My crush who I'm talking about is a nice girl who talks well and politely with everyone and I'm also a nice type of guy who shows attitude most of the time and also ignore the girls most of the time and dont even touch the girls coz I don't do that sort of things. My crush , I met her at college previous year and we are in same class. I usually don't talk to girls and only talk if they talk to me. This girl talks to everyone tho and her main group of friends in my class were 4 girls and 3 boys in which I talk only to her and these 3 boys mostly. For the first time when I joined class i initiated and talked to her first showing fake confidence but not in a needy way btw I showed attitude too. Also i have sensed my another girl classmate was telling her I was checking this girl out lol in the first week and ik this girl knows I like her. But she confused me. She was asked out and proposed by another guy for the next month itself we joined the college who was a senior and was a bit popular guy. But I was confused at the same time that she looks at me during short breaks during classes when she and her boyfriend used to talk infront of my class. I dont know if she was trying to make me jealous or not because even then she used to look at me often also during class time when I stare at her sometimes I get glances from her by smiling. I don't know if she was getting creeped out by me looking at her or not. Also it was the first semester in college that is previous year which all these happened. Whenever a project or assignments was given in a subject I was assigned most if the time to team up with her. Also main thing is that even tho that senior was always with her outside trying to hangout with her they broke up within 3 months or 2 . Idk exactly. Then the 2nd semester came. That's this year . Remember that I'm that type of guy who doesnt talk to girls at all but showed confidence and tried to talk with confidence whenever she talked or I talked to this girl but also at the same time always showed attitude type of mentality and ignorance too and I don't smile much also to anyone and is a less talkative guy but she is a talkative girl. Coming to what happened in 2nd semester this year, our class was divided into 2 groups where 1 group is assigned to attend another subject and this girl and a that group of boys which she was always with which I mentioned earlier was in my batch. So what she used to do is that she showed most signs that I searched upon RUclips whether she likes me or not. She used to ask about my hobbies, used to touch me intentionally or unintentionally ( knowing I don't talk to girls often or even touch other girls), used to stand always with me or be around me, asking help from me like can you hold this for me, being in the class alone with me whenever these 3 dudes go out of the class for sometime and she is also in the class(btw we arent alone theres also other batch members in class ) and sometimes she looks way more often at me now during class time and all ,all these happening with these 3 dudes who are the best friends of her . Not saying she doesn't talk to them she talks to them more often too but I get these type of things from her. Also another thing is that ahe laughs way more at the jokes told by these guys more than me. Remember again I talk with her with attitude and In a idc mindset without much laughing, just a little bit of smile, I listen to her when she talks with me. Ig she likes that. And is just trying to be nice with me??? Idk coz I'm not a type of dude desirable by women coz I don't talk usually to them so im least desirable man in the mind right? so she might be just playing around with me or just giving me a girl company?. I never even flirted or teased her and was always respecting her tho but she laughs sometimes at my jokes tho. Btw I'm much taller guy than these 3 dudes ,also she has short height. Here after you read this do you think she is just using me for attention. I still dont know too why she broke up with her boyfriend. Wss she considering me as a backup plan. Please tell in a girls perspective. Also i told she has guy friends and they are the guys which are friends of mine too also some of them have gfs too. Is she just being friendly to them. If you say Im her backup plan I will back off from her. I dont know if she is just being friendly with me too. If not and is interested in me why did she made a boyfriend even when I was there??? Just be honest and tell your opinion in a girls perspective. I dont wanna fall in a trap
You quickly realize if you are IT or not trust me. Now its up to you what you do with the woman keep some as friend maybe or drop them. But if one loves you you will realize it quickly.. And then only then you can do whatever you want. :)
I've not been a beta orbiter in my life, but I've ignored the girls that have been orbiting around me and instead dated the wrong women who turned out to orbit another guy. Turned out that this guy was orbiting one of those girls I've been ignoring
I like a girl and buy her meals and small gifts .... she said she likes me as a friend ... but we still hangout, I went with her to run her errands and bought her lunch ... am I a beta orbiter
Yes I’m sure you have fun and jokes, you gotta go in for a kiss to find out it’s the only way I know it sucks because I’m in the same boat you are , I’m gonna go in for the kiss next time I’m close to her and put a end to this !
Another one is she might go out with you alone, but only once in a great while. IF she knows she can control the situation or that you are not the kind of guy to make things uncomfortable (escalating hard), she will go out once and give you a kiss or even maybe make out a little, but then when you try to follow up for a second date you get the work is crazy! whatever excuse. But she will continue to text or respond to texts, but is always "busy". Then if she asks a favor from you or are losing interest, like in six months or a year she will start breadcrumbing "we should get together again!" "I had fun last time" stuff, then after another few months of chasing her for a date, she will do the same thing and repeat. She will keep that up forever if you let her. Good looking women LIKE having orbiters. It gives her lots of validation and if you do something or can do something useful for her, she is not going to roughly reject you. She knows you want her so it is more likely you will keep after her. She knows that. She wants to keep you around as long as possible. If this happens, you have to cease contact so she knows you are no longer accepting being an orbiter. But guys, when you do this this is not some guarantee you get her, because she probably only was using you and you will never hear from her again. BUT it will stop you wasting time and preserve your sanity and confidence.
My crush who I'm talking about is a nice girl who talks well and politely with everyone and I'm also a nice type of guy who shows attitude most of the time and also ignore the girls most of the time and dont even touch the girls coz I don't do that sort of things. My crush , I met her at college previous year and we are in same class. I usually don't talk to girls and only talk if they talk to me. This girl talks to everyone tho and her main group of friends in my class were 4 girls and 3 boys in which I talk only to her and these 3 boys mostly. For the first time when I joined class i initiated and talked to her first showing fake confidence but not in a needy way btw I showed attitude too. Also i have sensed my another girl classmate was telling her I was checking this girl out lol in the first week and ik this girl knows I like her. But she confused me. She was asked out and proposed by another guy for the next month itself we joined the college who was a senior and was a bit popular guy. But I was confused at the same time that she looks at me during short breaks during classes when she and her boyfriend used to talk infront of my class. I dont know if she was trying to make me jealous or not because even then she used to look at me often also during class time when I stare at her sometimes I get glances from her by smiling. I don't know if she was getting creeped out by me looking at her or not. Also it was the first semester in college that is previous year which all these happened. Whenever a project or assignments was given in a subject I was assigned most if the time to team up with her. Also main thing is that even tho that senior was always with her outside trying to hangout with her they broke up within 3 months or 2 . Idk exactly. Then the 2nd semester came. That's this year . Remember that I'm that type of guy who doesnt talk to girls at all but showed confidence and tried to talk with confidence whenever she talked or I talked to this girl but also at the same time always showed attitude type of mentality and ignorance too and I don't smile much also to anyone and is a less talkative guy but she is a talkative girl. Coming to what happened in 2nd semester this year, our class was divided into 2 groups where 1 group is assigned to attend another subject and this girl and a that group of boys which she was always with which I mentioned earlier was in my batch. So what she used to do is that she showed most signs that I searched upon RUclips whether she likes me or not. She used to ask about my hobbies, used to touch me intentionally or unintentionally ( knowing I don't talk to girls often or even touch other girls), used to stand always with me or be around me, asking help from me like can you hold this for me, being in the class alone with me whenever these 3 dudes go out of the class for sometime and she is also in the class(btw we arent alone theres also other batch members in class ) and sometimes she looks way more often at me now during class time and all ,all these happening with these 3 dudes who are the best friends of her . Not saying she doesn't talk to them she talks to them more often too but I get these type of things from her. Also another thing is that ahe laughs way more at the jokes told by these guys more than me. Remember again I talk with her with attitude and In a idc mindset without much laughing, just a little bit of smile, I listen to her when she talks with me. Ig she likes that. And is just trying to be nice with me??? Idk coz I'm not a type of dude desirable by women coz I don't talk usually to them so im least desirable man in the mind right? so she might be just playing around with me or just giving me a girl company?. I never even flirted or teased her and was always respecting her tho but she laughs sometimes at my jokes tho. Btw I'm much taller guy than these 3 dudes ,also she has short height. Here after you read this do you think she is just using me for attention. I still dont know too why she broke up with her boyfriend. Wss she considering me as a backup plan. Please tell in a girls perspective. Also i told she has guy friends and they are the guys which are friends of mine too also some of them have gfs too. Is she just being friendly to them. If you say Im her backup plan I will back off from her. I dont know if she is just being friendly with me too. If not and is interested in me why did she made a boyfriend even when I was there??? Just be honest and tell your opinion in a girls perspective. I dont wanna fall in a trap. She hasnt took any money tho and tries to help me too also spends time alone with me sometimes
When betas give betas advice? This is a skewed presentation cast through the lens of a particular demographic of low quality women and loser men. As a woman, I'm well aware there are insecure women who keep men for mere validation, but if a man doesn't state his intention there is no cue when to change coarse. A woman may keep him as a friend, because she enjoys talking to him, and does not want to assume he is in pursuit if he has not made his intentions clear. Betas are always indirect and afraid to speak up for fear of scaring a woman, but a woman of integrity will tell him upfront there is no possibility of romance unfolding as we usually know right away. What's worse is when a beta, aware of being an orbiter, does the opposite and feigns indifference - which I think is the purpose of this video....LOL. Women can always sense it. If you don't want to be a BO, be authentic, honest, and upfront with the woman right away and you may actually stir up romantic intrigue. P.S. No, women will not just have sex with you if she is interested unless she is a whore. If that is the kind of women you wanna-be-alphas are after, well, enjoy your monkeypox, spreader. I waited years to sleep with my alpha and we stayed together nearly 20 years.
@@FourOfClubs All I’m saying is to be honest and direct, unlike a BO who will wait years pining over a potential prospect. You can’t succeed at dating or having sex with women without knowing what they want or how they think. Only women know that and most of them are feminist whores. If you are just out to have sex, then I’m truly sorry, because chasing sluts will leave you lonely and disappointed in the end. The only alphas are men who submit to God and seek godly women who respect them and submit to them.
Anybody who needs dating advice was never meant to reproduce.
Accept it.
What about guys that bought stupidly overpriced dating course and actually got a wife because of that. Do you think they cheated evolution?
If she flakes there should always be a counteroffer from her, if not she's out, no second chance
You are speaking the truth!!! Edit: Listen to this man!
My crush who I'm talking about is a nice girl who talks well and politely with everyone and I'm also a nice type of guy who shows attitude most of the time and also ignore the girls most of the time and dont even touch the girls coz I don't do that sort of things. My crush , I met her at college previous year and we are in same class. I usually don't talk to girls and only talk if they talk to me. This girl talks to everyone tho and her main group of friends in my class were 4 girls and 3 boys in which I talk only to her and these 3 boys mostly. For the first time when I joined class i initiated and talked to her first showing fake confidence but not in a needy way btw I showed attitude too. Also i have sensed my another girl classmate was telling her I was checking this girl out lol in the first week and ik this girl knows I like her. But she confused me. She was asked out and proposed by another guy for the next month itself we joined the college who was a senior and was a bit popular guy. But I was confused at the same time that she looks at me during short breaks during classes when she and her boyfriend used to talk infront of my class. I dont know if she was trying to make me jealous or not because even then she used to look at me often also during class time when I stare at her sometimes I get glances from her by smiling. I don't know if she was getting creeped out by me looking at her or not. Also it was the first semester in college that is previous year which all these happened. Whenever a project or assignments was given in a subject I was assigned most if the time to team up with her. Also main thing is that even tho that senior was always with her outside trying to hangout with her they broke up within 3 months or 2 . Idk exactly. Then the 2nd semester came. That's this year . Remember that I'm that type of guy who doesnt talk to girls at all but showed confidence and tried to talk with confidence whenever she talked or I talked to this girl but also at the same time always showed attitude type of mentality and ignorance too and I don't smile much also to anyone and is a less talkative guy but she is a talkative girl. Coming to what happened in 2nd semester this year, our class was divided into 2 groups where 1 group is assigned to attend another subject and this girl and a that group of boys which she was always with which I mentioned earlier was in my batch. So what she used to do is that she showed most signs that I searched upon RUclips whether she likes me or not. She used to ask about my hobbies, used to touch me intentionally or unintentionally ( knowing I don't talk to girls often or even touch other girls), used to stand always with me or be around me, asking help from me like can you hold this for me, being in the class alone with me whenever these 3 dudes go out of the class for sometime and she is also in the class(btw we arent alone theres also other batch members in class ) and sometimes she looks way more often at me now during class time and all ,all these happening with these 3 dudes who are the best friends of her . Not saying she doesn't talk to them she talks to them more often too but I get these type of things from her. Also another thing is that ahe laughs way more at the jokes told by these guys more than me. Remember again I talk with her with attitude and In a idc mindset without much laughing, just a little bit of smile, I listen to her when she talks with me. Ig she likes that. And is just trying to be nice with me??? Idk coz I'm not a type of dude desirable by women coz I don't talk usually to them so im least desirable man in the mind right? so she might be just playing around with me or just giving me a girl company?. I never even flirted or teased her and was always respecting her tho but she laughs sometimes at my jokes tho. Btw I'm much taller guy than these 3 dudes ,also she has short height. Here after you read this do you think she is just using me for attention. I still dont know too why she broke up with her boyfriend. Wss she considering me as a backup plan. Please tell in a girls perspective. Also i told she has guy friends and they are the guys which are friends of mine too also some of them have gfs too. Is she just being friendly to them. If you say Im her backup plan I will back off from her. I dont know if she is just being friendly with me too. If not and is interested in me why did she made a boyfriend even when I was there??? Just be honest and tell your opinion in a girls perspective. I dont wanna fall in a trap
You quickly realize if you are IT or not trust me. Now its up to you what you do with the woman keep some as friend maybe or drop them. But if one loves you you will realize it quickly.. And then only then you can do whatever you want. :)
These girls might be psychopaths
Men raised by women.
I've not been a beta orbiter in my life, but I've ignored the girls that have been orbiting around me and instead dated the wrong women who turned out to orbit another guy. Turned out that this guy was orbiting one of those girls I've been ignoring
Hell actual female friends flake on you too
Even plutonic they're poor at keeping schedule
I like a girl and buy her meals and small gifts .... she said she likes me as a friend ... but we still hangout, I went with her to run her errands and bought her lunch ... am I a beta orbiter
A man who spends money on a woman is a beta orbiter or a beta male. Don't ever spend money on women. You can't buy love or sex (except in the RLD's)
While your buying her gifts and everything the guy she wants to fuck doesent have to do any of that
Yes
Yes I’m sure you have fun and jokes, you gotta go in for a kiss to find out it’s the only way I know it sucks because I’m in the same boat you are , I’m gonna go in for the kiss next time I’m close to her and put a end to this !
Another one is she might go out with you alone, but only once in a great while. IF she knows she can control the situation or that you are not the kind of guy to make things uncomfortable (escalating hard), she will go out once and give you a kiss or even maybe make out a little, but then when you try to follow up for a second date you get the work is crazy! whatever excuse. But she will continue to text or respond to texts, but is always "busy". Then if she asks a favor from you or are losing interest, like in six months or a year she will start breadcrumbing "we should get together again!" "I had fun last time" stuff, then after another few months of chasing her for a date, she will do the same thing and repeat. She will keep that up forever if you let her.
Good looking women LIKE having orbiters. It gives her lots of validation and if you do something or can do something useful for her, she is not going to roughly reject you. She knows you want her so it is more likely you will keep after her. She knows that. She wants to keep you around as long as possible. If this happens, you have to cease contact so she knows you are no longer accepting being an orbiter. But guys, when you do this this is not some guarantee you get her, because she probably only was using you and you will never hear from her again. BUT it will stop you wasting time and preserve your sanity and confidence.
Solid info. Well said.
Great vid
Thanks, my dude!
Yea I’m totally his beta orbiter :/
Well shit...
Facts
My crush who I'm talking about is a nice girl who talks well and politely with everyone and I'm also a nice type of guy who shows attitude most of the time and also ignore the girls most of the time and dont even touch the girls coz I don't do that sort of things. My crush , I met her at college previous year and we are in same class. I usually don't talk to girls and only talk if they talk to me. This girl talks to everyone tho and her main group of friends in my class were 4 girls and 3 boys in which I talk only to her and these 3 boys mostly. For the first time when I joined class i initiated and talked to her first showing fake confidence but not in a needy way btw I showed attitude too. Also i have sensed my another girl classmate was telling her I was checking this girl out lol in the first week and ik this girl knows I like her. But she confused me. She was asked out and proposed by another guy for the next month itself we joined the college who was a senior and was a bit popular guy. But I was confused at the same time that she looks at me during short breaks during classes when she and her boyfriend used to talk infront of my class. I dont know if she was trying to make me jealous or not because even then she used to look at me often also during class time when I stare at her sometimes I get glances from her by smiling. I don't know if she was getting creeped out by me looking at her or not. Also it was the first semester in college that is previous year which all these happened. Whenever a project or assignments was given in a subject I was assigned most if the time to team up with her. Also main thing is that even tho that senior was always with her outside trying to hangout with her they broke up within 3 months or 2 . Idk exactly. Then the 2nd semester came. That's this year . Remember that I'm that type of guy who doesnt talk to girls at all but showed confidence and tried to talk with confidence whenever she talked or I talked to this girl but also at the same time always showed attitude type of mentality and ignorance too and I don't smile much also to anyone and is a less talkative guy but she is a talkative girl. Coming to what happened in 2nd semester this year, our class was divided into 2 groups where 1 group is assigned to attend another subject and this girl and a that group of boys which she was always with which I mentioned earlier was in my batch. So what she used to do is that she showed most signs that I searched upon RUclips whether she likes me or not. She used to ask about my hobbies, used to touch me intentionally or unintentionally ( knowing I don't talk to girls often or even touch other girls), used to stand always with me or be around me, asking help from me like can you hold this for me, being in the class alone with me whenever these 3 dudes go out of the class for sometime and she is also in the class(btw we arent alone theres also other batch members in class ) and sometimes she looks way more often at me now during class time and all ,all these happening with these 3 dudes who are the best friends of her . Not saying she doesn't talk to them she talks to them more often too but I get these type of things from her. Also another thing is that ahe laughs way more at the jokes told by these guys more than me. Remember again I talk with her with attitude and In a idc mindset without much laughing, just a little bit of smile, I listen to her when she talks with me. Ig she likes that. And is just trying to be nice with me??? Idk coz I'm not a type of dude desirable by women coz I don't talk usually to them so im least desirable man in the mind right? so she might be just playing around with me or just giving me a girl company?. I never even flirted or teased her and was always respecting her tho but she laughs sometimes at my jokes tho. Btw I'm much taller guy than these 3 dudes ,also she has short height. Here after you read this do you think she is just using me for attention. I still dont know too why she broke up with her boyfriend. Wss she considering me as a backup plan. Please tell in a girls perspective. Also i told she has guy friends and they are the guys which are friends of mine too also some of them have gfs too. Is she just being friendly to them. If you say Im her backup plan I will back off from her. I dont know if she is just being friendly with me too. If not and is interested in me why did she made a boyfriend even when I was there??? Just be honest and tell your opinion in a girls perspective. I dont wanna fall in a trap. She hasnt took any money tho and tries to help me too also spends time alone with me sometimes
Hmm
Look up bianca devins so sad
When betas give betas advice? This is a skewed presentation cast through the lens of a particular demographic of low quality women and loser men. As a woman, I'm well aware there are insecure women who keep men for mere validation, but if a man doesn't state his intention there is no cue when to change coarse.
A woman may keep him as a friend, because she enjoys talking to him, and does not want to assume he is in pursuit if he has not made his intentions clear. Betas are always indirect and afraid to speak up for fear of scaring a woman, but a woman of integrity will tell him upfront there is no possibility of romance unfolding as we usually know right away. What's worse is when a beta, aware of being an orbiter, does the opposite and feigns indifference - which I think is the purpose of this video....LOL. Women can always sense it. If you don't want to be a BO, be authentic, honest, and upfront with the woman right away and you may actually stir up romantic intrigue. P.S. No, women will not just have sex with you if she is interested unless she is a whore. If that is the kind of women you wanna-be-alphas are after, well, enjoy your monkeypox, spreader. I waited years to sleep with my alpha and we stayed together nearly 20 years.
I hope you guys reading this are smart enough to never get dating advice from a woman.
@@FourOfClubs Any man who needs dating advice is already doomed. Sorry, I don't make the rules.
@@rachelrukavina8934 No testicles = No opinion
@@FourOfClubs All I’m saying is to be honest and direct, unlike a BO who will wait years pining over a potential prospect. You can’t succeed at dating or having sex with women without knowing what they want or how they think. Only women know that and most of them are feminist whores. If you are just out to have sex, then I’m truly sorry, because chasing sluts will leave you lonely and disappointed in the end. The only alphas are men who submit to God and seek godly women who respect them and submit to them.
@@rachelrukavina8934yikes! you just validated their comment by saying this.
It´s 2020 and humanity has devolved back to his? WTF is wrong with this guy??
Simp man.