We'd love to hear your thoughts, especially on being an LGBTQ parent! Do you want kids? Or do you have kids? Do or did you have some of the same concerns? Looking forward to your discussions, as always! Thanks for watching, lovely people!
I want kids as a lgtbq parent but i never really thought about your concerns. I'm super young though an have easily 9+ years until I have any though. So hopefully by then it will be more accepted and I won't even have to think about those.
I have 2 kids with my wife ... and what I learned so fare is that all my pre-kids concerns was unnecessary. People generally don’t care that much if you are queer parents (as long as you are genuine and kind) if you do not present them with the option to question your family setup. Family is family, and people generally worry most about their own. I am sure your gonna be great at it, and don’t wait to long you need your young energy with small kids ;-)
Yes people should mind their own business! The only thing that matters is that the child has a loving, caring and nurturing environment! If that’s given it doesn’t even matter how you raise your kid and it’s especially not someone else’s business.
In real life, people who don’t agree with us having kids are mostly silent so you really only hear from people that are supportive. Kids are the best as my son’s friends never blinked an eye and just accept all sorts of family make ups.
my parents are best friends, and they are basically in a queer platonic relationship (I’m going to be doing a presentation on this in my lesbian literatures class @ uni). I wouldn’t have it any other way! :)
Have you considered being foster parents? A good way to make a difference in a child's life,...and at the same time see what parenting would really be like?
My wife and I have one son who autistic but his the best thing we ever did. We didnt use a clinic as its illegal for doctors to help same sex couples in france so we found a donor on a online site and did the insemination ourselves at home got lucky it worked on 3rd try. Didnt cost us a thing. We have never had a problem when out as a family and we both look obvious gay. I came out as trans and started transitioning now and we told the school about our family set up and they have been very supportive. I think we tend to worry more than we need to b4 hand sometimes. Our son will be 5 in March.
What do you each do for work? I know Lillian got a masters within psychology (which I’m doing to) so I’m very interested. And what are both of your future career aspirations
Yaya 🌟, your passion for videos! I am a filmmaker! Let me know if you need any help with techy stuff / finding good classes / figuring out your style 😎. Your friend from Wisio, 💛 Alyssa
That's a good idea, it would feel more natural, especially for official couple photo's when the photographer sometimes gives instructions on how to pose etc
I am a parent with my wife. We fostered kids with the intention to adopt. We had our heart broken a couple of times by kids that ended up with family. Would not change it because the love is the point. We eventually fostered a newborn who we ended up adopting a year later. She is now 15 and perfect. It does change your lifestyle but worth it.
I was married to a man for 16 years, then came out after we had three kids so it was a bit easier for me. I live in Stockholm Sweden so people are very open minded about homosexuality. I have had more questions about how our children have handled the divorce...
The only time people should not create children if they don't have good jobs. Have them the responsible way and doesn't matter what people say as long the child have good and happy life .
We can see you are a bit frustrated with your jobs, but that's totally ok, i mean we know how real life is, and how important it is to have a steady job, even if it is not your main goal in life or your big dream. But it helps you get there. And as long as you are doing what you love during your free time, even as a hobby, having an "average" job is quite good if you can travel once in a while. So, yeah, don't be shy to tell us that! (Btw the wedding photos idea is increadible)
As a South African I can say it is beautiful here. I would recommend you come in the summer to the Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens. They have live concerts in January. I went to see the Cape Philharmonic Orchestra perform live there and it was beautiful. I would say that it is a lovely country to visit but, not necessarily nice to live in given the economic instability, crime and inequality so that should be taken into account. Enjoy your day! :D
Oof, you got inspired by 'open relatiopnships'? Yikes, the internet really influences you way too much. If you think open relationships are looked-down-upon by extremly mature and inclusive people and even life-long LGBT-Allys, for no reason, then think again.
I was quite worried when it was a long time I haven't seen RUclips. I'm happy your both OK Alexis you look more beautiful than ever. I still have a crush on you
Swedish farm? Are you two thinking about following in the footsteps of This Colourful World? Watching a 7 year old SourceFed vid, I was thinking about just how much things had changed. I've gone so deep into a rabbithole of possible trans identity that sometimes, people see a woman in their eyes. While I still create art, work on graphic novel ideas, and hopefully soon get back to blogging, I now create RUclips content more often, am often solving several logistical puzzles on a busy hospital unit, am thinking about going back to school maybe for a RN degree, and outside Pandemic time. I attend concerts. Even in 2014, I didn't go out to that many shows, and narrowly missed seeing Brandi Carlile (back when she was far less known, and almost every song of her's was a heartbreak/heartache song).
We'd love to hear your thoughts, especially on being an LGBTQ parent! Do you want kids? Or do you have kids? Do or did you have some of the same concerns? Looking forward to your discussions, as always! Thanks for watching, lovely people!
I want kids as a lgtbq parent but i never really thought about your concerns. I'm super young though an have easily 9+ years until I have any though. So hopefully by then it will be more accepted and I won't even have to think about those.
I have 2 kids with my wife ... and what I learned so fare is that all my pre-kids concerns was unnecessary. People generally don’t care that much if you are queer parents (as long as you are genuine and kind) if you do not present them with the option to question your family setup. Family is family, and people generally worry most about their own. I am sure your gonna be great at it, and don’t wait to long you need your young energy with small kids ;-)
Nope, 100% childfree. I can think of nicer things to do in life than raising children :)
Yes people should mind their own business! The only thing that matters is that the child has a loving, caring and nurturing environment! If that’s given it doesn’t even matter how you raise your kid and it’s especially not someone else’s business.
I really like your videos, I think that you have a talent for making them. So go for it!😊
In real life, people who don’t agree with us having kids are mostly silent so you really only hear from people that are supportive. Kids are the best as my son’s friends never blinked an eye and just accept all sorts of family make ups.
I really hope your Swedish dreams come true. Sounds like heaven-- just remember that teacup piggie won't stay small!
Hahaha yeah that’s why that one will remain a dream ;)
what are some signs my friend might be a closeted lesbian?
The 2 of you are as gorgeous and well matched as ever.
Aww thank you ☺️
my parents are best friends, and they are basically in a queer platonic relationship (I’m going to be doing a presentation on this in my lesbian literatures class @ uni). I wouldn’t have it any other way! :)
Have you considered being foster parents? A good way to make a difference in a child's life,...and at the same time see what parenting would really be like?
I would like to see your dog more often😍🐶he looks sooo cute ❤️
My wife and I have one son who autistic but his the best thing we ever did. We didnt use a clinic as its illegal for doctors to help same sex couples in france so we found a donor on a online site and did the insemination ourselves at home got lucky it worked on 3rd try. Didnt cost us a thing. We have never had a problem when out as a family and we both look obvious gay. I came out as trans and started transitioning now and we told the school about our family set up and they have been very supportive. I think we tend to worry more than we need to b4 hand sometimes. Our son will be 5 in March.
I wish people would not judge so much and we should be kinder to each other, I enjoyed this video so much and thank you for this video
𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚐𝚞𝚢𝚜 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚜𝚘 𝚌𝚞𝚝𝚎🥰
What do you each do for work? I know Lillian got a masters within psychology (which I’m doing to) so I’m very interested. And what are both of your future career aspirations
I would love to do yoga with Alexis!
Oh yes
I think you two would be wonderful parents!😊💜
Yaya 🌟, your passion for videos! I am a filmmaker! Let me know if you need any help with techy stuff / finding good classes / figuring out your style 😎.
Your friend from Wisio,
💛
Alyssa
That's a good idea, it would feel more natural, especially for official couple photo's when the photographer sometimes gives instructions on how to pose etc
When I see a new video from you, I start smiling at the screen (people might think i am an idiot, but idc). I LOVE YOU VERY VERY VERY VERY MUCH!!!
I am a parent with my wife. We fostered kids with the intention to adopt. We had our heart broken a couple of times by kids that ended up with family. Would not change it because the love is the point. We eventually fostered a newborn who we ended up adopting a year later. She is now 15 and perfect. It does change your lifestyle but worth it.
You will be the greatest event videographers, really!🥰
You guys would be amazing parents.
you two are getting more and more pretty
Yoga videos sound amazing. I'd definitely watch them and get some exercise in lockdown. Go Alexis! Love you guys :)
The only thing that is more cute than miso is alexis and lilian as a couple💕
When i watch you guys it's so calming.....
It always puts a smile on my face😁❤️❤️
Some of the advice given by both of you have lasted and helped so much. You have no idea what difference you both are making :)
I'm watching fondly from turkey💜
I have a question. What about Lesbians dating Trans Women, from their perspective. Not all Trans women are into men! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🌈🦄
We wouldn’t mind yoga tutorials....
I'm not in a relationship or anything but would love to have y'all as my wedding videographers!! 🤗💕 Filing that in my mind right now!
Dearest Alexis and Lilian: You said you approved of an open relationship? Please address this again.
I was married to a man for 16 years, then came out after we had three kids so it was a bit easier for me. I live in Stockholm Sweden so people are very open minded about homosexuality. I have had more questions about how our children have handled the divorce...
lilian your hair looks amazinggg!!
Love this confidence...love you infinite times from india
Yes to yoga videos! Sending you both love xx
The only time people should not create children if they don't have good jobs. Have them the responsible way and doesn't matter what people say as long the child have good and happy life .
There are soo many people that are not capable of being a good parent unfortunately... not just related to having a good job or not.
VERY LOVLY COUPLE LGBT HELLO ME SISTERS ANJOY AMSTERDAM AND HAVE GOOD LOVE GOOD LIVE IN AMSTERDAM ROMANTIC SITY
We can see you are a bit frustrated with your jobs, but that's totally ok, i mean we know how real life is, and how important it is to have a steady job, even if it is not your main goal in life or your big dream. But it helps you get there. And as long as you are doing what you love during your free time, even as a hobby, having an "average" job is quite good if you can travel once in a while. So, yeah, don't be shy to tell us that! (Btw the wedding photos idea is increadible)
Best couple in youtube
can't wait to see those wedding videos by you 😍🔥
Wow! I hope everything work out with video job. Good luck 🙌
As a South African I can say it is beautiful here. I would recommend you come in the summer to the Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens. They have live concerts in January. I went to see the Cape Philharmonic Orchestra perform live there and it was beautiful. I would say that it is a lovely country to visit but, not necessarily nice to live in given the economic instability, crime and inequality so that should be taken into account. Enjoy your day! :D
The zoo called, they want their lion back. Such a cutie!
@Marilyn Alva no not at all... ig?
BEBE JSABEL RUclips
welcome thailand
BEBE JSABEL RUclips,
I love your videos ❤️
Miso is such a big baby now. 💕
actually I love the vibes between you guys in the last few videos!
Alexis you're gorgeous
Fav Couple 🥰
I share similar concerns about being a queer parent. Idk how to teach future kids how to navigate a judgmental society.
Wow..alexis really taking good care of Lilian....Lilian you putting up weight...take a look at your cheeks😍😍😍😍😍😍
Would you like to marry a girl who is romantically attracted but not sexually attracted to you?? By the way your videos are really heart-touching. :)
we love you guys 😍😍😍🌷❤🌷❤🌷❤🌷❤🌈🌹🌈😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💖🇮🇷
thanks for your inspiration
Oof, you got inspired by 'open relatiopnships'? Yikes, the internet really influences you
way too much. If you think open relationships are looked-down-upon by extremly
mature and inclusive people and even life-long LGBT-Allys, for no reason, then think again.
I was quite worried when it was a long time I haven't seen RUclips. I'm happy your both OK Alexis you look more beautiful than ever. I still have a crush on you
Swedish farm? Are you two thinking about following in the footsteps of This Colourful World?
Watching a 7 year old SourceFed vid, I was thinking about just how much things had changed. I've gone so deep into a rabbithole of possible trans identity that sometimes, people see a woman in their eyes.
While I still create art, work on graphic novel ideas, and hopefully soon get back to blogging, I now create RUclips content more often, am often solving several logistical puzzles on a busy hospital unit, am thinking about going back to school maybe for a RN degree, and outside Pandemic time. I attend concerts.
Even in 2014, I didn't go out to that many shows, and narrowly missed seeing Brandi Carlile (back when she was far less known, and almost every song of her's was a heartbreak/heartache song).
Great vid, Love you guys more and more, Love your Doggy :)
You guys actually come from Pinterest
you are SO CUTE and adorable. thank you for making these videos :)
Yes you will be a dream gift as a videographer for my wedding
Lol this is really off topic but could you guys make a video on your guy´s skin care and hair routine please?
I tried it once, it most certainly was not for me.
You 2 are Brian
Have a great day
Happy Pride ❤️
thank you for your videos 🥺 you guys make my heart so happy
pls film my wedding :)
Well i hate Valentine's day but i like the content so cool
You’re both beautiful
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
fabulous as always guys
Please get a cat 🥺🥺
Your dog 😍!
So cuteeeeee!
I agree that open relationships can work, however I would say that it is the right amount of good communication.
Yeah "John/Jane is so much better at this than you etc" would not be helpful! : )
Love you guys!!!👋🏽❤️
Fiirst 🥳
My stress killer, big up 🤞🤞so cute
I really wish they had an open relationship so I could dream about being with both of them without feeling guilty about it.