its hard to fathom. But when i channged my vibeation all of my relatiobships chnged. My health changed, my finances . Everything . When i noriced ths injustices in my life i got more injustices .
💯 got to find a way out of the vibration of victim mentality regardless of how much we’ve actually been victimized. It’ll only attract more of that. I think that’s particularly why a lot of the victims unconsciously take up the vibration of the perpetrator instead.
Anger. God please help me to let go of my anger from those that have wronged me. Please help me to understand the lessons and to not let people take advantage of me anymore. Help me to forgive myself for allowing this treatment and to let go of my old reality. Amen. 🙏
@allysonmitchell8756 Ally my dear, there is only one lesson here. Love yourself more. Honor yourself first. Youre the foundation and center of your life. Everything you are and do emanates from you. Stand anchored in self. Not 3D self but Divine Self. In your beautiful heart. There are 8 billion people on this planet. You arent here to please and fix them. Youre here to choose and become and expand and your presence just being you contributes to the expanding energies here. Anchor within you, your heart is a portal to God and beautiful realms of love light beauty and joy. If you love your self you wont attract abuse. The energies arent a match. If you dont honor and love your Self the Universe says okay here's more. Energy is neutral and flows where attention goes. When you honor yourself you discern opposing energies and you dont engage, you dont associate. You go where wanted is where resonance is. May your life be like an orchestra.
I take FULL responsibility for attracting all others into my life. Even idiots/others on their path of awakening that have done me harm and traumatized me. Rage and hurt are completely understandable.
Yes but only to move up the emotional scale so that you can then feel frustrated instead of rage and then hopeful and then believing that people like that are not possibly able to get into your experience! So don’t dwell there too long or you will then attract more and more people and circumstances to feel rage about! Good luck with it! Blessings of all your hearts desires manifest in perfect divine timing!🙏💜✨
I'm looking to Abraham to help me feel better about being betrayed. I get random moments of such deep sadness.. I keep practicing shifting my energy and getting into the vortex
It's my perception of this that's hurting me. It is not my job to get rid of the unwanted. It is my job to tune it out of my frequency. I am expanding. Where i am is perfect. I am a deliberate creator. I am going to have the pleasure of closing the gap! I am worthy! Abraham, please help me make peace with where i stand.... 🙏🏼 I can say all these positive things to myself, but i am having trouble controlling my vicious patterns of thinking the worst of the people i meet.. tonight i was in such a great mood and perhaps this other person got jealous of my happiness, but he threw out a disgusting word that he previously apologized for but tonight when he said it, he seemed content with himself because I was immediately put off and told him i just wanted to go to bed. But he keeps claiming he wants the best for me and yada yada yada ... But he keeps throwing out these snively little underhanded comments and won't let up on them sometimes. It really bothers me because i feel like he is toying with me, because one, im the only one here to take his "hidden anger out on." And two, because it's clear he has a preconceived notion of me or who i am, and i think he's trying to keep me stuck there or feels he's doing right by trying to keep me confused or whatever he's doing to create a false narrative about who i truly am. I take in to account that i have issues, but i have seen this behavior before so many times and i dont know if im being over skeptical about it or if my intuition is telling me to shut up six days ago every time hes around me for a reason... How do i know what to do?
Look at how much your comment is talking about him more than you. If you build up your connection to your inner being (with practice like exercise) you'll find other people can't affect your mood this way. It's like having shock absorbers on a car. You hit a bump, big deal. "Somebody said a word" big f'ing deal. Once you're in a place that you know you're not dependent on what other people say & do to feel good, you'll find you won't attract those experiences any more. Start by catching when you have those negative memories and reflect on the rockets of desire they fired. If you're feeling good, you want, what? To simply enjoy it? The people with to be happy with you? What will that feel like? How can you get that now from your inner being? The more you do what Abraham calls "the energy work" the more invincible you'll be.
Listen to your gut feeling. If you feel he’s toying with you, he is. He’s stealing your joy and you let him manipulate how you feel. You say yourself youve seen this before, why are you doubting yourself?
Suggestions as i am going through sometimes judging bc i would have handled a work situation differently involving co worker n my employer differently than--- So 1 Say aloud or strongly: change As in change my old patterns of so i can move on with new newer me n new next level life 2 Its about my evolution n expansion to decide: is being right no matter how right i am LOVING TO ME OR LOVING FOR ME 3 IF I can switch no matter how long it takes im taking care of my body, health and FOCUS is back on gratitude and great things in my life working Thanks for what is, thanks for the new things desired And really is that person, persons, old story i might hold helping me expand...i long run they arent fonna be in my life forever
Great point Ester I agree ❤. Until we take responsibility for ourselves and our thoughts (which only you have the power to tweet for a better thought) that’s when inner change happens, stay open and receptive to your inner being, source energy ❤
This is definitely what i need right about now. Long story, less long a friend and I had a deep discussion. I was pretty much venting. The conversation got a bit deep, which was fine. She then said something that cut deep. It really hurt me. I made up in my mind i was going to forgive her. I also felt that this was an indication that I needed this to happen for a reason. Listening to this video, I now understand and am able to forgive and be open to receiving what the Universe has for me in this area of my life. I am very blessed when things of this nature happen. I have to keep reminding myself that not everyone is on the same journey as I am. ❤❤
So I have been listening to Abraham Hicks. I do like her if I just wanna feel a bit better. Years ago I really had a very bad trauma and figured out that Abraham Hick teachings dont help always. I do think that lots here would agree that a lot goes into victim blaming. I think the universe and souls path is more complex than Esther Hicks or anybody else can comprehend including me. Anyway, like always take what serves you from her teachings and the rest you will hopefully figure out yourself, sooner or later
Exactly ... There is darkness & evil & we r trained & programmed & set up to feel unworthy by poor & sometimes outright bad guy parents & society, etc. this is a simple answer to an incredibly complicated scenario. On some broad spiritual level we accept & allow it, but no one wants to experience gross injustice & victimization & we r trapped & trained into these thoughts vibes about ourselves that r not natural spiritually. & If u haven't been thru it via repeated very rough roads & brutally tragic & hard times u will not understand it. & This simple answer which caters to a certain mindset & lifestyle will work for u.
Huge topic, needs more discussion. For example, dealing with Narcissists - I can control my perceptions, but there’s a fine line between personal accountability (thoughts, feelings) and subconscious psychological messaging (dissociation, cognitive dissonance)
Nope. The attention some people give to all of the "signs of a narcissist" "dealing with a narcissist" interpreting every video and TV show about other things in terms of their narcissist narrative practices that vibration and makes you a magnet for that treatment. You order it up from the universe for every meal and then are surprised when you get it.
@la_scrittice_vita You're discounting clinical research for a woman who pretends to be a collection of multiple personalities on RUclips. If you're that naive you're a sitting duck for predatory narcissists out to exploit your openess and blame YOU if anything goes wrong.
@@la_scrittice_vita I agree, no accidents. Indeed, life is a perfect weave. It’s no accident my brother, for example, is a textbook psychopath (Dark Triad if you know the field), and he exploits covertly, no empathy. Massive gaming and harm. Nothing is in isolation, so the love and inclusion I kept extending to him was the set of my own antenna/magnet. By engaging with harm, YES I got hurt, but I also was able, from another vantage point, to let things be within me, the only state I can control. He’s my brother. I know his history. My family of origin makes sense now. I can raise my own vibration at will, and that’s a gift to treasure. It’s not about my brother, it’s about me. I’m on a fascinating learning curve. And though I’m willing to engage with people across the spectrum, these states no longer daunt me and I won’t always draw them. I would just love to hear more from Abraham about these people who exploit and harm, though they have their place in the weave. I love Neville Goddard’s explanation of the scriptures. In the scriptures the word Amen means ‘so be it’ - without judgment. So I look at what I’m attracting with ‘so be it’. Life around my brother is like being in a dog run, I get to exercise my states😅
Absolutely. That’s actually one of the interpretations that can be inferred from what Abraham is ultimately trying to teach. The only thing is and I did feel it in your comment, when we say they indeed have betrayed themselves we shouldn’t be saying it in any kind of spite or anger cuz if we truly are able to bring ourselves to a place where we can actually see them doing whatever they did because of who they were not because of who we are then there’s nothing else that Abraham is teaching.
they betrayed themselves long ago so its no point for them to do it to others. Does not negate they came into your life. There is no blame just an oppertunity to grow from. There are all kinds of reasons you attracted that: you belief you cant be trusted yourself, you dont trust your own intuition, you betray yourself by adjusting too much to what isnormal, you betray who you are on the surface bc you are afraid of the amount off power running through you ect
We are living in the present and entering the future. For instance, if you have an ex you still communicate with who hurt you then you stay in the present hurt because you invite the hurt in to your reality. Meaning you are bringing your past into your present and possible future. Starting in the present here and now you can create your own reality of who and what you want to invite into your future. You didn't create childhood trauma because you didn't understand loa as a child. Shit happens to us and is a catalyst to shape our intended future.
This topic creates a lot of contrast for the true believers in victim narratives. The fact that they attracted the video that upsets them so much is one of the most elegant ironies the LOA has ever presented.
@@ElanaVital83nobody’s trying to win you over here. You can accept the information provided and use it to your advantage or you can ignore it. Does not affect any of us in any way which one you choose!
@@ElanaVital83 sure but that option doesn’t involve you does it? what I choose to do with my life has no impact on you whatsoever! And if the result of being wrong is increased happiness and quality of life, then I’m happy to be wrong!
You are not responsible for other people’s behaviour. But when you feel on high energy minding your own business, you’re not very open to other’s idiocy. But when you are a naive and open soul, like me, and have a lot of energy and love in you, energy vampires find you easily. Nothing wrong with my naivety, helpful spirit and loads of energy. But very attractive for darker souls who want to suck the life out of you.
"Energy vampires" don't find you, you attract them with a vibration that expects them. You believe you are naive and vulnerable. Darlin', your inner being is hooked up to Source. There is nothing that part of you doesn't know and understand and can handle. Learn to connect with that part of you, and you will no longer vibrate vulnerability.
@@MSP2104 I can relate. I experienced the same... High energy and positive person. Meaning well, helping others. Creative and fun.... But there were so many energy vampires and jealous people... Its exhausting. I feel we need to hide the positive energy from most ppl, because it naturally attracts negative, empty people...👈👈 What do you do about this?
I do not completely agree with this. Not always, do we actually attract ppl who take advantage of us. Cause some ppl are simply pure evil narcissists or psychopaths, and you happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Or for instance a child or young person who gets abused, did not attract this.
I attracted my narcissistic sons soul destroying attack on me... How? By loving his daughter and attending her wedding that HE was not invited to (due to him destroying that relationship) Yes he's nasty controling narc but I own. I attracted it... I'm ok with that Plus we do not know what vibration even a child is in. Could be fear etc and that attracts things Yes even very bad things to them It's hard to grasp that Just recently I read about a family that moved to a farm to get away from a city that worried them for their childrens safety... Child was abducted and killed Attraction is a LAW We need to use it to our benefit 💜
@billyje4726 Totally agree with you. It’s an aspect that Esther doesn’t properly deal with imo. It’s not a belief that we are unworthy, that’s the problem, it’s a naivety regarding the darker side of humanity that can be the main issue. So we can have good self esteem, but simply underestimate how devious and dangerous people can be. In that case the belief that needs changing, is related to other people, not to the self. So yes we create it, but not in the cliche understanding of ‘thinking negatively’ it’s from thinking too positively of others.
@@annastone5624 You are totally right. We need to change our view of other ppl and be more, lets say suspicious. I still think ,it cannot be said that we created it, but we didnt know better. Especially children or young ppl, they just simply dont know better, because they lack the experience.
Yeah I am thinking the same thing too, because its almost blaming the person who has been hurt by others that inherently it is there fault because they have an unworthiness wound? To a degree maybe we attract partners and we accept the love that we think we deserve. But this would imply that abuse vistums in relationships brought that upon themselves due to their core vibrations? I dont think that is true, and lacks some sort of human empathy. Like exactly what you are saying. I've been thinking alot about the saying "everything happens for a reason." I dont think this is true either, sometimes there is no reason things just are. Nobody asked to be in a coutnry filled with war and etc, thats beyond people's control sometimes and has nothing to do with our inner vibrations. I feel like sometimes manifestation comes from a place of priveledge - maybe people who allready sort of have the means to manifest their materialstic desires. But what about people in third world countries ? They might never have the means to escape. On a simple basis super positivity attracts positivity, but we cant account our whole lives on law of attraction and manifestation. Then we are always searching outward for what is better vurses searching within. sorry my spelling is awful i know im aware aha
I'm not sure why noone has reached out to you, sounds like your asking for help, Im not any kind of doctor but just a mom reaching out..is there anything I can help you with? My son suffers from suicidal depression and severe anxiety, Im here if you need someone to reach out to.
@@Amy123456788 hello Amy, hes 42. Im not sure what helps the most, he has tried a lot of different medications, hes an addict, used drugs to stop all the thoughts in his head, hes sober now, going on I think about 2 yrs. maybe I can get you two in touch with each other, I know I cant truly understand what he or you are going through and my possitive spiritual solutions are not for him, I listen and I tell him how much I love him, how much I would miss him if he ever did anything to himself and as selfish as that is, he is my best friend and I couldnt bear life without him, Do you have a support system?
@@Amy123456788 amy it doesnt look like any of my responses are going through..let me try again, hes 42, and I cant say for sure what helps him most, he's tried several meds that seem to make it worse..., I can only tell you from where I am, . Im here for him, i tell him how much I love him, how much i would miss him if he ever did anything. Im just here for him to talk, Im not sure any of it works because he and I think different, i see the sun, he sees the dark so i cannot truly ever understand what you or he is going through, but i can be here for support, to try to shine a little sun in the corner of the dark room, i know thats not much and I know how its a struggle every single minute of every day for people that struggle with depression. Do you have a support system? anyone that you can talk to?
Oh the hindsight when I think back to when my boyfriend lent my brand new barbecue grill to my millionaire brother without my permission😢 I was feeling like a victim specially when I called the brother before he even used it and said go buy your own cuz you're a millionaire and you're still in town you haven't left Suburbia and entered the National Park so go buy your own😂 well he didn't he destroyed mine and then tried to hide the evidence😂 here I am feeling like a victim next thing you know the camp trailer was robbed so there I am feeling like a victim next thing you know the house is robbed😢 didn't recognize it at the time was I victimized sure absolutely they both did something they should not have but I have to take responsibility that I let both of them narcissistic not give a crap men on to my life and property so ultimately I had to take accountability for the entire situation in order to get out of the victim mentality😢 people unless and until you take responsibility for every single solitary decision that you make nothing is going to change in your life😢 your children are being affected because of the vibration of the household and their environment within the family in their school and the community😮 teaching your children about the emotional scale is the most important thing you can do😮
@@MSP2104 have you ever been to my brother's house and see how he cares for his barbecue? This particular Grill was not meant to have its lid closed as it was not made as a smoker. He melted the lid.
I obviously attract Cheaters and Betrayal as this is the 3rd marriage with cheating.... The first two were physical cheating and this one is emotional cheating.... Progress??????? 😅😅😅
Progress to identify the pattern, yes. Now look to identify the rockets of desire those betrayals launch. Betrayal is the absence of what--to you? Is it a partner you can trust? Feeling safe? Feeling valued? When you've got it, explore how that would feel. And then maybe contemplate how you can get that from your inner being? The more in touch you are with that part of you, the less dependent you are on other people and the physical world to feel good, the sooner you will feel good.
That's fine. But, there are real things that happen....to people. You can't wash off..forget...it caused ain n the person did nothing to cause it....are you saying....the person who did the violations should get off....because, the person vibes were off key......WHAT?
The answer to your question is yes that's what she's saying and that is the fact😮 I wrote a comment in the thread you'll have to go read the story somewhere within your story you made a decision that allowed those people into your experience no if ands or buts❤❤
There are something hidden. And, you can only be betrayed by someone you hold close and dear to you. There is a sense of trust you don't have with others. Depending on how wicked n clever the person is doing the decieving it could do ALOT OF DAMAGE TO A PERSON LIFE..HOME N FAMILY. What makes it worse is when multiple people you trust. In your family close to you are all involved. JUSTICE.....I WANT JUSTICE. MY PERCEPTION IS MY FREEDOM NOW ITS NO LONGER DISTORTED.
@justjudy7320 If Abraham sees my being abused as a child as my fault, I couldn't give two lumps of dookie to hear what "he" has to say about it. I left Christianity for this very reason: spiritual "experts" respond the same way every time. "Give over your money so I can tell you YOUR A SINNER and that's why life is tough." Abraham and the Christian God can kick rocks.
I just heard of your content, and I'm not sure I'd trust anyone who says abuse victims manifest their abuse. I didn't "manifest " my father's violence since I was 2 years old when it started. I didn't even know how to use the toilet.
Hi there :). I'm not sure Abraham Hicks means it like that, there is probably more context around this conversation. She might mean that when you decided to incarnate on earth, you might have chosen this life in order to experience certain contrast. But I completely understand when you've been through something like that, you might not agree with Abraham Hicks perspective. I'm sorry this happend to you. Much love💕
@DivineBeingss Wow what a vague response from a spiritual leader. I grew up in Christianity and got the same indifference: "You're being abused.God's testing you, like Job. Maybe you should pray about it!" Typical. I never clicked on your content until today and I didn't realize you were so Typical. I apologize but I'm sorely disappointed in the algorithm that suggested this channel.
Well like I said, I'm not a spiritual leader, it's audio material from Abraham Hicks :). I just create the animated videos. Anyways I totally understand if you don't resonate with this material. I truly wish you the best 🙏😊
@DivineBeingss Prove Abraham actually exists and I might rethink my hasty ascertation. I was open to hearing what you had to say originally. But this beyond Pink Sauce quality content for me right now. Saying you're "not a spiritual leader" while declaring to be connected with some higher enlightened source huh? PINK. SAUCE.
I don't know whats going on here, but every comment has a bright red heart next to it and al ot have replies.....EXCEPT the actual person that is reaching out for help. Where is all the positive manifestations everyone is doing if this poor girls plea for help is hanging out in space with no comfort from any of the 116 commenters. Looks like ya'll have more work to do. I have manifested my perfect life, brought myself up from the trenches so before anyone comes back with a snarky comment, I am an amazing person, i know I am, I have manifested everything down to a front row parking space everywhere I go, and I know myself, my true deep self and if someone asks for help, Im there
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its hard to fathom. But when i channged my vibeation all of my relatiobships chnged. My health changed, my finances . Everything . When i noriced ths injustices in my life i got more injustices .
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Same here
Thank you....this definitely resonates ❤
How did u do that?
💯 got to find a way out of the vibration of victim mentality regardless of how much we’ve actually been victimized. It’ll only attract more of that. I think that’s particularly why a lot of the victims unconsciously take up the vibration of the perpetrator instead.
I can control my perception
i have the ability to alter my perception
Anger. God please help me to let go of my anger from those that have wronged me. Please help me to understand the lessons and to not let people take advantage of me anymore. Help me to forgive myself for allowing this treatment and to let go of my old reality. Amen. 🙏
amen
@allysonmitchell8756
Ally my dear, there is only one lesson here. Love yourself more. Honor yourself first. Youre the foundation and center of your life. Everything you are and do emanates from you. Stand anchored in self. Not 3D self but Divine Self. In your beautiful heart. There are 8 billion people on this planet. You arent here to please and fix them. Youre here to choose and become and expand and your presence just being you contributes to the expanding energies here. Anchor within you, your heart is a portal to God and beautiful realms of love light beauty and joy. If you love your self you wont attract abuse. The energies arent a match. If you dont honor and love your Self the Universe says okay here's more. Energy is neutral and flows where attention goes. When you honor yourself you discern opposing energies and you dont engage, you dont associate. You go where wanted is where resonance is. May your life be like an orchestra.
I take FULL responsibility for attracting all others into my life. Even idiots/others on their path of awakening that have done me harm and traumatized me. Rage and hurt are completely understandable.
Yes but only to move up the emotional scale so that you can then feel frustrated instead of rage and then hopeful and then believing that people like that are not possibly able to get into your experience! So don’t dwell there too long or you will then attract more and more people and circumstances to feel rage about! Good luck with it! Blessings of all your hearts desires manifest in perfect divine timing!🙏💜✨
I'm looking to Abraham to help me feel better about being betrayed. I get random moments of such deep sadness.. I keep practicing shifting my energy and getting into the vortex
U can do it!!!
It's my perception of this that's hurting me. It is not my job to get rid of the unwanted. It is my job to tune it out of my frequency. I am expanding. Where i am is perfect. I am a deliberate creator. I am going to have the pleasure of closing the gap! I am worthy! Abraham, please help me make peace with where i stand.... 🙏🏼
I can say all these positive things to myself, but i am having trouble controlling my vicious patterns of thinking the worst of the people i meet.. tonight i was in such a great mood and perhaps this other person got jealous of my happiness, but he threw out a disgusting word that he previously apologized for but tonight when he said it, he seemed content with himself because I was immediately put off and told him i just wanted to go to bed. But he keeps claiming he wants the best for me and yada yada yada ... But he keeps throwing out these snively little underhanded comments and won't let up on them sometimes. It really bothers me because i feel like he is toying with me, because one, im the only one here to take his "hidden anger out on." And two, because it's clear he has a preconceived notion of me or who i am, and i think he's trying to keep me stuck there or feels he's doing right by trying to keep me confused or whatever he's doing to create a false narrative about who i truly am. I take in to account that i have issues, but i have seen this behavior before so many times and i dont know if im being over skeptical about it or if my intuition is telling me to shut up six days ago every time hes around me for a reason... How do i know what to do?
False narratives come from hurt and pain i hear ya
Look at how much your comment is talking about him more than you. If you build up your connection to your inner being (with practice like exercise) you'll find other people can't affect your mood this way. It's like having shock absorbers on a car. You hit a bump, big deal. "Somebody said a word" big f'ing deal.
Once you're in a place that you know you're not dependent on what other people say & do to feel good, you'll find you won't attract those experiences any more.
Start by catching when you have those negative memories and reflect on the rockets of desire they fired. If you're feeling good, you want, what? To simply enjoy it? The people with to be happy with you? What will that feel like? How can you get that now from your inner being?
The more you do what Abraham calls "the energy work" the more invincible you'll be.
Listen to your gut feeling. If you feel he’s toying with you, he is. He’s stealing your joy and you let him manipulate how you feel. You say yourself youve seen this before, why are you doubting yourself?
Suggestions as i am going through sometimes judging bc i would have handled a work situation differently involving co worker n my employer differently than---
So 1
Say aloud or strongly: change
As in change my old patterns of so i can move on with new newer me n new next level life
2
Its about my evolution n expansion to decide: is being right no matter how right i am LOVING TO ME OR LOVING FOR ME
3
IF I can switch no matter how long it takes im taking care of my body, health and FOCUS is back on gratitude and great things in my life working
Thanks for what is, thanks for the new things desired
And really is that person, persons, old story i might hold helping me expand...i long run they arent fonna be in my life forever
It is a human decision to feel un worthy, ❤😂🎉
@7:56 this is what A Course In Miracles also teaches 👏🏼
Great point Ester I agree ❤. Until we take responsibility for ourselves and our thoughts (which only you have the power to tweet for a better thought) that’s when inner change happens, stay open and receptive to your inner being, source energy ❤
This is definitely what i need right about now. Long story, less long a friend and I had a deep discussion. I was pretty much venting. The conversation got a bit deep, which was fine. She then said something that cut deep. It really hurt me. I made up in my mind i was going to forgive her. I also felt that this was an indication that I needed this to happen for a reason. Listening to this video, I now understand and am able to forgive and be open to receiving what the Universe has for me in this area of my life. I am very blessed when things of this nature happen. I have to keep reminding myself that not everyone is on the same journey as I am. ❤❤
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Definitely popped up at the right time! 🎉
So I have been listening to Abraham Hicks. I do like her if I just wanna feel a bit better. Years ago I really had a very bad trauma and figured out that Abraham Hick teachings dont help always. I do think that lots here would agree that a lot goes into victim blaming. I think the universe and souls path is more complex than Esther Hicks or anybody else can comprehend including me. Anyway, like always take what serves you from her teachings and the rest you will hopefully figure out yourself, sooner or later
LOVED this and right on time. ❤❤❤ as always.
AMAZING CONVERSATION WOW.... BLOWN AWAY AGAIN BY ABRAHAM 💞⚡💞⚡💞⚡💞⚡
Exactly ... There is darkness & evil & we r trained & programmed & set up to feel unworthy by poor & sometimes outright bad guy parents & society, etc. this is a simple answer to an incredibly complicated scenario. On some broad spiritual level we accept & allow it, but no one wants to experience gross injustice & victimization & we r trapped & trained into these thoughts vibes about ourselves that r not natural spiritually. & If u haven't been thru it via repeated very rough roads & brutally tragic & hard times u will not understand it. & This simple answer which caters to a certain mindset & lifestyle will work for u.
Huge topic, needs more discussion. For example, dealing with Narcissists - I can control my perceptions, but there’s a fine line between personal accountability (thoughts, feelings) and subconscious psychological messaging (dissociation, cognitive dissonance)
Nope. The attention some people give to all of the "signs of a narcissist" "dealing with a narcissist" interpreting every video and TV show about other things in terms of their narcissist narrative practices that vibration and makes you a magnet for that treatment. You order it up from the universe for every meal and then are surprised when you get it.
@la_scrittice_vita You're discounting clinical research for a woman who pretends to be a collection of multiple personalities on RUclips.
If you're that naive you're a sitting duck for predatory narcissists out to exploit your openess and blame YOU if anything goes wrong.
I'd trust a clinical therapist over someone who claims there are multiple people living inside her brains 😅
@@la_scrittice_vita I agree, no accidents. Indeed, life is a perfect weave. It’s no accident my brother, for example, is a textbook psychopath (Dark Triad if you know the field), and he exploits covertly, no empathy. Massive gaming and harm. Nothing is in isolation, so the love and inclusion I kept extending to him was the set of my own antenna/magnet. By engaging with harm, YES I got hurt, but I also was able, from another vantage point, to let things be within me, the only state I can control. He’s my brother. I know his history. My family of origin makes sense now. I can raise my own vibration at will, and that’s a gift to treasure. It’s not about my brother, it’s about me. I’m on a fascinating learning curve. And though I’m willing to engage with people across the spectrum, these states no longer daunt me and I won’t always draw them. I would just love to hear more from Abraham about these people who exploit and harm, though they have their place in the weave.
I love Neville Goddard’s explanation of the scriptures. In the scriptures the word Amen means ‘so be it’ - without judgment. So I look at what I’m attracting with ‘so be it’. Life around my brother is like being in a dog run, I get to exercise my states😅
Thank You Dear Esther Abraham
Really Appreicate the Clarity❤
Wonderful confirmation-thank you 🙏
I’ve really got this now and wonderful things are becoming for me🎉❤😊
Awesome 😊💕
Love this!❤
Those people betrayed themselves not me
A breath of fresh air....
OOohh..I like that!
Ooof!
Absolutely. That’s actually one of the interpretations that can be inferred from what Abraham is ultimately trying to teach. The only thing is and I did feel it in your comment, when we say they indeed have betrayed themselves we shouldn’t be saying it in any kind of spite or anger cuz if we truly are able to bring ourselves to a place where we can actually see them doing whatever they did because of who they were not because of who we are then there’s nothing else that Abraham is teaching.
they betrayed themselves long ago so its no point for them to do it to others. Does not negate they came into your life. There is no blame just an oppertunity to grow from. There are all kinds of reasons you attracted that: you belief you cant be trusted yourself, you dont trust your own intuition, you betray yourself by adjusting too much to what isnormal, you betray who you are on the surface bc you are afraid of the amount off power running through you ect
This happened to me
Perfect!
Thank you so much for sharing Julia ❤
It's a pleasure 🥰🤗
I’m sorry please forgive me thank you and I love you 🎉
I always say to my 5 year old do not attract rapists because you dont know what that means yet.
Thank God'universe'❤
We are living in the present and entering the future. For instance, if you have an ex you still communicate with who hurt you then you stay in the present hurt because you invite the hurt in to your reality. Meaning you are bringing your past into your present and possible future. Starting in the present here and now you can create your own reality of who and what you want to invite into your future. You didn't create childhood trauma because you didn't understand loa as a child. Shit happens to us and is a catalyst to shape our intended future.
This topic creates a lot of contrast for the true believers in victim narratives. The fact that they attracted the video that upsets them so much is one of the most elegant ironies the LOA has ever presented.
Yeah exactly 😉
@@DivineBeingssYou're not winning me over, lady.
@@ElanaVital83nobody’s trying to win you over here. You can accept the information provided and use it to your advantage or you can ignore it. Does not affect any of us in any way which one you choose!
@@caitlinalyn_comedy There's a 3rd option you've forgotten. You could be wrong.
@@ElanaVital83 sure but that option doesn’t involve you does it? what I choose to do with my life has no impact on you whatsoever! And if the result of being wrong is increased happiness and quality of life, then I’m happy to be wrong!
You are not responsible for other people’s behaviour. But when you feel on high energy minding your own business, you’re not very open to other’s idiocy. But when you are a naive and open soul, like me, and have a lot of energy and love in you, energy vampires find you easily. Nothing wrong with my naivety, helpful spirit and loads of energy. But very attractive for darker souls who want to suck the life out of you.
"Energy vampires" don't find you, you attract them with a vibration that expects them. You believe you are naive and vulnerable. Darlin', your inner being is hooked up to Source. There is nothing that part of you doesn't know and understand and can handle. Learn to connect with that part of you, and you will no longer vibrate vulnerability.
@@MSP2104 I can relate. I experienced the same... High energy and positive person. Meaning well, helping others. Creative and fun.... But there were so many energy vampires and jealous people... Its exhausting. I feel we need to hide the positive energy from most ppl, because it naturally attracts negative, empty people...👈👈 What do you do about this?
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I do not completely agree with this. Not always, do we actually attract ppl who take advantage of us. Cause some ppl are simply pure evil narcissists or psychopaths, and you happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Or for instance a child or young person who gets abused, did not attract this.
I attracted my narcissistic sons soul destroying attack on me... How? By loving his daughter and attending her wedding that HE was not invited to (due to him destroying that relationship)
Yes he's nasty controling narc but I own. I attracted it... I'm ok with that
Plus we do not know what vibration even a child is in. Could be fear etc and that attracts things Yes even very bad things to them
It's hard to grasp that
Just recently I read about a family that moved to a farm to get away from a city that worried them for their childrens safety... Child was abducted and killed
Attraction is a LAW
We need to use it to our benefit
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Its such a powerful position to know that we create our own realities 💪🏾
@billyje4726 Totally agree with you. It’s an aspect that Esther doesn’t properly deal with imo.
It’s not a belief that we are unworthy, that’s the problem, it’s a naivety regarding the darker side of humanity that can be the main issue.
So we can have good self esteem, but simply underestimate how devious and dangerous people can be. In that case the belief that needs changing, is related to other people, not to the self.
So yes we create it, but not in the cliche understanding of ‘thinking negatively’ it’s from thinking too positively of others.
@@annastone5624 You are totally right. We need to change our view of other ppl and be more, lets say suspicious. I still think ,it cannot be said that we created it, but we didnt know better. Especially children or young ppl, they just simply dont know better, because they lack the experience.
Yeah I am thinking the same thing too, because its almost blaming the person who has been hurt by others that inherently it is there fault because they have an unworthiness wound? To a degree maybe we attract partners and we accept the love that we think we deserve. But this would imply that abuse vistums in relationships brought that upon themselves due to their core vibrations? I dont think that is true, and lacks some sort of human empathy. Like exactly what you are saying. I've been thinking alot about the saying "everything happens for a reason." I dont think this is true either, sometimes there is no reason things just are. Nobody asked to be in a coutnry filled with war and etc, thats beyond people's control sometimes and has nothing to do with our inner vibrations. I feel like sometimes manifestation comes from a place of priveledge - maybe people who allready sort of have the means to manifest their materialstic desires. But what about people in third world countries ? They might never have the means to escape. On a simple basis super positivity attracts positivity, but we cant account our whole lives on law of attraction and manifestation. Then we are always searching outward for what is better vurses searching within. sorry my spelling is awful i know im aware aha
Some of your advice is a gift and some of it is world salad that makes no sense!!!!
How can i hheal auicidal depression amd anxiety
I'm not sure why noone has reached out to you, sounds like your asking for help, Im not any kind of doctor but just a mom reaching out..is there anything I can help you with? My son suffers from suicidal depression and severe anxiety, Im here if you need someone to reach out to.
@@suzannequereau7940 what helps him the most? How old is he
@@Amy123456788 hello Amy, hes 42. Im not sure what helps the most, he has tried a lot of different medications, hes an addict, used drugs to stop all the thoughts in his head, hes sober now, going on I think about 2 yrs. maybe I can get you two in touch with each other, I know I cant truly understand what he or you are going through and my possitive spiritual solutions are not for him, I listen and I tell him how much I love him, how much I would miss him if he ever did anything to himself and as selfish as that is, he is my best friend and I couldnt bear life without him, Do you have a support system?
@@Amy123456788 amy did you get. my last reply? I dont see it here and I want to make sure you know Im here
@@Amy123456788 amy it doesnt look like any of my responses are going through..let me try again, hes 42, and I cant say for sure what helps him most, he's tried several meds that seem to make it worse..., I can only tell you from where I am, . Im here for him, i tell him how much I love him, how much i would miss him if he ever did anything. Im just here for him to talk, Im not sure any of it works because he and I think different, i see the sun, he sees the dark so i cannot truly ever understand what you or he is going through, but i can be here for support, to try to shine a little sun in the corner of the dark room, i know thats not much and I know how its a struggle every single minute of every day for people that struggle with depression. Do you have a support system? anyone that you can talk to?
Oh the hindsight when I think back to when my boyfriend lent my brand new barbecue grill to my millionaire brother without my permission😢 I was feeling like a victim specially when I called the brother before he even used it and said go buy your own cuz you're a millionaire and you're still in town you haven't left Suburbia and entered the National Park so go buy your own😂 well he didn't he destroyed mine and then tried to hide the evidence😂 here I am feeling like a victim next thing you know the camp trailer was robbed so there I am feeling like a victim next thing you know the house is robbed😢 didn't recognize it at the time was I victimized sure absolutely they both did something they should not have but I have to take responsibility that I let both of them narcissistic not give a crap men on to my life and property so ultimately I had to take accountability for the entire situation in order to get out of the victim mentality😢 people unless and until you take responsibility for every single solitary decision that you make nothing is going to change in your life😢 your children are being affected because of the vibration of the household and their environment within the family in their school and the community😮 teaching your children about the emotional scale is the most important thing you can do😮
Ah that doesn't sound like a fun experience! But atleast it gave you insights on what you were attracting! ✨
If you can’t even lend a barbecue to your brother…😢
@@MSP2104 have you ever been to my brother's house and see how he cares for his barbecue? This particular Grill was not meant to have its lid closed as it was not made as a smoker. He melted the lid.
I obviously attract Cheaters and Betrayal as this is the 3rd marriage with cheating.... The first two were physical cheating and this one is emotional cheating.... Progress??????? 😅😅😅
Same here. Life goes on or not .sending hugs and happy recovery.
Progress to identify the pattern, yes. Now look to identify the rockets of desire those betrayals launch. Betrayal is the absence of what--to you? Is it a partner you can trust? Feeling safe? Feeling valued? When you've got it, explore how that would feel. And then maybe contemplate how you can get that from your inner being? The more in touch you are with that part of you, the less dependent you are on other people and the physical world to feel good, the sooner you will feel good.
Nobody told you to try them all
That's fine. But, there are real things that happen....to people. You can't wash off..forget...it caused ain n the person did nothing to cause it....are you saying....the person who did the violations should get off....because, the person vibes were off key......WHAT?
The answer to your question is yes that's what she's saying and that is the fact😮 I wrote a comment in the thread you'll have to go read the story somewhere within your story you made a decision that allowed those people into your experience no if ands or buts❤❤
There are something hidden. And, you can only be betrayed by someone you hold close and dear to you. There is a sense of trust you don't have with others. Depending on how wicked n clever the person is doing the decieving it could do ALOT OF DAMAGE TO A PERSON LIFE..HOME N FAMILY. What makes it worse is when multiple people you trust. In your family close to you are all involved. JUSTICE.....I WANT JUSTICE. MY PERCEPTION IS MY FREEDOM NOW ITS NO LONGER DISTORTED.
@@justjudy7320I made the decision for my father to drag my sister across the room by her hair when I was in elementary school?
@@ElanaVital83 have not a clue might want to ask Abraham
@justjudy7320 If Abraham sees my being abused as a child as my fault, I couldn't give two lumps of dookie to hear what "he" has to say about it.
I left Christianity for this very reason: spiritual "experts" respond the same way every time. "Give over your money so I can tell you YOUR A SINNER and that's why life is tough."
Abraham and the Christian God can kick rocks.
What about a 3 year old little Girl that was disemboweled by the family PIT BULL??? Just Curious
So when bad things happen to people it's their own damn fault. Pretty harsh teaching, if you ask me.
I just heard of your content, and I'm not sure I'd trust anyone who says abuse victims manifest their abuse.
I didn't "manifest " my father's violence since I was 2 years old when it started. I didn't even know how to use the toilet.
Passive aggressive little "heart" of my comment. How charming 🙃 Meanwhile, want explain yourself a little more? Or do I have to pay a fee first?
Hi there :). I'm not sure Abraham Hicks means it like that, there is probably more context around this conversation. She might mean that when you decided to incarnate on earth, you might have chosen this life in order to experience certain contrast. But I completely understand when you've been through something like that, you might not agree with Abraham Hicks perspective. I'm sorry this happend to you. Much love💕
@DivineBeingss Wow what a vague response from a spiritual leader. I grew up in Christianity and got the same indifference: "You're being abused.God's testing you, like Job. Maybe you should pray about it!"
Typical. I never clicked on your content until today and I didn't realize you were so Typical.
I apologize but I'm sorely disappointed in the algorithm that suggested this channel.
Well like I said, I'm not a spiritual leader, it's audio material from Abraham Hicks :). I just create the animated videos. Anyways I totally understand if you don't resonate with this material. I truly wish you the best 🙏😊
@DivineBeingss Prove Abraham actually exists and I might rethink my hasty ascertation.
I was open to hearing what you had to say originally. But this beyond Pink Sauce quality content for me right now.
Saying you're "not a spiritual leader" while declaring to be connected with some higher enlightened source huh? PINK. SAUCE.
RUclips can pass from miracles into disgrace and depression in just 1 minute. 😁😁😁😁
ALL OF YOU WILL RECEIVE FAIR PAYMENT FOR ALL CRIMES COMMITTED AGAINST ME, FOR 20 YEARS.
I don't know whats going on here, but every comment has a bright red heart next to it and al ot have replies.....EXCEPT the actual person that is reaching out for help. Where is all the positive manifestations everyone is doing if this poor girls plea for help is hanging out in space with no comfort from any of the 116 commenters. Looks like ya'll have more work to do. I have manifested my perfect life, brought myself up from the trenches so before anyone comes back with a snarky comment, I am an amazing person, i know I am, I have manifested everything down to a front row parking space everywhere I go, and I know myself, my true deep self and if someone asks for help, Im there