H2H - Opening up About Divorce
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- Опубликовано: 28 янв 2023
- Please note that this video is not meant to hurt anyone or defame anyone but this is a way I process things in my life by opening up and talking about my struggles. This is what I have been feeling with my recent circumstances and if someone is feeling the exact same way or somewhat similar just know you’re not alone in this.
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You are brave to open up about your feelings. My prayers are with you 💖
Was just watching your video when this notification popped up. Lots of strength and love to you yusra. May you stay strong in all the phases of life ♥️🤞
You with always so much positivity and now seeing you like this break my heart yusra but I love how brave you are to open up about it
this broke me into peices,i hope you heal from what you’re going through
You are inshaAllah going to come out of this grief very soon. You are very strong Yusra & I am so proud of you as a viewer & a human. Amazing things are gonna happen very soon for you! 👑 ❤
I've been watching you from so long & it's broking me inside seeing my inspirational woman crying. Please don't cry Yusra you have prayers of thousand of your people! Make strong bond with Allah subhanutallah, he'll turn all your difficulties into ease & make you stronger than before. Inn sha Allah ❤
u go girl... just keep going, one day these things wouldn't even matter. Your heart will be healed inshallah n ull find the one who truly deserves you, for now just keep praying and protect your peace
There comes a time when you have to find the strength to save yourself. You have to decide you’re worth more than your pain. You’re stronger than your trauma. You’re braver than what’s destroying you. No one can make that decision for you, you have to make it yourself.
More power to you. Toxicity keeps gnawing at you and eats you up inside out. I wish you all the best in life, progressively you will get out of this and hail to much higher levels of happiness and peace insha Allah. Just hold strong on this voyage and insha Allah everything wil get better. Praying for you.
Literally I always watch your happy videos..m still shocked why this happened??do share if you are comfortable
Everything happens for a reason may your beautiful smile come back soon nd you heal it with strength ❤️
This will lead you somewhere which you really want n deserve. Stay strong n trust your Rabb ...
Lots of prayers for you yusra Allah plans better for us be strong girl 💞
We are with u...be brave...xactly we are helpless before our fate...Allah Pak ka wada hy wo kisi insan par uski himmat sy zyada bojh nhn daltaa...Allah apko dunya akhrat ki sb kushyan day...we are ur family...
You will shine brighter InshaAllah ✨️ this grief is temporary dekhna phir ghum bhi nahi lagega agar soch ayi bhi kabhi. You will come out sttonger InshaAllah
lots of prayers for youuu yusra 💕💕
Never regret a day in your life. good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience, worst days give you lessons, and best days give you memories.
Allah pak apko jldi is phase se nikalin ...Allah ki taraf se ye bhtareen hga ap k lye ap k future k lye ... Beqadre logo k beech rhny se acha hai ye ... Allah pak bht acha nawazaingai Agay IA ... MRI Dua hai Allah pak apko is phase se niklain jldi or sukoon ata karain Ameen ... You will shine girl don't worry Allah is here with you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Going through a high conflict divorce can be incredibly stressful, that's why it's important to take care of your mental health during this difficult time.
Here are a few tips to help manage stress:
🧘♀️ Take breaks and make time for self-care. It's important to take breaks and make time for activities that help you relax and recharge, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies.
🙏 Seek support from friends, family, or a professional counselor. It can be helpful to talk through your feelings and struggles with someone you trust.
🤲 Practice healthy coping mechanisms. Find healthy ways to cope with stress, such as deep breathing, journaling, or talking to a friend. Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as excessive alcohol consumption or unhealthy eating habits.
💁♀️ Set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. It's important to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being during this time. Don't be afraid to say no to obligations or activities that may add additional stress to your life.
Remove all negative thoughts; approach your next step in life with patience, positivity and a strong belief in Allah’s ﷻ plan.
Mere pass RUclips pr bas randomly ye video ayi and I pray ke Allah Tala apko sabr de or phele SE zada strong hojayein Ameen.
Stay strong. Allah will make everything easy for you InshaAllah ❤️
asa, ms yusra I don't have words that might feel you better but I have words to pray for you ask god to help you and definitely he is and will help you. stay strong, please. You are one of the strongest people I know. loads of love and prayers your way. hamesha khush rahein abroad rahein.
Stay strong yusra Allah aapki pareshaani hal karen aur bht sari duaen aap ki oor.
You're so strong pretty and precious my friend. Lots of power and Allah will soon bless you with the bestest Insha'Allah whatever is good for for.
Dear yusra
I really hope you will find your hope one day
Nd goona be too soon.
I totaly totaly understand this feelings that emotions
Cz im having so bad.
Allah pak asniyan dein
Is takleef se door krein💗 amen sum ameen
Yusra Be Strong! Boht Sari Duain Apky liye 💕😑🤲🏼
May Allah ease your pain and give you strength.
May Allah makes you understand your short comings , mistakes and makes you a better person, Ameen 🙏 ✨ ❤
Allah apko himat or sbr dy... Sabr ka word kehna bht assan hai mgr krna bht mushkil hai.. Mgr beshk Allah sabr krne walo k sath hai q k wo zaat jaanti h mera banda kis mushkil sy guzra hai... Allah ap k dill ko sakoon ata kre ❤️
Alot of power to you Girl 💝 Yeh phase chla jayega, you ll be old wali New Yusra Again ❤❤
Allah is with You
What I am gunna say seems easy saying n hard doing but believe me Yusra, I've implemented it on myself as well.
I know healing is a slow process but please prepare your mind, "the quicker you accept, the quicker you heal."
You just gotta work on speeding up the process of acceptance.
Because there's always a straight path to live, either to accept or to live with remorce. Choice is in your hands.
Secondly, always take n live your life in phases. This is a phase as well which you're going through.
Deal this one as one of the toughest phase. Previous phases have passed through, so this one will.
lots of prayers for you, Allah definitely has a better plan for you. He knows what is Best for us. Stay positive and strong, time will heal your heart n soul!
Everything happens for a reason. You may can’t see it now, but when it revealed, it’ll make you cry from recognising Allah’s ﷻ love for you.
Yusra inshallah you will be fine, time jesa b ho wo guzr hi jta waqt k sth Allah will give you sabr love you❤️
Yusra, you are one brave woman. Just know that this will all pass just keep going. Ride out this time your relief is with Allah. Praying for your peace.
Yusra beta my baby meri guriya no tears please don't waste on those didn't care your tears your worth your loyalty your love your support thy didn't deserve you.... your parents your mum always support you fly high high .I'm really appreciate you always as today you are incredible.. loyal..beautiful I'm happy yusra you're my daughter you're so powerful strong and courageous thts why you made this video it shows you have a drive to keep moving forward and you're trying to convey your massage to viewer's I'm OK that's why I'm talking to you my audience ....you're studying working vloging... that's the spirit Allah subhanahutalla has givin to you nothing is wrong with you yusra be strong as always you're say shukar alhamdullillah... you'r parents your siblings always with you n sb se brh k Allah is with you beta ...we all loves you soooo much...tell people how lucky you are till born mum was with you at the moment bhai is still with you these are all blessings say alhamdullillah...don't take hamdardi from the people beta you're not bechari you're sch a strong personality celebrity .Allah gives you a lot not everyone has.
Absolutely aunty ❤ Yusra deserves the world and so much more. She is simple at heart & deserves so much better than this. We’re here for her. Inshallah her future is bright and she will get so much more success and rewards for her patience. God does not let the wrongdoers get away and God will avenge yusra ❤
@@murkshah6257 💕
Recently divorced after 20th day of my wedding... Feeling like hell
@@haseebkhan1891 omg, I am so sorry for it
@@attiajabeenmushtaq5456 thanks and I am also yusra
yusra api you are very rave and yes u know it thats your are fighter and u need to fight for your self be strong. my prayers are with you.
Allahtala apko mujhe subko sukoon dy humari pareshania dur Karen. Waqt bohot bara marham hai sister. Istakhara Allah ka Faisla hai. Or ussi Mai humare Liye behtri Hoti hai Allahpak py tawakkal rakhen. Kuch waqt baad apko samjh aaega ye sub Kyu zaruri tha. Himmat se kaam ly Sub theek hojaega In Sha Allah 🌸
Allah apko himmat de.. inshallah sb theek ho jae ga❤️
Yusra saw your vedio for the first time. I'm going through emotional trauma I guess no one understanding me too as well. Everyone says time heals everything but seriously it does not. From inside you're totally gone. So I completely understand and feel your pain. Just remember one thing in the end we all have to leave this sinful world and face Allah. Leave it on him.
Sister plz don't worry Allah ki Rahmat py yakin rakhy or sbr kryn Allah sabr krny walon k sath h
Sending alot of duas🥺❤ Allah will indeed help you in this time.🥺
Don’t worry if your heart hurts today. Hearts change everyday. And He is the turner of hearts. Be strong .Be Patient .Allah ﷻ is with you.
May Allah heal your heart sister. Seek help through prayer n tahajud specially. Connect yourself with Allah you will feel better in sha Allah.
Divorce is painful I understand but it's just a chapter of a book of Life not a whole book be strong and brave 👍🏼🌹
Allqh tala asanian karay afiat ka mamla farmaye ...
Yusra, nobody can feel the pain you are going through. Only one thing will help you and give you sukoon and that is offering prayer and reading Quran. It has helped a lot and will help you too. InshaAllah. Just try to offer prayer 5 times a day. Its just aazmaaaish for you. You will go through it. InshaAllah. Spend time with family i.e. your parents and siblings.♥️♥️♥️ All the love. You go!!!!
Soo sad to hear this may ALLAH give u strenght to cope up with this grief and filfull ur void
Exactlyyy same thing happen tahajud pari sub kia … thn got separated. But Allhamdulilah 1year after still single. But haapppy contented…Allah ny tough time dy k apny bandy ko strong kerna hota hai aur phir jub Allah sakkon dy k thaam ly … tu you just loveeee that feeling.😍
Aik sal pehly i was like mujy banna nahi hai bus vo ho jai jo main chahtinhun…. Per Allah vo janty hain jo him nahi janty…. Allah yusra tumy b sakon aur khushian dy .amen❤
My advice is apni family k pas zarooor jain…. They r healers 😊
And you are right when this type of incident happend it feels like end of the life everything got vhanged but at the end Allah is always here for us and always will be
It's ok take your time. You will heal slowly. Don't feel guilty about yourself jaaan ❤️ main ap ko smjh skti hun. M b mentally sickness se guzr rhi hun jahan mujhe bht se log bura khte hen k ye esi h wesi h but mujhe pta h mere andr kia jung chalti h jo k m sb ko nahi bta skti bs brdasht krne k ilawa mere pas koi or option ni h. M bs ALLAH tala se sb baten krti hun or apni mama se
Sending lots of love and strength your way
Our Prophet (S.A.W) said: "THERE IS NO FATIGUE, THERE IS NO DISEASE, THERE IS NO SORROW, THERE IS NO SADNESS, THERE IS NO HURT, THERE IS NO PAIN, THERE IS NO DISTRESS EXCEPT THAT ALLAH SWT EXPIATES SOME OF THEIR SINS FOR THAT" I want you to know that your pain is not in vain, it is being rewarded sister. I'm glad you're planning to seek therapy.
Try to go for a morning walk, I know it'll also be a challenge for you but YOU are the only one who can do this and I know you can. Surrounding yourself with nature helps a lot (tried and tested) If you can't go out, just admire the sunrise and sunset from your window or something. Lots of prayers and love your way. May ALLAH SWT ease things for you INSHA'ALLAH.
I m soo sorry to hear that May Allah help you and take away all your worries ameeen
More power to you, May Allah heal you Ameen sumAmeen ❤️
We are all facing some kind of difficulties.But stand firm in faith, knowing that Allah ﷻ will turn things around. Allah ﷻ knows you can handle it.He knows you’re strong.Sometimes Allah ﷻ allows you to taste the bitterness of this world so that you can fully appreciate the sweetness of faith.
I'm 17 and I don't think so I'm that mature to give you an advice on this part. But I just want to let you know it's just a phase. Bad time never stays forever. It'll pass by and make you much more strong. Just give yourself some time. Time will heal everything. Focus on your career more now, that'll help you overcome that trauma.
Agree 💯
Yusra I have no sister and I am the younger one in my family as a sister I firmly believe agar Allah ney 1 cheez li hey to vo hi zaat oss say bohat behter atta karye ga ye mera kamil yaqeen hey.keep praying to Allah . Allah pak AP ko in future Kuch asi cheez say naawazye ga jis par AP raazi ho jao ge AP ki rooh razi ho jaye ge.Besak Allah Kisi zaat ko OS ki himat say zyda nahi azmata.be strong.
Never complain about what happens in your life, why it happens, there’s always a reason, Allah ﷻ knows best. Say Alhamdulillah.
Don't cry Allah jo karta hai behter karta hai...time kay saath saber bhi ajayega sending you lots of prayers.❤
Lots of prayers for you 😘🤗
Allah apko skoon de.. kbi umeed na chorna. Allah 70 mao sy zyada pyar krta ha wo bhtreen krta ha. Yehi tumhary haq m bahtr hoga jo hoa ha.
Sometimes allah have a great plan for you and at that time you don’t know and cannot understand that but later you always realise that yess allah done this things more beautifully and trust me some people just don’t deserve you. You are MA MA MA perfect as you are keep strong my dear and stay positive ♥️loads of love. Marriage is not everything meri jan. There is more than that to be independent and to be the person you are and besides that you and the bond between you and allah. Make that bond strong logo pr waqt zaya krne s acha ha allah pak sath ap apna bond strong kro. More power to you ♥️♥️
Lots of duas for you, ek humaira khwahish hotI hai air ek Allah ka humaray liyeh plan hota hai trust me Allah hum sab ko hum say zada mohabbat kartay hain abi aap ek truma say guzar rahi hain isi liyeh samaj na aay but inn sha Allah things will be better for you, only trust in Allah ❤
Lots of Duas for you yusra ❤️
I guess the divorce happened in your favor because from what i have analysed after watching your vlogs and stuff is that your ex husband was immensely toxic and you are way better off with him, if anything way outta his league so just be strong for now, time will heal everything and then you'll realize that all this happened for for the best. I'll be praying and rooting for you❤
Plzzz 🥺 get yourself together it's difficult but time heals everything......
I hv just watched your video yusra and u cant believe even im not believeing to hear that when you said in tahajud u asked why this happend to me what will be the end and result of life after that i feel the same. As u are
Stay strong ❤️❤️🥺
I pray that Allah ﷻ heals whatever is hurting you. I pray that Allah ﷻ calms your stress and anxiety and removes your depression. I pray that Allah ﷻ heals all your distress and gives you something great in return.....
Never doubt the mercy of Allah ﷻ. He can take us out from the deepest of troubles. Never lose hope.....
Aslam-u- Alikum api!
Hope you are doing well !
I can feel your pain but remember one thing we are blessed that we are Muslim we have faith on Allah ..so, Allah love own people 70% more than mothers love..
I suggest you whenever you feel upset,pain on heart then same time go for prayer and on sajda talk with Allah and definitely you feel better and Allah removes all your sorrow..try that
I pray for you May Allah give you more strength 🤲🤲🤲
Be happy😃😃💞💞stay strong 👍👍👍
اللّه پاک آپ کے ہر غم کا مداوہ فرماہیں ان شاہ اللّه اچھا ہوگا آپ رب کے نزدیک ہو جائیں گی پھر کچھ بڑا یا برا محسوس نہیں ہوتا سب اسکی رضا محسوس ہوتی بس صبر کریں اسکا اجر بڑا ہے
Just came across this I do agree.
Do you?
Divorce is okay.
Breaking up is okay.
Starting over is okay.
Moving on is okay.
Saying no is okay.
Being alone is okay.
What is not okay is staying somewhere where you aren’t happy, valued, or appreciated,
that is not okay.....
I agree with you but trust me going through from this phase too difficult
Yusra, trust me so many of us love, adore AND relate to you. We understand you. I'm a girl a couple years younger than you and I feel you. I'm here if you'd like to rant or anything.
I have struggled with mental health so I know how it is and how to deal with it. I have a medical background as well so don't hesitate to reach out to me, id feel delightful to help you ❤️
Thank you love. This means everything
@@yusraaejazkhan7242 always a pleasure ❤️
@@yusraaejazkhan7242 I want to contact plz tell me I want to talk plz
U can watch mufti menk videos regarding divorce ...they are amazing really helpful to get a purposeful life really...may Allah reward u for ur struggle..
Hardship is an inevitable experience in life. Each one of us will encounter pain, loss, fear, anxiety, sadness, and grief at some point in our life.
At that time be patient and know that Allah is sufficient for us and is the best arranger of all our affairs.
Allah Almighty said in Holy Quran:
“Only those who are patient shall receive their rewards in full, without Hisaab (without limit, calculation, and estimation).”(Quran, 39:10).
Allah ﷻ said: “Surely, Allah is with those who are As‑Saabiroon (the patient)” (Quran, 8:46).
From this verse of Holy Quran, we can say that no matter what’s the situation we are facing we should be faithful and patient as Allah ﷻ is with us He will never leave us alone.
Pls ap mt royen khuda apk ly behtreen kre ga ksi orat ka dil ni krta uska ghr tut jay pls ap khud ko sambhale women r not weak u hav to be strong apk sath agr bura hva to usk sath es se b zada bura o ga jo hmare laik ni hota wo e hmse dur jata
This is the price actually u have to pay to come overseas . We as woman donot have social equality . Whenever we go beyond man's limit we have to pay the price . Make urself strong but donot overestimate your future. Life is tough and so on
I lived in this fear 4 years now it's over,and now am dealing with toxic society because am divorced.Move on khod ko busy kariya environment change kariya,Allah apky achy kary Ameen,
more power to you may Allah ease your pain 😞
Stay strong... divorce is not end of life
Sending you lots of duas Yusra ❤
I am so proud of you aapi. I wish I could hug you right now. I am lost for words but all I know is that you! are! going! to! get! through! Insha'Allah! I'm so sure of it. You will conquer your fears, your dreams literally anything you put your heart in. You. will. emerge. victorious. I am talking from experience. I have been through the same a couple years back, I can relate to all of it. I know its not easy. You blame yourself. Regardless of what they did to you, you dont want to stop thinking about them. But its the best thing to do. Remember 'If they wanted to they would' Its! not! your! fault! so no regrets ok. Of course you cant force yourself to forget everything but you eventually will. You will focus on yourself and people who deserve your attention. Good things and people will find their way to you Insha'Allah. I have and I will be praying for you everyday. Take care of yourself and others who are good to you.
Just wanted to add that I have been watching you since the time you and dua made videos together. You have lightened up so many of my days. I remember how getting a like from you on my comment cheered me up. I wish I can reciprocate that. During my time I used to contemplate too whether things shouldve ended or if I lost something I shouldnt have lekyn mujhe iss baat se sukoon aata tha keh qismat mei likha hai. mujhe uss waqt nahe pata tha ke Allah ke kya maslehat hai but it all turned out to be for the best. Allah yaqeenan itni he azmaish deta hai jitne ap bardasht karsakte hain. I spent the time strengthening my bond with Allah. Gave him my time and devotion and unlike people, he gave me back 10 times more of it. tou bas yusra aapi sabr aur sukhar.
Pray for. Me also and dont worry everything will be fine
Be strong ❤️❤️❤️
Remind yourself that with hardship comes ease and that after a period of hardship Allahﷻ gives relief. Every sadness and every happiness is temporary. This life is temporary, whereas the Hereafter is eternal.
We can only be truly patient when we realize that everything is from Allahﷻ.
He has the power to do whatever He will just by saying it to “Be!”
Allahﷻ says:
“…And whoever is mindful of Allahﷻ, He will make for him a way out. And will provide for him from an unexpected source. And when someone puts all his trust in Allahﷻ, He will be enough for him.”
[Qur’an, 65:2-3]
Lots of Duas your way❤❤❤
Jo hota ha ache kly hota ha ye waqt b guzr jaega INSHALLAH
don't be afraid of that situation.. because Allah knows better than you..... i know ur pain of divorce.... main b isi phase sy guzri hun....yusra plz don't cry don't...... mjhsy puri video ni dykhi gai...
Yusu bht afsos hua sun ker 😭 Allah apk sath h shahzadi i knw ye bht tough time h but such m ap bht strong ho bht achi ho ♥️ apko khd ko blame kerna ki zrurt nh h 😭 jo hona thaaa hogya ye naseeb ki bat h dear Allah kisi b larki ko ye waqt na dikhaey mgr hmare haq m jo behter hota wohe hota ap bht strong ho Allah h apk sth hm sbki duain hain na ♥️♥️😭😭 Bs ub move on krein yusra or Allah apk haq m sb behter krega . M b kch isi condition se guzar rhe em 24 or meri shadi ko 4 years hogaiy i have no kids but m khush nh apni shadi se m kis trha apna waqt guzar rhe ye srf mjhe pta mere lye dua kerye plz 😭😭
Rabbe kainaat Aapke sari Muskilaat ko Asaniyon mein badal dy..Ameen
Allah zehni or jismani skoon ata kry ameen..
Nothing is impossible for Allah ﷻ. Pour your heart out to Him and ask whatever you need from Him. He can and He will take care of you! As you start and end the day, be thankful for every little thing in your life. You'll come to realize how blessed you truly are.
Stay strong my love ❤ Har cheez main Allah ki taraf se behtari hoti hai trust me. Allah ki marzi k baghair to patta b nahi hilta tou kiya Allah pak waqif nahi honge sabse? Yaqeenan behtari hogi isme Allah ki taraf se.
Sending you hugs 🥹❤️
Salam. After a long time yusu ♥️♥️😭😭🇵🇰🇵🇰
If that divorce was what you needed to save what’s left of yourself don’t question it. Allah ﷻ will replace it with better in sha Allah ﷻ.
#Mentalhealthmatters
I love you so much stay strong
Dil khaali ho jata h hr achy insan ka...aur vo kise chz sy km ni hote...smjh ni ata k kia kr k sb thk kr den...jo dukh deta h us dukh ka mdawa b vohi insan kr skta h srf ...dosra ko insan ni
plz read urdu Terjuma of surae talaq in quraan..and .You are not alone...Allah is with you...always...and so many people also...it really makes people mentally sick for a while but..plz consult a good psycologist as well.dont worry...everything will be better soon,insha Allah.waqai her shakhs aik dosry sy alag hota hy..zarori nahi two good people also match!
And some time i ask same question to Allah why this happend to me i also deserve to be happy but you are right God has another plans and even good plans for us which we dont know