I had post partum depression after my pregnancy Cause I kept thinking “what if my baby died”-Bam Bam

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @debbyfadoju7976
    @debbyfadoju7976 10 месяцев назад +34

    I love how she speaks, so pretty!

  • @maryannodeh3387
    @maryannodeh3387 11 месяцев назад +76

    Bambams voice can literally put anyone to sleep....I admire her a lot .she's so soft spoken .gosh I wish

  • @amaka3632
    @amaka3632 11 месяцев назад +125

    Hmm this is my story 8 and half yrs ago with pre-eclampsia too ,very high blood pressure, blood in the urine, emergency delivery, epidural did not work 😢 cut me open life and direct,during this process seizures happen,enter coma,baby stop breathing, after waking up for some days I lost my voice because of over .
    screaming ,
    Hmm my story long abeg but we give Jehovah the Glory ,we're all alive today.
    All mothers are Heros🎉❤.

    • @Ohhvida
      @Ohhvida 11 месяцев назад

      Congratulations
      I’m proud of you

    • @NonyeEke-s5r
      @NonyeEke-s5r 11 месяцев назад +1

      You are a strong woman

    • @chinaza6143
      @chinaza6143 10 месяцев назад

      Thank God for your life dear

    • @Peace-tx7fc
      @Peace-tx7fc 10 месяцев назад

      😢 wow! Am glad it ended in praise ❤

    • @sophiaerih1391
      @sophiaerih1391 Месяц назад

      Thank God for you

  • @BeautyUncut1
    @BeautyUncut1 11 месяцев назад +178

    I could listen to this woman speak a whole day.

  • @novemberchizurumoke9556
    @novemberchizurumoke9556 11 месяцев назад +41

    I've experienced pre-eclampsia thrice. Birthed all three kids via emergency CS and two of them were premature (33 and 31 weeks). Also had to struggle with PPD. So I can totally relate to this story.
    If you've had it easy in pregnancy, don't think everyone's experience is the same as yours.

  • @mummytriplets3115
    @mummytriplets3115 11 месяцев назад +69

    Highly classified boss lady. We love you, Bambam

  • @gideonharuna6675
    @gideonharuna6675 11 месяцев назад +78

    I don’t think many people understand what women go through during and after pregnancy. I’m happy that she’s happy and her babies are doing well. Credit to her husband as well. Kudos to all mothers.

  • @NgoziAsonye
    @NgoziAsonye 11 месяцев назад +12

    First time watching Chude cos of Bam.This lady has grown over the years.love it.

  • @OguNora-f9o
    @OguNora-f9o 11 месяцев назад +30

    I didn’t change much but my then husband treated me like shit I went through depression I can relate 😊I hv moved on and am happy

  • @FavourEbong
    @FavourEbong 11 месяцев назад +20

    I could literally just listen to this lady speak all dey, she knows really how to hold intellectual conversations.., I love you Bam Bam.., and to Chude, you're such an amazing personality in content creation, keep up the good work 👍

  • @mummytwins6752
    @mummytwins6752 11 месяцев назад +55

    Same thing happened to me wen I was pregnant with my twins, but God came through 🙏.

  • @Onyii_Charles
    @Onyii_Charles Месяц назад +19

    Chei. The baby is a miracle. Pregnancy is no joke

  • @Tari-ann
    @Tari-ann Месяц назад +15

    My precious gift is 8 months old now and I'm going through depression still. Holding on for better days!!it's not easy, God bless all mamas!!❤

    • @BeamsUrban
      @BeamsUrban Месяц назад +1

      Sending you hugs sis. Just hang in there❤ you will be fine

    • @chukwu93chelsea40
      @chukwu93chelsea40 9 дней назад +1

      I pray you heal soon sis. Please do you take your vitamins?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 9 дней назад

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 shamefully no, I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've honestly neglected myself, so busy with the baby. Are there any particular vitamin supplements you would recommend sis?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 8 дней назад

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 I continued taking the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've just been so busy with the baby, neglecting the 'caretaker' me.
      It feels like there isn't enough time in a day for me to fit myself in. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann 8 дней назад

      I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. Everything has just been about my little bundle so much so that I've honestly neglected myself. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

  • @oputapretty8771
    @oputapretty8771 11 месяцев назад +31

    Your birth story made me teary and just brought memories when I was scheduled for an emergency surgery.
    Thank God for his mercies

    • @Osatotv
      @Osatotv Месяц назад

      Am telling you 😢

  • @SolaAyoola-fu7ug
    @SolaAyoola-fu7ug 9 месяцев назад +31

    Yoruba have a saying that translates into Thank God you came out of the danger of child birth .This is the reason why because child birth is not an easy experience.

  • @nuratjinadu3860
    @nuratjinadu3860 Месяц назад +4

    Awwwwnnn my darling BAMBAM 😻
    The accent though 👌🏿👌🏿❤️🤧😍😍

  • @ibifuroabiotonye4670
    @ibifuroabiotonye4670 11 месяцев назад +13

    Jesus!!!
    Every woman’s pregnancy story is different.
    You know the entire process of pregnancy till safe delivery is the reason Pastors pass the mic to mothers during dedication because What we go through before ,during and after pregnancy is What Most Mouths can’t say out.
    Congratulations Bam Bam

  • @meddyalaka6314
    @meddyalaka6314 Месяц назад +5

    This is just my exact story. Preclampsia is just a whole sensitive case. Went for my last antenatal and got checked and diagnosed of preclampsia so they refused me going back home and asked my husband go pack our bag while I run down few other tests and get ready for emergency delivery(one week early than my due date)
    Lastly, I ended up with CS. I give it to oyibo people sha, so intelligent ! If not, I for kpai cus before then, I was always feeling light headed and numbness on my fingers for long time. Y’all take your ante-natal serious.

  • @promiseukpong9043
    @promiseukpong9043 11 месяцев назад +15

    You are such a lovely personality. I enjoyed listening to you and could do so all day❤

  • @patriciakasenge9927
    @patriciakasenge9927 11 месяцев назад +10

    Bam is just a beautiful person, God bless you and the family ❤

  • @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz
    @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz 11 месяцев назад +8

    I had to come here from Instagram just to hear this lady speak
    She's so beautiful 😍

  • @BukolaRY_TV
    @BukolaRY_TV 11 месяцев назад +16

    She's gorgeous and calm 👏👏👏👏

  • @ibrahimashantewa2380
    @ibrahimashantewa2380 9 месяцев назад +1

    Well spoken and beautiful, thank God for your husband and babies ❤

  • @abubakarabatcha882
    @abubakarabatcha882 Месяц назад

    She speaks so well, I enjoyed every bit of her movies ! She has done well for herself

  • @victoriaokoro3028
    @victoriaokoro3028 11 месяцев назад +18

    I always tell people I add when I'm stress they always doubt me like it's food 😊 at least I'm not crazy hearing this from someone else😊

    • @obodonkem8092
      @obodonkem8092 11 месяцев назад

      I know for a fact that I add weight wen am stressed and the weight is an unhealthy one

    • @rosemaryoffor
      @rosemaryoffor 10 месяцев назад

      Me too but they kept on saying it was food 😢

  • @folusobankole5786
    @folusobankole5786 11 месяцев назад +10

    This is my story a year and half ago. Thank God for hood doctor and good hospital. They literally inform me that i can't go back to the office. Was just summoned to emergency CS immediately.

  • @olasunkanmi5200
    @olasunkanmi5200 11 месяцев назад +4

    This was actual story of my baby too
    Thank God for a gud hospital and my doctor was the best🤗

  • @firioluwahart3298
    @firioluwahart3298 11 месяцев назад +2

    Wow! Just an emotional birth story 😢 I literally teared up 😢

  • @elasygondwe4999
    @elasygondwe4999 Месяц назад +1

    Is the name BAMTEDY from Big Brother Naija still trending? bcoz whoooo I loved it 😊

  • @enyojochristianahabu6621
    @enyojochristianahabu6621 10 месяцев назад +20

    When you are pregnant that’s when you will see your partners true color

  • @Omah_jhay
    @Omah_jhay 23 дня назад +1

    My sister went through the process but the baby didn't survive because of Lack of hospital equipments and facilities...Thank God for her life honestly

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bamike you're still very beautiful in your body God is indeed good to you

  • @princessizedike4865
    @princessizedike4865 11 месяцев назад +12

    So classy with great diction! Go Bambam💃🤩🤩

  • @ayoolahalimat9944
    @ayoolahalimat9944 11 месяцев назад +8

    We love you the way you are BamBam😊❤🎉

  • @gloryuroh347
    @gloryuroh347 Месяц назад

    Thank God for the quick intervention of the doctor, but I like the chubby BamBam she looks prettier than the slim Bambam

  • @ifeyinwaokolo1246
    @ifeyinwaokolo1246 11 месяцев назад +11

    Thank God for every but, I would not credit the hospital. How was her urinalysis done after she left? Did they run out of strip? I've had three babies and urinalysis is done before you get to the doctor's office. So this sounds so wrong.

    • @petronellambuyu7025
      @petronellambuyu7025 11 месяцев назад +5

      True. For our set up here in Zambia especially from the facility I work at, we do urinalysis even before the palpation. Like before going into any details with the antenatal visit, we check all vitals, then urinalysis, every month. Very important. Maybe they just didn't have strips otherwise, it surely sounds wrong especially if they had already noticed that her BP was very high, why even allow her drive? We thank GOD for grace otherwise this was wrong and anything could have happened. Thank GOD for grace I'll say it again!

    • @Magtvshows
      @Magtvshows Месяц назад

      True

  • @onuhhappiness6554
    @onuhhappiness6554 11 месяцев назад +16

    You look amazing ma ❤

  • @Mamakheboiz
    @Mamakheboiz Месяц назад

    So happy to see this girl,I love her facial expressions,any reccommendations of dramas she is in?

    • @debbie__jimmy
      @debbie__jimmy 13 дней назад

      Watch Case for the Heart - Omoni Oboli TV

  • @aminamusa7629
    @aminamusa7629 11 месяцев назад +7

    Bam bam with class ❤❤

  • @elizabethoyiza4272
    @elizabethoyiza4272 17 дней назад

    I can watch bambam all day

  • @BukwaraNgu
    @BukwaraNgu Месяц назад

    I have the same ..this is 2 years after the child birth but am still not over the post partum

  • @shikaamenyedor8815
    @shikaamenyedor8815 Месяц назад

    The shoe size is so real!!

  • @allenamegina
    @allenamegina 11 месяцев назад

    Gorgeous, strong and calm Bam Bam ❤😍. You are so beautiful in and out . God bless you and your family 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇. Well done Chude 👍.

  • @huldahangbashim
    @huldahangbashim 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wow the devil came late I love to hear Bambam’s voice ❤

  • @goldenwealthpodcast
    @goldenwealthpodcast 4 дня назад

    Guys this lady(Bambam Ola ) have 3 movies on omoni oboli tv , a case of the heart, love style and other things ,betting on love ❤you will love

  • @esthylizuko1992
    @esthylizuko1992 26 дней назад

    She’s a strong woman

  • @preciousjoe922
    @preciousjoe922 29 дней назад

    I think have started liking you already.. How are you bam bam!? ❤❤

  • @MaryNSilasN
    @MaryNSilasN Месяц назад +1

    She is so beautiful

  • @Iam_OdinakaN
    @Iam_OdinakaN 11 месяцев назад +1

    My Bammy, such a fresh breath👌

  • @teesmedia1
    @teesmedia1 11 месяцев назад +5

    BamBam looking all pretty❤

  • @Ebere6365
    @Ebere6365 Месяц назад +1

    Her movie is one of the best for me ❤

  • @OluwatosinBammeke
    @OluwatosinBammeke 26 дней назад

    I love how she speaks. But who’s she🥱

  • @NaomiIsingoma
    @NaomiIsingoma Месяц назад

    Bam ......soooo Graceful......I love her alot lot lot❤❤❤❤

  • @bolanlecantalk.
    @bolanlecantalk. 11 месяцев назад +5

    Bambam you're prettyyyyyy!

  • @peacenwachukwu3234
    @peacenwachukwu3234 11 месяцев назад +1

    We thank God for life...nice❤

  • @violetadih2164
    @violetadih2164 11 месяцев назад +9

    Luv u Bam Bam❤❤

  • @naa-imwinwononuah4126
    @naa-imwinwononuah4126 23 дня назад

    After a year of birth, I still feel terrible. I feel like I’m a bad mother. I have people tell me I’m not a good mom and her grandma and auntie are better mothers than I can ever be. My Partner isn’t supportive towards me but a great dad to our baby. I can’t talk to anyone. I’ve gotten to the point where my brain sabotage myself. I don’t know if this is post P depression 😂. My body has gone through a significant change. If anyone is going through the same thing, I hope we grow past it. Motherhood should be a course to be studied.

    • @ItunnuAdebola
      @ItunnuAdebola 20 дней назад

      You are a great person , don't let others opinions matter

  • @anitabisong2383
    @anitabisong2383 5 месяцев назад

    Bam Bam is so lovely.

  • @angelahsikute8590
    @angelahsikute8590 11 месяцев назад

    Love you bam bam from Zambia.❤❤

  • @Olivia22431
    @Olivia22431 Месяц назад +1

    God is wonderful. Wait.. did she say she puts on weight when she’s stressed? I love it😅

  • @gugungcobo328
    @gugungcobo328 11 месяцев назад +2

    Bam Bam I hope one day you had a sit down with #Shella. I still do not understand her motive for throwing stones at them knowing very well that she also lived in that bb glass house. She was super judgemental at #Shella forgetting that we still remembered that Teddy A was with someone the mother of his son to be specific, but had no problem going PG18 on continental TV. In a nutshel she broke a family. She judged people who connected from day 1 people who exercised restrain for 9 weeks. Yes they are married they have kids blah blah blah but still a family was broken and internet still have their PG18 tape

    • @AugustaConteh-w6y
      @AugustaConteh-w6y 11 месяцев назад +7

      I love your tears. It looks good on you

  • @yehodaskitchen3401
    @yehodaskitchen3401 17 дней назад

    That was postpartum anxiety.
    Depression leads more towards baby rejection

  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed 10 месяцев назад +1

    I fear motherhood...I have a 6year old and I can't imagine another one😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey
      @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey 10 месяцев назад

      Do ivf and born all at once

    • @emmyknowsbeauty810
      @emmyknowsbeauty810 10 месяцев назад +2

      There is nothing wrong with one dear lots of people have only one child. Love on your baby and yourself.

    • @paulinekerubo2800
      @paulinekerubo2800 Месяц назад

      My second born is 5 I wanted three kids but am like wait a minute I don't think am ready for this.

  • @sheis_aries
    @sheis_aries 11 месяцев назад

    She speaks so well

  • @joyhabila5214
    @joyhabila5214 25 дней назад

    I just love her ❤

  • @DestinyDivine-v1j
    @DestinyDivine-v1j 10 месяцев назад

    I just recover from that weared thing called postpartum

  • @abdulcutekid8868
    @abdulcutekid8868 10 месяцев назад

    She speaks nice🥰🥰

  • @kolejoanu7648
    @kolejoanu7648 Месяц назад

    Bam bam my new fav❤

  • @precioustv6124
    @precioustv6124 11 месяцев назад

    I have always love you Bam
    So much love

  • @mariahugbashi8964
    @mariahugbashi8964 11 месяцев назад +1

    Class!!! ❤

  • @FosterAmponsahBoahene
    @FosterAmponsahBoahene Месяц назад

    My mon died sake of pregnancy 😢
    RIP

  • @blissbodynmind
    @blissbodynmind 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am the 11th to comment on your video. All the best.

  • @Borlartar
    @Borlartar 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤Love you Bambam

  • @purplechocho
    @purplechocho 29 дней назад

    Thank God I wasn't this lucky cos of funds I lost my baby unfortunately 🥺🥺👆

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals 24 дня назад +1

      So sorry about your loss 🥺 may God almighty give you double for your trouble.

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 11 месяцев назад +3

    I don't really know her outside bbn though what has she been in

    • @tannyglow
      @tannyglow 11 месяцев назад +4

      A lot of movies and trust me she’s a good actress

  • @lilianmartinaamakyi689
    @lilianmartinaamakyi689 22 дня назад

    My bam bam

  • @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
    @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses Месяц назад

    Whao !
    Interesting !

  • @adejokeomotolani3703
    @adejokeomotolani3703 11 месяцев назад

    Whr can I watch full video or this is the only clip 🥺

    • @WithChude
      @WithChude  11 месяцев назад +1

      The full video is up on RUclips or Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full interview and listen.withchude.com for the full podcast. You can also catch up with older episodes on both platforms.

  • @oluwakemiatanda2636
    @oluwakemiatanda2636 11 месяцев назад

    I love you so much bambam❤

  • @larasanni5550
    @larasanni5550 7 месяцев назад

    My bambam❤

  • @TORIMONGER
    @TORIMONGER 11 месяцев назад +1

    You look pretty though

  • @LuluPrecious
    @LuluPrecious Месяц назад

    My BamBam 😍

  • @Chef_maraa
    @Chef_maraa 10 месяцев назад +9

    I thought i was the only one who puts on weight when I’m stressed 😩 it’s not just funny

    • @queenobioma78
      @queenobioma78 Месяц назад

      Nope you're not alone

    • @maryannokojie7404
      @maryannokojie7404 Месяц назад

      We are on the same WhatsApp group

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds Месяц назад

      I'm here too 😁
      I literally put on weight when i am stressed

    • @isiguzorichard641
      @isiguzorichard641 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@GiftUzoma-hj2dsI don't understand......do people really gain weight when stressed??🤔🤔🤔

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds Месяц назад

      @@isiguzorichard641 yes they do

  • @ashanmoses7517
    @ashanmoses7517 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love you bam

  • @solapeters5566
    @solapeters5566 11 месяцев назад

    Bambam ❤

  • @ijeomairene5105
    @ijeomairene5105 11 месяцев назад

    My bambam

  • @samitoro1840
    @samitoro1840 11 месяцев назад

    My favorite

  • @Fanenteraudu
    @Fanenteraudu 11 месяцев назад

    Bambam

  • @CynthiaUche-kd2de
    @CynthiaUche-kd2de 24 дня назад

    But how your tommy is flat did you do bbl??

  • @christianabishung9412
    @christianabishung9412 11 месяцев назад

    Swt bam bam❤

  • @Glorymore
    @Glorymore 11 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful classy woman

  • @ENOR_G
    @ENOR_G 11 месяцев назад +1

    My Bam with the great dictions😊

  • @mabintoudrammeh8314
    @mabintoudrammeh8314 Месяц назад

    I just love my favorite

  • @augustafrancis254
    @augustafrancis254 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @AreesWorldStores_
    @AreesWorldStores_ 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤

  • @TheresaNgusurun
    @TheresaNgusurun 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤🙏

  • @Oh_Nana1990
    @Oh_Nana1990 10 месяцев назад

    Wait oh she decided to disobey her doctor’s orders to go back to the hospital because she was hungry and too tired ? Sounds like her postpartum stemmed from guilt because had the hospital not been insistent, she or her baby would have died. That would have been a big shame.