He Wanted Marriage, She Said It is a Patriarchal Trap

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

Комментарии • 88

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 Месяц назад +45

    He’s worried about YOUR marriages
    You’re worried about everyone else’s marriage but your own girlie

  • @winniethepoohandeeyore2
    @winniethepoohandeeyore2 Месяц назад +53

    Congratulations, you analyzed your relationship into non existence .

  • @davidnash8208
    @davidnash8208 Месяц назад +39

    Never trust someone who speaks in jargon instead of plain language.

    • @keybearer26
      @keybearer26 Месяц назад +3

      And who calls the other person their "partner" and not their fiance, spouse,husband or wife? Save that partner crap for the board room or work

  • @Lollocide
    @Lollocide Месяц назад +32

    "Its not about rejecting you..."
    She says while rejecting him.
    She turned tomato soup into a 7 course meal that _nobody_ wants.
    Edit: it also occurs to me now, she was asked to get married to she went to _the marriage resistance movement._ which should be a massive sign she was completely uninterested

  • @flyingthicket5157
    @flyingthicket5157 Месяц назад +28

    Boy, was THAT guy lucky !

  • @TopherOKeefe
    @TopherOKeefe Месяц назад +29

    ‘Continuous exploration and challenge’ = ‘incessant argumentativeness - a complete lack of peace, or even the pursuit of peace’

  • @davidj.leavitt7176
    @davidj.leavitt7176 Месяц назад +29

    Marriage based on countinuos changes and adaptability. Ha, ha, ha, ha. A cheater in the making leading with all the bullshit first. He missed a bullet.

  • @ryuukaze2823
    @ryuukaze2823 Месяц назад +21

    "continuosly negotiated"?
    Like How somebody in a closed monogamous relationship, suddenly want unilateraly want tò switch tò an open relationship?
    Good luck with cats

  • @bloodalpha1170
    @bloodalpha1170 Месяц назад +14

    She played stupid games and one stupid prize.I've been single for the rest of her life

  • @draconisdragonheart4248
    @draconisdragonheart4248 Месяц назад +19

    Love requires respect and faithfulness. She doesn't understand the bond between husband and wife. The bond is permanent not a thing that moves around. She is best with a guy that doesn't offer any commitment.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Месяц назад +18

    I was all for the two year waiting period, building up professionally and financially..that was kick ass; and then she overanalyzed it out of existence.

    • @keybearer26
      @keybearer26 Месяц назад +5

      Same! That actually made sense especially if they want to make sure they're financially stable first if they want to have kids within the next 3-6 years

  • @cryofist
    @cryofist Месяц назад +33

    and dumbest woman of the year award goes to *drumroll*

    • @johnbutler1323
      @johnbutler1323 Месяц назад +3

      The line, "You're the dumbest smart person I know," certainly applies here.

  • @keybearer26
    @keybearer26 Месяц назад +15

    Did any of these women that she was asking for advice ever say they came from happy marriage with men who are happy to be married to them? Also this was 20 whole damn minutes for it to be summed up as "he wanted marriage, she didn't want marriage". I also bet she never got advice from her actual parents who probably weathered a storm together working multiple jobs and raising kids who are probably Still together!

    • @gxr7777
      @gxr7777 Месяц назад +3

      Ya I love how all these single women give marriage and dating advise, but can't get a man to commit to them.

  • @trzmdpath
    @trzmdpath Месяц назад +8

    This gentleman had the common sense to reject this self-entitled snooty woman with masculine behavior who really did not want to be a wife to any man. May she enjoy her single life and career, cats and boxed wine!

  • @bleh2911
    @bleh2911 Месяц назад +8

    He would've been better off trying to marry a lamp, because that was about as much emotional energy he was going to get out of this woman. Also, I'll take "complicated sentences." for 600 Alex.

    • @hockey_rules
      @hockey_rules Месяц назад +1

      💯 % agree! From pretty much when she first started talking, she lost me.

  • @TheIronwil
    @TheIronwil Месяц назад +2

    Never get involved with someone dedicated to constant argument. Debate is fine. Disagreement is inevitable. But if every day is filled with constant debates, I’m out.

  • @kennethboyer2338
    @kennethboyer2338 Месяц назад +3

    This is what happens when one over analyzes an issue. She'll find out that 40-80 is a long time to be alone unless she finds a complete simp.

  • @usneod9329
    @usneod9329 Месяц назад +1

    This woman would offer a scientific analogy for the scrambled eggs on her plate!
    OP, run, run fast!

  • @blacksunday4231
    @blacksunday4231 Месяц назад +4

    As a Mexican myself, I know broads like this. There's a few of them among us, but they're still a very loud and noticeable bunch. They're definitely the "latinx" types 😂. My ex was almost like this, not as insufferable, but close to that spectrum, especially in her uni years.

  • @CorHor
    @CorHor Месяц назад +3

    The woman is a nightmare

  • @chrisj.1608
    @chrisj.1608 Месяц назад +10

    I mean If you don't wanna marry just say so... Like it's not that hard

  • @a.murdoch5446
    @a.murdoch5446 Месяц назад +3

    Wow, that lady is all about buzz words 😂 The most important buzz word she should have considered was "single"

  • @Damen178
    @Damen178 Месяц назад +2

    Ole boy proposed to a damn calculator. 😂

  • @milopepper2559
    @milopepper2559 Месяц назад +1

    The Vulcan Science Academy would be proud of her! Completely logical emotionless decision. I wonder how she would react when she finally found a guy who went along with her nonsense and when she caught him with another woman he explained it by the fact that their marriage has just evolved to include his lover.
    After all, she wanted a marriage that constantly changed, constantly evolved is constantly reorganized and renegotiated.
    Let me guess, though, that the only changes she would support would be the ones that she was interested in. Everything else has to stay the same.

  • @MrChaes
    @MrChaes Месяц назад +11

    Stay unaligned, lady. Please. Lucky guy

  • @roytaylor5440
    @roytaylor5440 Месяц назад +1

    run...if she is a liberal. It will be one fight over dumb shit after another one.

  • @NotSleepy-r5y
    @NotSleepy-r5y Месяц назад +2

    Single career women keeping career women single...
    Who wants to guess that none of these "experts" she's reading are happily married?

  • @gxr7777
    @gxr7777 Месяц назад +6

    There is no "I" in team.
    So the man should carry and birth the baby? Oh that's not part of the big lie, you can have it all, right in a Disney movie not real life.

  • @ryuukaze2823
    @ryuukaze2823 Месяц назад +1

    A 2nd part on this, could be nice.

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 Месяц назад +13

    You’re not giving an actual reason to not get married to him

    • @brianmanville7200
      @brianmanville7200 19 дней назад

      More like she's giving him a reason to not marry her.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sbradley3008
    @sbradley3008 Месяц назад +7

    marriage and individual autonomy are incompatible.

  • @TheIronwil
    @TheIronwil Месяц назад +1

    This feminist problem with marriage is akin to their aversion to a father walking his daughter down the aisle. This neglects the fact that traditions evolve. Daughters are no longer considered as property. Fathers can’t rule over them like a god. These traditions are no longer tied to their origin. Sort of like Christmas, and entirely pagan holiday that doesn’t even coincide with the actual birthdate of Christ. But most Christians still love Christmas, and even non-Christians often celebrate. People need to calm down and stop being offended at everything.

  • @kukasr
    @kukasr Месяц назад +10

    The one HUGE PART is missing from hers so called "analysis" - experiment. "All theory is gray, my friend. But forever green is the tree of life." Goethe.

  • @hunter5425
    @hunter5425 Месяц назад +2

    Relationship requires much effort = high maintenance and walking on eggshells.

  • @brianmanville7200
    @brianmanville7200 19 дней назад

    She talked herself out of a relationship.

  • @petergraham6624
    @petergraham6624 Месяц назад +7

    What is that Old saying, Single woman and Single Professional woman, Giving advice to keep other single woman single, why? so they can validate their own lonely life being Single, and make sure other single woman in relationships stay single out of spite and anger about their own failings in life

    • @gxr7777
      @gxr7777 Месяц назад +2

      I hear the cats meowing now.

  • @joefrizell5868
    @joefrizell5868 Месяц назад +2

    Guess she wound up getting a cat, less analytics...

  • @floridashawn7317
    @floridashawn7317 Месяц назад +3

    Blah blah blah, just walk away dude.

  • @mk_wizard
    @mk_wizard Месяц назад +3

    Not online radical fringe groups, hmm? Yeah. No. And if marriage is so patriarchal, what does that make same sex marriage?

  • @michaelmordarski5994
    @michaelmordarski5994 Месяц назад +1

    Stop reading online BS, try viewing relationships coming from successful ones, like your parents

  • @JerryLynch-yt5fg
    @JerryLynch-yt5fg Месяц назад +2

    Love is simple, but ego, society, traditions, feminism etc entering into the love duo relationship is a deal breaker. “Academic Training”. Red Flag. Ridiculously over thinking and psycho babble. From the man side, she’s waaayyy too much work, failure points are numerous. Run and go fishing to relax! Let her find the beta servant. In the end her intelligence came out as disrespectful and killed the love foundation. She’ll wake 10 yrs later on her 3rd marriage wondering “where did it go wrong”

  • @johnbalogna803
    @johnbalogna803 Месяц назад +3

    Run Forest Run.

  • @terryyates6125
    @terryyates6125 Месяц назад +5

    No matter how much sugar coating you throw on it, BULLSHIT IS STILL BULLSHIT. You let some other fool determine your relationship. Enjoy the choices someone else helped you make. One question though, why is it women the ones who believe the bullshit?

  • @BetaRayBill-yx9eb
    @BetaRayBill-yx9eb Месяц назад +1

    yes she wants to reimagine relationships until there is snow to shovel

  • @januszdworak4780
    @januszdworak4780 Месяц назад

    There is a big difference between wise and educated.

  • @medel96
    @medel96 Месяц назад +2

    Got her P. degree but she forgot to use her brain

  • @atlus6412
    @atlus6412 Месяц назад +5

    She's right..... Love isn't enough for Relationship's survival.

  • @anjanikumar2994
    @anjanikumar2994 Месяц назад +2

    Full of gyaan without any value 😂.

  • @BetaRayBill-yx9eb
    @BetaRayBill-yx9eb Месяц назад +2

    Birth of a cat lady

  • @richardcox4413
    @richardcox4413 Месяц назад +4

    Firstly, do these AI narration bots generate $1 for the channel every time they use the word palpable? 🤔Do you know how often you hear that word in daily life? Like, never! 😆Secondly, after hearing about her reasons for delaying their marriage, such as establishing individual identity (which I assume she had to begin with), while learning about pro individual empowerment groups that suggest marriage is a patriarchal construct, makes me think, "She really is a true romantic at heart." 😅 I'm a scientist and senior lecturer who works at a university. But, after hearing her first dialog, my brain actually hurt. 🤯 Not to worry, I'm sure there's an artificial being from a distant galaxy somewhere that will align with her outlook on life. 🤣

  • @danishdude6750
    @danishdude6750 Месяц назад +2

    What a crock of pseudo-intellectual BS.

  • @blainewebb6385
    @blainewebb6385 Месяц назад +1

    Hang on you made him wait 2 years but within those two years you continued to re-evaluate the idea of what a marriage should be and what you are putting into it I mean I can understand the fact that you want to be financially stable as equals but the fact remains the two-year condition is why he felt you were no longer compatible with each other. So in my opinion you killed your own relationship because you couldn't stop micro analysing every single detail and honestly it sounds like you're pretty much a control freak and I hope I never meet someone like you.

  • @urchbsmirch22
    @urchbsmirch22 Месяц назад +1

    This is what happens when you let single lonely opinions dictate your life

  • @kabirsardana1282
    @kabirsardana1282 Месяц назад

    this is what you call paralysis by analysis. this woman looked at the whole idea of marriage as a business deal that needs to be struck and purposely decided to listen to other idiots like her self and lopped off. women truly seem to believe that as soon as they get a career, they somehow transcend society and enter a different realm. I see my sister, sitting in her apartment in Santa Monica 7000 miles away from family alone navigating a toxic work environment where her subordinates dont want to work alongside with her and her immediate boss tries to undermine her at every step, all alone. ohh and the stress from it shows on her face and her body.

  • @J.P_INC.
    @J.P_INC. Месяц назад

    Marriage was never about money or courts systems which brought about the money aspect. It was merely symbolizing a man coming together with his rib or partner. People twisted marriage as we see it these days

  • @WereMike
    @WereMike 13 дней назад

    I know this is a story but is this the kind of madness that's happening out there right now?

  • @Douglas-nt7jd
    @Douglas-nt7jd Месяц назад

    Bruh! Relationships evolve, that's certainly true. But constant radically shifting ideals is less than a 2 year period createsvan impossibly unstable fountain for any relationship

  • @batrn7236
    @batrn7236 Месяц назад

    Good golly that woman gives me a headache.

  • @mattl6300
    @mattl6300 Месяц назад +1

    Over educated and over complicated. Pretty much the problem with the younger generations.

    • @frank-m.senwolf5601
      @frank-m.senwolf5601 Месяц назад

      it´s very simple: in a marriage there´s no "you" or "me" it´s "US"!!!

  • @michael029138
    @michael029138 Месяц назад +2

    That was one dumb idea about marriage on her part. Marriage starts, the Man leads and the Woman follows. Men builds the house, the Women builds the home. God's plan not mine, and his plan still works today if we follow it.