Her and her husband feel desperate to be relatable and chill .. that’s never a good sign . And the way she speaks over her coworker is very disrespectful
She doesn’t take domestic violence seriously because she herself is an abuser… She’s a narcissist who literally cannot empathize with victims & clearly can’t even pretend to do so The only silver lining to her being this way, is that it’s allowed her true character to finally be seen by all of us
she's trying to do her husband's brand of witty sarcasm but doesnt realize she's neither witty nor sarcastic and also she's PROMOTING A MOVIE ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
@@mondayjulymonday fucking this, omg! Why does nobody else get it? Celebrities don't want to be approached at the best of times, she absolutely doesn't want to become someone's agony aunt and she absolutely shouldn't be promoting parasocial relationships. The interviewer is an idiot and should not have put that on her like that and she's the one getting grief? Good lord.
@@JamiDwyeri mean usually i’d agree but i feel like this is a valid comment. i think they may be pointing her clothes out particularly as in the interview filmed years ago that’s now going viral, blake makes a dig at the reporter asking about the fashion/clothes in a movie she filmed. that’s why it’s kind of ironic and funny how blake is now posed up showing off her outfit lol
@@AddBowIfGirl from what though? The way Blake avoids the theme, from a lot of her interviews you could never guess what Lily's character development is all about.
The subject of DV clearly has too much depth for her. They’re all talking about getting emotional over the project and she’s talking about looking pretty while crying 🙄Just do everyone a favor and leave the promotion to Justin
So, you guys hate: • people who smile • people who wear shoes • people who talk to coworkers • people who mention the word "zodiac" ever in life Did you ever think maybe your target was not the problem?
I’m trying to watch Blake Lively’s interviews to see if she really is marketing this as badly as people have said, and did Brandon seriously joke about Blake hitting him for crying while promoting a movie about domestic violence??? Like the tone deafness is insane!
I laughed at that part. I’m here doing the same thing. Her answers are actually very thoughtful. Even that jokey response about how to find her was actually funny and fitting in context. It’s odd that people keep cutting off her full response. Feels deliberately smearing now.
@@AddBowIfGirlYes and they are believing edited tiktok videos that are made to purposely smear her reputation. Anyone who has followed blakes work knows how much she advocates for women, victims and survivors. Take it with a grain of salt bcus these people pointing the finger have done actually nothing to contribute to DV awareness and are trying to cancel a celeb bcus they have literally nothing better to do.
@@amna6024she explains how the person who watches the movie falls in love with the abuser too. We see it through the eyes of a person in love of someone ignoring red flags like extreme protectiveness or jealousy bc when you meet them that seems “cute”. Why are you trying so hard to find mistakes in her words.
@@sophialo1724 you dont need to explain it I clearly understood. why are you so bent up about an opinion on a celeb? people like u who worship celebs seriously need a life.
She doesn’t take domestic violence seriously because she herself is an abuser… She’s a narcissist who literally cannot empathize with victims & clearly can’t even pretend to do so The only silver lining to her being this way, is that it’s allowed her true character to finally be seen by all of us
@@jasminetitze rude, or just not obsessively worrying about what everyone will think of her in every moment? She's chillaxing. Can you? Or is that off the table?
It is not YOUR baby, Blake, Justin Baldoni initiated it, directed it and played in it..why cant you acknowledge him just once?? Unbelievable.. he mentionned you so warmly so many times and You cannot even acknowledge his work in all your interviews? Stop shading your teammate !
@@user-emilyyyy yep it seems so.. during her whole extravagant press tour she didnt mention him once, nor acknowledge his work (he is her co star and the director of the film). She takes credit for the film and mentions other actors and the book's author but never Justin. On the red carpet they didnt even have a photo together. And when given questions in interviews about Justin, she avoids the question...
@TildaRigo So did you also read about how uncomfortable he made her feel in regards to how her body image was after giving birth to her 4th child? And it's not just Blake, the whole cast has not been promoting with him and it was not just tension with her on the set but multiple people. And to be honest, the producer does more for the film than a director. I hope it's something that is again just a rumor, but maybe focus on the success of the movie and the message about being strong and standing up for yourself again domestic violence.
Never know what happened but from a viewer’s perspective there are all kinds of abuse. Domestic physical abuse and what appears to be psychological mean spirited abuse. Whatever problems there were should have been addressed and resolved before the opening. It appears to be ‘bullying’, abusive and unkind - like a highschool or grade school ganging up on someone. The optics are not good for anyone.
@meveevem1001 Yeah, that's a shame. At this point, I can see it making enough money for the sequel, and I enjoyed the second book a lot better. Justin didn't say he wasn't gonna come back for a sequel, but he's not gonna direct it either. He did a great job portraying Ryle
Blake's dismissive attitude towards victims and survivors of intimate partner abuse is extremely infuriating! I was so excited to see this movie but I will not shell over my money to fund the Blake Lively/Ryan Reynolds household... I so wanted to support this because I am a child survivor of domestic abuse and also worked with families that survived DA for several years of my life. These women and families deserve so much more respect than Blake, the cast, and Colleen Hoover have given. The only person treating this issue with the sensitivity it deserves is Justin Baldoni and it is SOOO telling that the entire cast has excluded him. I can't even fathom what the hell made this cast think it was okay to treat the matter of DV so flippantly.
0:39 - 1:14. If you don't see this as dismissive, then I don't know what to tell you 🤷♀️ What would you say to someone that is basically confiding in you that they are a victim and/or survivor of domestic abuse?
@SpottedTiger89 Right I didn't initially realise this film was about DV. Yikes... yeah that's a bad response to say the least. Kind of like when she was crying at the thought of her daughter being Seggs trafficked, when she married Ryan on a plantation.... overall just a very distasteful attitude from her, she seems to find the wrong things funny x
@@emmie1176 jlo is known to be very tone deaf and to always make things about herself and people are comparing her to Blake bc she’s acting the same way
Every interview i see this woman she is really aggressive and controlling. Sit face forward and stop cutting him off shes so annoying and a terrible actress
Yah I have to say the body language is really annoying and off putting, with the feet on the couch. The inner mom in me wants to say: take your feet off the couch
I got the impression she wanted to show off her Louboutin shoes but if she was sitting up, you wouldn't see them. It was a weird way to sit for a professional interview.
@@sheenasnivelyChristian Louboutin himself has kissed her azz for YEARS. They go way back and I can’t understand why an iconic man like himself has idolized someone so untalented and arrogant like her. 🥴
@@TheStepmonkey There's a way to answer the question with tact and grace and concern for your fellow human beings. She's making millions of dollars off of this project, on a serious topic that in some cases have cost people their lives. It's not a joking matter and it's belittling, dismissive and fucked up when she laughs it off.
@@TheStepmonkeyI wondered that too, I agree totally out of touch but too your point, she’s a self absorbed actress, don’t expect too much. I still enjoy her movies like The Shallows, Age of Adeline
Interviewer: I ugly cried at the end of the movie it touched me on such a deep level. Blake: what? Oh yah I cried cuz I felt so proud of all the work I’ve done and it makes me tear up thinking of how much work I put into it and how proud I am.
The whole part where she talks about toxic masculinity and the joke about her hitting him, when he cried, shows how little we understand the full scope of abuse. This movie is extremely important and a story that needs to be told. However, there's another side to DV that most ppl aren't ready to look at in our culture and this inverview reveals some of those holes. Overall great interview, and thanks for sharing
Not really a joke about her hitting him. His implication was that we tend to act like guys aren't allowed to cry. He made a completely ironic and yet thoughtful comment about Blake hitting him because it's obvious that she actually had not and would not. She said it would be similar to toxic masculinity if she did something like that, which again, she obviously would not. Maybe the problem some people are having is that, for the actors, the thoughtful nuance and caring in their statements is obvious, and the commenters are less clear on irony and nuance.
Did she really say "Unfortunately we all know at least someone but we normally know more than someONES we know someMANYS who have experienced this"?! 😂 Such dumb phrasing and feels so inauthentic. Was she media trained for "this" at all?!
What in the world?!?! She makes fun of people who have suffered DV right out the gate and then refused to use the words abuse and calls it "this" multiple times and then focuses on falling in love and says that the red flags are "fushia" and "cute"
I don't mind that at all. The word DV sounds so heavy that many wouldn't identify with it while it is what they are experiencing actually. Better to say "this" or "toxic relationship".
Are you serious? She never once made fun of people who have experienced DV. She acknowledged the truth of these situations. Sometimes in a relationship, a partner can seem cute and endearing and lovable, even when they're pulling their partner into a toxic situation. Red flags CAN seem like fuschia, in other words subtle, because we tell ourselves that people make mistakes, or even that we might have imagined more anger than there was. That's also one element that can make DV so dangerous. It can catch a person off guard. And it can be something they don't realize is happening until they're stuck. I know because it happened to me. And talking about it this way could help others see the signs. Hopefully before it's too late. It is shameful that people want to attack her for this. She has provided a better conversation that I am happy to have. I wish more people would try it. It might help.
Experienced “this” why can’t she or anyone say the actual topic of the movie which is DV! Justin is the only one who has been making that the focal point of the film! Disgusting to make this movie sound like it is a full on Rom com.
She has said those words numerous times. She talks about this in depth and with complexity and compassion. Heaping anger on someone for trying to talk calmly about anger is...not helping anyone.
The way Blake talks about this character that she’s playing is so transparent and obvious that she’s so privileged. She tries to talk about this message that her character is bigger than this DV experience in their life and it doesn’t defines them. But unfortunately, a lot of victims are really deeply impacted by their experience and they don’t have the resources and not let this experience to define them.
Even though DV survivors do have a life on the other side, the way she explains it downplays it tremendously. I’m not seeing this based on it’s marking not being rooted in any reality. I don’t think that one needs to experience it to approach these interviews with respect to victims, but damn girl can you not tap into any empathy? Do you not know any survivors that can communicate the up and down grief post DV. This feels like a fantasy movie.
This is why people need to be taught resilience. Modern society (and comments like this) tells you that you need to put your trust and money into "professionals" and if you cant do that youre screwed. instead of empowering you spiritually that you CAN control your response to situations... And working hard to not let yourself be defined by all the things that the world can throw at you as an excuse.
She didn't downplay anyone's experience. She talks about the topic with the gravity and weight it deserves. She does so with kindness, empathy, and hope. Sick of haters attacking her for helping people like me to cope with situations like that.
@@funnyfoxbird Did you watch the video? I did. I just watched it again, too. It's only a 4 minute interview, but she has multiple kind, empathetic, and unselfish quotes in that span of time. Here are some: "Unfortunately we all know someone, and not just someone... many someones who have experienced this. And the beauty of this movie has been to see people, and see this movie alongside women, who haven't been through this (thank goodness) and who have said, "Woah. I fell in love, too, and now I realize there were red flags, but I maybe didn't see them as red flags, they were more fuschia, and now I know why."" - on how we can miss cues that might be leading us into a toxic situation. "This story is told with such empathy that I think it can be healing, it can be a cautionary tale, and it can be inspiring. Colleen's work does that." - credit to the author for helping people. "If anyone says that your work meant something to them, in addition to having that collective experience in a theater, where you can laugh, and cry, and feel together, what a blessing." - she clearly appreciates how making something that might help people has more weight than an every day movie experience. "I cried in this movie, and I cry in real life, too. I'm just so proud of the work we ALL did making this movie. Everyone on screen, everyone off screen, it was such a collective effort. I love it so much." - she's acknowledging it's emotional without spoiling it. She credits all the people who worked as a team. If you don't think those words are kind or aware, I don't know what you would find moving or kind.
Every interview he is so respectful of his girlfriend and sits straight and isn’t flirty and Blake just cannot help herself. She falls all over him and gushes in every interview. I cannot.
Lmao watch her costar’s body language towards the end too😂 He has his legs crossed away from her meanwhile Blake has her entire body facing him 😂 so embarrassing
Wow Blake I really thought you were a better person than this… your response to all of his questions just mind blowing, how outta touch you’re as a human being. A lot of people experience DV and for you to make a joke out of it is just crazy and heartless tbh. I thought you would spread awareness and to let people know that it’s okay to move on from DV and to get out of the situation that they’re in but instead you make it about money. I wanted to see this movie really bad, but now I just want nothing to do with whatever you’re involved in. I don’t want you getting more money more views and trust me I know I am one person but it only takes one person to make a stand and that my friend is what you should’ve done… not this.
She didn't make a joke out of it. Brendan made an ironic statement while seeming to embrace allowing himself to shed some tears for this film. She backed him up. This was a totally decent interview.
I’ve seen this before. When females are married or dating a guy with a specific type of sense of humor, ie dry wit or sarcasm, they adopt that same sense of humor almost by osmosis. However, because it’s not their sense of humor, it’s someone else’s, it always comes off as disingenuous and unfunny. Obviously she’s married to Ryan Reynolds, so his “sense of humor” has rubbed off on her (or in her), and she attempts to replicate his humor to disastrous results.
THISSSS. It’s a clear attempt to be witty and funny by using Ryans type of humor but she doesnt have the same witty dead pan delivery as ryan so it just falls really flat.
At this point, Blake has dug her own grave. The first question was so important, everybody understood what the interviewer was asking, she just played dumb.
honestly she should've been cancelled the minute her and Ryan decided to marry to in a slave plantation then went on to write an article on her forgotten flop website that romanticizes the antebellum era for the "fashion."
After watching this interview and seeing her rude reply to a very important question I have come to the conclusion that she didn't make this movie because she cared about the themes, she made this movie for her ego. I won't be seeing it.
Yeah, that always frustrates me. Sometimes answers are so unclear or nót related to the question, but then the interviewer never asks again or asks for clearification!
Right, because when people make a movie about domestic violence and the difficulties with people being confrontational in relationships, that's the perfect time to get confrontational and completely ignore the goals of safer relationships. 🙄
Pure filth. Absolutely disgusting I pray her mindset shifts and takes a back seat. Justin knows it’s important to share a far bigger message than to joke when asked a serious important question I don’t think she has much fans left after this. So out of touch
I feel like shes trying to tread so lightly. She doesnt know what to say about dv and abusive relationships like shes scared to say the words. They really shouldve got someone with more understanding about this important topic to play this character. Ugh but lets not forget colleen hoover made this book and it romantises abuse so does she. So yeh.
You do realize this is a fictional story portrayed by actors, not a DV documentary requiring social workers, educators, and activists...? It's a movie. It's simply entertainment.
I agree 100%. To take the matter of domestic abuse and monetize it as this cast has is disrespectful to the many women and families impacted by this experience. I can't imagine they would be this irresponsible with other topics like war, genocide, racism, you name it. Blake is super out of touch and to not educate herself more is a choice, not for lack of resources.
@SpottedTiger89 exactly, the fact she didn't do anything to understand dv and doesn't know how to talk abt it is ridiculous. As an actor it's ur job to bring a character to life, to become them. Blake lively just plays herself and the fact she got a haircare line out of this movie and it's all abt 'her and her perfect husband' WHAT. THIS ISNT ABT U. And the only thing she said abt dv was "she's a woman of multitudes ur not just a victim and a survivor but also ..." like u do not understand how trauma and abuse works at all. Cus it goes into every part of ur life u cant just separate from it quickly. This is bs.
@ermyr7743 ha yes it's fiction. But does that make romantising abuse and dv okay? It's important to take abuse seriously and depict it realistically for ppl whov gone through that or maybe still r. Ppl who have been through dv r going to cinemas unaware it's about dv and thinking it's a romcom cus Blake lively and the cast r making a joke of it. A haircare line? For a film about abuse? "Wear ur florals get ur girls" this is not a cute romcom. It's about ABUSE. Films have a lot of power and u have to do it right.
Yeah I’m confused why she’s telling us her zodiac sign, then goes to claim she has toxic masculinity 🤯 I’m thinking she’s just not used to interviews anymore, being she’s not a popular actor anymore, since gossip girl.
This is a train wreck. Sure she may not be an authority on domestic violence, but can’t she just say that? I think the interviewer was subtly calling her out on her blaséness, and she caught on (surprisingly) and gave a snarky and unprofessional answer.
wasn't that a sarcastic joke? She was joking that she suffers from toxic masculinity before he said that. not saying she isn't rude and out of touch, but that particular comment was just a joke.
Blake’s comments and actions have been so inappropriate for a movie that is addressing a SERIOUS Issue for way too many women face every day! They are terrified and she is lounging on sofa, joking, laughing and being so lighthearted about the very first question & the topic of the movie; Shame on you Blake!
Why the hell is she sitting like this throughout the whole interview? Not only the legs on the couch, but also the hand on the seat. You're not in front of the TV eating popcorn in the middle of the night, girl! Have some decency and professionalism for crying out loud. The lack of manners just pissed me off
Ironically, because Brendan was clearly feeling good about allowing himself to cry, and obviously Blake would NOT hit him for it. And now here come all of the comments to shame him for making a thoughtful nuanced statement. Unbelievable.
Blake is way too shallow to have been cast for this role. She’s too shallow to play the role and too shallow for the press this movie required and deserved. She doesn’t connect with Lilly’s character on any level. Shes clearly incapable of having empathy and any real understanding of the victims this will impact and how it will impact them. Her response to the few questions she was asked speak volumes of her ignorance and unappreciative to this very targeted audience. And her jokes about toxic masculinity and response to her costar having an emotional response to some of the scenes is…. Ugh
I have never seen an actress be this passive-aggressive and petty towards interviewers and important questions dealing directly with the movie. She's not even an A-lister actress. What the f is her problem??
Just when you think she can’t make the mess worse… now she’s got Deuxmoi paid off to attack Justin. Mean girl era is so over now Blake, let’s grow up huh? And let your friends know too.
1:33 came to see if she really was promoting it poorly but im sorry what is this??? "girls who haven't experienced this (DV), thank goodness to go 'woah I FELL IN LOVE TOO(???), I saw the red flags but they DIDN'T LOOK RED (???) they looked fuchsia and CUTE(?????) but i ignore them(????)' "
Thoght the same thing. She is disconnected and out of touch. Reminds me of my ex husband who is a narcicist ams has aspergera. No empathy, and very out of touch with the situation, how to speak, no ability to read the room, or others emotions.
This is a perfect example to show that they are just actors! To ask them to be human would be to ask them to think that they understand the movie. They are not.
I ADORED Blake Lively until i saw this!!! That first question was a serious question about a serious issue her movie covers and her answer wasn’t just TRASH, it was a TRASHY JOKE! So heartbroken to see that!
Brandon joking about Blake hitting him during filming and then going on insta and posting that tone deaf statement about how they all take DV seriously as a topic… what an embarrassing group of people, the only one showing ANY decorum throughout this is Justin…
everything she says afterwards is completely negated by her initial snarky comment. an ACTOR who makes movies for PEOPLE being approached by those same people who made them RICH...how is that so incredulous? celebrities literally do nothing for "work" so how about giving some time and attention to the people who admire you, is that so much to ask? although, based on her responses, I'd spit on her before listening to her opinion.
Do you think she even understands DV? It sounds like she thinks it's a cute entanglement. It's actually a form of torture. Any option you take is lose-lose. It's incredibly stressful and upsetting. To be this lighthearted about a topic that's so deep, personal and traumatising is super weird. I'm thinking that it's not just that she's barely talked about it. It's that she doesn't know how to talk about it well at all. 🙁 Such a shame and actually quite disrespectful to those who have personal experience and have been affected.
If you are going to make a movie based on a well-known book that deals with DV- be prepared to discuss it! Why is that so hard for her?? She could have easily said that victims can ask for help from different resources instead of being so dismissive towards her fans- what kind of reaction was that? SMH
She was in the movie because it gave her clout. I would be very surprised if it entered her mind at any point the gravity of the subject matter of the movie. It's all just pretend world for her, it's Blake's world, we're all just living in it. Main character energy 100%.
Hey Jake. We met in passing at a junket at some point a few years ago, and I am normally a big fan of your interviews, but after watching your follow-up segment to your Blake Lively interview, I’ve lost a lot of respect for you. I debated whether or not to post this, but Brendan’s post tonight gave me that final push. I watched your junket interview before it had been circumvented by TikTokers’ conspiracy theories. My immediate reaction to your first question was “that was a weird question.” I assumed you had bungled the delivery of it, which is a very rare thing for you to do, but yeah, we’ve all done it.“How should someone approach you when they want to talk about this movie?” My response would have been “say hi then tell me what you want to tell me about the movie? 🤷♂” But yeah, we've all screwed up the delivery of an interview question. That’s not why I’m writing. When I turned on your followup segment, I expected you to acknowledge the “fumble”, but no, you actually chastise Blake saying… “an actor who does press for a movie about such a serious topic…you gotta talk about it”. Jake, you’re asking the questions. A reporter who does interviews with actors for a movie about such a “serious topic”…you need to ASK about it. Not only did you not say “domestic violence” or “abuse” in your question, you struggled to even say the term in your followup segment. How do you start an interview with Blake Lively where you want her talk about the domestic violence/abuse aspect of the film? Well, dont start off by framing it as a celebrity run-in (that’s not a serious topic), dont incorrectly refer to it by saying “given the themes” (domestic violence is not a theme, nor is it multiple), on a “deeply personal” level (if someone is telling you their thoughts on a movie, it is personal. That deeper level could be they also own a flower shop? Their name is Lily? They cried when “My Tears Ricochet” played? The possibilities are endless). I still don’t know exactly what you were trying to ask. Regardless, its not on Blake’s shoulders to decipher what you were actually asking about in the convoluted word jumble. She could have decided you were asking about domestic violence. But don’t lecture her for not doing your work for you. And then you said in the followup, “If you’re doing an interview about domestic violence, you know…you shouldn’t be looking for the that fun, funny viral moment”…dude, your second question..well not really a question….was how you “ugly cried in the movie theatre. Not a cute single tear, that silent gagging cry”. Was that sticking to the “serious topic” and not looking for the fun, funny viral moment? I know our business is an opportunistic one, and the whole point of the followup segment was to promote the fact that “look my interview got views”, but the fact that you didn’t take the opportunity to own your own mistake, and instead lectured Blake with “guidance” that you didnt even follow yourself...Shameful, Jake. Not to mention that you’re doing this when we both know that this “finger pointing” at Blake started because Justin (and Sony) were trying to steer the conversation away from the fact that this movie, all about a woman finding her voice from underneath an controlling, dominant male should not have been directed by a male, let alone the actor who played that controlling male. We all screw up, Jake. Blake Lively isn’t your scapegoat though.
The body language from the man sitting next to her spoke loud and clear. He was uncomfortable with her reply to the question. It's sad that the Blake Lively has overshadowed the message behind the movie.
It'd be cool if people would stop trying to justify her being a complete bitch. That's her personality. She's not trying to genuinely be relatable, she's or of touch and vapid and a genuine bitch who never evolved from peaking in high school.
Her skill even looked different. It is so disgusting how a woman can act such good in the movie and was so satanic in the world. But you know it is Hollywood
Someone posted an interview on YT that she did in 2016 and she was asked if she liked her wardrobe in her movie and her response that she gave was giving the same vibes that her initial response did in the beginning of this interview. It's like she's being sarcastic but it comes off rude
The entire cast is avoiding him for a reason; Lively is just who the tabloids decided to fry. He is trying to do damage control and he is a good director but none of the cast got along with him.
I can tell this woman has never had it hard in her life. Even nepokids have gone through some hard times. She is so out of touch with people’s emotions. She was so focused on her “work” and being in the spotlight she failed to recognize the true message and meaning of the film. It was just a job for her and opportunity to shine. Not to mention she’s a horrible actor. What a shame they casted her of all the intelligent and talented actresses.
I can’t believe they cut the main actor and director out of the promotions. They couldn’t keep it together a little longer? It’s such a bullying move to freeze him out like that. Blake seems like a real life mean girl and I’m not about it. She’s average pretty and an average actress; she needs to take stock and calm down about herself.
I don’t understand why everyone is freaking out it that Blake is a mean girl the first question is so totally out of line. She’s an actress not a social worker.
What?!😂 so questions about the movie subject are off limits? Then they should have just asked her about her dress and shoes she was trying to show off. Oh wait, she HATES questions about fashion 🙄😏
No, younger fans look up to her and believe she'd know something about what she's doing a movie about. They would ask her basic questions. Many fans of hers wouldn't feel intimidated to address her, like they would the police. I'm the social worker.
Blake thinking: Why are you suggesting commoners come and tell me their sob stories?! Ewww. Why don’t I just give them my phone number and address and share my location with these losers so they can hunt me down?! The audacity!
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Her true personality is showing, and it’s not a good one.
she gives me Amber Heard vibes
Her and her husband feel desperate to be relatable and chill .. that’s never a good sign . And the way she speaks over her coworker is very disrespectful
She doesn’t take domestic violence seriously because she herself is an abuser… She’s a narcissist who literally cannot empathize with victims & clearly can’t even pretend to do so
The only silver lining to her being this way, is that it’s allowed her true character to finally be seen by all of us
she's definitely toxic
@@latishavanorbeek3271how is she anything like Amber Heard? She's sitting there being nice and chill. People have gone crazy over this.
Her initial response to the first question is so out of touch.
she's trying to do her husband's brand of witty sarcasm but doesnt realize she's neither witty nor sarcastic and also she's PROMOTING A MOVIE ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
She’s an out of touch person, this is the same woman who had her wedding on a plantation.
Ryan only lets her leave the house every few years so she’s really showing her ass.
No. She’s a celebrity. Doing anything to encourage random strangers to approach you is counterproductive to your safety and sanity.
@@mondayjulymonday fucking this, omg! Why does nobody else get it? Celebrities don't want to be approached at the best of times, she absolutely doesn't want to become someone's agony aunt and she absolutely shouldn't be promoting parasocial relationships. The interviewer is an idiot and should not have put that on her like that and she's the one getting grief? Good lord.
she sure talks a lot just to say the simplest things.
She just loves yapping
Yeah a lot of actors do this. It's because they're not exactly the smartest people lol
@@R_S747 lol true
Maybe Kamala is her acting coach!
So, because she is able to speak in an interview, that's a problem for you guys? Seriously, who paid you?
I’m surprised her team has not asked her to take this video down.
shhh we need the general public to see it
If anyone doubts her arrogance and self absorbion, this is yet another interview that reiterates it.
It'd make things worse as this had already gone viral.
She’s sitting like she’s on her couch at home watching Netflix, and she’s leaning really close to him. Odd much?
Because nobody cares, unless they have a bandwagon to jump on🤣🤪
Her sitting wondering “how can I get my whole outfit in the shot, while still looking kewl”
Yeah also she just wants to show off the red bottom shoes
@velociraptinmal5733 yes, she works really hard at trying to look effortless.
Jeez yall will criticize everything a woman does
@@JamiDwyeri mean usually i’d agree but i feel like this is a valid comment. i think they may be pointing her clothes out particularly as in the interview filmed years ago that’s now going viral, blake makes a dig at the reporter asking about the fashion/clothes in a movie she filmed. that’s why it’s kind of ironic and funny how blake is now posed up showing off her outfit lol
😭😭😭😭😭
Valley girl vibes for a movie about domestic violence she's not great at press
The movie is about the female lead getting her life back.
@@AddBowIfGirl from what though? The way Blake avoids the theme, from a lot of her interviews you could never guess what Lily's character development is all about.
@@GrandisSilvamaybe you’re just r worded?
@@fs4836what r u talking about?
@@fs4836you sound like you would be a fan of Blake
The subject of DV clearly has too much depth for her. They’re all talking about getting emotional over the project and she’s talking about looking pretty while crying 🙄Just do everyone a favor and leave the promotion to Justin
The way she pivoted back to horoscopes 😂
@@TimoteoDeBaum I hate it when people do that 😂😂😂
@@selinavalo When the people hit you with their zodiac sign, that's when you notice the degree of superficiality.
So, you guys hate:
• people who smile
• people who wear shoes
• people who talk to coworkers
• people who mention the word "zodiac" ever in life
Did you ever think maybe your target was not the problem?
I’m trying to watch Blake Lively’s interviews to see if she really is marketing this as badly as people have said, and did Brandon seriously joke about Blake hitting him for crying while promoting a movie about domestic violence??? Like the tone deafness is insane!
She is
Honestly, when he jokes about her hitting him - unbelievable in the promo for a fucking DV film. Also, her first response is gross.
3:17
I laughed at that part. I’m here doing the same thing. Her answers are actually very thoughtful. Even that jokey response about how to find her was actually funny and fitting in context. It’s odd that people keep cutting off her full response. Feels deliberately smearing now.
@@AddBowIfGirlYes and they are believing edited tiktok videos that are made to purposely smear her reputation. Anyone who has followed blakes work knows how much she advocates for women, victims and survivors. Take it with a grain of salt bcus these people pointing the finger have done actually nothing to contribute to DV awareness and are trying to cancel a celeb bcus they have literally nothing better to do.
she really just be saying a whole lot w a bunch of nothing 😭 like girl WAKE TF UP
"they weren't really red flags, they were fuchsia and cute" like what??
ive noticed she usually tries to shift focus to her chest when she wants to backtrack from a q. check other interviews
“Some many” 😂😂
@@amna6024she explains how the person who watches the movie falls in love with the abuser too. We see it through the eyes of a person in love of someone ignoring red flags like extreme protectiveness or jealousy bc when you meet them that seems “cute”. Why are you trying so hard to find mistakes in her words.
@@sophialo1724 you dont need to explain it I clearly understood. why are you so bent up about an opinion on a celeb? people like u who worship celebs seriously need a life.
jesus she's so unprofessional... we're not at home dude
She doesn’t take domestic violence seriously because she herself is an abuser… She’s a narcissist who literally cannot empathize with victims & clearly can’t even pretend to do so
The only silver lining to her being this way, is that it’s allowed her true character to finally be seen by all of us
@@Dom_com-z2o dude. That is slander. It's defamation. She hasn't abused anyone. Your words are criminal abuse. You're attacking an innocent woman.
Can she let him speak shes so passive aggressive
@@Iamanillusion1 yeah I noticed that too, in almost all of her interviews...same with isabella, she does not let her talk, she talks over her!!!
She was totally chill. Weird comments.
@@TamaraKane No she's very rude for no reason.
@@jasminetitze rude, or just not obsessively worrying about what everyone will think of her in every moment? She's chillaxing. Can you? Or is that off the table?
It is not YOUR baby, Blake, Justin Baldoni initiated it, directed it and played in it..why cant you acknowledge him just once?? Unbelievable.. he mentionned you so warmly so many times and You cannot even acknowledge his work in all your interviews? Stop shading your teammate !
Does she have beef with him?
@@user-emilyyyy yep it seems so.. during her whole extravagant press tour she didnt mention him once, nor acknowledge his work (he is her co star and the director of the film). She takes credit for the film and mentions other actors and the book's author but never Justin. On the red carpet they didnt even have a photo together. And when given questions in interviews about Justin, she avoids the question...
@TildaRigo So did you also read about how uncomfortable he made her feel in regards to how her body image was after giving birth to her 4th child? And it's not just Blake, the whole cast has not been promoting with him and it was not just tension with her on the set but multiple people. And to be honest, the producer does more for the film than a director. I hope it's something that is again just a rumor, but maybe focus on the success of the movie and the message about being strong and standing up for yourself again domestic violence.
Never know what happened but from a viewer’s perspective there are all kinds of abuse. Domestic physical abuse and what appears to be psychological mean spirited abuse. Whatever problems there were should have been addressed and resolved before the opening. It appears to be ‘bullying’, abusive and unkind - like a highschool or grade school ganging up on someone. The optics are not good for anyone.
@meveevem1001 Yeah, that's a shame. At this point, I can see it making enough money for the sequel, and I enjoyed the second book a lot better. Justin didn't say he wasn't gonna come back for a sequel, but he's not gonna direct it either. He did a great job portraying Ryle
“I’m a Virgo so I don’t know how to help someone suffering from Domestic Violence”
her face card might read 39 but her mind is still a child bc wtaf shit thing to say
That's not what she said. Not even slightly.
Get real. She is not a trained professional to be listening to random strangers’ traumas. How about you do it?
The living embodiment of the pampered, out of touch, shallow celebrity. You know she’s never had a real problem in her entire life.
You don't know that.
@mi11pi06 It’s quite obvious to see if you have eyeballs
@@lilygarner8463 Judging by what's visible. How inspiring and deep.
Blake's dismissive attitude towards victims and survivors of intimate partner abuse is extremely infuriating! I was so excited to see this movie but I will not shell over my money to fund the Blake Lively/Ryan Reynolds household... I so wanted to support this because I am a child survivor of domestic abuse and also worked with families that survived DA for several years of my life. These women and families deserve so much more respect than Blake, the cast, and Colleen Hoover have given. The only person treating this issue with the sensitivity it deserves is Justin Baldoni and it is SOOO telling that the entire cast has excluded him. I can't even fathom what the hell made this cast think it was okay to treat the matter of DV so flippantly.
@shutupandeatasmr4498 Respectfully, you're entitled to your opinion on the matter and I'm entitled to mine. Thank you for your input.
I had NO idea she was such a flaming asshole 😮 yikes. Like wtf?
When did she dismiss them? I'm not disagreeing just wondering when she specifically said it
0:39 - 1:14. If you don't see this as dismissive, then I don't know what to tell you 🤷♀️ What would you say to someone that is basically confiding in you that they are a victim and/or survivor of domestic abuse?
@SpottedTiger89 Right I didn't initially realise this film was about DV. Yikes... yeah that's a bad response to say the least. Kind of like when she was crying at the thought of her daughter being Seggs trafficked, when she married Ryan on a plantation.... overall just a very distasteful attitude from her, she seems to find the wrong things funny x
she’s in her JLO era
lol yup
I've seen people say this, what does it mean? Haven't followed a lot of JLO drama.
You people are scary in how you follow eachother like sheep.
@@emmie1176 jlo is known to be very tone deaf and to always make things about herself and people are comparing her to Blake bc she’s acting the same way
Lmfaooo
Every interview i see this woman she is really aggressive and controlling. Sit face forward and stop cutting him off shes so annoying and a terrible actress
Yah I have to say the body language is really annoying and off putting, with the feet on the couch. The inner mom in me wants to say: take your feet off the couch
I got the impression she wanted to show off her Louboutin shoes but if she was sitting up, you wouldn't see them. It was a weird way to sit for a professional interview.
@@sheenasnivelyyes a multi millionaire needs this interview to show of - for her “cheap” - shoes. I doubt that’s something she has to brag about :)
@@sophialo1724hi Blake 👋🏾
@@sheenasnivelyChristian Louboutin himself has kissed her azz for YEARS. They go way back and I can’t understand why an iconic man like himself has idolized someone so untalented and arrogant like her. 🥴
people actually defending her is baffling to me, yall need actual help.
Why are people even hating tho? There's no reason for her to be a DV activist cause she's just an actress 🤷🏻♀️
@@TheStepmonkeybecause if she acts in a movie about dv so she should at least talk about it with some respect
@@TheStepmonkey There's a way to answer the question with tact and grace and concern for your fellow human beings. She's making millions of dollars off of this project, on a serious topic that in some cases have cost people their lives. It's not a joking matter and it's belittling, dismissive and fucked up when she laughs it off.
@@TheStepmonkey I agree... there is such a HUGE overreaction happening. People just LOVE hating on beautiful people. So jelly.
@@TheStepmonkeyI wondered that too, I agree totally out of touch but too your point, she’s a self absorbed actress, don’t expect too much. I still enjoy her movies like The Shallows, Age of Adeline
Interviewer: I ugly cried at the end of the movie it touched me on such a deep level.
Blake: what? Oh yah I cried cuz I felt so proud of all the work I’ve done and it makes me tear up thinking of how much work I put into it and how proud I am.
The whole part where she talks about toxic masculinity and the joke about her hitting him, when he cried, shows how little we understand the full scope of abuse. This movie is extremely important and a story that needs to be told. However, there's another side to DV that most ppl aren't ready to look at in our culture and this inverview reveals some of those holes.
Overall great interview, and thanks for sharing
Not really a joke about her hitting him. His implication was that we tend to act like guys aren't allowed to cry. He made a completely ironic and yet thoughtful comment about Blake hitting him because it's obvious that she actually had not and would not. She said it would be similar to toxic masculinity if she did something like that, which again, she obviously would not. Maybe the problem some people are having is that, for the actors, the thoughtful nuance and caring in their statements is obvious, and the commenters are less clear on irony and nuance.
Never trust anyone who puts their feet on furniture...with their SHOES ON lol
Her shoes are worth more than that couch.
It is not your furniture to worry about
What does that has to do with anything @@chloebelle4923
It's appropriate to wear nice shoes to an interview, and I'm certain she didn't damage the couch. People really need to lighten up.
She is so entitled. Go away Blake. She is vain and not right for this role. She’s too shallow.
Whats she even got to be vain about? She is seriously nothing special at ALL. Plain Jane + a bad actress
This is so hard to watch. The lack of authenticity. You cannot miss it. Oof.
Yes true
The both seem to be completely phony phonies, and they're phoning it in
You obviously didn't watch the video. Or you're paid.
I love that Brendon is saying he is crying about everything makes my heart melt. And like him even more!
I agree! This was such a heartfelt and moving interview!
Why did people ever like her
I’ve only seen praise about her for years like on red carpet but I never got the hype and this is the first thing I’ve learned about her
People tend to equate physical beauty with a being a kind and reasonable person.
@@lonelynights7395same thing! i have always felt somthng off about her but couldnt understand what! now i get whyy
She's a nepo baby
She's Ryan Reynolds husband
She's talking in circles.
right i never know what she wants to say
She spoke clearly and thoughtfully.
WHY DOES SHE REFUSE TO SAY “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE”?!!
why is she trying to be funny on a question that asks her about domestic abuse?? 😐😐
Did she really say "Unfortunately we all know at least someone but we normally know more than someONES we know someMANYS who have experienced this"?! 😂 Such dumb phrasing and feels so inauthentic. Was she media trained for "this" at all?!
What in the world?!?! She makes fun of people who have suffered DV right out the gate and then refused to use the words abuse and calls it "this" multiple times and then focuses on falling in love and says that the red flags are "fushia" and "cute"
I don't mind that at all. The word DV sounds so heavy that many wouldn't identify with it while it is what they are experiencing actually. Better to say "this" or "toxic relationship".
I noticed too that she can’t even say the word and deliberately avoid saying “abuse”. She really wanted to market it as a romcom.
Are you serious? She never once made fun of people who have experienced DV. She acknowledged the truth of these situations. Sometimes in a relationship, a partner can seem cute and endearing and lovable, even when they're pulling their partner into a toxic situation. Red flags CAN seem like fuschia, in other words subtle, because we tell ourselves that people make mistakes, or even that we might have imagined more anger than there was. That's also one element that can make DV so dangerous. It can catch a person off guard. And it can be something they don't realize is happening until they're stuck. I know because it happened to me. And talking about it this way could help others see the signs. Hopefully before it's too late.
It is shameful that people want to attack her for this. She has provided a better conversation that I am happy to have. I wish more people would try it. It might help.
Experienced “this” why can’t she or anyone say the actual topic of the movie which is DV! Justin is the only one who has been making that the focal point of the film! Disgusting to make this movie sound like it is a full on Rom com.
She has said those words numerous times. She talks about this in depth and with complexity and compassion.
Heaping anger on someone for trying to talk calmly about anger is...not helping anyone.
The way Blake talks about this character that she’s playing is so transparent and obvious that she’s so privileged. She tries to talk about this message that her character is bigger than this DV experience in their life and it doesn’t defines them. But unfortunately, a lot of victims are really deeply impacted by their experience and they don’t have the resources and not let this experience to define them.
Even though DV survivors do have a life on the other side, the way she explains it downplays it tremendously. I’m not seeing this based on it’s marking not being rooted in any reality. I don’t think that one needs to experience it to approach these interviews with respect to victims, but damn girl can you not tap into any empathy? Do you not know any survivors that can communicate the up and down grief post DV. This feels like a fantasy movie.
This is why people need to be taught resilience. Modern society (and comments like this) tells you that you need to put your trust and money into "professionals" and if you cant do that youre screwed. instead of empowering you spiritually that you CAN control your response to situations... And working hard to not let yourself be defined by all the things that the world can throw at you as an excuse.
She didn't downplay anyone's experience. She talks about the topic with the gravity and weight it deserves. She does so with kindness, empathy, and hope.
Sick of haters attacking her for helping people like me to cope with situations like that.
@@TamaraKane did you watch the video? Bc none of this happened.
@@funnyfoxbird Did you watch the video? I did. I just watched it again, too. It's only a 4 minute interview, but she has multiple kind, empathetic, and unselfish quotes in that span of time. Here are some:
"Unfortunately we all know someone, and not just someone... many someones who have experienced this. And the beauty of this movie has been to see people, and see this movie alongside women, who haven't been through this (thank goodness) and who have said, "Woah. I fell in love, too, and now I realize there were red flags, but I maybe didn't see them as red flags, they were more fuschia, and now I know why."" - on how we can miss cues that might be leading us into a toxic situation.
"This story is told with such empathy that I think it can be healing, it can be a cautionary tale, and it can be inspiring. Colleen's work does that." - credit to the author for helping people.
"If anyone says that your work meant something to them, in addition to having that collective experience in a theater, where you can laugh, and cry, and feel together, what a blessing." - she clearly appreciates how making something that might help people has more weight than an every day movie experience.
"I cried in this movie, and I cry in real life, too. I'm just so proud of the work we ALL did making this movie. Everyone on screen, everyone off screen, it was such a collective effort. I love it so much." - she's acknowledging it's emotional without spoiling it. She credits all the people who worked as a team.
If you don't think those words are kind or aware, I don't know what you would find moving or kind.
Every interview he is so respectful of his girlfriend and sits straight and isn’t flirty and Blake just cannot help herself. She falls all over him and gushes in every interview. I cannot.
Because this is Hollywood. They are Satanist. You have no idea what is happening there
She had sone drunks here😂😂😂
She has no class
Lmao watch her costar’s body language towards the end too😂 He has his legs crossed away from her meanwhile Blake has her entire body facing him 😂 so embarrassing
They both look totally comfortable and chill. Nasty comments.
Wow Blake I really thought you were a better person than this… your response to all of his questions just mind blowing, how outta touch you’re as a human being.
A lot of people experience DV and for you to make a joke out of it is just crazy and heartless tbh. I thought you would spread awareness and to let people know that it’s okay to move on from DV and to get out of the situation that they’re in but instead you make it about money. I wanted to see this movie really bad, but now I just want nothing to do with whatever you’re involved in. I don’t want you getting more money more views and trust me I know I am one person but it only takes one person to make a stand and that my friend is what you should’ve done… not this.
She didn't make a joke out of it. Brendan made an ironic statement while seeming to embrace allowing himself to shed some tears for this film. She backed him up. This was a totally decent interview.
We all came for 0:40
She's so unserious
thank you
@@emmie1176 disagree.
@@TamaraKane Then you need help lol
@@jasminetitze nah. I'm good. Thanks so much, though.
I’ve seen this before. When females are married or dating a guy with a specific type of sense of humor, ie dry wit or sarcasm, they adopt that same sense of humor almost by osmosis. However, because it’s not their sense of humor, it’s someone else’s, it always comes off as disingenuous and unfunny. Obviously she’s married to Ryan Reynolds, so his “sense of humor” has rubbed off on her (or in her), and she attempts to replicate his humor to disastrous results.
This seems like the most fair and accurate take tbh.
THISSSS. It’s a clear attempt to be witty and funny by using Ryans type of humor but she doesnt have the same witty dead pan delivery as ryan so it just falls really flat.
ryan reynolds is a bad influence on her. these people lack God.
I actually think this is a good take
This makes total sense
At this point, Blake has dug her own grave. The first question was so important, everybody understood what the interviewer was asking, she just played dumb.
Can we cancel her for not advocating for DV? She’s so toxic
Cancel her for not advocating for domestic violence? Are you a bot or are you just genuinely slow?
@@AddBowIfGirl go argue with the wall.
@AddBowIfGirl it's crazy, it's almost like it's not a celebrities job to speak on social and political issues. Cancel culture is so fucking stupid.
She literally gave a speech about human trafficking a few years ago and has talked about DV. You guys are insane
honestly she should've been cancelled the minute her and Ryan decided to marry to in a slave plantation then went on to write an article on her forgotten flop website that romanticizes the antebellum era for the "fashion."
After watching this interview and seeing her rude reply to a very important question I have come to the conclusion that she didn't make this movie because she cared about the themes, she made this movie for her ego. I won't be seeing it.
Do people just not call each other out? I would have been like “I don’t get what you’re saying at all” to put her in check cause wtf
Most people don't call out celebrities
Yeah, that always frustrates me. Sometimes answers are so unclear or nót related to the question, but then the interviewer never asks again or asks for clearification!
It’s better to just let people look stupid and let the media do all the poop talking lmao
Right, because when people make a movie about domestic violence and the difficulties with people being confrontational in relationships, that's the perfect time to get confrontational and completely ignore the goals of safer relationships. 🙄
Pure filth. Absolutely disgusting I pray her mindset shifts and takes a back seat. Justin knows it’s important to share a far bigger message than to joke when asked a serious important question I don’t think she has much fans left after this. So out of touch
I coulsnt pin point what it truly was but it just came to me that she Sounds like a narcicist
I feel like shes trying to tread so lightly. She doesnt know what to say about dv and abusive relationships like shes scared to say the words. They really shouldve got someone with more understanding about this important topic to play this character. Ugh but lets not forget colleen hoover made this book and it romantises abuse so does she. So yeh.
You do realize this is a fictional story portrayed by actors, not a DV documentary requiring social workers, educators, and activists...? It's a movie. It's simply entertainment.
I agree 100%. To take the matter of domestic abuse and monetize it as this cast has is disrespectful to the many women and families impacted by this experience. I can't imagine they would be this irresponsible with other topics like war, genocide, racism, you name it. Blake is super out of touch and to not educate herself more is a choice, not for lack of resources.
@SpottedTiger89 exactly, the fact she didn't do anything to understand dv and doesn't know how to talk abt it is ridiculous. As an actor it's ur job to bring a character to life, to become them. Blake lively just plays herself and the fact she got a haircare line out of this movie and it's all abt 'her and her perfect husband' WHAT. THIS ISNT ABT U. And the only thing she said abt dv was "she's a woman of multitudes ur not just a victim and a survivor but also ..." like u do not understand how trauma and abuse works at all. Cus it goes into every part of ur life u cant just separate from it quickly. This is bs.
@@ermyr7743 I think there's a responsibility that comes with depicting abuse in media. Maybe you're young and don't grasp that yet?
@ermyr7743 ha yes it's fiction. But does that make romantising abuse and dv okay? It's important to take abuse seriously and depict it realistically for ppl whov gone through that or maybe still r. Ppl who have been through dv r going to cinemas unaware it's about dv and thinking it's a romcom cus Blake lively and the cast r making a joke of it. A haircare line? For a film about abuse? "Wear ur florals get ur girls" this is not a cute romcom. It's about ABUSE. Films have a lot of power and u have to do it right.
why does she always yap about being a Virgo? is that a flex or something? like we get it you're a Virgo, now talk about the real message of the film.
I’m with you on that, it’s like she is sending subliminal messages with her words. Kinda demonic.
Yeah I’m confused why she’s telling us her zodiac sign, then goes to claim she has toxic masculinity 🤯 I’m thinking she’s just not used to interviews anymore, being she’s not a popular actor anymore, since gossip girl.
She doesnt represent a virgo.virgo women are the most empatetic, feminine, kind , and modest women. she doesnt come mear that.
@@PatriciaSpring-h6y yes she does. You don't.
This is a train wreck. Sure she may not be an authority on domestic violence, but can’t she just say that?
I think the interviewer was subtly calling her out on her blaséness, and she caught on (surprisingly) and gave a snarky and unprofessional answer.
She wasn't blasé at all. Maybe watch the interview again. She was nothing but kind and thoughtful.
@@TamaraKanespoken like a true enabler/ abuse apologist
@@SuperPegMeg spoken like a misogynist who hates women and wants them silenced. Two can play at your blame and shame game.
“She hit me when I started crying”….what?
Zero empathy when both males explained they cried
Maybe that part was a joke but she’s very tone deaf
wasn't that a sarcastic joke? She was joking that she suffers from toxic masculinity before he said that. not saying she isn't rude and out of touch, but that particular comment was just a joke.
Is she high or just so far removed . They will be dovorcing soon watch this space
She’s entering adderall psychosis, that’s literally what’s happening
I really wished Jake would’ve interviewed Justin Baldoni the director, he would’ve loved the hear what Jake said! 😢
Blake’s comments and actions have been so inappropriate for a movie that is addressing a SERIOUS Issue for way too many women face every day! They are terrified and she is lounging on sofa, joking, laughing and being so lighthearted about the very first question & the topic of the movie; Shame on you Blake!
Why the hell is she sitting like this throughout the whole interview? Not only the legs on the couch, but also the hand on the seat. You're not in front of the TV eating popcorn in the middle of the night, girl! Have some decency and professionalism for crying out loud. The lack of manners just pissed me off
If there’s one things not to say during this interview it’s joking about hitting someone of the opposite sex.. and they managed to say it.
Ironically, because Brendan was clearly feeling good about allowing himself to cry, and obviously Blake would NOT hit him for it.
And now here come all of the comments to shame him for making a thoughtful nuanced statement. Unbelievable.
The best part of this video is the part when the interviewer admitted he cried and the co star pumping his fist in support.
Blake is way too shallow to have been cast for this role. She’s too shallow to play the role and too shallow for the press this movie required and deserved. She doesn’t connect with Lilly’s character on any level. Shes clearly incapable of having empathy and any real understanding of the victims this will impact and how it will impact them. Her response to the few questions she was asked speak volumes of her ignorance and unappreciative to this very targeted audience. And her jokes about toxic masculinity and response to her costar having an emotional response to some of the scenes is…. Ugh
Terrible casting director…who chooses Blake? She is the worst actress for this role and obviously for press.
She’s part of the production
She literally is the reason why it was made
This is what happens when you cast a “it” girl with no talent!
agree 100000%
wrong choice, terrible outcome
I have never seen an actress be this passive-aggressive and petty towards interviewers and important questions dealing directly with the movie. She's not even an A-lister actress. What the f is her problem??
This is so triggering , it’s not even funny. How insensitive of them… like what ….
Vile woman. Sorry you had to interview her.
the fact that she can’t see that he’s uncomfortable by the excessive follow up questions to his reasons for crying is crazzzzzy!
Just when you think she can’t make the mess worse… now she’s got Deuxmoi paid off to attack Justin. Mean girl era is so over now Blake, let’s grow up huh? And let your friends know too.
Like they say Hollywood is mostly a bunch of overpaid narcissistic high schoolers running around
SHE'S GIVING REGINA GEORGE VIBES - "it's not my fault people are in love with me" GIRL PLEASE GET OVER YOURSELF
1:33 came to see if she really was promoting it poorly but im sorry what is this??? "girls who haven't experienced this (DV), thank goodness to go 'woah I FELL IN LOVE TOO(???), I saw the red flags but they DIDN'T LOOK RED (???) they looked fuchsia and CUTE(?????) but i ignore them(????)' "
Yep, people play a few seconds from an interview and create a narrative from it
@@dw4101 i watched the whole interview mind you and i still dont understand how that is what she said
I feel bad for her kids. She seems cold.
Thoght the same thing. She is disconnected and out of touch. Reminds me of my ex husband who is a narcicist ams has aspergera. No empathy, and very out of touch with the situation, how to speak, no ability to read the room, or others emotions.
She lacks empathy and emotional intelligence
People are seeing what my friend saw about this actress's energy and personality years ago lol.
She's a nepo baby. We've all seen it since day one.
What I took from her first answer was ‘we want to make people notice this but we don’t want to give answers to problems.’
I cry all the time . . . This is like a baby of mine - I can’t take these two seriously.
is she on something??
She s full..of herself
Hell yeah she is
The hallmark version of burning bed, Farrah faccett spent months visiting DM shelters and speaking with women of DV. I will never forget that movie!
Yet, she didn't need to. She was a victim of domestic abuse most of her life.
This is a perfect example to show that they are just actors! To ask them to be human would be to ask them to think that they understand the movie. They are not.
I ADORED Blake Lively until i saw this!!! That first question was a serious question about a serious issue her movie covers and her answer wasn’t just TRASH, it was a TRASHY JOKE! So heartbroken to see that!
Brandon joking about Blake hitting him during filming and then going on insta and posting that tone deaf statement about how they all take DV seriously as a topic… what an embarrassing group of people, the only one showing ANY decorum throughout this is Justin…
She says the story is told with such empathy. Okay Blake where is yours?
It's constantly there right in front of you. You sat there quoting her and you can't even acknowledge what you're saying?
omg poor Brandon
everything she says afterwards is completely negated by her initial snarky comment. an ACTOR who makes movies for PEOPLE being approached by those same people who made them RICH...how is that so incredulous? celebrities literally do nothing for "work" so how about giving some time and attention to the people who admire you, is that so much to ask? although, based on her responses, I'd spit on her before listening to her opinion.
Do you think she even understands DV? It sounds like she thinks it's a cute entanglement. It's actually a form of torture. Any option you take is lose-lose. It's incredibly stressful and upsetting. To be this lighthearted about a topic that's so deep, personal and traumatising is super weird. I'm thinking that it's not just that she's barely talked about it. It's that she doesn't know how to talk about it well at all. 🙁 Such a shame and actually quite disrespectful to those who have personal experience and have been affected.
She never hit me as a person with much intelligence period!
If you are going to make a movie based on a well-known book that deals with DV- be prepared to discuss it! Why is that so hard for her?? She could have easily said that victims can ask for help from different resources instead of being so dismissive towards her fans- what kind of reaction was that? SMH
She was in the movie because it gave her clout. I would be very surprised if it entered her mind at any point the gravity of the subject matter of the movie. It's all just pretend world for her, it's Blake's world, we're all just living in it. Main character energy 100%.
When she noticed nobody was laughing with her, she changed her answer. 😂
Hey Jake. We met in passing at a junket at some point a few years ago, and I am normally a big fan of your interviews, but after watching your follow-up segment to your Blake Lively interview, I’ve lost a lot of respect for you. I debated whether or not to post this, but Brendan’s post tonight gave me that final push.
I watched your junket interview before it had been circumvented by TikTokers’ conspiracy theories. My immediate reaction to your first question was “that was a weird question.” I assumed you had bungled the delivery of it, which is a very rare thing for you to do, but yeah, we’ve all done it.“How should someone approach you when they want to talk about this movie?” My response would have been “say hi then tell me what you want to tell me about the movie? 🤷♂” But yeah, we've all screwed up the delivery of an interview question. That’s not why I’m writing.
When I turned on your followup segment, I expected you to acknowledge the “fumble”, but no, you actually chastise Blake saying… “an actor who does press for a movie about such a serious topic…you gotta talk about it”. Jake, you’re asking the questions. A reporter who does interviews with actors for a movie about such a “serious topic”…you need to ASK about it. Not only did you not say “domestic violence” or “abuse” in your question, you struggled to even say the term in your followup segment.
How do you start an interview with Blake Lively where you want her talk about the domestic violence/abuse aspect of the film? Well, dont start off by framing it as a celebrity run-in (that’s not a serious topic), dont incorrectly refer to it by saying “given the themes” (domestic violence is not a theme, nor is it multiple), on a “deeply personal” level (if someone is telling you their thoughts on a movie, it is personal. That deeper level could be they also own a flower shop? Their name is Lily? They cried when “My Tears Ricochet” played? The possibilities are endless).
I still don’t know exactly what you were trying to ask. Regardless, its not on Blake’s shoulders to decipher what you were actually asking about in the convoluted word jumble. She could have decided you were asking about domestic violence. But don’t lecture her for not doing your work for you.
And then you said in the followup, “If you’re doing an interview about domestic violence, you know…you shouldn’t be looking for the that fun, funny viral moment”…dude, your second question..well not really a question….was how you “ugly cried in the movie theatre. Not a cute single tear, that silent gagging cry”. Was that sticking to the “serious topic” and not looking for the fun, funny viral moment?
I know our business is an opportunistic one, and the whole point of the followup segment was to promote the fact that “look my interview got views”, but the fact that you didn’t take the opportunity to own your own mistake, and instead lectured Blake with “guidance” that you didnt even follow yourself...Shameful, Jake. Not to mention that you’re doing this when we both know that this “finger pointing” at Blake started because Justin (and Sony) were trying to steer the conversation away from the fact that this movie, all about a woman finding her voice from underneath an controlling, dominant male should not have been directed by a male, let alone the actor who played that controlling male.
We all screw up, Jake. Blake Lively isn’t your scapegoat though.
She’s something else! Let Brandon talk!
Oh Blake go a touch some grass fr, she has this mean energy and it shows, I think people finally is realizing it now.
The body language from the man sitting next to her spoke loud and clear. He was uncomfortable with her reply to the question. It's sad that the Blake Lively has overshadowed the message behind the movie.
I think she has adopted the Ryan Reynolds sense of humour
It'd be cool if people would stop trying to justify her being a complete bitch. That's her personality. She's not trying to genuinely be relatable, she's or of touch and vapid and a genuine bitch who never evolved from peaking in high school.
I never fell in love with Ryle.🤮
It was always Atlas. 🥰
Her skill even looked different. It is so disgusting how a woman can act such good in the movie and was so satanic in the world. But you know it is Hollywood
Someone posted an interview on YT that she did in 2016 and she was asked if she liked her wardrobe in her movie and her response that she gave was giving the same vibes that her initial response did in the beginning of this interview. It's like she's being sarcastic but it comes off rude
No she was very rude in that interview, she barely looked at the interviewer the whole time
Watch the interview with Justin Baldoni on Access Hollywood - such a different vibe. He's passionate and authentic.
The entire cast is avoiding him for a reason; Lively is just who the tabloids decided to fry. He is trying to do damage control and he is a good director but none of the cast got along with him.
For some reason she kinda reminds me of Amber Heard
Soo sad wish blake lively wasn't casted to play this role representing women that went through Domestic Violence😢 so shameful
I can tell this woman has never had it hard in her life. Even nepokids have gone through some hard times. She is so out of touch with people’s emotions. She was so focused on her “work” and being in the spotlight she failed to recognize the true message and meaning of the film. It was just a job for her and opportunity to shine. Not to mention she’s a horrible actor. What a shame they casted her of all the intelligent and talented actresses.
I can’t believe they cut the main actor and director out of the promotions. They couldn’t keep it together a little longer? It’s such a bullying move to freeze him out like that. Blake seems like a real life mean girl and I’m not about it. She’s average pretty and an average actress; she needs to take stock and calm down about herself.
So, she’s 1,000% on something. What is it? She’s going a million light years a minute.
Put the phone away before the cam rolls 0:25
Blake Lively is killing her career with a movie that made millions in profit, it needs certain talent
Her response to the first question was so weird and unhinged that even her costar looked like he was thinking, wtf, reel that crazy back in Blake 😂
I don’t understand why everyone is freaking out it that Blake is a mean girl the first question is so totally out of line. She’s an actress not a social worker.
What?!😂 so questions about the movie subject are off limits? Then they should have just asked her about her dress and shoes she was trying to show off. Oh wait, she HATES questions about fashion 🙄😏
No, younger fans look up to her and believe she'd know something about what she's doing a movie about. They would ask her basic questions. Many fans of hers wouldn't feel intimidated to address her, like they would the police. I'm the social worker.
Blake behavior is wrong and the first question made no sense
Blake's career: It ends with It Ends with Us
Blake thinking: Why are you suggesting commoners come and tell me their sob stories?! Ewww. Why don’t I just give them my phone number and address and share my location with these losers so they can hunt me down?! The audacity!
Can we stop “canceling” people every time they have human moments? Blake isn’t perfect by any means but it’s no excuse to tear her down.
Sorry, kind of living for her downfall. It's amazing to see a rude, overrated, not so smart actress being torn by the internet 🎉