LOVING YOURSELF IS FUNDAMENTAL by RC BLAKES
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Self love is fundamental to living a healthy life and developing right relationships.
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I had no self worth because, I chose to be with a toxic person who didn’t respect or value me for years. I didn’t love me enough to walk away until God literally had me catch him in the act. I’m rebuilding me now, it’s a painful process.
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I was very hard on myself to do the right thing, but did not demand the same from others. Especially in the most important relationships, friendship which affected my life.
Having self love for myself as Pastor R.C. Blake explains is what I strive for. My toxic thinking led to self destructive behavior. At times, I contemplated suicide which is the highest form of hate for oneself. Proper self love is only possible when you have a proper relationship with God as Pastor R.C . Blake says. Go on with your God given messages through RUclips and any other venues that deliver the truth, Pastor R.C . Blake.
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I agree.
I love everyone of messages,in the past I was very toxic, no more, and you preach from the heart of god😊
“When you don’t love you, there’s certain things you settle for because you don’t feel like or you don’t realize that you’re worth more, or you’re better than that.”
This is something every parent should have told their children. Thank you 🙏
Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏽
1. Proper self-love is only possible when you have a right love for God. 2. You cannot love others effectively until you love you. 3. You are a priceless original. 4. Your future is tremendous.
Self-love = to have a firm and unshakeable appreciation for your gifts, personal make-up, and an awareness of your potential
I've never had a relationship with my biological father. I've actually only seen him once and he's never pursued or wanted a relationship with me. Because of his abandonment as well as the abandonment of my biological mother, i have always felt so insignificant, unlovable and have hated myself. I've been trying to change how I feel about, as well as how i see myself cause deep down inside I've known that God wants so much more for me. This video was the Father/Daughter talk I've always longed for but so much better because it's coming from my Heavenly Father! I just can't explain it, but something amazing is happening in me as a result of this video! Thank you Pastor Blakes! Please pray fo me.
I just broke off a toxic "situationship/soul-tie" and I needed to hear this word. It's fresh water to my soul right now.... Learning to focus on God's word to heal & grow.
I’m blessed to finally begin to learn how to heal and cleanse my childhood pain in order to pave way for me to love myself. Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for all your preaching. PHENOMENAL. God bless you and family🙏🏾
Thank you. Keep your vision before you. God is with you.
RC Blakes, Jr Amen. God has His plan and time, and from where I’m at now, it all seems PERFECT. EVERY DAY and EVERYONE seems to be sent by God my way as I see the lessons and become more empowered. Thank you and all the blessings and respect🙏🏾
I'm on the same journey as yourself..It feels so freeing to release myself of everybody to take time to heal myself.🙆♀️🙆♀️
Angela Rambo may God continues to bless you with His spiritual healing and empowerment🙏🏾
@@RCBlakesJr. Pastor Blake can you say a prayer for me. I'm in a relationship that is breaking my heart. After listening to your videos I believe he's a Narcissist. I just read a scripture that says God is near the brokenhearted and those that are crushed in spirit. I just started crying. I want to be healed. Please keep my in prayer. My name is Karisa. Thank you in Advance Pastor Blakes Jr.
We're ALL BEAUTIFULLY INDIVIDUALLY created. No replica neither can copy another. Let's not worry about another how they're created. Let's work on ourselves to become the UNIQUELY created us. Amen.
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Yes. We must heal and learn to love ourselves. 🙏
I will be replaying this with my journal and dissect each point you drove.
I gotta go buy a few more journals too!! It's time, you know?
Worse time to look for a relationship is when you are self loathing.
I'm about to cry. Almost didn't watch this video cause I thought that was yet another "self-help" crap but you're shifting my perspective of myself. Thank you!
Repeats daily!!!!! 🗣 I have to love me because GOD has BIG plans for ME ☺️ right on-time word !! Needed this ❤️❤️
Love this! Thanks for sharing that!
This message is blessing me, because I must learn to love me as a woman I am and wasn’t taught how to do so! I needed this beautiful message & encouragement.
SELF-ESTEEM SELF-CONTROL. SELF-RESPECT,
Cant stop listing to this sermon. Especially the your prayer. I just cant find the right words to discribe it.... I'm slowly learning to love the Lord, appreciate myself and forgive myself and just BE myself.
I just got out of a toxic relationship, he was extremely abusive. Verbally, mentally and sometimes physically, He turned my entire family against me. I told my mom everything that I had went through and she called me a liar and told me that if i spoke out about it I would be under a bride. She even forced me to go back to live with him. They destroyed my car, my cell phone and then they all started just attacking me non stop everyday. It was extremely brutal. I wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone. But now that im single alot of people wan to date me and are trying to get me to move in with them so fast, I keep trying to explain that I need time to heal. If my cup is not full, I have nothing to offer anyone else. This video confirmed everything I needed I was thinking thank you.
I pray that God will strengthen you with Holy Boldness to stand and hold your own. God promised to never leave us nor forsake us. I pray that he is your comforter. Proud of you for getting away. These days men are looking for a place to stay and rush to get the cookie so they try to rush relationships. You set the pace and you do the selecting! You also have the power to say goodbye to those who aren't in compliance with your value system.
U got this luv.... God got you,you will overcome.
I want you to know that you experienced the hardiest part of your abuse, by making your decision to escape !!!
I will personally keep you in my prayers, I experienced abuse in my marriage for twenty years.
Until one day I heard God say this is not the Life I chose for you, it's time to leave !!!
My life was threatened it was my Wake up call to escape also !!
I would like to take this opportunity, and say that you are a very strong young woman, who has a beautiful future ahead of herself !!!
Please allow this exact time in your life for God himself to Heal you, Spiritually, Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, psychologically !!!
Also because you aren't healed yet, give your heart to God he Loves all of you.
I want you to know you may meet some men at this time, with different faces, but same abusive behavior, so don't rush back into dating, just focus on Loving yourself Unconditionally !!!
I'm very proud of you !!!
Rmia
Sorry to hear but she is a narcissistic mother....
🙏🏼 I pray that you continue to heal sister, that God is your shield continually, that he will put you in contact with the right people and the right places who are safe, that he will deliver you from this evil, that you continue to gain strength. And remember that when you feel weak God is strongest then. You have overcome. 🤗🦋
This is exactly what I needed to hear..My prayer is that this very word penetrate to the depths of my spirit in Jesus name❤️for change and deliverance to come this day in Jesus name...
Love this!!!!!!! Some of it skipped!😞 but I've been hearing this this whole past year!!! I was with a man who really showed me myself and some issues I was having with mySELF!!! SELF love....SELF esteem....SELF respect....SELF respect!
Very powerful message. I'm learning how not to be a people pleaser. I don't know why I needed validation... It was like I had to hear thank you, or if out to eat with friends I had to pay. Even at work I would buy snacks for co-workers, I was the lady at work who had the B.C/Goody's powder if someone had a headache! Why🙏🙏🙏?? This video really helped me. Thank you.
I’m a muslim and I think you’re absolutely amazing God bless you 💜💜💜
Love begins at home, with me I fully agree Pastor RC Blakes🙏🏾
You teach so beautifully. I imagine you are a wonderful pastor too. God said to love your neighbor as yourself. You are right....we are to love ourselves. A lot of us have been abused. We have to know who God says we are. I have been out down my whole life. Please pray for all of us who need healing from abuse. Some churches preach that we are wretched and we should be thankful that God even allows us to breathe! So much condemnation type preaching goes on to keep people down to manipulate them. I was thinking today about the book called your best life now....imagine how Job would have felt if somebody would tell him he needed a book like that! As Christians we need to stop putting each other down with judgment. Grace and Mercy are needed.
As an aside....had anyone ever told you that you sound like Bill Cosby? Keep the videos coming.......God Bless you, your family, your ministry and whatever your hand touches!!!!!
For as long as we are hurting, unable to forgive or unable to own our faults (denial), lacking self-confidence or esteem, WE NEED TO WORK ON OURSELVES FIRST and reconcile all this (works for me being in God's space..) only when we overcome any of our short-comings then we can embrace new people into our lives so we don't hurt them or them hurt us.
I needed this! Been through so much hurt and pain in my life. Just want the pain to stop!
My Sister Kristina,
God knows your pain, and exactly why you are hurting, but he wants you to realize that if you take one day at a time, he will begin to give you the JOY, he always wanted to give you despite of what happen !
I want you to do one thing each day, and that is to ask God to help you love yourself, and to allow things to happen in your life to make you SMILE again.!!!
Begin to encourage everyone around you with prayer, and that SMILE !!!
You had to go through certain trials in order to bring someone else out of their pain !!
I know God is ready, and wants to bring his Joy along with Wonderful Blessings into your life !!
God Bless You,
Rmia
Thank you R Mia
You are welcome !!!
@BF You are welcome! !
My sister never stop praying, it is ok to cry out to God for his help!
After you finish praying, tell God I trust you with my life during this hardship I'm facing.
Tell him that I'm even grateful that I'm alive, despite of what I'm going through.
Tell God you want the Faith to hope, and believe again that Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE with him!!!
Begin to speak out loud, that I know God LOVES ME, and I can't see right now the Amazing things he is doing, but I know God heard my prayer.
Everyday tell God Thank you for what you have believed him to do that is in alignment with his word, as well as the plan he has for your Life.
Don't be shocked because you will begin to actually SEE them !!!
God Bless You,
R Mia
OMG you are amazing Pastor! My Dad died when I was 12. My mom did her best but still.... I cannot be more grateful, that I found you!!!
Bless you 💗
Change the way I present and project myself....letting the Holy Spirit to come into me and directing me towards the real me God wants me to be. Amen.
Amen bless you 💗
This man's words are truly inspired by God. Your words are transforming! My cup runneth over. I'm getting all the cliffs notes from God for free! Thank you!!!
Amen ♥️
This message is in perfect timing! I really think that the past generations grew up with narcissism in the family that children are told there is always someone better than them. That is what I was told as a child anyway. I am learning to love myself! You can easily lose your self worth even in Christ! Thank you for this God-sent message. It is much needed today! I have learned a lot through this video!
Work hard. Work SMART!
This hit my heart..I know it was a message for me. I'm so thankful for your ministry Pastor Blakes. Thank You Father for sending this to us.
I like your name it’s cute!!!😊
Timely video..... God's way of speaking to me through you. Thanks Pastor Blakes❤️
Amen
I really don’t trust pastors BUT I TRUST in your teachings. They are very UNIQUE and I listen to you faithfully! You’re a man of EXCELLENCE and a GREAT spiritual father! THANKS SO MUCH!!! 👏🏾💕🙏🏾❤️
Great word Pastor..."love within before you can love outward"
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Great man of God love listening to you I am so much better than I was last year. Shout out from Bossier city Louisiana.
Thank you for the lovely prayers, Pastor Blakes.
When he said that about Cain. I oftentime feel that this is why people tend to abuse others with their tongue. They try to destroy that individual by putting them down with their tongue.
Amen!! Thank you Heavenly Father for the shifting! Thank you Pastor for this great word & prayer! May God continue to Bless and keep you and your family
I'm so thankful for your videos. I've asked God to continue to show me real love and to guide me to the right people
God is speaking to me thru you!! Amen!! Thank you Lord!!!
Thank you Pastor Blakes. I have learnt so much from your ministry and I am now applying this knowledge to my life. I thought I loved myself but I was far from it. People's opinion and approval was most important.
At 20:30 when Pastor Blakes says that Cain killing Able was Cain really attacking his own self dislike, he could have dropped the mic 🎤. What he said was so convicting and encouraging that I was trying to physically reach out and grab it! 🔥🔥
Hallelujah Awesome word I totally agree loving yourself is vital I know this because of rejection and low self esteem these two things can destroy you unless you learn to love yourself ...the only way you can overcome these things is to have a personal relationship with God it takes work... this word is so needed ,a very touching word ..nothing but truth..thank God,thank you Pastor Blakes you are truly being lead by the Spirit,may God continue to Bless you to be a Blessing ..love in Christ
I can watch this over and over and hear something different everytime
I was so loss growing up I had a lot of strongholds on me .now I know who I am now and I think I still have time here on this earth but I am going to continue to shine from the inside out .
Yes Pastor Blakes this so true... but sad at the same time.
I just want to weep out to God.... for my mouth cannot always communicate what I’m grieving from my heart. I’m so heavy inside at the moment. 💜 but this video has penetrated me and has blessed me.
I am going through this because I was ignored a lot growing up in my home and outside my home. I am noticing I feel like I need a man and friends and people to make me happy, when Christ has been right there the whole time constantly loving me and making sure I knew He is there loving me and teaching me to love me.
Amen sounds like me and I am 53 so sad but it's not over I am shining 🌟
Thank you. I needed this. I fell off and stopped taking care and accepting me for me because of bad People. Much needed teaching.
Behave. Be GOOD. PULL LIFT CHEER UP!!😃 BE HAPPY!!!😃 SHARE your blessings. Be healthy. Look ahead!!!
AMEN PASTOR PAPA BLAKES!!!! YOU ARE DOING GOD’S WORK!!! LOVE TO YOU!! ❤️🙏🙏
Powerful message!!! I receive this in Jesus Name Amen! Thank you Pastor!!!
This is an awesome message. I am learning to love myself. Since I have listening to these videos, I have learned so much. I am important. I will love myself more.
Thank you for this. BTW...the Philadelphia Queenology was the BOMB!!!!! 💥💪🏾🙌🏾
Thank you Bishop! I am thoroughly Blessed by this! I am learning to love ME! There is no other like me! I have to be ready for God's plans for me! Wow!
Another awesome word from The Great Bishop thank you!
Can’t wait to see you in Canada 🇨🇦 God bless you 🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor Blakes. May God richly bless you. You have bless my life and I am so grateful.
WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH PASTOR!
Hello from South Africa! Your message is brilliant and perfectly timed as always! THANK YOU Pastor and thank God for you! After a lifetime of self loathing and self abuse it finally took a devastating "relationship" with a narcissist to bring me to a discovery of this concept of self love. I am still learning "how", but every moment of every day God guides me, and this journey is already proving to be an amazing life-transforming one! P.S. when will we be welcoming you in South Africa?
Glory to God! Hallelujah! Thank you for creating each of US uniquely to bring Glory to your Kingdom!
Awesome message and prayer! Thank you, Pastor Blakes! 😊😊😊
Amen Father, no negative thoughts!
Thank you pastor Blakes. Your videos are always right on time. Praise Jah
Good day Miss Sabrina are u from the Caribbean..
@@nicolataylor536 Hi.
No I am not but would love to visit someday. :-)
Ok. It's beautiful in the Caribbean..
Narcissistic people tend to bring others further down. The trickery in mind games that they play on your mind and in your heart can definitely destroy a person
Thank you I am truly touched by this! I felt God give me peace and self love after you prayed! Thank you Jesus, thank you pastor! All Glory to the most high and his son Jesus Christ 🙌💕
I truly love your videos, Pastor Blakes.
When we are at peace and content within ourselves (our souls), we become a better us, we don't envy others for being successful in their lives. SO I SUGGEST WE WORK ON OUR INNER SELVES TO REACH SELF-LOVE, PEACE AND HUMILITY combined. We then become more giving/charitable of love and material support to those who need us. We will not go about hating, destroying others be it emotionally or materially.
I love that analogy Pastor. @ 15 minutes on who creates the value. So on point as usual. 🙏🏼 grateful for you on thanksgiving and all days! ♥️
Mmmmmm I thank the Holy Spirit for this message. God bless you, and thank you for sharing. 😊
Thank you Amen
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes,amen amen you are talking directly to me and I really needed to hear this morning. I woke up early this morning and I went right to your video and the message was talking too me. Thank you in Jesus name.
ok Pastor will make that my focus, changing my words !!! 🙏🏻 yes, I gave up on church, but I have you, your family is my new church 🙏🏻
Amen
Good afternoon pastor Blake. My name is Stephanie brown please am asking you to pray for me l need the move of God over all in my life . Thank you God bless you .
Thank you for being a vessel the Lord has used to bless my life! As you have sown into so many lives, may you reap abundantly in return!!🙏🏽
Thank you Jesus and Pastor Blake's xo ❤ from Australia
❤️ Thank you for this beautiful message, RC Blakes! 🙏💯❤️
Wow I was truly blessed and this is what I needed. God is so faithful 🙏❤️
Ok. Good. A few minutes is at least 30 minutes now. Thank you, Pastor! ☺👍 (ps. SUPERB, highest quality message! Thank you, Sir!) 🔥
Once again, you're tapping in to my achilles heel.
Same♡
This is a good message. I also believe that if churches told black people the truth about who we are, the true Hebrews, the Israelites the Scriptures speak of, that would be a road to understanding many of our predicaments.
AMEN! Pastor Blakes, you continuously hit every nail on the head. Your messages are such an inspiration to me. I was conditioned to feel horrible about myself due to constant maternal criticism and verbal/emotional abuse. I was told that I was nothing and was going to be nothing but a drug addict and a failure. Because of that, I attracted and accepted love interests that treated me like I was nothing. I am now on a healing journey to love myself and that takes setting healthy boundaries of whom I allow into my life. #Movingforward
I just wanna say thank you GOD, and thank you RC for this video because everything I’ve been battling with as far as seeking approval, validation, and feeling like I can’t be me was so spot on. This message you have put out took all the crazy thoughts in my head, and made me feel not alone in this. I’m so so thankful for you, and all your doing. This helped me tremendously not only to stop seeking people for the love and validation that only GOD can fill, but to stop blaming myself for the behavior modifications that he is still fixing. I’m human, and my mistakes don’t define me. Not only that, but also learning how to forgive myself as much as I have forgave others. Love how you put this.
Love you RC ❤
I always feel great listening to you Pastor, God bless you
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! l just love this message so much! There is so much fact, value and truth to it. You have truly touched my heart and soul this time. Much love to you and yours!
BISHOP thanks so much! You definitely give me HOPE AND STRENGTH, to be THE BEST ME. Love you Bishop. PEACE and BLESSINGS to you and your family. PRAISES TO THE CREATOR.
Wow, that is powerful. Thank you Pastor. God bless
Amen
Thank you so much pastor. I'm sitting my children down to watch this.
The voice of the world means nothing, because you have to correct your language, and have self appreciation, and agree with the plan of God, to move forward, this word was RICH !!!
Wow! This was inspired of God. Much appreciated.
this was kind,
and I pray for you.
I watched this twice!! Thank you Pastor! 🙏🏽
Hello Pastor Blakes I wasn't allowed to even love myself a little bit. I was always depressed because of being put down by my family. I was told I shouldn't think of myself but everybody else can. I was not allowed to have a voice to express myself that I feel so broken, it was just awful, all because I was in a car crash and sustained a serious concussion which has not healed properly and that's why my family make me feel less than a human being, with no feelings. I think that it is totally unfair to me and others like myself. What do you think of this situation, Pastor Blakes?? I've prayed to the Lord to heal me, but so far I've seen no change in my self-esteem, because I still feel like I have a broken spirit. I feel hopeless .Thank you for reading my story, Pastor Blakes.
Christine Haigh it’s good you now know ...I was exactly the same. Lots of pretense and forced love it felt rejection almost every single day for a very long time. The MOST AMAZING thing is once we seek God, we begin to cleanse and heal instantly. We’ve to reject our pain and reclaim our God-given love for us. I wish you best.
You are not alone and you are worth it.
Check out Caroline Leaf videos...she tells of a young girl severely injured in an accident and eventually grew into someone better and stronger than before her injuries. Don't give up! Keep moving forward. Continue to seek God. Ive also heard it said that virtually all spiritual growth is preceeded by hardship. Never give up and find ways to encourage others. Praying for you
Christine, I was fortunate in having a generally supportive and loving family but have been undermined and smeared by some others as an adult. I used to get upset and respond, trying to set the record straight. But the greatest peace is in stepping away. God knows the truth and leaving it with Him and just driving forward is such a great message. God Bless you.
My Sister Christine,
You are an Awesome Young Woman of God !!
I want you to pray, and asked God to Reveal the spiritual gifts, he placed inside of you !!
Allow God to move all obstacles out of your way.
If you used to like poetry begin to write again !!!
God has a special assignment with your name on it not only to bless yourself, but everyone that comes in contact with you !!!
Pray for your family, and leave it up to God for their changed lives !!
God Bless You,
Rmia
Awesome ! I feel a shift wow! It is yet to manifest in its totality! Thank you!!! May the most high GOD continue to prosper you Pastor RC Blakes!
Thank you Pastor, I listened to this 3yrs after it was shown and it came at the perfect time. GOD bless you and your family.
Its really hard for me to move forward i tell myself i forgive myself but then i still feel like i hsve self doubt about it Pastor Blakes
Yes, amen! Glory!!!
Thanks so much I. Am going through a. Battle for my life Tthaank for your teaching. I need your prayers I fell a thought you are talking to only me w your teaching thank u
So much
I love listening to your teachings. Thank you Pastor Blakes
Good Teaching, Helpful, Encouraging, Uplifting Pastor Blake's