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Awesome video. Im crying for joy. Thank you very much for sharing. I love you very much because you saved my marriage and family from toxicity with your wisdom. Thank ypu a million. May God bless you more.🙏👍💖💖💖
thank you for sharing this video, it is very informative...Definitely dealing with negative/toxic people drains your energy, even when you try to cheer up the person, they are focused in a big stormy cloud of negativity and not letting it to become a sunny day because they only see negativity or that the world is against them...Sometimes sad not to know what to do to help them, one coworker mentioned to person A to look for help etc, and person A became more toxic and irritable after that...
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Hi Dr. Snipes!!! Amazing video!!! I’ve had many therapists in my life and none of them have helped me figure out why I go to the store and buy $700 worth of food. Actually, I usually need $60 worth of food. My coworkers are so toxic that they really make me feel uncomfortable and stressed out!
Do you know how to "peel the onion". Ask your self, "why am I buying $700 worth of food?" You will answer yourself and you will know whether or not the answer you gave to yourself is the truth. Eventually you will find the truth of it and then you can stop buying that much food at one time. This sounds silly but it really works. I hope you try it and let me know. I am on FB.
Its hard to not react when part of their reaction includes accusations that you're the negative one and need to "do better" with relationships. It's really hard to get through getting over a stressful experience with them when they project everything on you. It's as if when you don't give them what they want, then that is their last weapon in their arsenal to knock you down with by calling you all the things they actually are (audacious, negative etc) It's pure insanity to say the least and really messes with your head and like the woman said "leaves you questioning yourself" in the midst of standing up for yourself. Anyone else has experienced this? Please comment below
It's incredibly challenging to deal with situations where you feel like someone is projecting their issues onto you, especially when they accuse you of the very things they may be guilty of themselves. This kind of behavior can indeed leave you questioning your own reality and can be a form of gaslighting, which is a tactic that can create a lot of confusion and self-doubt. To navigate these experiences, it's helpful to: Understand Projection: Recognize that when someone projects their traits onto you, it's often more about their own insecurities and issues than about you. They may be reacting to what you represent to them, rather than who you actually are. Separate Behavior from Self: Try to distinguish between criticism of your behavior and criticism of you as a person. This can make it less threatening and help you respond more constructively. Reflect on Relationship Patterns: Consider your past relationships and whether your reactions are based on the current context or unresolved issues from the past. This can help you identify triggers and develop strategies to handle them. Use the FCP Approach: Examine the facts for and against your beliefs in the current context, identify what you can control, and assess the probability of certain outcomes. This can help you make informed decisions from a wise mind perspective. Develop Self-Esteem: Work on building your self-esteem so that you can better tolerate criticism and not take it as a reflection of your worth as a person. Seek Support: Engage with supportive friends, therapists, or support groups who can provide perspective and validation when you're feeling undermined by others' projections. It's important to remember that you're not alone in experiencing this, and many people have gone through similar situations. It's also worth noting that while it's difficult, it is possible to overcome these patterns, even after a lifetime of experiencing them. It takes time, self-compassion, and often professional support, but change is achievable. If you're interested in exploring more about these topics, there are resources available that can provide further guidance and strategies. For example, you can try managing reactions to accusations and handling projection in relationships in her videos, which might offer you additional insights and tools to cope with these challenging dynamics. Remember, taking care of your mental health is a priority, and seeking help from professionals who understand and validate your experiences is a critical step towards healing.
Thank you for sharing this video. Can you do a video on how to deal with people that are restaurant servers and they speak to their delivery people in a condescending tone because that person may be a different race or gender. Basically discriminating you. Thanks
Can we talked about what it is that the toxic person is going through on a regular basis that also is equally unforgiving unhealthy and very Savage for that individual themself?
I always wondered what it means if someone said that I shouldn't take something personally. I find this statement self-contradictory. But is your point that it's more about the attackers own problems etc. than about me, if they say something insulting?
Can you imagine you say something, to which people assign meaning or take it personally , then go and complain about you for harassment, bullying and sexual misconduct to hr..all without asking anything to you or taking your perspective and then blaming you for your feeling.. saying "size matters" is a statement that is sexually harassing to them. Then for rest of the time till you are working with them they punish you by holding you back and all this without telling you or communicating with you, no empathy, no communication or problem solving skill, no perspective taking skills and still expect you to have working relationships.
How about a roommate who goes out of there way, even going outside to pretend to work just to overhear private conversations and even listens and has remarks about hearing my intimate times with a bf. I feel a blatant violation of privacy, space and respect. When my sons family lived with me....whether is was love talk, intimate play or argument, both my husband and I would turn up the TV or put ear buds in to hear videos or music.....their personal talk and play were NOT our business.......to me....its common decency
I left my last feeling no o e cared if the policemen can't control their kids my partner didn't need a broken nose. I just had my knee replaced. I dont even feel safe I. My own apwrtmwnr...the guy due an stairs scares me.
Dr Snipes I think you are very smart and intelligent and have a lot to say and I have a crush on you I think you're smoking hot you should model for Playboy
Once I had to deal with a toxic person on RUclips. Me: The firefighter is a hero for saving a dog out of a burning building. TheMooseHoose: He isn't a hero a hero saves people not animals. Me: Contrarian for no reason... TheMooseHoose: I just come up with facts that you don't like because humans are above animals and the firefighter saved the dog just because he's getting money for it, otherwise he wouldn't care. Man how gullible are you 😂 Me: Keep trolling and be forever alone what a time waste... TheMooseHoose: The lack of arguments let you say that. I'm not giving you the vibes that you seeking for, like those 1k people who gave you a thump up. Your madness proves my point even more. Personal issue I see when someone has a different opinion than you.😂
It’s frustrating when someone takes a positive moment and twists it into a negative argument, especially when you’re just trying to appreciate something simple like a firefighter saving a dog. Engaging with someone who seems more interested in being contrarian than having a meaningful discussion can feel like a waste of energy. When people are committed to arguing just for the sake of it, it’s rarely about the topic itself-it’s often more about their need to feel "right" or to provoke a reaction. In situations like this, it can be helpful to take a step back and decide whether it’s worth continuing the conversation. Sometimes, choosing not to engage further is the best way to preserve your peace. You expressed your perspective clearly and made your point. Whether someone else wants to be respectful or not is on them, not you. I’d be grateful if you were to share what you found most useful from the video. Additionally, if you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.
👌More videos can be found on this topic at
ruclips.net/p/PLcB3trehXswhA7W1P_P0d58DgvmB0o_mW&si=PRPMtY58a3Cky_UB
❤️Self help activities and worksheets and concierge coaching with Dr. Snipes can be accessed at DocSnipes.com
👍Online Courses for Continuing Education (CEU, OPD, CPD) and Substance Abuse Counselor Certification
This channel should have as much views as Jordan peterson
I would not argue. Thanks so much. :)
You're very welcome Doc Snipes are you a real profile and that intelligent and hot?how can we keep in touch?
I have benefited tremendously from your videos. Thanks so much! 🙏🏻
I'm so glad!
I agree! I couldn't have said it better.
Someone in the chat asked Doc Snipes to talk about narcissists.....narcissists are VERY TOXIC to whoever they choose to make their scapegoat!
Thanks for watching the video
This video should have more views and thumbs up than Joe Rogan. Thank you 🙏
You’re so welcome. Thank you so much. Please feel free to share the video. It helps us and it helps those who are watching it. Also, here are more videos on toxic people: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=toxic
Awesome video. Im crying for joy. Thank you very much for sharing. I love you very much because you saved my marriage and family from toxicity with your wisdom. Thank ypu a million. May God bless you more.🙏👍💖💖💖
You are so welcome. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
thank you for sharing this video, it is very informative...Definitely dealing with negative/toxic people drains your energy, even when you try to cheer up the person, they are focused in a big stormy cloud of negativity and not letting it to become a sunny day because they only see negativity or that the world is against them...Sometimes sad not to know what to do to help them, one coworker mentioned to person A to look for help etc, and person A became more toxic and irritable after that...
Thanks for watching and commenting.
Can you please make a video about dealing with toxic people in the PTA or any other volunteer board?
There are toxic devils on the internet too.
I appreciate you watching
Thank u this has helped. I'm stuck but want and trying my hardest to get this toxic person out of my life.
You’re most welcome. I appreciate you watching the video
Thank you so much for this great content!
You’re most welcome! Thank you for watching. Please share what you found most useful in the video. Also if you're interested in learning more on the topic or browsing through the video library, don’t hesitate to use: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.
Hi Dr. Snipes!!! Amazing video!!! I’ve had many therapists in my life and none of them have helped me figure out why I go to the store and buy $700 worth of food. Actually, I usually need $60 worth of food. My coworkers are so toxic that they really make me feel uncomfortable and stressed out!
I feel trapped in my negative dead end toxic job! It’s filled with misery and toxic people!
Is narcissistic behavior passed on to future generations?
Thank you for watching the video.
Do you know how to "peel the onion". Ask your self, "why am I buying $700 worth of food?" You will answer yourself and you will know whether or not the answer you gave to yourself is the truth. Eventually you will find the truth of it and then you can stop buying that much food at one time. This sounds silly but it really works. I hope you try it and let me know. I am on FB.
Its hard to not react when part of their reaction includes accusations that you're the negative one and need to "do better" with relationships. It's really hard to get through getting over a stressful experience with them when they project everything on you. It's as if when you don't give them what they want, then that is their last weapon in their arsenal to knock you down with by calling you all the things they actually are (audacious, negative etc) It's pure insanity to say the least and really messes with your head and like the woman said "leaves you questioning yourself" in the midst of standing up for yourself. Anyone else has experienced this? Please comment below
It's incredibly challenging to deal with situations where you feel like someone is projecting their issues onto you, especially when they accuse you of the very things they may be guilty of themselves. This kind of behavior can indeed leave you questioning your own reality and can be a form of gaslighting, which is a tactic that can create a lot of confusion and self-doubt.
To navigate these experiences, it's helpful to:
Understand Projection: Recognize that when someone projects their traits onto you, it's often more about their own insecurities and issues than about you. They may be reacting to what you represent to them, rather than who you actually are.
Separate Behavior from Self: Try to distinguish between criticism of your behavior and criticism of you as a person. This can make it less threatening and help you respond more constructively.
Reflect on Relationship Patterns: Consider your past relationships and whether your reactions are based on the current context or unresolved issues from the past. This can help you identify triggers and develop strategies to handle them.
Use the FCP Approach: Examine the facts for and against your beliefs in the current context, identify what you can control, and assess the probability of certain outcomes. This can help you make informed decisions from a wise mind perspective.
Develop Self-Esteem: Work on building your self-esteem so that you can better tolerate criticism and not take it as a reflection of your worth as a person.
Seek Support: Engage with supportive friends, therapists, or support groups who can provide perspective and validation when you're feeling undermined by others' projections.
It's important to remember that you're not alone in experiencing this, and many people have gone through similar situations. It's also worth noting that while it's difficult, it is possible to overcome these patterns, even after a lifetime of experiencing them. It takes time, self-compassion, and often professional support, but change is achievable.
If you're interested in exploring more about these topics, there are resources available that can provide further guidance and strategies. For example, you can try managing reactions to accusations and handling projection in relationships in her videos, which might offer you additional insights and tools to cope with these challenging dynamics.
Remember, taking care of your mental health is a priority, and seeking help from professionals who understand and validate your experiences is a critical step towards healing.
This helped me so much, and i really needed it right now
I am glad the video is helpful and I appreciate you watching it
Awesome job!
Thanks!
I’m a toxic bond how do you know who the toxic one is? Is it one or the other? Is it both? Is there a way to tell
Thanks for watching! Here is a video to answer your question ruclips.net/video/O8cEy7uP5Qw/видео.html
Believe it I live in Oregon.
Thank you for sharing this video. Can you do a video on how to deal with people that are restaurant servers and they speak to their delivery people in a condescending tone because that person may be a different race or gender. Basically discriminating you. Thanks
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Thanks Dr.💪🌟
Thanks for watching.
Can we talked about what it is that the toxic person is going through on a regular basis that also is equally unforgiving unhealthy and very Savage for that individual themself?
I always wondered what it means if someone said that I shouldn't take something personally. I find this statement self-contradictory. But is your point that it's more about the attackers own problems etc. than about me, if they say something insulting?
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Awe... your thumbnail pic on this vid...
NOW THATS MY KIND OF TOXIC PEOPLE I CAN DEAL WITH 🐾🤍
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Can you imagine you say something, to which people assign meaning or take it personally , then go and complain about you for harassment, bullying and sexual misconduct to hr..all without asking anything to you or taking your perspective and then blaming you for your feeling.. saying "size matters" is a statement that is sexually harassing to them. Then for rest of the time till you are working with them they punish you by holding you back and all this without telling you or communicating with you, no empathy, no communication or problem solving skill, no perspective taking skills and still expect you to have working relationships.
Thanks for watching and commenting.
How about a roommate who goes out of there way, even going outside to pretend to work just to overhear private conversations and even listens and has remarks about hearing my intimate times with a bf. I feel a blatant violation of privacy, space and respect. When my sons family lived with me....whether is was love talk, intimate play or argument, both my husband and I would turn up the TV or put ear buds in to hear videos or music.....their personal talk and play were NOT our business.......to me....its common decency
I left my last feeling no o e cared if the policemen can't control their kids my partner didn't need a broken nose. I just had my knee replaced. I dont even feel safe I. My own apwrtmwnr...the guy due an stairs scares me.
Dr Snipes I think you are very smart and intelligent and have a lot to say and I have a crush on you I think you're smoking hot you should model for Playboy
You are too kind. ( Who says I haven't already been in there? ;) j/k ) Thanks for watching.
Top less videos would be nice
Once I had to deal with a toxic person on RUclips.
Me: The firefighter is a hero for saving a dog out of a burning building.
TheMooseHoose: He isn't a hero a hero saves people not animals.
Me: Contrarian for no reason...
TheMooseHoose: I just come up with facts that you don't like because humans are above animals and the firefighter saved the dog just because he's getting money for it, otherwise he wouldn't care. Man how gullible are you 😂
Me: Keep trolling and be forever alone what a time waste...
TheMooseHoose: The lack of arguments let you say that. I'm not giving you the vibes that you seeking for, like those 1k people who gave you a thump up. Your madness proves my point even more. Personal issue I see when someone has a different opinion than you.😂
It’s frustrating when someone takes a positive moment and twists it into a negative argument, especially when you’re just trying to appreciate something simple like a firefighter saving a dog. Engaging with someone who seems more interested in being contrarian than having a meaningful discussion can feel like a waste of energy. When people are committed to arguing just for the sake of it, it’s rarely about the topic itself-it’s often more about their need to feel "right" or to provoke a reaction.
In situations like this, it can be helpful to take a step back and decide whether it’s worth continuing the conversation. Sometimes, choosing not to engage further is the best way to preserve your peace. You expressed your perspective clearly and made your point. Whether someone else wants to be respectful or not is on them, not you.
I’d be grateful if you were to share what you found most useful from the video. Additionally, if you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.