Jaydah S I wish those nites lastd 4eva bc 1 day u will forget that moment 2 n even tho it ain’t there no more mayb u still learned what Real Luv is b 1:45
This song, in a beautiful way, literally just feels like summer has ended, she’s/he’s moved on, and you’re just stuck here alone wondering what went wrong.
‘wish we’d grown up on the same advice’….this fucking line. It just so good. Legend. If they grew up on same advice, if their nurturing was same..it would be easier to understand each other’s thoughts, life ..they’d make similar decisions..there’d be more understanding between them. Frank, you are something. I love this song. So much.
Honestly man, was just w the girl of my dreams... we’ve been in love since homecoming 2019... finally decided to talk to her the very beginning of April, things were perfect she felt the same way, and then all the sudden she’s just not happy, this song made me feel so happy and now it shows how broken I am man.... shits crazy
That feeling of not being on bad terms, but the eventual and inevitable circumstance of yall not talking anymore and being close. The connection is gone, leading from texting daily to not even texting at all. Now you're rereading texts and looking at old photos you guys had and even old voicemails. It hurts
Self Control and White Ferrari are one of the most beautiful songs i’ve heard. edit: i was in 6th grade when frank dropped his last album, i’m now a junior and he hasn’t dropped since 😢 edit 2: now a senior and i’m going to graduate in may.. still hasn’t dropped an album😔
i have a really close connection to this song, especially because my dad sounded like frank ocean. he used to love his songs and sing to them perfectly bro. i miss him
i read somewhere that if you think you’re with the right person but it’s the wrong time, they’re still the wrong person. because the right person will come at the right time. i hope you’re okay :(
this song used to make me feel like something was clawing it’s way through my heart. the heartbreak i experienced with my significant other was so immense, and i cried to this song for days, and weeks, and for a long while. i hadn’t listened to it for a few years until it shuffled its way into my spotify queue. i now look back on this song like a bittersweet memory that made me who i am today. i no longer feel the pain that once engulfed my entire life when we separated from each other, even though this song reminds me of what once was. i feel like i have grown stronger and more resilient when the final part of the song plays out. if you’re reading this far…know that it all works out in the end. you’ll come back to this memory one day and understand why it made you feel the way you feel, but it will come with some good cleansing closure. you’ll be a better person too.❤️
Everybody says this song is "dangerous" when you're depressed but honestly, this song has done so much for me and my mental health I can't even thank frank enough for this. It's like he just says it all for you so you don't have to, all the feelings, the ones you can't describe, that are hard to put out there, i feel so comforted, like i'm not alone, it makes me feel so free.
This song made think about the memories I had with the person I had feelings with. With all the fun times when we had, the talks and how I felt about her. I wished I had the courage to say I love you, and now we don’t see eye to eye and I miss her...
Wish this was top comment cuz its true, this, mac and a few other artists helped me a lot and its just because they felt alone and we feel comfort knowing we aren't alone
jiggly puff Frank was already a quiet person that kept to him self, dealing with his own problems but now he has even more to deal with so we don’t see him for a while.
There is too much in life to stress over someone who doesn’t love you, don’t miss on so much from trying to get to someone’s standards, don’t it’s a drug, when you catch that someone’s attention it makes you feel better at the second but at the end of the day there was no benefit, nothing has changed, she/he don’t love you, move on champs, and enjoy life, it’s a one time experience
I fell in love to her with this song, someone who I knew since we were kids, fell in love and after almost 3 years, she’s gone. It’s crazy to think that someone you can sit in parking lots late night, sit at lakes and watch sunsets, make songs for, be a rock for could no longer be in your life in an instant, this song will always be a constant reminder of my Elimar no matter where or when I’m at.
So i was at the flowerboy tour and in between vince staple's set and tyler's there was a one hour delay where they played random ass songs that nobody knew but this started playing and the whole arena started singing and i swear this is one of the highlights of my life, truely a masterpiece.
The song is about Frank being in love with someone who already has a lover, this is why he says"keep a place for me I'll stay between yall" because he accepts this to be with them
dobhopsy kinda both. But more about him loving someone who already loves someone else, thats why the songs called “self control”. He needs to “control” his feelings
Frank is asking his past lover to remember him and their relationship, even during nights with a new person. The frequent repetition of “it’s nothing” shows that he’s trying to seem nonchalant, when in reality things aren’t that simple. Even though Frank acknowledges this relationship is a no-go, he loves them regardless and desperately wants to maintain a place in this person’s heart.
Bro. This song is how I discovered Frank Ocean. I heard it as I was walking into another room and ran back to see who it was. It was on repeat for longer than I want to admit lol. Petition for a new Frank Ocean album 😭🤌🏿
I feel this, it’s a shame he’s ‘retired’ but forever hoping he’ll release something more, his music is such an escape but yet so relatable to life at this same time
its an amazing feeling to come back and listen years later after I've fully healed, song doesn't make me cry anymore. Just floods me with bittersweet nostalgia. Time is a beautiful thing
0:58 this part just hits so hard everytime that it changes my mood immediately and reminds me of my past experiences. I get the same visuals in my head every single time I hear this part and it gets tears on my eyes.
To everyone who feels this song deep in their core, just know the time you spent with them was not time wasted. We'll all get there eventually. Everything will be okay in the end.
I don't have any friends. I don't work or go to school. Even before COVID happened, I was never leaving the house. This past winter, I decided to go on a trip with my mom to Brazil to visit some family (keep in mind it's summer over there when it's winter in the US). Throughout my time there I was trying to find activities and distractions to get away from my depressive reality but all attempts failed and I started to question if I should have gone on the trip at all. Then I met this girl. We only talked for about an hour before she went back home but I felt this connection with her that I hadn't felt with a person in a long time. So the next day I got her number and we started talking. We ended up getting kinda close and it was obvious that we had some feelings for each other even though we had barely met. A few days later, I had to catch my flight home and she took her time to visit me at the airport just to say goodbye. When I hear the "I-I-I know you gotta leave" part in this song, I relive that moment, standing there at the airport seeing her face for what might be the last time.
Bro i'm from brazil, i loved your story, but i need to tell you something, making relationships is so fucking good, for life experience, for your soul and most important for yourself... keep your head up
I hadn’t heard a perfect song, until I first heard this song. Riding with my wife, on the day it released, during the sunset....when the bridge hit....her eyes were filled with water and she told me “Don’t ever leave me, I never want to feel how he feels” Edit: Wife corrected me, she said “You better not leave me” lol … best wishes to you all
Joe Draws I would love to be positive but the whole world just seems to oddly be in such a negative especially tensions with war coming soon in Iraq that shit crazy
@@rashreaper i thought it was a guitar too when i heard it for the first time but apparently its not, seems like its his actual voice but muffled (you can listen to it if u pay very close attention and look at the lyrics on genius too and also his performance), but he definitely used a guitar effect on it tho thats why it sounds like that
Sitting on a roof, birds chirp, the wind blowing whispers, and u sit and listen to the sound of the sirens and the boom in the hood. Something about those still whispers, vibrant chirps as u embrace the thought of loosing it all and gaining who you once were back. This sounds like summer not a lose, not a sting, not an open wound, but a clear view of what nature looks like. 🤍🎧
A couple years ago some of my friends and I were hanging out and smoking late at night, then played this song and sang it together. It probably sounded horrible but it didn't matter. We all know heartbreak, and some of that pain was expressed in our voices, but experiencing it together in that way was truly one of the happiest moments of my life. A memory I will cherish forever.
looking back i always cried listening to this song every night before i go to sleep; now as i listen to this song, all the things i used to feel had gone. Frank is always right, nights like this don't last forever.
"Keep a place for me, for me/ I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing" is a line that continues to crush me. The way the line is delivered makes it sound like Frank concedes that he can't be with another person but (almost desperately) asks them to remember him. Frank says "it's nothing, it's no thing" nonchalantly as if to maintain a sense of pride when in reality, it's most likely him who is not able to let go and move on.
This song reminds me of a great friend I had once, who introduced to Frank Ocean. We were best bros for a long and hard year, and then he had to go back to Germany. After that he disappeared, leaving me with no way to contact him. I never heard from him again, and I guess I will never know what happened to him. He's like my UFO now. Thanks for everything, bro. Wherever you are.
My favorite song in the whole world. Frank Ocean simply cannot be denied. From the vocals, the lyrics, the interpretation, simply the best! I'd really love this to be played at my funeral that when people remember me, they remember that I loved this song. Simply so good!
This album released at the end of my first week of middle school. At the time I didn’t realize that this album existed but when I listened to it for the first time years later and realized when it released it instantly brought back memories throughout my entire middle school and high school years starting from the week it released. This might not be my most favorite album but it is an album I’ll cherish and hold onto for years to come and will definitely show my children. It has a special place in my heart and I wish more people understood how it makes me feel. The album brings back intense nostalgia
This song gives me power and sadness at the same time. It reminds me of how powerful I can be, but at the same time, it reminds me about all the happy moments that will stay only in our memories.
I remember when I heard this song and not knowing what it meant for me. I would listen to it for hours on end and when it hit me I cried for a minute and I hated that I understood. I feel like music has a way of unraveling secrets you didn’t even know about yourself. I remember when me and a person split up and this song came into play and I wasn’t too good with my emotions hence the words self control. After hearing this song clearly I’d find myself missing someone I shouldn’t have and getting over them was the beautiful part which is why the second half of the song is my all time favorite part cause it’s kinda like letting them go finally at least for me and I’m glad that I went thru that process of healing. I’m glad frank left these songs for people it really helped me a lot
The outro is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard in my entire life. All jokes aside, in any situation I just play that it makes m feel good abut it all. Not to mention at 3:18 the little "ooh" he puts there gives me a mini heart attack. So much feeling there. That fraction of a second releases every emotion I have dealt with today followed by the beautiful harmonies leading me to heaven and complete content.
Frank Bauknight You summed up my thoughts, about this song, perfectly. My reaction to this song never changes no matter how many times I listen to it.❤❤❤❤ It's absolutely perfect.
[Intro: Frank Ocean] Poolside convo about your summer last night, ooh yeah About your summer last night Ain't give you no play, mm Could I make you shive last night? Could I make you shy on the last night, last night? Could we make it in? Do we have time? [Verse 1: Frank Ocean] I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white You cut your hair but you used to live a blonded life Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice And our time was right [Chorus: Austin Feinstein] Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's no thing It's no thing, it's no thing Keep a place for me, for me [Verse 2: Frank Ocean] Now and then you miss it, sounds make you cry Some nights you dance with tears in your eyes I came to visit, 'cause you see me like a UFO That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control [Chorus: Austin Feinstein & Yung Lean] Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's no thing Keep a place for me It's no thing, it's no thing It's no thing, it's no thing [Bridge] Sometimes you'll miss it And the sound will make you cry And some nights you're dancing With tears in your eyes [Outro: Frank Ocean] I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it (Nobody else, nobody else) I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summer time Give us, just tonight, night, night I, I, I know you got someone comin' You're spittin' game, know you got it
i first started listening to frank ocean and this album only a couple of months ago, when i was in my first relationship. frank's songs helped me get through times of joy, lust, loneliness and healing. after 3 months of only talking to each other, he cut it off with me with a 'i dont see this going any further' text paragraph, and now he is with the girl that he swore he didn't kiss that night... i hate him for what he did but i can't help missing him sometimes...
I feel it, it happened to me...trust when i say eventually you will learn you wont need them and you can build on yourself and move on i hope you are doing better. Somone new always come and gives you hope it may be today..tmmr..in a month... you will be fine..
That feeling when you shared moments with someone, already built your dreams and where the feeling is so intense and then all of a sudden circumstance hits. She moved on and now with someone else. Youre stuck suffering silently. Its heart wrenching and you even feel the pain physically. Timing is terrible. It sucks man, it sucks.
I am grateful to you, Frank, for this music. I find moments of my life in it. At the moment, I don't know how to accurately describe my state, but it's probably loneliness and a broken heart. Every day, I feel like I'm losing true sincerity and selflessness in people, which makes it difficult for me to communicate. Thank you for the album! This work will transcend generations ;)
I got bullied a lot in school and there were videos of me getting beat up and everyone in the school knew about it. This song is what kept me stable and happy. Every time I hear it, it reminds me of so many things. Even happy things like friends I made over the years. I will never forget the feeling I get when I cry happily while listening to Frank ocean. He is truly something special. Please stay positive everyone and don’t let any kind of negativity get to you. 🤍🙏
People who bully others are often bullied by others. Those kids had no right to do that too you. I hope you are forever smiling and they are changed wherever they may be.
Best song ever just reminds me of the best summers of my life. When I’m 50 and listen to this song I’m going to bawl my eyes out at all the amazing memories I made.
Frank ocean has one of the most beautiful styles of music i’ve ever listened to. My personal favorite. I can never go wrong with this album and can keep it on repeat til my grand kids come out and ask what music i fw. I will neva be ashamed to cry to a frank ocean song
What’s crazy is no matter how often I was mistreated by her, I’ll never forget those peaceful nights we slept together, holding hands, with this song playing softly in the background. And as much as I hate how things ended, I wish I could play those moments over in my head forever. Still get chills when I hear the last verse. Wild to think that one song can evoke such vivid memories and sharp emotion.
This song has such a strong effect on me, still months after. I discovered this song and it made me realized my relationship wasn't going nowhere. I started feeling so bad, almost like an anxiety attack while being in the train. Especially the last part. For me, the "leave, leave, leave" repetitions made me visualize my relationship like me making CPR to someone who's already dead. It broke me from the inside. Now, when I hear this song i still got that strong anxiety kicking back in my guts. And it's kinda a shame, this song is actually amazing, with deep and well written lyrics, such an interesting vibe, and so on. But I can't listen to it anymore.
This song is very special to me as I discovered it when my father passed on to the next realm. It gave me peace of mind and the reassurance that he has moved on to a better place. This was in 2016 and so joy flows through me when I hear it now instead of tears.❤
frank ocean how do you do it just how youre so amazing no one could ever make me hate you you're music is just out of this world and no other artist could compare idc what i have to go through id defend you're music 4life LIKE YOURE MUSIC IS SO GOOD ITS LIKE DAMN HOWWWWW NO D RIDING THOOOO LIKE HOWEWWWWWEW OUCH
Most of frank Ocean's songs has made me feel calm and reflect my half-wrong decisions in my private life, but when I started to Self Control, it's getting me to a comforting experience when you listen to the outro. And I love it! 😊
Lyrics [Intro: Frank Ocean] Poolside convo about your summer last night, ooh yeah About your summer last night Ain't give you no play, mmm Could I make you shive last night? Could I make you shy on the last night, last night? Could we make it in? Do we have time? [Verse 1: Frank Ocean] I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white You cut your hair, but you used to live a blonded life Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice And our time was right [Chorus: Austin Feinstein] Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing It's nothing, it's nothing Keep a place for me, for me [Verse 2: Frank Ocean] Now and then, you miss it, sounds make you cry Some nights, you dance with tears in your eyes I came to visit, 'cause you see me like a UFO That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control [Chorus: Austin Feinstein & Yung Lean] Keep a place for me, for me I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing Keep a place for me It's nothing, it's nothing It's nothing, it's nothing [Bridge: Frank Ocean] Sometimes you'll miss it And the sound will make you cry And some nights, you're dancing With tears in your eyes [Outro: Frank Ocean] I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summertime Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night I, I, I know you got someone coming You're spitting game, know you got it I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summertime Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night I, I, I know you got someone coming You're spitting game, know you got it (Yeah) I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave Take down some summertime Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night I, I, I know you got someone coming You're spitting game, know you got it
Remember that the memories are beautiful and that you are grateful for everything. You wouldn't change a single fucking thing. Be good to the people in your life and build the best future you can. Life goes on.
they dont miss you and its okay, nights like these dont last forever
Jaydah S I wish those nites lastd 4eva bc 1 day u will forget that moment 2 n even tho it ain’t there no more mayb u still learned what Real Luv is b 1:45
Might put this in bio hehee
imma take this as a sing tho
BRO
:(((
this song is dangerous when u depressed
Most medicine is
@@piccolo1525 damn
Damn
Piccolo’s happy thoughts meditation is the answer to depression
@@piccolo1525 yeah "happy thoughts" xdd
This song, in a beautiful way, literally just feels like summer has ended, she’s/he’s moved on, and you’re just stuck here alone wondering what went wrong.
what a fucking true. broke up with gf at the end of the summer
You exactly said how I feel right now
'' and you’re just stuck here alone wondering what went wrong..'' Well said
I just realised this is why like this song so much, liked her a lot wanted to take it slowly and that was clearly what she wasn't lookin for
You can’t move on from me, I’m the greatest
‘wish we’d grown up on the same advice’….this fucking line. It just so good. Legend. If they grew up on same advice, if their nurturing was same..it would be easier to understand each other’s thoughts, life ..they’d make similar decisions..there’d be more understanding between them. Frank, you are something. I love this song. So much.
cringe
@@gone-by-the-light alright if you say so
So Frank is telling us to do incest, got it.
@@petitbrie9868 no just growing up together
@@parthyadav3733 I was joking, don't take it seriously XD
"Wish we grown up on the same advice, and our time was right"
!!!
Yes ❤️
Yup. This is exactly the part I used when sharing on facebook. Brilliant, genius.
i see you everywhere and tbh youre cute asff
was gonna say exactly this
One of the best ugly cry songs out there.
Clark glad im not the only one
Ok I’m happy i wasn’t the only one bc I swear I looked like shreks kid when I cried
Fucking agreed
Reaaallllll
True 😂
I would never cry to a Frank ocean song
Me 3 seconds later: 😪
Famous last words
Witchu
- somebody who most def cries to Franky (me)
@@lewisrussell2425 tf is franky
This song on repeat, tears rolling down the ear plugs the pain that you can physically feel, loving someone is something else
It’s a drug that you can’t replace
When you’re happy, the outro is a big atmospheric vibe. When you’re depressed, the outro is heart wrenching. Shows how good Frank really is
Honestly man, was just w the girl of my dreams... we’ve been in love since homecoming 2019... finally decided to talk to her the very beginning of April, things were perfect she felt the same way, and then all the sudden she’s just not happy, this song made me feel so happy and now it shows how broken I am man.... shits crazy
@@willsturdivant2942 sorry to hear that bro. Like another comment said these nights don’t last forever so keep ur head up and keep moving forward 🙌
@@willsturdivant2942 Ik Dear April be hitting for you
and u know it clap ur hands
@@Goracliff12311 👏👏
can't believe i grew up just to be sad
I love you
awe, love u too!
sadness is temporary, hopefully soon you’ll feel happier❤️
@@brittneybeardsley7313 tysm :>
it's gonna be fine
That feeling of not being on bad terms, but the eventual and inevitable circumstance of yall not talking anymore and being close. The connection is gone, leading from texting daily to not even texting at all. Now you're rereading texts and looking at old photos you guys had and even old voicemails. It hurts
Felt
😭😭😭
One of the best songs ever written
You didn’t seem a lot of songs written then obviously
@@shamarroache6452 NAH SHES RIGHT ONE OF THE BEST SONGS EVER WRITTEN😇
HaHA
@@shamarroache6452 on god 😭😭
no
Self Control and White Ferrari are one of the most beautiful songs i’ve heard.
edit: i was in 6th grade when frank dropped his last album, i’m now a junior and he hasn’t dropped since 😢
edit 2: now a senior and i’m going to graduate in may.. still hasn’t dropped an album😔
Tonight’s Big Loser yeah thx to The Beatles
add dear april
add seigfried & cayendo too
listen to rushes by frank
Siegfried is a masterpiece in my book
Everyone gangsta till frank’s vocal cords start to vibrate
shit be hitting so hard, it make me feel emptier than a robbed bank
stop the cap.
Honestly I don’t see the hype behind him his songs are lowkey boring they’re all so slow tempo and it doesn’t keep me engaged in listening
@@matteatsfries1727 listen to fast music then lol
@@dylanmurphy6894 right, dog can go back to the edm lol
i have a really close connection to this song, especially because my dad sounded like frank ocean. he used to love his songs and sing to them perfectly bro. i miss him
Rest his soul man.
Luv you
I’m so sorry, wish you infinite love and peace.
So sorry for your loss. Hope you're doing well
May he rest in peace.
No matter where you are in life, this album reflects your situation exactly back to you
The worst feeling is when someone you shared so much with doesn’t love you anymore.
Well I’m back, she broke my heart again.
:((( oof
That just happened to me a few hours ago. She gave up on me.
@@jayjustjay7871 its a rough experience.
stay strong brother.
):
It’s hard but you must have faith in yourself and overcome this feeling.
the worst is when you both are so in love with each other but we look at the world so different and the timing is so wrong :(
if u guys think so differently then u don't love each other that much tbh
9 years in... its tough
Felt this big time 😔😔
"wish we'd grown up on the same advice, and our time was right"
i read somewhere that if you think you’re with the right person but it’s the wrong time, they’re still the wrong person. because the right person will come at the right time. i hope you’re okay :(
I still canʼt get how people can make such beautiful music like this, thankful for Frank Ocean... It warms my heart.
extrovert has spoken
this song used to make me feel like something was clawing it’s way through my heart. the heartbreak i experienced with my significant other was so immense, and i cried to this song for days, and weeks, and for a long while. i hadn’t listened to it for a few years until it shuffled its way into my spotify queue. i now look back on this song like a bittersweet memory that made me who i am today. i no longer feel the pain that once engulfed my entire life when we separated from each other, even though this song reminds me of what once was. i feel like i have grown stronger and more resilient when the final part of the song plays out. if you’re reading this far…know that it all works out in the end. you’ll come back to this memory one day and understand why it made you feel the way you feel, but it will come with some good cleansing closure. you’ll be a better person too.❤️
My heart is a black empty void
thank you man. i hope more peace and solace finds you in your existence
Everybody says this song is "dangerous" when you're depressed but honestly, this song has done so much for me and my mental health I can't even thank frank enough for this. It's like he just says it all for you so you don't have to, all the feelings, the ones you can't describe, that are hard to put out there, i feel so comforted, like i'm not alone, it makes me feel so free.
This song made think about the memories I had with the person I had feelings with. With all the fun times when we had, the talks and how I felt about her. I wished I had the courage to say I love you, and now we don’t see eye to eye and I miss her...
@@Mytoes256 oh shit this song actually dangerous?
Exactly! It brings me comfort knowing there's ppl out there that understand
Wish this was top comment cuz its true, this, mac and a few other artists helped me a lot and its just because they felt alone and we feel comfort knowing we aren't alone
❤️❤️❤️
Franks brother passed away today. RIP Ryan
RIP Ryan 🥺🙏🕊
Not trying to sound inconsiderate but now we will wait another 3 years at least until we hear from frank again.
Fuck :( Rest In Peace ❤️
jiggly puff Frank was already a quiet person that kept to him self, dealing with his own problems but now he has even more to deal with so we don’t see him for a while.
Rest In Peace Ryan
I know this song it's sad but for some reason it calms my anxiety a lot. Also it's a beautiful song i love it.
white ferrari calms my anxiety i don't find it sad for some reason
You a beautiful song
I listen to it and do some simple line art, it helps.
There is too much in life to stress over someone who doesn’t love you, don’t miss on so much from trying to get to someone’s standards, don’t it’s a drug, when you catch that someone’s attention it makes you feel better at the second but at the end of the day there was no benefit, nothing has changed, she/he don’t love you, move on champs, and enjoy life, it’s a one time experience
"I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave" *heartbreaks*
Ikr! Makes me wanna cry so bad!😢
_keep a place for me, for me, i’ll sleep between y’all, it’s nothing_
Tia Reigns q
Same
Carlos Hernandez breaks a little
“some nights u dance with tears in ur eyes” that shit hurt
that line always hits me hard
Fr
Self Control Outro (3 minute loop w/rain and thunder)
ruclips.net/video/o_go-KKmKio/видео.html
One of my favorite lines from him
i shall like to get this too 800
I fell in love to her with this song, someone who I knew since we were kids, fell in love and after almost 3 years, she’s gone. It’s crazy to think that someone you can sit in parking lots late night, sit at lakes and watch sunsets, make songs for, be a rock for could no longer be in your life in an instant, this song will always be a constant reminder of my Elimar no matter where or when I’m at.
damn bro
So i was at the flowerboy tour and in between vince staple's set and tyler's there was a one hour delay where they played random ass songs that nobody knew but this started playing and the whole arena started singing and i swear this is one of the highlights of my life, truely a masterpiece.
Haha. That's Frank. He doesn't even have to he there. Smh. Sounds dreamy +
Neat 1 everytimd i hear self control i think of this haha
Yeah he played this at the Igor tour too
Brian Sostek not at the montreal venue🥺
VICE BABIE I think he just shuffled a playlist. There was also drunk and hot girls by ye and some other bangers
The song is about Frank being in love with someone who already has a lover, this is why he says"keep a place for me I'll stay between yall" because he accepts this to be with them
....... wow
no shit
Isn't it more like he know in the future there will be someone else in his/her life
dobhopsy kinda both. But more about him loving someone who already loves someone else, thats why the songs called “self control”. He needs to “control” his feelings
Frank is asking his past lover to remember him and their relationship, even during nights with a new person.
The frequent repetition of “it’s nothing” shows that he’s trying to seem nonchalant, when in reality things aren’t that simple. Even though Frank acknowledges this relationship is a no-go, he loves them regardless and desperately wants to maintain a place in this person’s heart.
Bro. This song is how I discovered Frank Ocean. I heard it as I was walking into another room and ran back to see who it was. It was on repeat for longer than I want to admit lol.
Petition for a new Frank Ocean album
😭🤌🏿
dude same. this was also the 1st song i heard from him. 10/10
Haha. Welcome to amazing music
No shame in putting this banger on repeat, tho the last bit I cut out on my shit.
the outro to this song is beautiful. there is literally no other words to describe the masterpiece of a song this is.
I feel like this is one of the more underrated songs on the album
Derek Morales it’s his most underrated song ever IMO
is because that annoying fucking intro
Niloda tbh i would always skip when i heard the intro but one time i let it play and when the guitar came in i fell in love with this song lmao
Niloda You couldn't wait 20 seconds or skipped a few seconds to just get to the song?
This song wasn't one of the popular ones, but its getting there. IMO I think skyline to is the most underrated
When you can listen to this and you can smile, instead of crying. You've made progress. Keep going. You definitely got this.
Ty mane, hope you’re doing well
one day...
progress isn't marked by NOT crying : ) Crying can be progress too.
@@zinggole4347 u ok bruh?
@@zinggole4347 sorry to hear, hope it gets better for you
Still listening to this masterpiece in 2022 and beyond. Frank is a legend need a new album from him asap.
I feel this, it’s a shame he’s ‘retired’ but forever hoping he’ll release something more, his music is such an escape but yet so relatable to life at this same time
@@EnvyPowerwho said he retired
Grow up and Listen to Marcfrmdabitty instead
@@vurixed1757 He said himself
@@EnvyPower he didn’t
its an amazing feeling to come back and listen years later after I've fully healed, song doesn't make me cry anymore. Just floods me with bittersweet nostalgia. Time is a beautiful thing
real.
i’m glad your okay now !
@@user-pc5jf6ch5u 🤍🤍
"Boys Don't Cry" bruh we're all crying rn
Alright so after this let's go bop out to boys dont cry by the cure, yeah?
@@nicholebrown9551 bet
u stan NCT???
Jsjskskk😭😭😭
but MEN do
You ever love someone who doesn’t love you back? That hits different man...
Yes it sucks ass
tell me abt it
Subscribe me Fun 5 masti
Unrequited love
Why do you attack me
0:58 this part just hits so hard everytime that it changes my mood immediately and reminds me of my past experiences. I get the same visuals in my head every single time I hear this part and it gets tears on my eyes.
To everyone who feels this song deep in their core, just know the time you spent with them was not time wasted. We'll all get there eventually. Everything will be okay in the end.
Thank you
L. Oo i9 b
@@CrisisMoon7lol oi
I don't have any friends. I don't work or go to school. Even before COVID happened, I was never leaving the house. This past winter, I decided to go on a trip with my mom to Brazil to visit some family (keep in mind it's summer over there when it's winter in the US). Throughout my time there I was trying to find activities and distractions to get away from my depressive reality but all attempts failed and I started to question if I should have gone on the trip at all. Then I met this girl. We only talked for about an hour before she went back home but I felt this connection with her that I hadn't felt with a person in a long time. So the next day I got her number and we started talking. We ended up getting kinda close and it was obvious that we had some feelings for each other even though we had barely met. A few days later, I had to catch my flight home and she took her time to visit me at the airport just to say goodbye. When I hear the "I-I-I know you gotta leave" part in this song, I relive that moment, standing there at the airport seeing her face for what might be the last time.
oh, i'm brazilian so idk it's nice to see someone from here listening to frank. u go bro
Keep your head up, King.
Same bro, i don't have any friends and i was never leaving the house too, i know what what you feel bro. (sorry for my bad English)
i feel you, same here
Bro i'm from brazil, i loved your story, but i need to tell you something, making relationships is so fucking good, for life experience, for your soul and most important for yourself... keep your head up
I hadn’t heard a perfect song, until I first heard this song. Riding with my wife, on the day it released, during the sunset....when the bridge hit....her eyes were filled with water and she told me “Don’t ever leave me, I never want to feel how he feels”
Edit: Wife corrected me, she said “You better not leave me” lol … best wishes to you all
Mark Bizzle Being heartbroken is the worst feeling ever
Jose Lino absolutely true! Every word. That was the most vulnerable moment of my life
Mark Bizzle that gave me the chills!
Amazing how Frank can evoke so much emotion through simple, heart felt words. Thanks for sharing. Peace
Wow this hit me in the feels
Shii still makes me cry
I, I, I, KNOW YOU GOTTA LEAVE, LEAVE, LEAVE
bro that hit me
Na man, I'm not crying, there's just a tree branch in my eye.
I, I, I, know you gotta leave... :'(, fine I' m crying.
Pau Michelle a whole tree trunk😂😂😂❤
Underrated comment😂
These not tears just leaves falling
I don't give a fuck, I'm crying. You should get over your masculinity.
Literally the fact that this is an easy a quote makes my heart so full lmao 😂
We going into the 2020's sad AF y'all.
No! Be happy, this is a fresh start, new opportunities!
@@crumblecrunchable every day is a fresh start
Yea🥺 when I hear Carolineeeeee’s voice it’s amazing 🥴
Joe Draws I would love to be positive but the whole world just seems to oddly be in such a negative especially tensions with war coming soon in Iraq that shit crazy
That's right we are new year new fucking nothing
that scream at 2:31 tickles my brain like nothing else
Chills all over my body, like it pierces my eardrums every time but goddamn it completely overwhelms me everytime.
Its a slide guitar
@@rashreaper i thought it was a guitar too when i heard it for the first time but apparently its not, seems like its his actual voice but muffled (you can listen to it if u pay very close attention and look at the lyrics on genius too and also his performance), but he definitely used a guitar effect on it tho thats why it sounds like that
Sitting on a roof, birds chirp, the wind blowing whispers, and u sit and listen to the sound of the sirens and the boom in the hood. Something about those still whispers, vibrant chirps as u embrace the thought of loosing it all and gaining who you once were back.
This sounds like summer not a lose, not a sting, not an open wound, but a clear view of what nature looks like. 🤍🎧
play this at my funeral, that last part is too perfect.
Banaboy This could work for that honestly
Banaboy you’re gonna have people way too emotional when he says “I know ya gotta leave, leave, leave”
The only thing I hate about this song is that it ends
I feel you
LMAOO
fastest 4 minutes ever
!
I hate how it perfectly describes how I’m feeling
The production on blonde oozes with nostalgia
it’s crazy that one day you can be really happy with this song and the next you can be bawling your eyes out
2:07 the harmonization, the bass and guitar makes this part so powerful man. Franks truly a genius
That’s yung lean singing lol
@@stompee_ nope
@@aaronencinas6307 yeah it is
@@bycozzy. I thought that was Austin Feinstein
@@aaronencinas6307 austin and lean sang on it also austin was the high pitched one and he already sang it in the verse prior to lean's
The repeated background voice at 3:35 and 3:40 sounds like "Non andare via" which in italian means "Don't go away".
Timothy James Foster omggg I didn’t notice it
noooo fraaaaaa sto malissimo
io ho sempre pensato che ripetesse "someone coming"
no ma deve essere stato campionato per forza
l'hanno preso da qualche parte sicuro
Italiani che ascoltano frank ocean>>>>>>>>
Ci sono anche italiani qua? Adesso posso morire in pace
A couple years ago some of my friends and I were hanging out and smoking late at night, then played this song and sang it together. It probably sounded horrible but it didn't matter. We all know heartbreak, and some of that pain was expressed in our voices, but experiencing it together in that way was truly one of the happiest moments of my life. A memory I will cherish forever.
looking back i always cried listening to this song every night before i go to sleep; now as i listen to this song, all the things i used to feel had gone. Frank is always right, nights like this don't last forever.
That 2nd "Keep A Place For Me" is amazing
Marco Conerly shoutout yung lean
Leany the best boi
jakecdg it’s lean
Marco Conerly that’s what you hear as your soul ascends to heaven
@@jakeembers he's on both
although we aren’t together anymore, i still really love and care for you
i’m sad guys
we feel u yna
always remember your self worth
Sierra dixon hMMM
same
come back frank🙏🏻
Yung Lean just seems to pop up in the best examples of music throughout recent history
It’s been six years and people are still confused about Lean’s involvement on this album?! He’s not on here, he only has vocals on Godspeed.
@@saturdayers you're wrong
@@saturdayers He is credited on the song man
"Keep a place for me, for me/ I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing" is a line that continues to crush me.
The way the line is delivered makes it sound like Frank concedes that he can't be with another person but (almost desperately) asks them to remember him. Frank says "it's nothing, it's no thing" nonchalantly as if to maintain a sense of pride when in reality, it's most likely him who is not able to let go and move on.
Yung Lean is saying that bro
And Austin Feinstein
that's yung lean, not frank
I couldn’t agree more…it crushes the souls even more when you’re experiencing the same pain he’s expressing.
That line makes me sad asl
This song reminds me of a great friend I had once, who introduced to Frank Ocean. We were best bros for a long and hard year, and then he had to go back to Germany. After that he disappeared, leaving me with no way to contact him. I never heard from him again, and I guess I will never know what happened to him. He's like my UFO now.
Thanks for everything, bro. Wherever you are.
Damn... 😢
I am truly sorry to hear that and i know how you feel. i keep reminiscing my past but everything ends up good und das ist gut lol.
Maybe he’ll find this comment 🤷🏿♀️😊
ngl this comment almost made me cry, take care bro
comments like these stories like these being such happiness i wanna die
My favorite song in the whole world. Frank Ocean simply cannot be denied. From the vocals, the lyrics, the interpretation, simply the best! I'd really love this to be played at my funeral that when people remember me, they remember that I loved this song. Simply so good!
This album released at the end of my first week of middle school. At the time I didn’t realize that this album existed but when I listened to it for the first time years later and realized when it released it instantly brought back memories throughout my entire middle school and high school years starting from the week it released. This might not be my most favorite album but it is an album I’ll cherish and hold onto for years to come and will definitely show my children. It has a special place in my heart and I wish more people understood how it makes me feel. The album brings back intense nostalgia
some nights you dance with tears in your eyes 😭
tears me apart every time
Let me wipe them for you baby girl. Keep a place for me
me right now
The misunderstood musical genius of our time.
ZaccfearOfficial .
He’s not really misunderstood
Lyrical genius. I havent seen lyrics as poetic as his since Morrissey or Ian Curtis.
he's pretty acclaimed and understood tbh. and thank god for that
ZaccfearOfficial Kanye west
This song gives me power and sadness at the same time. It reminds me of how powerful I can be, but at the same time, it reminds me about all the happy moments that will stay only in our memories.
I remember when I heard this song and not knowing what it meant for me. I would listen to it for hours on end and when it hit me I cried for a minute and I hated that I understood. I feel like music has a way of unraveling secrets you didn’t even know about yourself. I remember when me and a person split up and this song came into play and I wasn’t too good with my emotions hence the words self control. After hearing this song clearly I’d find myself missing someone I shouldn’t have and getting over them was the beautiful part which is why the second half of the song is my all time favorite part cause it’s kinda like letting them go finally at least for me and I’m glad that I went thru that process of healing. I’m glad frank left these songs for people it really helped me a lot
I hope you find peace
The outro is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard in my entire life. All jokes aside, in any situation I just play that it makes m feel good abut it all. Not to mention at 3:18 the little "ooh" he puts there gives me a mini heart attack. So much feeling there. That fraction of a second releases every emotion I have dealt with today followed by the beautiful harmonies leading me to heaven and complete content.
Frank Bauknight You summed up my thoughts, about this song, perfectly. My reaction to this song never changes no matter how many times I listen to it.❤❤❤❤ It's absolutely perfect.
Yesssss! ❤
And the "nobody else,nonono-nobody else" man
You are so right
I also had a very happy nearly euphoric feeling towards this song, until I started reading all the sad comments below lol
[Intro: Frank Ocean]
Poolside convo about your summer last night, ooh yeah
About your summer last night
Ain't give you no play, mm
Could I make you shive last night?
Could I make you shy on the last night, last night?
Could we make it in? Do we have time?
[Verse 1: Frank Ocean]
I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight
Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white
You cut your hair but you used to live a blonded life
Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice
And our time was right
[Chorus: Austin Feinstein]
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's no thing
It's no thing, it's no thing
Keep a place for me, for me
[Verse 2: Frank Ocean]
Now and then you miss it, sounds make you cry
Some nights you dance with tears in your eyes
I came to visit, 'cause you see me like a UFO
That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control
And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control
[Chorus: Austin Feinstein & Yung Lean]
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's no thing
Keep a place for me
It's no thing, it's no thing
It's no thing, it's no thing
[Bridge]
Sometimes you'll miss it
And the sound will make you cry
And some nights you're dancing
With tears in your eyes
[Outro: Frank Ocean]
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summer time
Give us, just tonight, night, night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summer time
Give us, just tonight, night, night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it
(Nobody else, nobody else)
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summer time
Give us, just tonight, night, night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it
Apple Music says “I came to visage, cause you see me like a UFO”
bruh i didn't even know yung lean sang the second chorus until now
rippeter it’s crazy bro, but he also has a small part on ‘godspeed’
Ethan F.
Never realized Yung Lean sings in this.
Self Control Outro (3 minute loop w/rain and thunder)
ruclips.net/video/o_go-KKmKi/видео.html
やばい美しすぎる泣く
samee😭😭😭
i first started listening to frank ocean and this album only a couple of months ago, when i was in my first relationship. frank's songs helped me get through times of joy, lust, loneliness and healing. after 3 months of only talking to each other, he cut it off with me with a 'i dont see this going any further' text paragraph, and now he is with the girl that he swore he didn't kiss that night... i hate him for what he did but i can't help missing him sometimes...
Saw this live
CRIED
Lucky nigga
I don't blame you
man fuck you, but also, hope you enjoyed
Lucky bastard
U lucky let me kno if u ever hear of another concert he does
She’s catching feelings for someone else rn. I miss her so much.
I feel it, it happened to me...trust when i say eventually you will learn you wont need them and you can build on yourself and move on i hope you are doing better. Somone new always come and gives you hope it may be today..tmmr..in a month... you will be fine..
siyump
How could I miss her when I’ve never been with her ?
I feel it man
Stay strong king 👑
That feeling when you shared moments with someone, already built your dreams and where the feeling is so intense and then all of a sudden circumstance hits. She moved on and now with someone else. Youre stuck suffering silently. Its heart wrenching and you even feel the pain physically. Timing is terrible. It sucks man, it sucks.
I am grateful to you, Frank, for this music. I find moments of my life in it.
At the moment, I don't know how to accurately describe my state, but it's probably loneliness and a broken heart. Every day, I feel like I'm losing true sincerity and selflessness in people, which makes it difficult for me to communicate.
Thank you for the album! This work will transcend generations ;)
I got bullied a lot in school and there were videos of me getting beat up and everyone in the school knew about it. This song is what kept me stable and happy. Every time I hear it, it reminds me of so many things. Even happy things like friends I made over the years. I will never forget the feeling I get when I cry happily while listening to Frank ocean. He is truly something special. Please stay positive everyone and don’t let any kind of negativity get to you. 🤍🙏
i’m sorry people treated you that way no one deserves that. Wishing you a happy future
People who bully others are often bullied by others. Those kids had no right to do that too you. I hope you are forever smiling and they are changed wherever they may be.
Aw I’m sorry to hear that, hope life gets better for you
that keep a place for me line gets me everytime :(
Even tho it’s Valentine’s Day. Keep your head up King. You deserved better
My girlfriend broke up with me a bit after Valentine's so this actually made me feel really happy
mine broke up in january and went with someone else for valentines day
@@doodie4083 Women aint shit king focus on yourself, chase that bag.
Go off king
@@Fullmetalcowboi yeah same my boyfriend broke up with the a couple days after valentines , almost 9 months and still miss him
Best song ever just reminds me of the best summers of my life. When I’m 50 and listen to this song I’m going to bawl my eyes out at all the amazing memories I made.
One of them days fr
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@@zerois2801 Frank Ocean
will be listening to this man's music for the rest of my life, playing it for my kids.
Frank ocean is the best thing that has happened to the world lately.
Andrea Rubio in a long time.
Frank ocean has one of the most beautiful styles of music i’ve ever listened to. My personal favorite. I can never go wrong with this album and can keep it on repeat til my grand kids come out and ask what music i fw. I will neva be ashamed to cry to a frank ocean song
It's amazing how a song as simple as this can be so powerful.
Possibly Frank Ocean's best song...
theres atleast 20 songs that could arguably be Frank's best. This is one of those 20
I would kill for a new frank ocean album
they're all his best songs whaddyou mean
One of my favs
Nights takes the cake for me
What’s crazy is no matter how often I was mistreated by her, I’ll never forget those peaceful nights we slept together, holding hands, with this song playing softly in the background. And as much as I hate how things ended, I wish I could play those moments over in my head forever. Still get chills when I hear the last verse. Wild to think that one song can evoke such vivid memories and sharp emotion.
Damn this hit so hard
@@growing.flowers feel free to Screenshot
amen
Stop dude. Like the second i read this i felt extremely vulnerable and ive never felt this way in my life. Your comment invoked something strong in me
This song has such a strong effect on me, still months after. I discovered this song and it made me realized my relationship wasn't going nowhere. I started feeling so bad, almost like an anxiety attack while being in the train. Especially the last part. For me, the "leave, leave, leave" repetitions made me visualize my relationship like me making CPR to someone who's already dead. It broke me from the inside.
Now, when I hear this song i still got that strong anxiety kicking back in my guts. And it's kinda a shame, this song is actually amazing, with deep and well written lyrics, such an interesting vibe, and so on. But I can't listen to it anymore.
This song is very special to me as I discovered it when my father passed on to the next realm.
It gave me peace of mind and the reassurance that he has moved on to a better place.
This was in 2016 and so joy flows through me when I hear it now instead of tears.❤
although i was never in a relationship, this song hit me
did it though?
gay
Never had a twosome. How sad
frank ocean how do you do it just how youre so amazing no one could ever make me hate you you're music is just out of this world and no other artist could compare idc what i have to go through id defend you're music 4life LIKE YOURE MUSIC IS SO GOOD ITS LIKE DAMN HOWWWWW NO D RIDING THOOOO LIKE HOWEWWWWWEW OUCH
Most of frank Ocean's songs has made me feel calm and reflect my half-wrong decisions in my private life, but when I started to Self Control, it's getting me to a comforting experience when you listen to the outro. And I love it! 😊
it’s 2019 and i play his album everyday like it’s a new released one.
randy mccoy u good dawg?
lmao beyond good when i listen to him
Facts bro✊🏼😌
He dropped a new one today 🥺
oh yes ik 😂 best believe i was one of the few first to play it
Why am I ugly crying to this right now. Jesus it’s so beautiful
DURKIO NO
thinking about india?
tf Jesus gotta do with dis
Lil durk
But you was back in blood
my heart is heavvvyyy tonight. Frank you’re keeping me grounded. sending love and light to everyone that sees this🙏🏼🫂
Lyrics
[Intro: Frank Ocean]
Poolside convo about your summer last night, ooh yeah
About your summer last night
Ain't give you no play, mmm
Could I make you shive last night?
Could I make you shy on the last night, last night?
Could we make it in? Do we have time?
[Verse 1: Frank Ocean]
I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight
Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white
You cut your hair, but you used to live a blonded life
Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice
And our time was right
[Chorus: Austin Feinstein]
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing
It's nothing, it's nothing
Keep a place for me, for me
[Verse 2: Frank Ocean]
Now and then, you miss it, sounds make you cry
Some nights, you dance with tears in your eyes
I came to visit, 'cause you see me like a UFO
That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control
And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control
[Chorus: Austin Feinstein & Yung Lean]
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing
Keep a place for me
It's nothing, it's nothing
It's nothing, it's nothing
[Bridge: Frank Ocean]
Sometimes you'll miss it
And the sound will make you cry
And some nights, you're dancing
With tears in your eyes
[Outro: Frank Ocean]
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone coming
You're spitting game, know you got it
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone coming
You're spitting game, know you got it (Yeah)
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone coming
You're spitting game, know you got it
where's the bridge?
@@bsbx between the outro and last chorus. It sounds almost muffled
“Wish we’d grown up on the same advice, and our time was right"
That hit home😢😢😢
Blonde is Officially in my Top 5 greatest albums all-time.
LifeisGrand Simmons BIG FACTS!! 💪💪
The lonny breaux collection in its entirety still holds a special place for me
MrBp954 I need to search for this
hands down
1. Blond
2. Channel orange
i would never cry to a frank ocean song
5 minutes later
Remember that the memories are beautiful and that you are grateful for everything. You wouldn't change a single fucking thing. Be good to the people in your life and build the best future you can. Life goes on.
We need another Frank Ocean album this man only releases master pieces this album is still so good even 5 years after the fact.
6 years now
It gets better by time
7 years now
@@Beachcave549420sec ago lol
7 years now