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  • @Stassis
    @Stassis Месяц назад +152

    Feminism deconstructs and then reconstructs a woman into a man.

    • @user-ot8we3xk9p
      @user-ot8we3xk9p Месяц назад +15

      true, it's gross

    • @bgrego88
      @bgrego88 Месяц назад +15

      Yep it's why they are unhappy.
      Trying to be something you can never be while competing against the rhino you can never be. While having a biological/instinctual desire to be with the thing you can never be.
      It's a recipe for disaster

    • @VaronPlateando
      @VaronPlateando Месяц назад

      no - as self-respecting gent, I’d refute that. in ideologically poisoning whatever wells in reach, they merely fuel incoherence, illoyalty, obnoxiousness and repellent expressions of xx.ine being. masculinity were a positive quality being created ex nihilo. which ist totally out of reach of xx.inism (either).

    • @jarkachalmovianska7812
      @jarkachalmovianska7812 Месяц назад

      If the men would not ve avusing women and would treat them as they deserce for bringing children into the world, risking their lives, taking acre of everybody, then maybe women would not need to behave as men

    • @Sako-85_308
      @Sako-85_308 Месяц назад +1

      And accepts a man as a woman until the point where the best woman for the job is a man.

  • @cniht
    @cniht Месяц назад +205

    This is why one of the most important virtues parents instilled in their daughters historically was humility.

    • @christopheramaro333
      @christopheramaro333 Месяц назад +11

      lots of dads screwing up.
      one can say moms. yes.
      I'm talking about scenarios where Dad and mom are under the same roof and Dad isn't putting that foot down

    • @anthonyd499
      @anthonyd499 Месяц назад +6

      @christopheramaro333 He could, but at his own peril of getting ostracized by society, and get absolutely humiliated in court. Even a prenuptial won't help, because it was signed "under duress". Men are "strong" in the sense that they have self-sacrifice and self-disposability conditioned by society at a young age, but they are not Messiah. Mortals shouldn't be expected to be divine.

    • @stefanmatton8778
      @stefanmatton8778 Месяц назад

      ​@@christopheramaro333 oh look a male feminist that subscribes to the same mentality as his female cohorts. Pander to women and blame men for everything

    • @christopheramaro333
      @christopheramaro333 Месяц назад +2

      @@anthonyd499 I don't disagree with you in the bigger picture ... I do feel that society doesn't know squat when it comes to the individual's home which is where the foot being put down happens...

    • @perieven6357
      @perieven6357 Месяц назад

      Yes , historically. But women are leaving that behind, thanks to feminism. This is a revolution comparable to the abolishment of slavery, and most men are realising it with 50 years lateness... ... and some are hating it. 'Cause they have a lot to lose...

  • @georgeelder8415
    @georgeelder8415 Месяц назад +107

    Pride came before a fall...

    • @unclevasya332
      @unclevasya332 Месяц назад +13

      “Pride comes before the Wall” - updated for the 2020s

    • @johnsmith1034
      @johnsmith1034 Месяц назад +7

      Twice the pride, double the fall

    • @tristanwall4634
      @tristanwall4634 Месяц назад +1

      “the apple. . .”

  • @leeolie3728
    @leeolie3728 Месяц назад +33

    Basically, their training “k!lls my vibe”

  • @firsthelix6726
    @firsthelix6726 Месяц назад +8

    This is what happens when you try to over-intellectualize social dynamics between genders: it sounds profound but it‘s actually just stupid…

    • @georgedaviotis3016
      @georgedaviotis3016 Месяц назад +2

      Actually it’s not profound at all, he is simply describing human behaviour. It’s only profound if you lack the intelligence or patience to understand it

    • @firsthelix6726
      @firsthelix6726 Месяц назад

      @@georgedaviotis3016Humm… do you reflect the case you just described?

    • @snicker12
      @snicker12 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@firsthelix6726- George is right; This pride causing women (and men) to fall is seen throughout history in all cultures across time.

    • @firsthelix6726
      @firsthelix6726 Месяц назад

      @@snicker12 Neither his nor your comment make sense, are you twins? People in general lack intelligence if they reply something that doesn’t refer to the post they are referring to. or with other words, they miss the point. People with reading and comprehension abilities clearly have an edge in life…

  • @AmarachiAlaegbu
    @AmarachiAlaegbu Месяц назад +11

    Humility is not just a trait for women.
    Men also need it to have a good relationship

    • @shedparker
      @shedparker Месяц назад +3

      He clearly asked about “women’s greatest enemy.” Never fails, I swear.

    • @user-qx2ec7oe9p
      @user-qx2ec7oe9p Месяц назад

      It's called narcism.... It's really an epidemic. Any criticism at all is deflected.​@@shedparker

  • @leeolie3728
    @leeolie3728 Месяц назад +51

    Hostility and rebellion towards masculinity is not cute, despite what modern films like When Harry Met Sally espouse.

  • @MrArdytube
    @MrArdytube Месяц назад +1

    A less economic framing might be that … everyone has needs and expectations. In many ways Feminism excludes consideration of male needs and expectations… while at the same time setting up an unrealistically high bar to satisfy their own expectations.

  • @alexisgrace8218
    @alexisgrace8218 Месяц назад +25

    Damn this man is good.

  • @lemurpotatoes7988
    @lemurpotatoes7988 Месяц назад +11

    Should say "proscribes"

    • @unclevasya332
      @unclevasya332 Месяц назад +1

      That’s what I heard.

    • @hpholland
      @hpholland Месяц назад

      Feminism is not a doctor 😂

  • @zozozizi6688
    @zozozizi6688 Месяц назад +28

    Lucifer has fallen because of Pride.
    Pride is one of the 7 deadly Sins.

    • @pyootchnich
      @pyootchnich Месяц назад +5

      It’s a fairytale, but the message is correct.

    • @willhartman300
      @willhartman300 Месяц назад +1

      @@pyootchnich Thanks for the final and conclusive pronouncement on all religious practices there, Mr. God Complex.

    • @pyootchnich
      @pyootchnich Месяц назад

      @@willhartman300 I am merely an animal, like all the others on this rock. Like a blade of grass or a bear or a giraffe or a mealworm, I was born, I age, then I will fall down and turn to dust.
      You, based on your response, believe God hears your prayers, and when you die, YOU will have an everlasting place reserved in Paradise. Maybe YOU are the one with a God complex?

  • @williamgill_esq.6487
    @williamgill_esq.6487 Месяц назад +3

    You do not even have to mention the issue of Feminism to discuss/mention/point out what is all women’s greatest problem and flaw: pride and egoism.

  • @xxChacaronXX
    @xxChacaronXX Месяц назад +1

    I’d also say that always having our and options is actually a bad thing. As soon as it gets tough they look for their next Prince Charming.

  • @Madhuwellness
    @Madhuwellness Месяц назад +1

    Pride & self respect there is very thin line between these 2.

  • @kimlawson9869
    @kimlawson9869 Месяц назад

    Male creepiness and entitlement sure does kill that vibe😊

  • @griffinwagner8577
    @griffinwagner8577 Месяц назад +4

    Please tell me men's greatest enemy

  • @caucasianafrican1435
    @caucasianafrican1435 Месяц назад +1

    In a word, Feminism.

  • @ErickSande-hb1kd
    @ErickSande-hb1kd Месяц назад

    They didn't see that one coming 😂

  • @ak205
    @ak205 Месяц назад +3

    Yeah it really is that simple.
    Again, it’s a damn shame that only guys are the people who watch videos to learn… try telling this to a feminist woman 😂

    • @keithleung4854
      @keithleung4854 Месяц назад +1

      Sorry sir, I suppose woman hardly learn new concepts after they become 20.
      You ask them to learn along the way of lifes? I doubt if there will be some female take that up, especially it does not make them feel happy .

    • @Liluli13
      @Liluli13 Месяц назад +2

      @ak205 ok but do you also watch videos about the flaws of men and how to eventually improve? Or is it mostly about the downsides of women and how THEY should change for the better ;)? Just interested because i have the impression there are a lot of men on this channel who have a bit of a hate for women and blame them for every little bit 🤔 but please correct me if i'm wrong...

  • @thomasaanderson12455
    @thomasaanderson12455 Месяц назад

    The wall

  • @Sako-85_308
    @Sako-85_308 Месяц назад +4

    Well that didn't make sense.

    • @bambooqueue9093
      @bambooqueue9093 Месяц назад +2

      A lot of holes in this short clip. Would probably have to watch the whole thing to get context which is lacking in this clip.

  • @khemaloving4031
    @khemaloving4031 Месяц назад +1

    Is modesty considered pride?

    • @stefanmatton8778
      @stefanmatton8778 Месяц назад +5

      Pride is externally projecting an overconflated sense of self worth. Modesty is understanding your worth & being happy with not having to broadcast it to every for the sake of validation

  • @WilliamGLewis-yt9fw
    @WilliamGLewis-yt9fw Месяц назад

    Link to this full interview?

    • @IfSemper
      @IfSemper Месяц назад +3

      Under this channel's "Community" tab. Interview with Eric Siu.

    • @WilliamGLewis-yt9fw
      @WilliamGLewis-yt9fw Месяц назад +1

      @@IfSemper thnaks

  • @shannonbarnes2791
    @shannonbarnes2791 Месяц назад

    Red pill

  • @freebatman
    @freebatman Месяц назад

    احد يترجملي ماذا قال لم افهم

    • @mreese8764
      @mreese8764 Месяц назад

      He essentially said that women pridefully stick to the wrong values, depriving men from what they want in a relationship, in turn depriving women from these relationships.

  • @delenthiairby9156
    @delenthiairby9156 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @firsthelix6726
    @firsthelix6726 Месяц назад

    Dude asks about the biggest enemy of women, and Tabaran‘s answer relates to sexual relationships and an imaginary sexual marketplace. Where does your professional mind go, Dr. Taraban? 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @wandah9468
    @wandah9468 Месяц назад +3

    Yep, pride is a real liability. Now go tell that to the men. If i cant have any pride, nobody else can have it either.

    • @obviouslyasockpuppet
      @obviouslyasockpuppet Месяц назад +5

      This comment in itself is filled with pride.

    • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
      @AleishaJones-ek1mi Месяц назад +2

      Yes ma'am! I think hack boy is projecting onto the ladies. What are these dudes mostly known for and held back by? Their ego. 😆

    • @joepharmasst
      @joepharmasst Месяц назад +1

      What a surprise. Another complaining woman.

    • @Liluli13
      @Liluli13 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@joepharmasstwhat a surprise, another blaming man ;)..

  • @sshizas6986
    @sshizas6986 Месяц назад +4

    This does not make sense, "... the things that ideological feminism prescribe...". It makes more sense if the subtitles instead state the things that ideological feminism proscribe...".

    • @obviouslyasockpuppet
      @obviouslyasockpuppet Месяц назад

      Yes. That's what he meant. Proscribe not prescribe. They have a mentality that if men like it, it is sexist and if men dislike it, it is empowering.

  • @John3v8
    @John3v8 Месяц назад +5

    Nope, it's an abusive man.

  • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
    @AleishaJones-ek1mi Месяц назад +5

    Being a virgin is the biggest way of saying NO to males. I'm a fan of the word NO because you say YES to yourself. Hardly any males are worthy of women and too many of them have been given women's gates of life. Women need to own their virginity, not for male validation, but for their own sovereignty. Women who aren't maidens can still choose to pull back and be celibate and take their crown back. Many great goddesses from various cultures were maidens. Artemis, Diana, Hekate, etc. Virgin Mary, Catherine of Alexandria, Joan of Arc were great maidens standing for God/the divine. We aren't validated by males, we're validated by God. Blessed be to all maidens, mothers, crones. We are forever, the circle has no end. 🌒🌕🌘

    • @bgrego88
      @bgrego88 Месяц назад

      I have to disagree.... I understand and respect a virgins decision to be a maiden. I also would never suggest otherwise if that is her choice. My continuing lies in a woman's fulfilment and instincts. Women/Men derive fulfilment from relationships w/ the other. To have kids sex is required as well as to have a relationship with the other gender sex is required. When I say required i mean it in the reproductive sense but also in the natural sense, as a sexless relationship grates on either party. I respect Joan of arc Virgin Mary but most women aren't that level of important. A women vaunting her virginity over all else is a dead end in all senses if a women doesn't become a mother n hopefully a wife she cuts off half of her utility. And why does she do this because of a woman's pride. Which was the point of the video.
      Get some help

    • @bgrego88
      @bgrego88 Месяц назад +1

      I have to disagree.... I understand and respect a virgins decision to be a maiden. I also would never suggest otherwise if that is her choice. My continuing lies in a woman's fulfilment and instincts. Women/Men derive fulfilment from relationships w/ the other. To have kids sex is required as well as to have a relationship with the other gender sex is required. When I say required i mean it in the reproductive sense but also in the natural sense, as a sexless relationship grates on either party. I respect Joan of arc Virgin Mary but most women aren't that level of important. A women vaunting her virginity over all else is a dead end in all senses if a women doesn't become a mother n hopefully a wife she cuts off half of her utility. And why does she do this because of a woman's pride. Which was the point of the video. You are only eternal through man's help or God's help
      Get some help

    • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
      @AleishaJones-ek1mi Месяц назад +1

      @@bgrego88 I don't need a man to be eternal. I have God. And you need to look at scripture in which Paul says it's best to be single. Women have purpose no matter what. We have inherent value. You're obviously offended because I'm explaining virginity as a sign of autonomy. The attempt to humble women to make them more attainable for unworthy males needs to stop now. So many of you don't know what you want. You want a virgin and a nymph at once. You can't have both. Y'all shame women for being virgins and then shame them for being nymphs. Get help, dear, and get educated. ♍️😘

    • @mojamoja3962
      @mojamoja3962 Месяц назад +2

      Where is this coming from?

    • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
      @AleishaJones-ek1mi Месяц назад +5

      @@mojamoja3962 Many of his videos shame women, whether they are virgin or experienced. Then has the nerve to say that pride is a woman's greatest enemy. Virginity is often characterized by modesty. He says and I quote that "women need to be the nastiest sl*ttiest version of themselves" and how they need to adjust to the modern dating environment because "s* x proceeds marriage". I have been shamed for being a maiden saving myself for marriage and being okay with perpetual virginity if it were to come to that. I'm engaged and my fiance respects me. That's why I'm with him. I've seen the nymph-like woman be shamed as well, and that's not right either. I encourage personal sovereignty. Some folks feel entitled to women's bodies. I appreciate your question. I want everyone, men and women, to find wholeness in themselves. We aren't incomplete beings. Feeling incomplete is a lie from those who want to take advantage of you. This is a hedonistic world we're in. How can we ladies as a whole be so prideful when we're actually shamed by the world no matter what? Thank again for the question. Blessings. ❤️

  • @k.i.i.3699
    @k.i.i.3699 Месяц назад +2

    I don’t think people realize how stupid they sound when they say women in a singular way when it should be said in a plural way… And this happens all the time on RUclips videos like this. It’s incredible!

    • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
      @AleishaJones-ek1mi Месяц назад

      @@k.i.i.3699 Hahahaha! I love this!

    • @willhartman300
      @willhartman300 Месяц назад

      It's not just RUclips. My theory is many people simply "spell it like it sounds." It is amazing, but people seem to do this everywhere.