Tommys girlfriend died in April 2024? Like a few months ago?? 😳 I'm still mourning a donut I dropped on my kitchen floor in April.... damn some people are wild AF
and she says she's been talking to her for a while and it seems she (the gf) was talking to someone before Amber. that's a mourning period of about 2 and a half minutes
Tommy's ex GF was not doxxed. She was on Dr Oz 10 years ago as a person in weight crisis and the show disclosed where she lived in Arizona. In addition, there is a public link memorial that also states where the ex GF lived and Tommy attests within that video that she has a child. It's not that hard to see who recently followed someone in IG. IG allows the accounts to be seen and viewed which Tommy made the error to follow Amber and allow her account to be publicly viewed at that time. Her GF participated in a National viewed program on Dr Oz. Amber's girl is connected to a person who publicized their struggles
I know your name says common sense, but I am very stupid. What does doxxed mean and can you please tell me in lamens terms what the rest of your comment says, please if you don't mind ❤
@@Kat-Astrophe79 Doxxing is where private and personal information or details (like full legal name if the person hasn't disclosed their full name or legal name, their address, phone number, place of work etc) are discovered about a person and shared online.
@@Kat-Astrophe79bless you, you aren't stupid at all! no-one is capable of knowing everything, especially when it comes to ever-changing topics such as slang and terms used on the Internet. the mark of a sensible, smart, or clever person is that they are unafraid to ask questions and seek out new information when they identify gaps in their knowledge. the only way one can demonstrate a lack of intelligence is by pretending they know everything, and you do not fall into that category so don't be hard on yourself 💖
@@Kat-Astrophe79 A stupid person is one that never asks questions and I tend to hold those people more suspect than those who bother to ask questions. I saw someone aptly defined dox which is internet slang for documenting. 2nd paragraph. IG means Instagram, which is a modern version of Tumblr. IG lets other viewers see what other accounts are following you and who you are following as 2 different lists. Add IG, places the most recent follower to the top and the oldest to the bottom Tommy appears as a recent follower on Amber's IG which happens to have Tommy's face on their own account profile allowing her account to be easily identifiable as this is their account. This led to more sleuthing by others to connect the dots to Tommy's other online activity which may or may not be public (not a first hand witness) But, her connection to her now deceased partner was evident and this partner was a public figure akin to "where are they now" interests. Hoped that helped
Amber had no intention of sticking with ozempic. She tried it before, panicked because it was making her less hungry, smoked to get the munchies, and then quit. Amber cannot live without the constant influx of crappy food. I knew she'd have to settle for a feeder. Her money is down now, and it's just going to get lower and lower.
Yep!! She seemed HAPPY to stop it as well. I was super confused because it seemed like the med was actually working. She started to look like she was losing weight and then turns around and says it's not working so she's gonna stop taking it. Now it all makes sense.
Tommy's gf died in april. She claims the woman was the "love of her life" yet it sounds like immediately after, Tommy was prowling the streets for a new gf. Very concerning. I know everyone moves on at different times, some quicker than others, but to claim someone is the love of your life and then move on immediately after is just...no. There's absolutely no way. This chick is bad news.
I mean everyone grieves differently BUT 2 months!?! 2 months?!?!? How are you even functioning properly yet?!? There’s no way. This whole situation is terrible on both their parts. Who would’ve thought Ambs was going to find a new low to stoop too?!?
@@julienotfunny my best friend's husband is like this. He made her family come get all her stuff they wanted 11 days after she passed or he was going to " take it all to the dump. "
She's turned all her comments off...she is probably in a panic with all the attention this is getting. I do hope she at least has an ounce of sense and will get herself away from this woman.
I sincerely doubt it. She likes any attention she can get and it's not like Amber is concerned about losing weight anymore. She has the perfect care taker that won't make her feel bad for always failing her diets.
She also has no idea what the word “dox” actually means. She thinks simply naming someone who already was putting themselves out there online is somehow doxxing
@@CordeliaWagner1999 There’s this one really nice girl on RUclips who was diagnosed with NPD dating a guy with ASPD (a sociopath basically) and they’re both in therapy and recovering. Definitely possible
That's what I said! Every thing that was posted was stuff that lady had posted on public platforms and forums for all to see! That's not "doxxing".. Amber is so dim. Just like her saying SA is just where someone make you feel scared... No, Amber. No it's not.
I don't think Amber will break up with Tommy since it's the first time "nobody's been embarrassed to be with her" shes never going to find the love she wants from someone who isn't a feeder. She wants to be accepted for who and what she is. Wifey left because Amber could not change and didn't want to, quit WLS. Her new narrative will be "wifey was so abusive and never truly loved me for who I am, but Tommy loves me 100% and lets me be my true self for once".
Chantal was the same way with Nader... He got her using drugs and buying them overpriced from him and she still was adamant it was love! Who cares what he did to his ex gf (stabbed her) that is private. Eerily the same obsession only Nader pushed Chantal away...Tommy is luring Amber in deep. Those girls find messed up relationships...paid husband, feeder girlfriend...
Tommy will marry her asap so she can get the life insurance and the RUclips residuals! Great news Amber, you signed your end-of-life certificate, just like you always wanted!
@@murphy1011 not American life insurance, no. But also "marrying someone about to die for the life insurance payout" is a recurring joke discussed when someone marries a person who is in very poor health. Usually this applies to a very young person marrying an extremely old person
The only thing this is going to do is make Amber dig in her heels even deeper. Turning off her comments is a sure sign of that. "you guys don't know her like i do"
Oh Lord this is probably so true 🤦🏾♀️ remember that one story about her seeing a woman in a restaurant who was actually larger than her and it was like Christmas morning? lol
Feederism is a dark fetish, and it honestly needs to be categorised as abuse. The only problem is that the feedee is technically "a consenting adult," which complicates things. It's not illegal to bring someone food. It's not illegal to be an enabler, including the kind of enabler who's getting off on enabling someone.
Laws might slowly change. A NYC cop lost his job for having a fetish he never acted on. He was into cannibalism fetish sites. He never acted on it but they deemed it too bad a fetish to be able to be a cop. China is banning mukbangs now after the Chinese girl died on Livestream. RUclips needs to ban mukbangs for monetization. It's same as serial killer to seek partners to encourage self harm addictions to their death which is feeder behaviour. And to be paid for it encourages feeder (pimp like behaviour) and feedee (prostitute of sort) to die from exploiting their addiction.
Especially if they seek out another morbidly obese person right after and state they are only attracted to that body type... That sounds like serial killer stuff to me...honestly!!
I would say it’s probably doubtful that they would face any charges. Because while they can bring them tons of food, it’s up to the person to choose to consume said food. Unlike drug dealers now being charged when overdoses happen, food is obviously a legal substance. It’s such a sick and complicated dynamic.
Her community post shows that she is just playing victim and not listening to one aingle bit of concern from anyone. Seriousy, she's such a fool it's frightening.
I think the most nuts thing about this is that if tommy was literally just a normal person who found amber attractive period, no one would be sounding alarm bells. There might have been trashy gossip, but I'd wager if Tommy was yet another regular fella like Beck , the community would be all for it. I think Amber is most upset about this whole situation because the community has managed to pull the curtain up from the fantasy. And it literally just took 3 days. If Amber was humble and safe with dating, she would have been going to local lesbian meet ups and maybe eventually she'd find maybe a bigger butch woman who doesn't mind bigger women, but instead like Karina Kaboom likes to bring up, amber only wants to date randos who already know her because she's terrified of rejection. This kink is very very terrifying and dangerous and she really needs to ego check herself and be prepared to die for love if she wants to continue this fantasy.
Online Dating is the perfect playground for Narcicissts and their Victims. And evil people finding their victims. A lot of serial unalivers find their victims on Dating Apps. Before that it was "looking for love" in newspapers
Seriously. Amber is a shitty person, but I’m worried for her. She’s not been on her weight loss journey for god knows how long which is already bad, and now this?? She’s going to die. We’re literally witnessing her slow death right now (arguably we have been for ages but you know what I mean). This new woman will feed her until she dies.. that’s what she did to her last girlfriend
lol dark compared to what - accusing someone of rape???? Compared to that - this is a jolly fun walk in the park - after all, she's been fishing for feeders so now she's got one!
We know Amber changes her personality for her partners, but if she becomes what Tommy wants, she'll be in serious trouble💔 Why couldn't she just stay single for awhile, keep up with the semaglutide, and wait to see if she made progress?? 😢😢😢
Amber was ALWAYS a Feedee, let's be real. She was just waiting for an -er to be with Amber may not have had the language to understand what she wanted, but all the signs were always there. Mavid and Mutthead did a deep dive into the idea of Amber being a Feedee and it's only become more true now that she has the -er she's always wanted
@@zen_ccgcouldn't agree more. I still remember during the Beck era where she was told to slow down her eating so she can tell when she's full and Amber replied with "but if you eat faster you get more". She will always prioritize eating over her health.
Even in the recent vlog when Tommi Slommi was visiting, Amber went from talking about only drinking water to showing herself on her dates drinking cokes and cocktails.
Because all of her exes moved on, so she’s gotta show how much she’s thriving too! lol. I maintain that she’s never once cared about losing weight, even when on ozempic. GLP-1s are hard and Amba isn’t into doing anything worthwhile lol
Let’s face it, this was always going to happen with ALR. She loves food and someone who will “pamper” her. She isn’t going to change because she doesn’t want to change.
I stumbled across the headline about the Asian woman who ate herself to d*ath the other day and immediately thought it was Amber. New wipey is a feeder who was talking to other women while feeding her partner to an early grave. Amber can’t waddle out of this one!
I see people asking why Amber's mom doesn't say anything. I think she has. But we know Amber - she always knows best and gets huffy if you don't agree She wants to stick it to the HaYDuRs so badly. She won't let herself see anything "bad" with whatever or whomever she wants.
I just watched the portion of the memorial video where slommy spoke. She's disgusting for moving on so quickly after saying all those things about her deceased partner. I think she's my least favorite ALR partner.
@@bloopnationon the farms! I’ve been watching reaction channels for years but this situation took me on my first trip to the kiwi farms. Also a reaction channel called “Ankle” put together a video with a lot of the evidence too
Also lets not forget the gf passed in April, not that long ago. Saying she was so in love with her and all this and now she is loving Amber?! No if you truly loved someone you would need healing time. People who lose a partner they love so much wouldn't even think of dating again if they just lost them, let alone wanting to move in with them and you know Tommy told Amber she loves her. The fact Amber doesnt see this. I mean that is a huge red flag. Gorly pop must be color blind! lol
And she was in other super sized "influencers" DM's (SpanxBeluga) flirting before she started talking to Amber too... If Amber started talking to her in June, that means she was in other peoples DM's in May/June... So literally right after she passed!! The very next month!!
Amber is more upset at her audience for finding and bringing this information to light than at Tommy for being sketchy. It's like she's saying "I could have been happy in this relationship without knowing all of this but you've ruined it for me by letting me know who she really is." Still won't be enough for her to break up with this woman.
I think Tommy aka Willow aka Emily has ditched Amber and instead of admitting that, she came online saying we wouldn't see Tommy on her channel anymore because "everyone ruined it for her" - Not because Tommy was just looking for her next victim and has actually just cut and ran from Ambie. 😂 I don't feel sorry for her - she was so desperate to me smug and have someone (anyone) to flaunt as her "gorlfriend" on camera to prove how desired she is and try to one up Beck and Destiny (Beck got a real cute GF and Destiny got married) It's her fault for being such a desperate fool. She rushed into flaunting this person before she even knew who they really were.
Amber's happy now that she doesn't have to pretend to want to be healthy or to lose weight. She has a girlfriend who likes her the way she is _and_ who wants her to gain even more weight. And she's got herself a new caretaker. It's a win in Amber's mind.
The insane thing is that, despite all these recipts, amber will still die on the hill that this girl loves her......until its over, then she will have a brief moment of clarity, that people were just trying to warn her.
Amber doesn't want to lose weight either. Well, she would if it was like taking one table and suddenly she was 130lbs - but she isn't really willing to lose the weight. Plus she doesn't want to lose her channel and have to get a real job - Her channel is mainly people hate watching... and she knows this. She notices the numbers dip when she is "on track" because the audience she has cultivated through her terrible behaviour and terrible personality don't care so much when she is "on track" so she always gives up because having views (which equals money) is what she wants more than having to diet and actually lose weight.
its not even funny anymore. the SECOND amber even makes an attempt to turn her life around, and she falls for evil like this. theres no way she doesnt know
I know it’s very different, but ALR has conned most of her past girlfriends into a relationship with her. Let’s not forget what she’s done just because it seems she might have met her match now. She’s desperate yes, but she sees people as servants
If it's a consenting adult, you can't do anything. Sick? Yup. But many times the feedee wants the life just as much as the feeder. It's truly weird ......
The issue is that in 99% of cases the feeder's "victim" knows what is going on and willingly participates, the solution is not to date feeders but I guess some people can't help themselves resist the attention or something?
@@Jama380 Seams similar to a victim of DA to me. The spouses often crawl back from the hospital right back to the fry, because there quite frankly not right in the head at the time. There adults they can do what they want but there is a point when we interfere isn't there ?
😂 I'm from Virginia and visiting England right now, I paid over $11 US dollars (with the exchange rate) for a single Whopper last night 😂🤣 I totally agree on the feeder thing 😂
@@nojuanuknow and that's why folks in the UK aren't as fat as Americans - fast food and huge portions aren't as cheap as chips - you just wouldn't go out that often and whilst the shite food is available to buy for cooking, the portions of fast food aren't so big 😆 I was SO sick in America with the "food"
@@rsh793lmao people in the UK aren't as fat?? Have you never seen any of the MANY shows about massively fat people in the UK, and how there's an epidemic of obesity there that's getting worse and worse?? Pull the other one, it's got bells on 😅
@@lydiaj7492 yeah but it's still not as bad as America lmfao America has *massive* portions, tourists from all around the world notice the massive portions when visiting. Like sure, obesity is on the rise in many countries - but no one does it like 'Murica 🦅🇺🇸
Many moons ago on a TV show called ER, they did an episode on a obese person. They talked about how she smelled ect. While checking her, lifting all the rolls they found a twinke,.the woman went nuts demanding to eat it, she had lost it a week ago. It was my first experience and i puked..what is the turn on with feeders or being smootched??
Soooo moving in with the feeder. Isolated from her only other true contact with the world (her mum), unable to be independent, unable to drive, totally Isolated, depending on one person. Nope, no red flags here. This is healthy.
Good lord, my dogs passed away 2 1/2 yrs ago and I’m STILL mourning them! I can’t imagine a person claiming “it’s the love of their life” moving on the second they get in car after the funeral basically🤯 Damn!
i hope amber sees all of this and realizes that even though people make fun of her and say things she doesn't like, we don't want her to die. or get wrapped up with someone who will get her closer to it
In Tommy's late partner's case, I find it horrifying that she was in a care facility but she was still victim to this abuse. My heart breaks for the family who lost a loved one because of a predator encouraging her to not get the help she obviously needed at 1000lbs.
All of the talking points on amber’s rebuttal contradicts themselves. You can’t be blind to size but also into bigger girls. She said Emily’s not a feeder she just lovingly provided food lol
Ok this is sick… it’s absolutely sick. They get off on the idea of a human being dying from something they encouraged… so basically it’s some kind of proxy murder?! I don’t know if there is a better word for this.. maybe someone can help me find it..
Why's everyone getting so upset about it? She's a horrible abusive person who has been doing feeder content for months now so of course she'd hook one. Tommi's weird - Amber's weird - match made in heaven and at least she won't be abusing some innocent person like she's done in the past!
Understand that feeders are all about being needed with a conscious or unconscious desire for their partners not to be able to leave them. It's pretty appalling though - the previous one isn't even cold and they've moved on to get started with the next one!
There is a sick subset of Feeders that like to feed their partners right off the mortal coil. I hope Tommy is not that because Amby would go along willingly.
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Tommys girlfriend died in April 2024? Like a few months ago?? 😳 I'm still mourning a donut I dropped on my kitchen floor in April.... damn some people are wild AF
not only that but Tommi is ready to move in with ALR
and she says she's been talking to her for a while and it seems she (the gf) was talking to someone before Amber. that's a mourning period of about 2 and a half minutes
Thats the real reason that Amber is "going offline because of the haters!" @@alim3611
Now we just need to figure out who is moving into who's place
CHIIIILLLLEEEE 😂😂😭😭😭
Like Amber this chick moves quick 😂.
Tommy's ex GF was not doxxed. She was on Dr Oz 10 years ago as a person in weight crisis and the show disclosed where she lived in Arizona. In addition, there is a public link memorial that also states where the ex GF lived and Tommy attests within that video that she has a child.
It's not that hard to see who recently followed someone in IG. IG allows the accounts to be seen and viewed which Tommy made the error to follow Amber and allow her account to be publicly viewed at that time. Her GF participated in a National viewed program on Dr Oz. Amber's girl is connected to a person who publicized their struggles
I know your name says common sense, but I am very stupid. What does doxxed mean and can you please tell me in lamens terms what the rest of your comment says, please if you don't mind ❤
@@Kat-Astrophe79 Doxxing is where private and personal information or details (like full legal name if the person hasn't disclosed their full name or legal name, their address, phone number, place of work etc) are discovered about a person and shared online.
@@Kat-Astrophe79bless you, you aren't stupid at all! no-one is capable of knowing everything, especially when it comes to ever-changing topics such as slang and terms used on the Internet. the mark of a sensible, smart, or clever person is that they are unafraid to ask questions and seek out new information when they identify gaps in their knowledge. the only way one can demonstrate a lack of intelligence is by pretending they know everything, and you do not fall into that category so don't be hard on yourself 💖
@@Kat-Astrophe79 A stupid person is one that never asks questions and I tend to hold those people more suspect than those who bother to ask questions.
I saw someone aptly defined dox which is internet slang for documenting.
2nd paragraph. IG means Instagram, which is a modern version of Tumblr. IG lets other viewers see what other accounts are following you and who you are following as 2 different lists. Add IG, places the most recent follower to the top and the oldest to the bottom
Tommy appears as a recent follower on Amber's IG which happens to have Tommy's face on their own account profile allowing her account to be easily identifiable as this is their account. This led to more sleuthing by others to connect the dots to Tommy's other online activity which may or may not be public (not a first hand witness)
But, her connection to her now deceased partner was evident and this partner was a public figure akin to "where are they now" interests. Hoped that helped
You can Google "slang".
That easy.
That means you are not helplessly relying on others.
Amber is now the captain of the U.S.S. BBW ⛵
Wouldn't Slommy Tommy be the captain of Lard Lass being the super mega death fat (not beautiful woman)
All aboard!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@SavedBeforeSunset Plenty of room!
Fun fact, since the 1920s the US Navy has been using prefix BB for battleship hull numbers, for example BB-61 for USS Iowa
I’ll fall asleep still laughing at this tonight 😂
Alr should be thanking "haydur nation" for properly vetting Tommy. The "you're in danger, girl." Meme comes to mind. This is disturbing.
Remember Amber quit Ozempic the same time she started talking to Slommy
o my goodness yes!! well noted
Amber had no intention of sticking with ozempic. She tried it before, panicked because it was making her less hungry, smoked to get the munchies, and then quit. Amber cannot live without the constant influx of crappy food. I knew she'd have to settle for a feeder. Her money is down now, and it's just going to get lower and lower.
She quit already? I´ve been taking breaks from the amberverse for my mental health and tha last thing I saw was when she increase her dosage
Yep!! She seemed HAPPY to stop it as well. I was super confused because it seemed like the med was actually working. She started to look like she was losing weight and then turns around and says it's not working so she's gonna stop taking it. Now it all makes sense.
I LOVE Ozempic. Who in their right mind would STOP taking it?
Amber has the mental capacity of a teenager. Every gf is the one, this is wrong. Tommy is a psycho.
She's got them conman cold eyes
@@bostonmeadhorn4897 She really does!
Ironic that Tommy looks to really care about her own health and body quite a bit...wants to stay healthy I guess...
@@Sarah-xb5ovTommy looks like she takes care of herself? My ass, she looks unhealthy, but she might as well be a fitness influencer next to Amber
I don’t think ALR really thinks of any of them as the one, she thinks of them as the current maid.
Tommy's gf died in april. She claims the woman was the "love of her life" yet it sounds like immediately after, Tommy was prowling the streets for a new gf. Very concerning. I know everyone moves on at different times, some quicker than others, but to claim someone is the love of your life and then move on immediately after is just...no. There's absolutely no way. This chick is bad news.
Maybe, like Amber, she's always got a couple potentials in her back pocket.
That's how predators work. I don't think that was a real love, just fucked up kink
I mean everyone grieves differently BUT 2 months!?! 2 months?!?!? How are you even functioning properly yet?!? There’s no way. This whole situation is terrible on both their parts. Who would’ve thought Ambs was going to find a new low to stoop too?!?
@@julienotfunny I think it was more lust rather than genuine love. She just needs another woman to feed
@@julienotfunny my best friend's husband is like this. He made her family come get all her stuff they wanted 11 days after she passed or he was going to " take it all to the dump. "
She's turned all her comments off...she is probably in a panic with all the attention this is getting. I do hope she at least has an ounce of sense and will get herself away from this woman.
When has ALR shown that she has an oz of sense? She wouldn't be the GORL we know if she had sense
@@tanyaglover2217EXACTLY
I sincerely doubt it. She likes any attention she can get and it's not like Amber is concerned about losing weight anymore. She has the perfect care taker that won't make her feel bad for always failing her diets.
No this women will finally be the last nail in the coffin
I'd bet my life saving she will double down. At best, she will pull a wifey and say they broke up, but it will be obvious they didn't.
God Amber you've nabbed yourself someone worse than Salah.
🙄🤣
Maybe Salah could be Amber’s new wiper. Win win sitch 😂
She's so desperate for anyone to claim her
@@PorkyLikesDonutsEww
foodie is seething now that amber is getting all the attention lol
So wait, how can it be that Slommy's ex was doxxed, but the feeder allegations are also false??
🤔
To quote Mr Snowflake : "She's doing the best she can with the brain she has."
@@theadra23omg I'm stealing that quote for my orange cat 😂
She also has no idea what the word “dox” actually means. She thinks simply naming someone who already was putting themselves out there online is somehow doxxing
@@outlast_the_night7727 I’m stealing that quote for me (orange human)
@@outlast_the_night7727 ME TOO! That is priceless
Amber’s refusal to get help for her mental health is finally gonna be the cause of her demise. ☠️
As far as we know, nobody can heal narcicissm. Or psychopathy.
You can just try to educate so they can't find new victims
@@CordeliaWagner1999she could get treatment for her BPD and would probably make different (better) choices when it comes to relationships.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 There’s this one really nice girl on RUclips who was diagnosed with NPD dating a guy with ASPD (a sociopath basically) and they’re both in therapy and recovering. Definitely possible
Her account is Kylee Rackam
@@hothoneymustardor health decisions, she is still young enough, but she seems to be headed down the road to the betes right behind Foodie.
So it's doxxing to show pics that ppl posted themselves on a kink website for the whole world to see?
That's what I said! Every thing that was posted was stuff that lady had posted on public platforms and forums for all to see! That's not "doxxing".. Amber is so dim. Just like her saying SA is just where someone make you feel scared... No, Amber. No it's not.
She doesn't know what doxxing is. Remember when she said her doctor was doxxed just because people looked at their practices website?
the woman was on tv
shows FFS
Anyone who reads this comment is invading my privacy. 😂
When your new girlfriend surprises you with flowers from her previous girlfriend's funeral and they are still fresh 😂
Girl, that's harsh.😂😂😂 Love it.
DAMNNNN 🤣
Gorl ☠️☠️☠️☠️
Bruh 💀
@@Sarah-xb5ov Pew Pew shots fired
I didn't know humans could be over 1000lbs.
I know it equates to 470 kilograms. Massive
The heaviest person ever was like 1400 lbs
And until the last 30yrs Drs and scientists thought humans couldn’t get that big but you know Americans said hold my cheese whiz 😂😂😂
Recently a woman couldn’t be removed from her home when she died it took a team of firefighters 12 hours. She was over 1000 lbs
God almighty, what in the hell happened to humankind, that people eat themselves to that state 😢
I don't like that a child is dragged into this, watching her mum's partners pass away. That's trauma😢
I haven't heard anything about the wife and kid... is that true too??
@@alyseb5730 "tommy" mentioned having a kid in the eulogy she gave at her ex's funeral
I haven't seen anything about Tommy having a kid? I am trying to keep up but I am confused lol
@@Jama380Tommy said it herself at ex’s funeral
@@MeowMatee ah, I haven't seen that. I just see a few reaction channels , so I am behind I guess, even though I thought I was current lol
i bet ALR will rage , cry , and continue being with Slommi just to stick it to the haydurs foodie beauty style
Slommi! Omg that’s how I’ll think of her from now on 😂 so good
100% this is exactly what she is going to do
She has - Alex was shook caught it and put it up - what a woman!
Exactly! She will think that she will be different and this will be the end.
Amber won't have to pretend to want to lose weight and can eat what she wants. No joke I'm sure she is thrilled about that.
I don't think Amber will break up with Tommy since it's the first time "nobody's been embarrassed to be with her" shes never going to find the love she wants from someone who isn't a feeder. She wants to be accepted for who and what she is. Wifey left because Amber could not change and didn't want to, quit WLS. Her new narrative will be "wifey was so abusive and never truly loved me for who I am, but Tommy loves me 100% and lets me be my true self for once".
Chantal was the same way with Nader... He got her using drugs and buying them overpriced from him and she still was adamant it was love! Who cares what he did to his ex gf (stabbed her) that is private. Eerily the same obsession only Nader pushed Chantal away...Tommy is luring Amber in deep. Those girls find messed up relationships...paid husband, feeder girlfriend...
Krystal, Destiny,Beck and Jade were not embarrassed to be seen with her. The girl is a liar
“Is that right? 1040 pounds? God, I need a haircut.” Fantastic
I read 900 lbs in her obit
@@effy_kujo Yup but she wrote a post on Facebook (the woman who died) that she finally reached 1040 pounds.
@@southparkfirefly yeah, I just saw that on Twitter. That's ridiculous. Amber needs to swallow her pride & RUN! This won't be good for her 😳
@@southparkfirefly "finally" is very correct
Lol yeah fr, sometimes we just have to take stock of something real and grounded to keep ourselves sane
RIP my search history as I learn about new gf's interests
Rip my algorithm 😢😂
Tommy will marry her asap so she can get the life insurance and the RUclips residuals! Great news Amber, you signed your end-of-life certificate, just like you always wanted!
You have no idea how life insurance works do you?
@@murphy1011 not American life insurance, no. But also "marrying someone about to die for the life insurance payout" is a recurring joke discussed when someone marries a person who is in very poor health. Usually this applies to a very young person marrying an extremely old person
Right now ai doubt any company will ensure ALR!
@@titolino73🎯🎯🎯 Even though she claimed that she finally got health insurance at one point, what kind of company would ever take THAT risk either?
@@titolino73 there's no way she will qualify for any policy.
Remember when we thought Tommy was just trying to use ALR for money?! Those were the good days 😬🫣
USSBBW does sound like a ship 😂
I'd venture to say if you're an ultra super sized woman, you're definitely not beautiful
😂
I Christen thee the USS Amber
Well, it's sinking, so...I guess that's fitting 🤷♀️
The Titanic is trembling 😂
The only thing this is going to do is make Amber dig in her heels even deeper. Turning off her comments is a sure sign of that. "you guys don't know her like i do"
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And disappear with Tommy into feeder websites... Oh my...
She doesn't know her either! Amber wake up and smell Dr Now
I bet finding out about Slommi’s ex and seeing the photos made Albert feel super skinny and dainty 🧚✨
I know you’re right about this 😅
OMG yeah. She was twice our skinny Queen's size. 😅
She probably felt like she still has tons of wiggle room at her current size.
Oh Lord this is probably so true 🤦🏾♀️ remember that one story about her seeing a woman in a restaurant who was actually larger than her and it was like Christmas morning? lol
Amber wouldn't have known this (Tommy tea) was going to happen because she's not very intelligent.
And does NO research at all, no matter how many times not researching something or someone bites her in the ass lol
And very certain that slommy is madly in love with all of her wonderfulness.
Fr. She’s a very skilled manipulator but also a dunce at the same time
Probably did zero background research.
yep , she slaps a fake name on these gf’s and thinks no one will ever know the difference.
The video of Tommy/Emily/Willow speaking at her deceased partner's funeral 🚩🚩🚩
She's got herself a new feedie poet now in ALR.
I can’t find the video, where did u watch it 😭😭
the link is on the farms
she also sounded like talking about alr
Sorry, what are the farms? Is it a website? A RUclips page? I truly don't know
@@Jama380 Kiwi Farms is a website.
Feederism is a dark fetish, and it honestly needs to be categorised as abuse. The only problem is that the feedee is technically "a consenting adult," which complicates things. It's not illegal to bring someone food. It's not illegal to be an enabler, including the kind of enabler who's getting off on enabling someone.
Sexual liberation and its consequences
Kinkshaming can save lifes.
Tolerance can be used to get a free pass for every crime
Looking at all the "accidfnts" that unalive people while doing BDSM
Laws might slowly change. A NYC cop lost his job for having a fetish he never acted on. He was into cannibalism fetish sites. He never acted on it but they deemed it too bad a fetish to be able to be a cop. China is banning mukbangs now after the Chinese girl died on Livestream. RUclips needs to ban mukbangs for monetization. It's same as serial killer to seek partners to encourage self harm addictions to their death which is feeder behaviour. And to be paid for it encourages feeder (pimp like behaviour) and feedee (prostitute of sort) to die from exploiting their addiction.
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This will surely have a 'Life with Jen' finale if Amber doesn't wise up.
If a feeder's partner dies, can the feeder face charges? It's crazy how you can kill someone with food and face no repercussions.
My thoughts exactly
It is crazy, I have never heard anyone being charged with murder or such for over feeding a person to death...but it should be taken seriously.
Especially if they seek out another morbidly obese person right after and state they are only attracted to that body type... That sounds like serial killer stuff to me...honestly!!
I would say it’s probably doubtful that they would face any charges. Because while they can bring them tons of food, it’s up to the person to choose to consume said food. Unlike drug dealers now being charged when overdoses happen, food is obviously a legal substance. It’s such a sick and complicated dynamic.
Doubtful they're consenting adults and they'd have to prove malicious intent. Obesity helps fuel the economy
Crushing someone with your belly is called 'gunting'...found that out this morning doing research.
I feel sad that I know this now ☹️
It's been a rough morning for all us..
Ew, wtf the world???
Euuggh brotha eugggh 😮
I've found out way too much feederism lingo from this whole debacle 🥴
Her community post shows that she is just playing victim and not listening to one aingle bit of concern from anyone.
Seriousy, she's such a fool it's frightening.
She's just putting up a front. She's probably getting help from her mom, Alexis, and Tommi Slommi on how to spin this.
I think the most nuts thing about this is that if tommy was literally just a normal person who found amber attractive period, no one would be sounding alarm bells. There might have been trashy gossip, but I'd wager if Tommy was yet another regular fella like Beck , the community would be all for it.
I think Amber is most upset about this whole situation because the community has managed to pull the curtain up from the fantasy. And it literally just took 3 days.
If Amber was humble and safe with dating, she would have been going to local lesbian meet ups and maybe eventually she'd find maybe a bigger butch woman who doesn't mind bigger women, but instead like Karina Kaboom likes to bring up, amber only wants to date randos who already know her because she's terrified of rejection.
This kink is very very terrifying and dangerous and she really needs to ego check herself and be prepared to die for love if she wants to continue this fantasy.
Online Dating is the perfect playground for Narcicissts and their Victims.
And evil people finding their victims.
A lot of serial unalivers find their victims on Dating Apps.
Before that it was "looking for love" in newspapers
Online Dating.
Kinkshaming can save lifes.
Very, very true!
This is way too dark. Even Amberlynn doesn't deserve this. It genuinely frightens me that evil people like this exist
Seriously. Amber is a shitty person, but I’m worried for her. She’s not been on her weight loss journey for god knows how long which is already bad, and now this?? She’s going to die. We’re literally witnessing her slow death right now (arguably we have been for ages but you know what I mean).
This new woman will feed her until she dies.. that’s what she did to her last girlfriend
I honestly don’t see much of a difference between both women
And I mean Amber and tommy
lol dark compared to what - accusing someone of rape????
Compared to that - this is a jolly fun walk in the park - after all, she's been fishing for feeders so now she's got one!
Free will exists.
She wants this.
This is her dream woman.
We know Amber changes her personality for her partners, but if she becomes what Tommy wants, she'll be in serious trouble💔 Why couldn't she just stay single for awhile, keep up with the semaglutide, and wait to see if she made progress?? 😢😢😢
Or maybe date a personal trainer and get fit to impress them?? 🤔
Amber was ALWAYS a Feedee, let's be real. She was just waiting for an -er to be with
Amber may not have had the language to understand what she wanted, but all the signs were always there. Mavid and Mutthead did a deep dive into the idea of Amber being a Feedee and it's only become more true now that she has the -er she's always wanted
@@zen_ccgcouldn't agree more. I still remember during the Beck era where she was told to slow down her eating so she can tell when she's full and Amber replied with "but if you eat faster you get more".
She will always prioritize eating over her health.
Even in the recent vlog when Tommi Slommi was visiting, Amber went from talking about only drinking water to showing herself on her dates drinking cokes and cocktails.
Because all of her exes moved on, so she’s gotta show how much she’s thriving too! lol. I maintain that she’s never once cared about losing weight, even when on ozempic. GLP-1s are hard and Amba isn’t into doing anything worthwhile lol
Amber finally met the one she deserves. Someone who will encourage her to be her( worst )self and follow her heart... right into her early grave
Let’s face it, this was always going to happen with ALR. She loves food and someone who will “pamper” her. She isn’t going to change because she doesn’t want to change.
I stumbled across the headline about the Asian woman who ate herself to d*ath the other day and immediately thought it was Amber. New wipey is a feeder who was talking to other women while feeding her partner to an early grave. Amber can’t waddle out of this one!
I immediately thought of Foodie Beauty
She was 24 or something ridiculous.
@@ozsheila55Tommy’s ex? She was 44. Still young tbf but not 24
@@hothoneymustardi think the chinese woman who was doing mukbangs was 24 when she passed away from eating
@@hothoneymustardno the Asian muckbanger who just died was 24.
Good morning Mr Snowflake!! Stay positive in these fat times
I read someone said Tommi just got her nursing degree? I hope I read that wrong bc that makes her all the more despicable.
Like literally last month. I’m not saying they’re the same, but you ever heard of Jane Toppan? I’m scared of nurses now.
I see people asking why Amber's mom doesn't say anything.
I think she has. But we know Amber - she always knows best and gets huffy if you don't agree
She wants to stick it to the HaYDuRs so badly. She won't let herself see anything "bad" with whatever or whomever she wants.
I just watched the portion of the memorial video where slommy spoke. She's disgusting for moving on so quickly after saying all those things about her deceased partner. I think she's my least favorite ALR partner.
Serial Unaliver.
It's like Jeffrey Dahmer giving an Eulogy
Is it on youtube?
@@bloopnationon the farms! I’ve been watching reaction channels for years but this situation took me on my first trip to the kiwi farms. Also a reaction channel called “Ankle” put together a video with a lot of the evidence too
UHaul lesbians move quickly.
You think?
You walk downstairs at 3am and see Mr. Cat-digan, wyd?
Slow blink at him to show I'm a friend, not a foe
Say pssspssspsss and rub my fingers together to get his attention
@@bananayummyableExactly 😂
Also lets not forget the gf passed in April, not that long ago. Saying she was so in love with her and all this and now she is loving Amber?! No if you truly loved someone you would need healing time. People who lose a partner they love so much wouldn't even think of dating again if they just lost them, let alone wanting to move in with them and you know Tommy told Amber she loves her. The fact Amber doesnt see this. I mean that is a huge red flag. Gorly pop must be color blind! lol
And she was in other super sized "influencers" DM's (SpanxBeluga) flirting before she started talking to Amber too... If Amber started talking to her in June, that means she was in other peoples DM's in May/June... So literally right after she passed!! The very next month!!
When you’re looking through rose-colored glasses, red flags just look like flags
Amber is more upset at her audience for finding and bringing this information to light than at Tommy for being sketchy. It's like she's saying "I could have been happy in this relationship without knowing all of this but you've ruined it for me by letting me know who she really is." Still won't be enough for her to break up with this woman.
Amber and the gf look eerily alike
The girlfriend looks like an older version of Amber.. spooky
I think Tommy aka Willow aka Emily has ditched Amber and instead of admitting that, she came online saying we wouldn't see Tommy on her channel anymore because "everyone ruined it for her" - Not because Tommy was just looking for her next victim and has actually just cut and ran from Ambie. 😂
I don't feel sorry for her - she was so desperate to me smug and have someone (anyone) to flaunt as her "gorlfriend" on camera to prove how desired she is and try to one up Beck and Destiny (Beck got a real cute GF and Destiny got married) It's her fault for being such a desperate fool. She rushed into flaunting this person before she even knew who they really were.
A Hoyer lift is a machine used to transport immobilized people. It’s similar to a crane.
That's disturbing.
finding someone’s name and public social media accounts isn’t doxxing
C'mon people, ALR finally found someone who accepts her as she really is, you're the problem because your ruining it for her.
She doesn't shame her for eating an entire cake either....that's love!
Amber's happy now that she doesn't have to pretend to want to be healthy or to lose weight. She has a girlfriend who likes her the way she is _and_ who wants her to gain even more weight. And she's got herself a new caretaker. It's a win in Amber's mind.
A win in the mind of a Serial Feeder Unaliver
yes, until she is bedbound again:(
The insane thing is that, despite all these recipts, amber will still die on the hill that this girl loves her......until its over, then she will have a brief moment of clarity, that people were just trying to warn her.
Makes perfect sense now why Amber stopped the ozempic. Tommy doesn't want her to lose weight..
Amber doesn't want to lose weight either. Well, she would if it was like taking one table and suddenly she was 130lbs - but she isn't really willing to lose the weight. Plus she doesn't want to lose her channel and have to get a real job - Her channel is mainly people hate watching... and she knows this. She notices the numbers dip when she is "on track" because the audience she has cultivated through her terrible behaviour and terrible personality don't care so much when she is "on track" so she always gives up because having views (which equals money) is what she wants more than having to diet and actually lose weight.
its not even funny anymore. the SECOND amber even makes an attempt to turn her life around, and she falls for evil like this. theres no way she doesnt know
I know it’s very different, but ALR has conned most of her past girlfriends into a relationship with her. Let’s not forget what she’s done just because it seems she might have met her match now. She’s desperate yes, but she sees people as servants
She's frightened of losing weight now.
@@bananayummyable youre so right. this is the epitome of a symbiotic parasitic relationship
She met her match with Wipey, who took the money and ran. Now she's met her Dom, who aims to love her to death.
If Amber moves in with this girl instead of the other way around, it’s more than likely an isolation tactic.
Feel like confirmed feeders should be on some form of list. Their is a level of absolute sadism in this that I feel should be prosecutable.
BINGO
But if the feedees have a death wish and just want to enjoy food and fame before they go, it's consensual.
If it's a consenting adult, you can't do anything. Sick? Yup. But many times the feedee wants the life just as much as the feeder. It's truly weird ......
The issue is that in 99% of cases the feeder's "victim" knows what is going on and willingly participates, the solution is not to date feeders but I guess some people can't help themselves resist the attention or something?
@@Jama380 Seams similar to a victim of DA to me. The spouses often crawl back from the hospital right back to the fry, because there quite frankly not right in the head at the time. There adults they can do what they want but there is a point when we interfere isn't there ?
This is the final season i think. Shes committed to her delusions & finally found the one who will encourage it.
It’s sad that Ambers life has come to this…. The sad reality of desperation! I’m surprised that she hasn’t had a feeder latch onto her before now. 😔
If amber moves in with tommy it will be her death sentence
I was like, "OMG wait until Mr. Snowflake hears about this mess!"
I don't think Amber is a good person by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm worried for her. This situation is concerning.
I really hope she'll dump that Tommy feeder and open her eyes and finally take care of herself but what am I even talking about...
Feeders get off by knowing who they're feeding is going to die. Aint that sick?
The way the economy is set up right now and the price of food I could do with a feeder but unlike Amber I’m not buying the food 😂
😂 I'm from Virginia and visiting England right now, I paid over $11 US dollars (with the exchange rate) for a single Whopper last night 😂🤣 I totally agree on the feeder thing 😂
@@nojuanuknow and that's why folks in the UK aren't as fat as Americans - fast food and huge portions aren't as cheap as chips - you just wouldn't go out that often and whilst the shite food is available to buy for cooking, the portions of fast food aren't so big 😆 I was SO sick in America with the "food"
@@rsh793lmao people in the UK aren't as fat?? Have you never seen any of the MANY shows about massively fat people in the UK, and how there's an epidemic of obesity there that's getting worse and worse?? Pull the other one, it's got bells on 😅
I don’t need a sugar daddy I need a sugar feeder 😂
@@lydiaj7492 yeah but it's still not as bad as America lmfao America has *massive* portions, tourists from all around the world notice the massive portions when visiting.
Like sure, obesity is on the rise in many countries - but no one does it like 'Murica 🦅🇺🇸
It's not "doxxing" when it is already publicly available information. God, Ambie really needs a head check
Hmm Amber has stopped Ozempic since meeting her & Tommy enabled this other girl to her grave! Bed bound era coming up!
Guise, you have to realize that Salami’s not like that anymore! Ya’ll just don’t know the secrets to true love and weight loss like she does 👀
By referring to her girlfriend's late partner, Amber just confirmed literally all the feeder rumors as true.
The world has lost its darn mind.
Because of Tolerance for evil people.
Amber didn't just dox Jade's name, she doxxed her state, city, even down to her block
Ok for the first time I'm concerned. I hope we see the breakup video very soon.
Many moons ago on a TV show called ER, they did an episode on a obese person. They talked about how she smelled ect. While checking her, lifting all the rolls they found a twinke,.the woman went nuts demanding to eat it, she had lost it a week ago. It was my first experience and i puked..what is the turn on with feeders or being smootched??
She couldn't wait to flaunt her new My Girlfriend and it has massively backfired. Again, maybe timelines are a good thing.
The gorls used to compete for the 👑, now they're competing for who has the worst partner.
Its Becky's fault.
Soooo moving in with the feeder. Isolated from her only other true contact with the world (her mum), unable to be independent, unable to drive, totally Isolated, depending on one person.
Nope, no red flags here. This is healthy.
"USSBBW" Sounds like a ship, lmaooooooo thats exactly what I thought when I saw that acronym
It is still all Becky’s fault.
Good lord, my dogs passed away 2 1/2 yrs ago and I’m STILL mourning them! I can’t imagine a person claiming “it’s the love of their life” moving on the second they get in car after the funeral basically🤯 Damn!
I love your mom for the cat mask😻
i hope amber sees all of this and realizes that even though people make fun of her and say things she doesn't like, we don't want her to die. or get wrapped up with someone who will get her closer to it
In Tommy's late partner's case, I find it horrifying that she was in a care facility but she was still victim to this abuse. My heart breaks for the family who lost a loved one because of a predator encouraging her to not get the help she obviously needed at 1000lbs.
All of the talking points on amber’s rebuttal contradicts themselves. You can’t be blind to size but also into bigger girls. She said Emily’s not a feeder she just lovingly provided food lol
The stupid partner choice Olympics. ALR & Chantal going for the gold medal.
Ok this is sick… it’s absolutely sick. They get off on the idea of a human being dying from something they encouraged… so basically it’s some kind of proxy murder?! I don’t know if there is a better word for this.. maybe someone can help me find it..
Someone in the comment section called them euthanasia doulas ( ? spelling).
@@spikesgirl9371 that’s messed up it makes sense though barf…. There are fetishes and then there is whatever the f this is
My jaw hit the floor...slommy's 1000lb girlfriend DIED just a couple months ago???? That's not a red flag Amberlynn🤔
Literally 2 months after she died she was texting amber!!!
Are we truly at the end of amber's story? I am horrified for her but she is so delusional she can't see it. Sad and very tragic.
I really hope she'll dump her... No matter what kind of person she is she doesn't deserve it
Why's everyone getting so upset about it? She's a horrible abusive person who has been doing feeder content for months now so of course she'd hook one.
Tommi's weird - Amber's weird - match made in heaven and at least she won't be abusing some innocent person like she's done in the past!
LOL are YOU the nasty one - I thought it was Karina to be honest! 😆 ALR seems to HATE her for some reason ....! 😆
I studied Psychology.
I quit and changed profession.
I am still interested, especially in Pre Crime.
Tommy found the perfect victim, a Narcicisst.
Understand that feeders are all about being needed with a conscious or unconscious desire for their partners not to be able to leave them. It's pretty appalling though - the previous one isn't even cold and they've moved on to get started with the next one!
And the plot thickens 😳😂
and so does Amber.. 😂🤭
@@CatherineStark7😂😂😂
Clever!😂
Now we know why ozempic "failed'
Pookie turned off her comments on YT Hmmmm can't face the truth evidently.
I saw comments saying Tommy's late girlfriend looks a LOT like ALR (haven't gone to see myself). Which just makes things so much more wtf.
If Amberlynn knows and doesnt care then she deserves what she gets. This finally maybe the one that does her in.she needs to recognize .😮
This is gonna get ugly. Amber needs to run.. ok walk fast with the wrong shoes.
Amberlin went from the slow road to the carpool lane, this train has no breaks. This season is shaping up to be her magnum opus, I can't wait!
I'm starting to really believe more than a kink shaming kink, should be shamed.
There is a sick subset of Feeders that like to feed their partners right off the mortal coil. I hope Tommy is not that because Amby would go along willingly.
And this person is a medical professional?
Run Amber, run!
ALR and FB have been competing for a long time. ALR is taking competing to be the next Life by Jen, to a new level.