Yes. You can term it anyway you need. The essence, the knowing. It's not a passing of fleeting thing, but a deep mind and body experience... how can you start getting clear on that you associate having with the end experience and start connecting that you experience some of that now so you can start to connect it is natural for you!
@@homelessrobotin Neville's teachings the focus is on imagining what you want happening already. you already experience it in your imagination and once you feel completely satisfied/not desiring whatever it is anymore, that's the feeling of the wish fulfilled. the only "work" is visualizing/affirming. that's it! There's ppl who swear by robotic affirmations and nothing else. It's EXACTLY like athletes visualizing their performance going well. they "feel" themselves going through the physical motions. the confidence/emotions and overall assumption catches up later! the faith/trust in the fulfilled desire is the process of going back to that particular "it is done" feeling. not ever trying to force an emotion. bc that's awful and hard and seriously not healthy! I've manifested good things the next day while feeling angry the day before and wonderful things happening while I was grieving a loss and couldn't get out of bed. it still blows my mind how it works tbh but that is what Neville taught. it's simple and we all tend to overcomplicate it! hope that helps explain the quote a little bit!
@@dareactthinkyes I use the law as often as I can! it's usually relief from the feeling of not having whatever it was(lacking) and feeling fulfilled, so sure an emotion. that's the feeling of the wish fulfilled, you "know" it's done not anything specific you need to work to conjure up. but what I'm trying to say is that whatever I felt after the imaginal act/deciding I already had it and the actual thing appearing in my life, did not freaking matter one bit. even if it took a week or a month, I cried, got angry and even doubted at times. it still worked. just like Neville spoke and wrote about.
Been studying metaphysics for over 20 years. Student of Dr Dispenza. Easy trick when your mind goes to the “old story “ this from Neville. Shut it down fast. Don’t give it any attention just slam a door in your mind to it. Even thinking “oh that’s the old story “ keeps it around too long. It’s always going to show up. Basically laugh at it. Best to you. From an old timer. Lol
YES!!! It is true. You were born worthy and deserving and that means you are and have ALWAYS been that way! Let those old ideas go. A big key is to also help your body let this energy go to via somatic exercises and movements! You CAN do this!
1) Identify the precise feeling that the wish fulfilled will bring you that you are looking for 2) How have you experienced that feeling already, even in a small way... then recall that and amplify it. 3) When an "event" pops up, a feeling follows depending on the meaning that the story you tell yourself gives it. Make sure you get clear on the story, deny any story/meaning that is not in alignment with the feeling of the wish fulfilled. ABC = Awareness, Breath, Choice (choose the desired feeling state) = retraining the nervous system and the brain synapses to rewire in alignment with the desired outcome.
@@christiansamaroo you are right you can’t just do this superficially. They must reach the depth of the ubconscious assumption. they can run unconscious and until you use the light of awareness(your conscious awareness) you can then change them. As long as they are left unconscious you have no chance to change them so they will keep repeating even if undesired experiences happen.
@@christiansamaroo Right ! That’s why we have to do them just before sleeping, we have to be in a sleepy drowsy state it’s easier to impress the subconscious. I also can say then when I meditate on daily basis everything is coming to me very fast. I need something, I think about it, and in a blink of an eye I obtein it … in a various ways. It’s Like a Magic
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 854 subs and > 400 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
WOW!!! Thank you so much for sharing this!! I am so happy for you and so proud of you!! Congratulations on the success, but most of all for trusting yourself and having the courage to begin to BE that ideal self now 🥳🥳🥳🥳🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
@@AbbyRuston Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my RUclips channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a RUclipsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this RUclips thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
@@Satori100 I'm so glad that I've been inspiring some people to some extent. That means a lot. I, myself, was struggling a lot especially in the beginning. I remember being tearful as I was getting emotional as i was writing my 1st script because it made me realize how far I have come so far at this stage of my life. I can share my hardships through words and videos but they won't really exactly represent how difficult it was for me to overcome those hardships. From losing my parents at young age, being bullied physically and emotionally, being ridiculed for coming out, gender transitioning, and even the fact of quitting Nursing just so I can have more time for my channel, freelancing and actually spend enough time for myself and loved ones. No words or videos can show these but knowing that I can potentially inspire others through my stories and setbacks, it gives me more reasons to keep going and keep creating inspiring content as much as I could and in the best way I can. You have your own different journey and each of us does. I don't know what exactly you're going through but keep in mind that you can be your own best friend or enemy. Your mind is very powerful if you use it wisely. As Steve Job once said, "Stay hungry, stay foolish. You're already naked. There's no reason not to follow your heart". This simple quote has a profound impact on my life and I'm hoping that for you as well. :)
I've always been very off and on with manifestation. On the one hand, I've had a few experiences that can't be explained away- they were way too specific to be coincidence and they have been enough for me to believe it's possible to create consciously- and on the other, I've never been able to get it to work on anything approaching a consistent basis and as such, I airily dismiss it as "woo woo". This is the first video I've seen that cuts through my scepticism. This was really well done, thank you
Wow!!! This is such an honor to hear! I relate with you about the skeptism. I tried soooo hard in the past only to see nothing change and felt it didn't work and I didn't have what it took to make things change. Helping show this IS real is one of the entire reasons I make videos'. It brings me joy to hear this has helped you understand at such a degree it is deeper than the skepticism! One things for me is to remember that manifestation is very simple.. it means making visible what is invisible.. so our own inner beliefs created from past experiences and beliefs due to our early on messaging/environment is he lens we see through so we find more of the same AND we energetically attract and feel 'familiar' with. The more you start to "mind the Gap" THAT is the critical key so many miss on their opportunity to begin to really tap into magic that experience even at the science level of explanation.. Check out "double slit experience" in terms of how ability to effect matter! Thanks again so much for sharing your experience with me and don't hesitate to comment with questions on things that don't make sense or feel real!
It was your explanation of past experiences and underlying beliefs and feelings that shifted everything for me. My life has to a large extent, followed repeating patterns and looking at my own feelings and beliefs as a precursor to those patterns has really opened my eyes. I need to work (pretty extensively haha) on some of those before I can see results I'd be much happier with. I hope you make content for a long time to come. It feels like the beginning of a journey with you, for me. Thanks so much for your reply!
How beautiful! So glad to have you along for the journey! I will keep creating! One more note, The work of shifting a belief isn't about time of even effort many times although it sometimes can take those two things to get there, it's all about a perspective shift that can happen in the blink of an eye. It is really about getting to the roots of how the idea was formed. You are now an adult and you can look back of the ideas of those around you growing up and start to see if you agree. Not through the eyes of the young mind who experienced it, but from your adult self thinking of it if you saw yourself as a kid now. This can help to start to dissolve what can feel like an objective truth. The more you can do this, the more it will create room for your own true belief that's been beneath the other this whole time. Bc early on you HAD to adopt the beliefs of others and how they saw you to survive, now you don't! And you can now kick them to the curb and in that is your emotional liberation to live the life you were meant to live!
I could have written this except there was a period when I openly shared my efforts with a small band of friends as a "joke" and it worked so spectacularly that it changed all of us... but then I went off the rails in fear of losing it all, aging, dread of it not working forever, etc etc. I was not truly prepared in any way to have that much money and success so quickly. I am now back to this because I see how the alternative will play out but only after a deep dive into new science on consciousness - specifically the work of Bernard Kastrup and his take on Idealism. = We really do create our lives in the mental arena - why not make it beautiful?
The one thing I’ve noticed is, if I’m in a good mood, I’m in a manifesting mood. Things just kinda happen for me, they flow. But, if my mind isn’t right and my energy is low, it’s like a wall to blessings. You can try to “fake it till you make it” But, the universe is highly intelligent. It knows you’re faking it. It absolutely needs your energy and spirits high to tune you to the right blessings. A genuine feeling is Everything.
Energy can’t be faked.. ever. It is or it isn’t. You can try to help yourself create momentum and movement with a “fake it” sort of mentality but in the end you will have to feel it to actually receive it. The process of how to do that is where it can get confusing. Shifting the dominant mood or energy is where the magic is. And yes I very much agree with you that a deep, genuine feeling is everything 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@@AbbyRuston I think positive experiences, positive relationships, clean organized living space, daily exercise that involves moving around and lots of sweating out, positive talk not just to yourself but to other ppl as well (no gossip or complaining or partaking in any interaction that lowers your energy), daily deep meditation to center yourself, and of course treating your vessel (body) with utmost respect by eating nutrient dense foods and completely staying away from anything that will alter your mind (alcohol, illicit drugs etc). I know that for me in order to genuinely feel positive and be positive, I have to experience positive things, and my daily routine and living space has to be up to my standard. Stressful events and low vibing people will affect our vibration as well.
Holy shit I just got it. I’ve been doing the thought experiment only. I’ve just been thinking about the feeling instead of feeling the feeling. That’s never jumped out to me before and I’m many many many similar videos and a yr+ deep. This changes everything. Thank you, Abby. ❤ Thank you so very much.
🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 VERY excited to hear this!! I'm proud of you for having the courage to let go of the old perspective and open up to hear/see in a new way! Please keep us updated with how this new understanding effects your life! Remember, YOU realized this. The power for change always comes from within and never outside of you! This power is yours and yours alone!
When you said “the environment lacked what I NEEDED….” THAT hit me and I said “WOW - that’s it! It’s not ME who is the PROBLEM - I’m ok JUST AS I AM and IM WORTHY - the ENVIRONMENT (my empty house, my marriage in distress, my children turning their backs on me for almost 3 years) is the environment that HASNT given ME what I needed….. hearing you say that sent an eye opening understanding to me - so NOW I can sit inside MYSELF and be grateful for WHAT I HAVE LIVED through and say “You Amanda are ok - I’m proud of you and look how far YOU have come surviving and THAT will help me keep telling myself that IM OK and I just need to FEEL grateful as out what I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED and to not DWELL on “what’s WRONG WITH ME?????” - is that RIGHT ABBY?
I'm so glad it helped. I want to make sure it's clear, the biggest part of the environment lacking what you needed was about childhood. Understanding you didn't get what you needed as a kid bc the adults didn' have it.. so letting go of any idea that it was your fault or you lacked something is easier when you understand this.. when it comes to current day situations a lot of the times you are either seeing through the perceptional bias of those past wounds or have attracted ppl who echo the lack of emotional availability just like your early environment.. when it comes to children i do think it's different bc children aren't meant to be the emotional supports of parents. I'm sure your situation is complex and painful and not validating or in any way saying any one who treats you bad is ok, just wanted to make it very clear as to what i am saying so you can get the most clarity and benefit from it ❤️
Thank you for posting this video. You are so articulate and on point and not trying to sell us your courses or crap like that. There are people out there who don't even know how to properly express themselves who are charging ninety seven dollars for Neville's "course" stuff. Thank you for not being a merchant.
I rarely comment on youtube, but had to this time because I absolutely love this video! One of the best explanations of Goddard's teaching that I've ever heard. Simple, concise, easy to understand. It's been challenging for me to separate the feelings from the thinking. But now...wow! I get it. Thank you!
Wow! Thank you for sharing this with me! It's so powerful and inspiring to hear it and I'm excited to share the next one that i'm currently working on to hopefully bring even more clarity!! ❤️🙏
As a musician I always loved the Doors, doors of perception led me to William Blake, William Blake led me to Neville Goddard. Ive been noticing Fulfilling my wishes before bed helps my conscious and subconscious meet at night, and I wake up like a g lol. Goddard is the man!
Thank you so much for your time and love to share this with me! It really means a lot and inspires me to create even more! So grateful to have you here and for your time in sharing your experience!
Excellent video. Things are truly starting to work for me (lots of obvious 3D movement) and based on what is working for me, everything you say is spot on. Let me add, FAITH....Enormous amounts of trust and belief. 👍 Do NOT panic, you've got this.
That is a great point! What i find so interesting about confidence is the etymplogy of the word is trust..so learning you can be confident in your faith is heavily based in learning to trust yourself! This helps me to take my power back anytime i start to forget! Thanks so much for sharing this important aspect to things!
It's criminal that you do not have half a million or so subscribers. You are good, rather very good. I like you, Abby, I like your honesty. Gladly I subscribe your channel; wish I were the millionth. Good luck.
🥹🙏 Thank you for this. I really appreciate your support and encouragement! It means a lot to hear and get that support! This channel is on it's way, together! We are growing together both within and in number!! 🥳🥳🥳
Thank you for explaining this stuff. It’s hard to listen to people talk about getting rid of subconscious beliefs without explaining what you’re literally supposed to do in real life, thank you! I subscribed!
YESS!! I feel you. It's like ok then a magical thing happens and suddenly an entire framework with how i saw the world disappears and we dance into the sunset! I struggled with this too which is why it took me a long time to understand and why i want to share it so it can help you too! It's simple, but the past traumatic experience is what makes those beliefs feel so concrete and true. You can shift them and shift and heal your energy! I'm rooting for you!
I like you. I like your no nonsense...no whiney 'Hi guys!' delivery. I feel like you walked into the darkened room I'm in, flipped on the lights and said, let's go... I'm ready😊.
You definitely get my vibe! Lets' get to the point bc no one has time for bs! So glad the video helped you gain some clarity! I really do connect to the words of Ram Dass " we're all just walking each other home" ❤️
Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience with me! It inspires me for future videos to know it’s connecting and helping! I struggled so long confused and for a long time it felt like everything I learned was just another thing bc I couldn’t see the common thread. It’s beautiful to know this video helped connect the dots too 😃
Dear Abby, you are so amazing it made me cry. I feel so privileged to have found your channel. Much love to you, your light is so beautiful. May the universe keep blessings you every moment of your life xo
"FEELING GETS THE BLESSING." ~ Rev. Ike Thousands of churches along with so many religions have worked very hard to keep such ancient scripture from you all. ❤❤❤
I've been listening to the audiobook "feeling is the secret "daily but you have helped me to understand what I never understood and how I can make a practical application of it. thank you
Fantastic! My next video will also help shed a little more light on this topic and idea so hope that one helps too! It will also touch a bit on law of assumption!
Yes - this is huge! Extremely powerful nuisances!!! Your pics, labels & process choices are illustrated perfectly bcz you emphasize the trigger moments! I love it!!!😅
I totally agree with you. I tried my best thinking positive thoughts. But nothing happened. But the moment i turn on the TV to watch my favorite wholesome travel show that makes me so happy, things just start getting better. Or when i listen to a song that uplifts me
That is a great point! The assumptions we have I believe block us from the being state of the feeling of our desired reality. The more awareness you gain of it, the more you can shift your consciousness and create that new feeling as your dominate experience!
That is absolutely true. And sometimes we are dwelling on the patterns unconsciously which is where understanding this can be so confusing. It took me many years to even understand that about things, but when i did it really helped bring more clarity! Hoping to help everyone watching to get more clear so we can all grow together! 🥳 thanks for watching!
Just came across your channel. You absolutely got it! Love this! At the end of the day, we want things because they make us feel a certain way. Example: Why do I want someone to show me love on a daily basis, text me a lot, show genuine effort etc.? Because it’s going to make me feel loved, seen, recognised. And why do I want to feel those things exactly? So I feel worthy and confident about myself and in control. Boom! The answers are different for everybody of course. I think that’s what Joe Dispenza also said: Feel the feelings now. Give them to yourself. Then you embody the version of you that has it, hence you become more detached to outcome as you already feel the feelings you were seeking outside of you. That’s what hen makes you magnetic. 😊
Hey! This is an EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT video on the feeling state. I’ve read the material and watched countless videos on “feeling is the secret” but NEVER EVER had it presented like this. Did I say this was an EXCELLENT video?!?! Okay, just making sure I did. I really did not “get” this until NOW, right now! It is true that I was aware of perpetually recreating the story and as Bob Proctor said “getting emotionally involved” in it, (anchoring it in my reality). However, I was unaware of HOW I was doing it. And NOW I realize I HAVE to be present AND notice when I feel triggered. That is the moment to IMMEDIATELY STOP the narrative COMPLETELY and change it!!! Wow, wow, wow, this was just what I needed thank you x ♾️😇🙌
Had an aha moment watching this-thank you! Well explained. Step one is where I’m hung up, and it’s because I want the feeling of financial and creative freedom, and I spend too much time establishing the feeling of control.
Well freedom, in my opinion, freedom is about autonomy. It's less about controlling and more about flowing and navigating what comes. It's not about the absense of something but having the self trust to use your intution to find situations that also reflect that trust ie more resouces both with money and more creative ideas both require responsibility. So the control is rigid.. It could be about fearing you can't get there or can't handle something... so the root of this is learning what you are fearing.. did you grow up where someone doubted your abilities in solving a problem... did adults say you were selfish if you had more than you needed? What possible issue would you have if you did have the financial resources? Would you feel alienated? would you be judged by those you love? The more you really build your introspection muscle the more you can gain conscious awareness of what fear is fueling that impulse to control that is actually blocking you off from the opening up of the faucet of energetic flow with creative and finances! Hope this helps!
The feelings you want to feel are on the other side of the feelings you’re unwilling to feel (unconsciously). When you’re willing to fully consciously experience them they tend to change and dissolve into wisdom and the state that Aby describes.
Yes!! This is why feeling is so important. It's pulling in equal experience to that feeling.. so using your thoughts to shift your consciousness level via more awareness will help you shift to a new feeling state that feels natural and is automatic and you will magnetize an equal experience to that new feeling!
Oh my god this is precious!!! You are precious. Geez I just got over a subconscious block but I didn't understand what to do next and this helped a lot. Thank you. I am so so lucky and thankful that I got watch this video.
Ok, I have watched a lot of videos on this subject of Feeling and you by FAR are the best. OMG I feel a sense of understanding I have not felt before and I am so grateful for you and your sharing. Thank You Thank You Thank You!
I am thankful that i went through debilitating anxiety because the parallel of the healing process of anxiety and what you are teaching is crazy. Event - Story - Feeling.
@AbbyRuston in order to heal from anxiety, you need to change the narrative that you tell yourself. If not, you'll continue to be in the anxiety loop. Much like what you're saying in this video. You need to change the narrative and feel the narrative. Regardless if you feel otherwise. You need to believe your new truth as oppose to the opposite.
I promise the great divine led me here because I have been needing clarity on my spiritual journey and this helps connect what’s going on in my mind vs my reality and this has help me tremendously love 🤧🙌🏾🥰
So happy to hear this! I'm not sure what you are going through, but I know that you are worthy and deserving of having your needs met and living in joy! Any idea or past experience is not a reflection of you and you can transmute that and release it in the totality that is needed to shift to a new pattern! I'm rooting for you!
It’s belief! You must believe, that you believe! Everyone is different but there is nothing different for anyone other than belief ( absolute unwavering belief) this is your key 🔑
Yes! You've got it. Learning how to hold the space that the believe is safe, learning how to create that belief and shift your awareness to your true worth is what will change all of us! May we all find our key!
I love this so much. I'm realizing that when I visualize I am lacking the emotional feeling. I can clearly visualize a scene and even have auditory and touch while visualizing, but have been lacking the emotional feeling. Even when it has come to dating, visually amd on paper I know what I want in a partner, but have been lacking the open emotional connection to it, so my dating experiences have been short and many as I have not felt lasting connection feelings and instead hinge to the short moments and find people that reflect that back.
Totally understandable! Learning to visualize in a more effective way is a skill and you can learn to do it! Sounds like you've got some great components already so you aren't starting from scratch! Understanding what emotion will a loving relationship bring you? cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1536/4861/files/Feel_good_emotions_2.jpg?v=1556302491 Get clear on what you associate you'd feel by having the relationship.. then start to see if you have those feelings already in your life even in the smallest way. Also ask if when you were young, when you felt that did you get in trouble? Was in shunned? Was it looked down on? Was it seen a selfish? This can help to bring to your awareness an unconscious fear that would be repelling the love and those feelings from coming into your life. Hope this helps!
Thank you. Your explanation helped a lot. I asked the same question myself of how to feel the feeling when you have never experienced them before. And I too am coming from the brain to convince myself what the feeling should be. I will apply what you taught me today. I know I can manifest my biggest dreams Thank you and God bless you
Absolutely! My next video I will dive a little more into how to feel something you've never experienced bc i know it can feel and be very confusing! so stay tuned!
Thank You! Love how you explained each concept so it is grounded and usable. The stories are very quick to give meaning that is not always true or worth the bother.
Wow!! Nice video .. there are a lot of teachers out there but you truly have a unique gift.. imo .. it’s clear it’s understandable and enlightening.. thank you!! I always enjoy seeing your work pop up
Neville Goddard's teachings emphasize the importance of consistent practice in manifesting our desires. Like any skill, mastering the art of conscious creation requires dedication, repetition, and refinement. By regularly immersing ourselves in the feelings of already having achieved our goals and persistently aligning our thoughts and emotions with our desired outcomes, we strengthen our manifestation abilities. Just as with any practice, the more we engage with Neville's principles and apply them in our lives, the more proficient we become at harnessing the creative power of our imagination to shape our reality.
One of my favorite quotes is inspired by something I heard Neville Goddard say in one of his lectures. I have it posted on the wall of my work space at my job. "Do not believe in it. Believe it in. "
Thank you for your content! It makes great sense. I might add rather than bypassing the STORY, to remove it by using Byron Katie’s “The Work” questions (do you know the story is absolutely true, who would you be without the story, and turn the story around) to dissolve the story and rewrite it to get to the desired feeling. Thank you again. I look forward to using your method married with Byron Katie’s questions to rewrite the story. God bless you and all your viewers.
Yes! Love her! I have read her book and have used her app on my phone many times when i found myself deep in the limiting story. I recommend some somatic exercises to help regulate your nervous system so you can make the best use of the work. If you can do her questions in that triggered state and it's effect, more power to you! Thanks again for sharing! 🥳
I watched your second video.. with the cup and bringing it into your heart. I started to feel the love , tranquility etc but then I saw a cliff of dirt in front of me with a trail in the desert and the cliff got bigger and bigger. I don’t know what that’s all about. Anyway. I have a very negative husband and every time I try to change he turns things around with negativity. He doesn’t understand this kind of change he thinks it’s crazy. I’ve always taught him that you have to think positive. But i can’t change him I can only change myself but feel I’m being held back. I love him dearly but I need change.. I want to change I want a better life and financial freedom.
Did you have a negative parent growing up? or someone who would be "realistic" and point out all the negative stuff that could go wrong? That maybe made you feel like your dreams were always getting stepped on or crushed?
Thank You Very Abby Ruston for your clear explanation, Lynn Grabhorn talks about this as well. Good Thing You Are Not Talking About Head Stuff Like "Thoughts & Thinking" Which Brings Nothing but Bad Sleep!!! NOW DROP THE WORD "WANT" BECAUSE "WANTING" THAT WOULD BE ALLOWED INSTEAD "BEING THAT"!!! Emotional Association Comment is Good!!!😀😀😀
This is so Brilliant....thank you very much To sum up the key point... Immerse yourself in that end emotion (feeling state) and live from there, permanently ❤️💫🎉
This is the first time I'm watching your video and I really enjoyed it, simplicity in your teaching makes you unique and fun to watch and easy to understand! Greatly appreciated 🙏
Thank you! I do my best to keep it simple and practical. No one has time to waste! Let's be clear, do our inner world and enjoy our human experience 🥳🥳
Well this video was right on time. I had a dream on November 5th that I was telling one of my friends that she was repeating her old story and she needed to change it. Great video!
Correct me if I am wrong. I read before that when Neville talked about feeling, he said he is not talking about emotions. its about the sense of you having IT now. You feel your surrounding becoming the end of what you are asking for. Maybe I missed out something somewhere.
Yes I agree that its not just a fleeting or superficial emotion. the essence of that inner experience inside of you that is associated with you having that external experience. Some may call it's a knowing, a state.. in my experience it's easier to get gain awareness of what emotion you associate with... then start to see you have micro versions of that. This really helped me bridge the gap that this wish could actually be part of my life.. its like building a capacity.. this is what helped me.. before.i felt so separate and had no idea of to experience a feeling of having it bc it felt so separate. What i share its how i took this concept and applied it to my life in hopes it can offer you the same benefits! All the best!
Thanks so much for this! I really appreciate you taking the time to share it with me! So glad it was so powerful and helped clear things up! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 remember it is always YOU changing your life. That power is yours and yours alone
Hi. This is a pretty well thought out video. If I could make one small suggestion, when you mention a study, like the one about playing piano mentally, you might mention your source in case viewers are interested in learning more about it. 👍
I discovered the teachings of Neville Godard a few weeks ago and I have been trying to instill some of his ideas in me I know it takes time but from the day I it started it gave me a sense of new hope and I am experiencing some amazing things and some of my manifestion are coming true ❤grateful
Thank you Abby for your heartfelt presence.💖I have 2 questions: many people who had Near Death Experiences or other Mystical experiences, after experiencing Oneness, or unconditional love, claim that Life events are actually pre-determined. They were told the future events and when they return to the 3D, they just 'allowed' Life to work through them, without using Law of Attraction and the such. What do you think of that? Another question is how do you maintain the good manifesting feeling? Thank you!🦋
I am also very curious of listening to NDE stories. I haven't heard someone saying life is determined, but I'd be interested to hear their experience as well. I've heard is more like like is a river that is flowing and there is a certain amount of allowing. In my opinion, We are in collaboration with a high energy that works through us. When we tap into our true essence, I believe we allow that energy to fully flow. When we hold on to distortions of ourself in a self limiting way based on our lil kid brains in situations that were really hard and we didn't understand, we block the flow. So i think no matter if we flow or block off that energy cord, we always get a reflection of it and attract it's equal. 2) Manifestation is simply making the invisible visible.. meaning our beliefs and assumptions will be seen in our outside experiences. How we interpret, who we go for, what we choose to do, what story we tell.. it's all filtered through that assumpion and ultimately what becomes visible in our life. So it's about shifting your dominant feeling a higher energy to get that reflected.. we are all naturally very high energy beings.. when that river fully flows through us.. so in my opinion, it's about releasing the old ideas of ourself that cut off that supply.. and releasing them is about shifting the story of why it happened and also doing somatic work to release the energy in our body and fully process things that we hadn;t been able to process so we can return back to our natural state. Does this make sense?
This is super helpful.OMG. Thank you so much Abby! I especially found you drawing out Story -> Event -> Feeling and running through a scenario of what could happen and how to tweak it the MOST helpful and clear!
🥹🥹🙌🏼 SO happy to hear this!! I hope this shows you it's not a ability, you just need clarity the more you are open to it, the more you will become aware! The big thing here is applying it! I promise all the discomfort in those moments is worth the shift it will produce. You got this!!!
Thanks Abby! ❤ Need to look into the abandonment/rejection side of things. I keep on repeating this pattern and need to break out of this to allow positive changes in my life. 🙏
Yes! This playlist is totally devoted to helping you understand and start to see how to break out with the ABC method! ruclips.net/p/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja
I do feel I try to impress the feeling of being loved into the subconscious but its counterpart is feeling not Loved. I dont know how to consistently overcome the feeling of Not being loved/ wanted/ rejected
This is a great question and something i can make a video on in the future! So I will do my best here to explain it, but know there will be more on it later as well! So you have experiences early on where those you had to reply on for connection or love were either mean and cold, too busy, very critical, or so wrapped up in their own world they could have been physically there, but emotionally were not.. those things hurt you and they would hurt anyone.. however.. your perspective of WHY that happened is where you can regain your power.. that early on environment didn't reject you bc you weren't good enough or lacking in anyway, they treated you that way bc of what THEY lacked.. that doesn't mean they are bad ppl, but they are humans and we all have our own stuff. So early on you had to relate to your environment this way to survive.. well now that idea that someone treats you or does something to you is bc of YOU is the replay of that old feeling.. so you have to start to see the past different which can SIGNIFICANTLY drop a lot of the lower vibration emotions such as guilt or shame.. then as you are dissolving that it is very important you build the skill I shared in secret #3 to step out of those old interpretations which will help you break free of. Know that you are a beautiful person and you growing into your highest self will benefit all of us on earth bc you are that valuable! I am sending you love! Let me know if this helps or if you have more questions to get more clear! I'm here to help!
@@AbbyRuston thank you! Its makes so much sense. I experienced my Mom being not really emotional with me, almost since my birth bc my dad was very ill and died when I was 4 months old so I was a Lot with my grandparents. I know its not that she rejected me because she didnt want me, but because she Herself was in so much pain and I know she loves me. However I See this pattern with men, some left me, some Show Up hot and cold and I get easily being triggered that Im gonna be rejected, btw sometimes its something they say that dont even mean that but I see it through that lense (I watched your Video about that IT was very helpful!)which I guess manifests them then to do so or Hurt me or are emotionally unavailable or half ass because they are my mirror (EIYPO). Its fun. In the beginning its wonderful and I think wow Im so Happy, thats almost too good to be true, my anxiety and fears kick in and it goes to shit, thats the reason I believe in manifestation bc I see this pattern once my fears kick in Happening/manifesting with each and every man I Fell in Love with
I FEEL YOU!! I get in my own way and I'm here to say you CAN break out of this.. for me it felt the answer what to find someone to love me and THEN i would feel better. The real answer for me was to see when i was self abandoning.. The part 3 of my video is how i broke out of the self abandonment cycle.. basically you start giving herself more of what you need in that moment and are emotionally available to yourself which shifts who and what you attract into your life.. over time emotionally unavailable ppl were no longer interesting or attractive bc i wasn't so desperate for them to love me nor did i feel if they didn't love me i would be all alone. I also felt so much better bc me being there for myself relieved SO much pain. Here is a playlist for abandonment patterns ruclips.net/p/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja And here is a playlist on how to attract reliable love ruclips.net/p/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7fPVsVt7ZBNbIJr07RCGyv
You are incredible strong to have grown up in an environment that was really intense and heavy... every child needs connection so you were never asking for too much. Also that yearning to connect with your mom but she was unavailable could be playing out when you want to connect with others emotionally.. the pattern would be they are too busy or they are distracted by something/someone else.. you can break this pattern ❤️
An added bonus to those seeking financial independence is to be around successful people, luxurious things and wealthy environments. Go to upper class neighborhoods around million-dollar homes, a Mercedes dealership & get in some of the cars, smell the leather, etc... And yes, feel yourself already in possession of whatever it is you want in your life. Make sure at the same time you're not in a negative thinking pattern of "I could never afford this". KNOW that it's already yours and being in the present moment instead of thinking or hoping for a brighter future. You're already there! Feel it and believe it to be so!
Im a bit confused. You say emotional state. Neville defines the feeling not as an emotion but naturalness? What do you mean emotional state? Thank you.
Great question! Yes. Ideally that feeling is just a natural aspect of life.. however getting there can feel hard..it was for me.. bc i kept wanting to feel that end experience and have it feel natural....but my current life was so different. i felt very disconnected on how to get there.. when i tried to imagine it, it just felt like i was lying to myself... so from my experience as i talked about in #1 and #2.. get clear on how YOU best define that feeling.. end emotion, essence, whatever that looks like for you.. then use #2 to start to see how that exists in your life now so it is more natural. This is what I personally used that help me relate to it and begin to feel it and ultimately create it to be a natural part of my life. Does this make sense?
Wasn't it Neville Goddard who said when he wanted to manifest something, he'd work himself into an emotional excitement about that thing, how he'd feel having obtained whatever it was and holding that feeling for 3 minutes?
Hi Abby, what do you think of the idea that the "unavailable" partner is just our assumption and if we change, they will. I have a difficult time accepting this, especially as i move up in consciousness. Some people are just not secure partner material at this point.
This is a great question! I think this is where the misunderstanding of the law can run us into delusion.. so in my perspective and experience, there are two different things... 1) you can assume some sort of idea that you aren't enough or those who you want don't want you and attract ppl who reflect that to you... they don't have the emotional availability for you bc you assume you aren't worth it 2) the second thing that can happen is you can translate interactions through the assumption everyone is leaving or not interested... even if they do have the emotional space for you... so learning to do secret #3 can break someone out of that.... I do not believe changing an assumption changes someone else if they are emotionally unavailable... changing the assumption changes what we see and how we navigate which changes the outcome... when you change the assumption about yourself those who don't have the emotional capacity will no longer bc attractive or interesting and they will shift out and you will attract those who do have the emotional space... the other thing that could feel like ppl respond different is when you remove the assumption they are rejecting you in the moment.. and see it differently then you can connect with the emotional situation that was there already... does this make sense?
@AbbyRuston yes and thank you so much for such a detailed reply. Personally, I think I am a catch :-p I don't have any worthiness issues, after yrs of doing this internal work. My kinda of theory is that ok in potential we are all perfect and complete and since creation is finished then yes there are different versions of everyone available. However, how close is someone's version to what we have in mind, imagine, affirm etc is highly individualized depending on his journey and his level of consciousness. So, yes, potentially, we are all secure, great partners but when it comes down to it, in 3D life, there are a lot of elements to be considered. Me becoming secure resulted in not being attracted to unavailable people anymore or unfulfilling etc. But I heard comments that I didn't persist enough into "recreating" someone in my mind, where I just decided it was a waste of my time.
@@mariadeli6609 if all our time and energy is being spent creating someone outside ourself so we can have our desired experience.. it’s my opinion that’s self abandonment bc our energy is not with ourselves.. and this structure is echoing the early on environment where the wounds were first created. As a kid we NEEDED those around us to change in order for our needs to be met bc we couldn’t do it on our own nor could we leave for a better equipped environment..so focusing on the outside to change is that same impulse.. recognizing the dynamics that create the wounds and shift our perspective and transformation the energy of that wound is what allows us to change our experience and then see that reflected back as a natural reaction to that inner world
@AbbyRuston thank you, that was an excellent explanation of attachment wounding and our orientation towards outside sources to get our needs met. It is such a vicious cycle because we use choose people and experiences that are of the same cloth as the primary caregivers, resulting in us feeling more traumatized. Dr. DiSpenza's work has been profound in training our bodies emotionally to a new mindset and it has been my go to practice for yrs. I appreciate your timely response. Keep up the amazing content. It's important 😌 👌
Bravo to you! I hear a lot of ex Catholicism in you. I'm ex Catholic... I freed myself from all that black magic mind control. WE ARE WORTHY!!! Despite Catholic mind control that teaches the opposite. Love you babe! ❤️
Very good eye to spot the cathlolic energy. I never went to catholic church but my extended family did and i went to a catholic school for 3 years. It is always amazing how much influence proximity has on us even if we aren't IN it, it can still have an influence! Yes. WE ARE WORTHY!!! Much love 🙏❤️
"When I speak of feeling, I do not mean emotion, but the acceptance of the fact that it is fulfilled" - Neville Goddard.
Yes. You can term it anyway you need. The essence, the knowing. It's not a passing of fleeting thing, but a deep mind and body experience... how can you start getting clear on that you associate having with the end experience and start connecting that you experience some of that now so you can start to connect it is natural for you!
@@AbbyRuston I didn't term it that way, Neville did. it's what he taught!
@@homelessrobot what is it that you are wanting to fulfill?
@@homelessrobotin Neville's teachings the focus is on imagining what you want happening already. you already experience it in your imagination and once you feel completely satisfied/not desiring whatever it is anymore, that's the feeling of the wish fulfilled. the only "work" is visualizing/affirming. that's it! There's ppl who swear by robotic affirmations and nothing else.
It's EXACTLY like athletes visualizing their performance going well. they "feel" themselves going through the physical motions. the confidence/emotions and overall assumption catches up later! the faith/trust in the fulfilled desire is the process of going back to that particular "it is done" feeling. not ever trying to force an emotion. bc that's awful and hard and seriously not healthy!
I've manifested good things the next day while feeling angry the day before and wonderful things happening while I was grieving a loss and couldn't get out of bed. it still blows my mind how it works tbh but that is what Neville taught. it's simple and we all tend to overcomplicate it!
hope that helps explain the quote a little bit!
@@dareactthinkyes I use the law as often as I can! it's usually relief from the feeling of not having whatever it was(lacking) and feeling fulfilled, so sure an emotion. that's the feeling of the wish fulfilled, you "know" it's done not anything specific you need to work to conjure up.
but what I'm trying to say is that whatever I felt after the imaginal act/deciding I already had it and the actual thing appearing in my life, did not freaking matter one bit. even if it took a week or a month, I cried, got angry and even doubted at times. it still worked. just like Neville spoke and wrote about.
Been studying metaphysics for over 20 years. Student of Dr Dispenza. Easy trick when your mind goes to the “old story “ this from Neville. Shut it down fast. Don’t give it any attention just slam a door in your mind to it. Even thinking “oh that’s the old story “ keeps it around too long. It’s always going to show up. Basically laugh at it. Best to you. From an old timer. Lol
I also heard Alan Watts once say "tell your mind to SHUT UP" 😂
I swear before all this work ( good work) My mind was a speeding train!!So "shut up" works!!@@averyintelligence
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Thank you for sharing, I get that all the time.
Good advice!
“I didn’t lack anything, the environment lacked what I need” 💯❗️
YES!!! It is true. You were born worthy and deserving and that means you are and have ALWAYS been that way! Let those old ideas go. A big key is to also help your body let this energy go to via somatic exercises and movements! You CAN do this!
In fact, the environment doesn't lack it, the society planted that idea.
1) Identify the precise feeling that the wish fulfilled will bring you that you are looking for
2) How have you experienced that feeling already, even in a small way... then recall that and amplify it.
3) When an "event" pops up, a feeling follows depending on the meaning that the story you tell yourself gives it. Make sure you get clear on the story, deny any story/meaning that is not in alignment with the feeling of the wish fulfilled. ABC = Awareness, Breath, Choice (choose the desired feeling state) = retraining the nervous system and the brain synapses to rewire in alignment with the desired outcome.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this out! It’s fun to read a recap via someone else bc it actually helps me learn too 🙌🏼🙌🏼🥳
False. If you’re doing it consciously it does not work. It has to be unconscious. Assumptions are unconscious.
@@christiansamaroo you are right you can’t just do this superficially. They must reach the depth of the ubconscious assumption. they can run unconscious and until you use the light of awareness(your conscious awareness) you can then change them. As long as they are left unconscious you have no chance to change them so they will keep repeating even if undesired experiences happen.
@@christiansamaroo correct!
@@christiansamaroo Right ! That’s why we have to do them just before sleeping, we have to be in a sleepy drowsy state it’s easier to impress the subconscious. I also can say then when I meditate on daily basis everything is coming to me very fast. I need something, I think about it, and in a blink of an eye I obtein it … in a various ways. It’s Like a Magic
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 854 subs and > 400 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
WOW!!! Thank you so much for sharing this!! I am so happy for you and so proud of you!! Congratulations on the success, but most of all for trusting yourself and having the courage to begin to BE that ideal self now 🥳🥳🥳🥳🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
@@AbbyRuston Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my RUclips channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a RUclipsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this RUclips thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
@@nathananderson8720 She IS extraordinary and so are you for acknowledging that.🌹
@@Satori100 I'm so glad that I've been inspiring some people to some extent. That means a lot. I, myself, was struggling a lot especially in the beginning. I remember being tearful as I was getting emotional as i was writing my 1st script because it made me realize how far I have come so far at this stage of my life. I can share my hardships through words and videos but they won't really exactly represent how difficult it was for me to overcome those hardships. From losing my parents at young age, being bullied physically and emotionally, being ridiculed for coming out, gender transitioning, and even the fact of quitting Nursing just so I can have more time for my channel, freelancing and actually spend enough time for myself and loved ones. No words or videos can show these but knowing that I can potentially inspire others through my stories and setbacks, it gives me more reasons to keep going and keep creating inspiring content as much as I could and in the best way I can.
You have your own different journey and each of us does. I don't know what exactly you're going through but keep in mind that you can be your own best friend or enemy. Your mind is very powerful if you use it wisely. As Steve Job once said, "Stay hungry, stay foolish. You're already naked. There's no reason not to follow your heart". This simple quote has a profound impact on my life and I'm hoping that for you as well. :)
Congratulations!!!
I've always been very off and on with manifestation. On the one hand, I've had a few experiences that can't be explained away- they were way too specific to be coincidence and they have been enough for me to believe it's possible to create consciously- and on the other, I've never been able to get it to work on anything approaching a consistent basis and as such, I airily dismiss it as "woo woo". This is the first video I've seen that cuts through my scepticism. This was really well done, thank you
Wow!!! This is such an honor to hear! I relate with you about the skeptism. I tried soooo hard in the past only to see nothing change and felt it didn't work and I didn't have what it took to make things change. Helping show this IS real is one of the entire reasons I make videos'. It brings me joy to hear this has helped you understand at such a degree it is deeper than the skepticism! One things for me is to remember that manifestation is very simple.. it means making visible what is invisible.. so our own inner beliefs created from past experiences and beliefs due to our early on messaging/environment is he lens we see through so we find more of the same AND we energetically attract and feel 'familiar' with. The more you start to "mind the Gap" THAT is the critical key so many miss on their opportunity to begin to really tap into magic that experience even at the science level of explanation.. Check out "double slit experience" in terms of how ability to effect matter! Thanks again so much for sharing your experience with me and don't hesitate to comment with questions on things that don't make sense or feel real!
It was your explanation of past experiences and underlying beliefs and feelings that shifted everything for me. My life has to a large extent, followed repeating patterns and looking at my own feelings and beliefs as a precursor to those patterns has really opened my eyes. I need to work (pretty extensively haha) on some of those before I can see results I'd be much happier with.
I hope you make content for a long time to come. It feels like the beginning of a journey with you, for me. Thanks so much for your reply!
How beautiful! So glad to have you along for the journey! I will keep creating! One more note, The work of shifting a belief isn't about time of even effort many times although it sometimes can take those two things to get there, it's all about a perspective shift that can happen in the blink of an eye. It is really about getting to the roots of how the idea was formed. You are now an adult and you can look back of the ideas of those around you growing up and start to see if you agree. Not through the eyes of the young mind who experienced it, but from your adult self thinking of it if you saw yourself as a kid now. This can help to start to dissolve what can feel like an objective truth. The more you can do this, the more it will create room for your own true belief that's been beneath the other this whole time. Bc early on you HAD to adopt the beliefs of others and how they saw you to survive, now you don't! And you can now kick them to the curb and in that is your emotional liberation to live the life you were meant to live!
I could have written this except there was a period when I openly shared my efforts with a small band of friends as a "joke" and it worked so spectacularly that it changed all of us... but then I went off the rails in fear of losing it all, aging, dread of it not working forever, etc etc. I was not truly prepared in any way to have that much money and success so quickly.
I am now back to this because I see how the alternative will play out but only after a deep dive into new science on consciousness - specifically the work of Bernard Kastrup and his take on Idealism.
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We really do create our lives in the mental arena - why not make it beautiful?
The feeling is conviction that what you want to happen is in fact a reality.
The one thing I’ve noticed is, if I’m in a good mood, I’m in a manifesting mood.
Things just kinda happen for me, they flow.
But, if my mind isn’t right and my energy is low, it’s like a wall to blessings.
You can try to “fake it till you make it” But, the universe is highly intelligent. It knows you’re faking it. It absolutely needs your energy and spirits high to tune you to the right blessings.
A genuine feeling is Everything.
Energy can’t be faked.. ever. It is or it isn’t. You can try to help yourself create momentum and movement with a “fake it” sort of mentality but in the end you will have to feel it to actually receive it. The process of how to do that is where it can get confusing. Shifting the dominant mood or energy is where the magic is. And yes I very much agree with you that a deep, genuine feeling is everything 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@@AbbyRuston I think positive experiences, positive relationships, clean organized living space, daily exercise that involves moving around and lots of sweating out, positive talk not just to yourself but to other ppl as well (no gossip or complaining or partaking in any interaction that lowers your energy), daily deep meditation to center yourself, and of course treating your vessel (body) with utmost respect by eating nutrient dense foods and completely staying away from anything that will alter your mind (alcohol, illicit drugs etc).
I know that for me in order to genuinely feel positive and be positive, I have to experience positive things, and my daily routine and living space has to be up to my standard. Stressful events and low vibing people will affect our vibration as well.
Holy shit I just got it. I’ve been doing the thought experiment only. I’ve just been thinking about the feeling instead of feeling the feeling. That’s never jumped out to me before and I’m many many many similar videos and a yr+ deep. This changes everything. Thank you, Abby. ❤ Thank you so very much.
🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 VERY excited to hear this!! I'm proud of you for having the courage to let go of the old perspective and open up to hear/see in a new way! Please keep us updated with how this new understanding effects your life! Remember, YOU realized this. The power for change always comes from within and never outside of you! This power is yours and yours alone!
Simply put. Same here I just got the mran point what she is talking g about I'm going to start meditation again and tap into that feeling
Yeahhhhhhhhh 🎉
Feeling is the ultimate confirmation of faith.
It’s about thinking/feeling FROM the wish fulfilled. BEING in the wish fulfilled
Yes it is!
One of the BEST videos that i have ever seen. Thanks a million.
Thanks so much for the kind feedback! I really appreciate you taking the time to share this with me! So glad you enjoyed it!
When you said “the environment lacked what I NEEDED….” THAT hit me and I said “WOW - that’s it! It’s not ME who is the PROBLEM - I’m ok JUST AS I AM and IM WORTHY - the ENVIRONMENT (my empty house, my marriage in distress, my children turning their backs on me for almost 3 years) is the environment that HASNT given ME what I needed….. hearing you say that sent an eye opening understanding to me - so NOW I can sit inside MYSELF and be grateful for WHAT I HAVE LIVED through and say “You Amanda are ok - I’m proud of you and look how far YOU have come surviving and THAT will help me keep telling myself that IM OK and I just need to FEEL grateful as out what I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED and to not DWELL on “what’s WRONG WITH ME?????” - is that RIGHT ABBY?
I'm so glad it helped. I want to make sure it's clear, the biggest part of the environment lacking what you needed was about childhood. Understanding you didn't get what you needed as a kid bc the adults didn' have it.. so letting go of any idea that it was your fault or you lacked something is easier when you understand this.. when it comes to current day situations a lot of the times you are either seeing through the perceptional bias of those past wounds or have attracted ppl who echo the lack of emotional availability just like your early environment.. when it comes to children i do think it's different bc children aren't meant to be the emotional supports of parents. I'm sure your situation is complex and painful and not validating or in any way saying any one who treats you bad is ok, just wanted to make it very clear as to what i am saying so you can get the most clarity and benefit from it ❤️
🙏this is the only video I’ll be listening to on repeat for a while🙏
You got this!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Thank you for posting this video. You are so articulate and on point and not trying to sell us your courses or crap like that. There are people out there who don't even know how to properly express themselves who are charging ninety seven dollars for Neville's "course" stuff. Thank you for not being a merchant.
I rarely comment on youtube, but had to this time because I absolutely love this video! One of the best explanations of Goddard's teaching that I've ever heard. Simple, concise, easy to understand. It's been challenging for me to separate the feelings from the thinking. But now...wow! I get it. Thank you!
Wow! Thank you for sharing this with me! It's so powerful and inspiring to hear it and I'm excited to share the next one that i'm currently working on to hopefully bring even more clarity!! ❤️🙏
This is Jesus’ teaching 🙏
As a musician I always loved the Doors, doors of perception led me to William Blake, William Blake led me to Neville Goddard. Ive been noticing Fulfilling my wishes before bed helps my conscious and subconscious meet at night, and I wake up like a g lol. Goddard is the man!
I got this recommended.. Thank you universe🎉❤
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I dont write comments often on youtube, but I just wanted to express my gratitude for such an underrated channel that you have
Thank you so much for your time and love to share this with me! It really means a lot and inspires me to create even more! So grateful to have you here and for your time in sharing your experience!
Excellent video.
Things are truly starting to work for me (lots of obvious 3D movement) and based on what is working for me, everything you say is spot on.
Let me add, FAITH....Enormous amounts of trust and belief. 👍
Do NOT panic, you've got this.
That is a great point! What i find so interesting about confidence is the etymplogy of the word is trust..so learning you can be confident in your faith is heavily based in learning to trust yourself! This helps me to take my power back anytime i start to forget! Thanks so much for sharing this important aspect to things!
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Thank YOU for all your great content 👏
@@jeffrowlette 🙏🙂🙌🏼
It's criminal that you do not have half a million or so subscribers. You are good, rather very good. I like you, Abby, I like your honesty. Gladly I subscribe your channel; wish I were the millionth. Good luck.
🥹🙏 Thank you for this. I really appreciate your support and encouragement! It means a lot to hear and get that support! This channel is on it's way, together! We are growing together both within and in number!! 🥳🥳🥳
Thank you for explaining this stuff. It’s hard to listen to people talk about getting rid of subconscious beliefs without explaining what you’re literally supposed to do in real life, thank you! I subscribed!
YESS!! I feel you. It's like ok then a magical thing happens and suddenly an entire framework with how i saw the world disappears and we dance into the sunset! I struggled with this too which is why it took me a long time to understand and why i want to share it so it can help you too! It's simple, but the past traumatic experience is what makes those beliefs feel so concrete and true. You can shift them and shift and heal your energy! I'm rooting for you!
I like you. I like your no nonsense...no whiney 'Hi guys!' delivery. I feel like you walked into the darkened room I'm in, flipped on the lights and said, let's go... I'm ready😊.
You definitely get my vibe! Lets' get to the point bc no one has time for bs! So glad the video helped you gain some clarity! I really do connect to the words of Ram Dass " we're all just walking each other home" ❤️
@@AbbyRuston 🤗 beautiful.
This was absolutely good - it’s crazy-I’ve been on this path for almost 5 years and the way you broke it down, made me resonate with it better.
Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience with me! It inspires me for future videos to know it’s connecting and helping! I struggled so long confused and for a long time it felt like everything I learned was just another thing bc I couldn’t see the common thread. It’s beautiful to know this video helped connect the dots too 😃
Dear Abby, you are so amazing it made me cry. I feel so privileged to have found your channel. Much love to you, your light is so beautiful. May the universe keep blessings you every moment of your life xo
What sweet words. Thank you for them. I really appreciate you sharing your experience with me. I'm so glad you are here! Welcome to the community! 🙏🙏🙏
Oh you crack the code I like to hear more about this. That's awesome.
"FEELING GETS THE BLESSING." ~ Rev. Ike
Thousands of churches along with so many religions have worked very hard to keep such ancient scripture from you all.
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I loved when you said the environment lacked what I needed and it was not me lacking in any way. Great way to look at that and it’s exactly right!! ❤
Yes!! Having that shift completely changed the way I understood myself!
I've been listening to the audiobook "feeling is the secret "daily but you have helped me to understand what I never understood and how I can make a practical application of it. thank you
Fantastic! My next video will also help shed a little more light on this topic and idea so hope that one helps too! It will also touch a bit on law of assumption!
@@AbbyRuston I will definitely watch it. I just found your channel this morning. But you explain well
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Exactly what you said in the title: cracked the code! You underlined the exact things at the exact time in the exact way. Thanks a lot Abby!
Glad it helped!! Thanks for watching and taking the time to share this with me!
Yes - this is huge! Extremely powerful nuisances!!! Your pics, labels & process choices are illustrated perfectly bcz you emphasize the trigger moments! I love it!!!😅
I totally agree with you. I tried my best thinking positive thoughts. But nothing happened. But the moment i turn on the TV to watch my favorite wholesome travel show that makes me so happy, things just start getting better. Or when i listen to a song that uplifts me
That is a great point! The assumptions we have I believe block us from the being state of the feeling of our desired reality. The more awareness you gain of it, the more you can shift your consciousness and create that new feeling as your dominate experience!
Well done on noticing this nuance, soo many people sprint over this and never realize it
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Excellent tutorial. I know for fact that dwelling on negative past issues often enough will create ongoing patterns.
That is absolutely true. And sometimes we are dwelling on the patterns unconsciously which is where understanding this can be so confusing. It took me many years to even understand that about things, but when i did it really helped bring more clarity! Hoping to help everyone watching to get more clear so we can all grow together! 🥳 thanks for watching!
Just came across your channel. You absolutely got it! Love this! At the end of the day, we want things because they make us feel a certain way. Example: Why do I want someone to show me love on a daily basis, text me a lot, show genuine effort etc.? Because it’s going to make me feel loved, seen, recognised. And why do I want to feel those things exactly? So I feel worthy and confident about myself and in control. Boom! The answers are different for everybody of course. I think that’s what Joe Dispenza also said: Feel the feelings now. Give them to yourself. Then you embody the version of you that has it, hence you become more detached to outcome as you already feel the feelings you were seeking outside of you. That’s what hen makes you magnetic. 😊
@@jillkx YOU HAVE GOT IT!!!!! 🙌🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🔥
Really strong, concise explanation of the Neville Goddard principles. Great job!
🥹🙏 Thanks so much for these words! It's inspiring to know its connecting and clear and helpful! 🙌🏼
Hey! This is an EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT video on the feeling state. I’ve read the material and watched countless videos on “feeling is the secret” but NEVER EVER had it presented like this.
Did I say this was an EXCELLENT video?!?! Okay, just making sure I did. I really did not “get” this until NOW, right now!
It is true that I was aware of perpetually recreating the story and as Bob Proctor said “getting emotionally involved” in it, (anchoring it in my reality). However, I was unaware of HOW I was doing it.
And NOW I realize I HAVE to be present AND notice when I feel triggered. That is the moment to IMMEDIATELY STOP the narrative COMPLETELY and change it!!!
Wow, wow, wow, this was just what I needed thank you x ♾️😇🙌
Had an aha moment watching this-thank you! Well explained. Step one is where I’m hung up, and it’s because I want the feeling of financial and creative freedom, and I spend too much time establishing the feeling of control.
Well freedom, in my opinion, freedom is about autonomy. It's less about controlling and more about flowing and navigating what comes. It's not about the absense of something but having the self trust to use your intution to find situations that also reflect that trust ie more resouces both with money and more creative ideas both require responsibility. So the control is rigid.. It could be about fearing you can't get there or can't handle something... so the root of this is learning what you are fearing.. did you grow up where someone doubted your abilities in solving a problem... did adults say you were selfish if you had more than you needed? What possible issue would you have if you did have the financial resources? Would you feel alienated? would you be judged by those you love? The more you really build your introspection muscle the more you can gain conscious awareness of what fear is fueling that impulse to control that is actually blocking you off from the opening up of the faucet of energetic flow with creative and finances! Hope this helps!
The feelings you want to feel are on the other side of the feelings you’re unwilling to feel (unconsciously). When you’re willing to fully consciously experience them they tend to change and dissolve into wisdom and the state that Aby describes.
this is so much 🔥🔥🔥🔥 "The feelings you want to feel are on the other side of the feelings you’re unwilling to feel " BRILLIANT!!!
@@AbbyRuston ❤️🙏most of our life’s experiences tend to form around the feelings we’re unwilling to experience.
@@Alem_Mehari totally agree and we have the awareness, courage and tools to head into them, a new world emerges 🥳🥳❤️🙌🏼
Thank you for your explanation. I much appreciate it. Sending my love ❤❤❤
This is awesome! Thoughts are electric and feelings are magnetic. ❤❤❤
Yes!! This is why feeling is so important. It's pulling in equal experience to that feeling.. so using your thoughts to shift your consciousness level via more awareness will help you shift to a new feeling state that feels natural and is automatic and you will magnetize an equal experience to that new feeling!
Oh my god this is precious!!! You are precious. Geez I just got over a subconscious block but I didn't understand what to do next and this helped a lot. Thank you. I am so so lucky and thankful that I got watch this video.
🥳🥳🥳 So happy you are here! Welcome to the community! Don't hesitate to let me know if you have any questions!
Ok, I have watched a lot of videos on this subject of Feeling and you by FAR are the best. OMG I feel a sense of understanding I have not felt before and I am so grateful for you and your sharing. Thank You Thank You Thank You!
Wow I finally understand where I've been going wrong. Thank you so much!
🥹🥹😭😭 I LOVE THIS!!! YES!! So excited and happy for you! Thanks for sharing it! 🥳🥳
I am thankful that i went through debilitating anxiety because the parallel of the healing process of anxiety and what you are teaching is crazy. Event - Story - Feeling.
@@R31613 oh interesting!! How do you mean the parallel of the healing processes?
@AbbyRuston in order to heal from anxiety, you need to change the narrative that you tell yourself. If not, you'll continue to be in the anxiety loop. Much like what you're saying in this video. You need to change the narrative and feel the narrative. Regardless if you feel otherwise. You need to believe your new truth as oppose to the opposite.
What a wonderful way to make this all clear.
So glad it was clear! Had fun making it so it always feels nice when it’s clear to others and helps and it was fun to make 🙂🥳🙌🏼
I promise the great divine led me here because I have been needing clarity on my spiritual journey and this helps connect what’s going on in my mind vs my reality and this has help me tremendously love 🤧🙌🏾🥰
So happy to hear this! I'm not sure what you are going through, but I know that you are worthy and deserving of having your needs met and living in joy! Any idea or past experience is not a reflection of you and you can transmute that and release it in the totality that is needed to shift to a new pattern! I'm rooting for you!
It’s belief! You must believe, that you believe! Everyone is different but there is nothing different for anyone other than belief ( absolute unwavering belief) this is your key 🔑
Yes! You've got it. Learning how to hold the space that the believe is safe, learning how to create that belief and shift your awareness to your true worth is what will change all of us! May we all find our key!
Abby Ruston ❤Thank You ❤ Thank GOD I found your teaching this lovely Sunday morning before church ❤🎉❤
I love this so much. I'm realizing that when I visualize I am lacking the emotional feeling. I can clearly visualize a scene and even have auditory and touch while visualizing, but have been lacking the emotional feeling. Even when it has come to dating, visually amd on paper I know what I want in a partner, but have been lacking the open emotional connection to it, so my dating experiences have been short and many as I have not felt lasting connection feelings and instead hinge to the short moments and find people that reflect that back.
Totally understandable! Learning to visualize in a more effective way is a skill and you can learn to do it! Sounds like you've got some great components already so you aren't starting from scratch! Understanding what emotion will a loving relationship bring you? cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1536/4861/files/Feel_good_emotions_2.jpg?v=1556302491
Get clear on what you associate you'd feel by having the relationship.. then start to see if you have those feelings already in your life even in the smallest way. Also ask if when you were young, when you felt that did you get in trouble? Was in shunned? Was it looked down on? Was it seen a selfish? This can help to bring to your awareness an unconscious fear that would be repelling the love and those feelings from coming into your life. Hope this helps!
Thank you. Your explanation helped a lot. I asked the same question myself of how to feel the feeling when you have never experienced them before. And I too am coming from the brain to convince myself what the feeling should be.
I will apply what you taught me today. I know I can manifest my biggest dreams
Thank you and God bless you
Absolutely! My next video I will dive a little more into how to feel something you've never experienced bc i know it can feel and be very confusing! so stay tuned!
This is by far the best teachings on manifestation. It perfectly summarizes how to get what you want. Brilliant!
So glad it helped!
Thank you for this comprehensive breakdown of Feeling is the Secret. Priceless.
So glad you enjoyed it and it helped!! 🙌🏼
Thank You! Love how you explained each concept so it is grounded and usable. The stories are very quick to give meaning that is not always true or worth the bother.
So glad it helped and was clear! 🥳
Love this - simple & well explained which makes it powerful ❤ Thank you - growing & learning & manifesting our dreams together
Wow!! Nice video .. there are a lot of teachers out there but you truly have a unique gift.. imo .. it’s clear it’s understandable and enlightening.. thank you!! I always enjoy seeing your work pop up
🥹🙏 Thank you so much for this! i really appreciate your support and feedback. So glad you are part of this community!
Neville Goddard's teachings emphasize the importance of consistent practice in manifesting our desires. Like any skill, mastering the art of conscious creation requires dedication, repetition, and refinement. By regularly immersing ourselves in the feelings of already having achieved our goals and persistently aligning our thoughts and emotions with our desired outcomes, we strengthen our manifestation abilities. Just as with any practice, the more we engage with Neville's principles and apply them in our lives, the more proficient we become at harnessing the creative power of our imagination to shape our reality.
One of my favorite quotes is inspired by something I heard Neville Goddard say in one of his lectures. I have it posted on the wall of my work space at my job.
"Do not believe in it. Believe it in. "
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 love this!! I haven’t heard this before! It’s so simple and so profound! Thanks for sharing it!!
Create an experience within yourself. Absorb it. Enrich it. Move it around your body with your attention.
thank you for instructing me this wonderful day...
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Ok this is the best manifestation video I’ve ever seen, and I’ve been doing this for years. Subscribed!
Wow! Thanks for such wonderful words! So glad to have you here in the community 🥳🥳🙌🏼
Thank you for your content! It makes great sense. I might add rather than bypassing the STORY, to remove it by using Byron Katie’s “The Work” questions (do you know the story is absolutely true, who would you be without the story, and turn the story around) to dissolve the story and rewrite it to get to the desired feeling. Thank you again. I look forward to using your method married with Byron Katie’s questions to rewrite the story. God bless you and all your viewers.
Yes! Love her! I have read her book and have used her app on my phone many times when i found myself deep in the limiting story. I recommend some somatic exercises to help regulate your nervous system so you can make the best use of the work. If you can do her questions in that triggered state and it's effect, more power to you! Thanks again for sharing! 🥳
I watched your second video.. with the cup and bringing it into your heart. I started to feel the love , tranquility etc but then I saw a cliff of dirt in front of me with a trail in the desert and the cliff got bigger and bigger. I don’t know what that’s all about. Anyway. I have a very negative husband and every time I try to change he turns things around with negativity. He doesn’t understand this kind of change he thinks it’s crazy. I’ve always taught him that you have to think positive. But i can’t change him I can only change myself but feel I’m being held back. I love him dearly but I need change.. I want to change I want a better life and financial freedom.
Did you have a negative parent growing up? or someone who would be "realistic" and point out all the negative stuff that could go wrong? That maybe made you feel like your dreams were always getting stepped on or crushed?
I see you, Abby. More importantly, I FEEL you 😊
YES!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼😃 love it!
Thank You Very Abby Ruston for your clear explanation, Lynn Grabhorn talks about this as well. Good Thing You Are Not Talking About Head Stuff Like "Thoughts & Thinking" Which Brings Nothing but Bad Sleep!!! NOW DROP THE WORD "WANT" BECAUSE "WANTING" THAT WOULD BE ALLOWED INSTEAD "BEING THAT"!!! Emotional Association Comment is Good!!!😀😀😀
This is so Brilliant....thank you very much
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Immerse yourself in that end emotion (feeling state) and live from there, permanently ❤️💫🎉
YES! And connecting to how you already experience those in your current life helps you to connect to this as a natural state for you! You got this!
@@AbbyRuston Thank you Abby, you too!
This message is beyond the truth🔥🔥🔥
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This is the first time I'm watching your video and I really enjoyed it, simplicity in your teaching makes you unique and fun to watch and easy to understand! Greatly appreciated 🙏
Thank you! I do my best to keep it simple and practical. No one has time to waste! Let's be clear, do our inner world and enjoy our human experience 🥳🥳
Well this video was right on time. I had a dream on November 5th that I was telling one of my friends that she was repeating her old story and she needed to change it. Great video!
LOVE. THIS!!!! YES!!!!
Correct me if I am wrong. I read before that when Neville talked about feeling, he said he is not talking about emotions. its about the sense of you having IT now. You feel your surrounding becoming the end of what you are asking for. Maybe I missed out something somewhere.
Yes I agree that its not just a fleeting or superficial emotion. the essence of that inner experience inside of you that is associated with you having that external experience. Some may call it's a knowing, a state.. in my experience it's easier to get gain awareness of what emotion you associate with... then start to see you have micro versions of that. This really helped me bridge the gap that this wish could actually be part of my life.. its like building a capacity.. this is what helped me.. before.i felt so separate and had no idea of to experience a feeling of having it bc it felt so separate. What i share its how i took this concept and applied it to my life in hopes it can offer you the same benefits! All the best!
@@AbbyRuston Thanks for clarifying.
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The Feeling is the secret . Imagine you are in the situation you desire ❤
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6:11 BOOM goes the dynamite! Now I get it! Abby you're a genius and a scholar! Subscribed!
Wonderful exclamation❤ you’ve gained a new subscriber❤
Welcome to the community!! Don’t hesitate to ask any questions that pop up along the way! So glad to have you here! 🥳
This is super helpful! Thank you!
So glad it helped! You got this!
Sounds good , I'd suggest looking into the gateway experience. The one month patterning addresses this in a meditation
Filled out a form and thanks for this video. I love learning and applying more of LOA but sometimes the applying is hard.
Wonderful! I sent an email out about an hour ago. Let me know if you didn't get it and we will get a session scheduled!
Thank you very much. 🙏💖
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Neville is very straightforward he doesn’t use codes just read his books and/or watch his videos ..that’s all you need
Yes he is
Agreed- there wasn’t a code to crack lol
Great video. Well delivered and easy to understand. Thank you
You are an effective and mesmerizing communicator. This is the best Neville Goddard video. Period. 🙏 OMG, you changed my life. I love you.
Thanks so much for this! I really appreciate you taking the time to share it with me! So glad it was so powerful and helped clear things up! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 remember it is always YOU changing your life. That power is yours and yours alone
@@AbbyRuston You are welcome. I’m just a voice of feedback saying you are in the pocket. You are really good at this.
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I love how you captured this process and articulated it so clearly - thank you!
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share this with me! 🙏🙌🏼😊
Hi. This is a pretty well thought out video. If I could make one small suggestion, when you mention a study, like the one about playing piano mentally, you might mention your source in case viewers are interested in learning more about it. 👍
Great point! thanks so much for this feedback! Helps me to make better video's in the future 🙌🏼
Hey that was really good. Thank you for the reminder xx
Thank you so much, this does make sense given I can totally relate to the going back . 🙏🙏🙏😊
You got this!!
I discovered the teachings of Neville Godard a few weeks ago and I have been trying to instill some of his ideas in me I know it takes time but from the day I it started it gave me a sense of new hope and I am experiencing some amazing things and some of my manifestion are coming true ❤grateful
Wonderful! Keep following the clues as to what makes you feel more energized! I'm rooting for you!
Thank you Abby for your heartfelt presence.💖I have 2 questions: many people who had Near Death Experiences or other Mystical experiences, after experiencing Oneness, or unconditional love, claim that Life events are actually pre-determined. They were told the future events and when they return to the 3D, they just 'allowed' Life to work through them, without using Law of Attraction and the such. What do you think of that? Another question is how do you maintain the good manifesting feeling? Thank you!🦋
I am also very curious of listening to NDE stories. I haven't heard someone saying life is determined, but I'd be interested to hear their experience as well. I've heard is more like like is a river that is flowing and there is a certain amount of allowing. In my opinion, We are in collaboration with a high energy that works through us. When we tap into our true essence, I believe we allow that energy to fully flow. When we hold on to distortions of ourself in a self limiting way based on our lil kid brains in situations that were really hard and we didn't understand, we block the flow. So i think no matter if we flow or block off that energy cord, we always get a reflection of it and attract it's equal. 2) Manifestation is simply making the invisible visible.. meaning our beliefs and assumptions will be seen in our outside experiences. How we interpret, who we go for, what we choose to do, what story we tell.. it's all filtered through that assumpion and ultimately what becomes visible in our life. So it's about shifting your dominant feeling a higher energy to get that reflected.. we are all naturally very high energy beings.. when that river fully flows through us.. so in my opinion, it's about releasing the old ideas of ourself that cut off that supply.. and releasing them is about shifting the story of why it happened and also doing somatic work to release the energy in our body and fully process things that we hadn;t been able to process so we can return back to our natural state. Does this make sense?
Well said! Great share. Thank you!
So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching and taking the time to share your experience! Also i love your screen name 😂🙌🏼
Absolutely amazing!🙏☀️
🤗🙏❤️ Always appreciate you being here and a part of this community!
Be-aware of the false narratives yep. Got it. Subscribed!
Oh I like that! False narratives! So concise and right on! Welcome to community! So glad you are here! 🥳
⚡"A CHANGE OF FEELING IS A CHANGE IN DESTINY"⚡
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Wow, this is SO good. I need to listen to it daily to really let it sink in
So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for taking the time to share this with me!
"The environment lacked what you needed, not you lacked..."😭 I needed to hear that 😂
YES!!!! It is true! You are wonderful and aren't defined by what others lack to understand and appreciate! You got this! It's time to fully shine!
This is super helpful.OMG. Thank you so much Abby! I especially found you drawing out Story -> Event -> Feeling and running through a scenario of what could happen and how to tweak it the MOST helpful and clear!
🥹🥹🙌🏼 SO happy to hear this!! I hope this shows you it's not a ability, you just need clarity the more you are open to it, the more you will become aware! The big thing here is applying it! I promise all the discomfort in those moments is worth the shift it will produce. You got this!!!
Thanks Abby! ❤ Need to look into the abandonment/rejection side of things. I keep on repeating this pattern and need to break out of this to allow positive changes in my life. 🙏
Yes! This playlist is totally devoted to helping you understand and start to see how to break out with the ABC method! ruclips.net/p/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja
@@AbbyRustonThanks so much Abby! ♥️
I do feel I try to impress the feeling of being loved into the subconscious but its counterpart is feeling not Loved. I dont know how to consistently overcome the feeling of Not being loved/ wanted/ rejected
This is a great question and something i can make a video on in the future! So I will do my best here to explain it, but know there will be more on it later as well! So you have experiences early on where those you had to reply on for connection or love were either mean and cold, too busy, very critical, or so wrapped up in their own world they could have been physically there, but emotionally were not.. those things hurt you and they would hurt anyone.. however.. your perspective of WHY that happened is where you can regain your power.. that early on environment didn't reject you bc you weren't good enough or lacking in anyway, they treated you that way bc of what THEY lacked.. that doesn't mean they are bad ppl, but they are humans and we all have our own stuff. So early on you had to relate to your environment this way to survive.. well now that idea that someone treats you or does something to you is bc of YOU is the replay of that old feeling.. so you have to start to see the past different which can SIGNIFICANTLY drop a lot of the lower vibration emotions such as guilt or shame.. then as you are dissolving that it is very important you build the skill I shared in secret #3 to step out of those old interpretations which will help you break free of. Know that you are a beautiful person and you growing into your highest self will benefit all of us on earth bc you are that valuable! I am sending you love! Let me know if this helps or if you have more questions to get more clear! I'm here to help!
@@AbbyRuston thank you! Its makes so much sense. I experienced my Mom being not really emotional with me, almost since my birth bc my dad was very ill and died when I was 4 months old so I was a Lot with my grandparents. I know its not that she rejected me because she didnt want me, but because she Herself was in so much pain and I know she loves me. However I See this pattern with men, some left me, some Show Up hot and cold and I get easily being triggered that Im gonna be rejected, btw sometimes its something they say that dont even mean that but I see it through that lense (I watched your Video about that IT was very helpful!)which I guess manifests them then to do so or Hurt me or are emotionally unavailable or half ass because they are my mirror (EIYPO). Its fun. In the beginning its wonderful and I think wow Im so Happy, thats almost too good to be true, my anxiety and fears kick in and it goes to shit, thats the reason I believe in manifestation bc I see this pattern once my fears kick in Happening/manifesting with each and every man I Fell in Love with
I FEEL YOU!! I get in my own way and I'm here to say you CAN break out of this.. for me it felt the answer what to find someone to love me and THEN i would feel better. The real answer for me was to see when i was self abandoning.. The part 3 of my video is how i broke out of the self abandonment cycle.. basically you start giving herself more of what you need in that moment and are emotionally available to yourself which shifts who and what you attract into your life.. over time emotionally unavailable ppl were no longer interesting or attractive bc i wasn't so desperate for them to love me nor did i feel if they didn't love me i would be all alone. I also felt so much better bc me being there for myself relieved SO much pain. Here is a playlist for abandonment patterns ruclips.net/p/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja
And here is a playlist on how to attract reliable love
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You are incredible strong to have grown up in an environment that was really intense and heavy... every child needs connection so you were never asking for too much. Also that yearning to connect with your mom but she was unavailable could be playing out when you want to connect with others emotionally.. the pattern would be they are too busy or they are distracted by something/someone else.. you can break this pattern ❤️
@@AbbyRuston thank you so much you literally made my day ❤️
An added bonus to those seeking financial independence is to be around successful people, luxurious things and wealthy environments. Go to upper class neighborhoods around million-dollar homes, a Mercedes dealership & get in some of the cars, smell the leather, etc... And yes, feel yourself already in possession of whatever it is you want in your life. Make sure at the same time you're not in a negative thinking pattern of "I could never afford this". KNOW that it's already yours and being in the present moment instead of thinking or hoping for a brighter future. You're already there! Feel it and believe it to be so!
Im a bit confused. You say emotional state. Neville defines the feeling not as an emotion but naturalness? What do you mean emotional state? Thank you.
Great question and I hope it’s answered
Great question! Yes. Ideally that feeling is just a natural aspect of life.. however getting there can feel hard..it was for me.. bc i kept wanting to feel that end experience and have it feel natural....but my current life was so different. i felt very disconnected on how to get there.. when i tried to imagine it, it just felt like i was lying to myself... so from my experience as i talked about in #1 and #2.. get clear on how YOU best define that feeling.. end emotion, essence, whatever that looks like for you.. then use #2 to start to see how that exists in your life now so it is more natural. This is what I personally used that help me relate to it and begin to feel it and ultimately create it to be a natural part of my life. Does this make sense?
Indeed it is! Let me know if that makes sense and I'll share more if not!
Wasn't it Neville Goddard who said when he wanted to manifest something, he'd work himself into an emotional excitement about that thing, how he'd feel having obtained whatever it was and holding that feeling for 3 minutes?
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I don’t comment much, but this is a great video and you explain things very clearly! 🙌🙏🏼
I am honored by your comment and you taking the time to share it! So glad it helped!
Hi Abby, what do you think of the idea that the "unavailable" partner is just our assumption and if we change, they will. I have a difficult time accepting this, especially as i move up in consciousness. Some people are just not secure partner material at this point.
This is a great question! I think this is where the misunderstanding of the law can run us into delusion.. so in my perspective and experience, there are two different things... 1) you can assume some sort of idea that you aren't enough or those who you want don't want you and attract ppl who reflect that to you... they don't have the emotional availability for you bc you assume you aren't worth it 2) the second thing that can happen is you can translate interactions through the assumption everyone is leaving or not interested... even if they do have the emotional space for you... so learning to do secret #3 can break someone out of that.... I do not believe changing an assumption changes someone else if they are emotionally unavailable... changing the assumption changes what we see and how we navigate which changes the outcome... when you change the assumption about yourself those who don't have the emotional capacity will no longer bc attractive or interesting and they will shift out and you will attract those who do have the emotional space... the other thing that could feel like ppl respond different is when you remove the assumption they are rejecting you in the moment.. and see it differently then you can connect with the emotional situation that was there already... does this make sense?
@AbbyRuston yes and thank you so much for such a detailed reply. Personally, I think I am a catch :-p I don't have any worthiness issues, after yrs of doing this internal work. My kinda of theory is that ok in potential we are all perfect and complete and since creation is finished then yes there are different versions of everyone available. However, how close is someone's version to what we have in mind, imagine, affirm etc is highly individualized depending on his journey and his level of consciousness.
So, yes, potentially, we are all secure, great partners but when it comes down to it, in 3D life, there are a lot of elements to be considered.
Me becoming secure resulted in not being attracted to unavailable people anymore or unfulfilling etc. But I heard comments that I didn't persist enough into "recreating" someone in my mind, where I just decided it was a waste of my time.
@@mariadeli6609 if all our time and energy is being spent creating someone outside ourself so we can have our desired experience.. it’s my opinion that’s self abandonment bc our energy is not with ourselves.. and this structure is echoing the early on environment where the wounds were first created. As a kid we NEEDED those around us to change in order for our needs to be met bc we couldn’t do it on our own nor could we leave for a better equipped environment..so focusing on the outside to change is that same impulse.. recognizing the dynamics that create the wounds and shift our perspective and transformation the energy of that wound is what allows us to change our experience and then see that reflected back as a natural reaction to that inner world
@AbbyRuston thank you, that was an excellent explanation of attachment wounding and our orientation towards outside sources to get our needs met. It is such a vicious cycle because we use choose people and experiences that are of the same cloth as the primary caregivers, resulting in us feeling more traumatized. Dr. DiSpenza's work has been profound in training our bodies emotionally to a new mindset and it has been my go to practice for yrs.
I appreciate your timely response. Keep up the amazing content. It's important 😌 👌
Bravo to you!
I hear a lot of ex Catholicism in you. I'm ex Catholic... I freed myself from all that black magic mind control. WE ARE WORTHY!!! Despite Catholic mind control that teaches the opposite.
Love you babe! ❤️
Very good eye to spot the cathlolic energy. I never went to catholic church but my extended family did and i went to a catholic school for 3 years. It is always amazing how much influence proximity has on us even if we aren't IN it, it can still have an influence! Yes. WE ARE WORTHY!!! Much love 🙏❤️