There's a big line between 'possessive' and 'abusive'. If he gets jealous about you hanging out and being close with others , he's possessive. But once he starts getting too insecure, checking your phone every two seconds, listening in on your phone calls, putting a tracker on you, guilt tripping you manipulating you, calling you names and getting physical (holding you down to intimidate you/ hitting/grabbing you aggressively) Then he's abusive. A lover can be possessive and still respect you and your boundaries.
Being possessive as a significant other is unhealthy. Someone who is possessive cannot love you and respect your boundaries - because if they loved you - they wouldn’t be possessive. You’ve got it all wrong, mate.
remember one thing girls: if your boyfriend starts to act like that, STOP THESE RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT AWAY, WHATEVER IT TAKES! QUIT AND RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN AS FAR AS POSSIBLE!!! DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!! for the sake of your own physical and emotional safety, JUST QUIT!
My ex even called me 58 times..... He didn’t only call, he tracked me down when he knew i was in a official program, he followed my every move, even tried to hunt my male friends and colleagues when talking to them....i felt so creepy.... After 2 years and 6 months, we broke up....because i followed his strategy and then he realized that the behaviour is creepy🤣 he blamed me, then broke up with me..... Sad but true, he didn’t even manage a girl after that! He's single now!
Idk, I think the best way to break up with an abusive almost psycho boyfriend isn't face to face, because you will never know how he'll respond. It's better through a phone call or a message, so you'll make sure that he doesn't hurt you.
Most definitely, and stay at a friend's house for the night, he probably knows where you live and you don't want him showing up to manipulate you or even hurting you.
My bf once called me 40 times. We broke up after 6 months into the relationship though. It was hard being with someone who is crazy for you. You want the warmth from your significant other not the hotness to burn you.
I've had a possessive boyfriend before who will always play with my emotions and make me feel guilty if I ever hinted at wanting to break up with him, and it just led up to the point where I lost all feelings and affection for him I was only dating him because I didn't want him to do anything bad, guilt trap. It was so bad but I guess I was lucky he didn't physically abuse me.
My mom had a relationship like this, it's a never-ending cycle that you have to stop, thank god my mom stopped it in time but i can't sadly say the same about other women/men
Why are there so many guys like this.? I dated one too, he wouldn't let me be friends with any guys and would constantly demean my girl best friend saying that she wasn't good company.. for a year i was in that very toxic relationship, thank god i was saved
It is possessive he thinks he owns her that she belongs to him that's why he is being so extreme. Your boyfriend/girlfriend does not belong to you, you don't own them...You can't own people the only people who do that are slavers and slavery is illegal.
i can relate soo much to thiss,,, he hit me abused me manipulated me, my life was hell... doubted on every little things... i couldn't even have female friends and he was jealous of my pet too! it's hard to leave but girls please leave before it ends your life... RUN !!
It's not like they're married or anything...these kind of relationships scare me... Edit: Sorry for not thinking of the right choice of words earlier ...but marriage also shouldn't have these kind of relationships.
@@Popcerealdoofk what she means here I think its because when u have a boyfriend it's easy to leave him from the first fight but when its marriage it's much harder and scarier.. like how it is shown
The boyfriend has serious trust issues and insecurities. I would let my boyfriend hang out with other girls and he should allow me to hang out with other guys. If he gets jealous if I do that’s toxic
💀 imagine hanging out with guys with no female friend, easiest way to cheat and the other guy to manipulate you into breaking up with your boyfriend, secondly get a trusty female friend who will make sure to call your boyfriend if something bad do happen, thirdly make sure your boyfriend when he's around females have a guy friend who respect you as a good girlfriend to him because if you don't do that, girls can manipulate him into breaking up with you, rather be smart with your friends and choose them wisely.
A lot of domestic abuse can start very young between couples of same-sex or opposite sex from middle school and up just because they don’t have marks on their body doesn’t mean they’re not being abused verbally emotionally and those are the ones that nobody notices. Educating ourselves and learning to recognize the signs is very important and also educating the children our next generation to put boundaries to say no so they know what’s not OK and teach him to talk to us and for us to talk to someone who can help us before it’s too late. One of our problems is that in our movies are series dramas it’s actually romanticized and that’s not good either. It is very important that this is put out there more and more.
There was that one time my ex told me to wake him up at certain time by calling. Cuz we weren't near each other, in different places. It was important work, so he told me to not forget to call. He didn't set alarm, wanted to go to work after hearing my voice. So I said ok. But he won't pick up call when I called (he was sleeping deep) so I called like 40+ times. Only then he woke up, picked up call. He later joked that I might be possessive type, I said I only called repeatedly cuz he said it was important work. We both laughed it off. Looking back now, it's all so freaky. He turned out to be the possessive, toxic and emotionally abusive psycho type .... It's really better to be alone than be in harmful relationships.
Omg girl the exact thing happened to me . He turned out to be so possessive and abusive but sadly I'm still with him , can't get out of it and I'm scared for my life and security. He even says he'll kill my mom and then me.
I love possessive life partner. I always want my future life partner to be Possessive for me! but not this type of thing! This Is fully Abusive 🌚this is not a Love at all! Psycho!
If your relationship is like this please get out. This can turn into something a lot worse if you do not leave when you see the warning signs. One in every three women in a relationship are killed by their partner.
To all the boyfriends who are holding their exs or girlfriends hostages be it mentally or physically : Hey dudes. There is absolutely no point in forcing someone who stopped loving you or do not fit you, to stay by your side. Such behaviour only strengthens their wish to leave you, proves them right and also lower yourself to the worst of you. Sometimes, you even end up in a lockup or jail because you want to get back at that person, which is actually just a waste of time and zero worth it. The only best way to get someone to regret losing you, is to Live Better. Do your job, improve your quality of life, meet someone who appreciate you, and if all fails, stay Single. Single actually can means Freedom, Peace, More spare money and More time for yourself.
I wouldn't allow my relationship to get to this point. I wouldn't even put my friends lives at risk. If a guy becomes scarily possesive and does not respect my need of certain space and time for myself, my family/friends/hobbies/interests, I will be breaking up with him in a snap. Before I enter a relationship, I usually lay out my don't and do's. I tell the guy that I give him space,time, privacy, trust and respect. And I expect him to do the same. And I give him a heads up that the minute he becomes demanding and manipulative, we will be saying goodbyes to each other. I never had any abusive relationship and is now married to the most restpectful and loving husband.
It’s not always a question of allowing it though. For me, there were circumstantial reasons which I didn’t see coming. I have always had a similar mindset to you, otherwise. But I now know it’s not that simple sometimes.
@@guinevereinthefield176 I understand.. Especially if it happens after marriage, or a child is already present. I don't judge people who stay in this kind of relationship because there are always factors that can't just be ignored or disregarded. However, my personal stand when it comes to relationship has always been like this and I had to make difficult decisions to stick in it too. I don't know what your story but I hope you're okay and safe. Sending you virtual hugs.
@@foxofyourdreams I strongly encouraged a friend to dump her ex fiance because he was verbally abusive and manipulative plus into alcohol to the point he was daily getting drunk. Thank God she dumped him before the marriage! She told me that my influence and her mother influence where very important to give her the courage to dump that douchebag. I am very proud of my friend!
Real life story: guy breaks up with girl because he was too possessive like shown here, he hears shes at a party he shoots the place up killing two people and she's injured. Thank you for saying you aren't only putting yourself at risk.
I can relate on so many different levels.i am educated now. It's scary and mentally torturing everyday to be there. Anyone reading this, if you are in a sane situation.talk it out with your close friends or family.take caution.
@@israa.fathima3943 I said the way he wa slapping I know it that this happens in real life I was not making fun of the situation I was talking bout the actor.
You definitely see their possessive characteristics when both are this way. One would think such a relationship would work but actually that’s not true. I would know because I see it firsthand between my little sister and her boyfriend. They’re constantly arguing over things like this and yet they’re both possessive.
Yeah my bf was also this much possessive & scary. I also had a male bestfriend,,we were bestfriend from childhood but he(my bf) had problem with that,,,. . Even he(bf) had problem if i ever talked to any of my male friends. He used to track my WhatsApp acc., other than that i didn't used any social media.. ,nd he always had 1 of his frnds after me to know wherever i go nd Whatever i did outside my house. Though he never hit me but he nd his frnds always ended up beating the guys who talked to me or proposed me... i was 17 then he was 22,,my frnds(female) always said that i'm lucky to have such a protective bf but only i know how it was to be in a relation with him. We always had fights about my male friends nd he always abused me ... after 2yrs i brokeup with him nd now i'm single nd happy😊✌ Idk why i shared my feelings here but tq to whoever reads this.✌🤗
Gosh... I'm so glad I managed to get rid of first bf of my sister. He was like this. Caused a lot of trouble. I didn't know about anything since I was younger she never told me. But the moment I saw her falling apart crying, I knew it was about a boy, and definitely am undeserving one. I joined her and helped her break up with him. Please ppl if you see anything like this help the person get away from the abusive partner, the victim is weakened by trauma. Please help them out! I hope we learn for better.
Watching these make me so happy to be single .. knowing myself i wouldn't liked being controlled or having someone being possessive over me. Some find it cute but it ain't it ... I'd rather be single stress free you know what i mean
When you are in relationship give more importance to your relationship than anything else... Neve give any chance for outside person to involve in your relationship If you still getting a feeling that your partner is too possesive. Then he/ she is wrong and you cant live with them
Gosh this reminds me my past, he had trust issues or something i don't know but i did everything whatever he would ask me to yet he would verbally abuse me make me feel guilty because he knew i am damn sensitive, i broke every relation with my cousins as he thought i am sleeping with them, i stopped talking to my friends as well just because i fell in love with him i wanted to have breakup but he would always blackmail me and this went on for 2 freaking years i had to endure him and now he has lost interest in me so broke up with himself, i couldn't even follow up my career because of him. Now I am happy even though i lost a lot of myself I seriously am not going to do that mistake. Better stay single than this.
Wow, I didn't know these types of drama were available in Indonesia, my nenek always shows me sinetrons when I come over from Holland :D it's a scary story but the acting is so good!
SPOILERS I just watched this movie and I was amazed. Turns out he’s being abused at home severely. He knows and realizes he is toxic and when they run off together he leaves her behind. In the end she is on a walk and suddenly looks over to see him walking near her. He wasn’t stalking her simply coming back home. She takes one loom at him and she runs off. He may not be able to stay away but she is.
This whole “possessive” trait in a guy is never a, *kink*. I don’t know why Chinese dramas try make it a thing. This draws the line. Tells you it’s too far. It should never begin.
This is my current situation in relationship if u want to feel being direspect,abuse mentally and phyically..when i wsnt to broke up he will do anything just to make sure i wont leave him but when i stay he will act like he own me..he will make u feel guitly..please dont think this kind of relarionship..100% toxic will affect ur life..trust me
This type of realtionship not healthy, so try to be leave, it's better to be single, (My friend have this type of boyfriend, she want to break up with him, but he don't leave,
Oh god.. It's is too scary to have such a brutal ghosts as husband.. Husband's opposition to his wife to have a boy friend is a cruelty & domestic violence👊😡👊
'this is an abusive relationship. if your SO treats you like this--run"
Asian crush be teaching me more about relationships than school has.
Does school ever teach u of relationships
Fr
Ikr
Right
And also showed us an example of one as well.
There's a big line between 'possessive' and 'abusive'.
If he gets jealous about you hanging out and being close with others , he's possessive. But once he starts getting too insecure, checking your phone every two seconds, listening in on your phone calls, putting a tracker on you, guilt tripping you manipulating you,
calling you names and getting physical (holding you down to intimidate you/ hitting/grabbing you aggressively) Then he's abusive.
A lover can be possessive and still respect you and your boundaries.
Well explained
Exactly!👍
sure but possessiveness still isnt a sign of a healthy relationship haha. it doesnt have to be abusive, but its certainly not ideal lol
Being possessive as a significant other is unhealthy. Someone who is possessive cannot love you and respect your boundaries - because if they loved you - they wouldn’t be possessive. You’ve got it all wrong, mate.
The line between possessive and abusive is the same.
Being possessive is a form of ABUSE.
remember one thing girls: if your boyfriend starts to act like that, STOP THESE RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT AWAY, WHATEVER IT TAKES! QUIT AND RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN AS FAR AS POSSIBLE!!! DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!! for the sake of your own physical and emotional safety, JUST QUIT!
Well not only girls boys too.
@@Anna-jd6lu sure thing
Good advice,if only people would listen
@@rvsindhurvsindhu3468
who wouldn't listen omg......
@@Kavyathegreat Girls in America,why even my roommate,eventually she escaped
possessive girlfriends are common,still scary but possessive boyfriends are on another level
Ikr
True,they can kill maybe
Also known as abusive boyfriends
girlfriend are scary too
True😂😂😂
33 missed calls? Who has the time??? After 10 calls is NO-NO
Something 55 calls is also there🤣🤣
Not even ten,three time and I give up.to hell with him.
Not even 3 just after one time I'm done but when I met her in person we'll be having long chat about it !!! 🤣🤣🤣
Omfg I’d be screwed 😂 I call like 20 times 😂 especially when I get worried
Hahaha
I dated a jealous guy once. Once he started acting like a fool, I dipped the hell out of that relationship. Best decision I ever made.
ever think why got jealous??? maybe he realised he was dating a hoe.
Good for you
Same
My ex even called me 58 times..... He didn’t only call, he tracked me down when he knew i was in a official program, he followed my every move, even tried to hunt my male friends and colleagues when talking to them....i felt so creepy.... After 2 years and 6 months, we broke up....because i followed his strategy and then he realized that the behaviour is creepy🤣 he blamed me, then broke up with me..... Sad but true, he didn’t even manage a girl after that! He's single now!
nishat ari hahaha that’s scary
Narsictic behavior.
Wat a splendid idea 😂
Hmm bohot ukhaad liya tumne toh!
I would do the same to freak out the guys too
I hate this type of boyfriend..It is better to stay single, if you have this type of scary boyfriend😶
All boy are possessive 😧
@@runahaquerunahaque5546 Hm, little bit possessive is normal but if he treats you badly, that's not good, How scary he is😶
@@runahaquerunahaque5546 That is a damn lie.
I have same type of boyfriend
@@kavyashree5285 Ow really, Are you afraid of him? Are you ok with him
The description is very important.
Very.
Yeah
Yeahhh very
Here you go.1k like for your comment👍🏼🙌🏼
Thanks 🙂
First I got into Korean dramas then Chinese, thai, japanese and now thanks to asian crush I'll waste more time in Indonesian dramas also😝
Haha same from India here
Check out thai and taiwanese too..😁
@@findingmeaning1241 yeah definitely 👍
Any suggestions for Japanese drama..??? Like rom-com or with good thrilling story
Lol. Same while adding Filipino and Taiwanese dramas to that list .
Idk, I think the best way to break up with an abusive almost psycho boyfriend isn't face to face, because you will never know how he'll respond. It's better through a phone call or a message, so you'll make sure that he doesn't hurt you.
Most definitely, and stay at a friend's house for the night, he probably knows where you live and you don't want him showing up to manipulate you or even hurting you.
Exactly.. 🐼
Dont break up at all. Run and ghost him. !!!
@@yemiqan8833 I did but he still found me out and did everything he could to get me back .. guys with this mentality have some serious ego problem
@@divyadivya3446 I feel you. Maybe I'd have a problem just after this reply. 🤣
My bf once called me 40 times.
We broke up after 6 months into the relationship though.
It was hard being with someone who is crazy for you. You want the warmth from your significant other not the hotness to burn you.
Hamara bhi break up ho gaya
*wattpad has entered the chat*
😂😂
Lol😂
True😂
😹😹😹
i there 😂
This is the signs of starting of an abusive and toxic relationship, so please breakup or run.
Too sad that these things happen in real life, not just in dramas:/
The fact they they acted this out so well gave me chills, I was actually so scared.
better to stay single,, than to get 1 like him.
Her friend is handsome than her bf😁😁 please broke him girl😁😁
I was about to comment the first part
@@sweetbearfanfictions5575 😁😁
and now you all know WHY he's acting that way
@@aight33 😐 my side though too😔
wangxian
I've had a possessive boyfriend before who will always play with my emotions and make me feel guilty if I ever hinted at wanting to break up with him, and it just led up to the point where I lost all feelings and affection for him I was only dating him because I didn't want him to do anything bad, guilt trap. It was so bad but I guess I was lucky he didn't physically abuse me.
are you free of him now or still dating him for the same reason?
I can totally understand you
He also playing with my emotions
Only a narcissist like him would toy with people’s emotions and affections like that.
I faced it damn he still haven't moved on still setting hopes messaging me about how much he loves me but that guilt trap I hate it .
My mom had a relationship like this, it's a never-ending cycle that you have to stop, thank god my mom stopped it in time but i can't sadly say the same about other women/men
Why are there so many guys like this.? I dated one too, he wouldn't let me be friends with any guys and would constantly demean my girl best friend saying that she wasn't good company.. for a year i was in that very toxic relationship, thank god i was saved
Same here...but he gave me the best memories and the really bad ones...all at the same time
Same here...
This ain’t possessive this is abuse and obsession
It is possessive he thinks he owns her that she belongs to him that's why he is being so extreme.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend does not belong to you, you don't own them...You can't own people the only people who do that are slavers and slavery is illegal.
@@rene3759 I think that’s selfishness though
@@rene3759 being possessive and abusive are two difff things
And controllive behavior and guilt tripping or emotional manipulation
i can relate soo much to thiss,,, he hit me abused me manipulated me, my life was hell... doubted on every little things... i couldn't even have female friends and he was jealous of my pet too! it's hard to leave but girls please leave before it ends your life... RUN !!
It's not like they're married or anything...these kind of relationships scare me...
Edit: Sorry for not thinking of the right choice of words earlier ...but marriage also shouldn't have these kind of relationships.
this is NOT okay even if you are married.
marriage shouldn't change anything anyway
Are you saying that marriage means the approval to abuse..
Domestic violence shouldn't be involved in any kind of relationships even marriage
@@Popcerealdoofk what she means here I think its because when u have a boyfriend it's easy to leave him from the first fight but when its marriage it's much harder and scarier.. like how it is shown
The boyfriend has serious trust issues and insecurities. I would let my boyfriend hang out with other girls and he should allow me to hang out with other guys. If he gets jealous if I do that’s toxic
💀 imagine hanging out with guys with no female friend, easiest way to cheat and the other guy to manipulate you into breaking up with your boyfriend, secondly get a trusty female friend who will make sure to call your boyfriend if something bad do happen, thirdly make sure your boyfriend when he's around females have a guy friend who respect you as a good girlfriend to him because if you don't do that, girls can manipulate him into breaking up with you, rather be smart with your friends and choose them wisely.
Guess I'm toxic then
A lot of domestic abuse can start very young between couples of same-sex or opposite sex from middle school and up just because they don’t have marks on their body doesn’t mean they’re not being abused verbally emotionally and those are the ones that nobody notices.
Educating ourselves and learning to recognize the signs is very important and also educating the children our next generation to put boundaries to say no so they know what’s not OK and teach him to talk to us and for us to talk to someone who can help us before it’s too late.
One of our problems is that in our movies are series dramas it’s actually romanticized and that’s not good either.
It is very important that this is put out there more and more.
If you love someone. Just love them don't own them. If I was the girl the moment the guy laid his hands on me it's A NO already.
Its not as easy as it seems. I try to break up with mine , but its all punches and threats
Trust me, women love messed up and abusive relationships. They choose to stay with such men
@@baddivids8926 are you uneducated and dependent on him even for breathing?
@@istalkghosts497you are tweaking .they dont
Type of boyfriend I like in Indonesian movie is Dilan. He’s can’t make you cry, he’s protective, he’s funny, playful, care, Milea is lucky btw 😜 😂
That stupid one who punched a teacher?
Tell me the series name already
There was that one time my ex told me to wake him up at certain time by calling. Cuz we weren't near each other, in different places.
It was important work, so he told me to not forget to call. He didn't set alarm, wanted to go to work after hearing my voice. So I said ok.
But he won't pick up call when I called (he was sleeping deep) so I called like 40+ times. Only then he woke up, picked up call.
He later joked that I might be possessive type, I said I only called repeatedly cuz he said it was important work.
We both laughed it off.
Looking back now, it's all so freaky.
He turned out to be the possessive, toxic and emotionally abusive psycho type ....
It's really better to be alone than be in harmful relationships.
im so proud you got out, i hope you're okay now 💜💜💜
Omg girl the exact thing happened to me . He turned out to be so possessive and abusive but sadly I'm still with him , can't get out of it and I'm scared for my life and security. He even says he'll kill my mom and then me.
@@kawai1919 are you still with him?
Are you okay? do rply if you're fine coz I don't know why but I'm worried for you
@@ritikabhagat9253 Hey!! He broke up with me for a silly reason so I got lucky, and I'm perfectly fine thnx for asking ♥️♥️
@@kawai1919 thank God....good luck for your future Queen
I wish you'll be happy forever now ❤️
The way he was staring through the window...scary shit
I love possessive life partner. I always want my future life partner to be Possessive for me! but not this type of thing! This Is fully Abusive 🌚this is not a Love at all! Psycho!
I also love possessive partner
Yeah I love possessive life partner but meri life me aisa ladka nehi hai aur jo hai wo possessive nehi hai
Omg that's a little crazy, but ok😂
Same but possessive on healthy level 😂
@TOBIRAMA SENJU 2ND HOKAGE You are absolutely right 😔😔
Don't let anyone abuse you.
There is a vast difference in being protective and abusive.
If your relationship is like this please get out. This can turn into something a lot worse if you do not leave when you see the warning signs. One in every three women in a relationship are killed by their partner.
The acting is soo good...
The short guy is so cute.
I thought you were for a second
Basically, "when your Boyfriend goes Yandere mode"
U have all type of yandere not all of them the same
Yandere atleast care about their partner, these types of people just want to control the person they're dating...
@@aronbeast7 yandere don't care about their partner. They only care bout themselves.
@@aronbeast7 but that's a yandere..
@Capal Harte they are a ticking time bomb. If you do anything that pisses them of you're done for. I mean if you're into it go for it I guess 😂
This is an abusive relationship its called get a new phone and move and possibly if its really bad warn your friends
Warn friends first... df u talking bout
Definitely!
Sadly
Why does the victim have to feel some sort of guilt and move...?
@@sonal.l2646 no-one said that. They're warning the victim to move so the abuser doesn't attempt to kill or hurt them.
I really appreciate the description thanks Asian Crush
It scares me to see someone can be like that, and that girl has no way of getting out of it which must be so suffocating
Her friend doesn't even know that his boyfriend can get so jealous...😓🤦🏽♀️
To all the boyfriends who are holding their exs or girlfriends hostages be it mentally or physically : Hey dudes. There is absolutely no point in forcing someone who stopped loving you or do not fit you, to stay by your side. Such behaviour only strengthens their wish to leave you, proves them right and also lower yourself to the worst of you. Sometimes, you even end up in a lockup or jail because you want to get back at that person, which is actually just a waste of time and zero worth it.
The only best way to get someone to regret losing you, is to Live Better. Do your job, improve your quality of life, meet someone who appreciate you, and if all fails, stay Single. Single actually can means Freedom, Peace, More spare money and More time for yourself.
I wouldn't allow my relationship to get to this point. I wouldn't even put my friends lives at risk. If a guy becomes scarily possesive and does not respect my need of certain space and time for myself, my family/friends/hobbies/interests, I will be breaking up with him in a snap. Before I enter a relationship, I usually lay out my don't and do's. I tell the guy that I give him space,time, privacy, trust and respect. And I expect him to do the same. And I give him a heads up that the minute he becomes demanding and manipulative, we will be saying goodbyes to each other. I never had any abusive relationship and is now married to the most restpectful and loving husband.
wow nice
It’s not always a question of allowing it though. For me, there were circumstantial reasons which I didn’t see coming. I have always had a similar mindset to you, otherwise. But I now know it’s not that simple sometimes.
@@guinevereinthefield176 I understand.. Especially if it happens after marriage, or a child is already present. I don't judge people who stay in this kind of relationship because there are always factors that can't just be ignored or disregarded. However, my personal stand when it comes to relationship has always been like this and I had to make difficult decisions to stick in it too.
I don't know what your story but I hope you're okay and safe. Sending you virtual hugs.
@@foxofyourdreams I strongly encouraged a friend to dump her ex fiance because he was verbally abusive and manipulative plus into alcohol to the point he was daily getting drunk. Thank God she dumped him before the marriage! She told me that my influence and her mother influence where very important to give her the courage to dump that douchebag. I am very proud of my friend!
Real life story: guy breaks up with girl because he was too possessive like shown here, he hears shes at a party he shoots the place up killing two people and she's injured. Thank you for saying you aren't only putting yourself at risk.
Run girl Run... Run for your life. You got a perfect life out there. Oh man this ain't a relationship at all.
You'd better stay single rather than such a boyfriend!!😓
oof, I used to be in a relationship like this.
Do not stay with him/her if youre being treated like this, you deserve better
I'd kick him and DASHI RUN RUN RUN -
아미🤫😂
@@nevidillem Yup! I'm an ARMY 아미
@@annie..7 extra plus ordinary
@@nevidillem so show me~
Made ma day am laughing like crazy girl in the middle of the night
*Ayo,my boyfriend is a yandere and he almost killed my bff cHeCkK!*
You are NOT ok boo it’s ok to ask for help.
U do realise this was a drama right 😂
WOW i'm early..
(Let's all appreciate the title/description writer)
The fact that this video portrays my current relationship 😭
Girl run
Just please get out of there girl runn ~
Get the hell out of there gurl run
Get out of that
OMG! For your life run! Please.....
I can relate on so many different levels.i am educated now. It's scary and mentally torturing everyday to be there. Anyone reading this, if you are in a sane situation.talk it out with your close friends or family.take caution.
Dear girls if your boyfriend is abusive,
GET👏 THE 👏HELL 👏OUT 👏OF 👏IT
He exactly like my possessive weird friend... He is always jealous no matter if it's a female or male or pet.
LOL even pet wtf🤣🤣🤣
Or pet ??!!!🤣🤣🤣
Omg me too but i started being rude to him so now he hates me and we broke our friendship lol im happy ngl
The pet ?!?!
😂😂😂😂😂
3:14 now that’s some video creator commitment right there. He nearly clipped that car in front of him all for the video. 😆
This movie is soooo amazing. You will understand why he was abusive. Sad Sad. Really an eye opener. Well done!
Why?
Why?
I am from Sri Lanka 💖These dramas gonna teach me more about life.I think it is my good karmas that at least I know what is love ~💕💖
🤣The way he was slapping himself was funny tho
It's not. It's so fucking scary when it happens in real life. My dad used to do that when he couldn't blame anyone. This clearly reminded me of my dad
@@israa.fathima3943 I said the way he wa slapping I know it that this happens in real life I was not making fun of the situation I was talking bout the actor.
You definitely see their possessive characteristics when both are this way. One would think such a relationship would work but actually that’s not true. I would know because I see it firsthand between my little sister and her boyfriend. They’re constantly arguing over things like this and yet they’re both possessive.
5:27... He is indeed crazy... no woman deserves this kind of guys..
If you’re in a toxic relationship like this leave
Yeah my bf was also this much possessive & scary. I also had a male bestfriend,,we were bestfriend from childhood but he(my bf) had problem with that,,,. . Even he(bf) had problem if i ever talked to any of my male friends. He used to track my WhatsApp acc., other than that i didn't used any social media.. ,nd he always had 1 of his frnds after me to know wherever i go nd Whatever i did outside my house. Though he never hit me but he nd his frnds always ended up beating the guys who talked to me or proposed me... i was 17 then he was 22,,my frnds(female) always said that i'm lucky to have such a protective bf but only i know how it was to be in a relation with him. We always had fights about my male friends nd he always abused me ... after 2yrs i brokeup with him nd now i'm single nd happy😊✌
Idk why i shared my feelings here but tq to whoever reads this.✌🤗
Gosh... I'm so glad I managed to get rid of first bf of my sister. He was like this. Caused a lot of trouble. I didn't know about anything since I was younger she never told me. But the moment I saw her falling apart crying, I knew it was about a boy, and definitely am undeserving one. I joined her and helped her break up with him. Please ppl if you see anything like this help the person get away from the abusive partner, the victim is weakened by trauma. Please help them out! I hope we learn for better.
0:25 his smile! Damn cute! 💖💖💖🌹
Watching these make me so happy to be single .. knowing myself i wouldn't liked being controlled or having someone being possessive over me. Some find it cute but it ain't it ... I'd rather be single stress free you know what i mean
Lol just remembered that dog meme
*SAYING SHE IS JUST MY BOY BESTFRIEND*
When you are in relationship give more importance to your relationship than anything else...
Neve give any chance for outside person to involve in your relationship
If you still getting a feeling that your partner is too possesive. Then he/ she is wrong and you cant live with them
I'd date the guy friend. He's cute and looks cool too.
I too get angry with my boyfriend when he talk too much about his female best friend... I hate it..
Hey same 2 you
It's always a problem for girls in a relationship and have a male best friend..
Gosh this reminds me my past, he had trust issues or something i don't know but i did everything whatever he would ask me to yet he would verbally abuse me make me feel guilty because he knew i am damn sensitive, i broke every relation with my cousins as he thought i am sleeping with them, i stopped talking to my friends as well just because i fell in love with him i wanted to have breakup but he would always blackmail me and this went on for 2 freaking years i had to endure him and now he has lost interest in me so broke up with himself, i couldn't even follow up my career because of him. Now I am happy even though i lost a lot of myself I seriously am not going to do that mistake. Better stay single than this.
Not only is he possessive but he is physically abusive as well.
He's handsome but if he's acting like that, Its better to be single.lol
Wow, I didn't know these types of drama were available in Indonesia, my nenek always shows me sinetrons when I come over from Holland :D it's a scary story but the acting is so good!
For those who to watch full version, just type in youtube "posesif adipati dolken full movie"
Adipati dolken is the name of the cast
SPOILERS
I just watched this movie and I was amazed. Turns out he’s being abused at home severely. He knows and realizes he is toxic and when they run off together he leaves her behind. In the end she is on a walk and suddenly looks over to see him walking near her. He wasn’t stalking her simply coming back home. She takes one loom at him and she runs off. He may not be able to stay away but she is.
If I have that kind of bf I will stay forever single I will choose Kdrama, my oppas and wattpad over him.
He is soooo creepy!
Agreed
This whole “possessive” trait in a guy is never a, *kink*. I don’t know why Chinese dramas try make it a thing. This draws the line. Tells you it’s too far. It should never begin.
This is not even chinese lmao, this is philipjino or thai
@@Puppy21242 it’s spelled Filipino. But how are you gonna try to “correct” them with two wrong guesses lol It says it’s Indonesian in the title 🥴
She looks more mixed than Indonesian
kinda looks latina to me or middle eastern...
gєηєѕîѕ she looks Indian mixed with Indonesian, she’s very beautiful though!
She looks Indian to me
The story isn’t so simple or what it seems. The feelings you have at the beginning will change in the middle and then, once again, at the end.
Yooooo this boy is cuuuuuute. The boy who was playing charades. Not the harrasing one.
Im introvert & have no problem to be in a relationship with a possessive partner.
Me too😭
Dont ever let a man tell you he likes or loves you and than he acts like this. Run as fast as you can, dont give him any answer or encouragement.
I hate this kind of relations...Better to stay single💀😐
Stay single is far better than this kinda boyfriend
That guy : "hold the hair"
Me: YOU ARE DEAD!!!
This ain't possessive this is paranoid, controlling and abusive
This is kind of like my previous relationship. He is so scary. Whatever dont get into a abusive relationship
here me watching possessive boyfriend series who have everything but love😂😂😂
something is really wrong with me because a part of me likes this kind of relationship
Me too🙌😭🌚
Same !! Me toooo💀
Yes, me too.
This is my current situation in relationship if u want to feel being direspect,abuse mentally and phyically..when i wsnt to broke up he will do anything just to make sure i wont leave him but when i stay he will act like he own me..he will make u feel guitly..please dont think this kind of relarionship..100% toxic will affect ur life..trust me
This type of realtionship not healthy, so try to be leave, it's better to be single, (My friend have this type of boyfriend, she want to break up with him, but he don't leave,
People should come out from these types of toxic relationships.
this is not love. u would never treat a person u love like that
From Bangladesh...watching this....cz once I loved a girl in ur country....now I love every thing of ur country...
he didn't even say i love you back
Well Meteor Garden/Boy Over Flowers/Hana yori Dango, the leader of F4 is one example of a character that is possessive.
Oh my God it is next level scary....😳
Me: that forever single friend who gives relationship advice to all...😅
I used to approximately 300 calls to my long distance crush but lately I realized I was at fault and said sorry to him .
Before : Why I'm single? ?😟😟 After seeing this : Thank God I'm single..😥😧
Oh god.. It's is too scary to have such a brutal ghosts as husband.. Husband's opposition to his wife to have a boy friend is a cruelty & domestic violence👊😡👊
oh my god my father was like this with my mother, so glad she left. my god this is terrifying…