My Lesbian Coming Out Story: how I knew, telling my parents & more!!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

Комментарии • 88

  • @gerricaclouse8791
    @gerricaclouse8791 7 лет назад +11

    Thank you so much for this video! You don’t see coming out stories like this very often and it is comforting to see someone who has experienced so much confusion around there sexuality. Your story definitely makes me feel less alone and it has come to me at such a perfect time. I have been struggling with the exact same things for months now and it’s nice to see someone who has gotten through it.😊

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      You're so welcome. Thanks so much for watching. I wish you the best in figuring yourself out. There's so many people on the other side with open arms for you when you do 💗

  • @Mojohjohjoh
    @Mojohjohjoh 7 лет назад +53

    Oh wow our stories are similar! I thought I was asexual for a year until I realized that I was gay!!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +12

      This is very comforting to hear actually. Thank you for sharing, makes me feel less alone xo

  • @bethweasley4968
    @bethweasley4968 7 лет назад +3

    this is the mst relatable coming out story video ever. most people when they come out are 100% sure its nice to have someone who is comfortable with being themselves but not 100% sure they will be that way forever and is comfortable with themselves at the moment its very inspiring 💕💕💕

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +1

      So glad you liked the video xo this comment means a lot 💕

  • @madic809
    @madic809 8 лет назад +19

    When I first saw your FB update I think my first thought was "oh yeah I have seen that coming for a while." Then at brunch when I mentioned boys I realised later that I'd totally forgotten about you two, and I think that's because you were acting so natural around each other and not a great deal was different, cause like you said you'd been in love with her for a little while ❤️❤️❤️

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  8 лет назад +2

      +Madi C aw Madi 💕💕💕💕 love you lots. But how did you see it coming ahhhhhhhhhh

  • @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750
    @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750 6 лет назад +5

    your voice is killing me I could listen to it all day and I relate to your stories a lot

  • @cody7857
    @cody7857 8 лет назад +14

    Lol i totally get the "oh i knew that" and ur like well why didn't u let me know.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  8 лет назад +2

      +itsjustkatie Could have been so helpful if he told me Aahahha

  • @fionnrex9513
    @fionnrex9513 8 лет назад +10

    Really great video :) so honest and heart felt. Good luck for the future.

  • @nonivoce9064
    @nonivoce9064 7 лет назад +2

    WOW> I just watched this and it is almost identical to my story dude. Like down to every detail. It's so crazy that other people went through it the same way and the whole realisation period is pretty long until you figure yourself out. UGHHH AMAZING I LOVE YOU

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      This is amazing 💗 it's really crazy!

  • @TheSongofaRhododobird
    @TheSongofaRhododobird 7 лет назад +5

    This was such a beautiful, uplifting video!

  • @haydenlaroche3178
    @haydenlaroche3178 7 лет назад +5

    watching these make me so happy because i never really came out like my sister did (friends over and helping her tell our parents). my mother read a text over my shoulder of me telling my friends i think im bi and then when i broke up with my borfriend 2 days before homecoming he got mad and kinda threatened me and my friends. he kept saying things like "does your parents know you like girls... didn't think so". so when my parents asked to hear the story i told them and ran out of my room crying... my parents still think its a phase but i feel like they don't except me or my sister... i call myself bi now but think i might turn out gay like my older sister but im still trying to figure that out.... i had a girlfriend for 6 months but we broke up and it was kind of a relief because i didnt like keeping it from my mom and dad. i cant tell my grandparents because one is totally against it and one doesn't even really like biracial couples..... anyway im so sorry for making this long but i guess that im just happy that people can get what i didnt and that just makes me so very happy. thank you for sharing your story.... if you see this please say anything 👍

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much, I'm so happy that you enjoyed this. I'm sorry to hear about your ex boyfriend, thats such a shitty way for him to act. 💕 Also don't worry, your parents just might not be sure how to react appropriately. For them it might seem like this 'massive thing' that will 'change your life forever' but they will, with time, come to realise that it's not really that big of a deal and that there is nothing to be worried or ashamed about. Take your sweet time figuring it out, there's no time limit. I know its hard with your parents and grandparents but don't let it get to you, they will come around with time. Thank you for sharing to hun xoxo

    • @misty_night
      @misty_night 5 лет назад +2

      I'm lesbian and I'm waiting for a good time to tell my parents..
      I'm in love with my lesbian bff but she loves a girl at the drama group we go to.
      I hope she'll be happy.
      I dated a couple of boys but I never loved them. They used me for popularity and then dumped me. I also have trust issues.

  • @rosaagersnapbone1313
    @rosaagersnapbone1313 7 лет назад +19

    3:06 "He liked the same stuff I liked" (Cause they both like girls!) xD
    Lots of love from Denmark btw

  • @saramarinelli4840
    @saramarinelli4840 5 лет назад +10

    My friends did the same as your dad to me! 😂 They told me that they already know... And I had the same reaction of you! Why can't you just told me earlier???? 😂
    I discovered your channel for the rats and find out something more that bonds us! I'm really happy! 💜

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  5 лет назад

      I love that! Also aww that's awesome 💕🌈

  • @AllieandSam
    @AllieandSam 7 лет назад +10

    This is such a great story! I also love the 12 'gay' of Xmas! Hahaha :)

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much! Hahah I felt so genius when i came up with it 😂

  • @madiimnmn
    @madiimnmn 8 лет назад +5

    Go Gwen!! hahaha 😄 one of my fave videos bro. Love it xxxxxxx

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  8 лет назад +1

      +Madi Nicks heck yeah! Love you madi 💖💖💖

  • @starcereal.
    @starcereal. 4 года назад +1

    TYSM MY FAVE RUclipsR

  • @BrunoPOWEEER
    @BrunoPOWEEER 7 лет назад +5

    Yeeaaahhh... lovely to meet you today!!!
    I'm loving your videos... SUBSCRIBED
    =]

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      +ElectricBike awesome to meet you too!!

  • @Cydniwidni
    @Cydniwidni 7 лет назад +3

    Ur amazing and I really look up too u and ur so brave to be able to do that!!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      This comment means a lot to me. Thank you! xx

  • @abbypalmgren5812
    @abbypalmgren5812 7 лет назад +4

    This describes me perfectly. Thanks for this vid I feel way less alone

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      Aw thank you! This comment makes me feel less alone and happy that someone can relate to me x

  • @basakkaya5431
    @basakkaya5431 5 лет назад +2

    I'm a straight person but I don't think you should be embarrassed because of your sexuality.You guys are just like straight people.You have rigths and you want to be accepted by the people.Because the LGBTQ+ community is fighting for being accepted by the people.I don't care what do you do with your bf/gf in your private time.But I care about how do you act to and treat people and animals.But I care if you are a good person.But I care if you prefer peace or war.But I care about how you treat the nature.But I care about are you OK because you are human beings just like the rest of like I said before.You deserve to be happy with whoever you want.Wherever or whenever.And I think because of homophobia,you guys shouldn't hide yourselves.Be happy,live your live,travel,fall in love.These are good things and nobody has any right to judge you.Because this is your life ❤️

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  5 лет назад +1

      You are amazing! The world needs more people like you in it, thank you ❤️❤️

  • @danssaddimple9133
    @danssaddimple9133 7 лет назад +8

    ahh ur so beautiful and cute !

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +1

      Awww thank you so much xx too kind :)

  • @akanecortich8197
    @akanecortich8197 7 лет назад +5

    Rule #1 Enjoy life as much as possible.
    Rule #2 See rule #1

  • @EnnyOwl
    @EnnyOwl 7 лет назад +2

    Omg your story is so relatable!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +1

      +Enny Owl this makes me feel much so less alone! 😌

  • @Aco747lyte
    @Aco747lyte 3 года назад +1

    You're adorable! I love girls, too. Keep it up - and a very lovely video this was, too. Inspiring, and made me smile! Thank you so much!

  • @Susa__86
    @Susa__86 8 лет назад +1

    Great Video Lauren!

  • @lunasilverfangs989
    @lunasilverfangs989 7 лет назад +1

    Stay strong you are brilliant!

  • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
    @harryjamessmithmusic7762 5 лет назад +3

    Fantastic video! I love it! You have such great parents! Your dad is cool! lol ... Btw. the poor guy who wanted to kiss you and had no idea you were not into guys lol ... SUBSCRIBED.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  5 лет назад +2

      hah thank you! yeah im really grateful for them being mostly cool with it. Oh no don't feel sorry for him, he was a total creep hahahah

  • @alottoftea
    @alottoftea 6 лет назад +2

    I want to cry with you. 😭

  • @Carmensidea
    @Carmensidea 7 лет назад +5

    I'm a Demisexual Lesbian babe. Imma hit Subscribe!!!! Love you already sister ! Great great video !!! Yes I enjoyed it !!!! How old are you ?

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +3

      Aw yay! Thank you so much! And welcome lovely! Im 20 ❤️

  • @itssnotsobad
    @itssnotsobad 7 лет назад +4

    Lauren, you are honestly my favorite RUclipsr! :) your personality is amazing, your kind, you love rats, and you like girls. just like me. I adore rats, girls, and my friends say im kind. :) I hope you can give me some advice on coming out, cause I haven't yet and I also want to... although, I may still be too young. deep down, I know that I have strong feelings for girls, however I do not have those same feelings for boys. The reason I think im too young is because im only 11. please somebody, give me advice.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад

      Aw you are honestly too kind. 💘 That's so cool that we are similar! Everyone is different, some people know from birth they are gay and some people take 20 years to figure it out (like me) and that's okay! Come out when you feel ready and if its safe to.

  • @maeeliz
    @maeeliz 7 лет назад +1

    Love ur story ❤️ it was inspiring

  • @Maoriwestside4LYF
    @Maoriwestside4LYF 8 лет назад +3

    cool video well done on your story.

  • @dbellman89
    @dbellman89 7 лет назад +1

    good for you

  • @HaiHai-yj9fu
    @HaiHai-yj9fu 7 лет назад +4

    How old are you?

  • @mafertalla2390
    @mafertalla2390 7 лет назад +3

    Where are you from

  • @artstuff4882
    @artstuff4882 7 лет назад +4

    It must of been hard

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  7 лет назад +1

      I was really lucky, some people unfortunately get it a lot worse than me, so although it is and was a struggle for me personally, I don't think I could say it was hard. xo

  • @gunusingh9506
    @gunusingh9506 4 года назад

    your voice so preety and nice

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 10 месяцев назад

    💜💜

  • @vildeve818
    @vildeve818 8 лет назад +4

    Maybe demisexual homoromantic? Idk, you do you, just saying that sexual attraction and romantic attraction doesn't have to be the same 😊 Great story btw 👍 I can relate 👀

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  8 лет назад +1

      +Vilde VE Yeah I honestly think that might be it but Im not sure so I think lesbian is just easier for people around me to understand. Thank you thank you thank you! 💕

  • @elyctre
    @elyctre 5 лет назад +2

    there nothing wrong with being lesbian