Already done and it was great. I'm an INTP mom and the part about, just wait till your father gets home, maybe then you'll have someone to sympathize with you, sounded just like something I would say. I don't even think it's real empathy but, they're kids and don't know any better anyway. Also I make my waffles with protein powder.
@@janmlynar1748 The statistics I've found on the matter confirm that women are statistically more likely to be feelers. This can be assumed to be for multiple reasons, one of which is upbringing which heavily favors women to be more in tune with their feelings. However, this has no relevance on this video. I wouldn't expect FJ to search up these "statistics" (because I haven't found any reliable sources) and accurately represent the types according to gender, because that would frankly be a little insane. MBTI isn't a rigid system. Just because you're a feeler type doesn't mean you don't have a brain, and vice versa. Representing different groups of people under the MBTI umbrella is just showing the complexity of the system, man. Nothing more.
I actually have seen it portrayed quite evenly in videos. Not so much IRL no (online and among young people more even than actual IRL and in my generation - An NT woman)
My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ but unfortunately they both aren't really compatible. So INFPs stay out of ESTJs, they sure will make you emotionally hurt on daily basis.
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944Depends on the person. My ESTJ boyfriends were great. They found me adorable and I found them fun and so much more put together. And, yes, a little dangerous. 😂
@@Xandycane Brooo you never get scared by ESTJ??? As a INTJ, they're nightmare for me especially unhealthy ESTJ ☠☠☠☠ I also have ESTJ friend and she treats me like one of her slaves 🤣🤣🤣
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Unhealthy anyone is scary and toxic. Healthy, though? Fun. The danger is more being pulled into their schemes and ideas. All the adventure plans and extreme bluntness that I totally take advantage of. Lol "I could deal with this jerk, but you're better at it, honey."
INFP: "I'm attracted to danger so that, that works out." Lol I try my best for that but sometimes I like some challenges. Even meeting new person is challenging for INFP 😂
Petition to see crush dynamics in the future but instead with: #1: Crushing on their shadow type #2: Crushing on their most similar type #3: Crushing on their extrovert/introvert type (example: ENFP and INFP)
@@Ai_Quoc_VN84 Basically take whatever your personality type is and flip the first and last letter, which will get you your shadow type. For example: if you are an INFJ, you would flip the 'I' to 'E' and the 'J' to 'P', which would get you ENFP. I'm pretty sure Frank has a whole video on his channel explaining what shadow types are, but that's the most basic explanation. :)
The amount of pressure to reply to ANYONE is so obnoxious. It makes it feel impossible to get relationships, and almost not worth it because it's so stressful.
@@xu4u4 No, we're just crying together. Kinda just kidding, not really. Honestly, there's a lot of situations where idk what to do about it. But for relationships, all I know is that maybe I lost some opportunities, but now I don't care bc the guy who is now my husband (istp) stuck around and pursued me. So I guess it's like just be yourself, and someone will prolly like you. 🤷♀️
@@ceilinh6004 Oh geez, I made a tier list a year ago just for this LOL. It's hard for me to choose, but I thiiiink Ukyo (Amnesia: Memories) would be 1st place. And now a list of every other villain on that list that you didn't ask for!: -Goro Majima (Yakuza Kiwami) -Hades (Hercules) -Lewis (The Promised Neverland) -Dr. Nefarious (Ratchet & Clank) -Archie (Pokemon ORAS) -Ganondorf (LoZ) -Nagamasa Midori (Aoharu x Machinegun) -Metal Face (Xenoblade Chronicles (SPECIFICALLY before his true identity is revealed, he disgusts me otherwise)) -Snatcher (A Hat in Time) -N (Pokemon BW) -Love Machine (Summer Wars) -Whitney (DoL) -Green Mage (Everhood) -Julian (The Forbidden Game) -Hidan (Naruto) -Wesker (Resident Evil)
Fellow INFP who also has a thing for fictional villains. I mean, they're just cooler. 🙂 Also, I did actually marry an ESTJ, but ... it didn't work out because he was a narcissist.
Because we have to evaluate their personality if it is similar to our own. What their goals are now and in the future? Understand our space and alone time. I judge my crush on his work ethic, intelligence, honesty, and morality. Good luck with an intj.😉🫡
If your not feeling extroverted you can modify your behaviour before hand by acting outgoing and then you most likely will feel outgoing allowing you to more easily have plans set weeks before they happen it definitely helps me (an INTJ) when I make plans on a certain date then I don’t feel like I want to go and I just want to stay home.
INFP here. I confirm. My first big love scared me to death with his passion so I told him I had no feelings for him, even though I did have feelings. After months I decided to write a letter to him, telling him I how I felt and that I was willing to overcome my fears. We were together 8 years. My husband had understood the task perfectly from day one and pretended we were just friends for a year until he made his move. We've been together for 21 years now ❤
Super accurate - I’m an ISFP who went on a first date with an INTJ who I really liked. Date seemed to go really well, so a few days later I asked if he wanted to hang out the upcoming weekend - scared him straight away! Too much socializing! 😂
X-X dude- My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ, trust me their relationship isn't really compatible. INFP get hurts easily by words even if your intentions weren't meant for that. As INTJ, I also ended up hurting my all feeler friends unintentionally, when valuing logical reasonings. Well I'm not really sure, how ESTJ x INFP long-term relationship will work... Anyways good luck for that.
Infp here, it could work, it would just involve both parties getting out of their comfort zone to meet the other in the middle. I have learned to take responsibility for my feelings. Instead of blaming them for hurting my feelings I look at what life experiences has made that topic vulnerable to me. It always feels like they just plunged a dagger into my chest. When I was younger it was hard not to feel betrayed by that. But I have grown and realized that just because they say a few words that prod at this emotional scar(oftentimes accidentally)does not make them responsible for the emotional scar. Holding them accountable for everything that's ever happened to me is not fair. If they knew about the scar, they should be held accountable for the very small sin of not being careful around a sensitive topic but a gentle admonishment is more than enough in that case. If they are continually doing this and show no regard or effort to avoid hurting me that is another situation. That is where they have to bend a little and acknowledge the very real pain that reliving these memories will cause me. All I ask for is care, is that too much? Know what parts of my heart are broken and tread there carefully. My partner always asking me if I'm okay whenever they are uncertain is something that I am so grateful for and makes me feel very loved. Don't give up, love is possible if both of you work for it
As an INFP who worked with an ESTJ boss for 3 and a half years, our relationship was chaotic and I agree with the first guy's comment. We are so sensitive and gets hurt easily whether it is unintentional or not. Well Boss/Employee relationship is different ofcourse, and It didn't work out so I decided to quit my job lol. You ESTJ's might just need to learn to be more sensitive to other people's feelings and try to be a little nicer and gentle. :)
I have two Infp friends and the Infp thing is pretty accurate. I'm sometimes not sure everything is alright in their relationships, but I think they can handle it.
Oh gosh INFJ is painfully accurate 😂 ''gotta keep thinking'' lol! 😅 Particularly love the acting in this, INFP and ESTJ waiting while the other one answers lol, and ENTJ made me laugh trying to interpret the art and deciding to just take charge 😂
It happened to me a week ago. Someone invited me to a random Instagram gc. They told me to introduce myself and I did. Then ask me where I was from. I end up leaving the gc😂
@@eun5150 the think is INTPs are paranoid about fake nice ppl who pretend to be nice to take advantage of them but when we find someone who is truly nice genuinely it shocks us yet attract us so much
This is really funny! I really liked the ESFJ/INTP "I thought he was just being sarcastic. Turns out, no, he's just nice." INFJ--what can I say? That's us all right. 🙈🙌💜
When I started dating my INFJ husband I too did not understand his kindness 😂. Even know I have to pause and stare when the man says something super sweet so naturally. (INTP)
@@jossieb93 I think I may have met an INFJ recently. She asked me if I was ok as I was in pain and moving like a sloth. I thought it was nice that she acknowledged I was in pain and actually showed some empathy. I rarely experience this at the doctor
@@jossieb93 lmao one of my close friend is an INFJ and although she is nice and get along really well with me, i kinda have this feeling that she's at some point just playing it up, like she put the right wording and expression to the thing i said just to make it a 'proper friendship' or to get me mentally dependent on her. i don't know if this makes sense but i feel like she always have those psychological tricks up to her sleeves ready to use anytime anywhere 😂 - INTP
INFJ here, this is so accurate. I take a lot of time to think before I respond. A friend messaged me before, and it took me a week before I responded back. I needed a response that expressed exactly what I wanted to say without any misunderstandings, a carefully crafted response that showed that I took the time to think about things before responding. I couldn't think of a response immediately, so I took a long time to think about it. Well... once I did respond, she got mad at me, because she thought that I ignored her and forgot about her for a week, and it seemed like I didn't care about her, because I didn't respond to her message right away. I was thrown off by this. I tried explaining things but she didn't believe me. I just figured that this is all too stressful, and I figured that if she wants me to message right away and I couldn't do that, then it would be best if we stopped messaging each other. But to other people, it seemed like pressing the send button was a life or death choice, and it would take me hours to press the send button. Sometimes I'll take hours and hours to write something, and then my nerves get the best of me, and I'll just erase everything and it never gets sent.
I relate more to this than the infp one(I'm infp) I'm currently doing this and its been 6 days 💀If I reply now and they would say something back that's gonna take me another week or so for me to reply again. Idk why I'm like this it's so stressful. I feel so bad too. Maybe were just not meant to be? Is this a sign? 😭
As an INFJ, I literally ask for help, by texting a bunch of other people hypotheticals of responses to figure an array of outcomes. When I know what I’m dealing with… I respond in that manner. The one saving grace for avoiding the accidental ghosting of others is saying ‘sorry I was too overwhelmed to respond at that moment, here is my thoughts now.’, and when they say to ‘just respond to me how you would talk to yourself’… that open up the gates to respond even faster to others. It felt amazing since I don’t like texting a lot because I can’t see body language or hear vocal tones to know how to respond 100% of the time. So many misunderstandings happens because of no voice tones or body language to observe too… I tend to request people to use emojis, emoticons, and the !?.”” To better understand what contextual manner they are texting in😅
That cocky attitude and the subtle self doubt aftermath of ISTP is too accurate help. As an Asian female I was taught to behave more submissively but that is exactly what truly going on in my mind. You're such a spy James, a genius one.
That's why I like it so much when sometimes in k dramas a female istp or estp appears. Like in this one, YEO-SINE-GANG-RIM, the main character's sister is ESTP I believe, and she is so confident, manly-like, but charming and beautiful at the same time. It was refreshing!
The istp and enfj is Hella accurate. Especially istp, my boyfriend had the same reaction and I can't help but think most istp think this way! I do agree with being Asian you have to be more "docile" and less "straightforward,strong" etc.
I’m an INFP and when I’m around my crush, all I would do is avoid them. Like, no eye contact. That way you can’t mess up. 😅 I end up fantasizing and dreaming about them but never actually talking to them.
I guess that depends on the goal, if it is to avoid embarrassment seen by others then mission accomplished but if it is to get what you want then it is an automatic failure.
This was so hilarious and adorable. Its easy to get trapped in thinking some types aren't compatible (some are mire work that's for sure). It's nice to see the odd pairs!
As an ISFP I truly live in fear of ENTJs haha please accept my love in the form of this image I saw that made me think of you! Don't ask me to explain it! It's about the vibe!
I’m an entp not as scary as an ENTJ perhaps but I can be pretty intimidating. I married an artistic cute ISFP once. I don’t know how it happened! We were an unusual pair but it was a lot of fun. For everyone! 🎉
I loved the new format of 2 separate screens 😍 it elevated the whole 16p sketch ! The ISTP/ENFJ duo gotta be the most confident couple ever 😂 and the ESFJ/INTP couple was so cute ! XD PS. i loved the spontaneous laugh at the end ❤
As an INTJ, I can definitely say that there are some days where I just don't feel like going out, either because I'm tired, busy, or just had a rough day. Funny thing is, I've always enjoyed going out on school field trips or family vacations. It's nice to get out and go somewhere new, see the sights, have fun, and relax for a change.
When the INFP said "baby bunny" I immediately thought of the Monty Python bunny. I busted out laughing when he landed the joke. The "but I'm attracted to danger" wrap-up was the icing on the cake. Wayyy too accurate. XD - INFP
I can totally relate as an INTP, I met an ESFJ before and was skeptical on why they are so nice. Like what's your ulterior motive. Turns out they just like to be nice lol
As an INFJ this actually has happened more than I care to say 😅 I am polite about it and apologize for "the delay" and it's hard to explain but I just can't think what to say because there are so many things to say and then I overthink it.
Haha! I'm an ESFP with an INTJ boyfriend, and this portrayal was spot on! I've always been confused by how he says he misses me, yet is able to go an entire week without conversing that much with me (to which he pointed out he can go an entire week without talking to anyone/hearing his own voice). Nevertheless, when I really do need him there, he doesn't hesitate. I thank him everyday for putting up with my shenanigans, hah!
This format is really cool and fun. 🧡 Stereotypes are accurate. The INTJ live in a house with a spiral staircase ? Spiral staircase is really a struggle or nightmare. I agree it take so much effort and energy. The INFJ is always so hilarious.🤣
@@findingthatperfectspot4692 Considering Timmy himself is an ESTJ, we could be dealing with a scenario where the INFP recognizes his deep rooted self esteem issues and wants to be the one to support him and lead him to a happier place mentally and emotionally. And then he'll be so grateful to her for always believing in him and they ride off into the sunset together to live happily ever after.
This video is so well made! My favorite duos are ESTP & INFJ with ESTJ & INFP. It's so funny how INFP is described as a baby deer, and ESTJ is described as a baby bunny that likes to kill. 🤣 Plus, I relate to INFJ and ESTP on both sides of the texting argument 😂
I've always believed it's complicated to hang out with your opposite type, like it can be really frustrating if your and their personality are not like develop so you can't understand the other person in some way or if you are the only one trying to understand... On the other hand nice vid you have ur wigs in good shape. There's not the usual ending asking for ideas for a new Sketch, but it'll nice yo see for example the P interacting with the J. Like ENTP with ENTJ or INFP with INFJ and so
This ENFP certifies the accuracy of planning a destination dream wedding with someone I barely know… but why stop there? I’m already planning our family trip to Disneyland with 3 kids 😭
I'm a INTJ but the INFJ guy is very relatable when I have been really interesting in someone, specially when I started dating my actual husband (INTP and autistic). I have to be the one with the initiative, was so so hard and I don't know how to express my feelings and he definitely less.
My best friend is INFJ and she does the exact same thing ( thinking of an appropriate reply to a simple text and consequently leaving the text on read for hours), I bet her crush feels ghosted 😭😂
ESFJ dating an INFJ. The INFJ male was so accurate. He was super afraid to talk to me and it took a lot of time for him to build up the courage to ask me out. Of course I said yes.
I think u can talk to him like u are always be there for him, care for him or any comfort sentence that can comfort or help him from overthinking 😌 -infj Even sometimes i want my already lovely family do that too.. idk bcoz my overthinking hshshs 😂😂😌
After meeting so many jerks it's kind of difficult to accept that there are hood people out there. It's even harder when that person is nicer than I am haha
As always, FJ makes the best content. Thanks so much for another great and hilarious video. Had me laughing, especially with the ESFJ/INTP, and the ESTP/INFJ. Great job FJ! ~ Ana
The INFJ is so legit.... I ghosted my last crush for up to a month, which ended destroying the whole thing, cause it bothered him so much lol Don't know what I was thinking there, heh 😅
ENFP demiromantic here- I literally CAN'T fall in love with someone until we become number one best buds. Problem being... I make close friendship bonds fast 😭 so this is somehow inaccurate and accurate at the same time
I live for FJ making opposite types interact 😂 (tho’ I’m really hoping I never elicited that “should I be worried?” response from the people I liked 👀) -ISTP
As an INFJ who has a crush on an INTJ, that's a thing that comes to my mind often. "He respects me and a few other people but looks down on everyone else. Should I be worried?" haha
ENTJ hilariously true 😂I remember I did something similar, Please be direct cause I question your motives and what you mean and I can't be sure of what's going on unless you say it, kind of a romantically dummy 😆😂 I love this video 🧡
I really appreciate how this guy really seems to understand the 16 personalities like way more than surface level stario types and how well thought out all the parts are
That ESTP should take the initiative there! That's a reason for an INFJ to like them ^^ My favorite was the ESFJ-INTP. It reminds me a bit about myself and a certain ISFP! /INFJ.
1. I liked that the INTP was female. 2. I related hard to the INTP having a difficult time accepting that someone was being sincere in their niceness. I know my default is to interpret everything as sarcasm, so... yeah.
I loved the video!! The dynamics like this are very interesting and also this serves as a reference for possible romance stories that I would like to write one day!😄🤩💖
Woah! Must have taken some brain-bending thinking-through to nail this one! 🤯 Lovin' the double-acts. So clever and funny - the acting and the editing! 🎬💥
As an ENTP that actually adores ISFJs, I’m more of the type to protect them and roast anyone that hurts them rather than uptalking oneself to make them like me but that’s just me. 😂
@@sigilofalfie Haha oh yes, I enjoy Jane Austen's novels quite a lot. But then when the climax comes, I put the book down for days until I have ability to go through the rollercoaster of emotions :')
ISTP with a crush really be like (pointing out people in a group): "F you, F you, F you, you're cool, F you-" but inside their own mind instead of out loud.
I would LOOOOOVE to see you start delving into attachment theory! Comedy like yours is desperately needed in that area and I think you'd do an insightful job of it!
Watch "Normal Mom vs INTJ Mom" next 🧡 ruclips.net/video/b0ZnBbVoT2E/видео.html
Already done and it was great. I'm an INTP mom and the part about, just wait till your father gets home, maybe then you'll have someone to sympathize with you, sounded just like something I would say. I don't even think it's real empathy but, they're kids and don't know any better anyway. Also I make my waffles with protein powder.
"The whole hanging out thing - it's just... so much effort."
YES. 😳
I watched that cause my ENFP daughter brought it to me, an INTJ mom... I didn't know that I could laugh and feel attacked all at once. Good job!
Like it
Could you do a “personality theme song” video?
I think that ISFJ would be “Stand By You” by Rachel Platten
Can we just appreciate how James plays 16 different people so perfectly?
Heck yeah
@@lindahansen45 Are you Norwegian too? Your name sounds like it, haha.
@@heavnxbound no, I'm Danish. Hello fellow Scandinavian
i appreciate how you, or someone else, notices this a lot of the time. Because it's TRUE!!!!!!!!!!! haha x
me too
As an infj myself, the words “I want you to understand me without me saying a word” is pretty much true in this situation
I wish in every situation!😁
@SilverSerpent64 lol I've lost count of the amount of times I've overthought a reply to something for soooo long, only to discard the lot. 😅
I am the same as an INFP.
It's all about that deep emotional connection.
literally is that so much to ask??
Oh my gosh, why is that so accurate?? 😂
I love how Frank had more Female Thinkers and more Male Feelers, since usually it's portrayed the other way around! ♥️
i dont as its statistically rather uncommon
@@janmlynar1748 how can you trust some random statistics
@@janmlynar1748 The statistics I've found on the matter confirm that women are statistically more likely to be feelers. This can be assumed to be for multiple reasons, one of which is upbringing which heavily favors women to be more in tune with their feelings.
However, this has no relevance on this video. I wouldn't expect FJ to search up these "statistics" (because I haven't found any reliable sources) and accurately represent the types according to gender, because that would frankly be a little insane. MBTI isn't a rigid system. Just because you're a feeler type doesn't mean you don't have a brain, and vice versa. Representing different groups of people under the MBTI umbrella is just showing the complexity of the system, man. Nothing more.
I actually have seen it portrayed quite evenly in videos. Not so much IRL no (online and among young people more even than actual IRL and in my generation - An NT woman)
I also like how had the females doing more of the asking out because really, it's probably a better way of doing things.
I love how the INTP got interrupted, even when they were not supposed to be hearing each other
That shouldnt be a personality trait but its so accurate! Why is it so accurate?!
The inadvertent tendency to get interrupted is just horrible yet accurate at the same time 🪦💀
The INFP one was very accurate. My wife has described getting to know me being like 'trying to befriend a stray cat' all our lives.
This is so cute omg
My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ but unfortunately they both aren't really compatible.
So INFPs stay out of ESTJs, they sure will make you emotionally hurt on daily basis.
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944Depends on the person. My ESTJ boyfriends were great. They found me adorable and I found them fun and so much more put together. And, yes, a little dangerous. 😂
@@Xandycane
Brooo you never get scared by ESTJ???
As a INTJ, they're nightmare for me especially unhealthy ESTJ ☠☠☠☠
I also have ESTJ friend and she treats me like one of her slaves 🤣🤣🤣
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Unhealthy anyone is scary and toxic. Healthy, though? Fun. The danger is more being pulled into their schemes and ideas. All the adventure plans and extreme bluntness that I totally take advantage of. Lol "I could deal with this jerk, but you're better at it, honey."
Timestaps
0:00 INTJ- ESFP
0:17 ISTP- ENFJ
0:26 ISFJ ENTP
0:37 ENTJ- ISFP
0:46 ISTJ- ENFP
1:02 INFP- ESTJ
1:28 ESFJ- INTP
1:50 ESTP- INFJ
Thank you very much for the timestamps.
@@rhondaallen6878 you're welcome (:
@@arkane6718 hey, what's ur personality type? I'm INFP, and I thank you soo much
@@Olix466 I'm INTJ
@@Olix466 and you're welcome (:
INFP: "I'm attracted to danger so that, that works out."
Lol I try my best for that but sometimes I like some challenges. Even meeting new person is challenging for INFP 😂
Johnny depp is an infp so makes sense even tho she I won't say her name was miss red flags of danger-arama lol
@@AlehaDarabaka oh damn you got a point lol
Petition to see crush dynamics in the future but instead with:
#1: Crushing on their shadow type
#2: Crushing on their most similar type
#3: Crushing on their extrovert/introvert type (example: ENFP and INFP)
Seconded! This was so cute!
:0 YES
Can I ask what is a shadow type?
@@Ai_Quoc_VN84 Basically take whatever your personality type is and flip the first and last letter, which will get you your shadow type. For example: if you are an INFJ, you would flip the 'I' to 'E' and the 'J' to 'P', which would get you ENFP. I'm pretty sure Frank has a whole video on his channel explaining what shadow types are, but that's the most basic explanation. :)
@@autisticdancer thank you! Have a nice day. ❤️
The INFJ one is Soo accurate 😂😂😂
The infamous Ni ghosting is so dangerous
The amount of pressure to reply to ANYONE is so obnoxious. It makes it feel impossible to get relationships, and almost not worth it because it's so stressful.
Scarily accurate🤣😹😹 infj just gonna chill out with my 2 kittys and stop over thinking🤔😁
@@DoriterEater interesting way to look at, I never felt the pressure to reply. I do it because that is what I need to do
Bruh painful accurate 😂😂
I am sad about this for INFJs. We've missed so many chances because of this tendency, not just for relationships. 😢
Yes 😔
Yeah... 😢
Bro😢
Anyone has any tips on overcoming? 😭
@@xu4u4 No, we're just crying together.
Kinda just kidding, not really. Honestly, there's a lot of situations where idk what to do about it. But for relationships, all I know is that maybe I lost some opportunities, but now I don't care bc the guy who is now my husband (istp) stuck around and pursued me. So I guess it's like just be yourself, and someone will prolly like you. 🤷♀️
As an INFP who's got a thing for fictional villains, I feel called out
Who's your favourite?
@@ceilinh6004 Oh geez, I made a tier list a year ago just for this LOL. It's hard for me to choose, but I thiiiink Ukyo (Amnesia: Memories) would be 1st place.
And now a list of every other villain on that list that you didn't ask for!:
-Goro Majima (Yakuza Kiwami)
-Hades (Hercules)
-Lewis (The Promised Neverland)
-Dr. Nefarious (Ratchet & Clank)
-Archie (Pokemon ORAS)
-Ganondorf (LoZ)
-Nagamasa Midori (Aoharu x Machinegun)
-Metal Face (Xenoblade Chronicles (SPECIFICALLY before his true identity is revealed, he disgusts me otherwise))
-Snatcher (A Hat in Time)
-N (Pokemon BW)
-Love Machine (Summer Wars)
-Whitney (DoL)
-Green Mage (Everhood)
-Julian (The Forbidden Game)
-Hidan (Naruto)
-Wesker (Resident Evil)
Fellow INFP who also has a thing for fictional villains. I mean, they're just cooler. 🙂
Also, I did actually marry an ESTJ, but ... it didn't work out because he was a narcissist.
omg fellow INFP here and same... I've been crushing on Shigaraki from MHA and Undertaker from Black Butler (although is he a villain? lol) for ages
INFP here who does _not_ have a thing for fictional villains. That would take so much _energy._
As an INTJ, I can confirm that we do have to check how we feel before hanging out with anyone - not only our crushes.😂
But...why? Honest question (especially for your crushes)
Because we have to evaluate their personality if it is similar to our own. What their goals are now and in the future? Understand our space and alone time. I judge my crush on his work ethic, intelligence, honesty, and morality. Good luck with an intj.😉🫡
If your not feeling extroverted you can modify your behaviour before hand by acting outgoing and then you most likely will feel outgoing allowing you to more easily have plans set weeks before they happen it definitely helps me (an INTJ) when I make plans on a certain date then I don’t feel like I want to go and I just want to stay home.
But I’m an ambivert so I dunno if it applies to people further on the introversion spectrum
@@niriida1To see if i have the energy to go outside or not. I can't predict that 1 week in advance.
As an INFP, you could probably apply that to literally every interaction we've ever had 😂
I turn into an INFP and self implode every time I am around ESTJ. Sometimes it gets so bad they apologise.
Including random Monty Python or similar references.
Yes! Lol 😂
INFP here. I confirm. My first big love scared me to death with his passion so I told him I had no feelings for him, even though I did have feelings. After months I decided to write a letter to him, telling him I how I felt and that I was willing to overcome my fears. We were together 8 years.
My husband had understood the task perfectly from day one and pretended we were just friends for a year until he made his move. We've been together for 21 years now ❤
Thats so sweet
What type is your husband?
@@bellchime3078 if I remember well he's an ISFP.
I think the perfect INFP song that describes our mindset when it comes to love is, “Sometimes” by Britney Spears lol
Aaaww, how cute! 🥺 I hope you and your husband are happy and safe together forever! -INFP (who has an ISTP boyfriend)
The INTP was especially funny. "Turns out he's just nice. It's weird." xD
“it’s just so much effort” oh noooo INTJ is too accurate 🙈
Super accurate - I’m an ISFP who went on a first date with an INTJ who I really liked. Date seemed to go really well, so a few days later I asked if he wanted to hang out the upcoming weekend - scared him straight away! Too much socializing! 😂
but it's so much effort :c
INTJs... You're my soul mates ❤
Love from INFJ ;)
Both the INFP and the ESTJ having to be extra cautious around each other because they like each other is just the most adorable thing EVER 😍
Yeah and a huge red flag but still.
As an ESTJ who is currently crushing on an INFP this is extremely accurate.
X-X dude-
My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ, trust me their relationship isn't really compatible.
INFP get hurts easily by words even if your intentions weren't meant for that.
As INTJ, I also ended up hurting my all feeler friends unintentionally, when valuing logical reasonings.
Well I'm not really sure,
how ESTJ x INFP long-term relationship will work... Anyways good luck for that.
Infp here, it could work, it would just involve both parties getting out of their comfort zone to meet the other in the middle.
I have learned to take responsibility for my feelings. Instead of blaming them for hurting my feelings I look at what life experiences has made that topic vulnerable to me.
It always feels like they just plunged a dagger into my chest. When I was younger it was hard not to feel betrayed by that. But I have grown and realized that just because they say a few words that prod at this emotional scar(oftentimes accidentally)does not make them responsible for the emotional scar. Holding them accountable for everything that's ever happened to me is not fair.
If they knew about the scar, they should be held accountable for the very small sin of not being careful around a sensitive topic but a gentle admonishment is more than enough in that case.
If they are continually doing this and show no regard or effort to avoid hurting me that is another situation. That is where they have to bend a little and acknowledge the very real pain that reliving these memories will cause me. All I ask for is care, is that too much? Know what parts of my heart are broken and tread there carefully.
My partner always asking me if I'm okay whenever they are uncertain is something that I am so grateful for and makes me feel very loved.
Don't give up, love is possible if both of you work for it
As an INFP who worked with an ESTJ boss for 3 and a half years, our relationship was chaotic and I agree with the first guy's comment. We are so sensitive and gets hurt easily whether it is unintentional or not. Well Boss/Employee relationship is different ofcourse, and It didn't work out so I decided to quit my job lol. You ESTJ's might just need to learn to be more sensitive to other people's feelings and try to be a little nicer and gentle. :)
My husband is ESTJ. I am INFP. God is my biggest motivation to stay at our marriage. ESTJ easily to get angry. INFP easily to get hurt by word.
@@cashi4225Wow. If you could give an advice to this young INFPs, should I avoid to be closed with an ESTJ? Hahaha lmfaooo 😞
I have two Infp friends and the Infp thing is pretty accurate. I'm sometimes not sure everything is alright in their relationships, but I think they can handle it.
My INFP friend is in a relationship with ISTP. It's a pretty weird relationship but it works! 😂
Oh gosh INFJ is painfully accurate 😂 ''gotta keep thinking'' lol! 😅 Particularly love the acting in this, INFP and ESTJ waiting while the other one answers lol, and ENTJ made me laugh trying to interpret the art and deciding to just take charge 😂
The INFJ describes me with many of my online communications. I end up ghosting people because I don't know what to talk about or where to even start 😭
It’s so true 😭
I try to see down the line on how can I carry this conversation. Then I take too long and feel dumb anyways 😐 haha oops
Same
It happened to me a week ago. Someone invited me to a random Instagram gc. They told me to introduce myself and I did. Then ask me where I was from. I end up leaving the gc😂
Not sure how accurate this is for other INTPs, but the INTP liking them because they were nice seemed accurate to me.
yeah it's how I fall for my bf who is infj. He is a meme lord and nice to everyone and I respect that
Yes, I thought so. I really like warm wholesome people - but I am skeptical of them at first lol
Yes, I absolutely love genuinely nice people.
😮 who don't like nice people. I use them all the time
@@eun5150 the think is INTPs are paranoid about fake nice ppl who pretend to be nice to take advantage of them but when we find someone who is truly nice genuinely it shocks us yet attract us so much
Yeah this is why INFPs have to be careful not to end up in "I can fix him" relationships lol
Never a good plan.
This is really funny! I really liked the ESFJ/INTP "I thought he was just being sarcastic. Turns out, no, he's just nice." INFJ--what can I say? That's us all right. 🙈🙌💜
When I started dating my INFJ husband I too did not understand his kindness 😂. Even know I have to pause and stare when the man says something super sweet so naturally. (INTP)
Yeah the INTP/ESFJ felt right to me. I do like warm wholesome people, but I am a little thrown off when I actually encounter one 😅
@@jossieb93 I think I may have met an INFJ recently. She asked me if I was ok as I was in pain and moving like a sloth. I thought it was nice that she acknowledged I was in pain and actually showed some empathy. I rarely experience this at the doctor
@@jossieb93 lmao one of my close friend is an INFJ and although she is nice and get along really well with me, i kinda have this feeling that she's at some point just playing it up, like she put the right wording and expression to the thing i said just to make it a 'proper friendship' or to get me mentally dependent on her. i don't know if this makes sense but i feel like she always have those psychological tricks up to her sleeves ready to use anytime anywhere 😂 - INTP
I'm reading the comments. It's good to know how other types are thinking and acting. It's really helpful to understand other people.
INFJ here, this is so accurate. I take a lot of time to think before I respond. A friend messaged me before, and it took me a week before I responded back. I needed a response that expressed exactly what I wanted to say without any misunderstandings, a carefully crafted response that showed that I took the time to think about things before responding. I couldn't think of a response immediately, so I took a long time to think about it.
Well... once I did respond, she got mad at me, because she thought that I ignored her and forgot about her for a week, and it seemed like I didn't care about her, because I didn't respond to her message right away. I was thrown off by this. I tried explaining things but she didn't believe me. I just figured that this is all too stressful, and I figured that if she wants me to message right away and I couldn't do that, then it would be best if we stopped messaging each other.
But to other people, it seemed like pressing the send button was a life or death choice, and it would take me hours to press the send button. Sometimes I'll take hours and hours to write something, and then my nerves get the best of me, and I'll just erase everything and it never gets sent.
Too real
That is so sad because its so relatable
I relate more to this than the infp one(I'm infp)
I'm currently doing this and its been 6 days 💀If I reply now and they would say something back that's gonna take me another week or so for me to reply again. Idk why I'm like this it's so stressful. I feel so bad too. Maybe were just not meant to be? Is this a sign? 😭
As an INFJ, I literally ask for help, by texting a bunch of other people hypotheticals of responses to figure an array of outcomes. When I know what I’m dealing with… I respond in that manner.
The one saving grace for avoiding the accidental ghosting of others is saying ‘sorry I was too overwhelmed to respond at that moment, here is my thoughts now.’, and when they say to ‘just respond to me how you would talk to yourself’… that open up the gates to respond even faster to others. It felt amazing since I don’t like texting a lot because I can’t see body language or hear vocal tones to know how to respond 100% of the time. So many misunderstandings happens because of no voice tones or body language to observe too… I tend to request people to use emojis, emoticons, and the !?.”” To better understand what contextual manner they are texting in😅
just replied to someone that clicking the send button feels like a matter of life and death 💀 we all really do share the same braincell methinks
Yet another brilliant video. I didn’t think it was possible, but I think you’re getting better and better at this.
dang, thanks, William!
I'm impressed with the persistency of quality
The rabbit from Monty Python made me laugh 😂😂
For me the rabbits from Re Zero came to mind
As an INFP who loves both Monty Python and Danger this was so fitting
@@worldofelegance15 there are also rabbits from Pet Shop of horrors
That cocky attitude and the subtle self doubt aftermath of ISTP is too accurate help. As an Asian female I was taught to behave more submissively but that is exactly what truly going on in my mind. You're such a spy James, a genius one.
That's why I like it so much when sometimes in k dramas a female istp or estp appears. Like in this one, YEO-SINE-GANG-RIM, the main character's sister is ESTP I believe, and she is so confident, manly-like, but charming and beautiful at the same time. It was refreshing!
@@sylvia470 Totally agreed. The sister in Parasite also has this vibe and she's my favorite female movie character recent years.
The istp and enfj is Hella accurate. Especially istp, my boyfriend had the same reaction and I can't help but think most istp think this way! I do agree with being Asian you have to be more "docile" and less "straightforward,strong" etc.
Very true
Thinker girls are very attractive ngl
- a feeler girl XD
I’m an INFP and when I’m around my crush, all I would do is avoid them. Like, no eye contact. That way you can’t mess up. 😅
I end up fantasizing and dreaming about them but never actually talking to them.
Saaaameeeee!
I guess that depends on the goal, if it is to avoid embarrassment seen by others then mission accomplished but if it is to get what you want then it is an automatic failure.
Omg, this is so me. Like how would I get a boyfriend if I keep acting like this
It’s quite cool to see how the body language differs between the types
i'm an ISTP and this is so accurate especially since one of my favorite types is ENFJ
This was so hilarious and adorable. Its easy to get trapped in thinking some types aren't compatible (some are mire work that's for sure). It's nice to see the odd pairs!
As an ISFP I truly live in fear of ENTJs haha please accept my love in the form of this image I saw that made me think of you! Don't ask me to explain it! It's about the vibe!
I’m an entp not as scary as an ENTJ perhaps but I can be pretty intimidating. I married an artistic cute ISFP once. I don’t know how it happened! We were an unusual pair but it was a lot of fun. For everyone! 🎉
I loved the new format of 2 separate screens 😍 it elevated the whole 16p sketch ! The ISTP/ENFJ duo gotta be the most confident couple ever 😂 and the ESFJ/INTP couple was so cute ! XD
PS. i loved the spontaneous laugh at the end ❤
Oh man…that was brutal, Frank (fellow INFJ here 🙋🏻♀️). I am so glad you found your wife and no longer have to go through the dating process 😁.
As an INTJ, I can definitely say that there are some days where I just don't feel like going out, either because I'm tired, busy, or just had a rough day. Funny thing is, I've always enjoyed going out on school field trips or family vacations. It's nice to get out and go somewhere new, see the sights, have fun, and relax for a change.
Gosh MBTI is addictive, you be adding more fuel to it Frank 🤩. Well done 👌
The INTP confused about people being 'just' nice and not sarcastic... Yep... Very relatable...
I enjoyed this so much. Utterly fun!
And daydreaming ENFP and his expression are so accurate
Love how the ISTJ will just sort everything out!
When the INFP said "baby bunny" I immediately thought of the Monty Python bunny. I busted out laughing when he landed the joke. The "but I'm attracted to danger" wrap-up was the icing on the cake. Wayyy too accurate. XD - INFP
Accurately I both love and am terrified of Estj’s.
I can totally relate as an INTP, I met an ESFJ before and was skeptical on why they are so nice. Like what's your ulterior motive. Turns out they just like to be nice lol
I love this format ! You create so much content, your imagination has no end. Thank you ^^
Wow, thank you!
Hoping the golden matches (most compatible matches) go on the next video 😁
The INFP ESTJ one was so cute. As an INFP, I cannot say you are wrong.
I feel like a scared baby deer in all my interactions with people to be honest -infp
The istp and enfj one is spot on😭😭
As an INFJ this actually has happened more than I care to say 😅 I am polite about it and apologize for "the delay" and it's hard to explain but I just can't think what to say because there are so many things to say and then I overthink it.
Happened to me recently, like I really don’t know what to say sometimes and I need a STAT reboot/time off because oh boy, No-Ti loop lol
I am an INFP married to an ISTP ... It isn't always easy. LOL
Haha! I'm an ESFP with an INTJ boyfriend, and this portrayal was spot on! I've always been confused by how he says he misses me, yet is able to go an entire week without conversing that much with me (to which he pointed out he can go an entire week without talking to anyone/hearing his own voice). Nevertheless, when I really do need him there, he doesn't hesitate. I thank him everyday for putting up with my shenanigans, hah!
I'm so happy for you! It looks like actually unusual but fun relationship :D
Best wishes from another ESFP
This format is really cool and fun. 🧡 Stereotypes are accurate.
The INTJ live in a house with a spiral staircase ? Spiral staircase is really a struggle or nightmare. I agree it take so much effort and energy.
The INFJ is always so hilarious.🤣
The INTP one was so funny.
'But it turns out that, no. He's just nice. Weird!' Yeah, that made me laugh.
Her being interrupted by the ESFJ but being patient with it might have been an editing mistake, but either way was pretty funny too
@@Midnitethorn That was the funny part. It was definitely on purpose and very accurate.
@@davidt01 Good! It had me laughing out load everytime she was caught off lol
A video of opposites types attracting each other. I'm happy!💕
Estj is the killer bunny from monty python. 😂😂😂😂
Seems right for a guy who has a pathological hatred of poor Timmy, doesn't it? :-)
@@findingthatperfectspot4692 Considering Timmy himself is an ESTJ, we could be dealing with a scenario where the INFP recognizes his deep rooted self esteem issues and wants to be the one to support him and lead him to a happier place mentally and emotionally. And then he'll be so grateful to her for always believing in him and they ride off into the sunset together to live happily ever after.
I'm an INFJ, my grandpa was an ESTP. He was my favourite family member and we were a wonderful duo.
Much love to ESTPs form INFJs! ❤
Infj sooo correct. I KEEP STRUGGLING WHEN I LIKE SOMEONE TO TEXT THEM.
The Killer Rabbit of Caerbannog....that rabbit's got a vicious streak a mile wide!!!
Hey, INFJ guy here. And yeah, that last one was totally accurate! 😜LoL
This video is so well made! My favorite duos are ESTP & INFJ with ESTJ & INFP. It's so funny how INFP is described as a baby deer, and ESTJ is described as a baby bunny that likes to kill. 🤣 Plus, I relate to INFJ and ESTP on both sides of the texting argument 😂
this was rly well done! the intp getting interrupted was acted out perfectly!
I’m an INTP and my gf is an ESTP, but we’re both equally nerdy! She’s for sure way better at organization than I am though!
I've always believed it's complicated to hang out with your opposite type, like it can be really frustrating if your and their personality are not like develop so you can't understand the other person in some way or if you are the only one trying to understand...
On the other hand nice vid you have ur wigs in good shape. There's not the usual ending asking for ideas for a new Sketch, but it'll nice yo see for example the P interacting with the J. Like ENTP with ENTJ or INFP with INFJ and so
This reminded me to text back to my 10days old chats 😅 thanks frank
This ENFP certifies the accuracy of planning a destination dream wedding with someone I barely know… but why stop there? I’m already planning our family trip to Disneyland with 3 kids 😭
Broo 😂 too true.
Gosh I love you ENFPs 😂😂
I'm a INTJ but the INFJ guy is very relatable when I have been really interesting in someone, specially when I started dating my actual husband (INTP and autistic). I have to be the one with the initiative, was so so hard and I don't know how to express my feelings and he definitely less.
My best friend is INFJ and she does the exact same thing ( thinking of an appropriate reply to a simple text and consequently leaving the text on read for hours), I bet her crush feels ghosted 😭😂
This! "I want to go out with you but I don't want to promise you anything, I don't know if I'll be in the mood"... that's really me.
~ INTJ
ISTJ here. Frank, you nailed it once again. So happy I found this channel
Hey, thanks!
'I gotta keep thinking noooooooo!' 🤣society really doesn't wait up for people that actually want to think before they speak haha
As an INTP man, it's still really really really difficult to trust kindness, but I love how kind she is but I can't trust it, something seems off.
ESFJ dating an INFJ. The INFJ male was so accurate. He was super afraid to talk to me and it took a lot of time for him to build up the courage to ask me out. Of course I said yes.
You two must be the nicest pair ever.
I think u can talk to him like u are always be there for him, care for him or any comfort sentence that can comfort or help him from overthinking 😌 -infj
Even sometimes i want my already lovely family do that too.. idk bcoz my overthinking hshshs 😂😂😌
I've heard this so many times as an ESFJ. I'm always the nice guy, or I'm too nice. Why can't people just believe we want to be nice!?! lol 🤔😜😞
Hangout in your introvert flip side for a while
@Louise Joel I enjoy my solitude very much when I am by myself and no one to worry about...then my Ti thoughts start kicking in 🙄😲😞
After meeting so many jerks it's kind of difficult to accept that there are hood people out there. It's even harder when that person is nicer than I am haha
INNTJ woman here and I always say I'll see how I feel before finalizing any plans. Spot on Mr. James.
As always, FJ makes the best content. Thanks so much for another great and hilarious video. Had me laughing, especially with the ESFJ/INTP, and the ESTP/INFJ. Great job FJ!
~ Ana
The INFJ is so legit.... I ghosted my last crush for up to a month, which ended destroying the whole thing, cause it bothered him so much lol Don't know what I was thinking there, heh 😅
Exact same thing that I had done I ghosted mine too
🫣🙈🤦♀️-infj
I kind of want this specific one to be a series. Like I’m rooting for these couples lol
This was so fun to watch! Love the format of the video! :)
yay! 🧡
ENFP demiromantic here- I literally CAN'T fall in love with someone until we become number one best buds. Problem being... I make close friendship bonds fast 😭 so this is somehow inaccurate and accurate at the same time
I live for FJ making opposite types interact 😂 (tho’ I’m really hoping I never elicited that “should I be worried?” response from the people I liked 👀) -ISTP
Well...I can assure you that my ENFJ self would have that thought at least once 😅
As an INFJ who has a crush on an INTJ, that's a thing that comes to my mind often. "He respects me and a few other people but looks down on everyone else. Should I be worried?" haha
ENTJ hilariously true 😂I remember I did something similar, Please be direct cause I question your motives and what you mean and I can't be sure of what's going on unless you say it, kind of a romantically dummy 😆😂 I love this video 🧡
I really appreciate how this guy really seems to understand the 16 personalities like way more than surface level stario types and how well thought out all the parts are
I'm an INFJ and this is so true.
"I think it was pretty clear what I meant."(ISFP) hahahaha
0:00 INTJ ESFP
0:16 ISTP ENFJ
0:26 ISFJ ENTP
0:36 ENTJ ISFP
0:46 ISTJ ENFP
1:02 INFP ESTJ
1:28 ESFJ INTP
1:50 ESTP INFJ
That ESTP should take the initiative there! That's a reason for an INFJ to like them ^^
My favorite was the ESFJ-INTP. It reminds me a bit about myself and a certain ISFP!
/INFJ.
I wouldn't even know how to function so, good job on this intj even responding
This is unironically my situation right now-
-Enfj
1. I liked that the INTP was female.
2. I related hard to the INTP having a difficult time accepting that someone was being sincere in their niceness. I know my default is to interpret everything as sarcasm, so... yeah.
As an intj this is true 😂 I’ve had a few people I just ghosted because they required too much “outing” at one point in my younger yrs 😂😂😂😂.
The infj thought process really hit home for me.
I loved the video!! The dynamics like this are very interesting and also this serves as a reference for possible romance stories that I would like to write one day!😄🤩💖
Love the ISTP confidence
The moment I realized I married my opposite type! 😂
Like aren't opposite type incompatible???
Me and ESFP sister are like oil on water.
@Eren Yeager•エレン•イエガー I don't know, but I am isfj, and he is entp, and we get along just fine.
@@MrsSuperman Blessed be your relationship! For a lot more of years together!
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 personality types aren't everything...
@@jandarkincilesi If personality types aren't everything then why you watching MBTI video then?
THE ENTJ X ISFP ONE WAS SO CUTE
Also as an ENTP with an ISFJ best friend who always asks my opinion on stuff, yeah, I think she's adorable.
Woah! Must have taken some brain-bending thinking-through to nail this one! 🤯 Lovin' the double-acts. So clever and funny - the acting and the editing! 🎬💥
Love how the music is used :') Especially with the ESFJ and INTP
As an ENTP that actually adores ISFJs, I’m more of the type to protect them and roast anyone that hurts them rather than uptalking oneself to make them like me but that’s just me. 😂
ENTPs and ISFJs are so cute together and I'm definately not saying this because I'm currently reading a romance novel of an ENTP & ISFJ couple.
@@felixtownn Hahaha, no I get it and besides, hope you’re enjoying the romance novel.
@@sigilofalfie Haha oh yes, I enjoy Jane Austen's novels quite a lot. But then when the climax comes, I put the book down for days until I have ability to go through the rollercoaster of emotions :')
@@felixtownn Oh bless you but hey, I believe in you! 😌
@@SamDNVS Persuasion :)
LMAO the intp trying to talk but being interrupted is so relatable 😭 (I’m also an Intp btw)
ISTP with a crush really be like (pointing out people in a group): "F you, F you, F you, you're cool, F you-" but inside their own mind instead of out loud.
I would LOOOOOVE to see you start delving into attachment theory! Comedy like yours is desperately needed in that area and I think you'd do an insightful job of it!