176 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Controlling Your Relationships
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- Whether it is aligning people against you, telling you that you can't trust people on the outside, or trying to convince you that you're crazy, a person that is gaslighting you can wreak havoc on your relationships. When that person isn't just one person but an entire cult of Jehovah's Witnesses and it is everyone that you know, you don't stand a chance at having good relationships with others or yourself.
This is the sixth in a series where I’ll break down the ways that the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses is actively breaking individuals down, from what they do to why they do it to the real fruitage that it produces in those impacted by it. Learning what it looks like can help us to see remnants that may lie within ourselves, and perhaps even relationships that we may have kept or gravitated toward in our post-cult lives.
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We were disfellowshipped for getting married without the OK from Elders. But my wife is still thinks there is a faithful Slave. So Her outlook towards me is not good. But I am the financial power In this relationship. 💪 So I'm constantly afraid to speak as my wife is gaslighting me on every level. I know I'm better off without her, but I do love her, is it normal to be afraid to say, ask, or talk to ones marriage mate? I'm not even sure I know her at all, yet my love for my Cat, and my financial power paying for schooling of her Niece's is at stake if I walk away. How could I live with myself, and this is all just because of my Wife's indoctrination of narsasistic, gaslighting conduct she learned as a JW.
Excelent , very content
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My family was always in the soft shunned group.🫤
We were disfellowshipped for getting married without the OK from Elders. But my wife is still thinks there is a faithful Slave. So Her outlook towards me is not good. But I am the financial power In this relationship. 💪 So I'm constantly afraid to speak as my wife is gaslighting me on every level. I know I'm better off without her, but I do love her, is it normal to be afraid to say, ask, or talk to ones marriage mate? I'm not even sure I know her at all, yet my love for my Cat, and my financial power paying for schooling of her Niece's is at stake if I walk away. How could I live with myself, and this is all just because of my Wife's indoctrination of narsasistic, gaslighting conduct she learned as a JW.
We were disfellowshipped for getting married without the OK from Elders. But my wife is still thinks there is a faithful Slave. So Her outlook towards me is not good. But I am the financial power In this relationship. 💪 So I'm constantly afraid to speak as my wife is gaslighting me on every level. I know I'm better off without her, but I do love her, is it normal to be afraid to say, ask, or talk to ones marriage mate? I'm not even sure I know her at all, yet my love for my Cat, and my financial power paying for schooling of her Niece's is at stake if I walk away. How could I live with myself, and this is all just because of my Wife's indoctrination of narsasistic, gaslighting conduct she learned as a JW.
Dangling money over her head isn't "love", it's power display. You should ask for advice from a specialist