I Think this will help to prepare her for the divorce... she didnt even realize her marriage was on the rocks or that her always leaving was negatively impacting Tyler. I think Tyler wants to leave but is doing it in baby steps so she doesnt commit suicide.
@Hansen Says Take A Seat she never even thought that he wanted to get a separation. She's too in her comfort zone thinking that he will never ever leave her. That's why she doesn't even try
@@suras8984 not just the damage,shes done,to Tyler,shes done so much damage to Nova..katlynns all about. ...me..me..me!! And this was the worst,time for her to get pregnant.
Catelynn is selfish, she is obsessed with the child they gave up and does not see she is making Tyler sick. She also has major attachment problems with Nova. Praying for all of you.
They're both obsessed with Carly. It should have been a completely private adoption. They think they have rights that they don't, they gave them up years ago yet they still feel entitled.
I ageee she’s more lazy than amber that’s saying a lot I’m tired of her complaining this girl has money security and family. What more do you need. People are really struggling finically and health wise.
@@gracebediako1666 she has gotten pretty lazy and all and I agree but I dont think she will ever be happy bc She regrets giving up carly and she always will Tyler does too but they both deal with it differently. But she does need to change or shes gonna lose her man their marriage is literally hanging on by a thread and catelynn's bad actions are the scissors and they're moving in fast.
Tyler deserves to be happy! She is bringing him down and making him miserable. He’s done so much and she just goes off for “therapy” and comes back worse. Wish him the best and hopefully he can find his soulmate.
What about Tyler it’s always about Kate it’s about time he gets to be happy. I’m usually for the women. But in this case the fact is the poor guy is getting dragged down constantly for her sickness and trauma that’s no way to live and she seriously needs to think about how he feels he probably could make more progress on his own .
keen wow so u don’t wish her the best as well. It’s not any one persons fault. They been together since they were like 13. Relationships are hard. I hope they both find happiness
She deserves to be happy. Hes aways bringing her down. You guys only see a glimpse into their life. He calls her fat. Hes not happy because shes depressed. He dont understand marriage. Hes a tool in the making
Tiffani Farrington I agree he's not an ugly guy either. And as much as people want to say that's how he met her regardless they were kids. Now they're adults and all kinds of women im sure hit on him. So when your man is asking you to lose weight to make it easier to turn down other woman in better physical shape. You have to appreciate that. Idk that's just my opinion
@Dare to Love ur life Its her not taking care of herself. Tyler stay looking like a snackity snack snack! AND he's smart! Mmm... Panties got wet HAHAHA jk
I used to like Caitlyn & Tyler, but past few season Caitlyn is just a debbie downer & I think she thrives on pity! She is definitely holding Tyler back & a marriage shouldn’t be that way. He tried his hardest I think it’s just time to move in. People grow differently & it’s tough to stay together since so young & grow together. I know I been with my now husband for 18 years. We met when I was 14 he was 15.. Now I’m 32 & we have 4 amazing kids & an amazing marriage! Although hard to grow together & respect each other’s changes, we made it through the hard now it’s just fun, & the bond we have no one in this world can take that place for each of us! Thank god we have been blessed. :)
I think a marriage is also about not giving up on each other and its more important to them to stick together, for many reasons, but #1 they both come from broken homes. These two were family before they got married and family doesnt give up on each other. Caitlyn is lucky Tyler has strong morals and values.
Having depression is not the same as being a Debbie downer. She can't help the way she feels. Yes, it's too much at this point with all her negativity, but that's her mental health
Very true. The statement she made about not wanting another girl was very strange considering she said she had a hard miscarriage in the past. That was one of her excuses for all these mental breakdowns..
For everyone only wanting happiness for Tyler and solely blaming Caitlyn, wow so u don’t wish her the best as well. It’s not any one persons fault. They been together since they were like 13. Relationships are hard. I hope they both find happiness
I think it's just people are fed up with the pity party she throws herself all time. I wish them both the best of luck depression is no joke but when theres children involved that depends on you . You can't just check out and run to therapy at the drop of the hat and dont do the steps that involves in changing and getting better. I think that's why everyone is like f cate at this point .
Miss Conceiteality uh no dear she’s has several problems now and she needs to be fix have another baby will not fix a relationship or a marriage and Caitlyn needs to realize that 8 years ago she gave up Carly at 16 and then she gets pregnant again to have novaleea and she bearly takes care of her! And now she’s 14 weeks pregnant with her 3rd baby while has mental issues and depression why some people keep doing this to them selves and Tyler just keep knocking her up this is very sad she’s very over weight Tyler is losing and gaining weight this is not right!! 🤔
Right? I honestly think she needs medication and life coaching way more than all this inpatient therapy stuff. She's obsessing over past trauma and really not helping herself.
Kay Jack he probably has realized this when she left for therapy and then when she came back he was like ughh yeah we need to live separated but he shouldn’t have been knocking her up in the meantime
Whose to say that he thought Catelynn was on the pill or she had that thing in her arm to help prevent pregnancy and Catelynn hadn't been taking the pill or had the thing taken out without Tyler knowing I'm only assuming since I can't watch all of the episodes since they are blocked where I live
Why isn't Kaitlyn protecting her body. she's getting fatter and fatter with every pregnancy, you would think she would take something to prevent it it's her body she should protect it.
She said she was blind sighted that statement in its self just shows that she has zero awareness of tyler struggles and mental state. He has been saying for a few seasons now that's he is unhappy in their relationship.
When u get married you are suppose to grow together not separate. You deal with problems together and share the good together. You don't live separate lives and only live together when things are good.
She keeps running away to rehab and refuses to do work at home, also refused to do couples counseling until Tyler blew up. If they need to separate for both their mental sake, that’s their business. If I were him, I’d need a break, Cate makes everything about her
It doesn’t matter u guys are only considering the two of them they are so unimportant in this equation they have two children that did not ask to be born they need to put their stuff to the side and take care of their kids and when their two kids are both in school then re evaluate the equation again. Maybe they should stay in a hotel one night a month for like six months and get some alone time and it will make them both happier to see each other
I can’t stand her ! Stop getting pregnant having kids won’t keep him . You need to fix yourself and be a mom not when you feel like it. Poor Tyler he looks so unhappy he needs to move on and be happy with someone else .
She literally makes no effort to get better , she goes and takes off on her husband and child to seek "help" and misses classes to nap and watch movies only to return home and nap and watch movies and then claim she is so depressed and leave again . She is constantly invalidating Tyler and his feelings and always finds a way to switch the subject on herself and how she feels . I once rooted for her but she doesn't want to change and shouldn't be having another child considering the fact she cannot get her shit together and is failing to properly take care of the one she currently has custody of . There are tons of parents INCLUDING MYSELF that have depression and anxiety issues from childhood trauma and I wake my ass up and take care of my child and have never made her feel less than it is no excuse considering that she has the money and resources at her hands , I know MTV provides them with the best care , I dont feel badly for her one bit she needs to grow up.
Right on!! @superbubblyme😘Well said!! Sometimes people use child hood issues,to get away with bad behavior!! Alot, of people have had bad childhoods! U learn & grow from it! I was pregnant myself at 17! Got married had 2 kids by the tine i was 18!! Then my husband was physically abusive! I put him in jail..now..a single mom raising 2 kids & a Full time job!(I didnt have a T.V.show to make me wealthy! This is REAL life!!i didnt have time to be depressed. & if i was i had to suck it up!! I felt sorry for her at 1st also, till,I saw the damage she was doing to that sweet lil girl!! Causing her panic,& anxiety...so sad,Im so glad that Tyler decided to go to counseling poor guy! And Iam sorry about what has happened to you! And she shouldn't be allowed to have a child smoking weed,wth! That will be in that babys system!
SuperBubblyme Yes, it’s time to grow up. My question for her is: do you want to get well? Depression and anxiety is real, but it shouldn’t be your identity. I hope they don’t get a divorce. I see no honor in that. If Tyler wants to be single he should have never married her. You don’t marry someone out of obligation. This is a sad situation.
@@bluemickey23 when he married her he didn't see it as an obligation unless he said that idk lol but he shouldn't stay in an unhappy marriage either that isn't a good example for Nova either is seeing nothing but chaos .
A surprise pregnancy? You can't just blame her for wanting to keep tyler. He knows how to prevent babies as much as her. Sad to add another child into their complicated marriage.
Yes it takes 2 to get pregnant but it takes it just takes 1 person to miss a pill or two to ensure conception takes place. Thats how I'm alive today. My mom wanted me but my dad didnt want me and didnt know my mom wasnt using contraceptives :) thanks mom! ;)
So she gave up her first daughter...had another beautiful daughter...had a miscarriage but now is pregnant again but didn't want another girl. Must be nice getting those checks and being able to check in and out of life when its beneficial to your feelings! Depression u say? Oh plz! I haven't been able to conceive and its been killing me! Y'all make excuses for this woman too much!
What makes either one of you ladies believe she's not greatful for what she has? And to compare ones struggle in life isn't fair judgment to your own. We all struggle with things but we all have different tools and coping mechanisms or lack those to get through life. You can have two very similar situations in life and still get two very different outcomes. It's sad when anyone separates let alone deals with the hardships they've bad along the way. I think if either one checked out they wouldn't be on the path theyre on. I wish you ladies only the best with your infertility issues.
She didn’t give up her first daughter. She was 16 and not in a position that was healthy or safe to raise a child, she put her child up for adoption which everyone can see was the best decision at the time. Lots of pregnant women want to have a certain gender baby, her being slightly disappointed isn’t a big deal. I doubt she is going to love the child less because it’s a girl. Also, depression and sadness are not the same thing. She is mentally ill. So things like her marriage, children, family life might be triggering her depression. She’s not just sad - it is beyond her control, which is why she is in therapy and medicated.
Shut up. You're beyond stupid. Clearly she cant chose, whatever she gets i'm sure she will love either way. But yeah, it would be nice to have a boy than just all girls. She is depressed. But wanting a boy has nothing to do with depression. Hell, i have two girls. And ya know what? I'd like a boy too.
I think a lot of their issues come from him being the strength of the family, the one holding it together dealing with his dad’s addiction and his sister’s childish bullshit and trying to be a dad. He knew Catelynn’s life story, all her pain and trauma, and he’s chosen to stay with her and actually love her. It’s hard to love someone with Catelynn’s diagnoses. I would know because I’m just like her....Any relationship has issues, all marriages struggle some time. You have to both be willing to get through it together. And they are. The world needs more positivity and less negativity.
Whenever they do spilt, I worry for Tyler cause we all know Catelynn is gonna be manipulative and make him the villain in all of this. I wouldn’t be surprised if she went as far as threatening to hurt herself.
He still looks about 18 and she looks like she's nearing 30 and steadily gaining more weight. I'm sure he gets hit on a lot on social media and what not, she can't stand that and instead of work on herself, she runs away to a retreat, leaves ty to deal with raising their kid alone. They seem miserably together.
@@kristymcc1 Not at all, 30 isn't old, but is she aging poorly for her actual age, yes. 26-30 isn't much of an age difference at all, but next to Tyler, I think it looks like the two are very different by age.
She's likely taking medication for her mental health and those meds cause weight gain. I was taking meds for 5 years, was on a healthy diet, exercised as much as possible and gained 60 pounds! I switched meds and it took a year to lose all the weight I gained. Meds make you age faster.
I think that Tyler loves Cate very much and respects her but ultimately, he’s been dealing with this for so long, plus his own family issues and one can only take so much! He has never been able to focus on Ty.
Good. She seemed to bring him down. He's just too good for her. I do believe he regrets giving up their first child. They shouldn't be having another baby in all them problems. Hopefully this can strengthen her instead of breaking her anymore than she already is.
She need to step up and do her duties....he simply sick and tired of her leaving him with everything to do......get it together...and he not bad look either...stay woke girl
Lauren Hahn don't be ridiculous. I've worked at a children's hospital for 25 years and am now retired at the age of 63. We all know that for the most part if the woman does not handle the protection not to get pregnant it just won't happen. That is just a pure fact a statistical fact. So if couples don't want to get pregnant the woman should be on whatever it is to keep her from getting pregnant. She could have been on the pill she could have had the ring she could have had the shot they could use condoms which for married couples I don't suggest because young couples hormones are raging and they generally do not use the condoms. Do you wonder why she was not on any form of birth control after being pregnant as a teenager and all the hell both of them went through and him saying that he's not happy with her? You didn't wonder that?
She is literally a downer idk why. It’s sad because she does absolutely nothing but smoke weed all day. She has fake depression and is upset about her first child but she needs to grow up. It hurt Tyler too but he is trying so hard to move on...she will not let him live!
@@tinkerbella4605 that's not what I meant. She clearly has problems and thinks that having another baby would save her marriage. She doesn't exercise at all and has gained tons of weight over the years. Those are all signs of depression.
@@heartz500 If those are signs of depression then I must have depression because I'm in the same boat as catelyn in the weight department... thank you for diagnosing everyone who gains weight over the years.. such a relief!
She has never been an attractive person. He's a very good-looking man, and if he saw her now, there is no way he would be attracted to her. They hooked up super young. It's just run its course.
@Kimmy u know that's exactly wtf you meant!!!! You must be perfect and someone who thinks that you're one of those girls who would never let her self go aka a thin girl who is the best!!! Ohh I bet Tyler could do better huh,perhaps with you???? So keep trying to rewrite ur fat shaming & pretend that you only meant her depression etc... Yeah right u are superficial &obviously shallow and think that he's 2good for her due to her being a little bit thick..Though I guarantee that you think she's fat ¬ hot like your standers huh? Ur a .pos!!!
For him to ask to try living separate means only one thing - he’s so fed up and he wants out ! He doesn’t want to / not ready yet to admit that he’s done and wants change !
They probably would have taken care of Carly better than the way they are taking care of Nova now. And way better than this baby on the way will get cared for by Cait. Cait wouldnt have had that trauma from the adoption and would have been able to better care for Carly. Now more kids are worse off from that one adoption because she hasnt shown herself to have the capacity to be a mother. Carly is better off, but her two kids now wont be and Carly is having identity issues.
Sura S hmm I dunno she had a rough child hood I don’t think it’s all about the adoption I also think she didn’t realise how tough parenting would be and just doesn’t want to do it sometimes when nova is carrying on like a normal child she seems like she’s so over it Carly would of done the same thing that’s what kids do and I think she would of been the same checking out all the time
Tyler just looks frustrated and probably feels like he is there for everyone but who is there for him. He just looks tired. Nova cute as a button. I believe they love each other but are tired of each other if that makes any sense.
If she really wants Tyler back completely. He wants her to work on herself 100% and see👀 the changes, not talk them. Being a parent and being a wife is 2 different things!!!! I had to learn this the hard way. I also went to a lot of mental facilities and I learn you have to love yourself 1st before you can love your family. A better U means a better family!!!!!
Suzanne Baxter you can’t grow with someone life doesn’t work like that sometimes you need a break people have to work on themselves individually before they work well as a couple
Bit hard to grow together when all Catelynn wants to do is ignore Tyler's issues and then keep tunning off to rehab in another state it takes 2 people to make a marriage grow and Tyler tried and tried
To all those slamming Cate, WALK A DAY IN HER SHOES. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH. If she would have killed herself, you would have said "I wish she had gotten help, known how loved she was, and how selfish that was to do to her kid and husband" SHE WENT AND GOT THE HELP, AND DIDN'T CHOOSE DEATH, AND YOU'RE STILL SAYING THE SAME THING! REALIZE THAT! Also, Realize that your words give her or anyone struggling with Mental illness, more of a push in the WRONG possibly Fatal direction!
She has a choice , your worlds 'AND DIDN'T CHOOSE DEATH' are so poignant. She has been to therapy multiple times, has had numerous 'therapy sessions' locally, therapy animals. She has made choices and has choices, she certainly takes advantage of therapy. SAY 'DO NOT CHOOSE DEATH' TO A PERSON SUFFERING FROM CANCER. I WONDER WHAT THEIR REPLY WOULD BE ,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I have been in her shoes. And still am. She is selfish and uses what happened to her an excuse. You can't let what has happened in the past define you.. she has, that's why she's always the "victim". Its infuriating. I have 2 kids and I take care of them each and every day not checking out to leave whenever I feel like it. They need me and you can bet I'm gonna be there for them no matter how hard it is!!!
@@xohillary Although you may have been (or are still in) a SIMILAR situation, you aren't in her shoes. You can't be. No one can. For example, can someone feel like they know what I go through because they also have a Mental illness, yes. Can they say that they have been in my shoes, NO. Because although they might have walked a battle with Mental illness, they probably haven't lost 3 children like I have, been raped, currently fighting to stay alive due a health issue, etc. etc. You may understand one of her situations, but you will never walk in her shoes. If, God for bid, you have a break down or something similar, and someone said "oh, I too have a Mental illness but I don't use it as an excuse" wouldn't you too feel as though that person has no idea what else you have gone through? I am just saying, you can't judge someone else because you share ONE or even a FEW of the same issues. You will never share them all, and you will never be in her shoes.
@@LauraMarieLive I suppose you're right, I can't say I have been in her exact place, and I'm really sorry for what you've been through.. however I can easily see who let's their problems control them and who doesn't.... cate does 100%.
she used to be so supportive of him it seems like the last few years at least on camera that she is all about herself, i understand self care but there is a difference between self care and selfish
Actually no. It’s always been “cait, cait cait” I don’t think she’s thought about “Cait and Ty” since before they were married. She puts a terrible stigma on mental health. Here’s hoping Tyler gets some peace, he deserves to be happy
The ONLY thing Cat has is, victim complex. I feel sooo bad for Tyler! He needs to find someone that can help him be a better him, and not her caretaker
This is a true power couple. The problem with today’s generation is that people like call it quits and give up on people way too soon. Cate and Ty are actually trying to grow as individuals so they can eventually continue to grow together. They haven’t called it quits, they’re working through their hardships and handling it really well, giving each other enough space while still being there for each other.
FINALLY!!!! Tyler can have a little vacation from Debbie downer & get a peace of mind. Too bad it's only for a month unlike the two vacations Cate took from her motherly responsibilities.
Catelynn is definitely bringing everyone down. I suffer from PTSD and Anxiety and either her rehab stints aren't with right the people or she really is so used to being a victim she can't function any other way. I also agree she just has the same cycle over and over. Sit at home watch tv, cry a lot about stupid stuff, go to rehab, come back, and repeat. She either hasn't been diagnosed properly or isnt on the right meds. Also any good therapist would tell her to get out and do something every day even if it's only to take a walk, get the mail, go grocery shopping. But she keeps doing the same stuff over and over and then gets upset when the same stuff happens.
Just because they’ve known each other since they were young and had a baby (Carly!) doesn’t mean they are meant to be. Maybe it’s time for them to take a long break. She thinks having more kids is going to fix their marriage and make her feel better about placing Carly for adoption but I really think she needs to work on it. Clearly she’s not ok. Poor Tyler I feel bad for him!
She’s so selfish I’m sick of her problems! Tyler needs to divorce her so he can live a better and healthy lifestyle and find someone that will make the effort in the relationship and care about his wellbeing as well! Tyler is defs going to leave her and I support his every move!
Davis Campos so true!!!!! People don’t respect their vows “ until death do we part”. People are too immature and or lazy to do the work, then they shouldn’t get married to begin with.
Tyler has been trying to work on their marriage for a long time but all Catelynn wants to do is run away off to treatment in another state instead of working on things there is only so much trying a person can do
Davis Campos so what happens when the work doesn’t work out? Do you still stay and be miserable for the rest of your life? Or do you have to suck it up until death and you’re finally free from a miserable wife?
I’m so happy!!! I hope they get divorced, I know it will be difficult but that’s the consequences of their actions. I believe Caitlyn wanted to get pregnant as a last resort to keep Tyler from leaving. I hope he finds someone that can make him happy because he still has to deal with Cait regardless if they are together or not.
Unexpectedly got pregnant?Serious ? Poor baby gonna see this episode one day and be devastated that her mom wanted her to be a boy...smh...like it simple you either were using protection or not usually if you are careful u don't just unexpectedly get pregnant lmfao..but stranger things have happened...
Erikka Juvonen oh gosh dramatic much? My mom told me she had post partum depression and wanted to throw me in the floor... Im fine lol. Not devastated.. Im sure she will be okay and have a better life than 95% of children in the world.
major reign yeah I guess I am dramatic..and you seem to be a little insensitive.guess u grew up in an unstable environment...or mayb you were a little brat who deserved to get smacked around a few times lmao...who knows mayb the baby will turn out to be a boy after all they not all100% or maybe transgender ?
If youve watch from day one tyler convinced her to give up carly when deep down she didnt want to. Catelynn forced herself to to come to grips with her decision, well now its hitting her hard! Everyone handles things in life differently. This is horrible timing for tyler to check out on her/ take a break when she needs him the most. Takin time to get her mind right for Nova & Carly is exactly what shes suppose to do.
Mental illness is no joke especially when you had a traumatic childhood they both had a hard childhood. I give them both a lot of credit for being as strong as they both are hell they're better than most couples that been together for 25 years. Sending prayers and positive energy and healing light made things work out for the sake of the children and the love you two have for each other the only couple that lasted on Teen Mom OG
I feel bad saying this, but.. Cait totally let herself Go! She turned into the HEFFER that Tyler said he didn't want his wife to look like. He is NOT happy in their marriage. Now he is stuck... another baby on the way.. did they plan it? Tyler surely didn't!!! Cait pulled off a terrific plan to keep her husband around. Even though Nova already seems to be way too much for her to handle. If she didn't have Tyler, her Mother would be raising Nova. I sure hope she gets her shit together.. I would like to see them succeed in their marriage.
No not a heffer....she is just in a stupor....and she needs to join a club or church...or somthing to keep her busy...Guys maybe its boredom.....?IDK..SMH
Honestly it’s real sad these days people aren’t listening to their vows when you marry somebody you have to think about the good the bad and the ugly and truly pull each other through the tough times not walk away so easy ..it’s for sickness and health I hope they can work it out. They have been through a lot I’m sure but I think they can make it if they want to.
Another Big thing is they have never started their lives. Date other people, go to college or vocational school, find a career, travel. They have been stuck on being teen parents instead of becoming productive ADULTS! This is not healthy & doesn’t promote growth. They need to go their own ways & work on themselves individually.
I hate when people say their baby was an oops. Getting pregnant is never a damn surprise. Unless you're using MULTIPLE forms of birth control, there is always always always a chance.
Please ryler get away from her. U will do sooo much better away from her. Maybe when ur not there she will get better. U cannot save this girl. U MUST SAVE URSELF.
Right. And she isn't even doing her part to get better. She needs to take it more seriously. I think she likes people feeling sorry for her. She us full if excuses so that she can't be held responsible for her actions.
You can tell he definitely doesn’t want to be with her anymore, he’s just afraid to say it 😯 he just doesn’t want to be seen as the bad guy for breaking things off.
This is the problem these days tho. People think that relationships are suppose to be borderline "perfect". That any conflict is a sure sign that you MUST leave. Newsflash! Marriage is WORK. Not a party. If you want to sit and stew on the negative points... Talking about them constantly.. instead of just moving on.. then yes this might happen. Someone saying Tyler deserves to find his "soulmate". Umm. That's really not a thing. A relationship/marriage becomes great because both ppl choose to make it that way. Cate + Tyler talked too much lol. Sometimes talking too much digs holes you didn't have before. They have money.. health..children.. they should smile and enjoy all that their union has brought to life. Marriage is work and you will NEVER find the perfect mate. Never.
Yes but Tyler cant put in all the work himself and carry Cait through everything for that many years. He is in a marriage and its like he is a single father. It takes two to make a marriage work. After the first stint in rehab Cait didn't even want to try out-patient care before going back. Then in rehab she spoke about ditching sessions to watch netflix. Yes there is no such thing as the perfect mate but there is such thing as finding someone who will put in the work just as you do.
@@suras8984 That's very true. I guess I just see so many other couples knit-picking, you know? Taking a tiny flaw or bad habit and blowing it up into a huge deal. In my heart, I just want people to try. Catelyn should.. try. If she doesn't and hasn't and Tyler is truly reaching a limit... then sadly now this is coming upon her. She might really regret it too. She will see the sacrifices Tyler made.. and feel so bad for putting all this on him. But she will also regret the wasted time. The years wrapped up in the mental fog of favoring herself. Yet.. I still want to urge people to make sure they find the RIGHT one. And you may not find them until you're in your 30s-40s. It happens. But I will say this... You rarely find it in your teens 😉
@@aquastar4336 Yes I agree. I also agree about the talking too much. But I also think that has to do with the producers asking the same questions. They probably always ask about Carly or ask when they think they will see her again or if they heard from Theresa which is a constant depressing reminder.
I personally kinda understand what she is going through so I have an understanding of what she is going through Tyler wanting to spend time apart may just be what Catelynn needs in order for her to take treatment serious because right now she is saying she wants help but she isn't fully committed to it she runs off to tretment comes home and instead of following the plan they usually have for you she just sits around does nothing and then she runs off to rehab again in another state
kotesha husted he does understand. He lets her do whatever she wants that can help her and her issues. But she never gives the same sentiment back. Tyler has his own issues that he never deals with, because if he’s not dealing with his father, or his sister, he’s dealing with his wife. This kid doesn’t get a break and his wife doesn’t care.
I’m not an expert on mental illnesses but I do see a pattern with Catelyns actions. When she’s overwhelmed, tired, and can’t deal.. she runs off. If she can’t see that her husband is suffering as well and that her choices forces him to step in and care for their child; then she’s just selfish. If he can push through and handle his responsibilities with the same mental illness, she should be forced to do the same as he does. My mom suffers from mass depression, mania, and bi polar. She still will take care of her business and her kids. No one said it was easy to go through that but you have a responsibility as a parent and wife.
She doesnt want another girl? Smh. U gave one up kept one lost one n having another one? Gurl u need.family and children services to sit down w u n sort that brain of urs out. Making children while fighting with sooo many emotions.
My opinion is that Tyler works hard for his kid and Catelyn, he has traumas to but he is so strong! Catelynn is just nothing for him, he deserves better and better!!
I honestly have been watching teen Mom OG from the beginning and Kate and Ty are the most intellectual parents andseem to have good heads on their shoulders even though they go through Rocky time and bumpy roads that's just part of life and a relationship and marriage but I think they're doing a great job for what they know and they are trying to make it right. Love them
I think Tyler has outgrown the relationship.
Or he caught on with her manipulation
Yeah becuz they’ve been together since forever so he probably wants to see other fish in the sea
Diys Y other fish? Lord I think he wants less chaos
Infinite Dreams that and I’m pretty sure he’s gotten bored
velvetmoon. Oh yes
She's definitely not prepared for the inevitable divorce that's coming her way
I Think this will help to prepare her for the divorce... she didnt even realize her marriage was on the rocks or that her always leaving was negatively impacting Tyler. I think Tyler wants to leave but is doing it in baby steps so she doesnt commit suicide.
@Hansen Says Take A Seat she never even thought that he wanted to get a separation. She's too in her comfort zone thinking that he will never ever leave her. That's why she doesn't even try
@@suras8984 not just the damage,shes done,to Tyler,shes done so much damage to Nova..katlynns all about. ...me..me..me!! And this was the worst,time for her to get pregnant.
Hansen Says Take A Seat ya, she does!! Lol clueless
Sura S what she gonna od on Twinkies ? Ride her therapy horse into the rode?
Tyler is getting healthy..so he is no longer attracted to sickness
This is the only comment that was right on...not her size not her...clothing..she is a sickness...i pray God guides them
Yess
Amen I agree! He tries hard to do things right. I loved these two, but I do not watch anymore. God will see them thru.
That and maybe going to church would make a difference. Not sure if they go or not
Yes girl yes! Unhealthy does not like healthy!! I hope she can get it together ... for all of them.
Catelynn is selfish, she is obsessed with the child they gave up and does not see she is making Tyler sick. She also has major attachment problems with Nova. Praying for all of you.
Trish C right?
They're both obsessed with Carly. It should have been a completely private adoption. They think they have rights that they don't, they gave them up years ago yet they still feel entitled.
I ageee she’s more lazy than amber that’s saying a lot I’m tired of her complaining this girl has money security and family. What more do you need. People are really struggling finically and health wise.
@@gracebediako1666 she has gotten pretty lazy and all and I agree but I dont think she will ever be happy bc She regrets giving up carly and she always will Tyler does too but they both deal with it differently. But she does need to change or shes gonna lose her man their marriage is literally hanging on by a thread and catelynn's bad actions are the scissors and they're moving in fast.
He’s fast cheating on her. Look at his glow up. That’s the first sign. Someone is in the wings he’s cheating with.
I think everyone seen this coming
He deserves better!,
Saw. I think everyone SAW this coming.
@@brookestarr6124 🤣👏
Bout time
Brooke Starr thank you!! I think that is the most annoying grammar error.
Tyler deserves to be happy! She is bringing him down and making him miserable. He’s done so much and she just goes off for “therapy” and comes back worse. Wish him the best and hopefully he can find his soulmate.
What about Tyler it’s always about Kate it’s about time he gets to be happy. I’m usually for the women. But in this case the fact is the poor guy is getting dragged down constantly for her sickness and trauma that’s no way to live and she seriously needs to think about how he feels he probably could make more progress on his own .
And
keen wow so u don’t wish her the best as well. It’s not any one persons fault. They been together since they were like 13. Relationships are hard. I hope they both find happiness
So true 💯
She deserves to be happy. Hes aways bringing her down. You guys only see a glimpse into their life. He calls her fat. Hes not happy because shes depressed. He dont understand marriage. Hes a tool in the making
I don't even think he's physically attracted to her anymore either
Tiffani Farrington He's asked her to lose weight but I dont think she wanted too!
@@ninaleyda2213 Well... Then... She's stupid LOL
Tiffani Farrington I agree he's not an ugly guy either. And as much as people want to say that's how he met her regardless they were kids. Now they're adults and all kinds of women im sure hit on him. So when your man is asking you to lose weight to make it easier to turn down other woman in better physical shape. You have to appreciate that. Idk that's just my opinion
@@ninaleyda2213 Naw I hear you and I agree!
@Dare to Love ur life Its her not taking care of herself. Tyler stay looking like a snackity snack snack! AND he's smart! Mmm... Panties got wet HAHAHA jk
I used to like Caitlyn & Tyler, but past few season Caitlyn is just a debbie downer & I think she thrives on pity! She is definitely holding Tyler back & a marriage shouldn’t be that way. He tried his hardest I think it’s just time to move in. People grow differently & it’s tough to stay together since so young & grow together. I know I been with my now husband for 18 years. We met when I was 14 he was 15.. Now I’m 32 & we have 4 amazing kids & an amazing marriage! Although hard to grow together & respect each other’s changes, we made it through the hard now it’s just fun, & the bond we have no one in this world can take that place for each of us! Thank god we have been blessed. :)
I wish you two many more years to come 💗💗💗💗
EXACTLY !! Brittney!! well said!
(shes always,a victim) I dont know;how hes put up,with her,this long!! & shes done so much damage to Nova(so sad)
Brittney B. Williams I’m sooo happy for the both of you
I think a marriage is also about not giving up on each other and its more important to them to stick together, for many reasons, but #1 they both come from broken homes. These two were family before they got married and family doesnt give up on each other. Caitlyn is lucky Tyler has strong morals and values.
Having depression is not the same as being a Debbie downer. She can't help the way she feels. Yes, it's too much at this point with all her negativity, but that's her mental health
she got pregnant on purpose..to keep him in the marriage..its back firing..
Vee&Xavier always pretty sure she didn’t get herself pregnant🙄
They had said they were trying for awhile
I doubt that.
Probably
It takes two
That child looks like she came right out of Tyler.
After a miscarriage she should be happy whether it's a boy or girl!
Allison Peterson There is a lack of gratitude. It’s sad.
Interesting perspective
Exactly!!!
Very true. The statement she made about not wanting another girl was very strange considering she said she had a hard miscarriage in the past. That was one of her excuses for all these mental breakdowns..
I cringed so hard when she said " I don't want another girl" like a little brat.
Sweet sweet Nova ❤️
Did you do a video about this topic?? Cause I need to know your opinion!
Pam Rod Same!!
Patiently waiting for you to post!
Oh God me too
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It's not going to be just a month. He is going to divorce her. He only said a month so she wouldn't have another break down.
No, they are back together actually.
no they’re okay. marriage has problems. it’s not like the movies
For everyone only wanting happiness for Tyler and solely blaming Caitlyn, wow so u don’t wish her the best as well. It’s not any one persons fault. They been together since they were like 13. Relationships are hard. I hope they both find happiness
Yes, she made some mistakes but she is human aswell, i wish both the best!
I think it's just people are fed up with the pity party she throws herself all time. I wish them both the best of luck depression is no joke but when theres children involved that depends on you . You can't just check out and run to therapy at the drop of the hat and dont do the steps that involves in changing and getting better. I think that's why everyone is like f cate at this point .
Miss Conceiteality uh no dear she’s has several problems now and she needs to be fix have another baby will not fix a relationship or a marriage and Caitlyn needs to realize that 8 years ago she gave up Carly at 16 and then she gets pregnant again to have novaleea and she bearly takes care of her! And now she’s 14 weeks pregnant with her 3rd baby while has mental issues and depression why some people keep doing this to them selves and Tyler just keep knocking her up this is very sad she’s very over weight Tyler is losing and gaining weight this is not right!! 🤔
Bridgy Wright I agree I totally see Tyler’s frustration for sure
Dawson Fields so you must be in this relationship as well. My bad 🙄 sike
I think Cate is addicted to counseling
Right 😂😂😂
karebear848 especially if she needs it!!
Treatment is never going to work for her because she isn't fully committed to wanting it
karebear848 i kno i do too
Right? I honestly think she needs medication and life coaching way more than all this inpatient therapy stuff. She's obsessing over past trauma and really not helping herself.
He's going to realize how happy he is without her and file for divorce just watch. She's right to be worried
Kay Jack he probably has realized this when she left for therapy and then when she came back he was like ughh yeah we need to live separated but he shouldn’t have been knocking her up in the meantime
IF YOU'RE NOT HAPPY, QUIT KNOCKING HER UP!
Whose to say that he thought Catelynn was on the pill or she had that thing in her arm to help prevent pregnancy and Catelynn hadn't been taking the pill or had the thing taken out without Tyler knowing I'm only assuming since I can't watch all of the episodes since they are blocked where I live
Why isn't Kaitlyn protecting her body. she's getting fatter and fatter with every pregnancy, you would think she would take something to prevent it it's her body she should protect it.
She said she was blind sighted that statement in its self just shows that she has zero awareness of tyler struggles and mental state. He has been saying for a few seasons now that's he is unhappy in their relationship.
These are not teen moms any longer, they are baby mama's now.
Even the married ones?
I don't want another girl, what a terrible thing to say
Tyler found a way out.... he is definitely not going back!
I agree, I don't their going to get back together either.
Thank god he broke free out of that cage
Thank god he needs to run away !!!!
Theyre already back together
jessica Renegar Since when?
When u get married you are suppose to grow together not separate. You deal with problems together and share the good together. You don't live separate lives and only live together when things are good.
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It takes 2 to want to deal with issues together. Tyler cannot do the work for the both of them for that many years.
She keeps running away to rehab and refuses to do work at home, also refused to do couples counseling until Tyler blew up. If they need to separate for both their mental sake, that’s their business. If I were him, I’d need a break, Cate makes everything about her
True..But you also,dont deserve mental abuse!! And need to know when its time to move on
It doesn’t matter u guys are only considering the two of them they are so unimportant in this equation they have two children that did not ask to be born they need to put their stuff to the side and take care of their kids and when their two kids are both in school then re evaluate the equation again. Maybe they should stay in a hotel one night a month for like six months and get some alone time and it will make them both happier to see each other
I can’t stand her ! Stop getting pregnant having kids won’t keep him . You need to fix yourself and be a mom not when you feel like it. Poor Tyler he looks so unhappy he needs to move on and be happy with someone else .
She literally makes no effort to get better , she goes and takes off on her husband and child to seek "help" and misses classes to nap and watch movies only to return home and nap and watch movies and then claim she is so depressed and leave again . She is constantly invalidating Tyler and his feelings and always finds a way to switch the subject on herself and how she feels . I once rooted for her but she doesn't want to change and shouldn't be having another child considering the fact she cannot get her shit together and is failing to properly take care of the one she currently has custody of . There are tons of parents INCLUDING MYSELF that have depression and anxiety issues from childhood trauma and I wake my ass up and take care of my child and have never made her feel less than it is no excuse considering that she has the money and resources at her hands , I know MTV provides them with the best care , I dont feel badly for her one bit she needs to grow up.
Right on!! @superbubblyme😘Well said!! Sometimes people use child hood issues,to get away with bad behavior!! Alot, of people have had bad childhoods! U learn & grow from it! I was pregnant myself at 17! Got married had 2 kids by the tine i was 18!! Then my husband was physically abusive! I put him in jail..now..a single mom raising 2 kids & a Full time job!(I didnt have a T.V.show to make me wealthy! This is REAL life!!i didnt have time to be depressed. & if i was i had to suck it up!! I felt sorry for her at 1st also, till,I saw the damage she was doing to that sweet lil girl!! Causing her panic,& anxiety...so sad,Im so glad that Tyler decided to go to counseling poor guy! And Iam sorry about what has happened to you! And she shouldn't be allowed to have a child smoking weed,wth! That will be in that babys system!
Nailed It! Although I do still root for them..
SuperBubblyme Yes, it’s time to grow up. My question for her is: do you want to get well? Depression and anxiety is real, but it shouldn’t be your identity. I hope they don’t get a divorce. I see no honor in that. If Tyler wants to be single he should have never married her. You don’t marry someone out of obligation. This is a sad situation.
@@micheleruddle-evans6507 proud of you for getting out of that relationship and I bet your children are as well congratulations
@@bluemickey23 when he married her he didn't see it as an obligation unless he said that idk lol but he shouldn't stay in an unhappy marriage either that isn't a good example for Nova either is seeing nothing but chaos .
Y’all do know it takes TWO to get pregnant right ?
Tanashja Sanders but she probably did it on purpose because he wanted to separate.
A surprise pregnancy? You can't just blame her for wanting to keep tyler. He knows how to prevent babies as much as her. Sad to add another child into their complicated marriage.
Yes it takes 2 to get pregnant but it takes it just takes 1 person to miss a pill or two to ensure conception takes place. Thats how I'm alive today. My mom wanted me but my dad didnt want me and didnt know my mom wasnt using contraceptives :) thanks mom! ;)
Trena Dettman what you talking about 💀?
Sura S he could have worn a condom .
Her reaction to having a girl instead of a boy REALLLLLY pisses me off.
I feel so bad for Nova 😭😭
So she gave up her first daughter...had another beautiful daughter...had a miscarriage but now is pregnant again but didn't want another girl. Must be nice getting those checks and being able to check in and out of life when its beneficial to your feelings! Depression u say? Oh plz! I haven't been able to conceive and its been killing me! Y'all make excuses for this woman too much!
I agree! I haven't been able to conceive either, she should be lucky for what she has.
What makes either one of you ladies believe she's not greatful for what she has? And to compare ones struggle in life isn't fair judgment to your own. We all struggle with things but we all have different tools and coping mechanisms or lack those to get through life. You can have two very similar situations in life and still get two very different outcomes. It's sad when anyone separates let alone deals with the hardships they've bad along the way. I think if either one checked out they wouldn't be on the path theyre on.
I wish you ladies only the best with your infertility issues.
She didn’t give up her first daughter. She was 16 and not in a position that was healthy or safe to raise a child, she put her child up for adoption which everyone can see was the best decision at the time. Lots of pregnant women want to have a certain gender baby, her being slightly disappointed isn’t a big deal. I doubt she is going to love the child less because it’s a girl. Also, depression and sadness are not the same thing. She is mentally ill. So things like her marriage, children, family life might be triggering her depression. She’s not just sad - it is beyond her control, which is why she is in therapy and medicated.
Shut up. You're beyond stupid. Clearly she cant chose, whatever she gets i'm sure she will love either way. But yeah, it would be nice to have a boy than just all girls. She is depressed. But wanting a boy has nothing to do with depression. Hell, i have two girls. And ya know what? I'd like a boy too.
Depression is hard
I think a lot of their issues come from him being the strength of the family, the one holding it together dealing with his dad’s addiction and his sister’s childish bullshit and trying to be a dad. He knew Catelynn’s life story, all her pain and trauma, and he’s chosen to stay with her and actually love her. It’s hard to love someone with Catelynn’s diagnoses. I would know because I’m just like her....Any relationship has issues, all marriages struggle some time. You have to both be willing to get through it together. And they are. The world needs more positivity and less negativity.
Whenever they do spilt, I worry for Tyler cause we all know Catelynn is gonna be manipulative and make him the villain in all of this. I wouldn’t be surprised if she went as far as threatening to hurt herself.
Wow I actually like them together & since middle school? Wow it’s been many year’s for sure!!
Elyse George they live better than most for getting rewarded for getting pregnant in high school...only in America
She was blindsided by the separation? What? She's so in denial.
He still looks about 18 and she looks like she's nearing 30 and steadily gaining more weight. I'm sure he gets hit on a lot on social media and what not, she can't stand that and instead of work on herself, she runs away to a retreat, leaves ty to deal with raising their kid alone. They seem miserably together.
Are you saying she looks old, Is 30 old ?
@@kristymcc1 Not at all, 30 isn't old, but is she aging poorly for her actual age, yes. 26-30 isn't much of an age difference at all, but next to Tyler, I think it looks like the two are very different by age.
She's likely taking medication for her mental health and those meds cause weight gain. I was taking meds for 5 years, was on a healthy diet, exercised as much as possible and gained 60 pounds! I switched meds and it took a year to lose all the weight I gained. Meds make you age faster.
+Mina Gee I'm in my mid 30s& I do not look like that. .
+Mina Gee I'm in my mid 30s& I do not look like that. .
I think that Tyler loves Cate very much and respects her but ultimately, he’s been dealing with this for so long, plus his own family issues and one can only take so much! He has never been able to focus on Ty.
Good. She seemed to bring him down. He's just too good for her. I do believe he regrets giving up their first child. They shouldn't be having another baby in all them problems. Hopefully this can strengthen her instead of breaking her anymore than she already is.
She need to step up and do her duties....he simply sick and tired of her leaving him with everything to do......get it together...and he not bad look either...stay woke girl
She needs to hold the reins on her emotional health. Right now shes riding the horse with no saddle. And if she cant, its time for him to move on
Lauren Hahn don't be ridiculous. I've worked at a children's hospital for 25 years and am now retired at the age of 63. We all know that for the most part if the woman does not handle the protection not to get pregnant it just won't happen. That is just a pure fact a statistical fact. So if couples don't want to get pregnant the woman should be on whatever it is to keep her from getting pregnant. She could have been on the pill she could have had the ring she could have had the shot they could use condoms which for married couples I don't suggest because young couples hormones are raging and they generally do not use the condoms. Do you wonder why she was not on any form of birth control after being pregnant as a teenager and all the hell both of them went through and him saying that he's not happy with her? You didn't wonder that?
She is literally a downer idk why. It’s sad because she does absolutely nothing but smoke weed all day. She has fake depression and is upset about her first child but she needs to grow up. It hurt Tyler too but he is trying so hard to move on...she will not let him live!
She completely let herself go. She's so out of shape and full of problems. Tyler can do better.
Kimmy Khaira oh please. So overweight people deserve nothing????? Maybe she can do better.
@@tinkerbella4605 that's not what I meant. She clearly has problems and thinks that having another baby would save her marriage. She doesn't exercise at all and has gained tons of weight over the years. Those are all signs of depression.
@@heartz500 If those are signs of depression then I must have depression because I'm in the same boat as catelyn in the weight department... thank you for diagnosing everyone who gains weight over the years.. such a relief!
She has never been an attractive person. He's a very good-looking man, and if he saw her now, there is no way he would be attracted to her. They hooked up super young. It's just run its course.
@Kimmy u know that's exactly wtf you meant!!!! You must be perfect and someone who thinks that you're one of those girls who would never let her self go aka a thin girl who is the best!!! Ohh I bet Tyler could do better huh,perhaps with you???? So keep trying to rewrite ur fat shaming & pretend that you only meant her depression etc... Yeah right u are superficial &obviously shallow and think that he's 2good for her due to her being a little bit thick..Though I guarantee that you think she's fat ¬ hot like your standers huh? Ur a .pos!!!
For him to ask to try living separate means only one thing - he’s so fed up and he wants out ! He doesn’t want to / not ready yet to admit that he’s done and wants change !
"Getting pregnant was totally unexpected" sorry but... didnt they learned anything? 😂
I’m honestly happy they put their first one up for adoption
Nicole I’m honestly glad too, she isn’t apart of this mess and she’s with her amazing adoptive parents.
poisonivy I know she makes me sick! Like I would do anything to have a baby too! People like this especially her are SOOOO UNGRATEFUL
Nicole I pray you have a baby one day too ❤️ and right!! They are so ungrateful it makes me sick 😔
They probably would have taken care of Carly better than the way they are taking care of Nova now. And way better than this baby on the way will get cared for by Cait. Cait wouldnt have had that trauma from the adoption and would have been able to better care for Carly. Now more kids are worse off from that one adoption because she hasnt shown herself to have the capacity to be a mother. Carly is better off, but her two kids now wont be and Carly is having identity issues.
Sura S hmm I dunno she had a rough child hood I don’t think it’s all about the adoption I also think she didn’t realise how tough parenting would be and just doesn’t want to do it sometimes when nova is carrying on like a normal child she seems like she’s so over it Carly would of done the same thing that’s what kids do and I think she would of been the same checking out all the time
Tyler just looks frustrated and probably feels like he is there for everyone but who is there for him. He just looks tired. Nova cute as a button. I believe they love each other but are tired of each other if that makes any sense.
If she really wants Tyler back completely. He wants her to work on herself 100% and see👀 the changes, not talk them. Being a parent and being a wife is 2 different things!!!! I had to learn this the hard way. I also went to a lot of mental facilities and I learn you have to love yourself 1st before you can love your family. A better U means a better family!!!!!
Kdria Denise absolutely
That's Nice.... saying you "don't want another girl" in front of your daughter....
Marriage is all about growing together.
Suzanne Baxter you can’t grow with someone life doesn’t work like that sometimes you need a break people have to work on themselves individually before they work well as a couple
Bit hard to grow together when all Catelynn wants to do is ignore Tyler's issues and then keep tunning off to rehab in another state it takes 2 people to make a marriage grow and Tyler tried and tried
Not true you CAN work on yourself even in a relationship
Since middle school? Damn they needed to live their life and experience other people and other life experiences
To all those slamming Cate, WALK A DAY IN HER SHOES. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH. If she would have killed herself, you would have said "I wish she had gotten help, known how loved she was, and how selfish that was to do to her kid and husband" SHE WENT AND GOT THE HELP, AND DIDN'T CHOOSE DEATH, AND YOU'RE STILL SAYING THE SAME THING! REALIZE THAT!
Also, Realize that your words give her or anyone struggling with Mental illness, more of a push in the WRONG possibly Fatal direction!
She has a choice , your worlds 'AND DIDN'T CHOOSE DEATH' are so poignant. She has been to therapy multiple times, has had numerous 'therapy sessions' locally, therapy animals. She has made choices and has choices, she certainly takes advantage of therapy. SAY 'DO NOT CHOOSE DEATH' TO A PERSON SUFFERING FROM CANCER. I WONDER WHAT THEIR REPLY WOULD BE ,,,,,,,,,,,,,
@@lamsy1 I am not understanding what you are saying. Can you try again? Sorry, just trying to understand
I have been in her shoes. And still am. She is selfish and uses what happened to her an excuse. You can't let what has happened in the past define you.. she has, that's why she's always the "victim". Its infuriating. I have 2 kids and I take care of them each and every day not checking out to leave whenever I feel like it. They need me and you can bet I'm gonna be there for them no matter how hard it is!!!
@@xohillary Although you may have been (or are still in) a SIMILAR situation, you aren't in her shoes. You can't be. No one can. For example, can someone feel like they know what I go through because they also have a Mental illness, yes. Can they say that they have been in my shoes, NO. Because although they might have walked a battle with Mental illness, they probably haven't lost 3 children like I have, been raped, currently fighting to stay alive due a health issue, etc. etc. You may understand one of her situations, but you will never walk in her shoes. If, God for bid, you have a break down or something similar, and someone said "oh, I too have a Mental illness but I don't use it as an excuse" wouldn't you too feel as though that person has no idea what else you have gone through? I am just saying, you can't judge someone else because you share ONE or even a FEW of the same issues. You will never share them all, and you will never be in her shoes.
@@LauraMarieLive I suppose you're right, I can't say I have been in her exact place, and I'm really sorry for what you've been through.. however I can easily see who let's their problems control them and who doesn't.... cate does 100%.
she used to be so supportive of him it seems like the last few years at least on camera that she is all about herself, i understand self care but there is a difference between self care and selfish
"I don't want another girl!"is a great thing to shout on camera for your daughters to see later in life.
Yes! Horrible!
He's done everything to keep her happy and been her support system that I don't think she's giving him anything in return.. which is sad
Actually no. It’s always been “cait, cait cait” I don’t think she’s thought about “Cait and Ty” since before they were married. She puts a terrible stigma on mental health. Here’s hoping Tyler gets some peace, he deserves to be happy
The ONLY thing Cat has is, victim complex. I feel sooo bad for Tyler! He needs to find someone that can help him be a better him, and not her caretaker
This is a true power couple. The problem with today’s generation is that people like call it quits and give up on people way too soon. Cate and Ty are actually trying to grow as individuals so they can eventually continue to grow together. They haven’t called it quits, they’re working through their hardships and handling it really well, giving each other enough space while still being there for each other.
Not a great situation to be bringing a baby into,
FINALLY!!!! Tyler can have a little vacation from Debbie downer & get a peace of mind. Too bad it's only for a month unlike the two vacations Cate took from her motherly responsibilities.
Catelynn is definitely bringing everyone down. I suffer from PTSD and Anxiety and either her rehab stints aren't with right the people or she really is so used to being a victim she can't function any other way. I also agree she just has the same cycle over and over. Sit at home watch tv, cry a lot about stupid stuff, go to rehab, come back, and repeat. She either hasn't been diagnosed properly or isnt on the right meds. Also any good therapist would tell her to get out and do something every day even if it's only to take a walk, get the mail, go grocery shopping. But she keeps doing the same stuff over and over and then gets upset when the same stuff happens.
Just because they’ve known each other since they were young and had a baby (Carly!) doesn’t mean they are meant to be. Maybe it’s time for them to take a long break. She thinks having more kids is going to fix their marriage and make her feel better about placing Carly for adoption but I really think she needs to work on it. Clearly she’s not ok. Poor Tyler I feel bad for him!
She’s so selfish I’m sick of her problems! Tyler needs to divorce her so he can live a better and healthy lifestyle and find someone that will make the effort in the relationship and care about his wellbeing as well! Tyler is defs going to leave her and I support his every move!
Sick of people quitting on their marriage..do the work...
Why though ? It's not YOUR marriage
Davis Campos so true!!!!! People don’t respect their vows “ until death do we part”. People are too immature and or lazy to do the work, then they shouldn’t get married to begin with.
Tyler has been trying to work on their marriage for a long time but all Catelynn wants to do is run away off to treatment in another state instead of working on things there is only so much trying a person can do
Davis Campos so what happens when the work doesn’t work out? Do you still stay and be miserable for the rest of your life? Or do you have to suck it up until death and you’re finally free from a miserable wife?
@@BabyGirlTiny i belive in working on a marriage..but not if your being mentally or physically abused!! Shes mentally abusing them!
I’m so happy!!! I hope they get divorced, I know it will be difficult but that’s the consequences of their actions. I believe Caitlyn wanted to get pregnant as a last resort to keep Tyler from leaving. I hope he finds someone that can make him happy because he still has to deal with Cait regardless if they are together or not.
Unexpectedly got pregnant?Serious ? Poor baby gonna see this episode one day and be devastated that her mom wanted her to be a boy...smh...like it simple you either were using protection or not usually if you are careful u don't just unexpectedly get pregnant lmfao..but stranger things have happened...
Erikka Juvonen oh gosh dramatic much? My mom told me she had post partum depression and wanted to throw me in the floor... Im fine lol. Not devastated.. Im sure she will be okay and have a better life than 95% of children in the world.
major reign yeah I guess I am dramatic..and you seem to be a little insensitive.guess u grew up in an unstable environment...or mayb you were a little brat who deserved to get smacked around a few times lmao...who knows mayb the baby will turn out to be a boy after all they not all100% or maybe transgender ?
@@erikkajuvonen8030
Your comment to the girl above showed more about your true colors.
danklove14 you know absolutely nothing about my true colours...lmfao made a comment take it how u must...
I think she's trying to fill the void of Carly not being with them.
If youve watch from day one tyler convinced her to give up carly when deep down she didnt want to. Catelynn forced herself to to come to grips with her decision, well now its hitting her hard! Everyone handles things in life differently. This is horrible timing for tyler to check out on her/ take a break when she needs him the most. Takin time to get her mind right for Nova & Carly is exactly what shes suppose to do.
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What selfish immature people. What the hell were they thinking having another baby.
Well done for shouting out you don’t want another girl right in front of your daughter 👍🙄
Mental illness is no joke especially when you had a traumatic childhood they both had a hard childhood. I give them both a lot of credit for being as strong as they both are hell they're better than most couples that been together for 25 years. Sending prayers and positive energy and healing light made things work out for the sake of the children and the love you two have for each other the only couple that lasted on Teen Mom OG
I feel bad saying this, but.. Cait totally let herself Go! She turned into the HEFFER that Tyler said he didn't want his wife to look like. He is NOT happy in their marriage. Now he is stuck... another baby on the way.. did they plan it? Tyler surely didn't!!! Cait pulled off a terrific plan to keep her husband around. Even though Nova already seems to be way too much for her to handle. If she didn't have Tyler, her Mother would be raising Nova. I sure hope she gets her shit together.. I would like to see them succeed in their marriage.
No not a heffer....she is just in a stupor....and she needs to join a club or church...or somthing to keep her busy...Guys maybe its boredom.....?IDK..SMH
Her mother basically did raise Nova for the first six months lol
Lol
Of course there's someone else. Denial is a powerful emotion. Men with pregnant wives don't get separated unless there's someone else. FACT.
Honestly it’s real sad these days people aren’t listening to their vows when you marry somebody you have to think about the good the bad and the ugly and truly pull each other through the tough times not walk away so easy ..it’s for sickness and health I hope they can work it out. They have been through a lot I’m sure but I think they can make it if they want to.
So you would stay in abusive marriage?? Ok?
michele forsure well in that case get out but I highly doubt they have an abusive relationship.
Good! Tyler deserves Way BETTER!!Life is too Short...
Another Big thing is they have never started their lives. Date other people, go to college or vocational school, find a career, travel. They have been stuck on being teen parents instead of becoming productive ADULTS! This is not healthy & doesn’t promote growth. They need to go their own ways & work on themselves individually.
Focus on u? 🧐 it is always all about u. Smh
Aleksandra Wajnert exactly what i was thinking
If Tyler knew what was good for him he’d cut all his losses, get custody of Nova and run!
Um.. how long are they going to keep these people relevant? They aren’t teens lol they are almost 30.....
Danny Feerer it’s teen mom “OG”. Meaning the original teen moms
I hate when people say their baby was an oops. Getting pregnant is never a damn surprise. Unless you're using MULTIPLE forms of birth control, there is always always always a chance.
Tyler deserve happiness..
Please ryler get away from her. U will do sooo much better away from her. Maybe when ur not there she will get better. U cannot save this girl. U MUST SAVE URSELF.
Its all her fault, how can she not expect that to happen when she is constantly leaving him and her child because of her depression and anxiety.
Right. And she isn't even doing her part to get better. She needs to take it more seriously. I think she likes people feeling sorry for her. She us full if excuses so that she can't be held responsible for her actions.
She needs to stop using her past as an excuse.. it’s part of life, let that shit go.
We all go through difficult things in life
Unexpected ? You know how it happens .
You can tell he definitely doesn’t want to be with her anymore, he’s just afraid to say it 😯 he just doesn’t want to be seen as the bad guy for breaking things off.
This is the problem these days tho. People think that relationships are suppose to be borderline "perfect". That any conflict is a sure sign that you MUST leave. Newsflash! Marriage is WORK. Not a party. If you want to sit and stew on the negative points... Talking about them constantly.. instead of just moving on.. then yes this might happen. Someone saying Tyler deserves to find his "soulmate". Umm. That's really not a thing. A relationship/marriage becomes great because both ppl choose to make it that way. Cate + Tyler talked too much lol. Sometimes talking too much digs holes you didn't have before. They have money.. health..children.. they should smile and enjoy all that their union has brought to life. Marriage is work and you will NEVER find the perfect mate. Never.
Yes but Tyler cant put in all the work himself and carry Cait through everything for that many years. He is in a marriage and its like he is a single father. It takes two to make a marriage work. After the first stint in rehab Cait didn't even want to try out-patient care before going back. Then in rehab she spoke about ditching sessions to watch netflix. Yes there is no such thing as the perfect mate but there is such thing as finding someone who will put in the work just as you do.
@@suras8984 That's very true. I guess I just see so many other couples knit-picking, you know? Taking a tiny flaw or bad habit and blowing it up into a huge deal. In my heart, I just want people to try.
Catelyn should.. try. If she doesn't and hasn't and Tyler is truly reaching a limit... then sadly now this is coming upon her. She might really regret it too. She will see the sacrifices Tyler made.. and feel so bad for putting all this on him. But she will also regret the wasted time. The years wrapped up in the mental fog of favoring herself. Yet.. I still want to urge people to make sure they find the RIGHT one. And you may not find them until you're in your 30s-40s. It happens. But I will say this... You rarely find it in your teens 😉
@@aquastar4336 Yes I agree. I also agree about the talking too much. But I also think that has to do with the producers asking the same questions. They probably always ask about Carly or ask when they think they will see her again or if they heard from Theresa which is a constant depressing reminder.
@@suras8984 pff you know they bring her up
Caitlyn is so toxic for Tyler, I'm glad he's finally taking time to him self!
Run Tyler. Babies with two parents that share custody have a better life then being together and being unhappy.
I've always rooted for these 2 but I think having Nova has brought up everything from their adoption and miscarriage.
About time! Tyler looks miserable
Duh, hes famous now. People stick up him not understanding whats going on with her. He's letting it all go to his head. She deserves so much better.
I personally kinda understand what she is going through so I have an understanding of what she is going through Tyler wanting to spend time apart may just be what Catelynn needs in order for her to take treatment serious because right now she is saying she wants help but she isn't fully committed to it she runs off to tretment comes home and instead of following the plan they usually have for you she just sits around does nothing and then she runs off to rehab again in another state
kotesha husted he does understand. He lets her do whatever she wants that can help her and her issues. But she never gives the same sentiment back. Tyler has his own issues that he never deals with, because if he’s not dealing with his father, or his sister, he’s dealing with his wife. This kid doesn’t get a break and his wife doesn’t care.
All is does is focus on herself...wtf does she mean it'll give her time to work on herself. Get over the victim mentality!
TheProgressive conservative well she don't need no more kid then
I always thought he was so much better looking than her.
Sad the love is gone
Catelynn needs to lose some damn weight.
I think Tyler is not even attracted to her anymore. Can’t blame him tho
Abortion is an option for a reason. Yet another child that’s going to be taken care of by someone else 🙄
Aphrodites Xo well sis it isn’t an option if it was planned to trap yo dude
Only 26 and living miserably. This is the perfect example of how relationships, marriage doesn't fix everything.
Ty deserves to b happy, he’s a good guy
I’m not an expert on mental illnesses but I do see a pattern with Catelyns actions. When she’s overwhelmed, tired, and can’t deal.. she runs off. If she can’t see that her husband is suffering as well and that her choices forces him to step in and care for their child; then she’s just selfish. If he can push through and handle his responsibilities with the same mental illness, she should be forced to do the same as he does. My mom suffers from mass depression, mania, and bi polar. She still will take care of her business and her kids. No one said it was easy to go through that but you have a responsibility as a parent and wife.
She doesnt want another girl? Smh. U gave one up kept one lost one n having another one? Gurl u need.family and children services to sit down w u n sort that brain of urs out. Making children while fighting with sooo many emotions.
My opinion is that Tyler works hard for his kid and Catelyn, he has traumas to but he is so strong! Catelynn is just nothing for him, he deserves better and better!!
Good for Tyler find someone else
I honestly have been watching teen Mom OG from the beginning and Kate and Ty are the most intellectual parents andseem to have good heads on their shoulders even though they go through Rocky time and bumpy roads that's just part of life and a relationship and marriage but I think they're doing a great job for what they know and they are trying to make it right. Love them