I hope OP in the 2nd story took custody of his daughter, bc I can't imagine how difficult that poor kid is gonna have it if she has autism AND an entitled mom. That dad could raise her better and explain to her why some things and behaviours are a big nono.
OP in the first story is who deserves custody, but he gives his daughter too many excuses for her behavior (imo). her social skills should be a teaching moment
@@assertivelottie8753 oh he did, just in the beginning, her screaming reaction, he just spoke about it like it wasn't inappropriate, that's all. other than that he was golden :) I hope he gets custody
@Nintendo Gamer sorry my comment was unclear, i didn't mean the way he handled the situation, in the beginning of the passage, he just seems to make excuses for his daughters behavior (while there is a reason, her autism, it doesn't automatically make it ok, and his annoyance with the other mother, was just a little odd. that's all💛💛
Unfortunately, nature has this charming habit of blinding a new couple to each others' faults for the first year or two (the "honeymoon period"). This, in conjunction with an almost overwhelming desire to be in the bedroom, means that by the time you see your partner's true colors, kids are usually already in the picture. Yes, obviously that's assuming a hetero couple in which he and she are both capable of producing children. Anything else (IVF, adoption/fostering, etc) requires more thought than is typically attributed to new couples!
@@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber Not only that but some people actually change their behavioral pattern once married. So sometimes it really is difficult to tell unless you know what to look for. Those are the kind of signs that police and psychiatrists have to be trained to look for.
@@jamesmurphy7828 My grandmother, years ago, gave me the following advice: “What you see is what you get.” Maybe some people do change, but assuming *you* can change them is a fool’s errand. This guy knew his wife was an entitled ***** even before they were married, and yet married her anyway. I can understand him being disappointed that she never changed, but not surprised.
Glad he didn’t. An 11 year old permanently injuring someone or even killing them can be traumatizing that may not ever be overcome no matter how much therapy is given.
Yeah. I was in a similar situation once with my stepdad basically having my mother pinned to the floor and hurting her, but she talked me down from smashing him in the back with the chair I'd picked up and yelled at me to call the police, which I did. Still wonder to this day what might have happened if I had acted on my first instinct. He'd have deserved it for sure. But I was just a scared 10-year-old girl, not exactly strong enough to take out a fully grown man even if I wanted to, so it was probably for the best I went for the phone instead. He fled when he realized the cops were going to be coming for him and he started stalking us after that. She realized a restraining order was a piece of paper and the people around us were helping him, so she packed us up and fled halfway across the state without telling anyone where we were going. Thank god we never ran into him again. We heard from one or two people that he ran off and married the lady my mother had considered to be her best friend because it turned out the two of them had been cheating with each other. We rather cynically wished them much joy of each other.
First story: my dad's parents basically did that. Luckily my uncle and his wife stepped up and told everyone they would take them in permanently. My dad's mother is literally a walking, talking, breathing anxiety trigger for me, so when I learned this I was SO relieved. (They lived with us for two or three years, and the result of that is that I will not miss them when they die.)
First story: NTA. Anytime your retirement plan centers around living off others... they get the deciding vote. There are lots of campgrounds who want off season live on site park managers. They need to look into that.
Second story; autistic people are not inherently self centered, we can just seem that way because we don't know what other people think and that often takes the form of us talking about ourselves as that is what we know.... its probably because she cannot tell what unspoken rules there are in each situation due to a delay in development at a certain age that she didnt realise that that behaviour was inappropriate. If something like that happens, give the toy back to the other child, take yours apart and explain what the inappropriate behaviour was and why and how to do it in a better way moving foreward....
Self centered doesn't mean selfish, just means what you said, that they tend to have issues understanding others, and often lock themselves inside their own minds (which is also made worse by their difficulty to communicate).
A problem I sometimes face: People sometimes think I'm cold-hearted and mean. My problem is, I simply don't know how to show my feelings. You are crying, I can see that. I want to help, but i don't understand why you are sad and also don't know how to be useful. So i just blank stare at you.
@@ikweetgeennaam8839 How about you just ask the person why they are crying and sad and ask them, if you can help them in any way? Not understanding something is perfectly fine. But, for fucks sake, communicate!
as a fellow autistic i can agree with you my problem is im to caring. when covid hit i had the last toilet roll bundle and i saw this old gentleman who was about 80 or so i said to him excuse me sir do you want this your more important then me sir and he thanked me
I mean, I would beat my dad if he hurt my mom while she's pregnant because my little sibling could've been hurt or could've gotten killed while in the uterus
@AYAH ASAD yes, because that's putting the child at risk and the mother. I really hope that women who are pregnant have a husband/ boyfriend who will never hurt them
Dude, I beat the crap of mine when he slap my little bro's back with a chain. He had bad grades and dad was drunk. I was 14 at the time, and launched fist first until mine were bloodied, he never dared to hit my brother or mom ever again. I just buried him last year after 6 agonizing months. Thanks colon cancer, you made right on his shitty life.
@@MalekitGJ you deserve an award for defending your little brother, but using a chain more is worse than regular discipline and I hope you and your little brother are doing well
In the first story, if OP was an Indian and lived in India, and refused to take them in after their retirement, you would have been insulted socially and pulled into a court by those parents too. Indian parents think it is their kids' duty to take care of them despite any issues.
The idea of "honoring" your parents by taking care of them when they're older still exists in the States but it's not legally enforced thankfully. It's to the point where stories like this of parents trying to force or guilt trip being taken care of aren't that uncommon. However a lot of people around my age, late 20's to late 30's are pushing back more against the entitlement of the older generation and they are not happy lol.
In most cases you can say this as entitlement but here in India most people do love their parents and willfully take care of their parents so it is true for some cases as entitlement
Idk why people are so offended. These parents spent years and so much money bringing their kids up and later when they get old and sick the kids won't even return the favor? To me it's the kids who are entitled and selfish. If my parents needed me I'd take them in and take care of them if my financial situation lets me, it's the least I can do to give back for all they have done for me.
In alotnof countries taking care of your parents when they got old is normal, but their using it as a vacation is not cool. They need to keep something to take care of themselves since they have the money.
@@NM-jd9ck The parents weren't old or sick. They quit working at 50, then sold their house and most of their belongings. Besides, we're not told about OP's monetary situation, so it could've been they couldn't afford to. Also, OP is married and with a kid in the post. Think and read before you type.
It really just rubs me the wrong way that OP is saying his daughter is never violent to anyone as she is literally ripping a toy out of another child's hands 🙄 lying about it won't make it go away
I had a similar situation when I worked security and retail; coworkers with kids would often saddle me with extra shifts so they could take off, and managers would allow it because I'm a single childless male, but I was expected to have my phone on and on me in case I needed to be called in on my days off, even when I take time off and explain I would be out-of-town for that requested time.
Bro, the kid assaulted the boyfriend and then they boyfriend gets charged for assault, I know for different incidents, but it's so satisfying that the kid didn't get into ANY legal trouble 😂🤣
In Ohio at least, the kid could have blown the boyfriend away and it would be justified self-defense. You're allowed to use as much force as it takes to stop the threat, and if they die, it's on their choices, not yours. Further, that extends to intervening to protect someone else.
"You may also know that people with autism have a distorted sense of self, and can be very self-centred" No not everyone does, yes there are similarities but autistic people aren't all the same.
As an autistic woman with 500+ funko pops I just never get involved in funko brawls. No matter how rare or valuable it’s not worth it to deal with other funko addicts. I have a black belt in karate so it’s not like I couldn’t win the fight, I just don’t want to get in one in the first place. Edit: Luna’s aren’t even rare especially when this post was written. I work for an autism charity and wouldn’t want to make any assumptions based on a story from a jilted ex but I just want to say autism is both genetic and women are severely under diagnosed with autism. The amount of parent who figure out they’re undiagnosed after there child gets a diagnosis and that some of their behaviour was unhealthy coping mechanisms is a lot higher than most people expect. I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s the case with that mum.
yea. it also seems like op's daughter gets a get out of jail free card for her autism, when herv parents SHOULD be nurturing her social skills since her autism affects that.
I’m no black belt 😅 but I wouldn’t get into a fight either. Although I do try my hardest to get the funko when I do see it. However I’m not shoving people to the side. I just kinda wait, if someone else gets it then I’m sure I can find it again. But they are definitely fun to collect 😁
@@artsyducky3142 true that and I like to try and find the ones with the best box condition but unfortunately that's not always the case at the moment i think i have like 150 pop figurines. Mainly anime and comic characters
Rslash teaches us how the real world works. Schools don't teach us these things. I'm 13 and I have no idea how insurance, deposit, credit cards, mortgage, renting, interest, bank accounts, files, paychecks, court trials, income ect work. I barely know anything about the real world so it's good to have someone explain how to deal with messy situations.
Regarding the 'self-centeredness' in autism, that's not necessarily true. We may seem so, but that doesn't mean we are. Our brain works differently and the self-absorption that is often spoken about is an outdated myth claimed by those that don't understand the brain of an autistic person. Makes me quite angry. But, to me, that kid in that very moment seemed very entitled (which makes sense with a mother who encourages it honestly), and that doesn't need to have anything to do with being autistic. Kids can just really be little poops sometimes. But the mother is an absolute piece of garbage, first of all, who calls anyone (let alone a child) an r-word. There's no way the daughter is not picking up on that, especially when it was used badly against her too. Speaking from experience, when parents do that it can harm you for years to come.
I absolutely agree with you that autistic people should not be viewed as self-centered. I will, however, also mention that there's an autistic man I know who lives with his mom who never tells him no for anything and basically gives him whatever he wants whenever he wants. I also run a social group for autistic adults, and when we're going someplace for a get together and he can't be there for it, he'll outright cancel the get together just because he can't show up. Now, in some instances, this might seem like he just doesn't understand how to behave in that situation, but I think his mother not telling him no for anything is also the cause of him doing things like this.
I was wondering about that. I'd be more willing to simply consider that autistic individuals may have a confused or misaligned sense of self, and think it was more a poor choice of words than an intentional spreading of misinformation. It's easy to see that in OP's daughter's case though, no thanks to his now ex-wife, it developed into a bloated self-centered aura and a sense of entitlement. I do hope the daughter ends up better with age and without such an awful mother around.
my little brother (6 in 2 days) has severe autism and is non-verbal. and my mom would never just snatch something out of another kids hands for him (unless it's me and my siblings who are the kids). My brother has it worse than many because he also has stage 4 cancer but everyone in my family (except for my almost 8 year old sister) knows how to handle someone who takes something from him. we gently take the toy from the person and explain how it's not theirs. simple. being entitled is never helpful
@@wannabehistorian371 no I'm not I'm being purposefully vague in that comment I'm very aware that cognitive empathy and emotional empathy is different and that autistics sometimes tend to lack cognitive empathy. Hell, I do, and I have very heightened emotional empathy, so, trust me, I know!
@@amaeliss7827 i have autism and this makes me lack ability to socialize with others properly and i just gonna keep talking to others to improve my social skills
@@Nockgun that's different from empathy though! I also lack empathy to socialise, to some degree, and I used to be less good at it, but that doesn't mean I'm not empathetic
That last story made me cry. It feels so good to hear stories like that, where some justice is actually served. Maybe I can't get it for myself, but knowing that other people can be free of the bullshit makes up for it. I'm so glad OP and their family are safe from that lunatic.
"As The Cat in The Hat saw somebody beating a woman, he grabbed a baseball bat and decided to destroy the man's kneecaps. The man was on the ground rolling around in pain. The Cat in The Hat decided to end his suffering, he grabbed a pistol and put a silencer on it, he then said 'Shhhhhh. It will all be over soon.' He then shot the man.
OP in the last story, should of received "Sibling of the Year Award". For protecting her sibling, even before they came into this world. After OP's little brother was born, her mother could of taken a photo of the two. With OP holding her brother in one arm, and a bat in the other.
I just wanna add something for context: Not having the ability to feel empathy doesn’t mean you’re a douche, I have ASPD, and we don’t have the ability to feel actual empathy. That being said, with work, we are usually great at SHOWING it to other people. Some ppl call it masking. If we, people who have no idea what it feels like to feel real feelings, can put kindness into the world, (although I may slip sometimes, I own it) a Karen can. Karen has no excuse.
The kid in the last story was a hero. He likely save his brother's life, and possibly his mom's, too. he certainly protected them. He was more of a man at 11 than his mom's boyfriend was as an adult.
I always laugh at rSlashes “Karen” and “Kevin” voices, idk how he manages to sound so entitled without being it. Also, have a good day of you are reading this
The 11 y/o is legit a hero. And when this hadn't happened, who knows how much the abuse would've gone on, the unborn baby might've likely died (if not because of that incident, then who knows what the dude would've done once the baby had born and ie cried a lot or something and he happened to be "in a bad mood" again at that moment...) plus very likely he could've even killed the mother in a fit of rage as well. The kid might've very likely saved one or multiple lives.
My mom had to take care of my grandmother (her mother in law) for the rest of her life. All her hospital visits, cooking, cleaning, medication, hiding when we’d go out without her, and going behind her back to enjoy herself. I love my grandma and I know she loved her too but she was too much. She needed someone more qualified to tend to her needs.
There is a very big line between empathy and entitlement, that women ain't lacking empathy she just don't understand why the whole world don't revolve around her and her only. Henceforth she easily can use her empathy with her daughter who want the doll thingy very much, but completly ignore some random ppl in a store. Clearly a red flag worth divorce. ^^'
I have a feeling they just told that last kid that he was staying at his grandma's because of health problems with his mom's diet, when really they were putting him in his grandma's house to protect him from the stepdad. Though it turns out they were protecting the stepdad from him!
@@themediocremen1128 Or the mom was trying to get the son out of the house because step-dad was escalating, since before this step-dad only hit son. Or Mima gave mom an ultimatum since it seems like she been collecting evidence. Just my thoughts on what really happened, but they didn't tell an 11y/o to not scare him.
Story 1: OP's inlaws want to stay in his house free for 8 months every year for like 20 years Story 2: entitled mother who calls kids retarded when her kid has mental issues, got divorced Story 3: mother just straight up steals credit for OP's science fair project and says her son did it, gets shit down real quick Story 4: office lady thinks single men don't deserve a day off on holidays Story 5: OP breaks some knees
Thanks, i really wanted to read the title story, so this let's me know whatborder they are. But you might want to put a spoiler warning, ya basically put a small summary for each one.
The first story: easy solution: have the parents buy a tiny home, out it in the garden of the children. It's cost efficient and put's some space between the generations.
My son has autism and the exact same outbursts, but we’ve also raised him well enough that he does have manners and would never do something like that. He would be upset, but then accept the fact that he didn’t get what he wanted. I’m not saying that the father is a bad parent, but the mother is definitely a horrible woman and probably never disciplined your daughter.
many kids can still struggle even when being raised properly and taught what's right from wrong, especially on bad days or in an overstimulating setting like a grocery store. it's a spectrum for a reason, the father could be doing everything right. it's a set of circumstances we don't quite know.
@@picklethedragon4889 I totally agree. I’m just saying that a lot of parents with kids on the spectrum don’t discipline the same way as usual kids, and I understand why, but some don’t discipline their spectrum kids at all. Like the mother in this situation should have looked to see if there were more before berating the other parent for not giving the funko pop to her child. She didn’t even consider the fact the other child has a disability as well.
Hey kudos to you. Seriously, I would be so proud of myself and my child to be or see loving parent be able to effectively take care of a child with autism. I realize that this can for some people come off as offensive because from a stranger it can seem like im meaning this in a sarcastic kind of tone when I genuinely dont. So many people treat spectrum kids as if they are a burden but they are people too. They have quirks but hey, what's not to love in your own child? I hope that the child grows up to be an amazing person and always knows they have an amazing parent.
The sister will get sick of housing her parents 8 months of the year. I do wonder if the other sister is single because that could explain why she is okay with housing the parents, which could change in the future?
Given Rslash misread the bit about them staying with the sister as being with no issues when the OP wrote “not without issues” which means there *were* issues I suspect the sister will grow tired of them
The story about “only people with kids should get time off for holidays” had me thinking of my mother. She is a very hard worker, always more than willing to help out with extra shifts and overtime, goes out of her way to never be late, to never leave early and (to an unhealthy degree sometimes) pushes through serious illness to not let her workplace down. I was proud of her for standing her ground one year when she had gotten the primary vacation weeks for the Summer. Usually she work those and vacation later in the Summer, after the school vacation weeks. But that year she had plans with family she missed and hadn’t seen in a long time and choose to not budge when the parents in her job was like: “But you’re children are grown ups now, you should leave these weeks for parents.” My mom ALWAYS goes out of her way to please other and she shouldn’t always have to. It can’t always be about the people with small children; they wanted those weeks off they shouldn’t have waited to the last minute to ask for them.
First story: Guess what? There actually are campgrounds throughout the US that are open all year long, even in the northern states ( I used to work at one in Michigan). You want a camping lifestyle, it's available but it does cost.
Wow, the last story really made my blood boil. How the hell would someone assault an innocent and helpless pregnant mother like that? I'm glad he got arrested. Great job protecting your mother OP! As for the little brother, I'm sure he's grateful to have an older sibling there to protect him for the rest of his life :)
We have to work all the holiday’s except Thanksgiving and Christmas. I’ve had jobs where you are REQUIRED to work ALL holidays. Its fun when customers show up and say “sorry you have to work on Christmas.” You seriously have to hold back yelling at them... “THEN GO HOME.”
Ya, never tell your boss why you want a day off. I used to work in a grocery store with a girl back in the days and she told me she needed to take a day off because she had friends over for the weekend. I told her, just walk in there and tell him I'm not coming in to work tomorrow, nothing else. She didn't listen and didn't get her day off. Coincidentally I needed a day off the next week for a dentist appointment. I just walked in the office, told him "I'm not coming in to work next Friday" he just said ok and that was it. If they ask, just say "Personal Reasons" or something.
The ending to that last story was so satisfying. May be an unpopular opinion I have, but I feel like no parent should ever be allowed visitation rights if it's been proven that they are abusive to anyone, even if supervised. Those kinds of people often tend to be extremely manipulative, and could still harm the children with lies and gaslighting, ect.
Now, my mother *does* live with me, which has caused more than a few funny situations when some people have asked "So, OP, when do you plan on moving out?" and I have to go "If anyone's going to move out, it will be her." Still, for context, I have Autism, which causes me a few issues. Thus, when I was about 20, and my mother and her boyfriend, as well as myself and my younger brother, wanted a better place to live, the decision was made to put the place in both mine and her boyfriend's names, or something along those lines (he had better credit than mother at the time). Now, a few years ago, the boyfriend's father passed away - cancer - and thus he lives at that property now, so that it stays in the family. Mother visits him on the weekends, which is useful for me learning independent skills. Now, here's the big thing, mom helps out by paying at least some of the bills, and buying groceries - about a 50-50 split for the most part. If she wasn't, I might have been inclined to throw her out - my name's on the deed after all - I hope I don't have to do that though.
The best part of that last story is that since OP was a child, they couldn't really punish him for using such extreme measures to protect his mother because "he's a child"
Story from the dad of an autistic girl: I agree with him on everything except one point. He said the other girl has it worse than his daughter and, I know this is an unpopular opinion but he's super wrong about that. The world at large goes above and beyond to accommodate people with physical disabilities. Sure, it makes your life harder but everyone tries their best to help and if they don't, they're seen as a massive asshole. On the other hand, as an autistic girl, the world is so cruel and ableist to people with invisible disabilities. I've had meltdowns in the hall at school before where I was on the floor, hyperventilating and unable to move and no one tried to help. Some people would stand around starting like I was some kind of freak too. I got detention once for "being disruptive" in middle school because of that. Autistic people are expected to mask all the time, which is incredibly exhausting, and if we don't, we're expected to apologize for our normal behaviours because it makes people uncomfortable or doesn't conform to neurotypical social norms. So he's definitely wrong about that and I hope he comes to understand in time just how mentally taxing his daughter's disorder is because she's going to need that support in her life. I will also say, I'm glad he still got her the toy instead of trying to punish her for behaving that way. She does of course need to learn not to do that, but taking away something she really wanted wouldn't have helped since she likely wouldn't have understood why she was being punished and it would have just led to unnecessary resentment. Good dad moment.
@@arandomraccoon8565 you're literally just providing my point. You clearly don't take invisible disabilities seriously if that's how you respond to what I wrote.
Nobody “has it worse,” they both have their respective hardships. While you are correct that accommodations are made for physically disabled people, that does *not* mean that ableism directed at physically disabled people is “less” or “eradicated ” (I put these in quotes to make a statement, not to mock). The two types of ableism shouldn’t be compared/pinned against each other, we can acknowledge the differences between ableism directed at autistic/neurodivergent(ND) folks without watering down ableism directed at physically disabled folk. TLDR: The world definitely is farther behind with autistic and other accommodations compared to physically disabled people, but that doesn’t mean one has it better/worse compared to the other and people need to stop with the oppression olympics. Note: This is coming from a neurodivergent person who isn’t classified as disabled Note 2: I couldn’t digest all the words you said (it’s hard for me to intake large chunks of text), so I’m sorry if I repeat anything’s you say.
also, invisible disabilities *definitely* need to be talked about more! Just because someone doesn’t “look disabled” doesn’t mean they don’t deserve equity in accessibility and equality as a human being. I felt like your stance with disabilities having accommodations came off as “because they look disabled, it doesn’t count as much as invisible disabilities.” Please correct me if I got the wrong idea and I truly don’t mean malice, I just want to have discussions and learn/educate
It's funny how Op realized he married a vile woman yet a minute ago claimed that she had enough redeeming qualities that he could change her for the better.
3rd story: You'd think the EM and SS would think things through.....like change out the name. Judge: So you made this EM and SS: Yes Judge: and your name is Stupid son SS: Yeah Judge: Then why does this have OP as the name? SS: Uh typo. Im sure you make a typo here and there EM (while slapping SS): I told you to change the name
Usually I am against violence however the last story was necessary in my opinion. Who tf beats another person, LET ALONE a pregnant woman! smfh op was right, man was a waste of dna
It’s funny you mention Dr Seuss because I have a quote that so perfectly fits here: “I've brought a big bat. I'm all ready, you see; now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!”
I once gave my stepdad a concussion with a frying pan because he decided to try to choke his own kid out in a drunken rage. Let me tell you, the feeling was INCRADIBLE, that dude was a POS
2nd story: I want to justify EMs behavior by saying "maybe she is on the spectrum too." But even if that IS the case that doesn't justify verbally assaulting a handicapped child and her momma.
As someone on the spectrum, I was taught to not be horrible to anyone (but still stick up for myself), whether it IS the case or not it will never fully justify verbally assaulting someone. Though sometimes I may do or say something and not realise that it was wrong, once told I will feel incredibly guilty and apologise to anyone I upset right away. Still no excuse to being horrible to anyone.
I thought the same because autism can be undiagnosed until later in life especially in woman but there is still no excuse for her behaving like this even if she was... She is an entitled Karen and even after loosing all respect in her husbands eyes she still thinks she is right... I doubt she will ever change...
It doesn't justify it, but I think it's something she can be made to recognize was wrong. I think she's a salvageable human being still and just needs intensive work to recognize when she's being entitled. Although if the husband doesn't feel up to doing so/standing by her through the process that's understandable and not his responsibility. I do think calling her vile is a bit much though.
…that story about the mother who called the little girl in a wheelchair an r word made me super mad…i hate that word with a burning passion and question why it is even a word in the first place…i have mild autism too and it is basically invisible to anyone who does not know me…i have unfortunately been called an r word before in the past so i can really relate to the situation…i wish i could slap OP’s ex wife…some people are actually the worst…
Yeah Getting called the R Word is NOT fun, my Autism combo'd with acting like a dinosaur in school got me called one often, other than Dino boy of course
I'm so sorry your classmates were so horrible. =( I am on the spectrum - discovered in my 30's, but my cousin is not - she was tested both as a child and in her late 20's. She had a few phases I remember well... the first was when she was about 4 or 5, and decided she was a seafull. She'd flap, and proudly tell everyone she was a seagull, and all she did was eat, poop, and fly. Then, a few years later, she decided she was a horse. She literally trotted and cantered EVERYWHERE. She'd neigh and do that mouth thing that sounds kinda like bphlbbbb, toss her "mane", etc. I remembered being a bit envious of this... every time I acted in ANY way different from others, I was disciplined... smacked, spanked, etc. I just could not understand why she was allowed, and I wasn't, even when playing in my own room with no one (non-family) around? When my son went through one of these phasrs, I let him. What harm was it? He acted like a cat, claimed he was a cat, and was completely obsessed with cats. He'd meow and purr. The line drawn was eating on the floor with just his mouth. Lol. More for safety than anything, and also, mealtimes were a brief window for family interaction. Snacks were also at the table or in a chair. Once he hit around the middle of 1st grade, he was over "being" a cat, but his love for cats carries to this day, nearly 20 years later. And while he was tested as a child for autism and was found to have a few indicators, they decided that ultimately, he was just very imaginative - same result with the second assessment as a young teen. As he is an adult now, I did ask him to get rechecked (other things do concern me), but because he is an adult, only he can choose to go through with it, or he can decide not to. So far, he's decided against it, and that's ok with me, but I know what when I was finally diagnosed, it was a huge light-bulb moment for me. If my son does have it, its a pretty "mild" situation, and he seems to have learned much like I did... lots of observing, memorization of rules that are unwritten/ invisible, adapting as much as possible, and learning how to pull away from uncomfortable situations before the point of no return. Its a strange thing to think of how many adults and even children there are who likely have gone undiagnosed or even misdiagnosed. In my case my psychiatrist clearly stated it was due to gender bias, (especially when I was a child). Back then, there really were no, or few, guidelines on how biology affects the expression of neurodiversity. It was only thanks to an article I read that I printed out, circled what criteria I fit, and took it in that even got me on the road to being diagnosed to be begin with! And hey... If you wanna roar like a dino... roar like a dino. Personally, I think it'd be pretty awesome!
@TheWerapter92 I hope that you're doing better now and that you can finally be free of the harassment and that the jerks that called you the r-word have gotten punished
I hope OP in the 2nd story took custody of his daughter, bc I can't imagine how difficult that poor kid is gonna have it if she has autism AND an entitled mom. That dad could raise her better and explain to her why some things and behaviours are a big nono.
You mean the second story? The first were the old parents selling everything to move in with their kids.
OP in the first story is who deserves custody, but he gives his daughter too many excuses for her behavior (imo). her social skills should be a teaching moment
@@madisonh.2992 What do you think he should have done differently? As an autistic girl, I think he handled that beautifully.
@@assertivelottie8753 oh he did, just in the beginning, her screaming reaction, he just spoke about it like it wasn't inappropriate, that's all. other than that he was golden :) I hope he gets custody
@Nintendo Gamer sorry my comment was unclear, i didn't mean the way he handled the situation, in the beginning of the passage, he just seems to make excuses for his daughters behavior (while there is a reason, her autism, it doesn't automatically make it ok, and his annoyance with the other mother, was just a little odd. that's all💛💛
The story with the wife is why people should be carful who they have kids with. When someone shows you their true colors believe them.
Unfortunately, nature has this charming habit of blinding a new couple to each others' faults for the first year or two (the "honeymoon period"). This, in conjunction with an almost overwhelming desire to be in the bedroom, means that by the time you see your partner's true colors, kids are usually already in the picture.
Yes, obviously that's assuming a hetero couple in which he and she are both capable of producing children. Anything else (IVF, adoption/fostering, etc) requires more thought than is typically attributed to new couples!
@@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber Not only that but some people actually change their behavioral pattern once married. So sometimes it really is difficult to tell unless you know what to look for. Those are the kind of signs that police and psychiatrists have to be trained to look for.
@@jamesmurphy7828 Truth!
@@jamesmurphy7828 My grandmother, years ago, gave me the following advice: “What you see is what you get.” Maybe some people do change, but assuming *you* can change them is a fool’s errand. This guy knew his wife was an entitled ***** even before they were married, and yet married her anyway. I can understand him being disappointed that she never changed, but not surprised.
Bruh they were likely together for several years. If he wasn’t aware of these, he was either willfully ignorant or terribly stupid.
OP's mums boyfriend: * about to hit his mum*
OP's baseball bat: hippity hoppity your kneecaps are now my property
Morgan Kyle Activates “Sansa’s Revenge”, large dogs will attack target until the target is rendered deceased.
I’ve watched a whole lot of cobra Kai and karate kid so I would Krane kick his ass
@Conor Murphy r/iamverybadass
Meet the scout
he used to be an abuser, then he took a bat to the knees
Boyfriend: *About to hit OP's pregnant mom*
OP: *"I'm gonna bust some kneecaps."*
OP: Imma break your nico nico kneecapa
"Earnie is about to commit a hate crime"
"You just lost kneecap privledge"
you've just lost your kneecap privileges
Lmao
Oof, that last story could have turned into a NuclearRevenge real quick if the kid managed to hit more strategic places.
Glad he didn’t. An 11 year old permanently injuring someone or even killing them can be traumatizing that may not ever be overcome no matter how much therapy is given.
How did you get that fancy symbol next to your name?
@@cheemsdrip7478 🌈ImAgInaTiOn🌈
@@cheemsdrip7478 he joined the channel. It's a loyalty badge
If it was a nuclear revenge it would have been traumatic for the kid but I would feel no sympathy for the man
the dude: *attempts to hit the pregnant woman*
the kid: *starts playing doom music*
*rip and tear, until it's done*
true
And watch his pregnant mother get beaten up?, are you an idiot?
why i feel like these people find pregnant wife beaten funny?
@Anal Kebs I'm just gonna dislike and hope that was a bad joke.
Honestly, not even through the story and I already agree with op’s decision
Edit: I mean the story in the title, not the first one
... and also the first one. 🙆🏻♀️
@@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339 Well, I mean on the whole beating up with baseball bat thing
Yeah. I was in a similar situation once with my stepdad basically having my mother pinned to the floor and hurting her, but she talked me down from smashing him in the back with the chair I'd picked up and yelled at me to call the police, which I did. Still wonder to this day what might have happened if I had acted on my first instinct. He'd have deserved it for sure. But I was just a scared 10-year-old girl, not exactly strong enough to take out a fully grown man even if I wanted to, so it was probably for the best I went for the phone instead. He fled when he realized the cops were going to be coming for him and he started stalking us after that. She realized a restraining order was a piece of paper and the people around us were helping him, so she packed us up and fled halfway across the state without telling anyone where we were going. Thank god we never ran into him again. We heard from one or two people that he ran off and married the lady my mother had considered to be her best friend because it turned out the two of them had been cheating with each other. We rather cynically wished them much joy of each other.
Harm a mother get thrown in the gutter
@@wordforger dude, I’m sorry to hear that and hope you and your mother are doing much better without that coward.
Even though the last OP was "not a Jojo," he certainly let out a nice Jojo-style beatdown to that piece of useless trash
He should've done a 7 page beatdown to that guy
*Why do I hear boss music*
ORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORA
It odly satisfying
First story: my dad's parents basically did that. Luckily my uncle and his wife stepped up and told everyone they would take them in permanently.
My dad's mother is literally a walking, talking, breathing anxiety trigger for me, so when I learned this I was SO relieved. (They lived with us for two or three years, and the result of that is that I will not miss them when they die.)
First story: NTA. Anytime your retirement plan centers around living off others... they get the deciding vote.
There are lots of campgrounds who want off season live on site park managers. They need to look into that.
Second story; autistic people are not inherently self centered, we can just seem that way because we don't know what other people think and that often takes the form of us talking about ourselves as that is what we know.... its probably because she cannot tell what unspoken rules there are in each situation due to a delay in development at a certain age that she didnt realise that that behaviour was inappropriate. If something like that happens, give the toy back to the other child, take yours apart and explain what the inappropriate behaviour was and why and how to do it in a better way moving foreward....
Self centered doesn't mean selfish, just means what you said, that they tend to have issues understanding others, and often lock themselves inside their own minds (which is also made worse by their difficulty to communicate).
A problem I sometimes face: People sometimes think I'm cold-hearted and mean. My problem is, I simply don't know how to show my feelings. You are crying, I can see that. I want to help, but i don't understand why you are sad and also don't know how to be useful. So i just blank stare at you.
@@ikweetgeennaam8839 Tip: Give the crying person a tissue. Gives you something helpful to do
@@ikweetgeennaam8839 How about you just ask the person why they are crying and sad and ask them, if you can help them in any way? Not understanding something is perfectly fine. But, for fucks sake, communicate!
as a fellow autistic i can agree with you my problem is im to caring. when covid hit i had the last toilet roll bundle and i saw this old gentleman who was about 80 or so i said to him excuse me sir do you want this your more important then me sir and he thanked me
I mean, I would beat my dad if he hurt my mom while she's pregnant because my little sibling could've been hurt or could've gotten killed while in the uterus
@AYAH ASAD yes, because that's putting the child at risk and the mother. I really hope that women who are pregnant have a husband/ boyfriend who will never hurt them
I absolutely agree!
Instant Hulk transformation.
Dude, I beat the crap of mine when he slap my little bro's back with a chain.
He had bad grades and dad was drunk. I was 14 at the time, and launched fist first until mine were bloodied, he never dared to hit my brother or mom ever again.
I just buried him last year after 6 agonizing months. Thanks colon cancer, you made right on his shitty life.
@@MalekitGJ you deserve an award for defending your little brother, but using a chain more is worse than regular discipline and I hope you and your little brother are doing well
I would've used a sledgehammer myself
In the first story, if OP was an Indian and lived in India, and refused to take them in after their retirement, you would have been insulted socially and pulled into a court by those parents too. Indian parents think it is their kids' duty to take care of them despite any issues.
The idea of "honoring" your parents by taking care of them when they're older still exists in the States but it's not legally enforced thankfully. It's to the point where stories like this of parents trying to force or guilt trip being taken care of aren't that uncommon. However a lot of people around my age, late 20's to late 30's are pushing back more against the entitlement of the older generation and they are not happy lol.
In most cases you can say this as entitlement but here in India most people do love their parents and willfully take care of their parents so it is true for some cases as entitlement
Idk why people are so offended. These parents spent years and so much money bringing their kids up and later when they get old and sick the kids won't even return the favor? To me it's the kids who are entitled and selfish. If my parents needed me I'd take them in and take care of them if my financial situation lets me, it's the least I can do to give back for all they have done for me.
In alotnof countries taking care of your parents when they got old is normal, but their using it as a vacation is not cool. They need to keep something to take care of themselves since they have the money.
@@NM-jd9ck The parents weren't old or sick. They quit working at 50, then sold their house and most of their belongings. Besides, we're not told about OP's monetary situation, so it could've been they couldn't afford to. Also, OP is married and with a kid in the post. Think and read before you type.
Day ten of telling him he's making everyone day better
thank you good man
You’re a good human
You are a good person
Even if he doesn't make everyone's day better he makes somebody's day better and that's enough
Not all hero’s wear capes
It really just rubs me the wrong way that OP is saying his daughter is never violent to anyone as she is literally ripping a toy out of another child's hands 🙄 lying about it won't make it go away
I had a similar situation when I worked security and retail; coworkers with kids would often saddle me with extra shifts so they could take off, and managers would allow it because I'm a single childless male, but I was expected to have my phone on and on me in case I needed to be called in on my days off, even when I take time off and explain I would be out-of-town for that requested time.
That's so wrong. Your free time is just as important as anyone else's
Bro, the kid assaulted the boyfriend and then they boyfriend gets charged for assault, I know for different incidents, but it's so satisfying that the kid didn't get into ANY legal trouble 😂🤣
In Ohio at least, the kid could have blown the boyfriend away and it would be justified self-defense.
You're allowed to use as much force as it takes to stop the threat, and if they die, it's on their choices, not yours. Further, that extends to intervening to protect someone else.
@@TheAttacker732 I'll keep that in mind
@@TheAttacker732 "if you die that's your fault" is probably the most American take on self defense and I love it
@@Thememester439 lol
"You may also know that people with autism have a distorted sense of self, and can be very self-centred"
No not everyone does, yes there are similarities but autistic people aren't all the same.
Agreed. My uncle was confirmed autistic, my niece as well, and I went to school with someone who had it too. All of them are different.
It is called the autism spectrum. Not every person with autism has the same diagnosis as one another.
I'm autistic and I am NOT self centered. My parents taught me to be humble and behave myself!
Found out I had ASD 2 weeks ago, I’m 14
@@diamondking1987 found out i had ASD 2 years ago, and i'm 22
As an autistic woman with 500+ funko pops I just never get involved in funko brawls. No matter how rare or valuable it’s not worth it to deal with other funko addicts. I have a black belt in karate so it’s not like I couldn’t win the fight, I just don’t want to get in one in the first place.
Edit: Luna’s aren’t even rare especially when this post was written. I work for an autism charity and wouldn’t want to make any assumptions based on a story from a jilted ex but I just want to say autism is both genetic and women are severely under diagnosed with autism. The amount of parent who figure out they’re undiagnosed after there child gets a diagnosis and that some of their behaviour was unhealthy coping mechanisms is a lot higher than most people expect. I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s the case with that mum.
yea. it also seems like op's daughter gets a get out of jail free card for her autism, when herv parents SHOULD be nurturing her social skills since her autism affects that.
I’m no black belt 😅 but I wouldn’t get into a fight either. Although I do try my hardest to get the funko when I do see it. However I’m not shoving people to the side. I just kinda wait, if someone else gets it then I’m sure I can find it again.
But they are definitely fun to collect 😁
@@artsyducky3142 true that and I like to try and find the ones with the best box condition but unfortunately that's not always the case at the moment i think i have like 150 pop figurines. Mainly anime and comic characters
I love listening to these while not paying attention to online classes
You learn a lot more from R slash.
@@vegetasprincess7273 I Learn more from everything besides school
@@Jpt1012 ain't that the damn truth? Haha
Rslash teaches us how the real world works. Schools don't teach us these things. I'm 13 and I have no idea how insurance, deposit, credit cards, mortgage, renting, interest, bank accounts, files, paychecks, court trials, income ect work. I barely know anything about the real world so it's good to have someone explain how to deal with messy situations.
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Regarding the 'self-centeredness' in autism, that's not necessarily true. We may seem so, but that doesn't mean we are. Our brain works differently and the self-absorption that is often spoken about is an outdated myth claimed by those that don't understand the brain of an autistic person. Makes me quite angry. But, to me, that kid in that very moment seemed very entitled (which makes sense with a mother who encourages it honestly), and that doesn't need to have anything to do with being autistic. Kids can just really be little poops sometimes.
But the mother is an absolute piece of garbage, first of all, who calls anyone (let alone a child) an r-word. There's no way the daughter is not picking up on that, especially when it was used badly against her too. Speaking from experience, when parents do that it can harm you for years to come.
I absolutely agree with you that autistic people should not be viewed as self-centered. I will, however, also mention that there's an autistic man I know who lives with his mom who never tells him no for anything and basically gives him whatever he wants whenever he wants. I also run a social group for autistic adults, and when we're going someplace for a get together and he can't be there for it, he'll outright cancel the get together just because he can't show up. Now, in some instances, this might seem like he just doesn't understand how to behave in that situation, but I think his mother not telling him no for anything is also the cause of him doing things like this.
I was wondering about that. I'd be more willing to simply consider that autistic individuals may have a confused or misaligned sense of self, and think it was more a poor choice of words than an intentional spreading of misinformation. It's easy to see that in OP's daughter's case though, no thanks to his now ex-wife, it developed into a bloated self-centered aura and a sense of entitlement. I do hope the daughter ends up better with age and without such an awful mother around.
my little brother (6 in 2 days) has severe autism and is non-verbal. and my mom would never just snatch something out of another kids hands for him (unless it's me and my siblings who are the kids). My brother has it worse than many because he also has stage 4 cancer but everyone in my family (except for my almost 8 year old sister) knows how to handle someone who takes something from him. we gently take the toy from the person and explain how it's not theirs. simple. being entitled is never helpful
Yes it does. It’s just less selfishness per se and more not being aware of how you look to others and not being able to read the room.
The last time i was this early corona was a beer
Dang.
I work in a supermarket and at the beginning of the pandemic I thought it was funny no one wanted to buy corona.
Lmao
I love this
@@andrewvalentine6977 Didn't bother me though, I just grabbed as much of it as I could since noone else wanted it and I like the stuff. XD
7:40 completely agree. it pisses me off when they say that autistic people don't have empathy. Like, honestly, allistic ppl don't either!
You’re confusing the types of empathy.
@@wannabehistorian371 no I'm not I'm being purposefully vague in that comment
I'm very aware that cognitive empathy and emotional empathy is different and that autistics sometimes tend to lack cognitive empathy. Hell, I do, and I have very heightened emotional empathy, so, trust me, I know!
@@amaeliss7827 So maybe some people are talking about Cognitive empathy when they say that.
@@amaeliss7827 i have autism and this makes me lack ability to socialize with others properly and i just gonna keep talking to others to improve my social skills
@@Nockgun that's different from empathy though! I also lack empathy to socialise, to some degree, and I used to be less good at it, but that doesn't mean I'm not empathetic
That last story made me cry. It feels so good to hear stories like that, where some justice is actually served. Maybe I can't get it for myself, but knowing that other people can be free of the bullshit makes up for it. I'm so glad OP and their family are safe from that lunatic.
Looks at title
*_WHAT IN THE LITERAL FU-_*
the definition of satisfication
"As The Cat in The Hat saw somebody beating a woman, he grabbed a baseball bat and decided to destroy the man's kneecaps. The man was on the ground rolling around in pain. The Cat in The Hat decided to end his suffering, he grabbed a pistol and put a silencer on it, he then said 'Shhhhhh. It will all be over soon.' He then shot the man.
@@heli2555 ooo that's cute
@@heli2555 I am reading this to my future children
OP in the last story, should of received "Sibling of the Year Award". For protecting her sibling, even before they came into this world.
After OP's little brother was born, her mother could of taken a photo of the two. With OP holding her brother in one arm, and a bat in the other.
rslash: I put out new reddit videos every single-
*video cuts out*
me: EVERY SINGLE WHAT?!
I just wanna add something for context: Not having the ability to feel empathy doesn’t mean you’re a douche, I have ASPD, and we don’t have the ability to feel actual empathy. That being said, with work, we are usually great at SHOWING it to other people. Some ppl call it masking. If we, people who have no idea what it feels like to feel real feelings, can put kindness into the world, (although I may slip sometimes, I own it) a Karen can. Karen has no excuse.
For real though. I guess some people are too stupid to know what empathy is. (Hint it's not people with ASPD)
@@seabass819 Or just never really cared in the first place.
youre 100% right i have aspd too and ur comment is spot on
So, you are able to basically learn it but not feel it? That’s interesting.
masking is also incredibly common in autism in girls. you adopt traits of those around you to fit in, if I'm remembering correctly
The kid in the last story was a hero. He likely save his brother's life, and possibly his mom's, too. he certainly protected them. He was more of a man at 11 than his mom's boyfriend was as an adult.
I always laugh at rSlashes “Karen” and “Kevin” voices, idk how he manages to sound so entitled without being it. Also, have a good day of you are reading this
You read hop on pop.
Now we have:
Break pop’s legs with a baceball bat
The 11 y/o is legit a hero. And when this hadn't happened, who knows how much the abuse would've gone on, the unborn baby might've likely died (if not because of that incident, then who knows what the dude would've done once the baby had born and ie cried a lot or something and he happened to be "in a bad mood" again at that moment...) plus very likely he could've even killed the mother in a fit of rage as well. The kid might've very likely saved one or multiple lives.
Boyfriend: *raises hand*
Boy: im about to ruin this mans whole career
Baseball Bat be like: *BOOM* *BAM* *BOP* *BODABOPBOOM* *POW*and the Dad was yelling *OHHHHHHHHH* from the pain
My mom had to take care of my grandmother (her mother in law) for the rest of her life. All her hospital visits, cooking, cleaning, medication, hiding when we’d go out without her, and going behind her back to enjoy herself. I love my grandma and I know she loved her too but she was too much. She needed someone more qualified to tend to her needs.
Gave that entitled father a home run
There is a very big line between empathy and entitlement, that women ain't lacking empathy she just don't understand why the whole world don't revolve around her and her only. Henceforth she easily can use her empathy with her daughter who want the doll thingy very much, but completly ignore some random ppl in a store.
Clearly a red flag worth divorce. ^^'
I have a feeling they just told that last kid that he was staying at his grandma's because of health problems with his mom's diet, when really they were putting him in his grandma's house to protect him from the stepdad. Though it turns out they were protecting the stepdad from him!
*YES*
In the last story: "My mom's dietary changes were causing me health problems."
.....I'm sorry, what?
He was probably referring about pregnancy cravings, it must be bad if it causes him health problems.
If someone is used to eating one thing, a quick change in the diet can cause a bit of stomach issues
@@themediocremen1128 Or the mom was trying to get the son out of the house because step-dad was escalating, since before this step-dad only hit son. Or Mima gave mom an ultimatum since it seems like she been collecting evidence. Just my thoughts on what really happened, but they didn't tell an 11y/o to not scare him.
@@amylynneforsyth843 that is quite possible too
She kinda changed his diet along with the diet that she had. So whatever she ate, he had to eat as well.
Story 1: OP's inlaws want to stay in his house free for 8 months every year for like 20 years
Story 2: entitled mother who calls kids retarded when her kid has mental issues, got divorced
Story 3: mother just straight up steals credit for OP's science fair project and says her son did it, gets shit down real quick
Story 4: office lady thinks single men don't deserve a day off on holidays
Story 5: OP breaks some knees
Thanks, i really wanted to read the title story, so this let's me know whatborder they are. But you might want to put a spoiler warning, ya basically put a small summary for each one.
@die die I see this as an absolute win!
I can already tell this is gonna be one hell of a spicy batch
The baseball bat one makes me think of scout from tf2 and his bat.
"Bonk!" - Scout from the game TF2
“Pop quiz! How long does it take to beat a moron to death? BZZT! Sorry, time’s up, you’re dead!”
Grass grows and brother, I hurt people.
@@Nik-ny9ue "Grass grows - birds fly - sun shines, and brother, I HURT PEOPLE"
-Scout from the game TF2
@@kaevek8937 Yeah.. that's the one
The baseball bat being grabbed: "Oh boy, must be time to annihilate some knee caps!"
The first story: easy solution: have the parents buy a tiny home, out it in the garden of the children. It's cost efficient and put's some space between the generations.
My son has autism and the exact same outbursts, but we’ve also raised him well enough that he does have manners and would never do something like that. He would be upset, but then accept the fact that he didn’t get what he wanted. I’m not saying that the father is a bad parent, but the mother is definitely a horrible woman and probably never disciplined your daughter.
many kids can still struggle even when being raised properly and taught what's right from wrong, especially on bad days or in an overstimulating setting like a grocery store. it's a spectrum for a reason, the father could be doing everything right. it's a set of circumstances we don't quite know.
@@picklethedragon4889 I totally agree. I’m just saying that a lot of parents with kids on the spectrum don’t discipline the same way as usual kids, and I understand why, but some don’t discipline their spectrum kids at all. Like the mother in this situation should have looked to see if there were more before berating the other parent for not giving the funko pop to her child. She didn’t even consider the fact the other child has a disability as well.
Hey kudos to you. Seriously, I would be so proud of myself and my child to be or see loving parent be able to effectively take care of a child with autism. I realize that this can for some people come off as offensive because from a stranger it can seem like im meaning this in a sarcastic kind of tone when I genuinely dont. So many people treat spectrum kids as if they are a burden but they are people too. They have quirks but hey, what's not to love in your own child? I hope that the child grows up to be an amazing person and always knows they have an amazing parent.
@@perfectlyflawed3061 - yeah. And i see your point there now. Sorry for the confusion.
Boyfriend: about to hit mom
Mortal combat announcer to OP: FINISH HIM
Amen for that young man for protecting his mother. Very courageous. She could have lost the baby.
Well atleast now we know how those awkwardly looking husbands of entitled karens feels like
Terrible parents i love my parents even more
The sister will get sick of housing her parents 8 months of the year. I do wonder if the other sister is single because that could explain why she is okay with housing the parents, which could change in the future?
Given Rslash misread the bit about them staying with the sister as being with no issues when the OP wrote “not without issues” which means there *were* issues I suspect the sister will grow tired of them
Dad: "about to commit crime"
Op: Say goodbye to you're kneecaps chucklehead
It’s a good morning when r/slash posts
The boyfriend: * about to hit OP's pregnant mum*
OP: YOU PICKED THE WRONG HOUSE FOOL!
The boy in the last story is a badass, when he grows up i bet no one will mess with him.
*Boyfriend raises hand to hit mother*
OP: “So you have chosen... death...”
Toxic BF: *Hitting OP’s Pregnant Mother*
OP: *Say Bye Bye To Knee Caps*
*Cha cha real smooth*
The story about “only people with kids should get time off for holidays” had me thinking of my mother. She is a very hard worker, always more than willing to help out with extra shifts and overtime, goes out of her way to never be late, to never leave early and (to an unhealthy degree sometimes) pushes through serious illness to not let her workplace down.
I was proud of her for standing her ground one year when she had gotten the primary vacation weeks for the Summer. Usually she work those and vacation later in the Summer, after the school vacation weeks. But that year she had plans with family she missed and hadn’t seen in a long time and choose to not budge when the parents in her job was like: “But you’re children are grown ups now, you should leave these weeks for parents.”
My mom ALWAYS goes out of her way to please other and she shouldn’t always have to. It can’t always be about the people with small children; they wanted those weeks off they shouldn’t have waited to the last minute to ask for them.
Did the title make anyone else think about Eminem’s song “stepdad”
No
@@RedTex225 why not
@@dyltube6395 I’ve never really listened to Eminem
@@RedTex225 well it doesn’t apply to you then
@@dyltube6395 well hey now, I was just answering your question
THAT LAST STORY WITH HOP ON POP WITH A BASEBALL BAT MADE ME SMILE SO MUCH
Based off the title..this should be interesting
Boyfriend: *proceeds to beat OP’s mom*
OP: *The Only Thing They Fear Is You starts playing*
Yeahhhhh! My birthday episode!! 😁😁😁
Stepdad: beats pregnant mom
OP: *picks up baseball bat with destructive intent*
*RIP AND TEAR PLAYS*
So OP turned into Jimmy from At Dead Of Night?
First story: Guess what? There actually are campgrounds throughout the US that are open all year long, even in the northern states ( I used to work at one in Michigan). You want a camping lifestyle, it's available but it does cost.
Hope that everybody that reads this have a good day
You to...
@@midnightthedruid9946 thanks
Whoever Carla is, I want to thank her because I'm keeping that advice for when I get a bigger job
Title made me stop my other vid half way through
Wow, the last story really made my blood boil. How the hell would someone assault an innocent and helpless pregnant mother like that? I'm glad he got arrested. Great job protecting your mother OP! As for the little brother, I'm sure he's grateful to have an older sibling there to protect him for the rest of his life :)
Yes I’m early for once! Even though I was in the middle of watching another vid-
We have to work all the holiday’s except Thanksgiving and Christmas. I’ve had jobs where you are REQUIRED to work ALL holidays. Its fun when customers show up and say “sorry you have to work on Christmas.” You seriously have to hold back yelling at them... “THEN GO HOME.”
Karen voice: i need the day off so i can go yell at managers and take my entitled kids to go run and scream in stores.
Ya, never tell your boss why you want a day off. I used to work in a grocery store with a girl back in the days and she told me she needed to take a day off because she had friends over for the weekend. I told her, just walk in there and tell him I'm not coming in to work tomorrow, nothing else. She didn't listen and didn't get her day off. Coincidentally I needed a day off the next week for a dentist appointment. I just walked in the office, told him "I'm not coming in to work next Friday" he just said ok and that was it. If they ask, just say "Personal Reasons" or something.
Lmfao I've litterally been waiting for you to post😂
Samee
Husband: beat my wife
OP: IT'S PEANUT BUTTER JELLY TIME
Welcome to the comments everyone
The ending to that last story was so satisfying. May be an unpopular opinion I have, but I feel like no parent should ever be allowed visitation rights if it's been proven that they are abusive to anyone, even if supervised. Those kinds of people often tend to be extremely manipulative, and could still harm the children with lies and gaslighting, ect.
Imagine having the audacity to hit a pregnant woman
IKR!?
@@EvilKermZ hope the baby is alright
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Now, my mother *does* live with me, which has caused more than a few funny situations when some people have asked "So, OP, when do you plan on moving out?" and I have to go "If anyone's going to move out, it will be her." Still, for context, I have Autism, which causes me a few issues. Thus, when I was about 20, and my mother and her boyfriend, as well as myself and my younger brother, wanted a better place to live, the decision was made to put the place in both mine and her boyfriend's names, or something along those lines (he had better credit than mother at the time). Now, a few years ago, the boyfriend's father passed away - cancer - and thus he lives at that property now, so that it stays in the family. Mother visits him on the weekends, which is useful for me learning independent skills. Now, here's the big thing, mom helps out by paying at least some of the bills, and buying groceries - about a 50-50 split for the most part. If she wasn't, I might have been inclined to throw her out - my name's on the deed after all - I hope I don't have to do that though.
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The best part of that last story is that since OP was a child, they couldn't really punish him for using such extreme measures to protect his mother because "he's a child"
Story from the dad of an autistic girl:
I agree with him on everything except one point. He said the other girl has it worse than his daughter and, I know this is an unpopular opinion but he's super wrong about that. The world at large goes above and beyond to accommodate people with physical disabilities. Sure, it makes your life harder but everyone tries their best to help and if they don't, they're seen as a massive asshole. On the other hand, as an autistic girl, the world is so cruel and ableist to people with invisible disabilities. I've had meltdowns in the hall at school before where I was on the floor, hyperventilating and unable to move and no one tried to help. Some people would stand around starting like I was some kind of freak too. I got detention once for "being disruptive" in middle school because of that. Autistic people are expected to mask all the time, which is incredibly exhausting, and if we don't, we're expected to apologize for our normal behaviours because it makes people uncomfortable or doesn't conform to neurotypical social norms. So he's definitely wrong about that and I hope he comes to understand in time just how mentally taxing his daughter's disorder is because she's going to need that support in her life.
I will also say, I'm glad he still got her the toy instead of trying to punish her for behaving that way. She does of course need to learn not to do that, but taking away something she really wanted wouldn't have helped since she likely wouldn't have understood why she was being punished and it would have just led to unnecessary resentment. Good dad moment.
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@@arandomraccoon8565 you're literally just providing my point. You clearly don't take invisible disabilities seriously if that's how you respond to what I wrote.
You make a great point about invisible disabilities! I think more people need to know this. Sending virtual hugs 🤗
Nobody “has it worse,” they both have their respective hardships. While you are correct that accommodations are made for physically disabled people, that does *not* mean that ableism directed at physically disabled people is “less” or “eradicated ” (I put these in quotes to make a statement, not to mock). The two types of ableism shouldn’t be compared/pinned against each other, we can acknowledge the differences between ableism directed at autistic/neurodivergent(ND) folks without watering down ableism directed at physically disabled folk.
TLDR: The world definitely is farther behind with autistic and other accommodations compared to physically disabled people, but that doesn’t mean one has it better/worse compared to the other and people need to stop with the oppression olympics.
Note: This is coming from a neurodivergent person who isn’t classified as disabled
Note 2: I couldn’t digest all the words you said (it’s hard for me to intake large chunks of text), so I’m sorry if I repeat anything’s you say.
also, invisible disabilities *definitely* need to be talked about more! Just because someone doesn’t “look disabled” doesn’t mean they don’t deserve equity in accessibility and equality as a human being. I felt like your stance with disabilities having accommodations came off as “because they look disabled, it doesn’t count as much as invisible disabilities.”
Please correct me if I got the wrong idea and I truly don’t mean malice, I just want to have discussions and learn/educate
From the last story where OP hit someone with a baseball bat when they were going to hit his mum. I can imagine this kid becoming a superhero
I’m here early! Nice, time to grab a cup of coffee and watch some rSlash!
It's funny how Op realized he married a vile woman yet a minute ago claimed that she had enough redeeming qualities that he could change her for the better.
Happens every day!
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3rd story: You'd think the EM and SS would think things through.....like change out the name.
Judge: So you made this
EM and SS: Yes
Judge: and your name is Stupid son
SS: Yeah
Judge: Then why does this have OP as the name?
SS: Uh typo. Im sure you make a typo here and there
EM (while slapping SS): I told you to change the name
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Mine is going good too
"who decides to live off of other people just because?"
My dad and his whole side of the family.
Usually I am against violence however the last story was necessary in my opinion. Who tf beats another person, LET ALONE a pregnant woman! smfh op was right, man was a waste of dna
It’s funny you mention Dr Seuss because I have a quote that so perfectly fits here:
“I've brought a big bat. I'm all ready, you see; now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!”
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That last story was about as satisfying as the scene in Kindergarten Cop. You know which one im talking about.
"You hit the kid. I hit you."
So how's it going guys
Don't ask. Really shitty.
I once gave my stepdad a concussion with a frying pan because he decided to try to choke his own kid out in a drunken rage. Let me tell you, the feeling was INCRADIBLE, that dude was a POS
2nd story: I want to justify EMs behavior by saying "maybe she is on the spectrum too." But even if that IS the case that doesn't justify verbally assaulting a handicapped child and her momma.
Not likely, I wouldn't diagnose people online to be honest. Entitled people can sometimes just be that- entitled, unfortunately :/
As someone on the spectrum, I was taught to not be horrible to anyone (but still stick up for myself), whether it IS the case or not it will never fully justify verbally assaulting someone. Though sometimes I may do or say something and not realise that it was wrong, once told I will feel incredibly guilty and apologise to anyone I upset right away. Still no excuse to being horrible to anyone.
I thought the same because autism can be undiagnosed until later in life especially in woman but there is still no excuse for her behaving like this even if she was... She is an entitled Karen and even after loosing all respect in her husbands eyes she still thinks she is right... I doubt she will ever change...
It doesn't justify it, but I think it's something she can be made to recognize was wrong. I think she's a salvageable human being still and just needs intensive work to recognize when she's being entitled. Although if the husband doesn't feel up to doing so/standing by her through the process that's understandable and not his responsibility. I do think calling her vile is a bit much though.
@@amysomething3370 diagnosing wasn't my intention, I was just trying to make it make sense in my mind, but then I remembered what subreddit this was.
The guy: about to hit a pregnant woman
This kid: I’m gonna break your niko-niko kneecaps!
the second story gives us a perspective of a Nice Dad we commonly see in Entitles Parents stories.
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AMOGUS
…that story about the mother who called the little girl in a wheelchair an r word made me super mad…i hate that word with a burning passion and question why it is even a word in the first place…i have mild autism too and it is basically invisible to anyone who does not know me…i have unfortunately been called an r word before in the past so i can really relate to the situation…i wish i could slap OP’s ex wife…some people are actually the worst…
WHO TF DISLIKED THE VIDEO
Possibly "Karens"
Good. Kid's got a good swing. Glad the 'father' can't hurt any of them again. Hope he has a permanent limp to remind him of his evil life choices.
Yeah Getting called the R Word is NOT fun, my Autism combo'd with acting like a dinosaur in school got me called one often, other than Dino boy of course
I'm so sorry your classmates were so horrible. =(
I am on the spectrum - discovered in my 30's, but my cousin is not - she was tested both as a child and in her late 20's.
She had a few phases I remember well... the first was when she was about 4 or 5, and decided she was a seafull. She'd flap, and proudly tell everyone she was a seagull, and all she did was eat, poop, and fly. Then, a few years later, she decided she was a horse. She literally trotted and cantered EVERYWHERE. She'd neigh and do that mouth thing that sounds kinda like bphlbbbb, toss her "mane", etc.
I remembered being a bit envious of this... every time I acted in ANY way different from others, I was disciplined... smacked, spanked, etc. I just could not understand why she was allowed, and I wasn't, even when playing in my own room with no one (non-family) around?
When my son went through one of these phasrs, I let him. What harm was it? He acted like a cat, claimed he was a cat, and was completely obsessed with cats. He'd meow and purr. The line drawn was eating on the floor with just his mouth. Lol. More for safety than anything, and also, mealtimes were a brief window for family interaction. Snacks were also at the table or in a chair. Once he hit around the middle of 1st grade, he was over "being" a cat, but his love for cats carries to this day, nearly 20 years later.
And while he was tested as a child for autism and was found to have a few indicators, they decided that ultimately, he was just very imaginative - same result with the second assessment as a young teen. As he is an adult now, I did ask him to get rechecked (other things do concern me), but because he is an adult, only he can choose to go through with it, or he can decide not to. So far, he's decided against it, and that's ok with me, but I know what when I was finally diagnosed, it was a huge light-bulb moment for me. If my son does have it, its a pretty "mild" situation, and he seems to have learned much like I did... lots of observing, memorization of rules that are unwritten/ invisible, adapting as much as possible, and learning how to pull away from uncomfortable situations before the point of no return.
Its a strange thing to think of how many adults and even children there are who likely have gone undiagnosed or even misdiagnosed. In my case my psychiatrist clearly stated it was due to gender bias, (especially when I was a child). Back then, there really were no, or few, guidelines on how biology affects the expression of neurodiversity. It was only thanks to an article I read that I printed out, circled what criteria I fit, and took it in that even got me on the road to being diagnosed to be begin with!
And hey...
If you wanna roar like a dino... roar like a dino. Personally, I think it'd be pretty awesome!
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I hope that you're doing better now and that you can finally be free of the harassment and that the jerks that called you the r-word have gotten punished