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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Год назад +3

    Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

  • @Piquetures
    @Piquetures 6 лет назад +191

    “Growth happens outside your comfort zone” was something I needed to hear again. 🙏💕 I think it’s easy to forget that our comfort zones change with time and that to keep growing, sure you may have conquered a fear before but that isn’t a reason to stop looking for other areas to improve!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 лет назад +4

      yess i always have to remind myself that too!

  • @laurachampeil_
    @laurachampeil_ 6 лет назад +55

    "Done is better than perfect" .. thank you, it's the only thing I have to understand today! I didn't realize it until you say it. I have to work on, but thank you for you video ♥

  • @SiobhanOConnell519
    @SiobhanOConnell519 6 лет назад +4

    I just want to add that sometimes its really difficult to identify your self-limiting beliefs and fears by yourself. I have made the most amazing progress in transforming myself through seeing a therapist. For me specifically, its a trauma therapist because I am recovering from complex PTSD. I am steadily transforming myself from a girl who suffered with severe crippling anxiety, mood volatility and ptsd symptoms which held her back from even having a steady job to an ambitious young woman who is ready to take on relationships, have a career and pursue my passion of creative writing. In cases like mine, this progress would be impossible without the help of a skilled therapist.

  • @yumnaamjad2637
    @yumnaamjad2637 4 года назад +1

    1.growth happens outside of comfort zone
    2.fear of failure,judgement(psycopaths r only ones not scared)
    3.done is better than perfect.

  • @aparajitabiswas2911
    @aparajitabiswas2911 6 лет назад +21

    It was really very helpful video..thanks a lot dear Aileen 💕
    "Growth happens outside of your comfort zone" ..
    "Done is better than perfect" ..
    "Follow your fears"..
    I will constantly remind myself these lessons to overcome my fear..

  • @moneymagnet1112
    @moneymagnet1112 6 лет назад +15

    Failure is part of the game. Imagine if you get everything that you want, what would be the challenge or purpose of life. There won't be anymore growth. Failure/challenges are natural part of the life cycle.

  • @LoLeanderx
    @LoLeanderx 6 лет назад +37

    I love you and the series. You radiate so much positive energy and inspiration. 💗

  • @bellevieyoutube
    @bellevieyoutube 6 лет назад

    I never thought I'd be able to live free from fear. It seemed as though it was a continual struggle in every person's life. It stripped me of hope. But I thank God that He has completely set me free from fear. It feels as though I'm finally breathing, finally seeing the world around me. I pray that He would do the same in your lives. Simply open yourselves up to Him and He will give you life!

  • @nicol2607
    @nicol2607 4 года назад +2

    You are my favorite RUclipsr, I really love all your videos!

  • @kimmiharitha438
    @kimmiharitha438 4 года назад +3

    Done is better than perfect❤️👍

  • @salomegp9250
    @salomegp9250 5 лет назад

    I can not afford a psychiatrist in my country, and just you being you, adorable and doing your most to help people reach their dream life do a lot for me. You are an amazing woman.

  • @nnillc8899
    @nnillc8899 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you soooooo much for mentioning Fear of Success! I suffer from that and I know that it is the main reason for my procrastination and other things. Thank you so much for that!

    • @nnillc8899
      @nnillc8899 6 лет назад

      I completely understand! I still have this fear and, whenever I have a great idea or a great step towards success, I back away due to my FEAR of success. So what I have been doing now is I do it anyways. For example, if I know that going to a conference will be of great benefit to my success, I go, even though my mind yells and screams that I shouldn't go because of A and B reasons. I go anyways. When I do this, I have been anixety and my heart beats really fast. But I do it anyways. So it's like I am completely ignoring myself and becoming separate from myself (if that makes sense) because it is that only way, for now, that I can take action.

    • @nnillc8899
      @nnillc8899 6 лет назад

      Another thing is I know why I have this fear. Knowing why you have a certain fear helps TREMENDOUSLY. My fear of success stream from my fear of what my family would say. I have ambitions to be very success in all areas of my life; this is something that is not common in my family. So knowing that I can (and will) potentially outgrow my family drastically has caused this fear. Like "will my family deny me/ reject me?" This is what goes through my head and what stops me from being successful. But regardless, I still move on because I really, really, really, really want to be my future self.

  • @marantan4715
    @marantan4715 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you for making the series.. This is what we need and there is not much of this kind of help in the Internet. We need people who already succeed to help us choose what to do with our lifes to use the best of it, contribute to the world in the best way. We are so grateful! Thank you for devoting exactly to this topic!

  • @priyankasahu6126
    @priyankasahu6126 6 лет назад +7

    Fear is so common and so relatable. Often so ignored. I am also reading The War of Art by Steven Pressfield and I am glad that you enlisted it in your books to read video. Thanks for pointing out those points. Really helpful!

  • @toni-6673
    @toni-6673 6 лет назад +2

    You're spreading calm and happiness gurl this is amazing

  • @puddingsdiary272
    @puddingsdiary272 6 лет назад +6

    Hey! I just wanna to thank you for making this series especially this video! I am a pharmacy student and we have an exam called OSCE which is an examination to test our counselling skills. I am a timid person and I always scared of OSCE workshops and exam. Fear is blocking my way to success. I am so scared, I don't know why. I think part of the reason is I am not confidence with myself. And I know that only when I overcome and face this fear, I will then have the chance to become a first-class honour. I really agree the phase that 'Fear as your compass' and 'Fear will never goes away.' I will tried my best to face my fear, step out of my comfort zone and do my best! Thank you Aileen!

  • @laurengarrett8244
    @laurengarrett8244 6 лет назад +2

    Using fear as a compass is something that I haven’t heard before but it resonated so much with me. Thank you!

  • @JesseandKyle
    @JesseandKyle 6 лет назад +2

    Growth happens outside the comfort zone! I LOVE this phrase. 😍

  • @missmykki2949
    @missmykki2949 6 лет назад +9

    I also want to add that the fear of success can be related to the fear of loosing a goal, a motivation : some people think that if they achieve their goal, they’ll get their life empty, so they tend (sometime without noticing it themselves) to refuse to succeed (I am not sure that I was clear... it would be better if I could write in English, but as most of you are anglophone, I am doing my best to share!)
    Beside that, I’d like to thank you for this series, it’s so interesting and educative (it’s not really the word I was looking for, but it will do the trick :p ), I love your contents, it makes me so relaxed, yet so confident and motivated as it gives me the interest to push myself to the best I can be. Therefore, keep doing what you do, you are just a treasure of kindness and share!

  • @lizzieblades
    @lizzieblades 6 лет назад +1

    This was so much deeper and helpful than similar videos! I realize I have a fear of success. I got a slight upgrade in my job and all my coworkers are giving me the “You’re so fancy now” treatment, even though I’ve been humble and expressed how grateful I am. I just have to ignore that snide treatment, even if it hurts my people-pleasing tendencies.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 лет назад

      ooh! that feeling is so relatable to me. you just gotta focus on yourself and keep moving up girl!!

  • @__Yankeela
    @__Yankeela 4 года назад +2

    "Done is better than perfect "
    I needed to hear this.
    Thank you Aileen for this amazing video ❤❤

  • @yuliiafranchuk6503
    @yuliiafranchuk6503 6 лет назад +2

    I just cannot cope with my excitement anymore. I`ve been watching your channel and listening to podcast for about a year now, but this Series is simply amazing.😻🙃I love the idea of personal emails with worksheets. It`s so exciting to get new exercises and it definitely helps me to build new healthy relationships with myself. 🌿
    Thank you! Love from Ukraine 🌻🌻🌻

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  6 лет назад +1

    Vietnamese, Chinese, Russian, Spanish, and Turkish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings 💕

  • @PahlaB
    @PahlaB 6 лет назад +59

    If you don't feel fear, you're a psychopath. LOL!!! Loved this video, it was really helpful. Your B roll was especially awesome today, too.

    • @Piquetures
      @Piquetures 6 лет назад +3

      Pahla Bowers ahhh hi! I just wanted to let you know I recently sustained a foot injury and your chair exercises helped me so much!! Did not expect to find you here so it was a pleasant surprise 😊🙏 thank you for all you do!

    • @PahlaB
      @PahlaB 6 лет назад +3

      HI! RUclips is such a small world, huh?? I'm so glad you liked the chair videos, and I think everybody can use a little Lavendaire in their lives! :)

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 лет назад +2

      hehe thank you!

  • @AshleyWineland
    @AshleyWineland 6 лет назад +7

    I have been loving this series! Thank you for creating it; it came at the perfect time! This video is a necessary reminder

  • @chandrikabvs487
    @chandrikabvs487 6 лет назад +1

    I was holding back myself I didn't knew why, thank you so much Aileen for this video😘😍 it was really helpful

  • @nesstb
    @nesstb 6 лет назад +1

    Hey Aileen ❣️ thank you for making videos and being such an amazing person !❣️
    I've been excellent in school since I can remember but these past 2 years I have been through consecutive failures. Which made me question my intelligence. I've fallen into a severe kind of depression and my psychologist gave me medicine to take, but I couldn't take them bc I felt like that's not how I want to get better! Now I feel like I'm still in shock of what I'm going through since I never imagined my life would go this way! I know I can still fix it and achieve my dreams. But I just feel a lack of motivation and discipline, and like what this video is about "FEAR". I'm afraid of every step I'll be taking. And so I start visualizing the worst things in life.
    Much Love ❣️❣️❣️

  • @myriambhji3951
    @myriambhji3951 6 лет назад

    "Done is better than perfect". Thank you fort that reminder !

  • @venugopalanvenu7201
    @venugopalanvenu7201 6 лет назад +1

    The way u help us in analysing our fears and THEN tackling them..is amayzing
    Love !

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  5 лет назад +11

    If you're looking to go deeper into each topic of the Dream Life Series, check out the Create Your Dream Life Course!
    🌻 lavendaire.com/dreamlife
    It's the first ever Lavendaire course! - A six-week, interactive program to help you discover your true potential, release your fears & make your dream life a reality. Just like the Dream Life Series, it features the different aspects of creating your dream life (with worksheets, exercises, and journaling prompts), but the course is more structured and detailed, with a guided experience. Essentially, it's the next step up from the series!
    PLUS: It's been over a year since I created the Dream Life Series, so I've personally learned so much more about life and the artist of life journey. I'll be sharing those new exclusive insights in the course, so don't miss out!

  • @ulyssesbaldomere8346
    @ulyssesbaldomere8346 3 года назад

    Thank you, Eileen. I really like your channel. Each one of your videos helps me with my cognitive health and helps me through my day.

  • @kevindaniellewhite2546
    @kevindaniellewhite2546 6 лет назад

    Lavendaire smells so good woman of joy and light thank you!!

  • @aliceinwonderland42020
    @aliceinwonderland42020 6 лет назад

    The word deadline gets a whole new meaning

  • @aliciatoporkova269
    @aliciatoporkova269 6 лет назад

    had to stop the video when you mentioned fear of success because i learned that about myself recently. after aknowledging this fear, i can let it go and move forward. thank you for being such an inspiration Aileen!!!!!

  • @isabellapattinson1437
    @isabellapattinson1437 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much for this video. This video is really helpful and quite common to everyone. Love you and love your channel.

  • @zamimahossain9482
    @zamimahossain9482 6 лет назад +1

    U r one of the most inspirational you tubers I have ever seen 💎

  • @reetsrituals4348
    @reetsrituals4348 6 лет назад

    Am just getting there with every lesson... I can see the change in me... I have already started to take small steps towards the things I always wanted to do.... am so thankful to you Aileen.... Thank you !

  • @beautifulmindpodcast
    @beautifulmindpodcast 6 лет назад

    I really struggle with fear of success. Its really scary. Your fear mind is always there. It never changes. The only thing that changes is your perception from fear to love. Thank u so much for this video. Sending u lots of love.♡♡♡♡♡

  • @jasminealiareads
    @jasminealiareads 6 лет назад +2

    Loved this video! I am actually progressing so much as this series goes on...I'm feeling myself grow closer and closer to my dream life:)

  • @Nadaa242
    @Nadaa242 6 лет назад

    grl! i love watching your vids !
    they give me such an incrediable power to keep working on achieving my dreams!

  • @joy2bmeee1
    @joy2bmeee1 6 лет назад

    Thank you for the insight and direction. I have a fear of failure AND a fear of success, and so much more to work on. 2018 is supposed to be the year of being uncomfortable for my continued growth according to my Artist of Life Workbook 2018 Goal AF. Thanks for pushing all of us to be better and live the lives we deserve!

  •  6 лет назад +1

    I really needed to hear this. I'm a massive procastinator when it comes to anything that may have some impact in my life, and I know that's beacuase I'm super scared of changes. At the same I want to grow and change towards my ideal self. I gotta work on that fear asap.

  • @shalup94
    @shalup94 6 лет назад

    It's amazing how you spoke about fear in such a positive way 😁

  • @wraithlight2898
    @wraithlight2898 6 лет назад +1

    Binge watching this entire series and it's got me so hyped to really dive into my personal goals! Thank you so much for your videos and I'm a big fan of these conversations ^_^

  • @ViviansCrafts
    @ViviansCrafts 6 лет назад +5

    Yes i've been looking forward to the next video for a while😆 thank you for everything, i'm really getting motivated to be my best self! As this year, after summer is my final high school year and i must do great because these grades will stay with me for the rest of my life😣

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  6 лет назад

      aw thank you & enjoy your summer!

  • @mariajosebianchi5
    @mariajosebianchi5 6 лет назад

    You're so great and we're all so blessed for having you in our lives! Your content is great, Aileen, keep up the great work, I know you'll reach that million subscribers you talk about in your vision exercise :)

  • @apriany
    @apriany 6 лет назад

    Thank you verrrrryy much for this session... growing and growing and more growth

  • @romaissach497
    @romaissach497 6 лет назад +1

    I love it ♥!! thank you Aileen ♥! it's exactly what I am looking for currently, and what you've said is exactly what's holding me back, I can't wait for the next video about taking actions.

  • @MsTaLaiah
    @MsTaLaiah 6 лет назад

    So true. Failure is our chance to learn. For me, it seems like you are presented with the SAME lesson until...you pass it, until you learn the lesson. I feel like I have the same strong personality in my family dynamic to live with and maybe the lesson is for me to learn my self worth and to carve my own path-like you said-without waiting for those ppl to change and help me in a certain way. I'm not on the other side yet so this is my current theory.

  • @Lumary
    @Lumary 6 лет назад

    Its also good to remember that everyone has his personal fears. So your fear might be non existent for someone else.So you can do it as well you only need the practice the other person already had. :)

  • @arielleabelon7847
    @arielleabelon7847 6 лет назад +1

    Love this!! Thanks Aileen. Your soothing voice and life lessons keep me sane 😊

  • @karensetchfield3495
    @karensetchfield3495 6 лет назад

    Such good advice, I have every one of those fears minus the last one.
    Thank you for this video.

  • @butterkeksgangster6685
    @butterkeksgangster6685 5 лет назад

    This is real high quality content. Thank you for this present!

    • @butterkeksgangster6685
      @butterkeksgangster6685 5 лет назад

      also thanks for showing your own struggles so openly (like in the painting of yourself)

  • @hmaki9783
    @hmaki9783 6 лет назад +1

    Your words always encourage me to take action

  • @kahofuruta1845
    @kahofuruta1845 6 лет назад +1

    You are always beautiful and radiant so encourage me in the bottom of my heart✨
    I am shifting mind to stay with people who I look up to and places where I feel comfortable like following my heart truly that is freedom and peaceful🍀

  • @harshabonde532
    @harshabonde532 6 лет назад

    Thank you, dear. Your videos are amazing. I learned so much from them.

  • @hichammecho9070
    @hichammecho9070 4 года назад +1

    This video is what I truly needed to start away thank uu so much ailein 😍😚😚😚😚😚

  • @jasminebedruz8789
    @jasminebedruz8789 5 лет назад

    Thanks Aileen, you always put me back on track. I love you and your videos!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bambi5102
    @bambi5102 5 лет назад

    you're so beautiful and kind... and i love your hair and makeup :) you're killing it girl

  • @me-zs7tr
    @me-zs7tr 3 года назад

    Failure is a learning experience, thank you

  • @feleesi
    @feleesi 6 лет назад

    yay it’s finally here! i’ve been looking forward to videos in this series now. definitely made things clearer for me & now i’m excited to see this to the end. thank you so much for this ❤️

  • @ambariv84
    @ambariv84 10 месяцев назад

    This video is so good. Just it alone has made me reevaluate and completely change my perspective and my way of handling my own personal fears :o I always found that talking about them with others was just useless, like an obsession: it made me feel relief and forget about them for a little while but then they just came back again.

    • @ambariv84
      @ambariv84 10 месяцев назад

      Especially the part of them indicating the things you really care about and that are important to you. You've made me realize how true that is

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  10 месяцев назад +1

      i'm glad it was helpful love 💜

  • @KimmiS.
    @KimmiS. 6 лет назад

    I love this episode😍 i totally need this right now as I am starting a new chapter next month seeing as I've finally decided to quit my job and create my dream life😍 watching your videos helped me a lot with this big decision so thank you so much, aileen!

  • @FERNANDAKT
    @FERNANDAKT 5 лет назад

    Dear Lavandaire. I am that 68 year old who wrote to you before. Every day I watch you. You amaze me. How can someone so young be so wise. I am really curious about your training. Where did you learn so much? Lots of love. May you always be surrounded with so much light.

  • @DrinkwaterMindurbznz
    @DrinkwaterMindurbznz 6 лет назад +2

    Best video ever 👏😆👏🤗
    It was really eye opening 😮 with plenty of food for thought. 🤔Thx!

  • @roua3846
    @roua3846 6 лет назад

    I love you so much! Literally so inspiring! I wish if you could turn this into podcasts so we can get to listen to them all the time! Whenever and wherever we are! ❤

  • @venugopalanvenu7201
    @venugopalanvenu7201 6 лет назад +2

    FEAR OF CHANGE !!
    THATS ME !!!

  • @camilleconcepcion2560
    @camilleconcepcion2560 6 лет назад

    This is gold. Thank you for this wonderful series Aileen! I guess I just need to repeat this every morning to internalize everything that you are saying. Thank you for sharing all of the things that you know

  • @katherynne8241
    @katherynne8241 6 лет назад +1

    I have been enjoying this series so far -- thank you!

  • @MarciaPze
    @MarciaPze 6 лет назад

    So excited! I just downloaded every single worksheet! Excited to write! Thanks Aileen! You're the best!

  • @winnonajane5240
    @winnonajane5240 6 лет назад

    Thank you once again Aileen! Keep spreading positivity and love! Sending love from Malaysia 💖💖💖🙌🙌🌻🌻

  • @lily-tes9958
    @lily-tes9958 6 лет назад

    am I the only one who think you are amazing, I love you and your videos.

  • @axleblaze9791
    @axleblaze9791 6 лет назад +3

    Now i realised Perfectionism holding me back☹
    No more perfectionism from now😤

  • @lichan02
    @lichan02 6 лет назад

    Thank you Aileen for everything that you do!!

  • @manjistharawat9144
    @manjistharawat9144 6 лет назад

    You are our 👼!!

  • @nikithagarapati2322
    @nikithagarapati2322 6 лет назад +1

    Love your dream life series! I'm glad I followed you Aileen!

  • @nurrachmahakim3468
    @nurrachmahakim3468 6 лет назад

    Thank you Aileen, you're the best! Love you. I really wanna see you for sure💙

  • @moseslewis7149
    @moseslewis7149 6 лет назад

    I luuuuvvvv the positivity!! Keep up the good work!! The bangs are gorgeous on you too!!😊

  • @afraaldarmaki52
    @afraaldarmaki52 6 лет назад

    Hey love,
    Can I also add that Family may influence decisions and futures. Also family may stop dreams and I am talking from experience. I have so much more to say; however, not everything can be said right now or in this moment.

  • @hillarycarol1115
    @hillarycarol1115 3 года назад

    I love your videos. I'm learning a lot from you. Your contents are super useful.❤️💕

  • @nurulpermatasuri6116
    @nurulpermatasuri6116 6 лет назад +2

    YASH, FINALLY💖 you're so amazing aileen. I love you so much💖

  • @Abcdfj127
    @Abcdfj127 6 лет назад

    thank u so much Aileen ❤❤😭
    u can't imagine how much I love your videos , always you are my inspiration
    lots of kisses from Saudi Arabia ❤😍

  • @mariaa109
    @mariaa109 6 лет назад +1

    I will never get tired of commenting how amazing every new video you make is! 💞
    I keep journaling all the time and it makes me feel as if I am meditating : )🌻💘
    You mentioned fear of others' opinions in this video and I would like to ask you if you have any videos or podcasts that you can recommend me (if it's not a burden 😂 ) that kind of dive deeper into this ? Like how to focus more on myself and stop putting others needs over mine..
    Last time I asked you about intuition and both podcasts you recommended were life changing for me!
    Keep posting such helpful and creative content! 💫⭐

  • @priyankag8453
    @priyankag8453 6 лет назад

    Your videos are really helpful..Thank you so much again...💕💕💕

  • @vihana3829
    @vihana3829 6 лет назад

    You read minds!! This video is awesome, soooo sooo helpful.... I can't express how happy i am!! Thnks for inspiring us daily, Aileen

  • @SR-ye5ye
    @SR-ye5ye 6 лет назад

    So great! Thank you Aileen ! I think it's very helpful ! I like your positiv energy that you bring in every videos :) it makes me smile

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao 6 лет назад +5

    So glad for this new episode! 💕

  • @elle5115
    @elle5115 6 лет назад

    I really have to binge watch ur vids!! I got busy lately and I have to catch up moreeee, wish me luck💕💕

  • @sumbaltasawwar
    @sumbaltasawwar 6 лет назад

    So true about the Fear of Success - you finally gave me the term to identify mine :P :D Now I can tackle it.

  • @s.v.4786
    @s.v.4786 6 лет назад

    Thanks Aileen! This episode is what I really needed to hear. I am very scared I won't be able to do a job I signed up to with my university next year and I realized I am just covered in fear even tho I am absolutely able to handle it! Thanks again, your job is amazing 🤗

  • @jhaz3333
    @jhaz3333 6 лет назад

    I love your videos soooo much. Always so beautiful. Wish it had more background music though.

  • @HG-en8ek
    @HG-en8ek 6 лет назад +4

    When ever I’m stressed I watch your videos 🌷

  • @MellowMathi
    @MellowMathi 6 лет назад

    Much needed video 😘❤ Fear is an important and also avoiding fear is more than important 😘😊...
    Love you Ailee💜

  • @sofija_theresa
    @sofija_theresa 6 лет назад +1

    You are SO MOTIVATIONAL I LOVE IT

  • @ahangmarai760
    @ahangmarai760 6 лет назад

    You are one of the most positive person🌼 with calming voice❤
    😍Love your video and your concept 🦄🌻

  • @daantjeyoutube698
    @daantjeyoutube698 6 лет назад

    You are the most inspiring person I know! I love this series❤️ I’m already looking forward for the next video 😊

  • @nnamfhon-7401
    @nnamfhon-7401 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video! It's really helpful for me. :)

  • @ashlyn9152
    @ashlyn9152 6 лет назад

    really helpful. you're rocking this hairstyle!!! love your current length of bangs(??) really suits you

  • @noorabbas3848
    @noorabbas3848 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much. Seriously. ❤️