Mindscape: Oscar-winning Actor Richard Dreyfuss on Living with Bipolar Disorder
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2015
- Chief of Staff John M. Oldham, MD, MS, talks with actor Richard Dreyfuss about his experience living with a diagnosis of bipolar disorder.
I've seen him in films and on the stage. He's a brilliant, inspired actor, and now realize what a brave, honest and bright man he is. Thank you, Richard for your courage. Inspiring!
Don't you just adore Richard Dreyfuss for his honesty?
Absolutely about his honesty. It is a wonder how he managed when he is a talented actor but it must have been difficult but he managed.
Carolin
YES!!🙏
I have always admired and adored him, such a smart man and great actor.
I love his acting. The very best. The school anecdote was very interesting.
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Richard Dreyfuss still has that charisma we saw in his movies. This has been a very interesting discussion.
I had it easier than Richard, sort of. I don't have a disorder, but suffered clinical depression. My Father was Bi-Polar and a Pathological Narcissist. His Gaslighting of me, and other abusive treatment of me, finally, and thankfully sent me to therapy. I have been close to suicide many times. But, I did the work. I've come out on the other side and I'm happier now than I've ever been in my life. You can win against your Demons. It takes work, but you can do it.
To Wool Tool, I share your history. Raised by a mother who had the mood swings ect. Her behavior was explained away as she was a Kentucky hillbilly who was very eccentric. When I was 12 all the moms came and took some of the girls away from my slumber party because of my mom. That was when I started looking at her not being like the other moms. My father was a workaholic who worked from 2pn to 12am or later. He wasn't there. She self medicated with beer hiding it by taking many baths a night. Hiding thecBurgie cans in the clothes hamper. No one knows how cruel she was to me. I remember feeling relieved when she passed. There are articles in Reader's Digest about "My Most Unforgettable Person I've Ever Known." It was my mother. There were some Incredible times we shared as well. I went to a nursing seminar about how to manage bi polar patients with medication. My sister and I are nurses. When the Psychiatrist used the analogy of " if you wake up in the middle of the night and your mother is waxing the floor multiple coats she may be bi polar! Oh my God, I have caught my mom on her 6th coat of wax and saying she was doing it so us kids wouldn't walk all over her wax!! In high 👠 too! As a kid who rarely went anywhere socially, I didn't realize how crazy this was! Now I also realize I am like a magnet to the mentally ill. From the wayI grew up I am very accepting of the peculiar habits with no judgment. It was just another day with my mom! I work with many doctors and nurses who take their librium and function better than I do so pleasee understand I am not speaking about them.. When I asked my mom what manic depression was as a teenager, she made it sound like Dr. JEYKELL/Mr. HYDE at their absolute worst!! Drooling scary people!! My dad and her fought all the time about her spending money like crazy all the time! She lived in thrift stores! Everybody knew her by her first name when we would walk in. I hated them! It is still a confusing love I feel about her. I forgive her . I think another factor for us "adult children of a mentally ill parent" , is to find a psychologist who can help you work to becoming the person , you were meant to be. Not the damaged uncertain person who doesn't love themselves like I was. It has been a journey my friend but I made it out from the darkness of Chronic Clinical Depression into the light. If something knocks me down these days I only allow myself 1 day of the "funk" foggy lay around in my pj's kind of day. The next day is new and bright and a new beginning! Isn't is great we made it out alive! In high school I would lay in my bed for hours scrunched up in a ball wishing and really praying for God to let me be swallowed up into death because my life was so awful. I had no hope. It was my secret life I never shared with anybody. That family secret ya just kept inside you. Today with 20 plus years of therapy,, it still is not easy and it will always take work on my inner voice. I think of it as a record on a player. When the inner voice starts beating me up I can change that record and love myself and see my reality is the true one. Not that inner record that told me awful lies. (I hope I am not giving you the idea that I am schizophrenic!) Everybody hears a little voice sometimes telling you right from wrong ect.! I try to keep positive thoughts on my inner voice or my "record" playing my top all time greatest top 40 hits like, I am worthy, I love myself finally after 40 yrs of not loving me, I am strong to have survived her, and I can change anything in my life and make life better! I will be loved , I am overflowing with love for others, I will have bad days but they will pass and life will get better,, and the number one hit is, " It is all there for the taking if I have the courage to trust myself! Today I do!
Hey buddy.... Guide me a bit my friend
@@siddharthrajan24 The only guidance I could or should give anyone is that it's possible to make the journey and come out on the other side. I'm not a professional, but finding a good one, the right one, is key. Listen to them, read, reflect. Know that the work is hard, but very worth it. Do the work and you CAN ease your own pain. Best of luck.
Amen..i have been there just like you..enjoying life now
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I love the internet, we wouldn't be able to see something like this 20 years ago.
Why not?
Dale Chawkins because it wouldn’t be available .
@@marcoaslan you couldn't watch stuff on the internet 20 yrs ago?
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Many thanks, I have been researching "how to get past social anxiety disorder" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my brother in law got amazing success with it.
This describes my husband. I always thought he had ADHD. But there's too many differences. He would never admit he isn't perfect though, or seek medical help. He doesn't believe he has a problem in the world. His speech races and grows in volume, some days he's all over the place, some days he's in bed half the day on the internet. And most days he says and does socially inappropriate things. He simply cannot help himself. We are getting divorced soon. He feels he can get someone much younger now, has very grandiose ideations. Which might be accurate except that his personality makes people cringe, and at 60, he looks like a 75 year old. I tried hard to get him help. He totally refused. It's admirable that Mr. Dreyfuss got help. There's something awesome about a man who realizes he's only human. And biology disorders are NO ONE'S FAULT. Love you Mr. Dreyfuss!
I feel your pain! I was in love and married 13 years to a bipolar who couldn’t ever admit there was anything wrong… he always maintained that everyone else was crazy. I loved him but couldn’t live with him or help him. The anger, cruelty, booze and womanizing broke my heart. So sad.
I come from a family with a lot of ADHD diagnoses, including myself. Your husband's behavior is not ADHD. ADHD creates a lot of problems for us and for those around us, but it is different problems. And we are usually well aware when we mess up yet again.
Your husband does sound like my late mil, who was finally diagnosed as bipolar in her mid 70s. I knew there was something off about her from the get go, but she and my fil were raised with the idea that mental illness was a serious stigma. FIL had depression, so he tried to stay in denial mode about her problems. And even after being diagnosed, she never admitted she was ill, so never really stuck to any sort of treatment.
Bipolar is very treatable, but only if the patient accepts they have it. If not, it is nightmare for everyone around them. You have my sympathy, and I am genuinely sorry you have to deal with this.
S Austin, could be something like histrionic personality disorder, mixed with bi-polar. Your husband sounds like he may have a cluster B personality disorder mixed in with the ups and downs of severe depression followed by manic states.
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I remain pissed off that my ex KNEW staying on lithium kept him stable. Our family was nuked by this and 4 kids suffered terribly because they knew which one was their real dad...an easy going and kind & good father. But again, he chose the mania over his family. He's now 70 and STILL, to this day, he chooses his illness over his kids (now in their 30's and 40's AND his grandchildren. Thank goodness I walked out when the two youngest kids were 12 and 14. It was the three of us in peace. If I chose to go down with him, I would've been a weakling and our daughters would've suffered all those years. I tried the "in sickness and health" path for two years. That was quite enough. He had a very delayed onset of bipolar. I married him as a wonderful man. It's very odd and rare to have bipolar come out at 45 years old. He was completely opposite for the 17 years we had been together. He was a very hard worker. Perhaps that saved him all those prior years. I can't work it out. Glad you got out. Some (most) can be so very toxic. Not my cup of tea.
How brave and selfless of him to come out with his truth. He will help others because of this.
I have nothing but love and admiration for every sufferer of this wicked disease. Please don't despair. Take it day by day🤗
Thank you! That matters to us.
@@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD anytime family God bless you and keep you
So sweet ♥️ A lot of us need this support
@@brianna094 my Godmother's son suffers from this disease. I've seen first hand the devastation it brings into one's life. I love each of you and respect you. May God bless you my sister.
Second by second ❤️
Bless this man for his raw transparency about mental health issues. You are so talented and intelligent...and this is very helpful for others that share your suffering. Thank you Richard.
It’s ironic that he played Dr. Leo Marvin in ‘What about Bob?’ which is a movie I love. He’s such a great actor and he’s brave to disclose his condition.
I'm sailing! Out on the water away from the dock and the shore. I'm a sailor. I sail! Ahoyyy!!!!
His character in that movie was narcissistic, with a very poor frustration tolerance; I suppose he was able to draw on his own personality a little to create the role.
Best movie ever! Sooooooo funny! 😂
Love love love this brilliant actor and his work, his humanity and humility.
Richard grew up in Hollywood and appeared in movies in his late teens. I’ve been a fan over 45 years, he’s so brave.
I like him too but "humility" isn't a word I would associate with him.
"I heard a little voice inside my head that said: 'Ricard, they're going to be studying your work in 200 years, so how bad can it be?'"
As a retired special education teacher, I want to thank Richard for his frankness. We all need to hear it.
It was so helpful to my students when I learned to refer to their brain and not their person.
"Knowing the difference between self hatred and humility" That really resonated with me. Wow. Love that.
Thanks so much for your comment. We're glad that you found something in the interview that resonates.
Fantastic interview! I was in an acting class with his son. He spoke highly of his dad.
I have so much respect for this guy. Both as an actor, but also as a human being.
"It wasn't me it was the structure." A simple sentence that holds so much meaning...kudos Richard
I believe we graduated from Beverly Hills High School in the same Class of 1965, Richard. While I didn’t know you personally, I knew of you. I grew up with a mother who was a Narcissistic personality, and most likely Bipolar, other mental issues, and very abusive. I wanted to be an actor and star in musicals, etc. However, I had no support from my family and knew no one who could help me, so I learned what I could and was in choral groups and in amateur plays, etc. I finally managed to graduate college, when I was 50, with a degree in music and teaching. I was a medical technologist in microbiology, which I also loved, and later a substitute teacher for elementary school through high school, with music when I could get jobs. As a child, I had a total mental breakdown, but recovered from that within a few months. Because of my mother, who I was always terrified of, I finally developed moderately severe depression and could no longer work from my early 60s on. I married twice and divorced twice, had no kids or siblings, so today, my family is my cat and me. I moved to Washington State to escape my Ex, who sent me nasty letters and tried to destroy my life, literally, when he could. At the time, I lived in Connecticut. I lived in New York and New Jersey also, but I was born in Los Angeles. My dad was a native New Yorker. My mother loved to move every year or two, trying to run away from life, but it never worked. Meds help me survive the depression and other problems of a woman in her mid-70s. I finally found unconditional love from my pets, but never from another human. I really enjoyed your wonderful acting and seeing you try and resolve living with a mental issue that is often ignored and mistaken for another condition. You have family and love in your life which, I’m pretty sure, helps you survive and be happier. Take care, and I wish you all the best. 💖😊
I feel you!
You climbed every mountain! Animals are the best teachers in the world. Their company I would choose over a human any day! Hat tip to you!
Your mom sucks !
May you feel the unconditional love of another human soul. Be well, Suzanne.
It's amazing how you can see by the comments who is a sufferer and who doesn't have a clue!
Craig Mackinnon , I don't suffer with it but lost a love one to it and have another close friend suffering with it so I try to educate myself to understand her cycles and maybe not take the worse of it too personal. Empathy is my goal.
I suffer alongside my father who has BP, he is currently in the hospital. I support him and help him as much as I am able. I don’t have a clue from experience but I listen to his thoughts which are a constant stream, sometimes so dreamy and interesting and other times very dark and delusional and scary. When he is stable again I am going to play this RUclips for him.
@@brendareed5050 Hi. I don' t where God gets his angels which you clearly are. I am bipolar 1 and I have people that stick with me . I don't know why....I always feel like a burden. But some people hang around and lift you up when you can't.
I'm clueless.
I have loved Richard Dreyfuss since 1977 when The Goodbye Girl came out, now I admire him too.
Thank u Mr. Dreyfuss. I can relate to everything you said. I was diagnosed at 14. Here I am 35 years later still fighting
🌺We are all in this together💕
💛Your fight is my encouragement🌻
@@liloleist5133 Yes. And the family members and friends, too.
My diagnosis got changed a year ago from major depression, with a side of anxiety and PTSD, to bi-polar 2, with a side of PTSD. Yeah. We battle on, Xena.
- Cathy (&, accidently, Steve), Ottawa/Bytown/Pimisi
His greatest curse was also his greatest gift . His quick mind was able to blow out great acting while spewing out increíble written dialogue with flair . Increíble . Amazing interview love this .
We do have the gift of the gab when manic, and sometimes when depressed, you can’t pay us a penny for our thoughts.
@@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Absolutely.
Richard Dryfess is a brilliant actor and great human being!
I worked with him on "Postcards from the Edge" written by Carrie Fisher (1990) He is magnificent. About school homework, in my lifetime....(lifetime) I have never done a homework assignment. Unreal. And..I never knew my teachers names nor cared. I hated school. I didn't drop out but I hated it. Thankfully I had a few great friends.
I have always admired your acting but now I admire you honesty and humanity.
After 69 years of very small ups & extreme downs, therapy, meds, and really everything else suffers know. It is a daily walk for me. I appreciate Richard Dreyfuss’s honesty. It’s comforting. It seems I’ve been in a maze most of my life and I’m still not there. I try to be in this now moment and trust God and my therapist to help me.
I hear you - I'm 61 and I finally found what actually works. After 23 years of psycho-therapy, I found "somatic experiencing" and NLP. Finally, something that works!!!
You are strong and beautiful!
Hearing all this is helpful. I’ve been struggling with self hatred all my life, and suicidal thoughts. Cheers to Richard for bearing his soul to the world.
I understand hon. Those of us who are different struggle
@@kirk1007 It is truth !!🙏
Look into panic disorder with a CBT therapist first. That is a very common disorder and easily resolved with therapy. Please give it a try and find a therapist you like.
@@gigisasz4580 I'm sorry Gigi, but your comment is a bit trite and incredibly simplistic and naïve. I have no wish to put you down in any way, so I am curious as to what motivated your comment. Are you a patient with mental health issues? Or are you someone who believes that you do/can treat mental illness? If so, I'm interested in your qualifications. Please tell me. I'm very interested. Not only as a psychiatric nurse, but also as a lifetime psychiatric *patient.*
For starters, @SoufFC did not say anything about having panic disorder and gave no indication that they even suffer from it. What they said was that they have dealt with "suicidal self-loathing" their entire life. There is a massive difference between self-loathing and panic disorder. The first condition could be anything from having major depressive disorder, or something as convoluted as being a victim of abuse, with seriously complicated overarching psych/social ramifications or a chemical imbalance *with or without* self-medicating with legal or illegal substances.
Lastly, no matter what @SoufFC *said,* there are no such thing as "easy resolutions" of *any* kind when dealing with mental health problems. It often has components requiring medications, psychological and/or psychiatric therapy, inpatient treatment and/or any of the above.
Gigi, I would like you to consider how irresponsible it is to give *anyone* the impression that mental health issues are simple and require only some "talk therapy" to "resolve" them, especially if you are not a foremost authority on the subject. Even "authorities" have many different opinions and very few can agree on one thing at a time about the same thing.
Most mental illnesses have no lasting resolutions and require a lifelong commitment to keep looking for ways to integrate it into each new life situation as they approach.
Did Mr. Dreyfuss say that he is "done improving himself?" Did he say that he only needed medications for a time and is now happily living out his life without them? No one is ever really finished with therapy. I myself have had the same therapist for 12 years and I don't know what I would do without her. And all this from a nurse who has spent her life constantly improving my skills as a psychiatric nurse. I'm never "finished learning" proper treatment of mental illness, any more than I am "finished learning" about myself as I relate to the world. Life changes. Challenges get harder because we are more able to apply what we've learned. They don't get easier because you "know everything and need no more education."
Life doesn't 'get easier.' Even if you are a person of faith; have you ever heard anyone say that G-d helped them when they were young, and don't need Him/Her/Them anymore?
Gigi, I hope that you can take this in the spirit in which it was intended. That I only seek to help others when they are in need of something that I have some experience with. That is all. I wish you good luck in all your future endeavors. Please respond to my questions if you so choose. I'm very interested to hear your thoughts!
Namaste! 🙏
Thank you Mr Dreyfus I have bipolar 1 and I am amazed at you being so brave to let the world know and not be ashamed.
When he says "I had no coping mechanism for anything negative happening to me" it's so comforting because I have this same issue. He perfectly articulates it in a way where my shame and guilt washes away and I don't feel defective and so broken. So much of what he says resonates.
I also always tried to turn the sad things in life into good ones. My sight , my loveless family. But without that bright person or the voice calling, it is just impossible now. It just all falls apart.
@@lauracoppa7293 hi mate, I hope you're feeling a little bit better despite all the craziness in the world atm. Hang in there mate, I'm cheering for you. ❤️
@@lauracoppa7293 just do what Richard did.. take some steps to at least sort it out and talk to someone you like with a current license. You are worth it! ☝️🙏
This is my husband at one time he was working with a doctor. She said he was between bi polar and narcissism. I think hes bi polar. He doesn’t down talk to me like a narcissist or hes more co vert. 2 0 something years. Man it’s exhausting. Is it needing to learning coping mechanisms or behaviors. He stopped going . So ir never finished. It happened again was negativity now maybe more manic. He got away from his negative work environment from stressy boss.
I Love Richard Dreyfuss. I think he played Manic Depressant in the movie "What About Bob?" Little did I know he really was Bi-Polar. God Bless Him. 🙏🏼
My ex had Asperger's . Now my adult son also, needs therapy and meds. So sad that we don't have answers sooner.❤️my sister was dying and said Tish , I think I was bi polar all along. She was air force, college, CPA, two sons, retired post office. Few years older than me. My best friend Ginger. 💞☮️ So glad people are learning their not alone. And NOONE IS PERFECT EXCEPT GOD! ONE OF OUR GREATEST ACTORS💟
Thank you, Richard Dreyfus. You’re special.
Great interview, the Dr. was able to ask the right questions and then get out of the way for the answers. Very respectful in his approach.
I like the way the doctor called it a faucet and that makes total sense. Finding out which part is low or off brings peace of mind. I have cystic fibrosis which causes neurotransmitters dopamine, gaba and NAC deficiencies and so the faucet needed adjustment. I also like how he says the structure is not his soul. That is exactly correct. I call it a vessel carrying my soul. CF in my structure not my soul or my spirit. Thank you for this video and your message will be amazing for many people. God bless you Richard! 🙏😍😘❤️
Wow, I had no idea he had manic-depressive disorder. Great that he’s being open about it.
The therapist voice is so soothing . Also what he is saying .
What has always impressed me about Richard Dreyfuss is the human warmth he brings to his roles. And most of all, what he has never latched onto: the child within the man.
Mr. Dreyfuss, I wish you well in life and good health
Once again, it is a privilege to see and hear the genius of Mr. Dreyfuss.
My admiration and respect for Richard Dreyfus has raised so far above what it used to be because he has the same thing I have and has used it to his advantage. There is no stigma
I feel the problem with a high is that when you return to normal, it feels like a low. I try to guard against both highs and lows. Normal is not exciting, but it is stable.
Oh Richard. If you only would know how gifted you are and how much you are loved. You are one of my favorite performers of all time. Take care of yourself and God bless…..❤️
I'm bipolar 1 and hearing Richard tell his story is great. I was diagnosed when I was 47 and it made me angry that so much of my life had already passed and I couldn't get those years back. When Richard said "I am myself inclusive of my medication" he's absolutely correct. I try not to be angry anymore. Instead, I remind myself that my medications allow me to be the "real" me. It's been 9 years since I started taking meds and I never miss a dose. Thank you Richard.
Bravo! I'm bp1 diagnosed after 25years bloody lost most things along the way.I take my meds overall better but carries its challenges...Its just all a challenge.
I was just diagnosed with BP 1 Mixed at age 51. I can identify with your anger and dismay at having lost so many years. I’m relieved to finally have the diagnosis and to finally feel better with meds, therapy, meditation, reading, and journaling.
I think we were born too soon. Hundreds of years ago you had to get pardoned by the establishment/church, then get lobotomized, then get electroshocks, then people thought shrinks went too far and started looking to smoke weed or strange concoctions, then (when that was made illegal by the establishment) brought in the pharmaceutical industry with drugs just like fixing the stomach, we are beginning to have doubts about their effectiveness, the mind is not a machine that needs plumbing but a bio garden that needs weeding and the right mix of plants, ponds, insects, etc. I really doubt meds are the way. The establishment is a bit too eager... greedy for me to believe that.
@@realhumanist71 granted that medication can help in very extreme cases. But medication is like a saw, it cuts off branch after branch of your personality. Sadness and melancholy can be part of who we are. Abraham Lincoln was extremely depressed in an age prior to antidepressants. It was his heightened level of sensitivity to slavery, injustice and loss of life that made him unique and highly ethical. Lincoln was a poet that truly felt the pain of his troops and the whip of the slaveowners. His remedy was his friends and family. In short, social media and antidepressants are a cheap substitute for keeping melancholy in check... we are in trouble in the modern age.
@@ricardomurillo5205 Hi. You said " But medication is like a saw, it cuts off branch after branch of your personality" Do you still experience it like that ?
Whoa, this comparison of the unvisible bridge..it made me cry. This man is truly incredible! Hats off Mr.Dreyfuss, you have all my admiration. Thank you for opening up with such a deep, beautiful message for others.
I had 2 friends who were extras in Lost in Yonkers. They were instructed not to stare at "the talent" meaning the principal leads,Mercedes Ruehl and Mr. Dreyfuss and to not speak to "the talent". But both girls were thrilled when Mr. Dreyfuss walked over to them and engaged them in conversation. He could not have been nicer or more down to earth and they were super impressed by "the talents " kindness to them. Dreyfuss is a class act any way you look at him. A supern actor and,perhaps most importantly,a nice man.
I have suffered from Bi Polar disorder all my life!! It's tough! Love Richard Dreyfuss!!!
That little voice in the head-I often hear it pulling me back and telling me I’m going to survive. It’s the part of me that remembers what happiness feels like, the part that’s young and strong and promises it will not abandon me. That voice is me. The voice in the black hole is not.
I know what you mean. It is kind of amazing.
I've always admired his acting. It's so nice to see public figures speak out about mental illness.
Dreyfuss is so brilliant and I didn't know he had a learning disability. Wow, I knew he had substance abuse problems a long time ago, but he really had some sad times too.
I am bipolar. Please, grab out for that hand. There is a lot of support out there. Please have hope. I was diagnosed with AIDS 35 years ago. I'm still alive. Anything is possible. I feel the same way about my meds as Richard does, both HIV and bipolar meds. I don't ever miss a dose.
When i was first diagnosed with this illness i was embarrasseed.It was because of what Mr.Dreyfuss was posting on RUclips and with the help of therapists i overcame the shame
Embarrassed and terrified
Love this guy to bits and one of the finest actors to grace the small screen
Rather the 'Silver Screen'. The small screen is the television.
This man is a movie star!
He was magnificent in JAWS and everything he did in movies.
He also graced the large screen; Jaws, A Beautiful Mind, etc.
Honey this guy is a MÀJOR MOVIE STAR. Check 0ut Jaws, American Graffiti. Close Encounters of the Third Kind ETC
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If anyone hasn't seen it, also check out "Mr. Holland's Opus"- what a movie. He is a high school music teacher who in a sense feels the role beneath him. He and the wonderful cast shine!!
I love anything with Richard Dreyfus. He is one of the best actors and smart as hell to boot. That’s pretty much our problem. Ignorance is bliss.
I am truly touched by this discussion. Love Richard Dreyfuss and never knew. My son was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and we are in the early stages of therapy and treatment. This was so helpful and so hopeful. Thank you.
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I hope he is doing well.
Your love will be his miracle.
I to have a brother, as part of are family , who was diag Schizophrenia however it was never really treated for bipolar. I believe schizophrenia is used a lot especially with paranoid delussions due to stressers exculating . As a nurse I seen it , heard it. He passed away from an unusual illness. However his son still alive and struggling with the diagnoses, is a bipolar and of course it’s schizoaffective .
At times he seems happier when he has those feelings of seeing the world in a magical way and when they medicate him , he spirals into a negative pathway . The pain of the reality of how he feels when he’s normal is not comfortable due to he was initially diagnosed at the age of two so prayers for him and your son.
Just please be careful with the meds.
WOW! AMAZING INTERVIEW. Thank you Richard Dreyfuss I know these feelings EXACTLY!
Dreyfuss's best role : the goodbye girl for which we won the academy award at only 30 years. but i think is underated in general
I love that movie and he was fantastic in it.
The Goodbye Girl is my favorite of his films as well, as it applied to me at the time.
It’s one of my favorites and I had a crush on Richard after watching that move.
My all-time favorite movie seen with two of my cousins. All three of us left the theater in love with his character and hopeful we would meet someone just like him. Many years ago. He was and is still my favorite actor. Thank you for this interview!
We have loved you for so long, Richard - and after your honest vulnerability here - even more so. God bless you.
Thank you Richard... This is so important 🙏
Brilliant actor, and I am happy he found his craft, and passion. Such an intriguing story. Thank you for sharing Mr. Dreyfuss. Compelling story and so kind that you help other’s, through your own experience. ♥️
I was very impressed with both Richard ( smart guy ) and the doctor. Thank you both for making this video. The doctor is an excellent listener and really seems to know this illness very well. I am bipolar.
My deep respect and admiration for this wonderful man and amazing actor. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻
Such a sensitive actor and person. I am not surprised to learn he’s bipolar.
This was brave.....I respect and admire Richard even more. I love his work, and I appreciate his willingness to fully expose himself to a role or to helping others. I was correct to respect this man all these years. I absolutely loved his energy. In spite of the issues.....his body of work is superb.
Thank you Richard for being so open
I always had doubts about myself although I was intelligent and strong and well liked. My life was wonderful until I turned 36 and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I lost my job and my wife. I’m now 57 and I cannot work and will always be alone. I exist because of my children. Medicine keeps me alive but it cannot make me happy. Bipolar disorder is hell for me. I love Mr. Dreyfus and am so glad he has been able to cope yet over 20% of those who have this disease are forced to live a bleak existence.
Yea, am finding it so hard.... Really needing help and lost interest in life
Well Richard focused on the work that he did and continues to do to continue to improve. Have faith in you. You are worth it!! If you are not able to have some sense of balance and joy in your life keep working at it until you do! You can do it with a little help if you keep trying.
Yep,similar path.I don't think there is a medication on the planet that can repair the damage.I've been treated for years and can honestly say I have never been "happy".I do know I'm volatile without the meds,so I trudge on.
When I was a freshman at Beverly Hills HS he was a senior. I remember him running down the locker lined hallways and being able to run fast enough in a way that he could run sideways up on the lockers themselves.
My mom soon sent me to boarding school because I ditched school more than I showed up.
But - I never forgot seeing him doing that sideway locker run-walking deal. He appeared utterly confident.
Interesting, thanks for info!
Great story, thanks!
I've always loved Richard & for him to bear his soul is fantastic.
Dylan said...dont let other people lay eggs in your head.
He’s brilliant.
I've met Richard Dreyfus and he was beyond sweet. He waved when he saw me and and my friend waiting in line. And he took time to talk despite a mile long line
Richard Dreyfuss, thank you for all the wonderful roles you played with such excellence. I am a big fan. It takes courage to step forth and share a problem you have faced. It is one that plagues so many; and by sharing, you are no doubt helping some to cope.
Wow. The difference between self-hatred and humility, very deep and meaningful insight. Humility opens the soul to Grace is how I heard that. Thank you so much for sharing yourself with us Richard. May God bless you.
Humilty makes you realize you have a problem that needs fixing... Humility is the mother of salvation, St. Bernard.
Very inspiring. Richard Dreyfuss is an absolute legend and listening to him break it down really puts things into perspective.
Much respect and love to Mr. Dreyfuss, and the many others, for overcoming great obstacles in life due to mental illness and bravely sharing their stories with us. I can only hope that the continued efforts of such people will chip away at the stigma that, unfortunately, is still very often attached to mental illness. Hats off to all of you & please keep up the good work.
It's a hard life, especially for us with limited insurance to obtain the right help . Lord knows I have fought the stigmatism and lack of acceptance .
I hope you can accept yourself first and foremost. That’s the most important type of acceptance.
@@picilocarnal it's a struggle.
Jeff, our medical system and insurance (in the USA) is horrible. I agree with you 100%.
Much respect Richard
Sharing that suffering I’ve loved your career ever since jaws an graffiti
This honesty you share is up there with your best work sir
I’ve suffered a long time with mental health issues an live well now an I’m empowered by it a lot
I still have rotten daze every now an then when for some how some way it’s triggered an I spiral with it mostly a 12 hr thing
AA an meds have helped an a deep spiritual awareness
A great interview. Love and respect from a person who tells people I was born with depression x
I have bipolar. I have had severe manic episodes. Those have been exhilarating, and also ultimately very disturbing and cosmic. I admire Richard a lot, and recognise the Roy Neary experience. I've been hospitalised four times, three via the police, and I've done the walking around in the street naked thing. In some ways those are the highlights of my life, but also they have done a lot of damage. I don't feel any stigma, but there are always lingering things. People might be distant, I might have trouble with work. I too had that anticipatory dread, and stopped doing homework as a teenager, more or less dropping out. That's an interesting thing I hadn't connected before. I have also had long depressions. I can't sum all of this up in a few sentences. I am stable now, with a lot of practical help, and meds.
Would you mind sharing what meds you use? I'm beginning to think I might be bipolar but psychiatric drugs scare the hell out of me because my body has had a ton of nerve damage and now reacts to things strangely
I am bipolar, but have struggled with depression and anxiety, more than the manic side. My highs terrify me. I have been hospitalized numerous times. I unsuccessfully tried to commit suicide at least 2x's, once i came pretty close. I have been on medication since I'm 23, now 65. I always took, and still take, my medication faithfully. I have what they call breakthrough episodes. Have remained out of the hospital since my divorce in 1992. I understand that dark, dark place all too well. Thank you Richard Dreyfus for sharing your story.
@@theresadandrea859 thank you for sharing yours, I'm 42 and just beginning to realize I might be bipolar
@@yodaguy6956 you might want to check out naturopath Peter Smith's channel "Better Mental Health with Natural Remedies," especially his videos on lithium orotate. He manages to control his bipolar w supplements.
I'll also link to an article on how lithium seems to show protective benefits to telomere length (suggesting that it's not just providing placebo effect). I don't have bipolar, but came across this info while researching lithium orotate for other purposes. I'm mentioning supplements because you expressed concern about pharmaceuticals, but if the supplements don't help, I hope you do give conventional medicine a chance, and get the relief you need.
www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/318658#Lithium-reduces-bipolar-related-aging
@@a.littleblue2890 awesome thank you I'll check that out
Thank you Richard. One of my absolute favorite actors of all time, and that was before I saw this. Now he’s just one of my favorite humans ever. Love this man. God bless him.
I had no idea that he has bipolar disorder. I do know that several of the great actors of our time have, in fact, suffered from bipolar disorder. The symptoms he talks about are so very identical to some of mine. What a tremendous man he is.
Oh my god I so relate to Richards amazing insights.. especially the shame associated with depression and my seeking for the right amphetamine type of drug to make me feel better. Euphoria flying 100 mph per hour. And feeling so alone, judged and cast aside all my 65 years of life.. After hearing what Richard is talking about has uplifted and inspired me better than 40 years of ineffective therapy
I could not love this more...Thank you! Richard Dreyfuss!
I have bipolar myself and his words explain things so well. It took abt 10yrs to get my meds right but now I feel so much better. If it were not for my faith and trust in God I know I would not be sitting here today. Although I still occasionally have an episode I hate when it happens, but remind myself this to shall pass. You just hang on for dear life and God will see you through it. I know I’ve had my bags packed for years now. I also know that will only happen when God wants it to happen. So everyone out there I can’t express this enough turn to Him. God sees each of us differently. I tell people God sees and knows our true selves not what the world tells us we are!!!! God Bless
I am sorry you are dealing with this - my son goes through the exact same thing.
Praise God sister! There is so much truth to this! He is working through you to share your testimony. I pray others that suffer with mental illnesses will come to know Him and find peace in Him.🙏
Thank you jelly for telling me your story I'm glad Richard Dreyfus could come out and tell his I will be 60 February 12th my father died when I was eight my mother when I was 16 depression runs in the family my mother had it bad I guess it was bipolar I have four older sisters one that took her life at my mother's grave so I've been out there on this roller coaster called life I've been married twice divorced once I have three beautiful children two grown one 16 year old daughter that is amazing my wife has moved out and the song You Don't Know What You Got Till It's Gone it's very true I feel like she took the wind out of my sale I was diagnosed with bipolar 3 years ago I always knew I had something wrong with me the DUI's and the drug programs I've been through and the AAS meetings that happened years ago I just wasn't labeled I'm depressed but I've got a psychiatrist I'm taking medication but it's really hard 26 years of marriage I married the boss's daughter my father-in-law's Greek great person I know a lot of people care for me just I feel so ashamed of the things I've done in my manic state and what I've said I don't know what all I've said but I've said a lot of crazy stuff you know what I mean I've trusted God all my life but right now I feel so far away from him I did so good for 23 years church every Sunday lived in the church now it's hard to go back because my wife will not stand with me in church I'm going to have to go up there and get back in there it's between me and God we got to work this out what do you think
@@wildbillluther Hello there, I’m sorry it took me a min to get back to you. I’m sorry that life has treated you this way. I have some little things that have helped me a long the way. I can say this works the best: don’t fight who you are instead embrace it. Sounds backward I know. But it works wonders. It’s easier said than done my friend. Just cuz can’t see the ailment doesn’t make it not real. Ppl will say hateful things to you and make you feel like dirt. Sometimes it’s just out of lack of understanding what is happening to you. Education abt bi-polar is a key part of embracing yourself and KNOWING YOURSELF WORTH. One person knows and will always love you is God. Now I’m not saying to use that as an excuse for nasty behavior. Matter of fact it gives God to show His glory through us His mighty and powerful strength through us. Remember nothing happens without His hands in it. He presents us with opportunities all the time. Either we make the right choice or not is up to us. Always pray for guidance. One thing I have learned without a doubt having bi-polar is a reallly hard thing to have. Not only does it feel and is hell on us it’s very hard on our loved ones that God gives us to help. That even took a while to sink in as well. There were days I felt as though I just wanted to end it all cuz I was constantly being told things about myself that I knew were not true. I would beg God to take me on those days. Even weeks at a time. There were some very important reasons I did not end it myself and hung on to God. Even if the connection between us was but a thread. In February 2023 will mark my 20th year of dealing with this illness. Thank God , He and He alone was healing me this whole time and I couldn’t see that clearly at the time. The Holy Spirit explained my whole physical and spiritual life to me and how and why things have played out in my life. That’s a whole other story.
I too was married and had been together with my husband 3 dating and 8yrs married. He was not the nice guy I thought he was. It was like as soon as he put the ring on my finger that day. He went to the dark side slowly. Well I wasn’t diagnosed until 2001. I didn’t know what was going on I had never even heard of bi-polar before. Well I was in and out of the hospital. Trying to get my meds right. I had to take months off at a time cuz frankly for a good bit I didn’t know my ass from a hole in the ground. Early on probably the first 2yrs of having it my husband grew to despise me. We never had children so we had the whole double income no kid thing happening. So when I was finally to by both doctors and my employer told me I couldn’t work anymore that’s when all hell broke loose. All in one day I lost my identity. I was sitting and crying and when he got home he didn’t even come all the way into the house asked what I was crying abt this time. So I told him what the doctors said. Without even skipping a beat he said :”well you’re worthless to me now. “ Shut the door and went to live with his mom. That’s just a tiny bit of the background.
Ok first off each of us (meaning all of humanity) we can do a lot of crazy things especially when we are not realizing it. So don’t beat yourself up to bad. We have all done it. We tend to do it a lot more than others. (Beating ourselves up I mean). I can honestly tell you this God sees us way different than what the world tells us we are. Trust me when I say waayyy different!!!
I’m not telling you in anyway is having bi-polar an excuse for bad behavior by any means . Cont.
@@wildbillluther cont. pt 2
We need to embrace the fact we are different. And there is nothing wrong with different. Look at all the great ppl throughout history that have had some sort or another “mental illness” which I prefer to say chemical imbalance. If it were not chemical than they couldn’t give us medication to help correct the imbalance. And there is nothing with that. Look at diabetes it’s an imbalance of your body and with proper diet and meds it can be kept under control. Same with our brain.
Now moving on to the Ex at church. You know what who gives a crap if she’s there cuz obviously I hope she goes not just to be seen out of vanity. As for your guy’s situation I don’t know where you are on your journey with Christ but He is the only one you need to be there for. Of course you are there to learn not of worldly things rather of spiritual things. No one else’s agendas should even enter your mind. Do they of course they do but fight against the distraction. The destruction’s are from satan wanting you to not pay attention to God. As you well know he’s really good at his job. Our #1 enemy is satan but our everything is God. Lean on Him all the time He’s got broad shoulders. I will tell you it is realllly hard but through His strength we can endure the crosses of life. Let His will become your will.
If you’re on any meds don’t go off of them unless your doc says otherwise. Even if you’re feeling better the meds are what are helping balance your system. But to stay healthy you need the meds even when you think they don’t . Do not be afraid to share anything with your docs. They are the ones that matter at this point. And you need to focus on yourself not out of arrogance more from a stand point of being well for yourself. The better you get people will see the strength God is giving to to overcome. Just hang on to God with white knuckles. It will take time to build your new life but day by day . There are days where it goes min by min then day by day.?when you draw close to God . With God on your side whom shall you fear. When you close your eyes picture what you heavenly home looks like.?
I hope this has helped.
I ALSO HAVE A BIPOLAR DISORDER AND ENJOYED SO MUCH THE TALK RICHARD DREYFUSS GAVE ON THE SUBJECT. I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED HIM AS AN ACTOR, AND WHAT A GREAT SPEAKER HE IS!! WOW!! THANK YOU EVER SO MUCH FOR THIS!!!
Are you in a manic state now because you wrote all in caps.
@@judithrandall4690
Humans expressing themselves in a heightened state of excitement aren't "manic" - they're just that: excited😃
@@judithrandall4690 Why don't you mind your own business?
Do you know or think you know something. It's wonderful for each person to know what is going on with them selves. I remember my diagnosis and was very pleased with myself for doing the reservation.
No necessarily- I’ve been dealing w/Bi-Polar Depression for 30 years
All caps strongly suggests what Judith Randall is asking
Thank you for working to de-stigmatize mental illness. Healing won't happen in darkness. Treatment provides the light to move forward.
What a lovely, special person.
Mania doesn’t always feel good. I’ve had dysphoric mania, and it’s miserable.
Birdsong yes. And when you have a mania episode and the depression in, it is really horrible
What's dysphoric manua
@@nativechique7589 having symptoms of depression and mania at the same time.
@@bazuka473 Hell on earth.
@@zeldasmith6154 that's the only way to sum it up Been there..plus psychosis in the mix.
I have been diagnosed with Bipolar-disorder 1 and I am experiencing the same as Richard. My mind swirls so much that I can't write down anything. It's so mentally hard. And I have this grandiosity and confidence that I am so important.
Hang in there! Get some therapy and some meds. Praying that you find some peace
@@Beth-sn9ip thank you for your comment and honestly I was able to find my peace. 🥰
You are important. And I have bipolar..... grandiose is tough but you too should believe in a good future
@@justjud333 hey, how did you manage it? :)
I have such admiration and respect for Richard. He is a very likable and wonderful guy! 👍
Sounds like he has a very high IQ. And definitely a huge sense of self-awareness.
Sounds like a narrsasitic condescending jerk with very high respect for himself. But hey, he made it to the big screen. He's a great actor being able to control his behavior while honing his skill.
@@montamiddleton9318 please stop armchair diagnosing. This was not a psychiatric diagnostic evaluation for me, a trained clinician and diagnostician NOR YOU an untrained lay person. You have zero right to try to diagnose someone who is clearly presenting a calm successful approach to getting help. For your information a Narcissist would never do such a giving and honest video to help others in the first, second or third place. So just stop and go get the help you may need for jumping to conclusions with zero skills. Go enter a Psychology program and once you have years of success under your belt, then you will be a changed person for the better if you can become successful at it and you will then realize you do not have the right to diagnose professionally online on a brief video until then!
@@gigisasz4580 You are so right. Thank you very much.
@@gigisasz4580 Well said, Gigi. But I'd like to know, where did you see that I was diagnosing him? You clearly didn't read my comment correctly. Also listen to the interview again. Since you are highly trained in your field you may pick up on the tone of his voice. He's talking to the host like a child. FYI. There are many character tells of a narcissist. As far as being a condescending jerk that's most narcissist, is it not, Gigi? No where did I diagnose him or put a label of mental illness anywhere in my comment. But you sure did. Is it your right to diagnose someone who isn't a patient? If sounding like a narcissist condescending jerk is considered a diagnose, it won't hold up in court. I said "sounds like". Just making an observation. One more thing. You don't know me, how do you know what career I was in? Gigi, you have no right to assume what degrees I have. That's condescending. But it "sounds like" you need to get laid. My diagnose. Frustrated!!
@@montamiddleton9318 and you base your derogatory diagnosis on your many years as a licensed clinician? Is "jerk" a medical term?
thank you Richard Dreyfuss and Dr John Oldham
Let's hear it for the Doctor. Kind, empathetic, encouraging, reassuring, no arrogance or swagger, a clear interest in helping others ... too bad these aren't official requirements for getting an M.D.
Amen, Kevin. The ones I have seen have egos larger than their competence.
Richard Dreyfuss is a celeb.
I agree
What bravery….I always liked him in film but as a person, he’s extraordinary. What courage, what absolute candor.
Hi Richard. I understood every word you said. With the exception of the pieces you brought to a visual realization for me. I’ve always been very visual. As a child and young adult I had a terrible stutter. So speaking in class was out of the question, unless I had to. Then I was in hell. I brought school books home every night and never opened one. If I heard a story and could visualize that story in my mind, I had it for life. I love books on tape. If I tried to read my mind would skitter somewhere else. Kind of the same as you just a little bit different.
Anyway, you touched my heart and validated some specific tendencies I had and have still. I’m 68. I’ve almost won my war. But I’m not ashamed or afraid to speak about this now. It does still frighten others and the weakness card still gets thrown at me. Screw them.
Sending you my hug. K. Cincinnati
Man that’s healthy stuff. Thanks so much for this!
BEAUTIFUL SOUL 💛 he's so articulate with vivid picturesque words. I only have heard his name because he was an actor, but I don't watch movies. But the real raw authentic Richard is by far the best person, better than any character role.
There are many who have this disorder. I know personally many. Thankyou for this wonderful interview. This is a very frustrating for those who deal with it. 💞
it's heartening to me that one of my favorite actors can actually speak without a script...good interview
He's a great actor. My son loves him!
So many parts I’m so identical from the same age but I’ve had two TBI incidents it’s crazy I’m glad I found this video thank you Richard possibly save my life
So i was watching clips of Goodbye Girl and followed the links to this. So glad i did. This guy is just wonderful. Loved the interview, it was heartwarming and enlightening.
What a great discussion! I felt my heart connect❤️
Thank you, Dr. Oldham and Richard. Your messages of resilience speaks volumes!