I know it's a cliche in this little, tiny, minuscule world that is the MBTI community, but this couple really does work. I feel like the most important thing here is that neither have people they can be truly themselves with and when they found each other, it's like a new door opens. The door of self knowledge. And that's amazing.
INFJ here who married an ENTP. I found your information interesting and quite accurate. I remember when he bought me a razor headset, mouse, and games when we were dating (long distance relationship). He was going through a lot of stress but he wanted to play games with me and took the time to show me and even protect me from getting shot at. (I sucked!) I swore I was a bother but he never made me feel that way, literally just wanted me to distress with him and play. He taught me and showed me new things and I fell in love with traveling and adventure because of him. He knows my love language is cleaning, cats, and coffee.
I'm like 80% convinced that ENTPs are basically cats in human form. Don't scoff at it, just let it stew. I didn't wanna accept this as an ENTP that doesn't like cats. But most cats dont like other cats. It's trippy.
I do understand that INFJ is a judging type, but I would argue that of all 8 judging types they are the least productive/orderly. My reasoning for this argument is the 7th function of the INFJ. Extroverted thinking is the PoLR or blindspot of the INFJ. Te is also known to be the "what do statistics say?" and "what works?" function. People with high Te are extremely driven and productive. Si is an organization/groundedness function. This is why even though ISFJs also have PoLR Te; they manage to be more organized, orderly, and productive because they are Si doms. XXFJs (high Fe users) manage to be organized, productive, and grounded because it is a lot easier to be pleasing to people (Fe) when your house is clean and your life is in order. It is a lot easier to have friends and be liked when you ORGANIZE activities. XNFJs are dependable because of their love of people, and not as much because of their ambition. I felt like you keep talking about INFJs being ambitious and productive, but my personal experience and also understanding of the functions have lead me to think they are not as ambitious and productive as you make them sound. Interestingly enough, they are also some of the most thinking of the feelers and extroverted of the introverts due to the nature of their function stack. Fe drives them to interact with people as an introvert. As introverted Ni doms with tertiary Ti, it can lead them to seem like thinkers at times. REAL (not mistyped) INFJs are truly interesting. P.S. I'm an ENTP and have had a few relationships with INFJs. Most have been very good.
INFJs with their planning skills can be decently orderly. It's just that it's motivated by pleasing others so they have an easier time. No matter the motivation, it will give you the same result. For example, I think Te types in the same way are productive because they want to be efficient and productivity isn't directly correlated to Te. If I had to point types that are truly productive, I would attribute it to Se and Ne types. It's just that what they produce must be oriented to make it useful and not just the things they want to do for example. Because I can assure you INFJs are decently productive. They're just productive through their Fe to meet people's expectations and not directly through efficiency. Fe is extremely productive in social contexts. They constantly make efforts to be pleasing and meet expectations and resolve conflicts. That's why they make great mediators. When you compare it to Fi types for example, they hardly make efforts to change their way with others. Se is just a great energy boost to be physically productive by simply doing. When it comes to ambition, ambition is dictated by Ni so he's right. INxJs are the most ambitious types because they're realistic dreamers and do what it takes to accomplish what their Ni tells them. They're driven by purpose.
@conradsmith9441: You hit the nail on the head. I agree with a major part of Urchin's INFJ character analysis. However, the part about us being considerably productive/ focused/ driven doesn't resonate with me at all. In fact, we are VERY prone to procrastinating and to neglecting everyday chores. First of all, I don't know about other INFJs, but my energy tends to be quite low. That's my default state at least. Then, I will have this idea about how to achieve a certain goal. At the same time, there is this fear that while working on something, reality will trip me up. So I don't get started in the first place. It's just that we also tend to be very conscientious. At the end of the day, not achieving goal xyz will mean even more trouble than dealing with the process. So at some point we will muster up whatever is needed to get there. And then we will actually be quite focused (so we can get back to our own kind of reality asap). And yes, some of us care about creating a legacy of some kind. But most of all we prefer to be left alone with our constant stream of thoughts and to not be bothered by mundane requests. All in all I think Urchin confuses conscientiousness and a natural sense of responsibility - due to our search for a way to control the everyday chaos that is life - with ambitiousness.
Hey, I completely agree with you. I was honestly quite confused at how many times this was mentioned throughout the video and it is completely off target for INFJs. First word that somewhat irked me, was calling INFJs 'workaholics', when they really aren't. INFJs are prone to social burnout, due to overexerting themselves for other people.. But I don't think they are traditional career-workaholics at all. Next thing 'Being good at following through with tasks and objectives', when that is Si and not Ni. Si schedules, Ni plans. Ni is just very loose in its planning... Anyways I don't want to ramble for too long, but I feel this video really missed what actually makes an INFJ and INFJ. Also just kinda frustrating for us INFJs when we get misinterpreted :D
u r not wrong but not right either. Infjs will do this depending upon who they're with... its tough being a Te trickster to be practical and actually do things so u r right about that. Depending on how the infj has grown up their ambition will differ.
We must give some competition to the golden INTJxENFP pair and prove we can do it too! Glad to have an ENTP's opinion on this pair. An easy great pair for friendship imo but it might be more complicated romantically speaking. Since keeping a non stressful environment seems to be a major concern for ENTPs, that's not really difficult for INFJs who are naturally used to keeping a peaceful atmosphere and taking everything on their shoulders but to a fault. So an ENTP should take the responsibility to relieve them from stress from time to time with their entertaining and playful nature to alleviate their INFJ partner's mind if they want them to stay in charge of serious stuff. Ni doms are used to deal with heavy stuff but they're not super heroes so that would be a great emotional support for an INFJ to have a sunshine in their life like Ne doms know how to be. Also I think their Ni and Ne can both learn from restraining and expanding their possibilities to progress better. Sometimes INFJs know a more straightforward way to do things but it can reveal to be very boring and simplistic. Changing the way of doing things can be good even if not always as straightforward. Of course one challenge for ENTPs will be to show more emotional maturity but their Fe is definitely capable of doing it and INFJs are patient. And thanks for mentionning that INFJs aren't as emotional as people make it look like. They're just a bit more than ENTPs in general after all, not so much. Mistyped INFPs definitely spread misinformation on INFJs. INFJs aren't that sensitive to criticizm either and can think more logically than the MBTI community usually makes it look like to the point of sometimes being shocking for other Feeler types. INFJs are always seeking for improvement even for their friends and partner, but that's not something to fear, more a selfless attitude and something that should feel like a logical progression and personal acknowledgment from the other party. Something they should be proud of. As an INFJ myself, this pair is still very mysterious. I feel like I should feel incredibly annoyed by and hate ENTPs in theory but for some mysterious reason I actually don't and really enjoy their company. They're more elegant and distinguished than ESTPs and they're probably the only type that genuinely gives me a good laugh with their smartly stupid jokes and they're like a spicy and sarcastic ray of sunshine. And I don't know, I feel like other types don't see them as charming and cute because they get easily fooled and baited by teasing. But INFJs aren't like that, can see what they're doing, where they're going and possess a much better temper. I know an INFJ would help them finding something to care about and fight for with passion thanks to their Ni. I don't know, they have a sexy mind, what else can I say?
Hi I don't know what I'm doing saying hello, I just thought I should say something after reading what nice things you said about our typology. Let it be noted how little capacity I have to receive praise and feel it genuine.
I've been in a relationship with an INFJ, I didn't know either that i was an ENTP nor that she was an INFJ After the relationship ended i just couldn't stop thinking of why it was so perfect, its like everything fitted perfectly, we completed each other And recently after i had the test and getting interested in MBTI i found out that we were this couple the video is talking about Everything was like its said here
@@ramseyberry3295Oh I'm sorry to hear that. The way you describe it seemed so perfect. As an INFJ myself, I can see why she did that. It's never to be taken personally but Ni in the life of an INFJ is something that dictates their life entirely and they're very determined about. I'm sure it wasn't easy for her to leave if she really cared about you the same way cause INFJs take their relationships VERY seriously but it was just essential for her. INxJs are very driven by their goals and objectives in life and sadly sometimes it means sacrificing things. They surely know what they want and can tend to sacrifice everything for their ambitions cause they're vital for them.
@@kyurei4478 yeah it wasn't easy at first, but with time and a lot of introspection, and even before i got into mbti, i learned to understand and to put myself into people's place, with time i understood that if she was really driven by her goals, me beng chaotic in life, would've been just me holding her back from her goals, it was when i finally understood that that i let go of that whole situation. But yeah i gained a lot of knowledge and good out of that. It kinda helped me to understand myself and grow into what i always aspired to be. You may say that i took some traits out INFJs cause i really am fascinated by you all's aspiration to great things. Yeah and I know my goals now.
@@ramseyberry3295 Thanks for everything you said. I see, of course ENTPs can awake their Extroverted Feeling to put themselves into someone else' place more easily than they think. That's usually an underestimated strength. You know, I think you're kinda right but I think it's more a matter of intensity and being too chaotic that is the actual problem. Cause I think INxJs are lowkey searching for a bit more chaos in their life and that's why they're attracted to ENxPs in the first place even if they're the exact opposite. It feels so good to have fun with ENxPs. In an INxJ's life, everything is planned, predicted so there is not really a place for spontaneity or chaos. And bringing that is just healthy sometimes. I'm sure she wanted a bit of that deep inside. I cracked the code about Introverted Intuition (the problem with INxJ types is even people in MBTI don't exactly understand everything about this mysterious function, so even after a test and more informations, it's still tricky to know who you are) and I realized that Ne and Ni are complementary. ENxPs' personality and a lot of introspection helped to understand myself by procuration. For example, ENxPs tend to say they struggle to invest themselves in something in particular and that's exactly something Ni users deal with pretty easily. INxJs are invested in full force in everything they do because everything they do is related to their main ideals in one way or another. That's why Ni doms aren't as scattered and choose precisely what they do, because we know if we invest ourselves in something, we automatically dive in it fully. We want to master what we do and not waste time but that comes with a price of being very serious and intense. I feel like INxJs can tend to take themselves too seriously whereas ENxPs maybe tend to not take themselves seriously enough sometimes. And that's why I think the balance between the two is so great when we acknowledge there is a time to be serious and a time to have fun. I've usually seen INxJs mistaken for not being fun and I think INxJs are actually very fun cause we have a lot of wit too but I think it's just that we approach life by being the other way around so by being focused and determined about our ideas first. I think I myself took some traits from ENTPs to use my intuition to appear more interesting, mischievious and funny at first glance and also to take things a bit more lightly. I think INxJs we have this strength to accomplish anything we decided to dedicate ourselves to by working as hard as required to make our ideals come true, but it comes with the price of not always enjoying the moment and it's not always healthy for ourselves. I admire ENTPs for their charming mix of intelligence and wit, their charisma and ability to take anything lightly. Glad if you've found something important for you to pursue in life. I think that's one of the most valuable things an INFJ could help an ENTP find. People tend to say ENTPs are complex but that's exactly what INFJs are attracted to, a fascinating mind to discover that is capable to take them off guard. You guys are so interesting. I think INFJs just need someone who can relieve them from the stress and pressure of wanting to succeed and someone smart but also sensitive that can give them an authentic good laugh.
I appreciate you mentioning the fact that a lot of INFPs identify (mistype) as INFJ. They like the idea of being unique. Which is why the INFJ type appears at least in writing favorable. The reality of course is anything but.
Male ENTP married to my INFJ partner for many years. Some of the things said here are accurate some are inaccurate. One of the things this video may not account for the metamorphosis that both of these types go through as they get into their late 20's and into mid 30's. The charts for MBTI on careers actually show this progression for ENTP's. ENTP's learn at some point generally how not only how to handle stress but how to make their careers and ambition reality and often have high income potential. From an INFJ perspective they can bring stability to the ENTP lifestyle and allow them to be in my opinion the best version of themselves. As my INFJ partner will often say, since we met we have multiplied our income 5 times along with our quality of life. Boardem is less an issue for ENTP's at least for me as an ENTP 7w8, there is always something more to do and dive into.
After years being single I finally met an INFJ (didn’t know at that time he was an INFJ, but through a business coaching program started studying personality and it has been eye opening). He was everything I had ever wanted. Both of us are passionate about self-improvement and becoming our best versions. This aspect has made the biggest difference in our lives. We can have deep conversations for hours. He has the ability to bring my scattered thoughts back into focus and provides insightful reflections that have transformed me into a better person. It took nearly 20 years for me to truly believe his love and acceptance for me. Through Understanding personality I gained valuable insights about who I am, who he is, I accept his personality as is, and he puts up with me. It really is a beautiful thing.
INFJs we're never bored on the contrary cause there is many things to learn about one single topic when you dive deep into it. Our mind is constantly occupied thinking about all the different facets and aspects of one single thing to cover all the potential about this one thing or idea. It always feels new despite staying on one main thing. That connects you to subtopics to learn about and it actually ends up working similarly to ENxPs Ne but from the same topic as a starting point. That's usually why INxJs tend to master their subject extremely well and become masters at what they do and are usually minstaken for stubborn or pedantic. It's just about crazy dedication and determination that seems unbelievable for most people. Being boundlessly invested in what they want to do is like a second nature for INxJs. But that's also why it can be very mentally draining.
This is cool. I'll be sure to show this to all my INFJ friends. Btw, like 99% of my friends are INFJ so this will make for an amazing party conversation!
Real bored real quick and more willing to tolerate it if they love you and in less stressful environment - more truthful words about ENTPs weren't spoken since famous Socrates quote "Idk bruh" xD
Ah Ven. Really glad to see you here too but em. You can forget about this but if I am not mistaken, you were the one asking for this video right, sure. You know what to ask for. If this is the result after 10 minutes torture, it is almost like well - it seems fine to do it then. Great to see you in the comment section, regards from me =)
introverted intuition is quite a tedious and isolating function - i would describe it as coming to the world as a preprogrammed missile (precise and focused, but tense and implosive). the quite magical chemistry with entp's comes from the refreshing lightness of extroverted intuition and it's weblike connections, in a way that tickles both intuitives - i could listen to entp's cute little bullshit forever and never get bored of it. THAT SAID, both types need to be at least a little healthy/mature for the relationship to work, or it can get pretty destructive - for the infj this means a severe miscalculation of their inner world, and for the unserious entp merely a new connection to come.
I dont think Ne-person and Ni-person is that bad of a combo as you think. Sure the ENTP is forced to lean more into their Si than they are used to. But there is nothing more unstoppable than an ENTP that has attained mastery over Si! You go from a gamer/redditor to a person that can make a midterm project like a novel, a small videogame, or even a movie(if you have funds) happen. And the Ni-Person will help you order your ideas into a vision, whenever you feel uncertain and or undecisive. So get an Ni-Person as a good friend atleast, they don't have to be your gf, but if they are, than thats not bad at all imo.
Well guess what... I think now think ISFJs are a direct upgrade to INFJs, provided you find one that is a little less basic and has some nerdiness to her. External Si help really grounds you alot, and you can give that person Ne help. So yea, I am socionics-pilled now.
Such thing as upgrade to a type doesn't exist...ISFJs awakening to their Ne are probably more appreciated by ENTPs tho I guess. As an INFJ, I really couldn't see myself liking ESTPs over ENTPs so I suspect it might very well be the same for ENTPs, but you never know. Life can be surprising.
@@kyurei4478 Upgrade in terms of the relation not the type in and of itself. Infj and Isfj are the same in terms of where the fe and ti is in their function stack. But Si is more valuable than Ni for someone who is Ne, and Se is more valuable than Ne for someone who is Ni.
@@rubeng9092 Yeah, I know it was in term of relation with ENTP but I just don't see how it's an upgrade, it's just different. Yes INFJ and ISFJ are the same in that regard. But Si isn't necessarely more valuable for ENTPs however. They can also value Ni more which is directly useful for their Ne. Particularly because Si is still inferior for ENTPs so it might not match well, just like Se for INFJ. They don't necessarely value it. Opposite type relationships are just the ones that can potentially make you grow the most personally by developing your lowest sides. But relationships like this tend to naturally be the most difficult to maintain. And what about shadow types relationships who have all the other functions of each other? It can also be extremely beneficial. There is no such notion as superiority in relationships because any relationship can teach you something valuable, even from the exact same type. "More beneficial relationship" is just a more appropriate term. What is more beneficial isn't necessarely more valuable in every way and simply an upgrade. It's most likely more valuable in term of benefit for personal growth yes, not necessarely more valuable in term of long lasting relationship for example, which might very well be easier between ENTP and INFJ and same for ISFJ with ESTP actually.
Id suggest studying Socionics and its inter type relationships theory using the elements with model A i believe. Its a theory that tries to explain how the types would work in a relationship (there are duals, conflicting, mirror relationships etc), MBTI isn't exactly a good system considering how much its oversimplified and watered down without clear descriptions..
@@LadyVenVenI was just looking for you to send you a message on Discord, but couldn't find you. Would you send me a hi or something when you get a chance so that I can message you back. I hope that you are well and not back in the hospital. God bless you good Ven 🙏🏻
Hmm interesting. I an ENTP male have been married to my INFJ wife for 16+ yrs....Your conclusion is the key.... Like interests may the best foundation that keeps the chemistry going. There is lots more but lets start there :)
Weird question, but does the dynamic change if it happens to be infj m and entp m? Or anything in particular that may be unique to not heterosexual infj entp lol
Your description of the ENTP reflects your life experience or lack thereof, please share your age to provide perspective. When I was young I thought I too knew it all, but you don’t know what you don’t know. Think about that and open your mind. ENTP’s are open-minded, but you speak as if the way you see the world now will be the way you always see the world. The brains frontal cortex isn’t fully developed until you’re 25. Your viewpoints will change and become more multidimensional with age and hopefully you will be able to use your time creating a better world in real life instead of escaping into video games. Don’t be a slave to your personality, make your personality your bitch. ❤❤❤😂😂😂
Dude this sounds so toxic on your part. Like don't enable the non-committment or immoral behaviour? Every healthy relationship needs to have distribution of chores. Or are you suggesting that outside of the "mythical pairing" you are saying some other type should be perfectly ok with this "entp behavior".
Whenever I see depictions of ENTPs on the web it’s always this very stereotypical and memetic version of ENTP which is usually a very immature version of ENTP’s. To be fair most stereotypes are based in some sort of reality. But ENTP’s can take a long time to mature and find their feet. I just wish a more mature healthy representation of ENTP was promoted.
@@Prometheus7272 but these people wont become what you are saying cuz they don't want to. Literally any non-mbti girl if becomes a partner to someone who talks like this will bit*chslap him and rightfully so.
I know it's a cliche in this little, tiny, minuscule world that is the MBTI community, but this couple really does work. I feel like the most important thing here is that neither have people they can be truly themselves with and when they found each other, it's like a new door opens. The door of self knowledge. And that's amazing.
Anything is possible!
Exactly
This is the best explanation yes
INFJ here who married an ENTP. I found your information interesting and quite accurate. I remember when he bought me a razor headset, mouse, and games when we were dating (long distance relationship). He was going through a lot of stress but he wanted to play games with me and took the time to show me and even protect me from getting shot at. (I sucked!) I swore I was a bother but he never made me feel that way, literally just wanted me to distress with him and play. He taught me and showed me new things and I fell in love with traveling and adventure because of him. He knows my love language is cleaning, cats, and coffee.
I'm like 80% convinced that ENTPs are basically cats in human form. Don't scoff at it, just let it stew. I didn't wanna accept this as an ENTP that doesn't like cats. But most cats dont like other cats. It's trippy.
I do understand that INFJ is a judging type, but I would argue that of all 8 judging types they are the least productive/orderly. My reasoning for this argument is the 7th function of the INFJ. Extroverted thinking is the PoLR or blindspot of the INFJ. Te is also known to be the "what do statistics say?" and "what works?" function. People with high Te are extremely driven and productive. Si is an organization/groundedness function. This is why even though ISFJs also have PoLR Te; they manage to be more organized, orderly, and productive because they are Si doms. XXFJs (high Fe users) manage to be organized, productive, and grounded because it is a lot easier to be pleasing to people (Fe) when your house is clean and your life is in order. It is a lot easier to have friends and be liked when you ORGANIZE activities. XNFJs are dependable because of their love of people, and not as much because of their ambition. I felt like you keep talking about INFJs being ambitious and productive, but my personal experience and also understanding of the functions have lead me to think they are not as ambitious and productive as you make them sound.
Interestingly enough, they are also some of the most thinking of the feelers and extroverted of the introverts due to the nature of their function stack. Fe drives them to interact with people as an introvert. As introverted Ni doms with tertiary Ti, it can lead them to seem like thinkers at times. REAL (not mistyped) INFJs are truly interesting.
P.S. I'm an ENTP and have had a few relationships with INFJs. Most have been very good.
INFJs with their planning skills can be decently orderly. It's just that it's motivated by pleasing others so they have an easier time. No matter the motivation, it will give you the same result. For example, I think Te types in the same way are productive because they want to be efficient and productivity isn't directly correlated to Te. If I had to point types that are truly productive, I would attribute it to Se and Ne types. It's just that what they produce must be oriented to make it useful and not just the things they want to do for example. Because I can assure you INFJs are decently productive. They're just productive through their Fe to meet people's expectations and not directly through efficiency. Fe is extremely productive in social contexts. They constantly make efforts to be pleasing and meet expectations and resolve conflicts. That's why they make great mediators. When you compare it to Fi types for example, they hardly make efforts to change their way with others. Se is just a great energy boost to be physically productive by simply doing. When it comes to ambition, ambition is dictated by Ni so he's right. INxJs are the most ambitious types because they're realistic dreamers and do what it takes to accomplish what their Ni tells them. They're driven by purpose.
@conradsmith9441: You hit the nail on the head.
I agree with a major part of Urchin's INFJ character analysis. However, the part about us being considerably productive/ focused/ driven doesn't resonate with me at all. In fact, we are VERY prone to procrastinating and to neglecting everyday chores.
First of all, I don't know about other INFJs, but my energy tends to be quite low. That's my default state at least. Then, I will have this idea about how to achieve a certain goal. At the same time, there is this fear that while working on something, reality will trip me up. So I don't get started in the first place.
It's just that we also tend to be very conscientious. At the end of the day, not achieving goal xyz will mean even more trouble than dealing with the process. So at some point we will muster up whatever is needed to get there. And then we will actually be quite focused (so we can get back to our own kind of reality asap).
And yes, some of us care about creating a legacy of some kind. But most of all we prefer to be left alone with our constant stream of thoughts and to not be bothered by mundane requests.
All in all I think Urchin confuses conscientiousness and a natural sense of responsibility - due to our search for a way to control the everyday chaos that is life - with ambitiousness.
Hey, I completely agree with you. I was honestly quite confused at how many times this was mentioned throughout the video and it is completely off target for INFJs. First word that somewhat irked me, was calling INFJs 'workaholics', when they really aren't. INFJs are prone to social burnout, due to overexerting themselves for other people.. But I don't think they are traditional career-workaholics at all. Next thing 'Being good at following through with tasks and objectives', when that is Si and not Ni. Si schedules, Ni plans. Ni is just very loose in its planning... Anyways I don't want to ramble for too long, but I feel this video really missed what actually makes an INFJ and INFJ.
Also just kinda frustrating for us INFJs when we get misinterpreted :D
u r not wrong but not right either. Infjs will do this depending upon who they're with... its tough being a Te trickster to be practical and actually do things so u r right about that. Depending on how the infj has grown up their ambition will differ.
We must give some competition to the golden INTJxENFP pair and prove we can do it too! Glad to have an ENTP's opinion on this pair. An easy great pair for friendship imo but it might be more complicated romantically speaking.
Since keeping a non stressful environment seems to be a major concern for ENTPs, that's not really difficult for INFJs who are naturally used to keeping a peaceful atmosphere and taking everything on their shoulders but to a fault. So an ENTP should take the responsibility to relieve them from stress from time to time with their entertaining and playful nature to alleviate their INFJ partner's mind if they want them to stay in charge of serious stuff. Ni doms are used to deal with heavy stuff but they're not super heroes so that would be a great emotional support for an INFJ to have a sunshine in their life like Ne doms know how to be. Also I think their Ni and Ne can both learn from restraining and expanding their possibilities to progress better. Sometimes INFJs know a more straightforward way to do things but it can reveal to be very boring and simplistic. Changing the way of doing things can be good even if not always as straightforward. Of course one challenge for ENTPs will be to show more emotional maturity but their Fe is definitely capable of doing it and INFJs are patient.
And thanks for mentionning that INFJs aren't as emotional as people make it look like. They're just a bit more than ENTPs in general after all, not so much. Mistyped INFPs definitely spread misinformation on INFJs. INFJs aren't that sensitive to criticizm either and can think more logically than the MBTI community usually makes it look like to the point of sometimes being shocking for other Feeler types.
INFJs are always seeking for improvement even for their friends and partner, but that's not something to fear, more a selfless attitude and something that should feel like a logical progression and personal acknowledgment from the other party. Something they should be proud of.
As an INFJ myself, this pair is still very mysterious. I feel like I should feel incredibly annoyed by and hate ENTPs in theory but for some mysterious reason I actually don't and really enjoy their company. They're more elegant and distinguished than ESTPs and they're probably the only type that genuinely gives me a good laugh with their smartly stupid jokes and they're like a spicy and sarcastic ray of sunshine. And I don't know, I feel like other types don't see them as charming and cute because they get easily fooled and baited by teasing. But INFJs aren't like that, can see what they're doing, where they're going and possess a much better temper. I know an INFJ would help them finding something to care about and fight for with passion thanks to their Ni. I don't know, they have a sexy mind, what else can I say?
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I don't know what I'm doing saying hello, I just thought I should say something after reading what nice things you said about our typology.
Let it be noted how little capacity I have to receive praise and feel it genuine.
I like the idea of being in a relationship with an ENTP, but I'm also afraid 🙇
I've been in a relationship with an INFJ, I didn't know either that i was an ENTP nor that she was an INFJ
After the relationship ended i just couldn't stop thinking of why it was so perfect, its like everything fitted perfectly, we completed each other
And recently after i had the test and getting interested in MBTI i found out that we were this couple the video is talking about
Everything was like its said here
Oh and it ended because my late INFJ chose her career and plans over the relationship we had, lol just like the videos says hahahahaha
@@ramseyberry3295Oh I'm sorry to hear that. The way you describe it seemed so perfect. As an INFJ myself, I can see why she did that. It's never to be taken personally but Ni in the life of an INFJ is something that dictates their life entirely and they're very determined about. I'm sure it wasn't easy for her to leave if she really cared about you the same way cause INFJs take their relationships VERY seriously but it was just essential for her. INxJs are very driven by their goals and objectives in life and sadly sometimes it means sacrificing things. They surely know what they want and can tend to sacrifice everything for their ambitions cause they're vital for them.
@@kyurei4478 yeah it wasn't easy at first, but with time and a lot of introspection, and even before i got into mbti, i learned to understand and to put myself into people's place, with time i understood that if she was really driven by her goals, me beng chaotic in life, would've been just me holding her back from her goals, it was when i finally understood that that i let go of that whole situation.
But yeah i gained a lot of knowledge and good out of that.
It kinda helped me to understand myself and grow into what i always aspired to be.
You may say that i took some traits out INFJs cause i really am fascinated by you all's aspiration to great things.
Yeah and I know my goals now.
@@ramseyberry3295 Thanks for everything you said. I see, of course ENTPs can awake their Extroverted Feeling to put themselves into someone else' place more easily than they think. That's usually an underestimated strength. You know, I think you're kinda right but I think it's more a matter of intensity and being too chaotic that is the actual problem. Cause I think INxJs are lowkey searching for a bit more chaos in their life and that's why they're attracted to ENxPs in the first place even if they're the exact opposite. It feels so good to have fun with ENxPs. In an INxJ's life, everything is planned, predicted so there is not really a place for spontaneity or chaos. And bringing that is just healthy sometimes. I'm sure she wanted a bit of that deep inside.
I cracked the code about Introverted Intuition (the problem with INxJ types is even people in MBTI don't exactly understand everything about this mysterious function, so even after a test and more informations, it's still tricky to know who you are) and I realized that Ne and Ni are complementary. ENxPs' personality and a lot of introspection helped to understand myself by procuration.
For example, ENxPs tend to say they struggle to invest themselves in something in particular and that's exactly something Ni users deal with pretty easily. INxJs are invested in full force in everything they do because everything they do is related to their main ideals in one way or another. That's why Ni doms aren't as scattered and choose precisely what they do, because we know if we invest ourselves in something, we automatically dive in it fully. We want to master what we do and not waste time but that comes with a price of being very serious and intense. I feel like INxJs can tend to take themselves too seriously whereas ENxPs maybe tend to not take themselves seriously enough sometimes. And that's why I think the balance between the two is so great when we acknowledge there is a time to be serious and a time to have fun. I've usually seen INxJs mistaken for not being fun and I think INxJs are actually very fun cause we have a lot of wit too but I think it's just that we approach life by being the other way around so by being focused and determined about our ideas first.
I think I myself took some traits from ENTPs to use my intuition to appear more interesting, mischievious and funny at first glance and also to take things a bit more lightly. I think INxJs we have this strength to accomplish anything we decided to dedicate ourselves to by working as hard as required to make our ideals come true, but it comes with the price of not always enjoying the moment and it's not always healthy for ourselves. I admire ENTPs for their charming mix of intelligence and wit, their charisma and ability to take anything lightly.
Glad if you've found something important for you to pursue in life. I think that's one of the most valuable things an INFJ could help an ENTP find. People tend to say ENTPs are complex but that's exactly what INFJs are attracted to, a fascinating mind to discover that is capable to take them off guard. You guys are so interesting. I think INFJs just need someone who can relieve them from the stress and pressure of wanting to succeed and someone smart but also sensitive that can give them an authentic good laugh.
I appreciate you mentioning the fact that a lot of INFPs identify (mistype) as INFJ. They like the idea of being unique. Which is why the INFJ type appears at least in writing favorable. The reality of course is anything but.
Male ENTP married to my INFJ partner for many years. Some of the things said here are accurate some are inaccurate. One of the things this video may not account for the metamorphosis that both of these types go through as they get into their late 20's and into mid 30's. The charts for MBTI on careers actually show this progression for ENTP's. ENTP's learn at some point generally how not only how to handle stress but how to make their careers and ambition reality and often have high income potential. From an INFJ perspective they can bring stability to the ENTP lifestyle and allow them to be in my opinion the best version of themselves. As my INFJ partner will often say, since we met we have multiplied our income 5 times along with our quality of life. Boardem is less an issue for ENTP's at least for me as an ENTP 7w8, there is always something more to do and dive into.
After years being single I finally met an INFJ (didn’t know at that time he was an INFJ, but through a business coaching program started studying personality and it has been eye opening). He was everything I had ever wanted. Both of us are passionate about self-improvement and becoming our best versions.
This aspect has made the biggest difference in our lives. We can have deep conversations for hours. He has the ability to bring my scattered thoughts back into focus and provides insightful reflections that have transformed me into a better person. It took nearly 20 years for me to truly believe his love and acceptance for me.
Through Understanding personality I gained valuable insights about who I am, who he is, I accept his personality as is, and he puts up with me. It really is a beautiful thing.
INFJs we're never bored on the contrary cause there is many things to learn about one single topic when you dive deep into it. Our mind is constantly occupied thinking about all the different facets and aspects of one single thing to cover all the potential about this one thing or idea. It always feels new despite staying on one main thing. That connects you to subtopics to learn about and it actually ends up working similarly to ENxPs Ne but from the same topic as a starting point. That's usually why INxJs tend to master their subject extremely well and become masters at what they do and are usually minstaken for stubborn or pedantic. It's just about crazy dedication and determination that seems unbelievable for most people. Being boundlessly invested in what they want to do is like a second nature for INxJs. But that's also why it can be very mentally draining.
My wife is an INFJ, I‘m an ENTP.
It works great. We compliment each other so well.
not to be weird but infj here. Can you tell me how her career life is?
As an infj who used to date one entp, it’s exhausting…they always find a topic to argue with me and i feel tired…sooooo nahh
This is cool. I'll be sure to show this to all my INFJ friends. Btw, like 99% of my friends are INFJ so this will make for an amazing party conversation!
oh goodness
@@streeturchin9707 yes, street urchin. It is very possible. In all your rants, you've failed to consider one possibility!
I love ENTP’s. I feel like I can spot them a mile away. They are indeed rare.
I love to be loved
I'm an entp and my relationship with an infj just ended in horrible tragedy. ☹️😑 Funnily she introduced me to mbtis.
Real bored real quick and more willing to tolerate it if they love you and in less stressful environment - more truthful words about ENTPs weren't spoken since famous Socrates quote "Idk bruh" xD
Masterfully done. I agree fully that any two types can build a successful relationship or destroy one, for that matter.
I'm glad you think so! Any relationship could potentially work if handled correctly.
First comment!!! Great video, you always make me laugh. 🩵
You're the best!
@@streeturchin9707 and don’t forget it
Ah Ven. Really glad to see you here too but em. You can forget about this but if I am not mistaken, you were the one asking for this video right, sure. You know what to ask for. If this is the result after 10 minutes torture, it is almost like well - it seems fine to do it then. Great to see you in the comment section, regards from me =)
introverted intuition is quite a tedious and isolating function - i would describe it as coming to the world as a preprogrammed missile (precise and focused, but tense and implosive). the quite magical chemistry with entp's comes from the refreshing lightness of extroverted intuition and it's weblike connections, in a way that tickles both intuitives - i could listen to entp's cute little bullshit forever and never get bored of it.
THAT SAID, both types need to be at least a little healthy/mature for the relationship to work, or it can get pretty destructive - for the infj this means a severe miscalculation of their inner world, and for the unserious entp merely a new connection to come.
I dont think Ne-person and Ni-person is that bad of a combo as you think. Sure the ENTP is forced to lean more into their Si than they are used to. But there is nothing more unstoppable than an ENTP that has attained mastery over Si! You go from a gamer/redditor to a person that can make a midterm project like a novel, a small videogame, or even a movie(if you have funds) happen. And the Ni-Person will help you order your ideas into a vision, whenever you feel uncertain and or undecisive. So get an Ni-Person as a good friend atleast, they don't have to be your gf, but if they are, than thats not bad at all imo.
Ni and Ne are simply complementary like any other function with their i/e counterpart.
Well guess what... I think now think ISFJs are a direct upgrade to INFJs, provided you find one that is a little less basic and has some nerdiness to her. External Si help really grounds you alot, and you can give that person Ne help. So yea, I am socionics-pilled now.
Such thing as upgrade to a type doesn't exist...ISFJs awakening to their Ne are probably more appreciated by ENTPs tho I guess. As an INFJ, I really couldn't see myself liking ESTPs over ENTPs so I suspect it might very well be the same for ENTPs, but you never know. Life can be surprising.
@@kyurei4478 Upgrade in terms of the relation not the type in and of itself. Infj and Isfj are the same in terms of where the fe and ti is in their function stack. But Si is more valuable than Ni for someone who is Ne, and Se is more valuable than Ne for someone who is Ni.
@@rubeng9092 Yeah, I know it was in term of relation with ENTP but I just don't see how it's an upgrade, it's just different. Yes INFJ and ISFJ are the same in that regard. But Si isn't necessarely more valuable for ENTPs however. They can also value Ni more which is directly useful for their Ne. Particularly because Si is still inferior for ENTPs so it might not match well, just like Se for INFJ. They don't necessarely value it. Opposite type relationships are just the ones that can potentially make you grow the most personally by developing your lowest sides. But relationships like this tend to naturally be the most difficult to maintain. And what about shadow types relationships who have all the other functions of each other? It can also be extremely beneficial. There is no such notion as superiority in relationships because any relationship can teach you something valuable, even from the exact same type. "More beneficial relationship" is just a more appropriate term. What is more beneficial isn't necessarely more valuable in every way and simply an upgrade. It's most likely more valuable in term of benefit for personal growth yes, not necessarely more valuable in term of long lasting relationship for example, which might very well be easier between ENTP and INFJ and same for ISFJ with ESTP actually.
Id suggest studying Socionics and its inter type relationships theory using the elements with model A i believe. Its a theory that tries to explain how the types would work in a relationship (there are duals, conflicting, mirror relationships etc), MBTI isn't exactly a good system considering how much its oversimplified and watered down without clear descriptions..
Lol, me back in bed watching this after 2 stressful hours of Walgreens and lunch already needing a nap ❤
Hope your day gets better!
@LadyVenVen Thanks Ven. I hope that you are well too 🤗
being in bed is the best place to look at me!
@@streeturchin9707 lol
@@LadyVenVenI was just looking for you to send you a message on Discord, but couldn't find you. Would you send me a hi or something when you get a chance so that I can message you back. I hope that you are well and not back in the hospital. God bless you good Ven 🙏🏻
Hmm interesting. I an ENTP male have been married to my INFJ wife for 16+ yrs....Your conclusion is the key.... Like interests may the best foundation that keeps the chemistry going. There is lots more but lets start there :)
I like this 💜💙💚💛🧡❤🖤
Finally some good f-ing ASMR!😎
I've never done it before. But yeah, I'm obviously the best.
"INFPJ" XD
New subscriber here! Love your delivery 😂😂
Weird question, but does the dynamic change if it happens to be infj m and entp m? Or anything in particular that may be unique to not heterosexual infj entp lol
Would have to test and see. There may be fewer moments for conflict though.
“bc click bait” . I see what you are doing there 😏- intj
What’s the tune that plays in the background of these vids?
The Burnout - Gerhard Feng
The things are REFILLABLE
Your description of the ENTP reflects your life experience or lack thereof, please share your age to provide perspective. When I was young I thought I too knew it all, but you don’t know what you don’t know. Think about that and open your mind. ENTP’s are open-minded, but you speak as if the way you see the world now will be the way you always see the world. The brains frontal cortex isn’t fully developed until you’re 25. Your viewpoints will change and become more multidimensional with age and hopefully you will be able to use your time creating a better world in real life instead of escaping into video games. Don’t be a slave to your personality, make your personality your bitch. ❤❤❤😂😂😂
how old do you think I am?
@@streeturchin9707 25-27 maybe? My guess would be mid 20s.
You're a sweetheart
Yeaaaaaa.....my mother's an infj
do isfp and entp.. pls
🥐kwasa
Definitely click bait 😫
Dude this sounds so toxic on your part. Like don't enable the non-committment or immoral behaviour? Every healthy relationship needs to have distribution of chores. Or are you suggesting that outside of the "mythical pairing" you are saying some other type should be perfectly ok with this "entp behavior".
Youre perplexed because youre not an ENTP. If you were, you would understand
Whenever I see depictions of ENTPs on the web it’s always this very stereotypical and memetic version of ENTP which is usually a very immature version of ENTP’s. To be fair most stereotypes are based in some sort of reality. But ENTP’s can take a long time to mature and find their feet. I just wish a more mature healthy representation of ENTP was promoted.
@@Prometheus7272 but these people wont become what you are saying cuz they don't want to. Literally any non-mbti girl if becomes a partner to someone who talks like this will bit*chslap him and rightfully so.
What a load of crock
I'm sorry you feel that way =(
Why?