244 Oh if only it were that simple. Don't want an abortion, don't get one. Not easy to do if you're being pressured, threatened, coerced or even forced to abort. Don't worry. I'm going to work on getting laws passed to Stop the Coercion.
This issue will always hit close to home. One of my classmates in college got pregnant & didn’t know how to handle it & decided to have an abortion. The guilt & regret consumed her for years & she eventually committed suicide.. and people’s judgement still lingers on.. That she’s a bad person for taking matters in her own hands. Killing a baby & committing suicide. People called her selfish, coward, crazy, dumb, bi+ch, etc. and that she will go to hell for all that she did. But she is not that kind of person. I will always remember her even if we’re not that close as someone who is very smart, witty, and has this charming smile. It’s been 15 years when it happened but we still can’t believe how tragic her life has become.. I hope she is now at peace & pray that God has forgiven her. I guess Abortion not only affects the mother who did it but everyone around her..
Omg im in tears right now. That "empty" feeling you described was 1000% how i felt when i woke up from anesthesia for the abortion.
Its soo weird. You literally feel empty. Like something is missing.
Im now a heroin addict. I cant deal with the pain.
I'm so sorry. I went through an abortion too and never felt so much shame, grief and loss. I felt all manner of darkness. But I've been slowly healing... I've started feeling that although I made that decision almost 7 years ago, the fact that I regretted it means I'm not that person anymore. The fact I had that experience does NOT diminish my inherent worth. It made me realise how valuable life is, that it shouldn't just be thrown away, which is why i decided not to end my life. It made me realise that I will feed myself well, love myself well, care for myself financially, surround myself with the best people, so that if I ever fall pregnant again, I will have the means to bring the child into the world and love him or her to my fullest ability. I didn't give a crap about myself before i had an abortion. But I've slowly reached a place where I love myself now more than ever. You are worthy of forgiveness, God already forgave you, so now you can work on forgiving yourself little by little every day. You are worthy of getting help for the heroin. Fill your life with so much purpose and good food and good sleep and good information and beautiful music and loving thoughts and compassion for yourself and others, that a drug doesn't seem appealing anymore. You became a mother the moment you conceived, that's why the loss was so huge. You didn't stop being a mother. Care for your self as you would a child. You are not worthless just because you made a decision you regret. You are valuable. You are worthy of love, from your SELF. You are worthy of a peaceful and beautiful life that you've built for your SELF. Do it in honour of your child. Let him or her see you grow from your experience. Let him or her see you enjoying your precious life. All my love to you.
@@jellybablushthank you for this comment, just made me realize a lot.
@@jellybablushI tried to cope with the pain with this mindset and I cant even imagine getting pregnant again because it will just be a constant reminder of the child that I aborted. I had a medical abortion at 7 (and a half?) weeks pregnant. Maybe it was 7 and a half weeks because the amniotic sac had a fetus in it that looked like it had eyes. It was extremely traumatizing. As crazy as it sounds I have pictures saved of the small amniotic sac because it’s the only thing I have left of the baby. Seeing the pictures traumatizes me all over again. The abortion felt like a robbery (and it was) and it altered my sense of reality; I started feeling like I was in alternate reality where everything looked the same but didnt feel the same anymore. I had the abortion almost 5 years ago now. Someone told me I can just get pregnant again. It isnt about getting pregnant again because not being pregnant is not what I’m upset about. I’m upset because I ended a life. Period. You cant replace a child with another pregnancy; my womb isnt some factory that churns out replacements smh. The nerve and mentality of some people I tell you.
Im so sorry boo its not your fault. Its was goverment brainwash. Maybe do something for your baby like a good deed. Pray and ask for forgiveness
prayers that Holy Spirit guides you and comforts you and you accept Jesus forgiveness
These women are so courageous 🙏🏽
I wrote a book, "My Abortion My Regret," on Amazon. I'm turning my mess into to a message . I hope to save millions of babies. Please share. Thank you.
1:26 the morals of people. Pro abortion ideology will lead to this.
I heard rumors of docters laughter after abortions
There not doing it for fun they understand that they are killing the kid it’s just circumstances. Same way dad run away if your blessed enough to have a kid and know it’s just going to add your life then your in a blessed position.but have sympathy
@@olechristianhenne6583they just want cash
They did have a choice that they made. Can't really expect to take that away from others. Seems wrong to have this much regret over something that should have been a very serious decision.
The only cure is repentance ! If you have life in your body then you have hope. Jesus Christ is right there willing to forgive you and remove your sin of abortion from you. My husband and I regret our abortion terribly and the only thing that keeps us sane is that God has forgiven us!!! He will forgive you too!!
Why would God forgive me ?
@@nimanixo hi (same person as above logged in on a different account) so God created humans to be in relationship with but God is all love and reighteuosness and cannot have sin any where near Him. So he created Himself into Jesus and sacrificed Himself on the cross as a blood sacrifice to pay the debt for our sins so they can be removed and we can be in relationship with God again. That's kinda how it works. All you have to do is believe in Jesus and repent (turn from your sin) ask God to forgive you and He is faithful He will remove all your sins and bring you peace ❤️
He should not forgive me I am murdered
@@nimanixo because he loves you! He created you and he knows you’re sorry. Repent turn to him and ask for forgiveness and you will be washed clean 🧼. ❤ there is no sin that God wont forgive . Jesus died so we can have eternal life with him if we confess, receive his forgiveness and repent
"If you have a fetus in your body you have hope"? What if the fetus has severe brain damage and will need 24 hour care for it's entire life? What if the fetus has no arms or legs? Would you have the courage and strength to care for this child all your life? I seriously doubt it. Will your God care for it? No He won't.
I wish I had a burial spot then. I'll never know whether it was a boy or girl. When I got married it took me and my husband 5 yrs. To have him and he only lived 10 weeks. I often wonder if it was my punishment. It was SIDS and when I lost him my husband left too. I think it was the guilt.
It is not a good 'choice'. So sad. If only we would tell women the truth and support and help them.
Hug
I Pray you have a baby soon ❤
Thanks for highlighting this WTHR! The trauma is real
People need to weigh the pro's and cons carefully before an abortion. Both parents need to discuss the benefits and detriments of bringing a child into their life. Only if a child can be cared and nurtured properly by both parents should it be birthed. I'd say the final decision is with the mother after the father has given his input.A woman should be allowed to chose what can and can't be done to her body.
What about the body of the separate human inside them? What are their rights? What you are saying is that human beings should die if they lack their mothers love and approval and that that's an acceptable point of view in society. That due to a human beings size, environment, age and degree of dependence they should be allowed to be slaughtered. What about the inherent value of human life? What happens when you are 90 years old, shrunken, in a hospital and no one wants to care for you? By the same token, you should be put to death because your size, environment, age and degree of dependence is inconvenient to the members of your family. That your value is nothing. Think about it.
@@ThankyouJesus4444 They are considered to be minors and only the parent can decide what is best for them. Thanks for asking and good luck.
@@TboneWTFBy this logic, parents would have the right to kill their children anytime until they are 18 years old.
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@@ThankyouJesus4444go adopt a baby that’s available for adoption if you care this much smh 😏😒
RIP Emma we would’ve been the same age
I had an abortion at 6 weeks and I would be due in just over a month now. I’m really starting to struggle although I know I made the right decision. Life can be so hard.
How is killing an innocent life considered the right decision ? it is pure evil and selfish
@@soldieroftruth1976 it would be more selfish to have a baby I couldn’t look after or to have it kill us both in the process
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If the pregnancy or the delivering can danger the mother's life then the mother has the right to kill the baby, but if she wants to kill the baby because it is inconvenient to her lifestyle then it is definitely evil .
If a woman doesn't want children then she should use protection and be cautious but if she got pregnant then the solution isn't to kill the baby but rather to deliver it and put in a place willing to take care of it
Adoption exists, abortion isn’t the only way to avoid raising a kid. Without medical conditions you were not at risk of dying. Own up to the decision you made, don’t hide behind excises
I had abortion at 8 weeks. İt has a heartbeat. I fell guilty but i know it was the right choise too. I have 3 boys. My husband didn't want baby 4. We dont have enough money. What kind of life i was going to give to this baby? I think giving a bad life worse.
Nobody tell those women the truth
Next year will be my 50 years since it. I was empty heartbroken and lost! I was 18. It wasn't legal here I had to go to Chicago but I laid in that back seat and cried my heart out. But something changed, I heard they closed the place down and it was from doing abortions with no fetus! I freaked because the vacuum went into a jar and I saw nothing! $500 they made off of us!
You’re so strong for that❤
That's how I felt after my baby passed hours later I had this big feeling of lost and empty and a part of me missing and it was 😢, i have a baby angel and some writing on a bit of wood i regret the abortion so much it really hurts and makes me sad i grieve my baby i choose to lose but i really did not want to but i had no choice i wish i could go back and change that day 😢 im sorry 😢
I'm adopted.Believe me I have a unique Point of view about this
Me too. Born in 1973. Same time as roe v wade.
Can I know your opinion
I’m struggling so bad right now! I don’t know what to do! I don’t believe in abortion but he doesn’t want the baby! I already have 3 and I know GOD Will provide. Idk what but this is hurting me so much to even think about doing!
I can fully relate to your dilemma Renisha.
I was in the same spot 2 years ago and I chose abortion. I cannot begin to express the amount of regret, depression and self loathing that weighed me down thereafter, including the desire to just die.
It is only by God's grace and His forgiveness that I'm able to continue living and find joy in life.
It is your choice to make. All I can share is my experience. I'll pray for you.
@@elsieawuor2710 i really appreciate your story! I’m truly sorry you went through that. I don’t even know what to say because I’m sure I would be feeling the same. God Grace and Mercy is unmatched!!!! It’s good to hear your in a better place! 💖💖💖💖
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Id advise to keep the baby even if it means loosing him
That baby will love you forever
I am regretting mine so bad 😖💔
@@lilia7870 I did! I’m currently 16 weeks now! We are not speaking and I’m ok with that! I will love her and with GOD help everything will be just fine!
3:21 God is so great in His mercy and compassion. The Lord of forgiveness and second chances. Sing and praise His Name.
Is there a link to the organization ?
I don't feel bad for these women. They chose to exterminate life. They decided not to take on the responsibility. Maybe if they didn't want kids, maybe they shouldn't do what gets them pregnant in the first ace.
I don’t blame the women as much as I do the doctors and society. These women are being lied to
There is a man also involved in every pregnancy and abortion decision too. It isn’t as simple as you think.
@@courtneyfruit570 no man I ever heard of has asay in it. He should since it takes two but still....I call bullshit that the man is involved in the abortion.
Trust me. They don't care about how YOU feel. They're just spreading awareness for those that don't know
Maybe since you feel so strongly about "unwanted" children you should consider adopting some of the the numerous parent-less children growing up in State and County shelters. Or at the very least donating your time and money to a worthy cause? That would make you feel better wouldn't it? Good luck.
Any male involving with that unborn child will never face this situation..
God is Amazing. God knows our hearts. He also understands humar, why else would it be an option.
ALL Makes mistakes. ALL!
GODS GRACIOUS AND KIND AND HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY HOW MANY MISTAKES WE MADE WE'RE HUMAN. EVERYONE ON THIS EARTH MAKES MISTAKES. GOD WANTS US TO BE HAPPY HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY! HE WANTS US TO BE HAPPY! COME ON NOW LIKE HOW AMAZING AND AWESOME CAN WE BE WITH LOVE OF GOD IN OUR HEARTS. I HAVE MADE MANY MISTAKES MANY MANY MISTAKES AND I HAVE BEEN SO HEARTBROKEN FOR IT GOD IS AWESOME. AND I'M NOT TRYING TO BE ONE OF THOSE LIKE FREAKING AWESOME CHRISTIAN. I AM SITTING FOX. AND AGAIN I'M GOING TO SAY THIS I'M NOT BEING ONE OF THOSE OVER ZEALOUS CHRISTIANS I AM JUST THINKING RIGHT NOW, GOD KICKS ASS FOR SURE THANK YOU GOD YOU'RE PRETTY AWESOME YOU ARE AMAZING THANK YOU FATHER YOU ARE F****** AWESOME
Peace with Jesus ❤️
The fact that the woman who works for SOAR still breaks down talking about her child says it all.
I am so sorry may God 🙏 give much Love and Blessings
Which gad do you mean?
This breaks my heart 💔
Thank you to these women for sharing
Christ is using their pain to prevent the murder of innocent babies
Let us help through prayer and donation pregnant women with little support
Your gad is the original aborter my friend.
That’s sad but they r right. I would never ever get a abortion because I know myself to well. I just had a miscarriage last month and I’m absolutely devastated just dying inside.
So sorry for your loss.
A person regretted getting an abortion and that's an argument against someone else having that option? In that case, the fact that some people regret their marriage is an argument against someone else getting married.
It's the pot calling the kettle black syndrome!
Yes it _is_ an argument againrs it cuz this isnt just her experince but will be yours too if you make this assinine choice
Dont be stupid
Murdering a human soul isnt like getting married its taking a life. Your reallys stupid arnt you
@@AA-kk1kg There are also women who had an abortion and say it was the right decision. Their experience is an argument that abortion should be an available option.
27 years ago😢
God bless you ♡
I did now I am still bleeding after abortion of 5weeks, it’s have been 9:43 night I am walking around sea and crying .i did this stupidly for so called husband careers but today he slap me and said that I am his infant mudder🥹 it’s really hard to for me I lost my baby,I lost me.please my ladies don’t do this mistake.i just want to jump inside a deep of this sea but still I feel like my baby inside my belly
I am so sorry:(
I’m so sorry about your loss. Abortion is very painful.
Bad choice and wrong way with relation is your fault not the baby and baby life's is not your choice to kill them.
The inconvenient truth
I am 7 week pregnant planning to abortion next week on friday l have appointement with my Doktor but my hearting bleeding ,please l Dilemma Situation l dont what to do
Dont do it. Please. I did. Only a few days ago. At 9 weeks. It was tiny and fully formed and my beautiful son is now dead because of me.. how can i live with it?
I did it because i already have 3 children and i was struggling to look after them and terrified of money problems and how id manage four.. but now all i have is regret. Please if i knew i would be giving birth to a tiny child... they lied they said its just a "heavy period" absolute LIES it was horrific.
I will now have to bury my tiny child and live with this for the rest of my life. I am utterly devastated. This is the worst thing ive ever done.
@@sophiescosmicgarden l have another 2 kids as well 14 years and 11 ,l am single mum in nursing school l suppost to finish next year march l dont know how will do,my dear l am not in Peace imaging doing abortion l cant sleep just tired and stressed.Thanks alot for encouraging me may God bless you
@@hay-love1 hi there i hope you are well. Whatever you decide to do no judgement from me. I just wish someone had been honest with me. This didnt feel like an informed decision and the reality of what id face was hidden from me. I wish you the best and good luck with everything x
Please keep your baby. You will love your baby once it is born and your baby will love you. There will always be some one out there to help you. Phone your local Catholic church for help. Will pray for both of you.
@@jamesbonagofsky7905 Oh you people dont care you only want them born so they can suffer. Ive seen too many of your kind wish death on women for choosing abortions. You people act all nice and begging then when women make the choice you dont like. You people wish death on them...
This is exactly why we need to ban abortion. It is disgusting what happens to those babies when they are mutilated in the womb. On top of that, look at the trauma this woman and so many others are going through .
No, this is why Republicans can't be trusted. 84% of women who get an abortion don't regret it
Please read “Dinner at Ted’s (an Olive branch). May God bless you!
I do wish these women would pull themselves together.
With the way the world is going I don't think we will still have children that will be called the next generation
LOL. No that will never happen. Good luck.
are they gonna give casey anthony one of these next?
Better that than raising a child in poverty
I don’t support abortion truly but I hate seeing mothers be they married or single and suffering and the child suffering worst of all from poverty while people worry about animals
Not. People who grew up poor don't hate themselves
Then use a condom. Period
What a brain-dead take
No one is poor. Wealth is not only money. Life is the greatest gift ever given to us.
Everyone in the comments is just living proof that abortion should be a choice. Some of you guys felt pressured to abort… that choice was stripped from you… why strip women who know they want one or need one of the choice that may save their lives!
If it's a risk for the mom and the baby, is it selfish to abort?!!
Just because they regret theirs doesn't mean they should have the right to force other women to go forward with a pregnancy. And the waiting the state of Indiana imposes forces a later term abortion which is physically harder in the woman.
Granted some girls or women will regret having an abortion, but other won't, so leave it up to each individual to make the choice and live with it, good or bad. This ruling isn't just about abortions, it is about women's rights to have the health care they deserve. Caring more about a fetus than a living, viable woman or girl makes no sense.
How is abortion health care? It is killing a human life. A fetus is a human being, just smaller than you or I. And contrary to popular belief, it is not the woman's body that is harmed, it is a completely separate INNOCENT human being's body that is being harmed. Through zero fault of that baby's, he or she is being slaughtered for the actions of his or her parents.
Some serial killers will regret their actions but many won't so it's best to just let them do their thing.
This video is showing a possible consequence... You show them, and then, they can make their decision...
Both are living, both are very viable. That's discrimination against size and natural development. I lost a baby at 16 1/2 weeks. I didn't originally want or plan for this beautiful soul and body. As I held her tiny but significant body in the palms of my hand.....you could never tell me I ever or a doctor had the "right" to destroy and/or dismember her frame. We are asleep to the truth.
Most women do regret killing their children
Their trauma doesn’t mean it’s ok to remove fundamental reproductive rights away from others. They should have had a choice, sure, but that doesn’t mean they can forcibly remove the choice from everyone else. It’s just deeply self-centered.
Reproductive rights?! Abortion is murder, murder should not be a right
Agreed. Only the woman can ultimately decide what is to be done to her body.
The right to life is the most basic human right. If it was your body you would be the one getting aborted.
@@TboneWTFit’s not their body. It’s a baby’s body with completely separate DNA. If it was their body they would be the one getting aborted
@@jessicazumbach3672 Oh stop you only want children born so they can suffer...
There is a justice higher than that of man, you will be judged by him
How about abortion bcos of health risk??
This video is BS my body my choice
Jesus loves you i love you to
Praise GOD I have never been forced to make this decision. Nevertheless, Heather! You aren't in anyone else's family but your own. I was so happy to hear you found a path to heal. But, don't be a religious zealot. Other women should have the choice. & honestly, I think you're angry with yourself for being too weak to stand up to a guy who didn't want you. So, Maybe deal with that, & understand thousands of women in Indiana should not be affected by or have to atone for your weakness. GOD Bless you.
Lady you have nerve talking like that to this woman, it seems you're the angry one! And don't bring God into this!!! God bless you?! Really?!!
@@tonimariehurley I do have nerve. I have all of the nerve. & I will be taking every bit of it to the polls. Tyvm.
This is such a nasty comment and you have the nerve to say “God bless you” 😂. You don’t follow God in promoting murder of children
Pro Choice! YES!
@tonimariehurley well God knows that women abort kids and that angers him and he will judge it.
i dont careee let her suffer my ex wife was pregnant she cheat on me before that she beat me every day she kild my child for that other man she lives with him and i must live with MENTAL PROBLEMS
If My Adulted Sibling's Existed This Comment Never Existed 😭😭😭🫀🔪