Sherri Shepherd Has Candid Conversation About Her Multiple Divorces
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I just love Sherri’s attitude and bright smile despite all she’s been through.
Yup, I learned my lesson. The moment I acquired my own stuff, my own money, my own career, I started having that pre-nup conversation in every serious relationship.
A lot of religious men will claim that a pre-nup is automatic grounds for annulment because it means you are intending to walk away or planning for it from Day 1. The moment they said that, I’d say ‘okay, I respect that… but given that perspective, and the fact that you have ZERO assets, there’s no future for us’
Two of my clients (women) told me, to get a prenup.
They said: it doesn't matter, if I had a chicken coop.
Have a prenup.
My first client said: Two hours before her wedding day.
Her husband had a prenup.
She signed it.
Twenty something in her marriage, he was having an affair.
When she found out...
That prenup she signed change, when she found out about the affair.
Thank you Sherri for sharing!
Prayers for you, in whatever your hearts desire!
Thank you, Sherri. I needed to hear that prenup part. When you explain how you literally lost everything you worked for, it makes a person think "OK...maybe I should have one."
This was a great interview. Love Sherri’s sincerity and honesty. I believe she is in a better place in her life and has learned many lessons along her journey. The best is happening for Sherri and her Son. Beautiful Blessings. Exceptional communication skills Jemele ❤
Sherri is very intelligent and is giving such good advice to other women and men. She is a practical woman and smart to protect herself and her families future.
Excellent advice Sherri! I've never been married but there's NO WAY I'd get married without a prenuptial agreement.
I love Sherri! She didn’t deserve to go through such difficult divorces. Wish her all the best in the future.
Absolutely and hopefully a healthy long lasting love affair will be the end result
She didn't deserve it but it was needed for her growth. She has now moved up and grown up that she has her own show.
She chose those men though. Cnt get away from that
@@snsn7251 exactly. We don't know what went on in that relationship enough to say she or he "didn't deserve" whatever happened.
She should’ve gotten a prenup
Thank you Sherri for sharing your life experience. It definitely helps to understand about prenups.
She’s grown. I am happy for her. She knows what she wants.
Whew! At 33, I feel fully content in my decision to not get married.
Wishing the best for all of you that decide to walk that journey.
Are you saying at 33 that you decided that you weren't getting married?
Don't let THEIR bad marriage stop you from possibly meeting 1 of the best mates to be married to. Just might be better than what you expected. IJS
At 33?! Girl thats still young wtf
She has no choice. The man she wants doesn't want to marry HER
Its funny Sherri Shepherd said that the man she dates has to have his stuff together, but she was coming at Eboni K Williams Because she said she don't want to date the bus driver but she wanted to date the man that owns the bus! When women are highly intelligent have it going on and she's a boss in her own right, confident High self-esteem no-nonsense and people expect her to date below her! That is stupid as hell!
That narrative is for black women. We are taught to get any man even one below our personal level. Because there is nothing wrong with being a bus driver. But let Roc the garbage man get with his teacher wife. A lawyer needs to be with a man equal or more than her. For obvious reasons
Stupid As HELL FOREAL, FOREAL!! I love Sherri Sheppard! She is like a daughter to me!!!! She & Kym I ❤ those young ladies!
Sherri again, was using her skills as a comedian and entertainer when she said that. Clearly she is not a relationship expert, so her comments shouldn't be taken literally.
As a famllaw attorney I love Sherri and her amazing point of view on pre-nuptial agreements.
Good for Sherri. She is happy and content with her life being single at the moment. Awesome!!
Please see other interviews where Sherri explains her headspace when she married her second husband. She just thought she would get married just because it was time. She wasnt emotionally ready to marry her second husband. LADIES PLEASE HEAL BEFORE ENTERING INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP. Know what you want before getting the relationship. You could tell thru her second husband energy that he was on it for the fame of Sherri.
The second guy used Sheri. He pushed for a baby. Now she is paying child support for the kid
Probably because he knew it was the only way to get money out of her
@@debbiedoodiedandi Correct. He signed a pre-nup for $100K and he wanted more.
He pretended he wanted a child all the while he only wanted the child so he could divorce Sherri and sue for custody and child support.
@@ericmckinney4607 yup and she pays him a lot of money each month. He doesn't work. Lives off her money. So he is living off her for the next 18 years
Yeah he was a scrub. I personally thought he was gay too. I wonder how the child is doing. Hopefully he's good to the child because he only wanted the child for money. Shameful actually.
@@aqueenceereid4249 yup he did look gay to me as well. Something always seemed off with him. Neacy Nash introduced them. Probably spelled her name wrong. Some women be so desperate for man, they settle. I'm sure she noticed red flags
Sherri is such a sweetheart who is brutally honest!
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...Got'ta love her!
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I love Sherri...Great Advice to follow if I marry again. Pre-nups use to be offensive, now it's necessary.🥰🥰🥰
This is real talk here! At first I wasn't a fan of Sherri only b/c of that 2nd divorce she went thru & leaving that surrogate that she & 2nd husband were having the baby with high and dry. But then I realized that 2nd husband of hers is a BUM!! And I believe now he set her up. She has a good heart and she's just out here like the rest of us trying to make it (with a sense of humor about it).
I’m still not a fan of sherries only because she left that child, that she agreed to have with a surrogate, without a mother.
I'm secure with myself and looking for a wife. I'll sign a prenup!
She was listening to Niecy Nash who couldn't figure out her own sexuality. Nicey had a show about marrying her second husband, she showered her "suitcase" man with a new truck, moved him into her mansion than divorced him to marry a woman; how crazy is that a menopausal woman didn't know she was gay or bisexual until having hot flashes!
@@lmac5902 😅😅😅
@@lmac5902 yeah that was wild, I believe she knew she was bi-sexual she was afraid if she came out earlier in her career it would ruin her.
I love Sherri. You are right, sometimes we are already pre-planning, the engagement, the wedding, etc. Honestly, it take years to get to truly know someone. Also, pay attention to red flags 🚩. If it doesn’t work, move on.
I am soooo happy for Sherrie! Kudos & good luck.
I love Sherri soo much, she is loving, funny, respectful, smart, and beautiful, such a wonderful package!!!
Stay in this great place Sherri, u have learned from ur mistakes and have turned it into personal joy!!!❤️❤️❤️
We love Sherrie and she deserves a GOOD MAN!!❤❤
Whoopi Goldberg warned her about remarrying and did it anyways
We live and thank God wisdom kicks in and we learn!
@@georgiaturk4233 True, some people never learn
So did Barbara Walters. She didn't like the second husband.
This is such a great interview. Sherri is so authentic and real. I really appreciate this sage and wise advice. Amazing food for thought. Thank you ladies. 💖🙏🏾💖
My wife and I got married straight out of high school. I can't imagine mentioning a prenup at that age. 17 years later we're still married having fun along the way.
You all didn’t have anything so it makes no sense to get a prenup as teenagers who prob own nothing.
Same with me and my husband we've been together for 20years and married for 12years with 4children..I couldn't see a preniup either smh🤦🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️ and we are teenager lovers too
Good for YOU!!!
Teenagers don't have anything at that age so they don't even think abt prenup 😅
Praise GOD!
I love Sherri and it's beautiful to see how mature and well spoken she has become. Before she'd say things that just came across as loud and silly. But she is very smart and can be funny without sounding unintelligent.
I have a lot of single, high income women clients around the country and I will be sharing this clip with them immediately! Great interview!!
Love that. I think maturity is very slept on also. When you mature you become more secure. You’re much more honest with yourself and others to the point where you really don’t need to be with someone.
Great advice; she's so relatable! Honest and candid about everything. Love the space she's in! For me ; think about yourself, children if you've them. Protect your assets and be smart. Another word ; don't be a fool for love or marriage!
Everybody plays the fool sometimes in life!
Sherri was very mature, professional and honest despite the low key shade that seemed to come from the interviewer…
Great interview!!! Yes, divorce is very hard emotionally and all other areas. No one ever plans to be divorced, but please yes, protect yourselves.
Divorced once. Never marry again. Staying single and peaceful.
Sherri is so fun and fabulous!! I hope she meets love one day!! I hope I meet love one day😂😂😂 it's hard out here!!!😂
Sherri has emotionally matured as far as love goes. She knows what are boundaries are now!
She didn't learn after losing everything; oh please!
I went to school with her first husband in Boston...doesn't surprise me she ended up paying him, loosing everything. Was looking for fame & sugar momma back then.
Where can you watch the full interview?
Sherri's been through some experience in her marriages, yet she made it through it all.
Great interview! I hit the like and subscribed 🤗
I've been married twice, it's not marriage or divorce it's choices.
She is in a GREAT season and have evolved. YES SHERRI!!
Sherri you looking marvelous girl! 🥰
Good interview
Sherri, Thank you for your transparency.
Mickey Rooney😂
Can we watch this full episode or is it only for listening?
This was good. I appreciate her perspective.
The only thing that's beautiful about a marriage is the ceremony!!! The reality of marriage is hard work, compromising, respect!!!
i hear you Sherri
Thank you for this message.
Married1, not interested ever again to marry. These days ppl are werid an change in the blink of sn eye......men these days want soooo much but come with very little or nothing at all nah single im good
This right here.
Love love love Sherri!!!
Jemele has some GREAT content/guests. I would love to see her do more sit down interviews like Shannon Sharpe is currently doing. Jemele is a great interviewer. She allows the guest to fully explain themselves.
Jemele is a great interviewer . She knows how to put her guest at ease and open to dialogue.
I’ve followed her journalist career , even young , she keeps her questions respectful & no judgement zone. Plus she can go from , these personal type interviews to deep political content national & international .. sharp woman. Shannon Sharpe is still learnings his way. He does well with athletes, ( sometimes) but he’s becoming more engaging and asking questions from an observatory perspective . But the networks seem to be “bent “ on him sensationalizing & hyping up the dysfunction of many artist /guest ..
this interview was excellent👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾its great to see growth & paying attention to red flags & not attracting people that play out your fantasy.
I’m always curious, why do you want things that the other person had before you were with them or got married to them. Why do you want someone else’s stuff
To hurt the other person, to have some kind of control, to feel like you "won"... To be petty... Not any good reason, but there are reasons
Greeeeeeed.
Jemele is a WONDERFUL interviewer!
I love Sherri 😍
Ur make up looks great Sherri.....ya prenup, strong woman you are....most men DONT WANT TO BE WITH STRONG WOMEN
AMAZING Conversation
I was just telling a friend about this very subject! A prenuptial contract is like a Life Insurance policy, Medical Insurance, Car Insurance policy, Rental Insurance, Home Owner's Insurance and Flood Insurance.
If you both are not evenly yoked in love and assets, then you are just a magnet for gold diggers! It does work both ways, though! Pre-nup! 🤔
Nashville! I didn't know my baby momma lives here...Time to get that line up😂
God Bless You Both. Sherri you are Still Young. Beautiful an Talented. Please don't let the Sting an Issues of your former Ex SPOUSES close the door on Whom God Really has waiting for you. The Right man will come with his own security an provide an join with you. Even if you desire to sign a Prenup for your own Peace of Mind the Right Man would not care because he knows what you have been through. Please Consider Being alone is a Cold an Lonely Experience. Just My Thoughts but Whatever Brings You Peace an Happiness WE are here for you. God Bless. Love an Huggs.
Sheri looks great! Good luck to her
Great conversation with Sherri⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Amen, Sherri, Amen!!!
Sherri's perspective on dating seems similar to Eboni K. Williams' perspective. It doesn't sound like Sherri would date a bus driver, either. So, why didn't she say that on her show?
I know that’s right Sherri!!! I’m content!
Thank you Sherri...I feel exactly the same way..dating yes..MARRIAGE...nope...I don't wanna work that hard any more 😜🤣
Sherry loved your advice be yourself because you are 😊
Wonderful advice, people only question when a woman wants to protect her assets but never when men do, the patriarchy is real❤
Protect Yourselves❤
Love you sherry.your personality is amazing.that smile is smashing.for you Togo through all of that. Yet you are so bubbly not a dull moment.
Truth Sherri Shepard.
Cool interview . Sheri is so cool. She's a developed artist and human being.
Omg, the MJ situation had me laughing, I been there before on a date talking about my favorite basketball player (we were talking about 🏀) unbelievable I wished I never mentioned it 😂
A pre-nup is a contract marriage. Marriage is equal. Anything that is equal is the same.
I appreciate Sherri respecting that some men prefer a low key lifestyle. Celebrity is not for everybody and its perfectly ok; they are not weak Jemele! Sherri, keep putting your wish out in the universe and he will come!
Great interview but she said a woman should get a prenup but left out a man should ask for one as well!!!
True, yet a prenuptial agreement should protect the interests of both parties.🦋
Most likely the men are ones who ask for a prenup especially if he has more to lose, there are some women who lead with their hearts and not their brain when they are in love, that’s why Sheri is looking out for the ladies except for Kandi Burrus Tucker she wasn’t Walking down that aisle until Todd, sign those papers
I think she was speaking from her perspective, as people tend to do. Just like I hear rich men telling other rich men to do the same... but leave out women.
So many of Sherri's peers were in the same boat...very successful celeb women who married men who made much less. So many of them ended in divorce. (Jill Scott, Mary J, Niecy Nash, I could go on.) I can imagine there are lots of convos about this when these ladies get together.
Successful people (men and women) have a lot to lose, but I think she was speaking for women because she is a women. Not because she doesn't think men need one too. Just my 2 cents.
I think men are now putting everything on their momma's name lol.
@Lovelivelife yeah, but Kandi still played herself. She said everything that is earned during the marriage they can split or he can have. Todd made sure he opened up so many different businesses, restaurants, etc, with her money and his name on them..Had 2 kids with her. He set himself up for life if they split up. So, even with the prenuptial, he's coming out ahead and paid.
For all you have been through ,you did come out a winner,just look at you now ,
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Love Sheri🙏🏾❤️
Men been going through this….
I remember working w a older lady. She told me her first marriage ended, and they argued about who would get the food in the freezer. 😯
Wow😮
I think if you're both coming in at same level asset wise, then prenup isn't neccessary (i.e. hs or college sweethearts) but if you marry later in life or KNOW you have more than the person you're marrying then prenup is definitely neccessary
It's amazing how church folks pick and choose when faith is necessary how about we just say stop listening to the church and handle your business
Cheap to get married, expensive to get divorced. It's a business.
Love Sherri. She's such a light. 🌟 ❤
I want to hear the other side
Not just women, this is advice for men as well. I don't understand the proclivity to only advise "women" to protect their assets. But I'll take any explanation someone wants to give.
I am so tired of the dating question when l see her interviews. So many other question about her career come ups!
Prenup and ladies… keep a job or get your education before marriage. Everyone talks traditional roles BUT tradition will leave a woman impoverished if you choose to not work or not have earning skills. I’ve lived it and I’ve seen it. Married 26 years and that man drove me to bankruptcy and almost homeless. Nope. And people say pick wisely. Well….it’s the fact that a person can be some way and can change. Keep you credit separate. Ladies ladies marriage is not the safe haven or the financial covering it may have been years ago.
Why are the dudes that say they have a specific issue "weak"? A man cant understand his ego and make an adult decision not to put himself in situations that he wouldn't be comfortable in?
Good for you Sherri!
Jeffrey is Sheri first husband son
I wouldn't care if JESUS came down from the heavens to propose to ME!!! While angels played violins and white doves sang loves!!! We would have a PRENUP!!!! PERIOD!!!!
Say it, Angela Harris!!!!!!
You are hilarious 😂😅😅🤣🤣
Please people listen to the young lady. I wish that I knew more than I did. I married a monster at a very young age. I couldn't ever escape from this monster. Trust no one 💯
I Love 💕 me some Sherry😂😂
Love Sherri! But she should’ve never dated or still be considering under accomplished men who make significantly less money. Anybody can own a business, but is it highly and consistently profitable. Despite a prenup, she’s still largely paying for her second divorce. To be in your 40s-50+ and even considering or pursuing 30 something men, isn’t the best move. Demi and Ashton, Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence, Whitney and Bobby, Mariah and Nick, etc., have proven that. When you’re a big celeb or have influencer status anyone will want to date or be in your circles, attracting men in that manner is very easy. But, finding loyal and straight, drug-free, wise, emotionally sane and high earning men is very challenging in LA / Hollywood. I’m hoping an established older man with similar Christian views will seek her out.
Amen❤
Also J.Hill know what you speaking on when it comes to this.Cause you will be leading ppl to hell,like others before you.Thats why Sherri in this situation now.
Stop dating down black women.
He better own the bus.
Who would want to talk to someone expecting to be cheerful and happy all the time. She makes me sick.
Ladies. Guys. Cats. Dogs. Get a prenup.