Parents Raising Kids Without Accountability and Consequences, & Danger of False Praise, w/
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- Опубликовано: 15 май 2024
- Megyn Kelly is joined by Gary Vaynerchuk, author of "Day Trading Attention," to discuss how false praise is destructive, worry about judgment from others hurts our happiness, how modern parenting often lacks consequences and accountability for kids, and more.
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Liberals and the wokified mob are trying to ruin KINDERGARTEN KICKBALL.
My son jokes with me that when he was in little league when some kid struck out his mom yelled "Nice swing Johnny!" When my son struck out I would later ask him "What were you swinging at?" He thanks me again and again for being honest with him and encouraging him to continually get better rather than accept mediocrity or failure.
This is well intended. I can say with a pain to my heart I gave false praise and my child was not the better for it.
Me too
Thank you for putting this truth out there. You can help others now and help save a generation in a different way. Get more involved. We need people like you.
This is exactly why you need strong parents and specifically strong fathers. It might sound cruel to most people but I have never allowed my son to beat me in anything. Ever! One day he will beat me and whatever game that we were playing but he's going to beat me because he is better at it and I want him to strive to be better than I am. How could he possibly strive to be better than me if I let him win his entire life. Competition, adversity, being okay with losing is all part of life. I have said for many years now that we are living with the end result of the participation trophy.
Smart mama bear!!
Papa bear!
@jangelderloos2211 I'm so sorry! Yes there are papa bears too! I really don't look at people's names . I apologize.
My question would be are you a gracious winner or are you a sore winner?
Long ago, I found out one of my grandsons got a 'participation' trophy, he was disgusted and wouldn't accept. grin
We had 1st, 2nd and 3rd place. Everyone else was a loser who just got a purple participation ribbon. So when I competed I always wanted to be in the top 3 and when I was it felt AMAZING! The main lesson is, not everyone can win every time. Learn how to lose gracefully and work hard to win next time.
I feel you, but they shouldn’t have even gotten a ribbon. They lost.
I agree with every thing the gentleman just side about false praise in Kids. We need to back learning trades at 16 not 18 thats to old to except the disapline required for most thats nessary to be taught whatever trade they have chosen to learn. jf
Regret is a real. Let’s not fool ourselves.
The pain of regret or the pain of discipline. Choose your pain.
-by some wise person
This statement has been a life game changer for me.
Did GaryVee just go 12 minutes without dropping an f-bomb. Mind blown.
This man is absolutely dynamic !
Alice Cooper lived with Cindy Lang for 7 years I lived with her for 20 when I was growing up everybody said get a factory job the only person in my life ever that believed in me was Cindy and I worked for a Builder developer and I made a shit ton of money at least I thought it was a shit ton of money the most beautiful thing in my life at that time was her support!
I had a friend who’s daughter stole from me and she never made her daughter apologize to me. Needless to say we are no longer friends!
I was designated 'gifted' as a child (went through an assessment process so it was 'legit') and was basically the golden child but my mother also heaped a lot of false praise onto me because even though I was good at a lot of things I also had my limitations like every person does. Now as an adult I've accomplished a fair amount of things but nothing particularly extraordinary and I sort of resent my mother for having given me a false sense of confidence even though she had the best of intentions. One of the hardest lessons I've had to learn as an adult is knowing my limitations and that no one can possibly be good at everything and that that is okay.
I forget now which personality I heard this from but it is so sobering. A Cuban migrant was talking with his friends when one of them observed how lucky they were to be born in American and the Cuban had to correct them that he was the luckiest of all them because he had someplace to go to escape Communism. Have no doubt it is coming and it Will Always be coming unless and until we give up in our refutation of that ideology.
In my case, it was generally the opposite. I barely received praise for anything for years on end so that even later when receiving it and being assured that it was for valid achievement I did not want it or still felt that I had really failed in a terrible way and was just being lied to. As far as "purple", people in my house (not me mind you as I just liked the color) declared it to be a sign of royalty and thought they should not have to do anything at all while quite literally locking me in the basement on several occasions (and I truly mean that LITERALLY). So to hear of his thoughts about this is very refreshing and I don't want the above to be taken as complete negativity about life but to demonstrate why I agree with his take.
My mother bought me fishing poles and knives and I fed the family fish she was a hardcore German staunch you better get your ass to work sort of lady
May I see the whitepaper / Yellow paper for VeeFrens?
This man is saying the truth: I am from USSR too
The status bs is still the same
The participation trophy is what has negatively affected mental health. You earn your spot on a sports team. You earn championship titles by winning in the final, not getting a visit to the White House if you come in 2nd. You earn your win when you compete in your own gender’s competition.
One of my fav people
Everybody gets a trophy
More of Huckster Gary? I just subscribed this morning, I don't think I've ever subbed and unsubbed from the same channel in a single day before. Congratulations.
ReSub lol, small mistake Megyn is legit.. I really hate this guy with a passion. Majority of people just don't understand crypto and or the stock market.
*Only legit Crypto enthusiasts really know what's going on with this WEB3 & NFT Bullshit. Everyone in crypto knows this guys a total Fraud in everyway.
Any child who grew up Russian knows that! It is sad to me to see people who are in their late 40's early 50's (especially women) who are like that - cannot take any criticism, cannot take the fact that some people don't like them, and mostly cannot deal with the fact that their work is just not good enough. The American notion that "no child left behind" and "everyone is good at everything" blahblahblah leads to disillusion, magical thinking and dissociation from the truth. TELL IT LIKE IT IS, even if it hurts.
I feel like Russians take it to the opposite extreme though... Yes, they can produce excellence but at what cost mentally?
@@ania5038 as you and I both know :) we dont talk about that !
@@michellethaler1832 I'm Polish not Russian :)
Gary your amazing! Your like the SBF of NFT's or like the Hillary of Web3..... Your going to jail bro! The Blockchain never Lies :)
Does that mean u false praise your kids and all kids Megyn?
I’m sorry but this guy is so irrelevant, he’s all talk
He kissed his old man on the lips
As he should
Gary is a pure con man. Either Megyn has a hard time getting quality guests or her staff really dropped the ball researching him. This really lowers the stature of the show IMO.