I can appreciate the second Mom recognizing that line "I don't see color," albeit well meaning essentially denies someone's experience. Color is seen and reacted to, even subconsciously.
So do you want people to see your color and talk about your skin color, which will bring discrimination no matter what you do, or would you rather be color blind and feel "erased?"
I just got goosebumps when I saw the scene with the raising mom next to birth mom, and the birth mom and birth son both smiling. I would so much like to see more situations where both raising parents and birth parents can be involved in a young person's upbringing! In whatever proportion. But we should not occlude or hide anyone who was involved in the life of a young person!
Assimilating and losing ones ethnic/cultural identity is more painful and alienating than can be described. It is a profound loss with emptiness in ones SOUL . . .
The first question for any white person considering adopting black children is do you know any black people? If you dont have relationships with black people, what makes you think you have what it takes to raise black children? Secondly, lets stop with the lie that there's just no one to adopt black kids. Its far easier to adopt as a white couple than it is a black couple. And as an adoptee I can honestly say that I would never adopt a white child because the trauma that the child would face from neing raised by someone that doesn't look like him would outweigh the benefits.
You act like they’re taking them away from their birth family. It was them or the trauma of foster care. If black parents adopted more black kids that’d be great. In the mean time, who do you think you are to look down on their kind deed?
It shouldn't matter as long as the child is in a loving home. However, I do think if you're a white parent adopting a black child you should take them to places where they can see & interact with people who look like them.
@@powpowouchy5 It's still important! Just seeing people who look like you in spaces you're in can be powerful especially for a young person. Black is beautiful!
@@powpowouchy5respectfully, this would never be the case. even if an adoptee "says" they're "comfortable", they most likely aren't telling the whole truth. in this world, it is always alienating to never see someone who looks like you.
@@candacedawn357 just came on here to say that this important for biracials as well. I can't speak for myself because i have a Black mother so my configuration is different but i recognize that society produces those differences.
Idk about being transracial. But his parents should have had him in black culture. Black people need to stop treating other black people differently for not being black enough
This is very interesting I saw something on Instagram follow a family and I’ve never heard of this this is really amazing how parents can adopt children and thank you for you guys sharing your stories and yes Black Lives Matter ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾transracial adoptions Thank you
Just give the kids a good home and love which is very easy. That is the most important thing. It gets tiring if society keeps making a big deal if your kids dont look like you.
How can anyone in the comments be against Transracial Adoptions ? As long as the kids turn out to be well adjusted adults. What's the problem ? What does 'Acting white/black' mean in a 21st century multiracial, multicultural society anyway ?
transracial is encompassing more than one race of people while interracial is between or among two or more different races. You see what happens everyone is that someone needs to write their phd about something, so rather than put effort into it, they'll come up with a word that means the same as another word but call it something else.
So in order to find his roots, he had to speak to his mother about things like police brutality because she’d understand more? Why? Because she and him have been victims of police brutality? Stupidness. Know your roots. But you don’t need to bond over police brutality discussions when you both have probably not experienced it. It’s like black identity has become nothing but talking about how their oppressed. It’s just constant turmoil, is the narrative.
I can appreciate the second Mom recognizing that line "I don't see color," albeit well meaning essentially denies someone's experience. Color is seen and reacted to, even subconsciously.
Lmfao 🤣stop it 😂
So do you want people to see your color and talk about your skin color, which will bring discrimination no matter what you do, or would you rather be color blind and feel "erased?"
She has a good intent but what she should say is it doesnt matter if ur an alien white black I will still love u.
Skin color is the most important thing to the left
These parents have huge hearts and a lot of courage. God bless them!
I just got goosebumps when I saw the scene with the raising mom next to birth mom, and the birth mom and birth son both smiling. I would so much like to see more situations where both raising parents and birth parents can be involved in a young person's upbringing! In whatever proportion.
But we should not occlude or hide anyone who was involved in the life of a young person!
Assimilating and losing ones ethnic/cultural identity is more painful and alienating than can be described. It is a profound loss with emptiness in ones SOUL . . .
Facts
Only if what is being replaced isn't better.
Some ethnic cultures aren’t worth assimilating to if it’s going to increase your chances crime
@@D3xterJettsterit’s like deciding that food or water is better. They’re not an option.
The first question for any white person considering adopting black children is do you know any black people? If you dont have relationships with black people, what makes you think you have what it takes to raise black children? Secondly, lets stop with the lie that there's just no one to adopt black kids. Its far easier to adopt as a white couple than it is a black couple. And as an adoptee I can honestly say that I would never adopt a white child because the trauma that the child would face from neing raised by someone that doesn't look like him would outweigh the benefits.
pq uma criança branca teria traumas em ser criado por negros?
You act like they’re taking them away from their birth family. It was them or the trauma of foster care. If black parents adopted more black kids that’d be great. In the mean time, who do you think you are to look down on their kind deed?
@@adsf6033 my comment stands. And I don't believe the lie that whites adopt blacks more then black do.
Parents who are going to adopt children outside their race should be required to take racial sensitivity classes.
Lmao why? To enforce stereotypes?
@@D3xterJettster That's not what racial sensitivity is.
No non white children for you.
@@D3xterJettster To be 100% sure if they are perfect parents for the child
@@D3xterJettster um no to make sure no kid falls into the hands of a racist
It shouldn't matter as long as the child is in a loving home. However, I do think if you're a white parent adopting a black child you should take them to places where they can see & interact with people who look like them.
What if the child is perfectly happy where they are and has nothing else in common with these people that look like them than skin color?
@@powpowouchy5 It's still important! Just seeing people who look like you in spaces you're in can be powerful especially for a young person. Black is beautiful!
@@powpowouchy5respectfully, this would never be the case. even if an adoptee "says" they're "comfortable", they most likely aren't telling the whole truth. in this world, it is always alienating to never see someone who looks like you.
@@candacedawn357 just came on here to say that this important for biracials as well. I can't speak for myself because i have a Black mother so my configuration is different but i recognize that society produces those differences.
@@PHlophe Yes, my favorite music artist is Mariah Carey. I remember how she felt alienated growing up being mixed race.
Idk about being transracial. But his parents should have had him in black culture. Black people need to stop treating other black people differently for not being black enough
I was born in Mexico and adopted at birth by an English-speaking family from NYC. You can imagine the comments I get about the way I speak!
Adam, imagine the comments behind your back . Because that is the TRUE tea.
No excuse not to teach them about their history and ancestors I sure did
This is very interesting I saw something on Instagram follow a family and I’ve never heard of this this is really amazing how parents can adopt children and thank you for you guys sharing your stories and yes Black Lives Matter ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾transracial adoptions Thank you
nothing to do with blm
Skin tone, physical appearance in general, shouldn't identify who you are. We are all humans.
Please shut up!!!!
@@chrisyoung1720 No.
@@commandoslayer I don't know why I'm asking, but are you white??
@@commandoslayer You're giving off white vibes...
@@chrisyoung1720 I am pink.
I love this so much.
This is deeply interesting
From one blood God made all people. This is only a big problem in America
It’s not a problem limited to the US.
It's not one blood.
Nope. Not true. I am I'm an adoptee group on Facebook. Interracial adoptees come from Europe and Australia as well
Just give the kids a good home and love which is very easy. That is the most important thing. It gets tiring if society keeps making a big deal if your kids dont look like you.
Such beautiful smiles.😁
I was adopted twice, the final adoption is the cause of my BPD.
How can anyone in the comments be against Transracial Adoptions ? As long as the kids turn out to be well adjusted adults. What's the problem ? What does 'Acting white/black' mean in a 21st century multiracial, multicultural society anyway ?
So if his birthmom "loved" him why did she threw him away like garbage?
transracial is encompassing more than one race of people while interracial is between or among two or more different races.
You see what happens everyone is that someone needs to write their phd about something, so rather than put effort into it, they'll come up with a word that means the same as another word but call it something else.
Fundamentally, isn't it just different ethnicities within 1 race, the human race?
It's amazing to see the left tear itself apart through internal conflict.
This might have been interesting fifty years ago.
They came out, good.
you r legends
as somebody who is biracial you can't understand how stupid this is to me
Nice segment! 4:36 Kyle's moms need to do a DNA test. They look like sisters! Same face shape, smile, eyebrows, nose, even hair color.
Hey NBC! Report on News; not how to become WOKE. Let's Go Brandon!
Literally Me
They messed him up!
1st world problems
Oh Boy
As a lib I am only concerned that they are addressing everyone by their preferred pronoun. Because that’s what’s important!
It’s not important at all.
Wtf
Ayy lmao 🤣
Let’s go Brandon!
🖖
Trans gender Trans racial Trans Whatever with the end goal = Trans Human , Right?
Let’s go Brandon 🚩
Let’s go Brandon 🚩
As a lib I am only concerned that their lavatories are LGBTQ friendly. Because that’s what’s important!
VA school district showed twice why that is bad to do.
🤣🤣
Very original
First
Let's go Brandon!
So in order to find his roots, he had to speak to his mother about things like police brutality because she’d understand more? Why? Because she and him have been victims of police brutality? Stupidness. Know your roots. But you don’t need to bond over police brutality discussions when you both have probably not experienced it. It’s like black identity has become nothing but talking about how their oppressed. It’s just constant turmoil, is the narrative.
You are weird
Transracial?!