Male here, when this woman (I don't know her name) says to compliment your man when he does masculine things, that is 100% correct, guys love being complimented BUT, keep it short and sweet, a 50 word compliment sounds very suspect/sarcastic to us so when your man says "I booked an Italian restaurant for us at 8pm tomorrow" all you need to say is "I like it when you pick for us, can you do it more often?" Anything over expressive and emotional and your man will feel talked down to in a way
To add on, long and flowery words of affirmation is gonna sound suspicious because it's not a natural response. If you don't usually speak that way, don't start now. Just show appreciation how you would normally. If you DON'T show appreciation normally, well then you've stumbled upon a bigger issue.
@@itgurl7552 Im talking about in a relationship someone who takes charge and leads the couple thats is a masculine thing to do, it has always been that way since the beginning of time
Here from Aba & Preach, keep fighting the good fight my black sister! Too many women nowadays are pushing the narrative that women need to be more feminine, or only be "feminine" to the right guy, which is the exact opposite of what should be the case. You show your best self and that brings out the best in others as well, and if it doesn't then you move on. Glad to see not all of our women have been brainwashed by the media. 1 Note: Kinda along the lines of what the other men are saying, showing appreciation is 100% an amazing thing, just make sure it seems genuine. Would much rather appreciate a "thank you babe" after opening the car door for her, then hearing a whole monologue on why she appreciates it, because then it seems almost sarcastic or as if she has ulterior motives
Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice and perspective. I absolutely agree appreciation should be genuine. I should’ve mentioned that, I assumed it was a given 😜
Gratitude has nothing to do with femininity. Some of the things that men want women to be greatful for are things that any grown adult should be doing. Like contributing to your household by washing dishes or taking out the trash
@@MunkeyyCANA People are trying to do that. I seen men complain about there wives not showing gratitude towards them for not taking out trash or cleaning.
I love this! As a woman who was raised in an environment that my natural desire to be femenine was shamed, this is truly beautiful and needed! My husband and I are working opening up space for the other to being out Divine Masculine and Divine Feminin, and demonstrating what that looks like for our kids. Thank you for the encouragement!
I admire the time and effort youu went to put this video togethere and like the fact that you can see from both sides of the spectrum and be wise about it at a young age. Aba & Preach viewers apperecieate your wisdom.
I like the term from Alice von Hildebrand to describe the feminine. Receptibility. It's not passive but receptive. And the importants of receptibility can not be overstated.
You have a very beautiful and positive energy and your advice is on point :-) Lot's of success with your feminine channel and greetings from a fellow RUclipsr 🌹
I have realized that I have been emasculating my man so much in our relationship. I think I was in my feminine when we met, he loved to plan romantic dates and took such good care of me. But then old wounds came up for me and I couldn’t recieve his love and efforts, and started acting like his therapist, when actually I should have just worked on myself. We’re 10+ years in now and I’m hopeful that we can repolarize our relationship. Grateful for your videos Alexis, you’re helping me tap back into my feminine energy that I know is so natural and beautiful for me to be in 💕
Came from Aba and Preach. Your video has clarified so much for me. As a young woman who was raised by a single mother I didn’t know about this. Thank you!
@@princerak8881 a lot of people wish they were able to communicate their ideas clearly to others without rambling or not having the words to do so. I get how it can be condescending when someone’s not actually listening to what you say like in the first episode of the Boondocks but there’s many people who wish they were well spoken to communicate and have trouble due to their upbringing and internalized abuse from early childhood or just simple learning disabilities or adhd. Hope you’re getting the respect you deserved from here on out
@@overthrone3494 when people say to me they act like poc can't talk very well which I'm not too fond of maybe if I get older but I still cringe when people says that
I am married and I do this, but it is good the reminder because it is super easy to forget about all this when you are focused on the kids. We should be watering the plan after kids.
Saw you on Aba and preaches channel and became curious about the full content of the video. Thank you for the information. I’ll give some of these tips a try
Your advice and wisdom always hits so good. It is so true that transformation is never comfortable because if nothing changes, nothing changes. I am so open for change and growth and maturation! This can only level up my relationships, romantic and otherwise. Thank you 🙏 All the light and love and healing ❤
I appreciate you for this one. Btw your energy and that smile. YES. you definitely have the feminine energy that inspires a guy... Oh, and here from Aba and Preach.
Here from A&P. Everything was you said was facts, only thing id have disagree with is the long compliments. Im sure im speaking for 90% of men but the longer the compliment the more it feels like 🧢, the shorter and more to the point the better and more genuine the compliment feels
I think these tips are relevant to women in most relationships but I also think there are some men who are just so wounded and so stubborn that you cannot be in your feminine energy around them no matter how hard you try to flip the dynamic without their participation. Stay there too long, and you will run into the same problem later when you become afraid of letting go of your own masculinity.
From my experience , Men who are in their natural masculine energy is normal for them , unfortunately there are not so many left on the planet , trying to elicit something from feminine man is like too HARD work , just skip them . No many providers are out there , women earn much more money these days .
True. They offer so little and want respect but I earn my own money, am independent with a large, clean and beautiful flat and will not take their bs. My mental health, time, friends, hobbies, spirituality and bank account are more important.
This is a channel of positive vibes and positive light. Take your man hating and negative comments to a different challenge please. There’s no space for that here 🙅♀️🙅♀️👎
If you attract a lot of feminine men, you are probably too masculine and repel the masculine men away. The good news is, this is something you can fix! Simply rewatch the video again until you get it through your head.
@@BiblicallyHandle Men caused this they validate all these self-centered women all the time they can't control their lust women can behave like gods, caring women are being made fun of but its all just loan they will need to pay that off with yields some day.
Here from the Aba N Preach. I'm a guy. Big ups to Aba and Preach for reacting to your vid and speaking candidly on this topic on their channel too. All three of you spoke candidly. You make sense sis. You're wise and intelligent. Your smile is nice. You are an attractive woman. You facially resemble my fellow vegan Cydnie Chanel. You and her look alike. Shout out to Vegas. I went to Vegas one time with some of my friends I went to college with. I went over 6 years ago to LV. That happened one week before my 21st earthstrong. Word. The strip was cool to drive down. @awwlexis
Why is anyone on here assuming she means to give the entirety of what she says in examples as a script for your own compliments? She's not giving you a script. She's giving you multiple examples of things to say. Use 👏🏻your 👏🏻noggins 👏🏻people.
Towards the end of this video, there was a question “How do you change your life from being at the bottom?” And what she answered is sooo true. Two years ago I was in a car accident. Where I nearly lost my life. But I didn’t. 🎉 And what I have thought after that is: I have hit rock bottom. The only way there is now, is up. ☝️ So I think that that is very good advice ❤
A women is giving relationship advice, and doesn't seem to have this urge most women have to hate men every 5 seconds while doing it? How is this possible! I can't believe it, not a trace of hatred to be seen! Maybe I just get recommended the worst type of content I just see hatred most of the time. Here from Aba and Preach btw. Tho I feel this content is mainly targeted for women and I haven't watched her other stuff (yet), this video is overall fun and interesting. I'm a guy and I enjoyed it, lets hope that more people will find this girl she seems very sweet.
Ngl if this happened in my relationship we would still be together, these are some of the things she pointed out after the fact and I feel like shit for it , being comfortable as a man never be comfortable it’s not healthy for your relationship
The algorithm sent me this way. So far all I hear is truth..it's from your perspective but it's no denial because I can't debunk itso it must be truth and my experience and my soul tells me the same thing..we far from who we should be..they would say u wrong but u literally super right..we all imperfect, but that's what makes us perfect
he is depressed now going through many emotions and anxious. i do not know how else i could make him feel better as a gf. any tips how to apply feminie energy when bf is feeling umotivated, anxious?? i always listen and comfort him and he is thankful for that. i wonder what else i can do. he used be in his masculine energy. but these past few wks. he has been like this.
Some things aren't our job. I would suggest him seeing a therapist and praying for him if you do that. All we can do is let him know that we are here to listen, ask good questions, and provide encouragement.
Let him know that you care and are there for him, but that you would think it's best if he could reach out to a therapist. It's not your job to counsel and heal him. He must want to do that for himself if he decides to. It's not your responsibility.
Though I agree with some of your points, women are more in their feminine energy with compliments and men are most in their masculine with competition. There's best selling book by David Deida called 'The way of the Superior Man' which gives an essential guide to masculine and feminine energy between men and women.
Is it too late to change? I realized prior to my last relationship I operated thoroughly in my feminine but due to abuse it changed me. I am 37, can I truly change?
Can you speak on examples of cooking? I love cooking, and love cooking for people. My last boyfriend had the worst diet of fast food and easy meals. So I did all the cooking and the kitchen management. But I definitely mothered too much. Not really sure how I should approach this
I remember the time my friend told our teacher, how should I show my team that I love them and that they are valuable to me? Our teacher said, really love them
Hi nessa, u know at first we have to be really that energy, then we can flow it ... with the strategies that alexis said, specially in dark & light feminine energy, when we make moves with our energy it show it self in a best way
For example when he say one of his secrets to u, whats ur feeling? U r pretty happy that he trust u and talk to u about himself, so u will say babe its so precious for me that u said that to me...
Hi love your videos. Can you please do a video on relationship where the man can’t step up into his masculinity or won’t- reasons why and how to remind in your feminine energy regardless pls? ❤ You touched on this briefly 19:40 mins in 😊
Id say, see if he is watching porn frequently. From personal experience, that fucks with men and makes them act more feminine. Another thing could be due to social media and who he watches on there. Apart from that i can not think of any other reasons. Good Luck and wish you the best
@@FriskyTendervittles Then you're in the wrong relationship. If couples can't take honest criticism from one another, they'll never improve their relationship.
@@FriskyTendervittles The real issue is you are with not a proper, mature, self-respecting partner in your relationship. The funny thing is YOU know this too. You can't be their mother, therapist, and their woman at the same time. If your man has issues or not mature enough, you will be picking up the slack and the mental load your entire life being together. Meaning you will be carrying the team on your back. If you want to struggle and keep doing this, then you lose ALL RIGHT to complain in the future, as that is YOUR choice to continue this. Period.
both forsure but it should definitely always be more feminine we have both feminine and masculin within us and mastering your femininity is mastering the two within us, ruclips.net/video/pDaJpEM37bM/видео.html dr michelle gad goes into more details about this and gives you practical tips on how to start being more conscious of your masculinity and how to start transforming that today, good luck w everything babes 🤍
I agree I think it’s beautiful to Be in your Femininity, but also you must celebrate your dark side. Embrace it when necessary or organically coming out, but I think the goal is finding the perfect Balance for you. I like to be assertive in moments at work or with men in my personal life, but saying it in a feminine way. Drives men crazy at work and in My personal. Gives you that “edge.”Tell men what you want. But first know what you want. I.E. Time alone.
It depends on how you lead, lovely! Feminine energy is intuitive and focuses on feelings and empathy. If you need to make quick judgements and make black and white decisions, you're in the masculine (which is sometimes necessary - we can't be in the feminine all the time!). When you're focussed on building relationships with your team, listening, using your intuition - you're in your feminine leadership energy :)
Good Vid. I'm no youtuber but as a viewer if you would like to continue to grow I suggest editing the pause moments and transition points, out of the video. It being to long will lower view ship i would assume. quick cuts and edits work best
Listen to the Wizard whom? I apologize. I have a hearing problem and I could not get captions to come up on this video. Can anyone please tell me what she said? Thank you ❤❤❤
Can Someone explain to me about that “Aba and Preach” thing? I don’t get it. I’m from South-America (Specifically, Chile 🇨🇱) and I love this girl energy. Putting your advices into work ☺️🙏🏻❤️ God bless you ❤
Shout out to Aba and Preach for covering this -- glad you're getting well deserved recognition!
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@@vjm3 brrrrrrb
@@vjm3 😅😝💀
Came he from the link in their description
They right about the approach but she’s right in general
Male here, when this woman (I don't know her name) says to compliment your man when he does masculine things, that is 100% correct, guys love being complimented BUT, keep it short and sweet, a 50 word compliment sounds very suspect/sarcastic to us so when your man says "I booked an Italian restaurant for us at 8pm tomorrow" all you need to say is "I like it when you pick for us, can you do it more often?"
Anything over expressive and emotional and your man will feel talked down to in a way
To add on, long and flowery words of affirmation is gonna sound suspicious because it's not a natural response. If you don't usually speak that way, don't start now. Just show appreciation how you would normally. If you DON'T show appreciation normally, well then you've stumbled upon a bigger issue.
Why is booking a restaurant a masculine thing?
@@itgurl7552 because it shows leadership which is something that is masculine
@@lnvesta leadership is not an inherent masculine thing. A 16 year old could book a reservation but that doesn’t mean they have leadership skills
@@itgurl7552 Im talking about in a relationship someone who takes charge and leads the couple thats is a masculine thing to do, it has always been that way since the beginning of time
Here from Aba & Preach, keep fighting the good fight my black sister! Too many women nowadays are pushing the narrative that women need to be more feminine, or only be "feminine" to the right guy, which is the exact opposite of what should be the case. You show your best self and that brings out the best in others as well, and if it doesn't then you move on. Glad to see not all of our women have been brainwashed by the media.
1 Note: Kinda along the lines of what the other men are saying, showing appreciation is 100% an amazing thing, just make sure it seems genuine. Would much rather appreciate a "thank you babe" after opening the car door for her, then hearing a whole monologue on why she appreciates it, because then it seems almost sarcastic or as if she has ulterior motives
Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice and perspective. I absolutely agree appreciation should be genuine. I should’ve mentioned that, I assumed it was a given 😜
Gratitude has nothing to do with femininity. Some of the things that men want women to be greatful for are things that any grown adult should be doing. Like contributing to your household by washing dishes or taking out the trash
@@itgurl7552 no one’s asking for gratitude for doing simple household responsibilities. take your negativity elsewhere
@@MunkeyyCANA People are trying to do that. I seen men complain about there wives not showing gratitude towards them for not taking out trash or cleaning.
As a man, hearing a woman say she appreciates me that really does feel good to hear and know
Preach girl thanks for appreciating us for what we are as men.
This whole feminine energy topic has changed my life in ways I could have never imagined. It gets me excited every single day. 😍😍
I love this for you girl 🥹
@@awwlexis aww thank you i love your content and vibe
i love when women are not jealous from each other and recommend each otther. its so attractive reallly :)
It is also helpful to invite him to take action..not telling him but inviting him... Nice work you get it !!
I love this! As a woman who was raised in an environment that my natural desire to be femenine was shamed, this is truly beautiful and needed! My husband and I are working opening up space for the other to being out Divine Masculine and Divine Feminin, and demonstrating what that looks like for our kids. Thank you for the encouragement!
I LOVE that. So amazing. I can relate to you about growing up in that type of environment, I’m so happy you are here ♥️
I admire the time and effort youu went to put this video togethere and like the fact that you can see from both sides of the spectrum and be wise about it at a young age.
Aba & Preach viewers apperecieate your wisdom.
I'm currently sitting in my car eating food by myself listening to this video while I wait for my bf to step into his masculine energy. 😂
Thanks!
Here from Aba and Preach! Well done you! Refreshing to see some solutions provided to helping women with their relationships without bashing men!❤️👌🏾
I like the term from Alice von Hildebrand to describe the feminine. Receptibility. It's not passive but receptive. And the importants of receptibility can not be overstated.
Aba and preach sent me. Happy to hear this coming from a woman. Keep on doing what you do. New subscriber here.
Have you trained yourself to talk. Your voice and communication gestures are great! Can you do a video on that?
You have a very beautiful and positive energy and your advice is on point :-) Lot's of success with your feminine channel and greetings from a fellow RUclipsr 🌹
Hi love ❤ Thank you so much!
Here from Aba & Preach, I must admit that you nailed it all on the head. Shout out to you!!!
These are such good feeling statements omg I’m single rn but I love hearing you say your man 💕Omg girl I really need one! 🙋🏼♀️
I have realized that I have been emasculating my man so much in our relationship. I think I was in my feminine when we met, he loved to plan romantic dates and took such good care of me. But then old wounds came up for me and I couldn’t recieve his love and efforts, and started acting like his therapist, when actually I should have just worked on myself. We’re 10+ years in now and I’m hopeful that we can repolarize our relationship. Grateful for your videos Alexis, you’re helping me tap back into my feminine energy that I know is so natural and beautiful for me to be in 💕
Came from Aba and Preach. Your video has clarified so much for me. As a young woman who was raised by a single mother I didn’t know about this. Thank you!
RUclips recommended your channel to me and I am so happy 💕✨
The way you teach things is amazing and so simple thank you!
You are so well spoken!
Thank you beautiful 🥰
i hate when people say that
@@princerak8881 a lot of people wish they were able to communicate their ideas clearly to others without rambling or not having the words to do so. I get how it can be condescending when someone’s not actually listening to what you say like in the first episode of the Boondocks but there’s many people who wish they were well spoken to communicate and have trouble due to their upbringing and internalized abuse from early childhood or just simple learning disabilities or adhd. Hope you’re getting the respect you deserved from here on out
@@overthrone3494 when people say to me they act like poc can't talk very well which I'm not too fond of maybe if I get older but I still cringe when people says that
@@overthrone3494 I tend to be able to speak my mind more clearly when its something I'm passionate about
Great way to reprogram/recondition a person in a healthy way
I am married and I do this, but it is good the reminder because it is super easy to forget about all this when you are focused on the kids. We should be watering the plan after kids.
Saw you on Aba and preaches channel and became curious about the full content of the video. Thank you for the information. I’ll give some of these tips a try
Here from Aba and Preach!
Solid points.
you look amazing and i'm loving your energy i can feel it
Your advice and wisdom always hits so good. It is so true that transformation is never comfortable because if nothing changes, nothing changes. I am so open for change and growth and maturation! This can only level up my relationships, romantic and otherwise. Thank you 🙏 All the light and love and healing ❤
Thought you had great points, hope your channel thrives
I appreciate you for this one. Btw your energy and that smile. YES. you definitely have the feminine energy that inspires a guy... Oh, and here from Aba and Preach.
Here from A&P. Everything was you said was facts, only thing id have disagree with is the long compliments. Im sure im speaking for 90% of men but the longer the compliment the more it feels like 🧢, the shorter and more to the point the better and more genuine the compliment feels
Forreal my bf would think I’m messing with him😂😂
I think these tips are relevant to women in most relationships but I also think there are some men who are just so wounded and so stubborn that you cannot be in your feminine energy around them no matter how hard you try to flip the dynamic without their participation. Stay there too long, and you will run into the same problem later when you become afraid of letting go of your own masculinity.
Completely agree ♥️🙌🏽
Your advice is spot on. The only thing I would say is to keep the compliments short and sweet.
Came from Aba and Preach
omg I love your videos! your voice is so sweet and peaceful
From my experience , Men who are in their natural masculine energy is normal for them , unfortunately there are not so many left on the planet , trying to elicit something from feminine man is like too HARD work , just skip them . No many providers are out there , women earn much more money these days .
True. They offer so little and want respect but I earn my own money, am independent with a large, clean and beautiful flat and will not take their bs. My mental health, time, friends, hobbies, spirituality and bank account are more important.
@@vanessak7069 Respect = money
No wonder y'all so confused degrading yourselves basically
This is a channel of positive vibes and positive light. Take your man hating and negative comments to a different challenge please. There’s no space for that here 🙅♀️🙅♀️👎
@@tam_to_evolve what your husband think?
If you attract a lot of feminine men, you are probably too masculine and repel the masculine men away. The good news is, this is something you can fix! Simply rewatch the video again until you get it through your head.
You convinced me , you have a new follower!
Girl I discovered ur channel today and I love u allah ybark u deserve millions ♥️♥️
I love all your videos! Thanks and you’re absolutely stunning
Thank you so much I am happy to have you here 🥰
You’re so lovely. I appreciate you so much.
old school feminine is a refreshing sight to see.
Just came from Aba and Preach video. Just wanted to drop a like and subscribe. Keep up the good work.
finally someone respecting men energy ! this was so nice to hear i was tired of hearing men are the bad guys
You are the bad guys
Man hating is all too common today.
Men should be appreciated more instead of torn down.
@@BiblicallyHandle no not at all men always hurt us and make us feel unsafe
@@BiblicallyHandle Men caused this they validate all these self-centered women all the time they can't control their lust women can behave like gods, caring women are being made fun of but its all just loan they will need to pay that off with yields some day.
No you're not 😂
This should be a series.
thanks Alexis!!! much love, Elle
Aba and preach 🙌 👏🏾 🙏
Aba and preach sent me , Great video keep it up you got my sub
Loved the questions!
Thank you ❤️
Here from the Aba N Preach. I'm a guy. Big ups to Aba and Preach for reacting to your vid and speaking candidly on this topic on their channel too. All three of you spoke candidly. You make sense sis. You're wise and intelligent. Your smile is nice. You are an attractive woman. You facially resemble my fellow vegan Cydnie Chanel. You and her look alike. Shout out to Vegas. I went to Vegas one time with some of my friends I went to college with. I went over 6 years ago to LV. That happened one week before my 21st earthstrong. Word. The strip was cool to drive down. @awwlexis
Why is anyone on here assuming she means to give the entirety of what she says in examples as a script for your own compliments? She's not giving you a script. She's giving you multiple examples of things to say. Use 👏🏻your 👏🏻noggins 👏🏻people.
THANK YOU! 😂🙌🏾
Towards the end of this video, there was a question “How do you change your life from being at the bottom?”
And what she answered is sooo true.
Two years ago I was in a car accident. Where I nearly lost my life.
But I didn’t. 🎉
And what I have thought after that is: I have hit rock bottom. The only way there is now, is up. ☝️
So I think that that is very good advice ❤
I am here because of Aba & Preach. She's very wise for somebody of her age.
Some of the best advice
I lovee ur energy!! ❤️❤️
Thank you beautiful ❤
A women is giving relationship advice, and doesn't seem to have this urge most women have to hate men every 5 seconds while doing it?
How is this possible! I can't believe it, not a trace of hatred to be seen! Maybe I just get recommended the worst type of content I just see hatred most of the time.
Here from Aba and Preach btw.
Tho I feel this content is mainly targeted for women and I haven't watched her other stuff (yet), this video is overall fun and interesting. I'm a guy and I enjoyed it, lets hope that more people will find this girl she seems very sweet.
Came here from Aba and Preach. All we gotta say is, keep up the good work. and uhh ditch the KAMBUCHAAA.
Ngl if this happened in my relationship we would still be together, these are some of the things she pointed out after the fact and I feel like shit for it , being comfortable as a man never be comfortable it’s not healthy for your relationship
Yo yo yo A/P sent ya Boy ...Youre doing work of the heavens mama!!
Aba and preach …..
The video is amazing 👍🏾🔥
The algorithm sent me this way. So far all I hear is truth..it's from your perspective but it's no denial because I can't debunk itso it must be truth and my experience and my soul tells me the same thing..we far from who we should be..they would say u wrong but u literally super right..we all imperfect, but that's what makes us perfect
Thanks Alexis! ❤
he is depressed now going through many emotions and anxious. i do not know how else i could make him feel better as a gf. any tips how to apply feminie energy when bf is feeling umotivated, anxious?? i always listen and comfort him and he is thankful for that. i wonder what else i can do. he used be in his masculine energy. but these past few wks. he has been like this.
I’m going through the same thing and I need some advice
, nor are we most folk trained to help others through depression.
Some things aren't our job. I would suggest him seeing a therapist and praying for him if you do that. All we can do is let him know that we are here to listen, ask good questions, and provide encouragement.
Let him know that you care and are there for him, but that you would think it's best if he could reach out to a therapist. It's not your job to counsel and heal him. He must want to do that for himself if he decides to. It's not your responsibility.
I love this! great advice coming from a red pill man this is gold🔥
I want to learn more about inner work :)
Just found you today and LOVE your videos and your energy you're teaching me so much and are such a beautiful person
Aba & Preach brought me here I am so happy another woman is the same as me just subbed
Thank you love
As a man i can confirm that we want more feminine energy. We hate strong, independent woman stuff. We want a woman to be our crybaby.
Its true
Here from Aba and Preach!!! Just showing some support. Your are GORGEOUS!! Im definitely subbing, interested in your content
Just saw this vid on Aba N Preach... Much love!
Though I agree with some of your points, women are more in their feminine energy with compliments and men are most in their masculine with competition. There's best selling book by David Deida called 'The way of the Superior Man' which gives an essential guide to masculine and feminine energy between men and women.
Is it too late to change? I realized prior to my last relationship I operated thoroughly in my feminine but due to abuse it changed me. I am 37, can I truly change?
I just love your videos!!
Aba and Preach brought me here…. And I’m glad they did
I hope she has some single sisters haha, we need to promote this lady! This is some gold information and exactly what I'd love to have
Can you speak on examples of cooking? I love cooking, and love cooking for people. My last boyfriend had the worst diet of fast food and easy meals. So I did all the cooking and the kitchen management. But I definitely mothered too much. Not really sure how I should approach this
Here after Aba and Preach, not for the video, just to comment and say... yeah.
Can you give us more examples about different ways or words that we can say to our man to make them feel more in their masculine?
Like different ways to make them know that we r grateful, that they matter to us or just another ways to flatter them
I remember the time my friend told our teacher, how should I show my team that I love them and that they are valuable to me? Our teacher said, really love them
Hi nessa, u know at first we have to be really that energy, then we can flow it ... with the strategies that alexis said, specially in dark & light feminine energy, when we make moves with our energy it show it self in a best way
For example when he say one of his secrets to u, whats ur feeling? U r pretty happy that he trust u and talk to u about himself, so u will say babe its so precious for me that u said that to me...
Dear girl, hope u doing well🥰
Hi love your videos. Can you please do a video on relationship where the man can’t step up into his masculinity or won’t- reasons why and how to remind in your feminine energy regardless pls? ❤
You touched on this briefly 19:40 mins in 😊
Id say, see if he is watching porn frequently. From personal experience, that fucks with men and makes them act more feminine. Another thing could be due to social media and who he watches on there. Apart from that i can not think of any other reasons. Good Luck and wish you the best
How do you stay open and listen to a man when he opens up to you but not become stuck in a therapist role?
I live in las vegas too and my curly hair is dead dead 💀
What should we do if we’ve felt we need to be the planners for so long that our men accuse us of not putting in effort when we try to lean back?
@Mel C how to do that when they don’t want to hear it? When they cannot take any sort of feedback that not positive?
@@FriskyTendervittles Then you're in the wrong relationship. If couples can't take honest criticism from one another, they'll never improve their relationship.
@@Jay-mx5ky ugh I know 😞
@@FriskyTendervittles The real issue is you are with not a proper, mature, self-respecting partner in your relationship. The funny thing is YOU know this too. You can't be their mother, therapist, and their woman at the same time. If your man has issues or not mature enough, you will be picking up the slack and the mental load your entire life being together. Meaning you will be carrying the team on your back. If you want to struggle and keep doing this, then you lose ALL RIGHT to complain in the future, as that is YOUR choice to continue this. Period.
Love your video
I pray God i get a girl like you one day, much love.
Super interesting! And you are so smiley and gorgeous
both forsure but it should definitely always be more feminine we have both feminine and masculin within us and mastering your femininity is mastering the two within us, ruclips.net/video/pDaJpEM37bM/видео.html dr michelle gad goes into more details about this and gives you practical tips on how to start being more conscious of your masculinity and how to start transforming that today, good luck w everything babes 🤍
I agree I think it’s beautiful to Be in your Femininity, but also you must celebrate your dark side. Embrace it when necessary or organically coming out, but I think the goal is finding the perfect Balance for you. I like to be assertive in moments at work or with men in my personal life, but saying it in a feminine way. Drives men crazy at work and in My personal.
Gives you that “edge.”Tell men what you want. But first know what you want. I.E. Time alone.
It depends on how you lead, lovely! Feminine energy is intuitive and focuses on feelings and empathy. If you need to make quick judgements and make black and white decisions, you're in the masculine (which is sometimes necessary - we can't be in the feminine all the time!). When you're focussed on building relationships with your team, listening, using your intuition - you're in your feminine leadership energy :)
@@thecuratedfeminine Thank you xx
Good Vid. I'm no youtuber but as a viewer if you would like to continue to grow I suggest editing the pause moments and transition points, out of the video. It being to long will lower view ship i would assume. quick cuts and edits work best
Straight facts💯
Here from Aba & Preach, great video. My wife and I just subscribed
So I love this video so much. But 19:30 it was a game-changer for me! This is where I am currently at.
Same. Whats the latest?
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Welcome beautiful 🥰
What’s a good couple affirmations to listen together
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Here from Aba and Preach, keep it up! Good video.
This sound like how women train men to become the leader they supposed to be 😂
fking bs bro.People act like this is some lost art. I cant believe women are believing this stuff
Listen to the Wizard whom?
I apologize. I have a hearing problem and I could not get captions to come up on this video.
Can anyone please tell me what she said?
Thank you ❤❤❤
TheWizardLiz ♥️
@@awwlexis Thank you! ♥️
Thank you for your inspiring content and for all you do for us. I'm glad I discovered your channel.
Can Someone explain to me about that “Aba and Preach” thing? I don’t get it. I’m from South-America (Specifically, Chile 🇨🇱) and I love this girl energy. Putting your advices into work ☺️🙏🏻❤️ God bless you ❤
9:00 wow 😮 3:10
Abe n Preach found this, get that W for algorithm