My Q & A with Paige Hyland!

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  • @carolinewatson
    @carolinewatson 7 месяцев назад +4019

    The day Chloe and Melissa do a Q&A is the day the fandom goes insane.

  • @katiehalligan2296
    @katiehalligan2296 7 месяцев назад +1902

    Paige really is the spitting image of Kelly! Thank you for doing these, Melissa, they’ve been so fun!

    • @kristiwasserman2303
      @kristiwasserman2303 7 месяцев назад +36

      I think that’s why Abby didn’t like her. Even as a kid it was a young Kelly

    • @goobletygook94822
      @goobletygook94822 7 месяцев назад

      That's what I was coming here to say!

    • @Boringlife2024
      @Boringlife2024 7 месяцев назад +13

      Paige really does look and sound like kelly wow :) ...

    • @themousefiles
      @themousefiles 7 месяцев назад +6

      She is a Kelly mini. I love it.

    • @fairykelsie
      @fairykelsie 6 месяцев назад +3

      She sounds like her too!!

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditor 7 месяцев назад +1754

    And btw Paige reminds me EXACTLY of Kelly. Not just her mannerisms but her voice, and her looks too. Beautiful young woman ❤️ ♥️ 💖

    • @ichimarutetsu
      @ichimarutetsu 7 месяцев назад +36

      A spitting image!!

    • @MelissaGisoni13
      @MelissaGisoni13  7 месяцев назад +154

      Me too!! She’s just like her! ❤

    • @aubreemcclennen92
      @aubreemcclennen92 7 месяцев назад +12

      ​@@MelissaGisoni13Hello Melissa 👋👋 and as Kelly would say "Paigey Mack"

    • @aubreemcclennen92
      @aubreemcclennen92 7 месяцев назад +11

      She is absolutely gorgeous OMG and looks and sounds like Kelly. Mannerisms. 🎉🎉 Love it. 💕💕

    • @ilovesummersomuchh
      @ilovesummersomuchh 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@MelissaGisoni13YOU SHOULD DO ONE WITH CHLOE

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditor 7 месяцев назад +870

    I've always said that I found your relationship with Brooke and Paige really heartwarming. No matter the fights w u and the other moms u were always comforting both of them when they were upset ❤

    • @caseyjennings7420
      @caseyjennings7420 7 месяцев назад +21

      They did have a special relationship it was so cute 🫶🏼

    • @MelissaGisoni13
      @MelissaGisoni13  7 месяцев назад +75

      I adore them so much! ❤

  • @madisonmorey1970
    @madisonmorey1970 7 месяцев назад +357

    this is so cute i love melissa now she used to have a lot of stress and tension on the show but now I love how she still is keeping a good healthy relationships with everyone from the show❤

  • @maudknevel8276
    @maudknevel8276 7 месяцев назад +326

    Can we please take a moment to mention how beautiful paige hair is😍

  • @sara31773
    @sara31773 7 месяцев назад +307

    I think my heart breaks the most with Paige and Nia when they were being treated poorly on the show. I’m glad all the girls are doing well. ❤

    • @Aloraxxpreppy
      @Aloraxxpreppy 7 месяцев назад +3

      And Kendall not by abby but lots of hate from fans.

    • @roham1601
      @roham1601 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Aloraxxpreppyno one deserves hate but Kalani and Kendall according to almost everyone the show are mean girls and i completely agree with that

    • @222.stargirl
      @222.stargirl 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@roham1601 Kalani??! I thought she was a sweetie 😭😭

    • @BreierRudisill
      @BreierRudisill 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@roham1601 I watched a video with Camryn and she had said Kalani was one of the nicer ones, she said only Kendall was rude, people hate on Kalani ‘cause she supports trump

    • @roham1601
      @roham1601 5 месяцев назад

      @@BreierRudisill She absolutely didn't say that she said Chloe was really nice and she was friends with Nia she said Kira and Kalani and Kendall were rude and Camryn unfollowed Kalani

  • @alicia.koitka1
    @alicia.koitka1 7 месяцев назад +268

    I would love to see a Q&A done next with Maddie, Chloe, and Nia

  • @justmelanie2204
    @justmelanie2204 7 месяцев назад +47

    Paige is so gorgeous, and of course all the girls are!! She sounds just like kelly and reminds me so much of her. You guys have the sweetest relationship, watching you guys was so heartwarming. 💗💗

  • @KayJayAre51
    @KayJayAre51 7 месяцев назад +100

    Paige sounds EXACTLY like Kelly. Their voices are the same :o

    • @SofieNaples
      @SofieNaples 3 месяца назад +1

      I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY THAT SHE SOUNDS JUST LIKE HER MAMA

  • @jtarantula3390
    @jtarantula3390 7 месяцев назад +82

    Omg, you’re actually bringing all the OG cast members on. Love you Melissa, thank you.
    Love Paige, here’s hoping 🤞 for Kelly and Christi.

  • @abbyryan273
    @abbyryan273 7 месяцев назад +280

    I hope she does a Q&A with Chloe Lukasiak!

    • @remisworld7425
      @remisworld7425 7 месяцев назад +15

      That would probably never happen

    • @i.luvhusker.
      @i.luvhusker. 7 месяцев назад +23

      @@remisworld7425how do you know, I’m pretty sure Melissa and Christi still chat

    • @katlynch1187
      @katlynch1187 7 месяцев назад +39

      ⁠@@jasmine5522 christi has said on her podcast back to the barre multiple times she is still in contact and in good terms with all the og moms (including jill) she even said only the moms understand what each other went through, same with the girls, and they all still talk from time to time!

    • @sara31773
      @sara31773 7 месяцев назад +36

      I don’t think Christi is as close with Melissa but I’m pretty sure they are in touch. Christi said herself that the OG’s share a text group with each other.

    • @smileyfan16
      @smileyfan16 7 месяцев назад +30

      @@remisworld7425Chloe is an adult now. She doesn’t need her moms input

  • @nellie2816
    @nellie2816 7 месяцев назад +16

    Paige is underrated she is SO beautiful and talented. I’m glad you guys are still in touch 🥺🤍

  • @honey.cone.
    @honey.cone. 7 месяцев назад +75

    Im loving this! Love you and Paiges relationship! its so great to know despite your experiences on the show you still keep in touch with everyone! Would love to see a Kelly Q and A!

  • @ajays1
    @ajays1 7 месяцев назад +56

    So excited yay! Paige and you Melissa are so sweet! Please do a Q&A with Chloe and Maddie!!

  • @hanburger5696
    @hanburger5696 7 месяцев назад +55

    I love this!! Chloe Christi next please!!! 😭💞

    • @riverjohnson8485
      @riverjohnson8485 7 месяцев назад +5

      Yea ion think Chole would would ever do one of these with Melissa they honestly aren’t close

    • @ass123ass2
      @ass123ass2 7 месяцев назад

      @@riverjohnson8485they’re still friends and on good terms

    • @Georgiamay1
      @Georgiamay1 7 месяцев назад +1

      I don't really think Melissa would want to because on dance moms christi was kinda mean to her and her kids

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 7 месяцев назад +5

      Christi still talks bad about her on her podcast so I don’t think this will happen

    • @riverjohnson8485
      @riverjohnson8485 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@paulocosta795 do I blame her no Melissa is sneaky and she lies she knew Abby was an abuser and always stood by her she never stood up for her kids till it was time for them to leave

  • @kimberlycook4679
    @kimberlycook4679 6 месяцев назад +20

    I felt so bad for Paige on the show. Hope she is truly doing well now. All these girls grew up to be so beautiful and successful and it’s cool to see!

  • @hebasoliman4372
    @hebasoliman4372 6 месяцев назад +24

    I love that the moms do RUclips videos with the girls and do a little reunion. It’s so much fun to see the moms and the girls together. It’s really heartwarming❤

  • @jules_leblanc22
    @jules_leblanc22 Месяц назад +10

    The Girls & Mom’s Birthdays:
    Brooke Hyland: January 30th, 1998
    Paige Hyland: November 1st, 2000
    Chloe Lukasiak: May 25th, 2001
    Nia Sioux Frazier: June 20th, 2001
    Mackenzie Ziegler: June 4th, 2004
    Maddie Ziegler: September 30th, 2002
    Kendall Vertes: December 9th, 2002
    Kalani Hilliker: September 23rd, 2000
    Brynn Rumfallo: July 1st, 2003
    Moms:
    Christi Lukasiak: March 3rd,1977
    Melissa Gisoni: June 13th, 1968
    Kelly Hyland: May 16th,1971
    Dr. Holly Hatcher Fraizer: May 11th, 1970
    Jill Vertes: August 15th,1965
    Kira Girard: August 4th, 1981
    Ashlee Allen: January 12th, 1980

  • @aves.luvsyou
    @aves.luvsyou 6 месяцев назад +9

    I love how kind you are to them,and even after all that drama you still can connect and have fun days with eachother!!❤

  • @shortstories2023
    @shortstories2023 Месяц назад +5

    And btw Paige reminds me EXACTLY of Kelly. Not just her mannerisms but her voice, and her looks too. Beautiful young woman

  • @Hails863
    @Hails863 7 месяцев назад +5

    Love that you are reunited with Paige! Your relationship was so sweet and underrated on the show ❤

  • @stinakarlsson1557
    @stinakarlsson1557 7 месяцев назад +25

    Paige has always been my favorite on dance moms

  • @vettechmom6056
    @vettechmom6056 6 месяцев назад +2

    Loving these Q&As and seeing the girls all grown up. They've all grown up beautifully.

  • @user-nj9ey9xi1g
    @user-nj9ey9xi1g 7 месяцев назад +23

    All we need is Chole and Nia😂❤❤ but love this ❤

  • @olivialane3467
    @olivialane3467 6 месяцев назад +14

    I LOVE Paige’s beauty mark. I have them all over my face, and watching Paige accentuate it growing up really made me confident with mine.

  • @jordynmoore3916
    @jordynmoore3916 7 месяцев назад +27

    Wow!! I am so incredibly greatful to see you both! You both are such an inspiration!

  • @thecringeof2666she-her-hers-
    @thecringeof2666she-her-hers- 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omg i love this!! Its so nice to watch that you did some q&a with some of the dance members! Love this ❤❤😊

  • @imgood3549
    @imgood3549 7 месяцев назад +32

    A q&a with Christi would break the internet

  • @brie3679
    @brie3679 7 месяцев назад +19

    1:23 woah. I’m glad the girls got to experience that! I assumed their school life was VERY different once they all began to be homeschooled. I’m glad they got to experience things like Home Ec. still.

  • @Bama-girl
    @Bama-girl 7 месяцев назад +4

    Glad you did one with Paige ! Love seeing you beyond tv

  • @nickcornacchia4718
    @nickcornacchia4718 7 месяцев назад +5

    These Q&A videos are so fun to watch!

  • @kitthyo
    @kitthyo 7 месяцев назад +23

    first!! pls do one with CHRISTI❤❤❤❤

    • @kouki3145
      @kouki3145 7 месяцев назад +6

      YES plsss do one with christiiii❤

    • @remisworld7425
      @remisworld7425 7 месяцев назад +1

      That would probably never happen

    • @zoeandmalay7856
      @zoeandmalay7856 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@remisworld7425you never know though

  • @mgr5396
    @mgr5396 7 месяцев назад +17

    Melissa, these videos warm my heart. I hope one day I can be close to my kids friends like you are.

  • @khlos_lifestyle
    @khlos_lifestyle 7 месяцев назад +9

    Hi Melissa ! I love this q&a series love you sm!❤

  • @Marissamarr
    @Marissamarr 7 месяцев назад +22

    Omg Paige is literally a model I love how you love the hylands ❤❤

  • @kaylaeisenhauer8489
    @kaylaeisenhauer8489 7 месяцев назад +3

    yesss thank you i have been waiting for miss Paige definitely the favorite in our eyes. much love Melissa

  • @annsziegler
    @annsziegler 7 месяцев назад +2

    I loved how much you loved Paige on the show and still do now! ❤❤

  • @landryvarn3130
    @landryvarn3130 7 месяцев назад +5

    Omg!! This made me so happy to see a video with Paige. I love watching your videos Melissa and you seem so fun. If you do another Q&A I was wondering if any of the dance moms girls still dance? I hope you are doing well! 💗

  • @donna5499
    @donna5499 Месяц назад +3

    So good to see Melissa and Paige together. I loved you girls. Melissa I always hated all the bad things you got blamed for on Dance Moms, I always thought you were trying to be a Peacemaker.Paige, you are absolutely beautiful, it’s so good to know you both are doing well. Hugs Januari❤

  • @rainabrown8763
    @rainabrown8763 7 месяцев назад +4

    Love the video. Wish it could've been longer. Great questions!

  • @kornelia_kot
    @kornelia_kot 7 месяцев назад +15

    I love it! So much enjoy to watch you guys! I send love from Poland for you Melissa, Paige, Maddie and Mackenzie

  • @midnight10321
    @midnight10321 7 месяцев назад +9

    This was amazing. Love you both 🤘♥️

  • @lindafaierson6030
    @lindafaierson6030 7 месяцев назад +7

    Love your videos with the girls and moms . Its nice to see the girls have grown up to be sweet, caring adults. And the moms are nice too. Thank you Melissa . Forever friends are wonderful.

  • @MikaRodriguez-nn6rf
    @MikaRodriguez-nn6rf 6 месяцев назад +2

    omg. the reunion we never knew we needed 💕

  • @taylorxstella
    @taylorxstella 4 месяца назад +3

    Paige and Melissa’s relationship is so adorable! ❤love you guys!!

  • @luvusm111
    @luvusm111 6 месяцев назад +13

    Mellissa is such a geniune loving person and im so happy we can all have her as a figure through her videos and share her postive energy with us💗

  • @Reborndollgal54
    @Reborndollgal54 7 месяцев назад +6

    Melissa you look so much more happy now and must comment what absolutely gorgeous young adults your 2 daughters have grown into, they take after their mother! 😍😍😍

  • @Reborndollgal54
    @Reborndollgal54 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hello to you both , I was such a huge fan of Dance moms and it is so wonderful to see how gorgeous and talented you all are and to see that you have stayed close friends! ❤️❤️🥰

  • @about.sturniolos
    @about.sturniolos 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve been waiting for this one!!!! ❤

  • @Preppyxvibes3
    @Preppyxvibes3 6 месяцев назад

    I still can’t believe how much all the girls have grown!! I feel like it was just yesterday they were all in leodards dancing! It’s so sweet seeing you hang out with all of them ❤

  • @Lilo_06
    @Lilo_06 6 месяцев назад +1

    Paige has grown so much! I remember when she was a tiny little thing but now she has grown into a smart,mature,and talented woman. Love y'all!!❤❤

  • @888xava
    @888xava 7 месяцев назад +11

    paige is so pretty wow! and so is melissa 💗

  • @Janieeee
    @Janieeee 7 месяцев назад +47

    Do Maddie or Chloe next these are fun ❤

    • @lukareinitz9492
      @lukareinitz9492 7 месяцев назад

      As much as I'd love to see Maddie but Maddie is so so busy these days it's probably hard to find time

    • @kiuruii8791
      @kiuruii8791 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@lukareinitz9492apparently Maddie and Melissa see eachother kinda often so I dont think it’s impossible

    • @nataliabroadbent6599
      @nataliabroadbent6599 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@kiuruii8791I think it’s more that maddie doesn’t casually talk about the show like this.. I think if this happened with maddie or Chloe it would be a major event for us all haha

    • @kiuruii8791
      @kiuruii8791 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@nataliabroadbent6599 I mean maddie goes on podcast and usually responds to questions about the show so I dont see why she wouldn’t do it with her mom when her mom can choose the questions so that way she doesn’t only have to answer ones about the show

    • @nataliabroadbent2163
      @nataliabroadbent2163 6 месяцев назад

      @@kiuruii8791 I mean potentially, but casual videos and online content isn’t really maddies thing - she only does whats necessary and what might help her career

  • @LANEY.IS2COOL4U
    @LANEY.IS2COOL4U 7 месяцев назад +9

    PAIGE LOOKS AND SOUNDS JUST LIKE KELLY🥰

  • @alexisrandolph825
    @alexisrandolph825 4 месяца назад +5

    Paige looks like her mom and sounds like her mom go girl
    !

  • @StacieKing-cm3eb
    @StacieKing-cm3eb 2 месяца назад +2

    Paige is so beautiful and I'm so glad she got past all that anxiety from the way she was treated on the show.

  • @oliviavanderham1509
    @oliviavanderham1509 22 дня назад +3

    watching this as brooke just announced her engagement today🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @sveva1237
    @sveva1237 7 месяцев назад +7

    I'm so happy to see Paige now, she's so grown

  • @idaniacolon3438
    @idaniacolon3438 2 месяца назад

    It is so nice that after the show you are catching up with the girls.Also love your vids ❤

  • @Kait16xo
    @Kait16xo 7 месяцев назад +15

    7:14 It’s so hard to NOT like you guys. Of course, I’ve only ever met Paige once and we’ve never met but you guys are pretty both inside and out! You’re also both so funny ❤

  • @faithsworld1318
    @faithsworld1318 7 месяцев назад +1

    Y’all look so pretty!!🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @HannahBoston-fj9tl
    @HannahBoston-fj9tl 7 часов назад

    Paige and Melissa’s hair is stunning!❤ I’ve always been a big fan of them both , love you both so much!❤ , I hope you guys are staying healthy 🥰💞 , sending love your way xx

  • @SelenaCraftsCrochet
    @SelenaCraftsCrochet 12 дней назад +1

    Aww watching this today and Brooke is engaged now how cute is that❤ you guys knew it !

  • @EmmaDiazRodriguez
    @EmmaDiazRodriguez 6 месяцев назад

    I love opening up to us and being so kind a genuine and all the girls are gorgeous ❤

  • @chillwithxavier6484
    @chillwithxavier6484 7 месяцев назад +1

    This video was so wholesome I love u guys soo much 😭🩷

  • @leen34568
    @leen34568 5 месяцев назад

    throughout her videos i’ve realized her and her kids always talk so nicely about people.

  • @sk-sb6yx
    @sk-sb6yx 7 месяцев назад +18

    Would love to see you do a q&a with Christi

  • @StrangerThingsIsMyLife502
    @StrangerThingsIsMyLife502 7 месяцев назад +5

    Awww!!! I’m so happy you are all friends again!

  • @mic47013
    @mic47013 7 месяцев назад

    Aww I loves this❤❤❤❤ keep doing videos with the other dance moms and the girls ❤❤❤❤

  • @tessar.6360
    @tessar.6360 6 месяцев назад +11

    It's so nice to see how these girls have moved on because Melissa crossed them so many times as children because she was listening to Abby. The one time that sticks out in my mind is Abby going to the judges, lying about it and finding a mathematical error and taking the First Place win away from Chloe. Why not just leave it alone?? Let Chloe have it, Maddie already had so many wins under her belt. As a mom, my heart just broke for Chloe. I'm not sure why Melissa never understood that Abby was always setting up Chloe to fail & her disdain for both Chloe and Christi, Kelly and her two girls was so obvious from the beginning. I'm not sure anything could justify being friends with someone like Abby and Melissa was friends with her for many, many years. Btw; Paige Hyland is a beautiful girl and so is Brooke.

  • @carolbinhoto6476
    @carolbinhoto6476 7 месяцев назад +2

    She is sooo pretty it’s not even fairrrr

  • @TRAMA10
    @TRAMA10 7 месяцев назад

    Hi Melissa I'm glad you did a video with Paige ❤❤❤❤ Paige is so tall and she's grown up alot Paige never has a bad hair day ❤❤❤❤

  • @Ray-is3vz
    @Ray-is3vz 7 месяцев назад +4

    You need to meet with chole and the moms a little reunion!! I love your vid btw!!💖

  • @bethelgirma3841
    @bethelgirma3841 7 месяцев назад +20

    you should have a Q & A with Christi or Chloe

  • @CuteThings778
    @CuteThings778 7 месяцев назад +21

    Christis nextttt

    • @riverjohnson8485
      @riverjohnson8485 7 месяцев назад +2

      If that happens imma be shocked cause I highly doubt that would happen

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 7 месяцев назад

      Might as well do one with Abby then, it’s the same thing as doing one with Cristi

  • @smileyfan16
    @smileyfan16 7 месяцев назад +12

    I hope she does a Q&A with Chloe

  • @brookeelle5687
    @brookeelle5687 5 месяцев назад

    Paige seems like the sweetest girl! I just love y’all’s relationship

  • @thecraftykingdomking7029
    @thecraftykingdomking7029 7 месяцев назад +10

    What About a Q&A with Kelly! I know you two would have so many stories

    • @eboniemcgee2018
      @eboniemcgee2018 7 месяцев назад

      Isn't Kelly in Florida or am I wrong

  • @sashaking1115
    @sashaking1115 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love Melissa and Paige’s relationship!!!

  • @mckenna2003
    @mckenna2003 7 месяцев назад +5

    Love these Q&A's! You should do more, one with every girl/mom!

  • @brie3679
    @brie3679 7 месяцев назад +4

    5:00 this is real. Ten years ago I moved from Maryland to Florida, leaving my best friend there. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, but there were a few years we didn’t see each other at all. Yet we maintained our friendship, and sisterhood. She’s like a sister to me. She has since had children and they think of me as their aunt. For them it’s no different, I’m aunt Bri. I’ve gotten so close with these two kids and love them with every ounce of myself. It’s wild how some people.. nothing can ruin that friendship. I believe me and my best friends are platonic soulmates. I believe there’s people in our lives who are just MEANT to know each other. Me and her are that.

  • @piercewear1648
    @piercewear1648 6 месяцев назад +1

    This warms my heart

  • @iccydime
    @iccydime 7 месяцев назад +2

    i can’t stop staring at paige’s hair😍😍😍

  • @ayvalenaratsch5872
    @ayvalenaratsch5872 3 месяца назад

    I love you guys so much and your unforgettable bond, I watched the show and it’s amazing the girls were so cute!!! 💜🩵

  • @crayonrfun
    @crayonrfun 7 месяцев назад +5

    Omg paige is so gorgeous 😭😭❤️

  • @TJBeanz-de1db
    @TJBeanz-de1db 7 месяцев назад +1

    It’s so crazy to see the girls all grown up!!

  • @carol159
    @carol159 7 месяцев назад +5

    I know I am a little older than Melissa but she reminds me of my Aunt. She is just so loving and liking to talk with all the girls.

  • @LL-pq5fr
    @LL-pq5fr 5 месяцев назад

    Love these vibes. Love you Melissa 🩷

  • @ItsShanonMaglente
    @ItsShanonMaglente 7 месяцев назад +7

    she has Kelly’s exact laugh!!

  • @lindsyhautekeete1410
    @lindsyhautekeete1410 7 месяцев назад

    wow this is the first time i have seen paige all grown up she is gorgeous !

  • @miaaa5467
    @miaaa5467 7 месяцев назад +6

    Maybe next time you should get Chloe to do a Q&A with u!! Love ur channel

  • @stinakarlsson1557
    @stinakarlsson1557 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love you two together so much awww

  • @PointlessPickle
    @PointlessPickle 3 месяца назад +3

    Paige sound just like her mom omgg

  • @aud.ab.9513
    @aud.ab.9513 7 месяцев назад +1

    this is so cute!!! ✨🫶🏼

  • @BetteDavisIs
    @BetteDavisIs 7 месяцев назад +9

    My children are the ages of the girls and I have been obsessed with this show since they were so little, so why did I not think that you guys would all be on RUclips and such. Well I definitely am subscribed now. I just love you guys so big ❤

  • @mevdjemal
    @mevdjemal 7 месяцев назад +1

    Loveeee youse all sm
    The cutest❤❤

  • @wintersofmydiscontent
    @wintersofmydiscontent 7 месяцев назад +4

    Paige looks and sounds just like Kelly!

  • @brie3679
    @brie3679 7 месяцев назад +4

    12:50 to add to this, more people need to know it’s okay to go to multiple therapist until you find the one. Sorry this might be a tad long but I think it’s REALLY important, it saved my life. Not all therapists are created equal and there’s many different types of therapists. I suffered with crippling mental health issues. I’d go to therapy, it wouldn’t really help, I’d stop going, my mental health would get worse. This was a cycle. Last year I decided to try something different. I’d try different therapists before giving up. I went to one, it didn’t feel right. I saw another for a few weeks and.. she was great, don’t get me wrong. But I really needed to address my trauma whereas she was more so a talk therapist. I decided to see another one and it just felt instantly right. I had one last session with my previous, and she even agreed that if I needed to address the trauma first, I should. Me and my current therapist, Michael, just had our 46th session. We do 1-2 times a week depending on what we are tackling and the protocols involved. It has been..soul changing. Finally having the right therapist, means everything. I get anxious thinking about NOT going to therapy. Whereas before I’d be so scared I’d cancel or reschedule. His energy and vibe are just perfect for me, and he knows how to really help deep complex trauma and PTSD. It’s unlike anything I’ve ever experienced with other therapists, which were always so surface level. I’d hide things from them or just not tell them things. I never went into super deep trauma aside from like.. the vaguest of descriptions. Now, not only have I opened up about it, but I’ve actually addressed and reprocessed them. Anyone with anxiety, I implore you to look up bilateral stimulation. I prefer the butterfly hug which is where you tap on your shoulders with your eyes closed, letting your mind wander with a specific topic in your minds eye. This helps align your physical and emotional sensations and can help you while reprocessing memories, accessing or making clear regressed memories, etc. He taught me how during trauma, especially complex trauma, our glutamate in our body is changed, and so we literally don’t form memories. Glutamate highly influences memory and learning and when that’s disrupted by excessive trauma, we often do not form memories of events at all, HOWEVER, our body has formed a kind of chemical imprint of the event. So when our subconscious is triggered by things that remind us of that traumatic event, we have this physical reaction of anxiety, depression, or panic and sometimes we don’t even know why or what’s causing it, or what it stems from. Sometimes you might know you have trauma, but not know what the triggers are. CBT, A.R.T ( accelerated resolution therapy, this is not the same as Art Therapy, where one would use crafting, arts, etc), and EMDR style therapies have been wildly helpful and I wouldn’t have ever even learned of them had i not found the right type of therapist. Not all therapists are created equal.

  • @heidislve
    @heidislve 7 месяцев назад +1

    Paige is so beautiful! she’s grown so so much. I remember when she was little! ❤