Corn and masturbation addiction is very common nowadays, and the problem is that they are so destructive. To anyone suffering from this addiction never stop trying, do everything you can to get yourself out and you will find the happiness
... Corn and masturbation ? *Facepalm* uh, akhi, no. Don't normalize homosexuality, please. If you have to masturbate, please don't use corn.... *Laugh* sorry, was a bad joke. But I can't help it...
What's even worse is that it's actually being encouraged to the youth, as well as normalized. You have people who are married and yet still can't break out their PMO addiction, more than often corn consumption leads to degeneracy as well, it destroys nerves, leads to desensitization and erectile dysfunction. The more you consume the more desensitized you get so you fall into even deeper holes and look for newer categories to satisfy your sexual wants. Can even lead to homosexuality, cuckoldry etc. May Allah protect us all
Establish your five times prayer regularly and try to keep clean your mind from dirty thoughts and do zikar in your free time so this is the only way you can get rid of it.
people automatically equate masturbation to watching corn, and i think thats a big mistake in the way to face this issue. If you separate the two,avoiding corn at all cost and resorting to masturbation if you see its getting too much,you will find that gradually the urge will lessen as time goes and in the end you can rid of the addiction to both. Just make sure you avoid corn no matter what,because thats where the real destruction comes from,and you will find that the abnormal lust will lessen and you will be able to take control of yourself. im speaking from experience and i hope this helps someone who is truggling right now with this.
WTF marriage has became like impossible now a days while islamic age for marriage is when You get baligh while now's society don't allow. I am so much angry on society the scholars should influence for early marriage
@@Calvin_M. right bro but actually it is'nt that much expensive as now's society believes. There are many solutions to this but scholars are not telling
The problem that the young men are facing today is that,ladies of nowadays dont like a guy without a car or a guy that is renting. And the family is looking for wealthy people to marry their daughter's of to,so the young men find it very difficult to even marry
and also even if i do marry bro living in the west with rising prices/starting a family is tough esp if i pursue long education, like med school etc. like wtf all the odds are against me. :( may allah guide us
I know it's difficult dear brother, just hang in there. Also, if the urge is too strong, remember that it's Sunnah to pinch your balls and make Du'a to Allah SWT.
Fasting every other day helps reduce the strength of your nafs by more than 50% imo. Also lower your gaze. However it is better to start next month since fasting in Rajab for someone that hasn't been fasting in the previous months, then it is strongly prohibited.
There are who unfortunately can't get married because of ridiculous tradition's that requires them a fortune to get married or those who are afraid of poverty in other places in the world sadly it's become difcuilt for a muslim to live in this days
@Zerasion- it is people nowdays only think about money and status and how to show off thier wealth in weddings some pepole in my country borrow a lot of money just for the wedding
yeah it's a really sad practice to see parents pressuring their kids to have extravagant weddings just so our relatives know how well-off we are, even if our hands are tied end to end. i really despise the pompous approach to weddings that, especially southeast asian people, have adopted from kuffar weddings. nowadays marriages are not between two people but between two families and everyone's uncle and their brother la hawla wala quwwata may Allah forgive us for our transgressions and guide our Ummah better
i lost my spirits , the ability of imagining things and building deep reflexions in small times , lost the talent of drawing and lost my beautifull arabic handwriting and my vision , i ruined my neurons beause of addiction : all of this because of +18 content and masturbation : i stopped doing it for a long time and alhamdulilah because i'm mentally recovering ! don't loose faith guys everyone should pass from hard times to learn the best way .
Ya Sheikh… wallah I’m trying to solve my urges by getting married but what can I really do… nobody really seems to get it I’m told to focus on studying and build myself up first… اللهم مستعان … but it’s really unfair how in this day and age halal is blocked off and haram is obviously haram can’t do that.
Build up your Iman by learning about Allah and our religion, and I really recommend your read the Easy Peasy method. It's an online free book which has helped so many people escape this addiction
@@infernozeronityclan5850 Please brother don't be recommending such extreme treatments such as medication to block hormones. Remember the problem does not reside in loving women, but in the addiction to dopamine
Getting married is one way to avoid zina, but Muslims often forget the BEST way, which is fasting. Rasulullah SAW told us to fast if marriage is not possible yet. May Allah make it easy for us.
@@phoque9713 Stop glorifying fasting,during prophets time marriage was easy now people have to wait 10-20 years and fast!it is not the best way,the best way is marraige.
Anybody who has struggled with this and hasn’t been able to stop on their own seek professional help preferably go to a doctor my advice Dont wait until it is too late. understand that if you don’t, then you risk continuing on this habit forever and ruining your Dunya and akhira
Salaam brother Shaykh Ibn Farooq, without devling too much into sins i had done in my past, i have improved vastly, i am trying to get married in a halal way (applied for marriage through mosque's) but in the UK im still finding it very difficult and have still not found a wife or even a candidate, please make Dua for me, May Allah make it easy for all of us Mu'mins trying our best to struggle through our nafs.
There are RUclips videos by Internet Islam scholars saying there's nothing in the hadith and nothing in the Quran about it. Pretty incredible. Fasting or marriage in general is a pretty good solution.
Prophet said, “I give guarantee Jannat to someone who can give me word that he won’t lie and he will protect his private parts” Also, prophet said, “Saying bad things is zina of mouth, seeing bad things is zina of eyes, walking to Evil places is zine of legs”
man i cant get married...i gotta pass medical school first..gotta have a job, right now im just fully supported by parents. i dont eat much workout, pray all prayers and tahajjud when i can, yet i still falter. its so so tough to repress it but obv i cant wish to be asexual LOL. may allah make it easy on us.
From a married person with 2 kids: Unfortunately marriage is not the ultimate solution (but its anyways the best) cus your wife may not want to be intim with you in the rate you want... Sometimes you wait for months... Its not easy guys... But the paradise is expensive... But its worth❤
@@taimurahmad you're very right actually, I can't expect an outcome if i don't try hard enough but I genuinely don't have any family members to ask. and there are no communities for me to get involved in. thanks a bunch though
And after you get married, your wife doesn't have to serve your manly needs and she can freely divorse you and take half your house when she feels like it. Great deal huh?
Hey brother I would suggest making Wudu with cold water every time you have the urge to do it. And even if you have the urges again keeping making wudu.
Je suis très lassé de cette vie, enfance difficile, responsabilités, j’ai fais que des métiers épuisants. Aujourd’hui à 37 ans après tant de soucis de santé, la pauvreté, la trahison je veux juste me reposer et prendre soin de ma petite maman. Mon père nous a quitté Allah yerehmou voici même pas un an et là on apprend que ma mère est très malade, j’ai même peur de perdre ma foi alors que Allah seul sait que je l’aime! Que ma foi est ma paix mon bonheur et mon espoir! J’ai peur j’ai très peur! J’ai personne à part ma mère, depuis l’enfance j’ai compris que mes deux familles paternelles et maternelles sont les diables des humains sans cœur, sans miséricorde. D’ailleurs ma mère a travaillé toute sa vie elle est la meilleure maman au monde et je ne saurai vraiment pas vivre sans elle ni la voir souffrir, elle est jeune et pourrait encore vivre trente années bi idhn Allah sobhenou, w Allah j’étouffe de tristesse et de peine! Je suis exténuée d’être sur cette terre extrêmement triste et perdu
Brother it's dunya no one will lives forever you are 37 mashallah our parents can leave us any moment and we can go before them الاعمار بيد الله , your father is in janna inchallah and may allah give Chifaa to your mother but please don't be sad it's مشيئة الله we all are from him and we will remain to him
I heard your answer about getting married but I've been wanting a wife my whole life, and has absolutely tormented me not having a wife, there is a woman named Jennifer out there that I love and care about and she's doing haram and I want to save her, I know I can. Please pray for me
Brother, you can't save a person if they don't even put effort on saving themselves first. Even Allah says something similar in the Quran. _“Verily, Allah will not change the (good) condition of a people as long as they do not change what is within themselves”_ *[al-Ra'd **13:11**]* May Allah (سبحانه وتعالى) make it easy for you, and all of us.
If she's not Muslim stay away from her, it's encouraged to get engaged to a gd pious and believing woman, not a woman looking to do haram, if this woman ur speaking of is not scared of Allah and not obeying him what makes u think she will listen to u? Go look for a gd wife and change ur mindset, plus interaction with the opposite sexe is not that easy in islam if the woman is not mahram, u can't touch her, u can't make sexual jokes, and even joking around them is bad, what is ur plan
Yes it’s haram but not worse than Zina. I would never touch a woman until I get married but if I don’t free myself from the temptation I’ll fall in Zina. Please my brothers and sisters make Dua for me to get married. Please 🙏
How do you know it's not worse than Zina? It's still inappropriate, forbidden sexual acts,... Don't try to make ok in any way. Avoid it! Allah knows best
Don't make it seem like it's ok to masturbate, it's haram, and btw, there is a hadith of the prophet ص that says even small sins if u insist on them they become major sins so don't act like ur doing fine, ask Allah swt for help and quit this haram behaviour, it's not up to u to say which is fine and which is not, no haram is not fine
The level of unrealism in these fatwas is just insane for modern life. Sahabas used to get married at 15 years old. Men nowadays marry at 30 and more. You're pretending as if fasting is a solution. How long should a man fast? 1? 2? 3? 10 years?
Ya fr I didn't get this either I'm 27 prolly realistically going to get married in 3 maybe 4 or so years assuming I can navigate my career schooling and all to barely support a family. Fasting like for how many years??
In Surah Al-Mu'minun (23:5-7), the Qur'an says: "And they who guard their chastity, Except with their wives or those their right hands possess, for then they are not to be blamed, But whoever seeks beyond that - then they are the transgressors." My right hand is mine... Can someone mention a passage in the Qur'an that says it's not permissible? Remember, we follow the word of ALLAH only.
But , brother fast is over after Maghrib prayer which is around 5:30pm and 6:30 pm around the year , And these urges occur mostly at night So fasting is not a real solution
First,Do a promise with your self that you will not do this and if you did it so you will give kaffarah like a bug amount of cash as sadaqah and by keeping this promise in your mind that you will have to pay the kaffarah with the cash you will not do it and think about doing it hundred times , The second most important tip is to start self improvement, exercising, meditating,etc. The 3rd tip is to start praying when these waswasaas hit. you.
try to sleep early like around 9pm everyday, dont use any device 1 hour before bed, you could also read books or do any task that doesn't require screentime, Insha'Allah it may help you.
@@RENZBENEDICTUMALIthe level of haram not even equal to zina with other person but its still consider as haram. Because intercourse in islam only can be done with halal partner (wife/husband). Try find positive activity, listen lectures etc. Its hard full of temptation
Am sorry to say but committing Zina has become way easier than marriage this days. Am not saying it’s ok but no one can really get married easily. Sometimes I wonder what’s the solution in a world where marriage becomes almost impossible. Do we just start fasting for the rest of our life or what?
When the Prophet (S) was asked by his companions if they could castrate themselves, he also gave them another option, Mut’ah (temporary marriage). Something that Shi’as get attacked for on a daily basis
@@TellTheShadows nah buddy, Omar made it haram, it is halal and it is even in the Quran, what Omar decided to change what God allowed in the Quran? What a joke
@@Sickpack3360 "فَمَا اسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِ مِنْهُنَّ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً" (surah al-nisa' ayah 24) و قال عمران بن حصين : نزلت آية المتعة في كتاب اللّه ففعلناها مع رسول اللّه ـ صلَّى الله عليه و آله و سلَّم ـ و لم ينزل قرآن يحرمه ،و لم ينه عنها حتّى مات ، قال رجل برأيه ما شاء ، ( صحيح البخاري : 6 / 33 ) .
*We need to stop glorifying fasting!!* yes it is a solution but during prophet's time nikah was easier but now many of us have to wait till 10-20 years and fast! do you really expect a normal person to fast for that long and not be hurt psychologically/mentally/emotionally from sexual repression? We as ummah need to make nikah easier and stop pretending that just by fasting a person is protected (from Haram)
Hold on brother!!! Fasting need to be glorified.....but some people do not have the ability to understand the nuance On masturbation...the appropriate verdict is that it's not haram....but not encouraged.....used as an emergency option
@@humaidahnnooman no,it has been over glorified,rather then actually helping someone in marriage people keep on saying "control yourself!fast!" nowadays people have to wait 10-20 years to get married!this is dhulm!
@@humaidahnnooman no,it has been over glorified,rather then actually helping someone in marriage people keep on saying "control yourself!fast!" nowadays people have to wait 10-20 years to get married!this is dhulm!
What tha, literally Fasting is so good also for the afterlife and actually it's proven that it is good for you're body, i understand you're point but still we need to more glorify Fasting TAKBIR
The title is misleading because masturbation is haram when it is done by oneself with or without watching pornography but it is completely halal when doing masturbation with your spouse(s) during intimacy and allah SWT will reward the couple but as for a non married Muslim man it’s haram to masturbate please comment if I am wrong
It is totally forbidden, regardless with whom it is done...Even looking at private parts is not permissible because the prophet never did it, and again, one ignorant person can argue that it must be permitted, because we use hands to pray etc. But believe me, the eyes you have today are going to be gone on after death, as all body parts will decay and worms will be crawling from this flesh. Once we are in paradise, Allah will fashion new and clean bodies for people and with those pristine eyes, we will be able to gaze towards Almighty God, and bask in heavenly glory. Never will the people of paradise look at dirty private parts or smear their bodies with filth. It is a place for purity and justice, an abode of cleanliness and worship. If doing disgusting acts with their hands and mouth interests someone, they are free to enter hellfire, where the inmates will suffer in torment and nakedness, and then they can gaze at each other freely and use one another’s face as toilet bowls. Indulging in disgusting and filthy acts cause the light of faith to diminish from the heart, and slowly, Islam leaves that person, and they become ex-Muslim, as I personally had seen many who had become dedicated to destroy Islam. We are not Muslim by choice, rather Allah chooses the purest amongst mankind to enter Paradise.
@ I agree on your opinion but any type of sexual behaviour with your spouses that has not been forbidden in the Quran and sunnah such as anal sex and sexual intercourse during mensturation is halal you do understand this don’t you
@@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke I hadn’t read this long thing, spouse are your wife or husband correct? And God had made sex and all other sexual activities to be allowed with your partners right? What are you guys on?
@@AbdulRehman-o7q7w I pray so Allah gives you proper guidance and forgive you for misleading Muslims into thinking that sex and lust are important part of Religion. Those who watch your video are going to think having sex with their wives is a part of worship, and as a consequence, they will face terrible hardship in this world and the next. If you are the reason for their suffering, then you, as the maker of the video, would also end up suffering like them in black sites, where innocent Muslims are being tortured only because they were framed by non-Muslim mercenaries for fake crimes. Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. We were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of lust
YO YO YO? Why do I think that this is an AI generated video? Not the complete video but from 2:31 Now idk if that's editing or something else, but this looks fishy? Admin, can you provide us with the original video please? Don't mind my criticism, I do not mean anything wrong or negative towards you, I just want to confirm if this video is true. May Allah guide us and keep us safe from fitnah!
I am not an Islamic scholar but it seems your logic is flawed. While it is true that the prophet mentioned fasting rather than masturbation, I don't think that makes it haram because he would have warned about it in that case. So just because it is not a solution does not make it haram but rather makrooh. Again not an islamic scholar but disagree with the logic.
@@The-ZebraFinch-Channel yeah. im 19 and pretty mature, but im not who i want to be yet and feel like i wouldnt be good enough for a relationship as of now mentally. yet way more childish people do the mistake of getting a girlfriend at this age, which 99% ends in a break up. its stupid
Is watching bloody videos not permissible ? Because during my exams i hav to study whole night and when i feel sleepy or bored I relive myself and or watch some bloody videos cuz of adrenaline It make me feel fresh and I continue to study whole night I dont watch bloody vids for fun but rather to mkae me feel fresh and not sleepy
stop watching it immediately, watching gore videos and pictures can make you emotionless my brother/sister its really that harmful please try to stop watching it and just pray that you stop insha’ALLAH i’ll keep you in my prayers.
@@Ricumhot88 yea you can try replacing your habit with something good like you can also change your studying schedule a bit no? like its not compulsory to study only at night
the problem with sheik uthman is he doesnt provide quran or sunnah to prove his claim . over 90 % of people do it yet allah didnt think to make it clear its haram obviously he knew but chose not to mention it
It’s haram, any action for your sexual desire outside of Marriage is mentioned haram in Islam clearly. Allah is most forgiving and these “masturbation” etc sins aren’t mentioned in Hadis which has major sins in it but they are still haram and they probably are minor to medium level sins, I mean my heart says I feel worse if I watch bad things than I listen to music and reason is because watching bad thing probably ranks higher and idk what chat gpt smokes and scale music to be higher than Masturbation in Islam. Could it be non Muslim new trick?
@ Actually the evidences that been presented by Shiekh uthman is not as he thinks We already argued with him about this matter after Shiekh dr Zakir video
his opinion regarding this is widely condemned akhi, most scholars from the greatest ones like Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Abu Hanifa, etc, they all condemn this,
I would advise men to get married at their late twenties or early thirties to prevent divorce. Early marriages always lead to problematic situations especially if u don’t choose the right partner. Don’t rush and get regrets for the rest of your life.
Making something haram isn't for scholars to do, it has to be specified by Allah and His Messenger. Anything that is good is made halal and anything that is bad is made haraam, everything else is a Mercy from Allah and is permitted. The Jews and Christians were made mushriks in 9:31 because they followed their priests and scholars when they made halal what Allah made haram and vice versa.
No, but their job is to clarify what IS haram and halal. It most definitely isn't YOUR job, that's for sure. Stop trying to justify something that is very clearly destructive
Shaykh Al Islam Ibn Taymiyyah rahimahullah mentioned in Iman Al Kabeer for what is Shirk Akbar that they did was obeying the scholar or alim in making permissible that which Allah (Glory be to Him) made prohibited or vice versa with an iti'qad (belief) for example if a scholar comes and says drinking alcohol is halal, and he knows that Allah (Glory be to Him) made it haram in the Quran but he says I believe it is halal just because this Alim told me. The Scholars give their evidence of Masterbation being haram, from the Sunnah "Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Because fasting is harder then masterbation - masterbation can have pleasure inside. So why did the Prophet (sallahualayhiwasalam) tell them to fast, and not masterbate, when masterbation is easier and more pleasurable then fasting? The evidence in the Quran that it is haram is: "And they who guard their private parts Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed -But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors" but the Shaykh already informed you of this.
@@auisfbiuhask6353 and you think they're more capable of making things clear than Allah is? If it IS haram, they wouldn't need to make it clear, that's why no one needs to make it clear that murder or drinking alcohol is haram.
@rxyan3438 the verse "Those who guard their private parts ..." is not evidence against self pleasure, it's evidence against zina. That is why there is a separate verse against homosexuality, otherwise this verse would have applied to that case also but it doesn't. As for fasting, it's not even obligatory to fast in Ramadan if you're travelling or sick. So what about those who cannot fast, what are they supposed to do?
Even if it is, its a minor opinion. Dont fatwa shop and pick and choose the easiest rulings for you to follow. Go with the majority and be honest with yourself.
@72-bit A minor opinion doesn't mean that it is an incorrect opinion. It is a minority opinion of the Hanbalis that one does not have to make up prayers that were intentionally missed. In fact, it is their position that you can't make them up - including fasts. Yet, it is the most correct opinion. The Prophet pbuh said in an authentic hadith: "Those who always follow the majority will surely go astray."
It's interesting how some people talk about getting married as if it's as simple as it was during the Prophet's time. However, our Prophet (peace be upon him) understood human nature deeply. He didn’t declare it outright haram (forbidden) for young people to masterbate. Instead, he provided practical guidance. He advised young people who are unable to marry to fast, as fasting helps reduce the intensity of these desires. The wisdom behind this advice is that fasting can lower the urges and provide self-control. It’s not a complete suppression, but a way to manage these feelings in a healthy and disciplined manner, rather than resorting to actions like masturbation In this explanation, masturbation would likely fall under the category of makrouh (discouraged) rather than haram (forbidden). Haram is explicitly detailed in the Qur'an, and when we don't find something as clearly stated as masturbation being haram, we cannot speculate. Instead, it may be classified as makrouh based on the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) teachings, suggesting that it’s better to exercise self-control over such urges. It’s important to note that haram is a strong word, and there is no distinction like "major" or "minor" haram. Haram is haram-what varies is the ruling and the level of punishment. However, any action deemed haram in the eyes of Allah requires sincere repentance and effort to avoid in the future Corn, on the other hand, is haram. "And do not approach immoralities (fahisha) - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. Indeed, those who earn blame for immorality will be recompensed for what they used to commit." (Surah Al-An'am, 6:151) Corn is among the immoralities that are concealed
Bro its Haram,just because you want carry on pleasuring yourself it doesn't make it halal,and also if you keep doing a Minor sin it becomes a Major Sin,so you're gonna want to think carefully about what you write and say with your tongue, you could be encouraging and misleading other Muslims by writing this stupidness and by the way if other muslims see ur comment and decide to M*A**S**T**U**R**B**A**T**E then you will also receive the sin for that !
Try to read the Quran every day, and try to do ur prayers on time everyday, ask Allah for his help and believe that u won't get over this problem but with the help of Allah swt, plus know that Allah is all-knowing all-seeing, don't u feel ashamed of Allah doing it while he's watching u? If right now i put any person Infront of u, would u masturbate in front of him? Even if i brought u a little kid, u would be ashamed to do it in front of a kid looking at u, now ur not ok doing it in front of normal people, but ur ok doing it in front the Lord of the heavens and earth, the Creator of the universe? Everytime u think about it, remember Allah i watching Lower ur gaze, quit social media for the sake of Allah bcz there are a lot of girls everywhere on social media that can give u bad thoughts, say zeker a lot ( لا اله الا الله استغفر الله واتوب اليه اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد ( God willing u can stop it easily, Ramadan is coming soon, u should stop by then, in fact don't say one more time or anything, after reading my reply make tawakol on Allah and put on ur mind ur never gonna do it again God willing
@Miap65556 even something like scratching to the point of harming yourself becomes haram. Masturbation is evil for many reasons at least one of which is self harm. Even non Muslims understand this. Look up "no fap"
Calling them haram is complete ignorance and complete stupidity. This is a law of nature. According to your belief, it must be allah who does this. Well? Is allah kidding me 🤦♀
What do you mean for “conception purposes”, and “medical purposes”? Are saying that you went to the doctor, and gave them sem£n samples to find out if you are sterile or not? You cannot argue against it being haram, because it is. Some side effects include it being addictive, and is commonly acted upon by consuming p’rn. Both of which are really harmful, reduce productivity, aside from it also being a degenerate act. What is haram, is haram, and there is no arguing against it.
Dear Br. Baaraka Allah feekum for your input. We have to wary though because the kind of medical reason that would allow/justify such in the shariah is very stringent, so it is not just any medical reason. Baaraka Allah feekum @@Miap65556
@Damir-m2j , and as a prophet i do masturbate everyday and its alot of fun but if you wanna really mary, your wife wouldnt accept that, thats why you you quit but i dont want to mary stay alone all propheys were alone and allah does not allow me to mary, i am a servant of allah and prophet
Corn and masturbation addiction is very common nowadays, and the problem is that they are so destructive. To anyone suffering from this addiction never stop trying, do everything you can to get yourself out and you will find the happiness
I can tell anyone how to quit porn I am free from this addiction
@@patel-i4ki need help
... Corn and masturbation ?
*Facepalm* uh, akhi, no.
Don't normalize homosexuality, please.
If you have to masturbate, please don't use corn....
*Laugh* sorry, was a bad joke. But I can't help it...
@@patel-i4kyou should share your tips so the brothers will benefit from it in shaa Allah
What's even worse is that it's actually being encouraged to the youth, as well as normalized. You have people who are married and yet still can't break out their PMO addiction, more than often corn consumption leads to degeneracy as well, it destroys nerves, leads to desensitization and erectile dysfunction. The more you consume the more desensitized you get so you fall into even deeper holes and look for newer categories to satisfy your sexual wants. Can even lead to homosexuality, cuckoldry etc. May Allah protect us all
Im on 50th day with out it, alhamdulillah the urges are starting to fade
because of old age..
@TellTheShadows what! I'm 17, and it's not impossible to stop. Some people quit worse than this, like smoking
@@maamaanka3289 I swear it said "I m 50" you edited the comment didnt you?
@@TellTheShadows I edited "urges" it was uges
@@TellTheShadows Why do you swear so lightly like that? taking swearing more seriously as it's a big mistake to swear and lie
Establish your five times prayer regularly and try to keep clean your mind from dirty thoughts and do zikar in your free time so this is the only way you can get rid of it.
Why did u ever got rid of it or just making things up ?
people automatically equate masturbation to watching corn, and i think thats a big mistake in the way to face this issue. If you separate the two,avoiding corn at all cost and resorting to masturbation if you see its getting too much,you will find that gradually the urge will lessen as time goes and in the end you can rid of the addiction to both. Just make sure you avoid corn no matter what,because thats where the real destruction comes from,and you will find that the abnormal lust will lessen and you will be able to take control of yourself. im speaking from experience and i hope this helps someone who is truggling right now with this.
Well said
"Get married" as if it's a very easy thing to do.
@@raghibnoorbhuiyan not effective (for some people)
im 15.....
WTF marriage has became like impossible now a days while islamic age for marriage is when You get baligh while now's society don't allow. I am so much angry on society the scholars should influence for early marriage
Ikr. Nowadays, considering how expensive it is... bruh 💀
@@Calvin_M. right bro but actually it is'nt that much expensive as now's society believes. There are many solutions to this but scholars are not telling
The problem that the young men are facing today is that,ladies of nowadays dont like a guy without a car or a guy that is renting.
And the family is looking for wealthy people to marry their daughter's of to,so the young men find it very difficult to even marry
and also even if i do marry bro living in the west with rising prices/starting a family is tough esp if i pursue long education, like med school etc. like wtf all the odds are against me. :( may allah guide us
@@Obion408 yes this is the end of time man , it is gonna be so hard , this is our test , a big fitna , but still we can do it we can win
yea were cooked bro, ggs
@@Obion408med school you have to take out riba based loans anyway which IS a major sin
You know this will affect women also because women need the same things men need but whenever marriage becomes expensive, adultery will be very easy.
May Allah help me i have Huge urges at times i don't know what to do
Try you best to get married to a pious woman as soon as you can. May Allah help you and me and all of us
I know it's difficult dear brother, just hang in there. Also, if the urge is too strong, remember that it's Sunnah to pinch your balls and make Du'a to Allah SWT.
Rub it out
Fasting every other day helps reduce the strength of your nafs by more than 50% imo. Also lower your gaze.
However it is better to start next month since fasting in Rajab for someone that hasn't been fasting in the previous months, then it is strongly prohibited.
Put a Quran by your bed. Put a wallpaper on your phone that says “ Allah sees everything “ keep making tawba inshallah you will overcome it.
There are who unfortunately can't get married because of ridiculous tradition's that requires them a fortune to get married or those who are afraid of poverty in other places in the world sadly it's become difcuilt for a muslim to live in this days
In some way the tradition is against the religion itself kinda paradox
@Zerasion- it is people nowdays only think about money and status and how to show off thier wealth in weddings some pepole in my country borrow a lot of money just for the wedding
yeah it's a really sad practice to see parents pressuring their kids to have extravagant weddings just so our relatives know how well-off we are, even if our hands are tied end to end. i really despise the pompous approach to weddings that, especially southeast asian people, have adopted from kuffar weddings. nowadays marriages are not between two people but between two families and everyone's uncle and their brother la hawla wala quwwata may Allah forgive us for our transgressions and guide our Ummah better
i lost my spirits , the ability of imagining things and building deep reflexions in small times , lost the talent of drawing and lost my beautifull arabic handwriting and my vision , i ruined my neurons beause of addiction : all of this because of +18 content and masturbation : i stopped doing it for a long time and alhamdulilah because i'm mentally recovering ! don't loose faith guys everyone should pass from hard times to learn the best way .
Thnx bro it makes sense to fast I have been addicted to this almost 15 years pray for me guys please I tried everything
Going earlier to bed will really help you with this problem!
It’s not that simple… “Get married”
Ya Sheikh… wallah I’m trying to solve my urges by getting married but what can I really do… nobody really seems to get it I’m told to focus on studying and build myself up first… اللهم مستعان … but it’s really unfair how in this day and age halal is blocked off and haram is obviously haram can’t do that.
You get over it by age if not medication to block hormones or something
Build up your Iman by learning about Allah and our religion, and I really recommend your read the Easy Peasy method. It's an online free book which has helped so many people escape this addiction
@@infernozeronityclan5850 Please brother don't be recommending such extreme treatments such as medication to block hormones. Remember the problem does not reside in loving women, but in the addiction to dopamine
Getting married is one way to avoid zina, but Muslims often forget the BEST way, which is fasting. Rasulullah SAW told us to fast if marriage is not possible yet. May Allah make it easy for us.
@@phoque9713 Stop glorifying fasting,during prophets time marriage was easy now people have to wait 10-20 years and fast!it is not the best way,the best way is marraige.
Thanks for sharing 😊🙏🏿
Anybody who has struggled with this and hasn’t been able to stop on their own seek professional help preferably go to a doctor my advice Dont wait until it is too late. understand that if you don’t, then you risk continuing on this habit forever and ruining your Dunya and akhira
Salaam brother Shaykh Ibn Farooq, without devling too much into sins i had done in my past, i have improved vastly, i am trying to get married in a halal way (applied for marriage through mosque's) but in the UK im still finding it very difficult and have still not found a wife or even a candidate, please make Dua for me, May Allah make it easy for all of us Mu'mins trying our best to struggle through our nafs.
Well said Sheikh.
Yeah like marrying at 13 years old is a thing now. We aren't in the past anymore, we can't hold ourselves for 30 years
I can its easy
@ ur either married or you have testosterone issues. Or ur 10 years old
@@itx02 HAHAHAHAHA
@@itx02 True but isn’t fitna of Dajjal worse of all?
There are RUclips videos by Internet Islam scholars saying there's nothing in the hadith and nothing in the Quran about it. Pretty incredible. Fasting or marriage in general is a pretty good solution.
There is on All madhabs agree on it
Prophet said, “I give guarantee Jannat to someone who can give me word that he won’t lie and he will protect his private parts”
Also, prophet said, “Saying bad things is zina of mouth, seeing bad things is zina of eyes, walking to Evil places is zine of legs”
man i cant get married...i gotta pass medical school first..gotta have a job, right now im just fully supported by parents. i dont eat much workout, pray all prayers and tahajjud when i can, yet i still falter. its so so tough to repress it but obv i cant wish to be asexual LOL. may allah make it easy on us.
U can get married and still study, ur putting limits on urself that do no exist, and masturbation is haram u should stop it
@@ehh2874 yeah ur right its very simple. extremely straightforward.
Feel bad for u akhi… in a bit of a similar situation too… studying aviation and I want to get married but nobody is on my side on the his one
Yes it is Haram or Major Sin without any Doubt...
From a married person with 2 kids: Unfortunately marriage is not the ultimate solution (but its anyways the best) cus your wife may not want to be intim with you in the rate you want... Sometimes you wait for months... Its not easy guys... But the paradise is expensive... But its worth❤
I’ll divorce her then
@@howtodoit4204 with 2 little kids, its not so easy. easy to say but not easy to get through... you dont want your kids to say to another dude daddy
yeah man just get married, very simple. i have a house and above average income and still find it impossible
Brother without trying it will always be impossible..remember the story of yusuf akhi get involved ask ppl family members
@@taimurahmad you're very right actually, I can't expect an outcome if i don't try hard enough but I genuinely don't have any family members to ask. and there are no communities for me to get involved in. thanks a bunch though
@@taimurahmadthis is true even outside of porn addiction. If you can't help yourself you're not going anywhere
If you have a house and above average income and still can’t get a wife then I am beyond cooked. Gg might have to get neutered at this point
And after you get married, your wife doesn't have to serve your manly needs and she can freely divorse you and take half your house when she feels like it. Great deal huh?
May Allah help me, i just feel so lost and tried to much times and failed 😢 i am unsure how to control myself
Keep yourself busy, don't be alone be with your family members and go outside it will help you
Use medication
Hey brother I would suggest making Wudu with cold water every time you have the urge to do it. And even if you have the urges again keeping making wudu.
Pray your 5 daily prayer on time
Read quran and at least hear some of quran when sleep
Je suis très lassé de cette vie, enfance difficile, responsabilités, j’ai fais que des métiers épuisants. Aujourd’hui à 37 ans après tant de soucis de santé, la pauvreté, la trahison je veux juste me reposer et prendre soin de ma petite maman. Mon père nous a quitté Allah yerehmou voici même pas un an et là on apprend que ma mère est très malade, j’ai même peur de perdre ma foi alors que Allah seul sait que je l’aime! Que ma foi est ma paix mon bonheur et mon espoir! J’ai peur j’ai très peur! J’ai personne à part ma mère, depuis l’enfance j’ai compris que mes deux familles paternelles et maternelles sont les diables des humains sans cœur, sans miséricorde. D’ailleurs ma mère a travaillé toute sa vie elle est la meilleure maman au monde et je ne saurai vraiment pas vivre sans elle ni la voir souffrir, elle est jeune et pourrait encore vivre trente années bi idhn Allah sobhenou, w Allah j’étouffe de tristesse et de peine! Je suis exténuée d’être sur cette terre extrêmement triste et perdu
Brother it's dunya no one will lives forever you are 37 mashallah our parents can leave us any moment and we can go before them الاعمار بيد الله , your father is in janna inchallah and may allah give Chifaa to your mother but please don't be sad it's مشيئة الله we all are from him and we will remain to him
They make marriage so complicated where i live, if i could i would of got married at 18
Then fast instead
it might be a minor sin but it saves me from major sins.
Or depending on who you ask it may not be prohibited.
I heard your answer about getting married but I've been wanting a wife my whole life, and has absolutely tormented me not having a wife, there is a woman named Jennifer out there that I love and care about and she's doing haram and I want to save her, I know I can. Please pray for me
Brother, you can't save a person if they don't even put effort on saving themselves first. Even Allah says something similar in the Quran.
_“Verily, Allah will not change the (good) condition of a people as long as they do not change what is within themselves”_ *[al-Ra'd **13:11**]*
May Allah (سبحانه وتعالى) make it easy for you, and all of us.
If she's not Muslim stay away from her, it's encouraged to get engaged to a gd pious and believing woman, not a woman looking to do haram, if this woman ur speaking of is not scared of Allah and not obeying him what makes u think she will listen to u? Go look for a gd wife and change ur mindset, plus interaction with the opposite sexe is not that easy in islam if the woman is not mahram, u can't touch her, u can't make sexual jokes, and even joking around them is bad, what is ur plan
Focus on yourself my brother
sadly when he say "go get married" it kind its not ez now days ... marriage also its not a game it hase resposability financially and mentaly
well said Sheikh
Yes it’s haram but not worse than Zina. I would never touch a woman until I get married but if I don’t free myself from the temptation I’ll fall in Zina. Please my brothers and sisters make Dua for me to get married. Please 🙏
It's all about psychology
And it's not a big problem
I guess that's how shaitan mislead us.
Always think what about if someone uses your sister or mother, u will think twice before ur thinking to engage Zina
How do you know it's not worse than Zina? It's still inappropriate, forbidden sexual acts,... Don't try to make ok in any way. Avoid it! Allah knows best
Don't make it seem like it's ok to masturbate, it's haram, and btw, there is a hadith of the prophet ص that says even small sins if u insist on them they become major sins so don't act like ur doing fine, ask Allah swt for help and quit this haram behaviour, it's not up to u to say which is fine and which is not, no haram is not fine
The level of unrealism in these fatwas is just insane for modern life.
Sahabas used to get married at 15 years old.
Men nowadays marry at 30 and more.
You're pretending as if fasting is a solution. How long should a man fast? 1? 2? 3? 10 years?
Ya fr I didn't get this either I'm 27 prolly realistically going to get married in 3 maybe 4 or so years assuming I can navigate my career schooling and all to barely support a family. Fasting like for how many years??
In Surah Al-Mu'minun (23:5-7), the Qur'an says:
"And they who guard their chastity,
Except with their wives or those their right hands possess, for then they are not to be blamed,
But whoever seeks beyond that - then they are the transgressors."
My right hand is mine...
Can someone mention a passage in the Qur'an that says it's not permissible? Remember, we follow the word of ALLAH only.
!!!!! Dude the “Right hand Possess” Means the Slaves of War or People Before Islam who Already Owned Slaves. Not your RIGHT HAND 😂
But , brother fast is over after Maghrib prayer which is around 5:30pm and 6:30 pm around the year ,
And these urges occur mostly at night
So fasting is not a real solution
First,Do a promise with your self that you will not do this and if you did it so you will give kaffarah like a bug amount of cash as sadaqah and by keeping this promise in your mind that you will have to pay the kaffarah with the cash you will not do it and think about doing it hundred times ,
The second most important tip is to start self improvement, exercising, meditating,etc.
The 3rd tip is to start praying when these waswasaas hit. you.
guys if its haram, then why i cant fall asleep at night. Everytime i retain my seed, im still awake till 4 am. Thats my only concern.
Masturbation doesn't help you to fall asleep.
Its probably a habit in your nighttime routine.
try to sleep early like around 9pm everyday, dont use any device 1 hour before bed, you could also read books or do any task that doesn't require screentime, Insha'Allah it may help you.
Appreciate ur advises to me my friends. Hopefully we all succeed in this journey. Peace and Blessings.
@@RENZBENEDICTUMALIthe level of haram not even equal to zina with other person but its still consider as haram. Because intercourse in islam only can be done with halal partner (wife/husband).
Try find positive activity, listen lectures etc.
Its hard full of temptation
Am sorry to say but committing Zina has become way easier than marriage this days. Am not saying it’s ok but no one can really get married easily. Sometimes I wonder what’s the solution in a world where marriage becomes almost impossible. Do we just start fasting for the rest of our life or what?
Truth
so are we supposed to fast half of our lifetime then, may Allah help us
When the Prophet (S) was asked by his companions if they could castrate themselves, he also gave them another option, Mut’ah (temporary marriage). Something that Shi’as get attacked for on a daily basis
Stop lying,It was only halal for a specific time period and then made haram,Hadrat Ali himself is part of that hadiths isnad!
@@TellTheShadows nah buddy, Omar made it haram, it is halal and it is even in the Quran, what Omar decided to change what God allowed in the Quran? What a joke
@@ehh2874 stop lying! prophet himself made it haram! dont you know what "hadith" is?
@@ehh2874go ahead do me a favor and show where it says it’s halal in the Quran
@@Sickpack3360 "فَمَا اسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِ مِنْهُنَّ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً" (surah al-nisa' ayah 24)
و قال عمران بن حصين : نزلت آية المتعة في كتاب اللّه ففعلناها مع رسول اللّه ـ صلَّى الله عليه و آله و سلَّم ـ و لم ينزل قرآن يحرمه ،و لم ينه عنها حتّى مات ، قال رجل برأيه ما شاء ، ( صحيح البخاري : 6 / 33 ) .
When the Prophet said what to do in that moment he told them to fast but not saying anything about the prohibition of masturbation?
at the beginning isnt the last qoute saying lighayr haajah (لغير) wouldnt that mean "its haram, without neccesity"? im asking,
easier said than done to say just get married tho
but ya chaikh i can't get married in this generation (mentality_ divorce _ cheating ......)
"just get married" unfortunately nowadays to get married you need to have Elon Musk's wealth
*We need to stop glorifying fasting!!*
yes it is a solution but during prophet's time nikah was easier but now many of us have to wait till 10-20 years and fast! do you really expect a normal person to fast for that long and not be hurt psychologically/mentally/emotionally from sexual repression? We as ummah need to make nikah easier and stop pretending that just by fasting a person is protected (from Haram)
Hold on brother!!!
Fasting need to be glorified.....but some people do not have the ability to understand the nuance
On masturbation...the appropriate verdict is that it's not haram....but not encouraged.....used as an emergency option
@@humaidahnnooman no,it has been over glorified,rather then actually helping someone in marriage people keep on saying "control yourself!fast!" nowadays people have to wait 10-20 years to get married!this is dhulm!
@@humaidahnnooman no,it has been over glorified,rather then actually helping someone in marriage people keep on saying "control yourself!fast!" nowadays people have to wait 10-20 years to get married!this is dhulm!
What tha, literally Fasting is so good also for the afterlife and actually it's proven that it is good for you're body, i understand you're point but still we need to more glorify Fasting TAKBIR
@Rejan813 no i meant it is "over glorified" to control urges,it is glorified which is good but people are "over glorifying" it MORE THAN MARRIAGE.
The title is misleading because masturbation is haram when it is done by oneself with or without watching pornography but it is completely halal when doing masturbation with your spouse(s) during intimacy and allah SWT will reward the couple but as for a non married Muslim man it’s haram to masturbate please comment if I am wrong
It is totally forbidden, regardless with whom it is done...Even looking at private parts is not permissible because the prophet never did it, and again, one ignorant person can argue that it must be permitted, because we use hands to pray etc. But believe me, the eyes you have today are going to be gone on after death, as all body parts will decay and worms will be crawling from this flesh. Once we are in paradise, Allah will fashion new and clean bodies for people and with those pristine eyes, we will be able to gaze towards Almighty God, and bask in heavenly glory. Never will the people of paradise look at dirty private parts or smear their bodies with filth. It is a place for purity and justice, an abode of cleanliness and worship. If doing disgusting acts with their hands and mouth interests someone, they are free to enter hellfire, where the inmates will suffer in torment and nakedness, and then they can gaze at each other freely and use one another’s face as toilet bowls. Indulging in disgusting and filthy acts cause the light of faith to diminish from the heart, and slowly, Islam leaves that person, and they become ex-Muslim, as I personally had seen many who had become dedicated to destroy Islam. We are not Muslim by choice, rather Allah chooses the purest amongst mankind to enter Paradise.
@ I agree on your opinion but any type of sexual behaviour with your spouses that has not been forbidden in the Quran and sunnah such as anal sex and sexual intercourse during mensturation is halal you do understand this don’t you
@ma4_life305anal is forbidden what are u talking about
@@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke I hadn’t read this long thing, spouse are your wife or husband correct? And God had made sex and all other sexual activities to be allowed with your partners right? What are you guys on?
@@AbdulRehman-o7q7w I pray so Allah gives you proper guidance and forgive you for misleading Muslims into thinking that sex and lust are important part of Religion. Those who watch your video are going to think having sex with their wives is a part of worship, and as a consequence, they will face terrible hardship in this world and the next. If you are the reason for their suffering, then you, as the maker of the video, would also end up suffering like them in black sites, where innocent Muslims are being tortured only because they were framed by non-Muslim mercenaries for fake crimes.
Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. We were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of lust
I dont really like those who are married talks abaut how masturmation is haram its just 😶
YO YO YO? Why do I think that this is an AI generated video? Not the complete video but from 2:31
Now idk if that's editing or something else, but this looks fishy?
Admin, can you provide us with the original video please? Don't mind my criticism, I do not mean anything wrong or negative towards you, I just want to confirm if this video is true.
May Allah guide us and keep us safe from fitnah!
that was the part where he mentioned Dr. Zakir Naik. I cut it because it wasn't relevant.
How come Dr. Zakeer naik say not haram better to prevent
He’s not someone to take advise from
Same reason why Sheikh Uthman said it in this video, To prevent you from falling into a major sin. (Zina)
It is haram
Which dua is powerful tauba, please reply
For tawba u mean?
I really want to marry if only i had the money right now
If a wife or a husband do the masturbation to each other, is that haram then?
Its not considered masterbation of ur husband or wife does it
God had allowed intercourse and sex for Wife and you can marry 4 at one time
I am not an Islamic scholar but it seems your logic is flawed. While it is true that the prophet mentioned fasting rather than masturbation, I don't think that makes it haram because he would have warned about it in that case. So just because it is not a solution does not make it haram but rather makrooh. Again not an islamic scholar but disagree with the logic.
ALLAHU AKBAR
Allahu Akbar
What about being able to provide for wife and kids? Education takes years and years bro. "just" get married huh.
Even if it is a minor when it is repeated too many times it become a major sin
Only one solution Marry at Early age
very third world solution.
Most people less than 20 aren’t ready.
@@The-ZebraFinch-Channel yeah. im 19 and pretty mature, but im not who i want to be yet and feel like i wouldnt be good enough for a relationship as of now mentally. yet way more childish people do the mistake of getting a girlfriend at this age, which 99% ends in a break up. its stupid
Miracles of The Qur'an:
Linguistic Miracles (English) : ruclips.net/video/NNLxGcxuU-c/видео.html&pp=iAQB
What is this?
Heresy. Jesus is the only way
If it was ok for Haniyeh and his bodyguard, I guess it’s ok 😂😂😂😂😂
He can even read Arabic properly
May allah forgave me
Masturbation is haram! Simple
And yet we all did it. Human nature
RABBI ZIDNI ILMA
Is watching bloody videos not permissible ? Because during my exams i hav to study whole night and when i feel sleepy or bored I relive myself and or watch some bloody videos cuz of adrenaline
It make me feel fresh and I continue to study whole night
I dont watch bloody vids for fun but rather to mkae me feel fresh and not sleepy
Brother you’re gonna eventually be desensitized to gore . Stop . Get some help.
stop watching it immediately, watching gore videos and pictures can make you emotionless my brother/sister its really that harmful
please try to stop watching it and just pray that you stop
insha’ALLAH i’ll keep you in my prayers.
@@batmanop2324 ok brother
Being honest i only do that for exams
And i hav exams like 2 times in whole year
But still i will try not to watch
@@Ricumhot88 yea you can try replacing your habit with something good like you can also change your studying schedule a bit no? like its not compulsory to study only at night
the problem with sheik uthman is he doesnt provide quran or sunnah to prove his claim . over 90 % of people do it yet allah didnt think to make it clear its haram obviously he knew but chose not to mention it
It’s haram, any action for your sexual desire outside of Marriage is mentioned haram in Islam clearly. Allah is most forgiving and these “masturbation” etc sins aren’t mentioned in Hadis which has major sins in it but they are still haram and they probably are minor to medium level sins, I mean my heart says I feel worse if I watch bad things than I listen to music and reason is because watching bad thing probably ranks higher and idk what chat gpt smokes and scale music to be higher than Masturbation in Islam. Could it be non Muslim new trick?
I believe Shiekh dr Zakir has more solid evidences
More solid evidence than authentic hadith, 4 madhabs, scholars of tafseer and of our generation?
@
Actually the evidences that been presented by Shiekh uthman is not as he thinks
We already argued with him about this matter after Shiekh dr Zakir video
@@essa200911 brother masturbation is haram and it was well explained by sheikh Uthman I don’t know what the issue is
@@raulrahaman9863
There is more to this objective than you think
It is makroh and we discussed with the Shiekh this before
@@essa200911So it is not haram and can be done by someone to their hearts content?
Ya Allah
Dr Zakir Naik disagrees with you
his opinion regarding this is widely condemned akhi, most scholars from the greatest ones like Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Abu Hanifa, etc, they all condemn this,
I would advise men to get married at their late twenties or early thirties to prevent divorce. Early marriages always lead to problematic situations especially if u don’t choose the right partner. Don’t rush and get regrets for the rest of your life.
This guy is not a sheikh
this video is ai generated trust me i watched whole video i can see many things are wrong
it's not! the full video is on the Masjid Ribat channel. Strange many people think it's ai...😂
@@MoreDawaah dude its ai generated on god i saw soo many errors espicially his face and hands
@@MysterioniteMaybe he has Enhanced the Video Quality with AI it’s Very Common for Video Editors Nowadays.
@@Anti_degenerate even if the video quality is bad atleast we can hear his voice
Making something haram isn't for scholars to do, it has to be specified by Allah and His Messenger. Anything that is good is made halal and anything that is bad is made haraam, everything else is a Mercy from Allah and is permitted. The Jews and Christians were made mushriks in 9:31 because they followed their priests and scholars when they made halal what Allah made haram and vice versa.
No, but their job is to clarify what IS haram and halal. It most definitely isn't YOUR job, that's for sure. Stop trying to justify something that is very clearly destructive
Shaykh Al Islam Ibn Taymiyyah rahimahullah mentioned in Iman Al Kabeer for what is Shirk Akbar that they did was obeying the scholar or alim in making permissible that which Allah (Glory be to Him) made prohibited or vice versa with an iti'qad (belief) for example if a scholar comes and says drinking alcohol is halal, and he knows that Allah (Glory be to Him) made it haram in the Quran but he says I believe it is halal just because this Alim told me.
The Scholars give their evidence of Masterbation being haram,
from the Sunnah "Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Because fasting is harder then masterbation - masterbation can have pleasure inside. So why did the Prophet (sallahualayhiwasalam) tell them to fast, and not masterbate, when masterbation is easier and more pleasurable then fasting?
The evidence in the Quran that it is haram is:
"And they who guard their private parts Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed -But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors"
but the Shaykh already informed you of this.
@@auisfbiuhask6353 and you think they're more capable of making things clear than Allah is?
If it IS haram, they wouldn't need to make it clear, that's why no one needs to make it clear that murder or drinking alcohol is haram.
@rxyan3438 the verse "Those who guard their private parts ..." is not evidence against self pleasure, it's evidence against zina. That is why there is a separate verse against homosexuality, otherwise this verse would have applied to that case also but it doesn't.
As for fasting, it's not even obligatory to fast in Ramadan if you're travelling or sick. So what about those who cannot fast, what are they supposed to do?
@@SabeerAbdullaagreed plenty of verses in the Quran says people have taken their scholars and leaders above god
I heard before there is a opinion in the hanbali madhab it’s permissible
Yes, it is one of the opinions that it's Makrooh. The standard opinion of the 4 Madhaahib is that it's Haram.
Even if it is, its a minor opinion. Dont fatwa shop and pick and choose the easiest rulings for you to follow. Go with the majority and be honest with yourself.
@72-bit A minor opinion doesn't mean that it is an incorrect opinion. It is a minority opinion of the Hanbalis that one does not have to make up prayers that were intentionally missed. In fact, it is their position that you can't make them up - including fasts. Yet, it is the most correct opinion. The Prophet pbuh said in an authentic hadith: "Those who always follow the majority will surely go astray."
Did the rich saudis pay them to say that? Even Christians would consider masturbation to be haram
@@infernozeronityclan5850 spreading fitna I see
It's interesting how some people talk about getting married as if it's as simple as it was during the Prophet's time. However, our Prophet (peace be upon him) understood human nature deeply. He didn’t declare it outright haram (forbidden) for young people to masterbate. Instead, he provided practical guidance. He advised young people who are unable to marry to fast, as fasting helps reduce the intensity of these desires. The wisdom behind this advice is that fasting can lower the urges and provide self-control. It’s not a complete suppression, but a way to manage these feelings in a healthy and disciplined manner, rather than resorting to actions like masturbation
In this explanation, masturbation would likely fall under the category of makrouh (discouraged) rather than haram (forbidden). Haram is explicitly detailed in the Qur'an, and when we don't find something as clearly stated as masturbation being haram, we cannot speculate. Instead, it may be classified as makrouh based on the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) teachings, suggesting that it’s better to exercise self-control over such urges.
It’s important to note that haram is a strong word, and there is no distinction like "major" or "minor" haram. Haram is haram-what varies is the ruling and the level of punishment. However, any action deemed haram in the eyes of Allah requires sincere repentance and effort to avoid in the future
Corn, on the other hand, is haram.
"And do not approach immoralities (fahisha) - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. Indeed, those who earn blame for immorality will be recompensed for what they used to commit."
(Surah Al-An'am, 6:151)
Corn is among the immoralities that are concealed
I suggest our dear brother shaikh Othman bin Farooq to just concentrate on dawah and not on the masael of fiqh.
Why not?
@@pyrodellic لا أدري
Minor sin. Nyet. It's halal
Proof?
@@infernozeronityclan5850 it isn't stop spreading misinformation
Bro its Haram,just because you want carry on pleasuring yourself it doesn't make it halal,and also if you keep doing a Minor sin it becomes a Major Sin,so you're gonna want to think carefully about what you write and say with your tongue, you could be encouraging and misleading other Muslims by writing this stupidness and by the way if other muslims see ur comment and decide to M*A**S**T**U**R**B**A**T**E then you will also receive the sin for that !
@@aayantariq2536 He saw it in a dream
It's haram
Been addicted to p0rn and still struggle with this Drug
bruh i pray all time still stuck into this shit
@@Eren-Ereinna me too bro it takes away my happiness for life
facts bro ugh
Try to read the Quran every day, and try to do ur prayers on time everyday, ask Allah for his help and believe that u won't get over this problem but with the help of Allah swt, plus know that Allah is all-knowing all-seeing, don't u feel ashamed of Allah doing it while he's watching u? If right now i put any person Infront of u, would u masturbate in front of him? Even if i brought u a little kid, u would be ashamed to do it in front of a kid looking at u, now ur not ok doing it in front of normal people, but ur ok doing it in front the Lord of the heavens and earth, the Creator of the universe? Everytime u think about it, remember Allah i watching
Lower ur gaze, quit social media for the sake of Allah bcz there are a lot of girls everywhere on social media that can give u bad thoughts, say zeker a lot ( لا اله الا الله
استغفر الله واتوب اليه
اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد
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God willing u can stop it easily, Ramadan is coming soon, u should stop by then, in fact don't say one more time or anything, after reading my reply make tawakol on Allah and put on ur mind ur never gonna do it again God willing
So when I have an itch I shouldn't scratch it❓
Please go ahead and scratch till you get bruises, nobody has stopped you from scratching. It's just the masturbation that is not allowed.
@Miap65556 even something like scratching to the point of harming yourself becomes haram. Masturbation is evil for many reasons at least one of which is self harm. Even non Muslims understand this. Look up "no fap"
You should
No, don't touch it. Use a cheese grater instead
@hyderally8045
I might go to a Sheikh for relief...😂😂😂
Calling them haram is complete ignorance and complete stupidity. This is a law of nature. According to your belief, it must be allah who does this. Well? Is allah kidding me 🤦♀
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for conception purpose i had to produce semen for medical purposes. So this is bs
Medical reasons are excused...
Wallaahu A'alam...
"Oh I did it therefore anyone who speaks against it is wrong" ummm what? 😂
What do you mean for “conception purposes”, and “medical purposes”? Are saying that you went to the doctor, and gave them sem£n samples to find out if you are sterile or not? You cannot argue against it being haram, because it is. Some side effects include it being addictive, and is commonly acted upon by consuming p’rn. Both of which are really harmful, reduce productivity, aside from it also being a degenerate act. What is haram, is haram, and there is no arguing against it.
Dear Br. Baaraka Allah feekum for your input. We have to wary though because the kind of medical reason that would allow/justify such in the shariah is very stringent, so it is not just any medical reason. Baaraka Allah feekum @@Miap65556
What type of logic is this
its not haram, i am a prophet of allah and getting massages
You are not a prophet
@Damir-m2j , some claim i am the devil or possessed by demons, nope i hear the voice of allah and he still punishing me
@Damir-m2j , and as a prophet i do masturbate everyday and its alot of fun but if you wanna really mary, your wife wouldnt accept that, thats why you you quit but i dont want to mary stay alone all propheys were alone and allah does not allow me to mary, i am a servant of allah and prophet
massages? anyway, if Allaah is punishing you we don't wanna hear u, get a job
@@Damir-m2jjust ignore him
dont marryy for such things until and unless u r ready as a person and financialy
real
NO IT IS NOT IT SHOULDN'T EVEN BE MENTIONED
What a load of crap this guy is talking
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