In Ben's podcast episode on friendship, you gave this quote that I'll never forget, 'Friendships are like a long cord; don't be in a hurry to cut the cord but be in a hurry to tie knots.' This episode was an amazing continuation to that conversation and I'm so glad I listened in. Your mind is something else heh!
But seriously where have I been all this while. Just came across your channel today. Nyawira, I enjoy your content.. so wholesome. I here for it all. Be your be refreshed continually.
- Yup. Working to define our values helps us to create spaces that allow us to truly thrive. This is a powerful lesson to help us live meaningful lives. - I also really like how you discuss relationships with other people as active engagements instead of passive things that just "happen". Indeed, healthy adulting allows requires us to control and adjust the proximity and access that different people have to us. - Lastly, I loved how you framed this whole convo as an always evolving process.. I'm learning that in life, there are many things that ebb and flow, and so paying attention and learning to adjust as needed is paramount.
@@MsUnderstood sure thing! also, lol i had a (very nerdy🤓) related thought just now... the bacteria 🦠 which causes cholera disease is called vibrio cholerae. It usually lives in aquatic environments. There, it usually has certain "doors" or porins which allow nutrients etc. in and out. However, once it enters the human host, it closes those doors and opens separate ones that are restrictive to bile acids and other compounds in the small intestine that might be harmful to it.. so honestly the idea of changing boundaries and selectivity in different environments to keep us safe isn't just for us, lol! Anyway thanks again for this convo! :)
Boundaries are a very important way of loving yourself. Growing up I was not taught how to set boundaries and I still struggle with in. But everyone really does need them for one to have better relationships
I'm totally New here, but I already felt home by the 3rd minute of this video. This is amazing! The weeezdom ooozing over here is on another level 🔥🔥🔥💯 I like it 😊🤗💯
We okay. I needed this!!! Hello Mrs M💃. My greatest take home is: Boundaries are not selfish and Don't create boundaries after they have been broken 💯.
Great conversation Nyawira. I also think that we sometimes realize we need to set some boundaries after they have already been crossed. Things we didn't know can hurt us.
My podcast this week on Boundaries, podcasts.google.com/u/0/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5yZWRjaXJjbGUuY29tL2Q2MThlN2U3LTkwMDItNGQxNi04ZTkzLTFiZTE1MWMxNTg1NA/episode/NmI1NzRkMDYtOGEyNS00MzhiLWI0NTgtODJkYjBmODRlNTA5?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahcKEwjgp6DBoszwAhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQIQ&fbclid=IwAR1ZaB4KEGRRnYyAhdVG_IbKx337DYaqSTXT012Q_41WdlecpC66c9VELi8
Gosh gooooshhh....... I'm so happy to see yu nyash!! I'm learning to set boundaries..... It's been difficult to say NO to people in my life........... My friend jokes about it and tells me (I'm a people pleaser 😂
@Nyawira, Yaaay you finally back. congratulations Girl. I have learned alot from this episode, It was always hard for me personally to say my boundaries which in turn affects my mental health. Thank you so much girl. keep up with the wise words God bless you
We had really missed 😅 Thankyou for this episode atleast we have learnt that we need to communicate our boundaries and be clear about it Thankyou so much
Another podcast on SETTING BOUNDARIES podcasts.google.com/u/0/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5yZWRjaXJjbGUuY29tL2Q2MThlN2U3LTkwMDItNGQxNi04ZTkzLTFiZTE1MWMxNTg1NA/episode/NmI1NzRkMDYtOGEyNS00MzhiLWI0NTgtODJkYjBmODRlNTA5?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahcKEwjgp6DBoszwAhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQIQ&fbclid=IwAR1ZaB4KEGRRnYyAhdVG_IbKx337DYaqSTXT012Q_41WdlecpC66c9VELi8
Gosh gooooshhh....... I'm so happy to see yu nyash!! I'm learning to set boundaries..... It's been difficult to say NO to people in my life........... My friend jokes about it and tells me (I'm a people pleaser 😂
In Ben's podcast episode on friendship, you gave this quote that I'll never forget, 'Friendships are like a long cord; don't be in a hurry to cut the cord but be in a hurry to tie knots.' This episode was an amazing continuation to that conversation and I'm so glad I listened in. Your mind is something else heh!
You remember that illustration. Wow.!!! I'm glad.
Such a nice Reminder! Thanks for that😊
Great Episode nyash,wauuuuu now we are saying husband, makofi👏👏👏👏👏,congrats sana manze and am happy for you and moji.
It caught me by surprise. Hahaha
Love love this!!! "A boundary is not a closed door. A boundary means i can hear you, but i will regulate how close i can hear you!" Ooof!
I surely do not deserve your follow through. Thanks Esther. For always being relentlessly in my corner . ( See what i did there)
You are God sent in my life beautiful.You really speak to me.God bless
But seriously where have I been all this while. Just came across your channel today.
Nyawira, I enjoy your content.. so wholesome. I here for it all. Be your be refreshed continually.
Agreed, you cannot create boundaries that you haven't communicated. It cannot work.
I learnt this after fighting because of making them as we go. Nope!
- Yup. Working to define our values helps us to create spaces that allow us to truly thrive. This is a powerful lesson to help us live meaningful lives.
- I also really like how you discuss relationships with other people as active engagements instead of passive things that just "happen". Indeed, healthy adulting allows requires us to control and adjust the proximity and access that different people have to us.
- Lastly, I loved how you framed this whole convo as an always evolving process.. I'm learning that in life, there are many things that ebb and flow, and so paying attention and learning to adjust as needed is paramount.
This is such a detailed breakdown. Asante sana
@@MsUnderstood sure thing! also, lol i had a (very nerdy🤓) related thought just now... the bacteria 🦠 which causes cholera disease is called vibrio cholerae. It usually lives in aquatic environments. There, it usually has certain "doors" or porins which allow nutrients etc. in and out. However, once it enters the human host, it closes those doors and opens separate ones that are restrictive to bile acids and other compounds in the small intestine that might be harmful to it.. so honestly the idea of changing boundaries and selectivity in different environments to keep us safe isn't just for us, lol! Anyway thanks again for this convo! :)
Boundaries are a very important way of loving yourself. Growing up I was not taught how to set boundaries and I still struggle with in. But everyone really does need them for one to have better relationships
It's the video quality for me eeeeeish, it's just lovely
Thanks Sandra...
Wow on my birthday I learnt something,that I believe is going to of help the rest of my life..thank you so so much.
Happy birthday. I'm glad you came here
It has been long hapo Kwa my husband am Lost,... Congratulations girl
Nyyaasshh 🥰🥰🥳🥳glad you’re back...Love love love this conversation 💯💯💯
So happy to be back. Thanks for the love
This is so Informative. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for coming here.
Great and timeless content here Nyash ✨✨🤩🤩🤩🤩
I agree Nyawira.Learning how to say "NO" is veeeery liberating✊..ION, Congratulations 👰💍🎉🎉
Asante sana. 🥰🥰
Thanks so much Nyawira for this platform
Thanks for coming here
You must communicate your boundaries 👏👏we missed you Nyash
We surely must
I'm totally New here, but I already felt home by the 3rd minute of this video. This is amazing! The weeezdom ooozing over here is on another level 🔥🔥🔥💯
I like it 😊🤗💯
🙏
Welcome.
Yeeeey😃 finally...we missed you big... I'm so excited
So happy to be back. 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you Nyawira 💜... I really learnt so much
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾look who's back😍 thanks Nyash Communicate your boundaries
Drip queen. Asante
Great topic, am one of those people who are afraid to saying No to friends and family.Normalize saying No.Thank you Nyawira🤗
Karibu sana
Very profound especially on creating and communicating boundaries. Its a must put into practice.
Learn to communicate boundaries ...this was timely . Thanks ❤
Asante sana
We okay. I needed this!!!
Hello Mrs M💃.
My greatest take home is: Boundaries are not selfish and Don't create boundaries after they have been broken 💯.
you cannot create boundaries when theyve already been crossed...wow!!!
Cynthia you win!!!Every platform tuko pamoja!!!
Great conversation Nyawira. I also think that we sometimes realize we need to set some boundaries after they have already been crossed. Things we didn't know can hurt us.
Well put Ruth
I'm a psychologist and this is a much needed conversation especially to do with ones Mental health. Good stuff.
This is so affirming. Thank You so much.
My podcast this week on Boundaries, podcasts.google.com/u/0/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5yZWRjaXJjbGUuY29tL2Q2MThlN2U3LTkwMDItNGQxNi04ZTkzLTFiZTE1MWMxNTg1NA/episode/NmI1NzRkMDYtOGEyNS00MzhiLWI0NTgtODJkYjBmODRlNTA5?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahcKEwjgp6DBoszwAhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQIQ&fbclid=IwAR1ZaB4KEGRRnYyAhdVG_IbKx337DYaqSTXT012Q_41WdlecpC66c9VELi8
Good job Nyash. Loved the conversation. Boundaries are important, it is to protect yourself.
Gill!!! Thank missy
Boundaries! Great content,, welcome back Nyawira
Asante sana
Gosh gooooshhh....... I'm so happy to see yu nyash!! I'm learning to set boundaries..... It's been difficult to say NO to people in my life........... My friend jokes about it and tells me (I'm a people pleaser 😂
@Nyawira, Yaaay you finally back. congratulations Girl. I have learned alot from this episode, It was always hard for me personally to say my boundaries which in turn affects my mental health. Thank you so much girl. keep up with the wise words God bless you
Well done. Very well done. Production quality and content is up there.
Shout out to David of Psalms Media. Great Great team.
Timely, timely, timely. Thank you so much Nyawira for this video, boundaries are so important and they aren't a threat at all its me protecting me.
Bless you boo
Welcome back
Asante sana'
Good talk. I am one of the people who have countless not communicated my boundaries and get soo mad when they are crossed.
We are many...
Aiii madam si it's been a minute ,😊😊
Glad to see you back 💃
I will be here longer and more faithfully
From Ms to Mrs..... Yaaaaaay I'm so glad you are back
Hahahaha. I am glad to be back
I missed you.... welcome back and congratulations ;-)
Thank you for this video on boundaries
Thank yoi so much
Missed you too a lot..yeii miss understood is back
Yeiiii
I missed you and YESS!! This I needed to hear this. Ahsante. "Accept and Normalize saying No."
Yeeeees
I can honestly listen to you all-day....this episode hit me hard...thanks Nyawira
Hahaha You are good for me Cate
Welcome back Nyash, I missed you💕💕💕
Missed you too. Back like I never left.
being aware of ones values helps in creating and standing firm on ones boundaries.
That Value bit is such a task aki
We had really missed 😅 Thankyou for this episode atleast we have learnt that we need to communicate our boundaries and be clear about it
Thankyou so much
I am back🥰🥰🥰🥰 asante asante asante .
Waiting Nyawira missed you 😍
Missed you more.❤❤
@@MsUnderstood worth the wait, indeed boundaries are not selfish in any way..
Hey Nyash...you're so beautiful..we appreciate everything 💖
awwwww. Thank you
I had really missed these conversations...Glad to see you back!
sorry for the delay
Aki thanks dear 😊😊 wueeeee kumbe setting boundaries doesn't imply being selfish
Imagine it does not
Another podcast on SETTING BOUNDARIES podcasts.google.com/u/0/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5yZWRjaXJjbGUuY29tL2Q2MThlN2U3LTkwMDItNGQxNi04ZTkzLTFiZTE1MWMxNTg1NA/episode/NmI1NzRkMDYtOGEyNS00MzhiLWI0NTgtODJkYjBmODRlNTA5?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahcKEwjgp6DBoszwAhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQIQ&fbclid=IwAR1ZaB4KEGRRnYyAhdVG_IbKx337DYaqSTXT012Q_41WdlecpC66c9VELi8
So good to have you back ❤uugh don't do us like that again😩
No no more. Ata mimi niliwamiss...
Welcome back, loved this, such a good listen
Asante sana
Here for candid and uplifting conversations.😊
Me too Loise
Nyash, i have been waiting for these, acord with a Knot at different point!!
You remember that illustration ❤❤ so reassuring
@@MsUnderstood so well Nyash, love the lens thru which you se things. Nili some allot. Thanks.
And this so lovely... You do have a brilliant mind... GOD BLESS YOU... Do you journal by any chance??
Excessively
@@MsUnderstood maybe you can come up with content about Journaling if you don't mind... Would really appreciate thank you dear
Say say say say say no more
This is so profound ❤️💯
Thank you Mellisa
Mrs.Muhia, that was deep 👏👏
Mrs hahah still warming up to the title. Asante
@@MsUnderstood
😂😂😂😂😅 Karibu
I almost unsubscribed because I thought you were never coming back. Pheeeewww ! Glad you're back kairītu.
Thank God you did not. I will be more faithful and consistent .
Thank you aloooot for this💯
Karibu sana mama
Karibu sana mama
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I missed you😌😌Mrs Moji😉
I am back
Congratulations Nyash on your big move. We are so happy for you and wish u all the best the heavens can offer.
Asanye sana. Amen amen
Missed you Sana nyawira
Me more. Happy to be back
I had missed you Nyash ❤
I'm here now.
🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
❤❤❤❤
Looking forward 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My number one girl love you 😍
Communicating a boundary is not rude !!
WORD !!!
Wooooooord
good topic...the link of the book you said?
Iko hapo in the description. Its an amazing read
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Things dont go wrong . They start wrong
Yeeeeeeeeees
Yeeeeeeeeees
Can I volunteer to joining you for an episode? 🤗
Hahahaha fear no more
Gosh gooooshhh....... I'm so happy to see yu nyash!! I'm learning to set boundaries..... It's been difficult to say NO to people in my life........... My friend jokes about it and tells me (I'm a people pleaser 😂
Sigh. People pleasing can happen so easily. I hope this makes you more and more firm