They still take it personal. And that is part of building attraction. Too many people think women are either attracted to them or not. It's not like that. It's the man's duty to build that attraction through doing more attractive behaviors and less unattractive behaviors.
This is facts. Not to sound like I am overthinking it but this happened last month. Girl I knew in high school, suddenly messages me on Snapchat telling me she misses me, hoping I'm doing well in life. I message back asking her how she's been. 1 tell her I'm back in the city, she doesn't ask me to catch up with her. Mind you, I would constantly ask her out between 2019-2021, so I felt like it was her turn. After a while she says something I felt was of slight inconvenience, so I leave her on read. She typed after an hr of ignoring her but then stopped. My gut feeling told me she didn't really miss me, but missed the attention I used to give her.
Then move on. This advice is about having self respect not getting bitches. Having self respect will attract more women than being a simp. You will still lose women, but you take it to the chin and it will be noticed.
Better thing to do is to not answer your phone on the weekend even if you have nothing going on. Girls who are not a guarantee should only be able to reach you during business hours.
Not texting women literaly at all is the number 1 trick to making them want you, you have to set the standard as that from the beginning tho, if you literally tell them “I don’t text” and never text them they will literally become obsessed with you, just keep it to phone calls to meet up and you can either plan the next meet up when you’re in person or phone call, NEVER text them and watch how they become OBSESSED with you especially if you’re in person game is top notch, if they ever do text you and ask how come you can’t respond, you once again lay the foundation “I told you I don’t text” you don’t even need an excuse, you literally just say you don’t text, the same way you don’t use Snapchat or Facebook or whatever, they will become obsessed, I had the girl inviting me places all the time just to see me/talk to me, texting ruins relationships, don’t do it at all, and watch the magic unfold
It depends on where the woman comes from...In my country, if a guy doesn't text you or even whatsapp you, you just delete or block his number. its seen as a lack of interest. Also why would I call or text someone who is not interested in a conversation?? There is always another guy interested to chat longer...
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Be yourself and if the woman you're pursuing is not responsive, move on. She's not interested. Instead of wasting your time playing games, spend the energy and find someone who likes you just as equally.
This. I hope people realize how toxic and harmful these mind games and their underlying motivations are not only to the individual but society as a whole due to the popularity of it has become
As a man you can’t be yourself anymore you have to have a cold personality to get most women nowadays. No more space for nice respectful caring loving guys sorry. Women know their place on a man’s roster they are there to compete just like men compete for women. Unfortunately women only compete for the top.
Problem is, women are very disingenuous and will feign interest to get a guy back before a rinse and repeat. Men absolutely have to play these games. Not me tho since I bail 100% at the first sign. Y'all stay safe.
I was with him till that last part. Some women actually care about their safety and don’t go out with men they are just getting to know later at night. As men we can ask for a woman who has self respect and safety awareness and be upset when they hold that boundary.
Well this is an "exceptional" male's "logic". They operate from the "I'm *that* guy" mentality which actually hurts them in the long run, because they're guided by the beauty of their ego. There are women who only meet up at public places where they can be seen & don't go out late. It's usually promiscuous females who have no issue putting themselves in compromising positions. If she tells you pick me up from my place, chances are you're not the only dude thats doing that with her. But male ego thinks "Oh I'm so special because she gave me her address" 😂 Bottom line is, you don't know what her reasoning is so either you operate based on a negative generalization. Or you can be aware of what you don't know. Thats something you have to find out. Online material has some people confused & lacking self-awareness.
The chances of a woman getting hurt in any physical way by a man is extremely low nowadays, they are pretty much scared of nothing😂. She is more safer then he is at night I can bet money on it.
@@TomikaKellythat’s not the point. You don’t allow women to waste your time and resources and disrespect you before the relationship even starts. If she does imagine being in an actual relationship with her.
@@TomikaKellyAnd so will she 😂not all men are lonley some actually have more women than you think. 2 can play at that game, I see you everywhere in the comments tho which is interesting. You’ve definitely been ignored by a man before.
True you need to be in abundance and not care too much about texting a girl! If she doesn’t comply move on and find someone who will comply. Also, don’t do rescheduling leave she don’t want you or respect you.
@basedlander7836 lmao you think he didn't act at some point. You fake it till you get it bro. Act like your future abundant self would act, don't be desperate.
I leaved women on read accidentally because im a deep conversations guy and never was interested in the small talk of the text game. This is a powerful thing to do if the woman is interested in you if you use it in the right place at the right time. So many girls that saw me as a friend started to like me romantically and crave my attention when we were together. Also keep in mind that she can easily text another guy. You need to keep your attention value high enough so she will only want to text you.
@@hot-coco But he didn't say that shes rejected he said "leave on read" expecting her to offer other options He didn't block her number and neither tell her that he isn't interested he just Didn't text her, After telling him that she doesn't want to meet in the evenings she can offer other options
@@hot-coco he also knows that woman have these silly requirements for certain guys that they choose. And they break all of those requirements depending on the guy. If her boss or some high status, celebrity or business person told her to meet at this restaurant, I highly doubt she’ll be telling them what she’s not going to do.
@@hot-coco no one said anything about sleeping around. In the video, he said, going out on a date at night. A lot of women will mouth off these standards that they have, but will throw them all out the window depending on the guy. We all know this. And are we children?. “I won’t go out at night.” 😂 so tell me who should conform to who’s schedule then??
This works! Key thing to know though… *she has to first be interested in you though for it to work!* if she doesnt care about you cos she see’s you as guy number 15th place in her whole list of guys chassing after her, your abscence will not even be noticed. Letalone felt.
Stop texting and vocalize your thoughts by calling, and if they ignore, block. Talking is better when feeling an individual's vibe or energy. That's how one should gauge a person. Eff texting.
It's TRUE the moment you treat them like NOTHING they want your validation. Which i HATE! i wanna show my care, but then to their stupid psychology that makes me EASY, BORING, UNINTERESTING 🙃
This is from the perspective of having an abundance REALITY versus just an abundance mindset. If you don't have an abundance reality, then leaving the few girls you're talking to on read won't do much for you. It might even backfire if they were genuinely interested.
Exactly bro don’t ever get yourself attached to one girl because chances are she’s probably talking to other guys or texting them so don’t ever feel like you’re the ONLY guy talking to her pretty sure there’s other guys that are texting her as well
@@CarlosPerez-ff4lk it happens all the time bro whenever I’m texting a girl sometimes that happens where she’ll start being dried with me giving me one worded responses or just leaving me on read on purpose
@@adrianchico8886Real shit bro I learned this the hard way that’s why I talk to multiple women at once & don’t get attached quickly. I’m done wasting time/money on ppl I know won’t work
Ephesians 5:22-33 Proverbs 31. please, we do not need more dysfunctional behaviors in this world we live in. This is not how God wants his children to do, it’s creates confusion. This is why we need to read the Word of God, for his divine instructions on what our roles are as man and woman. There are consequences when we do it our own way and not God’s way, people get hurt. Hosea 4:6 my people perish for lack of knowledge.
OR we could all just act like grown ups and communicate effectively and tell the other person how we feel. If they dont feel the same way, we can just end things cordially...🙃
Guys don’t listen to this person. Read the name. She’s a woman. Unless you’re consistently hooking up with a girl open communication is a waste of time. In the beginning if you see low cooperation assume low interest and move on.
Fr I get so turned on with lack of investment. I’m clearing going out of my way to plan a date or even get to know you. If I don’t see something within a day or so. Gone
I have to agree with @stacy on this one.. A mature woman, maybe one in her 30s or older doesn't waste her time with those mind games, she just assumes the guy isn't interested and blocks and deletes him. So the power goes poof**.
This is solid advice also lets you know how much interest she has in you we all know this gender don't call but I got a couple of them to call me from doing this or delaying my responses even when I'm not doing anything I make her wait 10 mins before replying once she's persistently auto replying that's when I drop from 10 to 3 mins. This makes you seem busy and makes your attention worthwhile for her because it's not in abundance
This creates an infinite loop. Women are taught to have standards and to prefer evenings over nights. Men like women who have standards and who don't easily agree with them, apparently. If men start acting cold and unbothered, women and men would never agree and start a relationship, leaving both sides proud and alone. Thats where it's leading
Women contribute to that downfall by leaving men on read and leading them on so they can use them later instead of directly communicating if they are not interested. It’s both genders fault but what else can a man do except ignore them as well. Women mistake genuine interest and attention for thirstiness, gotta act like you don’t care so they can actually appreciate you.
Although it can be useful, these strategies are why nobody has any loyalty anymore. Both men and women. It's all a competition to see who looks less needy, it's actually ridiculous and hurts relationships.
The slightest hint of game playing and I'm gone. Authenticity all the way. Be yourself ! If the energy does not match, just leave the situation altogether. Why waste your energy playing games anyway.
It depends on the vibe they giving you most def. I left alot of women on read and they end up telling me I wasnt interested. So they move on to the next. If they talking a whole bunch of nothing, leave em on read absolutely because they dont value your time.
Just a bunch of mind games. The woman you’re meant to be with won’t leave you on read and you shouldn’t leave them on read neither. If you’re both truly in to each other, it doesn’t matter who texts who first or who sets up the date. If she’s interested, you’ll know. Stop chasing women that aren’t worth your time. Instead out that time and energy into yourself and eventually, the right one will come along. When they do, again, no mind games like this! Please guys, don’t intentionally leave women on read thinking it’ll make them crave your attention. It’s fake feelings. It’s not meant to last. Just forget about all this crap. It’s not sustainable and will drive you crazy. And waste your time. That’s the biggest one. Don’t waste your time.
If evening dates cause "inconvenience" and piss you off so much that you don't even respond there's something wrong with you. I could've understood if she asked to bring her friends over to the date but asking for a time change isn't that "inconvenient"
She never ask for a time change. Did you not watch the video? She said I don’t do evening dates and did not offer up a solution or alternative. Is it adding up for you now?
@acdsfjhu "Did not offer a solution or alternative" my ass. What was this- "Oh I don't go out at nights, I prefer evenings" And- "The slightest of inconvenience to me, I leave them on read" Looks like someone didn't watch the video properly
@@treytonfernsby the appointment that I’m making is he also knows that woman have these silly requirements for certain guys that they choose. And they break all of those requirements depending on the guy. If her boss or some high status, celebrity or business person told her to meet at this restaurant, I highly doubt she’ll be telling them what she’s not going to do. “I don’t go out at night” what are we children? 😂
Bro the average woman has 100 times more options than the average man not to mention theres a bunch of simps out there 😂 you leave them on read and she will move on to the next guy that is giving her attention. This is not going to work for 95% of guys 😂
You genuinely believe this ? 99 of those 100 men will be either unattractive, simps or betas 😂. Women don’t like those guys so they really aren’t options to them !!
@@artemis3736 I never stated that texting her back will work moron. It's a shoot or miss, either she's into you or not just not texting her back isn't going to work because she's going to move on to the next one regardless if she's into you or not
@@artemis3736 this is a good point and also if the majority of men start doing this it could have a cumulative effect, also if those men start supporting each other and developing hobbies together then when they do connect with women they will be less needy and more interesting. TLDR: as more and more of us invest our time and attention more intentionally we can help ourselves and men as a collective
i have trouble leaving anybody on read just because I like to let the other person know that I’ve acknowledged their message at the very least. At most I’ll drop a react to the message so that they know I’ve seen it
You’re mature and have a proper sense of respect for others. Don’t down your good upbringing…You’re actually functioning in a healthy fashion. That’s fantastic! 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Sell, don’t be sold. I wish I had a dollar for every time a girl recommended a guy does ABC, only to respond MUCH more desirably to a guy doing XYZ. Math time: 1) “Be Fruitful & Multiply.” (God, to Adam) + 2) “Don’t give your strength to women.” (God via Solomon) Conclusion? 3) Let them chase YOU. Humans are wired to pursue the closure of open loops. ‘Read’ is an open loop, and a reaction is as good as a reply. Be less invested in closure than the other person is, and you win. Your attention funds the BILLION-dollar cosmetics industry, playa~ Married/wifey’d-up women are swiping on Tinder just for the ego boost. Why WOULDN’T your dismissal of money “well” spent be equated to toxicity? 🫴 Just put the phone down…
This is Indeed true. I was texting a girl on IG and asked for her number. She said she didnt have one (obviusly lying) so I left her on read. A couple hours later she gave it to me like nothing lol
Use the ‘takeaway’ (ok) or if she’s ‘too sick to come out’ say ‘you’ll be good’ - a girl responded by saying ‘where are you now’ directly after that. We ended up bonding after that 😆😆
True l have been able to naturally do this from a young age but would only do it to women whom l did not fully commit to but the ones l really wanted l would switch up real quick and start texting paragraphs and shit, of course now that l know the game l deliberately leave them on read especially when l am doing something. It could be something as trivial as taking a shit 😂
I hear a lot of people in the comments say the woman has to be attracted to you. Well you will know for sure the moment you leave her on read. If she doesn’t text you back or talk to you then it’s over you got the message that she doesn’t like you, you move on to the next giro
I hate that this is true. These mind games are just toxic, and yet seemingly necessary. Saudi Arabia has the right idea, this foolishness is nonexistent over there.
Even in Saudi Arabia it’s becoming toxic as well coming from a person who’s born and raised in KSA..slowly slowly these standards started to influence people here too!
I actually do leave women on read , reasons why I do: 1. Conversation is whack 2. Inconvenience as you say 3. Too eager to know my job title, straight off the bat
Comment section just full of guys who don't value themselves at all and see ladies like demigods as usual. If a Rising cloth brand I patronize regularly stopped treating me well. I'm out the door Would they give a fuck? No Does it mean I should stay and keep receiving floppy service jus because they have many customers and won't notice if I leave? Noooo. It's literally your best bet. In rare cases they check on you. Most of the time you've just done yourself a big favour. It's not all about gains, cutting Ls before they become too big is good too.
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i think youre right man, no more taking shit, ima leave her on read for a whole day, so annoying
Keep in mind a woman has to give a fuck about you leaving her on read in the first place.. many times we are a non factor in their lives 😂
Exactly the attraction has to be there
They still take it personal. And that is part of building attraction. Too many people think women are either attracted to them or not. It's not like that. It's the man's duty to build that attraction through doing more attractive behaviors and less unattractive behaviors.
You’re not leaving her on read to get back at her…. You leave her on read when she isn’t acting right and you go where you’re appreciated.
bro sometimes they don't even know you left them on read 😂😂😂
@@axhvwwwovorm5854 exactly 😭🤣
And then when they hit you with the “not you leaving me on read” that’s when you know they’re craving your attention
What’s the point of adding the “not you” at the beginning of that sentence?
@benjaminwoodman Bc they expect u to answer them.
@@benjaminwoodmandumb gen z
@@benjaminwoodman It's the way some woman talk nowadays.
@@benjaminwoodmanGen Z Slang bro
This is facts. Not to sound like I am overthinking it but this happened last month. Girl I knew in high school, suddenly messages me on Snapchat telling me she misses me, hoping I'm doing well in life. I message back asking her how she's been.
1 tell her I'm back in the city, she doesn't ask me to catch up with her. Mind you, I would constantly ask her out between
2019-2021, so I felt like it was her turn.
After a while she says something I felt was of slight inconvenience, so I leave her on read. She typed after an hr of ignoring her but then stopped. My gut feeling told me she didn't really miss me, but missed the attention I used to give her.
She tested the waters to see if you still liked her and you relaxed and showed indifference
That’s what they do anyway, ghost you at the slightest inconvenience
This.
i experienced this too, but this only works if shes into you. If not you will never hear from her again, or maybe if she needs an ego boost
Yep, if she doesn’t already like you she’s gonna move on to another dude
What if she texts you hours apart for a couple of days?
Just get another junt
Then move on. This advice is about having self respect not getting bitches. Having self respect will attract more women than being a simp. You will still lose women, but you take it to the chin and it will be noticed.
@@icarus387Move on bro. If a woman is truly interested she’ll text you back within minutes ppl make time for what’s important to them trust me
I love reciprocity. Anyway, if she is in or not into you, that type of game is stupidly childish
Better thing to do is to not answer your phone on the weekend even if you have nothing going on. Girls who are not a guarantee should only be able to reach you during business hours.
Lmaooooo
These mind games are so dumb. Ignoring someone shows you're immature and can't communicate like a man.
Exactly, now they think 🤔 you have pride
Not texting women literaly at all is the number 1 trick to making them want you, you have to set the standard as that from the beginning tho, if you literally tell them “I don’t text” and never text them they will literally become obsessed with you, just keep it to phone calls to meet up and you can either plan the next meet up when you’re in person or phone call, NEVER text them and watch how they become OBSESSED with you especially if you’re in person game is top notch, if they ever do text you and ask how come you can’t respond, you once again lay the foundation “I told you I don’t text” you don’t even need an excuse, you literally just say you don’t text, the same way you don’t use Snapchat or Facebook or whatever, they will become obsessed, I had the girl inviting me places all the time just to see me/talk to me, texting ruins relationships, don’t do it at all, and watch the magic unfold
That's a great idea. I'll have to try that next time.
This might be why relationships felt more real back then before texting all you had was a phone call or meet up
@@eddiegarcia8040 that’s exactly the point, you could even say that “I’m just more traditional” 💯
Bring back rollerblades
It depends on where the woman comes from...In my country, if a guy doesn't text you or even whatsapp you, you just delete or block his number. its seen as a lack of interest. Also why would I call or text someone who is not interested in a conversation?? There is always another guy interested to chat longer...
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Be yourself and if the woman you're pursuing is not responsive, move on. She's not interested. Instead of wasting your time playing games, spend the energy and find someone who likes you just as equally.
This. I hope people realize how toxic and harmful these mind games and their underlying motivations are not only to the individual but society as a whole due to the popularity of it has become
Word!
@@WillArtiguesmost of the time it’s women doing it to men…it’s not really people in general it’s women and a small amount of men.
As a man you can’t be yourself anymore you have to have a cold personality to get most women nowadays. No more space for nice respectful caring loving guys sorry. Women know their place on a man’s roster they are there to compete just like men compete for women. Unfortunately women only compete for the top.
Problem is, women are very disingenuous and will feign interest to get a guy back before a rinse and repeat. Men absolutely have to play these games.
Not me tho since I bail 100% at the first sign. Y'all stay safe.
I was with him till that last part. Some women actually care about their safety and don’t go out with men they are just getting to know later at night. As men we can ask for a woman who has self respect and safety awareness and be upset when they hold that boundary.
Exactly! Its best to do afternoon or evening dates until you get to know someone well.
I wanna go out at night. Leave on read
Well this is an "exceptional" male's "logic". They operate from the "I'm *that* guy" mentality which actually hurts them in the long run, because they're guided by the beauty of their ego. There are women who only meet up at public places where they can be seen & don't go out late. It's usually promiscuous females who have no issue putting themselves in compromising positions. If she tells you pick me up from my place, chances are you're not the only dude thats doing that with her. But male ego thinks "Oh I'm so special because she gave me her address" 😂
Bottom line is, you don't know what her reasoning is so either you operate based on a negative generalization. Or you can be aware of what you don't know. Thats something you have to find out. Online material has some people confused & lacking self-awareness.
The chances of a woman getting hurt in any physical way by a man is extremely low nowadays, they are pretty much scared of nothing😂. She is more safer then he is at night I can bet money on it.
@@jayservices9692 you bout to lose some money😂
So true. It’s a super power if guys really grasped this tip.
this only works when she really is into you
and iif you are an 8/10 its 99% of the time
Humble them just like how they humbled us.
You'll be really humble when she moves on to the next guy on her roster.
@@TomikaKellythat’s not the point. You don’t allow women to waste your time and resources and disrespect you before the relationship even starts. If she does imagine being in an actual relationship with her.
@@upupandaway90lmaoo you acting like twiddling your thumbs on an app is effort 😂
@@FUEGOSTARR wrong assumption
@@TomikaKellyAnd so will she 😂not all men are lonley some actually have more women than you think. 2 can play at that game, I see you everywhere in the comments tho which is interesting. You’ve definitely been ignored by a man before.
That's true af, when I left her on read she started to send me pics of herself few hours later. Unfortunately she cancelled the first date twice.
True you need to be in abundance and not care too much about texting a girl! If she doesn’t comply move on and find someone who will comply. Also, don’t do rescheduling leave she don’t want you or respect you.
@basedlander7836 There are lot's of average guys pumping and dumping average women. But you do have to approach and take initiative tho.
@basedlander7836self improve
@basedlander7836 lmao you think he didn't act at some point.
You fake it till you get it bro.
Act like your future abundant self would act, don't be desperate.
And remember it’s for the power not for any type of title response you’re doing it because you’re powerful because it’ll Garner an outcome
I leaved women on read accidentally because im a deep conversations guy and never was interested in the small talk of the text game. This is a powerful thing to do if the woman is interested in you if you use it in the right place at the right time. So many girls that saw me as a friend started to like me romantically and crave my attention when we were together.
Also keep in mind that she can easily text another guy. You need to keep your attention value high enough so she will only want to text you.
That example of to leave someone on read I don't agrer with. She might not want to go out at night cause it dangerous.
You're just making excuses for her,
If she's interested she can offer an option and not just decline
@@hot-coco she was given an option. After being left on read, she could’ve came back with a alternative option. Stop giving these woman an out.
@@hot-coco
But he didn't say that shes rejected he said "leave on read" expecting her to offer other options
He didn't block her number and neither tell her that he isn't interested he just Didn't text her,
After telling him that she doesn't want to meet in the evenings she can offer other options
@@hot-coco he also knows that woman have these silly requirements for certain guys that they choose. And they break all of those requirements depending on the guy. If her boss or some high status, celebrity or business person told her to meet at this restaurant, I highly doubt she’ll be telling them what she’s not going to do.
@@hot-coco no one said anything about sleeping around. In the video, he said, going out on a date at night. A lot of women will mouth off these standards that they have, but will throw them all out the window depending on the guy. We all know this. And are we children?. “I won’t go out at night.” 😂 so tell me who should conform to who’s schedule then??
I've watched thus video over 70 times now 😔
This works! Key thing to know though… *she has to first be interested in you though for it to work!* if she doesnt care about you cos she see’s you as guy number 15th place in her whole list of guys chassing after her, your abscence will not even be noticed. Letalone felt.
I just don’t have time or energy to respond to them all,
Stop texting and vocalize your thoughts by calling, and if they ignore, block. Talking is better when feeling an individual's vibe or energy. That's how one should gauge a person. Eff texting.
Well said my man.
It's TRUE the moment you treat them like NOTHING they want your validation. Which i HATE! i wanna show my care, but then to their stupid psychology that makes me EASY, BORING, UNINTERESTING 🙃
You cant care bro you get burned that way
@@Thatdude-tp7xs That's the modern hoes. REAL WOMEN VALUE CARE
This is from the perspective of having an abundance REALITY versus just an abundance mindset.
If you don't have an abundance reality, then leaving the few girls you're talking to on read won't do much for you. It might even backfire if they were genuinely interested.
I don’t even read their messages after so I went the step beyond left on read lmao
True as hell. Women become desperate and needy when u leave them on unread
I swear to god every time I love a women on read this shorts pops out in my feed back🤣🤣
If someone leaves me on read i assume they're not interested or don't value me very much (not in a bitter way) so I'd leave them be
If a woman doesn't have any value to you. She's not worth the time. Time is money time is also short.
I leave on read when i see that the girl is texting all dry and not showing that much interest i just feel I’m wasting my time already
Exactly bro don’t ever get yourself attached to one girl because chances are she’s probably talking to other guys or texting them so don’t ever feel like you’re the ONLY guy talking to her pretty sure there’s other guys that are texting her as well
@@adrianchico8886 yeah that’s the exact mindset i have
@@CarlosPerez-ff4lk it happens all the time bro whenever I’m texting a girl sometimes that happens where she’ll start being dried with me giving me one worded responses or just leaving me on read on purpose
@@adrianchico8886Real shit bro I learned this the hard way that’s why I talk to multiple women at once & don’t get attached quickly. I’m done wasting time/money on ppl I know won’t work
No one should leave anyone on read
I leave them on read because i really dont care
This only works if she genuinely has some interest in you to begin with
Austin with the God tier game, love it
Man I left one chick on read. Now She's been writing insta notes about our convo and other stuff so she can have my attention! 😁
I really want to hear women's perspectives on some of these vids...especially this one. Where are they? They left on "read" 😂
I’m a woman and this is bad advice. If you truly like her don’t leave her on read because that will make her lose interest in you. Just be yourself
Ephesians 5:22-33 Proverbs 31. please, we do not need more dysfunctional behaviors in this world we live in. This is not how God wants his children to do, it’s creates confusion. This is why we need to read the Word of God, for his divine instructions on what our roles are as man and woman. There are consequences when we do it our own way and not God’s way, people get hurt.
Hosea 4:6 my people perish for lack of knowledge.
OR we could all just act like grown ups and communicate effectively and tell the other person how we feel. If they dont feel the same way, we can just end things cordially...🙃
Get out of here that’s not a mind game
Apparently this isn't how the new era of dating works
When was the last time you saw a women directly communicate when it comes to dating???
Guys don’t listen to this person. Read the name. She’s a woman. Unless you’re consistently hooking up with a girl open communication is a waste of time. In the beginning if you see low cooperation assume low interest and move on.
Unfortunately, women gon still play this kiddy game.
Fr I get so turned on with lack of investment. I’m clearing going out of my way to plan a date or even get to know you. If I don’t see something within a day or so. Gone
if some guy is playing games and leave me on read, I move on to the next dude, and he eventually will get back to me, but he's left on read forever
It's not a game, he's stating just cut it and not following up when there isn't a balance of value input. Put your ego aside for a second.
and he can also move onto the next girl too, the world doesn't revolve around you or anybody else
@@ezworkbro9057Since when men have options anywhere near women do
How old is this girl 12😂
Yall cant handle the game yall created huh?
I leave them on read because i really dont care, as do they
That some hard narcissistic BS. I mean yes, I do sometimes but dont do that litterally
Fr. I say how I’d like to find the right person to be with but end up not replying or putting in the effort for women who initiate the first move 🤣
I have to agree with @stacy on this one.. A mature woman, maybe one in her 30s or older doesn't waste her time with those mind games, she just assumes the guy isn't interested and blocks and deletes him. So the power goes poof**.
Nahh older women still play games too, dgaf if they block or delete.
That will work for Austin, not for you
For crying out loud, I miss communication.
I do it all the time. It drives them crazy. Also, short answers are powerful too. A simple "ok" or 👍🏽
This is solid advice also lets you know how much interest she has in you we all know this gender don't call but I got a couple of them to call me from doing this or delaying my responses even when I'm not doing anything I make her wait 10 mins before replying once she's persistently auto replying that's when I drop from 10 to 3 mins. This makes you seem busy and makes your attention worthwhile for her because it's not in abundance
This creates an infinite loop. Women are taught to have standards and to prefer evenings over nights. Men like women who have standards and who don't easily agree with them, apparently. If men start acting cold and unbothered, women and men would never agree and start a relationship, leaving both sides proud and alone. Thats where it's leading
Whilst I agree... Somebody gotta have standards bro
Women contribute to that downfall by leaving men on read and leading them on so they can use them later instead of directly communicating if they are not interested. It’s both genders fault but what else can a man do except ignore them as well. Women mistake genuine interest and attention for thirstiness, gotta act like you don’t care so they can actually appreciate you.
egotistical selfish !!!
I totally agree on this one
Although it can be useful, these strategies are why nobody has any loyalty anymore. Both men and women. It's all a competition to see who looks less needy, it's actually ridiculous and hurts relationships.
The slightest hint of game playing and I'm gone. Authenticity all the way. Be yourself ! If the energy does not match, just leave the situation altogether. Why waste your energy playing games anyway.
When they leave you on read, give them 24 hours then block or unmatch.
It depends on the vibe they giving you most def. I left alot of women on read and they end up telling me I wasnt interested. So they move on to the next. If they talking a whole bunch of nothing, leave em on read absolutely because they dont value your time.
Just a bunch of mind games. The woman you’re meant to be with won’t leave you on read and you shouldn’t leave them on read neither. If you’re both truly in to each other, it doesn’t matter who texts who first or who sets up the date. If she’s interested, you’ll know. Stop chasing women that aren’t worth your time. Instead out that time and energy into yourself and eventually, the right one will come along. When they do, again, no mind games like this! Please guys, don’t intentionally leave women on read thinking it’ll make them crave your attention. It’s fake feelings. It’s not meant to last. Just forget about all this crap. It’s not sustainable and will drive you crazy. And waste your time. That’s the biggest one. Don’t waste your time.
Completely agree.
If evening dates cause "inconvenience" and piss you off so much that you don't even respond there's something wrong with you.
I could've understood if she asked to bring her friends over to the date but asking for a time change isn't that "inconvenient"
She never ask for a time change. Did you not watch the video? She said I don’t do evening dates and did not offer up a solution or alternative. Is it adding up for you now?
@acdsfjhu "Did not offer a solution or alternative" my ass. What was this-
"Oh I don't go out at nights, I prefer evenings"
And-
"The slightest of inconvenience to me, I leave them on read"
Looks like someone didn't watch the video properly
@@treytonfernsby the appointment that I’m making is he also knows that woman have these silly requirements for certain guys that they choose. And they break all of those requirements depending on the guy. If her boss or some high status, celebrity or business person told her to meet at this restaurant, I highly doubt she’ll be telling them what she’s not going to do. “I don’t go out at night” what are we children? 😂
@@acdsfjhu on that I agree. They are really picky on who they're with and what status/money they got.
Rare to find someone genuine these days
😂😂 nigga said “Inconvenience! Left on read “
Bro the average woman has 100 times more options than the average man not to mention theres a bunch of simps out there 😂 you leave them on read and she will move on to the next guy that is giving her attention. This is not going to work for 95% of guys 😂
You genuinely believe this ? 99 of those 100 men will be either unattractive, simps or betas 😂. Women don’t like those guys so they really aren’t options to them !!
I see your point. However if she is not into you, texting her back always won't do anything either cuz it means she doesnt care about your attention
@@artemis3736 I never stated that texting her back will work moron. It's a shoot or miss, either she's into you or not just not texting her back isn't going to work because she's going to move on to the next one regardless if she's into you or not
@@artemis3736 this is a good point and also if the majority of men start doing this it could have a cumulative effect, also if those men start supporting each other and developing hobbies together then when they do connect with women they will be less needy and more interesting.
TLDR: as more and more of us invest our time and attention more intentionally we can help ourselves and men as a collective
Facts
Gold advice
Austin, you giving up too much game! Some of this shyt needs to be learned from experience, keep doing ya thing tho✊🏽💯
I did this to most people unintentionally(I got homeworks and gym workout to do) but they just call me arrogant for it 😂😂
i have trouble leaving anybody on read just because I like to let the other person know that I’ve acknowledged their message at the very least. At most I’ll drop a react to the message so that they know I’ve seen it
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You’re mature and have a proper sense of respect for others. Don’t down your good upbringing…You’re actually functioning in a healthy fashion. That’s fantastic! 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@gb7251true I regret leaving people on read
I feel the same way. Please don’t conform to this toxic nonsense!
Sell, don’t be sold.
I wish I had a dollar for every time a girl recommended a guy does ABC, only to respond MUCH more desirably to a guy doing XYZ.
Math time:
1) “Be Fruitful & Multiply.”
(God, to Adam)
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2) “Don’t give your strength to women.”
(God via Solomon)
Conclusion? 3) Let them chase YOU.
Humans are wired to pursue the closure of open loops. ‘Read’ is an open loop, and a reaction is as good as a reply. Be less invested in closure than the other person is, and you win.
Your attention funds the BILLION-dollar cosmetics industry, playa~ Married/wifey’d-up women are swiping on Tinder just for the ego boost. Why WOULDN’T your dismissal of money “well” spent be equated to toxicity?
🫴 Just put the phone down…
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾….. Well said.
Women hate/enjoy being left on read, don't deny her that enjoyment lol mine is on read right now for the next few hours
GOING THRU DIS RIGHT NOW. LEFT A WOMAN ON READ FOR 24 HRS BCZ OF NON-COMPLIANCE. NOW SHE WANTS TO TALK AND ACT RIGHT OR GET LEFT
This is Indeed true. I was texting a girl on IG and asked for her number. She said she didnt have one (obviusly lying) so I left her on read. A couple hours later she gave it to me like nothing lol
Lol maybe she was joking with you
@@eddiegarcia8040 maybe idk but leaving them on read is powerful Indeed
She was bored.
Nice 👌 you played the game well.
CAP
Use the ‘takeaway’ (ok) or if she’s ‘too sick to come out’ say ‘you’ll be good’ - a girl responded by saying ‘where are you now’ directly after that. We ended up bonding after that 😆😆
"Inconvenience left on read " was iconic😂
never doubled txt
True l have been able to naturally do this from a young age but would only do it to women whom l did not fully commit to but the ones l really wanted l would switch up real quick and start texting paragraphs and shit, of course now that l know the game l deliberately leave them on read especially when l am doing something.
It could be something as trivial as taking a shit 😂
I see why youre single...
Hey Austin, you should make a video about dating in the work place (coworkers, clients,accounts etc)
To leave on read man has to have tonns of options. And not to be desperate. I can, you can, most men can't (again during to lack of options)
I hear a lot of people in the comments say the woman has to be attracted to you. Well you will know for sure the moment you leave her on read. If she doesn’t text you back or talk to you then it’s over you got the message that she doesn’t like you, you move on to the next giro
I leave everyone on delivered for 3 days. I actually need to get better at replying bwck
Preachhhhhhh ✍🏾
When you leave them on read irl, that hits much harder
Spitting facts
This gets you ignored even harder lmao wtf are u sayinnnn to these people my friend😂😂😂
Wouldnt have to do ts if yall wasnt playing games with us.
I leave em on read all the time
I tried it and now I turned into stone😢
I hate that this is true. These mind games are just toxic, and yet seemingly necessary. Saudi Arabia has the right idea, this foolishness is nonexistent over there.
Even in Saudi Arabia it’s becoming toxic as well coming from a person who’s born and raised in KSA..slowly slowly these standards started to influence people here too!
The poison is spreading
I actually do leave women on read , reasons why I do:
1. Conversation is whack
2. Inconvenience as you say
3. Too eager to know my job title, straight off the bat
Comment section just full of guys who don't value themselves at all and see ladies like demigods as usual.
If a Rising cloth brand I patronize regularly stopped treating me well. I'm out the door
Would they give a fuck? No
Does it mean I should stay and keep receiving floppy service jus because they have many customers and won't notice if I leave? Noooo.
It's literally your best bet. In rare cases they check on you. Most of the time you've just done yourself a big favour.
It's not all about gains, cutting Ls before they become too big is good too.
Right started applying this now
He's right
Another example of less is more.
Your right
we have to get them to text us first pal
At least bro is back not the shit he was posting 🎉
This is so toxic...
I leave them on read all the time cuz I keep myself busy
I was left on read and now I leave them on reas
Iove your videos
💯 Facts
Once i left a girl on red after she texted me that she supposedly quit dating then I messed up I sent her an « ok » two days later …
good and bad part of this trick is, it works