Mean Girl BACKSTABS Her FRIEND, She Lives To Regret It | Dhar Mann

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    00:00 Mean Girl BACKSTABS Her FRIEND
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Комментарии • 10 тыс.

  • @DharMann
    @DharMann  Год назад +1660

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  • @CozyAsha
    @CozyAsha Год назад +7786

    Her feelings were valid. The way her friend treated her, literally left her to the side. She could’ve invited her to take a tour of the school together. If Anything, her friend should’ve apologized.

    • @siStAz789
      @siStAz789 Год назад +427

      Yeah I mean she didn’t even care about her birthday

    • @godschildanmol1512
      @godschildanmol1512 Год назад +96

      Correct

    • @Butterfly-yk9bw
      @Butterfly-yk9bw Год назад +34

      @@user-nn2du3jj4w right

    • @Hendrucs
      @Hendrucs Год назад +19

      U being Hella sensetive jeez

    • @bluekitty7838
      @bluekitty7838 Год назад +61

      @@Hendrucs that's what people say when they know they or somebody else did something wrong

  • @hibyew
    @hibyew Год назад +4597

    As someone who's been left out many times, and was in a trio group this hurts to watch even. I remember fighting but noone took me seriously. It doesn't sound like that big of an issue but it really is. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.

    • @Shawarma101
      @Shawarma101 Год назад +65

      I am so sorry, I am in a friend group with 6 people (2 of which are my sisters and 1 is me) we have been friends for so long and we treat each other equally and in a way, we all have our “favorite best friend” in the group, we all love each other and they helped me get through some tough times it makes me so sad to know that other people don’t have friends that are as good, I am so sorry and I hope you one day meet friends that you deserve

    • @Hendrucs
      @Hendrucs Год назад +4

      Lmao

    • @NxlanFN
      @NxlanFN Год назад +7

      I can relate I got made fun of but recently they started hanging out with me again

    • @AyushmaanoVo
      @AyushmaanoVo Год назад +6

      @@user-nn2du3jj4w no no it's nothing serious, maybe I'm overthinking, they're seriously the best, the best i could've ever found!

    • @renjurogami6945
      @renjurogami6945 Год назад

      Always a dui in a trio

  • @vickyelsberry5614
    @vickyelsberry5614 Год назад +369

    Sometimes bestfriends dont act like a friend when they have a new friend.

    • @nishmaasif9758
      @nishmaasif9758 Год назад

      Hhhhhh

    • @annor__
      @annor__ Год назад +2

      fr😢

    • @beifong_bandit
      @beifong_bandit Год назад +4

      Hmm true but only "some" bffs

    • @Mary-zd8xo
      @Mary-zd8xo Год назад +6

      Just remember this. Two is a company and three Isa crowd. Most of the time trio friendship not good.

    • @camila_delcastillo
      @camila_delcastillo 6 месяцев назад

      I’m crying 💔🥺

  • @Magic_Alonso
    @Magic_Alonso Год назад +294

    I was friends with a kid I met recently, and I introduced him to one of my old friends. They got along so we became a trio, however day by day, they forgot about me. Like I wasn’t there. They would never look for me if I left, and I regret introducing them. Edit: Thanks for the support in the replies, I know some people understand me now :)

    • @sweedelnishadsa
      @sweedelnishadsa Год назад +2

      Same

    • @DontNoahLot
      @DontNoahLot Год назад +9

      This started to happen to me and another friend. My bestfriend introduced someone into the friend group and we became a trio. Although eventually me and the new person started to hangout more and he suggested we should stop hanging out with the friend that got him in the friend group because he just wasn't as cool anymore and that "we're just more close, y'know?". I realized it was messed up- told my bestfriend. We're starting to drift away from him now.
      Hopefully this was semi-coherent lol

    • @emanwaseem3993
      @emanwaseem3993 Год назад

      same

    • @G2K948
      @G2K948 Год назад

      same

    • @avereygisclair
      @avereygisclair Год назад +3

      it hurts when that happens

  • @daddyvoodoo.
    @daddyvoodoo. Год назад +2410

    I love how the principal actually acknowledges the students feelings

  • @Riyangi89
    @Riyangi89 Год назад +1026

    As a person who was in a trio, it really feels bad when you are left out because the two of your friends are specially close.
    Thank you so much Dhar Mann for making so much related stories to other people's internal feelings!

  • @Lol_Erika
    @Lol_Erika 10 месяцев назад +176

    As a ex-friend who used to be in a trio friend group and being left out many times I could remember, this hits hard, Dhar. Thanks for making this video ❤

  • @lyrics7041
    @lyrics7041 Год назад +147

    Ik how this girl feels and I was once in this situation. Everyday I would come back from school crying. Soon after that I got social anxiety, body dysphormia, depression and anxiety.

    • @iStoleHyunjinsAmericano
      @iStoleHyunjinsAmericano Год назад +8

      That is me 😭😭 you're not alone
      I've got the exact things you have. But thankfully my parents took me seriously

    • @olakolade6656
      @olakolade6656 Год назад +4

      hi, I know this may seem random but I want you to know that Jesus loves you very much. He understands everything you are going through and He loves you so much that He wants you to be happy. It makes Him sad to see you suffering, and He wants to help you. He can give you a lot oy joy, peace and happiness , and can take away all of the things you are dealing with. All you have to do is call upon the name of Jesus, because He is with you and will always be there for you. He is waiting for you.

    • @familietablet0215
      @familietablet0215 Год назад +2

      I feel so bad for you😓😭

    • @paiisy.0fficial
      @paiisy.0fficial Год назад +1

      ok

    • @chomikfan4434
      @chomikfan4434 Год назад +1

      @@olakolade6656 Thank you

  • @moonietearss
    @moonietearss Год назад +648

    she has the right to feel that way, but ruining your friends party? that's messed up.

    • @raisatasneem9329
      @raisatasneem9329 Год назад +61

      Yeah ikr. I mean her feeling was right becuz sometimes also i feel so left out with my friends :). But her actions wasn’t right :(

    • @PuppieTime
      @PuppieTime Год назад +9

      Ok.

    • @badynlawrence5549
      @badynlawrence5549 Год назад +51

      As a person who lives in Texas, we solve our problems with a gun

    • @jeff_the_killer253
      @jeff_the_killer253 Год назад +5

      @@starrblx True

    • @joannepuno8203
      @joannepuno8203 Год назад +9

      @@badynlawrence5549 🤣🤣🤣

  • @imnotabotlol
    @imnotabotlol Год назад +702

    What hurts more than a heartbreak is your friend leaving you out

    • @saugust40
      @saugust40 Год назад +13

      Them dying.

    • @YNLGambino
      @YNLGambino Год назад +23

      What hurts even more is when your friend dies and the last time y’all talked, y’all argued badly

    • @CindyWu1665
      @CindyWu1665 Год назад +8

      I’d just leave them and join another group

    • @Cosmic_Monster
      @Cosmic_Monster Год назад +4

      thats so true 🥲😥😭

    • @ObsessedWithBloxburg
      @ObsessedWithBloxburg Год назад +7

      I'm in a trio and one is kind to me but the other one, no. The mean one always makes me the one left out and she always slaps me and sometimes punches me in the stomach, she also sometimes tells me to shut up if I'm talking to my actual kind friend. She also tries to separate us, she is showing that she likes my other friend more than me. When I tried to tell someone, she saw me and whispered in my ear "shut up" and she even lied to a teacher. She said to a teacher "yea me and my friends just joke around, we are just playing" when she literally hit me one second ago-

  • @christianalexander579
    @christianalexander579 Год назад +130

    This is why most friendships end in betrayal cause it's like they forget all about you when they see their childhood friend

    • @thearcherofjustice1492
      @thearcherofjustice1492 8 месяцев назад +3

      I was always an outsider. Uprooted to a different country several times growing up, even today (67) I watch everyone having together moments with lots of complicity while I'm considered a foreigner wherever I live 🙁 I learned to deal with it. I have family though

    • @alliepham7441
      @alliepham7441 4 месяца назад

      Yo yo 🎉

    • @kyekruchoski1457
      @kyekruchoski1457 3 месяца назад

      no they just know and like diffrent people then you so it ends up people just drifting apart why is this concept so hard to understand

    • @KikyoSamaLover05
      @KikyoSamaLover05 Месяц назад

      Doesn't even have to be a childhood friend, in my case people forgot about me when they meet someone who has the same interests as them:(

    • @MrLightningFlame
      @MrLightningFlame 26 дней назад

      GO HAWKS!

  • @azkazf7318
    @azkazf7318 Год назад +30

    Honestly in my eyes the real villain is hazel. She was the one that sorta left laila out. Michaela wasnt in the position to invite layla cause they barely knew each other. It was hazel that could do something abt it. The worse part was when her party was ruined, she agreed to "ditching" michaela and go with laila when before she ignored her

  • @urb00_em
    @urb00_em Год назад +364

    I was always the one in the trio that was forgotten and left out, so watching this brings back cursed memories, but I'm glad Dhar is putting people struggling with these similar situations in a spotlight. This way more people can notice the second perspective of friendships like these.

  • @Charity.S
    @Charity.S Год назад +756

    "Good friends are like stars. You dont always see them, but you know they`re always there" so powerful thanks for this message dhar

    • @Ruby-jd6cc
      @Ruby-jd6cc Год назад +7

      This one meant a lot to me ❤

    • @Charity.S
      @Charity.S Год назад +3

      @@Ruby-jd6cc ❤

    • @bluey_roblox4867
      @bluey_roblox4867 Год назад +2

      @@Ruby-jd6cc same ❤

    • @not.a.fit.person.1497
      @not.a.fit.person.1497 Год назад +6

      "so powerful" 💀

    • @neltins5308
      @neltins5308 Год назад +3

      I cried so much at the end, Michaela was so kind & understanding even though she did her so wrong, if we can fill the world with kids this kind hearted & loving of people, the world would be a dreamland.

  • @vickyelsberry5614
    @vickyelsberry5614 Год назад +51

    True friends dont treat a friend different cuz one has money.

  • @jenniferbarry171
    @jenniferbarry171 Год назад +33

    So relatable! In 5th grade 4 of my best friends turned their back on me because the school bully told them lies. They still hate me to this day. I found new friends now. Dhar man’s videos are so awesome and help me through tough times. Thank you so much!

    • @vrinda5303
      @vrinda5303 Год назад +1

      @Jennifee Barry What jerks they are. Glad you found new friends.

  • @garethemersonswiferealnotf7187
    @garethemersonswiferealnotf7187 Год назад +1718

    The fact that im Laila in this position right now... Jealousy can eaily take over! Keep up the great work Dhar, love your vids!

    • @Hoaxe72
      @Hoaxe72 Год назад +1

      Bro you’ve been cucked

    • @ZERO-br1hc
      @ZERO-br1hc Год назад +52

      I understand, iam also in that kind of situation but iam not jealous, its rather the feeling of anger because me and friend have been together for a year and now she is making friends with some other girls and leaving me behind, dont worry things will work out for you :)

    • @richardjagoo8798
      @richardjagoo8798 Год назад +9

      I'm not rlly in that position but I have known my friend for 6 years and every time I try to talk to her like her whole class follows her..... BTW she is in a different school bc she is older than me

    • @Nice-ok4pt
      @Nice-ok4pt Год назад +1

      @@ZERO-br1hc 0

    • @madmax4097
      @madmax4097 Год назад +6

      I have friends and my friend gets jealous bc I have more friends than her she is mean and forceses me to play with her like no and she bullyed me so NO

  • @blackout_EditZ
    @blackout_EditZ Год назад +1413

    As a teenager, I can 100% relate to having a best friend, but being left out other another best friend of my best friend. 😂😂😂 happens all the time, I love when dhar mann actually makes relatable videos for once! Do more like these

  • @vivianbarillas6631
    @vivianbarillas6631 Год назад +26

    Literally that's how I felt when one of my friends were hanging out with my other friend I wanted to be rude and bully them but I knew it was wrong so I tried to play it cool, and just smile and look at them until they noticed me but it didn't work out.

    • @vivianbarillas6631
      @vivianbarillas6631 Год назад +2

      Last time I got so jealous that I baked a cake and put raw chicken in the cake

    • @vivianbarillas6631
      @vivianbarillas6631 Год назад +2

      I regret way I did tho bc one of my friends eat I'd "oh um wanna hang out with us?" I after a baked a draw chicken ckae

  • @sandrapriesing7818
    @sandrapriesing7818 Год назад +11

    “She gave you all you wanted,I gave you all I had”
    -a very wise person

  • @MikaelaCLu
    @MikaelaCLu Год назад +197

    I totally know how Laila feels, when someone just come's up and snatches your friend

    • @anastasia76025
      @anastasia76025 Год назад +8

      Me too it happens to me at school like every time when I'm with my friend

    • @MikaelaCLu
      @MikaelaCLu Год назад +4

      @@anastasia76025 sorry to hear that

    • @AdonaitDaniel-uo6oe
      @AdonaitDaniel-uo6oe 6 месяцев назад

      @@anastasia76025 u ok?!
      jw!

    • @effystonem3106
      @effystonem3106 5 месяцев назад

      Now everyone calls me Leah

    • @RobloxAloYT
      @RobloxAloYT 4 месяца назад

      Yep

  • @JaaronBrice
    @JaaronBrice Год назад +1232

    "Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." - Big facts! 💯

  • @kainimates
    @kainimates Год назад +16

    I remember once I was in a trio of friends and my other two friends went to the carnival together on the weekend. I found out the Monday after. They just "assumed" I didn't wanna go. It still kind of hurts me to this day how much I wasn't included in that friend group.

  • @elizabethzumaya1044
    @elizabethzumaya1044 8 месяцев назад +5

    Good friends are like stars you don’t always see them but you know they’re always there big facts 💯

  • @TheAmvQueen
    @TheAmvQueen Год назад +926

    “Good Friends Are Like Stars. You don’t always see them, but you know there always there.” Amazing, quote, Dhar! ⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @wow-zs4kr
      @wow-zs4kr Год назад +8

      sasha slays ⚔😘💅

    • @vinez9642
      @vinez9642 Год назад +6

      @@wow-zs4kr corny

    • @thehumanspet10
      @thehumanspet10 Год назад +6

      Yes, it is an amazing quote. He must have spent a lot of time making it perfect.

    • @Cinx2
      @Cinx2 Год назад +8

      Dhar did not come up with that quote

    • @thehumanspet10
      @thehumanspet10 Год назад +2

      @@Cinx2 Yes he did!

  • @Waterbotlegt
    @Waterbotlegt Год назад +41

    The "mean girl" aka the one who was left out isn't mean she just feels left out and she is being left out so you can't really blame her for having valid feelings

    • @Bungeez
      @Bungeez 5 дней назад

      Bruh she ruined a party bro thats taking it to far 💀

  • @tiffanyxxeditz
    @tiffanyxxeditz 4 месяца назад +2

    “In a trio, there’s always a duo”

  • @aldilover1
    @aldilover1 4 месяца назад +6

    A while ago, I introduced my best friend to another friend of mine. They ended up becoming besties and I gradually got left out of events and outings and eventually became unwanted. This video brings back those painful memories.

  • @gjc3569
    @gjc3569 Год назад +2492

    We’re not just telling stories, we’re training the next generation of 80’s slashers.

    • @mrprince4558
      @mrprince4558 Год назад

      No am not subbing u 🙄🙄🙄😏😏😏😣😣😣😐😐😐😑😑😮😮😥😥

    • @Terminator-do9os
      @Terminator-do9os Год назад +21

      👍🏿

    • @neicorrea7306
      @neicorrea7306 Год назад

      @Roman Roberge shut up

    • @cindyd4695
      @cindyd4695 Год назад +6

      Hehehehe hahahaha (Jason theme)

    • @ghosttxii7458
      @ghosttxii7458 Год назад +31

      There always has to be one person making these unoriginal jokes.

  • @D4rk3offical
    @D4rk3offical Год назад +167

    She didn't betray, she slayed
    Edit: this is the most likes I've ever got 😂

  • @useryx123
    @useryx123 4 месяца назад +7

    I’m treated the same 😢 at school me and my bestie she has a new bestie now ….
    👇people who feel bad !

  • @blueberry4804
    @blueberry4804 10 месяцев назад +39

    “Good friends are like stars u don’t always see them but u know they’re always there”❤ one of my favorite quotes ✨

  • @ava-pe8ne
    @ava-pe8ne Год назад +42

    she’s not backstabbing her, laila got betrayed first. she’s just being smart 😍😍

    • @real4158
      @real4158 Год назад +2

      forreal

    • @dogineed2369
      @dogineed2369 Год назад +3

      If this is how girls think I’m glad I’m a guy

    • @real4158
      @real4158 Год назад +2

      @@dogineed2369 acting like guys are better

    • @Hey_howmuchisthis
      @Hey_howmuchisthis 9 месяцев назад +3

      Best thing is find another friend and Leave that friend 😂then she will be jelous too

    • @Kjlikes8363
      @Kjlikes8363 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah she’s not backstabbing her she is just being smart

  • @Miriam_zevada
    @Miriam_zevada Год назад +144

    It hurts when you see your bestfriend get along with someone more than they get along with you.

  • @coffeemoon167
    @coffeemoon167 Год назад +20

    Though I don't have best friends , I have a lot of friends. Sometimes they group up together and make me feel left out . From not being told "inside jokes" to not being in group dances . This is a relatable vid , Thanks Dhar

  • @alanamcmillian5810
    @alanamcmillian5810 Год назад +8

    I met a friend back in the 10th grade. We were inseparable, then I introduced her to this girl I knew. Before I knew it, I was tossed to the side, this happened 10 years ago and I'm thankful I moved past it. I ended up meeting better people. ❤

  • @aakashmehta3961
    @aakashmehta3961 Год назад +84

    19:08...."We are not just telling stories, we are teaching kids how to avoid paying for pizza 🍕".
    Lol😂😂😂

  • @aestheticz.saranghae
    @aestheticz.saranghae Год назад +56

    7:00 Only if principles actually cared this much

  • @louisejones4537
    @louisejones4537 Год назад +5

    Honestly, Lila didn’t deserve to be left out at all. I know how it feels to be left out in a group but they were doing it on purpose to me. They should be the ones apologising to Lila.

  • @mehrunissa2830
    @mehrunissa2830 Год назад +17

    Even tho your friend tries to leave you behind u should find another friend to hang out with

  • @ahintofhish3446
    @ahintofhish3446 Год назад +72

    she definitely has the right to feel like that, being the thirdwheel in your own relationship is awful, but, ruining a perfect birthday party for random ass people is not the way to go about it

  • @booklover4731
    @booklover4731 Год назад +118

    This hits home. I remember what it was like when young kids didn't know how to include more than one person and so someone was always left out. Even some adults do this! It doesn't feel good.

    • @sariahjohnson7237
      @sariahjohnson7237 Год назад +1

      Yeah I know the feeling all too well

    • @advstation8348
      @advstation8348 Год назад

      How u just invite more than one person

    • @advstation8348
      @advstation8348 Год назад

      It’s Not that hard to include someone else u choose to exclude people

    • @booklover4731
      @booklover4731 Год назад

      @@advstation8348 It's not the number there. You'd have three people and two would talk, leaving the third person out of the conversation and engaging.

  • @Royal.Reptiliands
    @Royal.Reptiliands Год назад +14

    It’s like when your best friend makes a new friend and then suddenly she doesn’t have time for you, doesn’t wait for you, and doesn’t even respond to sense of humor. Or when you have a best friend who puts one of your closest friend over you

  • @Hailey-ln4bi
    @Hailey-ln4bi 8 месяцев назад +2

    Every trio has a duo coming from someone who has been left out

  • @laveniacleaver9530
    @laveniacleaver9530 Год назад +263

    I can relate to this. Since June 2006, my church group always excluded me in everything. I tried to talk with them and make friends with them, but the more I tried, the more they pushed me away and treated me like crap. They even put me in the corner of darkness, isolation, loneliness, and despair. Then, one Sunday afternoon at church, I was gonna confront them; I stood outside the SUNDAY SCHOOL classroom door ready to knock. And then I heard laughing and voices saying horrible things about me; "We shouldn't let her hang with us." "Yea. She will never fit in." "True dat. She's not at our level." "Haha. Me? Learn American Sign Language? Hahaha. Not on her life!" Upon hearing those, I fought back my tears from falling. I ran to ladies' bathroom, locked myself in handicap stall, and cried. Then, I waited for the bathroom to be empty, blew my nose, splashed cold water on my face, and fixed my makeup so no one would know that I've been crying. I didn't have the heart to tell the pastors, my mom, and my church group's parents about how they (my church group) have been treating me because I didn't want them to think of me as a bad person or a rat fink. Then, years later, my church group found me on Instagram and they all messaged me apologizing to me for the way they treated me. I was gonna tell them to go screw themselves, but I looked at their messages of apologies, and I saw that they really did feel guilty, and told them all that I accept their apologies and that I forgive them.
    (Sorry for this long story; I hope I didn't bore you with all the details.)

    • @nyameakuamoah-ansong6408
      @nyameakuamoah-ansong6408 Год назад +6

      Wow

    • @laveniacleaver9530
      @laveniacleaver9530 Год назад +3

      @@nyameakuamoah-ansong6408 yea

    • @gataaaaa
      @gataaaaa Год назад +13

      I'm glad they apologized, I hope you all are good now.

    • @xethrion4758
      @xethrion4758 Год назад +19

      Idk, Forgiving then was probably the largest mistake ever. Worst they come from a religious group, I deal with a lot of religious Hypocrisy almost everyday and I won’t ever forgive those who claim to be holy but judge and exclude others. They are like a Bunch of Mind controlled sentient beings

    • @ItzKittyEditz
      @ItzKittyEditz Год назад +3

      Looooooooooooooong

  • @anthonyleon7590
    @anthonyleon7590 Год назад +475

    Ahhh, there's nothing like a good reunion between old friends. But there's no reason to be jealous about that kind of thing or even try to sabotage; just because old friends are together again doesn't make you a third wheel. Friends are forever no matter what and there's always room for more. You know what they say: All for one and one for all.

    • @savagekills2286
      @savagekills2286 Год назад +8

      ON GOD

    • @HUH-LIPSO
      @HUH-LIPSO Год назад +12

      Finally one who understands

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Год назад +64

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this video, Anthony. I appreciate you watching. Stay inspired and always be in the loop.

    • @GiasBeadsXoxo
      @GiasBeadsXoxo Год назад +39

      Yes but jealousy gets to us. At that moment we feel left out which we arent supposed to feel. If the bff doesnt make the other girl feel left out then it wouldnt be a problem. I wouldnt sabotage but just avoid her for a few days so she understands to make both her friends feel loved.

    • @bananas8758
      @bananas8758 Год назад +10

      @@DharMann Daddy dhar

  • @TheAmelia0820
    @TheAmelia0820 4 месяца назад +3

    Probably the most relatable episode he’s ever made.

  • @kclol7772
    @kclol7772 Год назад +11

    We’re not just telling stories, we’re venting to our principals

  • @elizabethanera812
    @elizabethanera812 Год назад +112

    I can relate to this so much. Brought back so many feelings. Maturing is realizing the friend who left her aside was the toxic one. And I would have rather been alone or with someone who cares about my emotions

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 Год назад +3

      I don't blame you, I feel the same way.

    • @LemonMatcha
      @LemonMatcha Год назад +5

      She wasn't toxic tho, I always be the one who left behind but for this girl, she's just excited bc her friend she haven't saw in years came back. The excitement will probably last for a while.

  • @Alice-rg7ht
    @Alice-rg7ht Год назад +34

    At 5:20 it made me so sad in the video a girl who takes over her old friend than new friend so sad I even cry

  • @xOkayb4x
    @xOkayb4x 4 месяца назад +3

    To be honest, this is so relatable. I've been in like 12 friends groups and most of them were trios. I always got left out.. Every single one, I'm in another one currently and i'm getting left out again.

    • @KeyboardKrazy49
      @KeyboardKrazy49 3 месяца назад

      I guess that means that their not true friends to begin with, I’ve had that recently with a few friends, I’ve eventually called them out and not ever want to see them again as I have better things to do, and to just get on with my life doing other things, I’d rather be on my own, than be with people pretending to be your friend

  • @DIONGANGO
    @DIONGANGO Год назад +12

    If u are jealous on someone let it go and dont prank them just let them have a freindship

  • @TheTruth-ug5rw
    @TheTruth-ug5rw Год назад +200

    The girl’s feelings were valid, although she should’ve handled the situation better, her own best friend stabbed her in the back. I know meeting someone you haven’t seen in a while is exciting and all, she could’ve included all 3 into their plans. So in my opinion both parties are in the wrong, and both sides should’ve handled the situation better.
    Along with that, the other side tried to convince “Laila” to celebrate HER own birthday on a date that was suitable for themselves.

    • @user-js7wq2hu7l
      @user-js7wq2hu7l Год назад +4

      she didint back stab her firend

    • @TheTruth-ug5rw
      @TheTruth-ug5rw Год назад +12

      @@user-js7wq2hu7l She abandoned her. Out of all friends, she should’ve been the one able to see that. I could go on and say “she could’ve done this.” “she could’ve done that.” but you already know what she could’ve done.

    • @Anu94481
      @Anu94481 Год назад

      @@user-js7wq2hu7l ur right

  • @rathasri4060
    @rathasri4060 Год назад +288

    "Good friends are like stars." You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." I love that so much. No matter how you're feeling people do care friends or family. Thank you Dhar Mann for being so inspiring lots of love to you, your family, and just everyone :) Thank you all your amazing viodeos. You guys, team crush it!!! We appreciate you all so much and your amazingness 🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Purdythedoggy
    @Purdythedoggy Год назад +2

    I’m sorry can we just talk about the cover of this video 😂💀

  • @sanchoy
    @sanchoy Год назад +1

    Who noticed That They switched the knife to Fork lol

  • @LoneGooseFromMagentaPlains
    @LoneGooseFromMagentaPlains Год назад +35

    This really hits home for me. I’ve dealt with being abandoned by friends for other friends before. It sucks.

  • @lillyyt3332
    @lillyyt3332 Год назад +130

    Hey dhar here’s a idea for a vid. So this girl comes in a restaurant and a girl comes and she makes fun of the other girl who walked in because her family is poor, well it looks like that. Then the girl (that came in) was the owner of the restaurant with her parents. Not the best but it’s ok I think. but who cares I hope u read it Ik your not cuz this is a werir and im a random person, but yea
    Edit: oh thanks for the likes

  • @EfowieTaoOriginal
    @EfowieTaoOriginal Год назад +26

    Dhar man i- have noting to say but...THIS IS A MASTERPEICE!! Inculding...december 26th is my birthday and my friends are cruel like that and ITS JUST A COINCIDENCE!!

    • @DontNoahLot
      @DontNoahLot Год назад +2

      Hope you get new friends :(

  • @alayna8001
    @alayna8001 Год назад +4

    It’s sad how she just left her friend after Michaela came. But it is never right to ruin a birthday party. If you feel that your friend is not spending time with you anymore, say something. I always tell others and myself, ‘if you see something, say something’. I was rude to my best friend, so she broke my friendship bracelet, and never talked again. I made new friends, but nobody was like her. Everyone is one in a million.

  • @qoben38
    @qoben38 Год назад +28

    12:39 pickle juice isnt bad

    • @Itach_Uchiha420
      @Itach_Uchiha420 Год назад +3

      UMMMMMM................. Then Try Some🥒🍹

    • @qoben38
      @qoben38 Год назад +3

      @@Itach_Uchiha420 i did and its pink its so good

    • @Potterhead.Always
      @Potterhead.Always 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@qoben38Why would pickle juice be pink ?

    • @qoben38
      @qoben38 8 месяцев назад

      @@Potterhead.Always it is though go search it

  • @procrafter2445
    @procrafter2445 Год назад +26

    6:43 literally ever principal

  • @Yumii_unk007
    @Yumii_unk007 6 месяцев назад +1

    A trio friends circle is not good trust me the 2 others of the group being a duo 😭🤚🏻

    • @genyatusamaki1219
      @genyatusamaki1219 2 месяца назад +1

      Trio friends is not bad it just all three needs to learn how to connect with each other

  • @BeckaLJonesAuthor
    @BeckaLJonesAuthor 9 месяцев назад

    Ha! Totally shocked me that sweet girl was doing all those tricks at the party to mess it up! 😂 Usually I know whats going to happen but you got me! I have seen just about all your videos. This one threw me for a loop😂

  • @btsarmyletsdefeathaters485
    @btsarmyletsdefeathaters485 Год назад +23

    Tbh, This kinda hurts me. It's not like she was left out completely like I have been. From sitting alone to not being told inside jokes, you name it. This is a super relatable video Dhar, thanks.

  • @mrifbyanychance
    @mrifbyanychance Год назад +337

    We're not only telling stories, we're explaining the true value of friendship

    • @Fiona-oq4dn
      @Fiona-oq4dn Год назад +2

      Yeah

    • @littlerollypig6098
      @littlerollypig6098 Год назад

      MMMM
      MM MM
      MMMMM
      MM MM
      .

    • @weaponsmith
      @weaponsmith Год назад +5

      We're not just telling stories, we're giving people dog poop for their birthday

    • @pxrsis
      @pxrsis Год назад +4

      We're not only telling stories, we're sabotaging birthday parties

    • @rxse5042
      @rxse5042 Год назад +2

      @@weaponsmith can I have some 😊

  • @Cherub_222
    @Cherub_222 5 месяцев назад +3

    This will never not make me cry

  • @Jxxstjxns
    @Jxxstjxns 4 месяца назад +3

    Ok i get how the girl felt betrayed and the new girl should've been more considerate as well as friend but the girl who ruined the party is just TOXIC and you cannot convince me otherwise

  • @sofi.a_
    @sofi.a_ Год назад +29

    The way she just slam the door in the delivery guys face without paying 😭 18:49

  • @kingbopit9318
    @kingbopit9318 Год назад +59

    I know what she’s feeling
    I get jealous too I worry sometimes that I feel ignored or I’m not good enough or just looked over but you should never go as far as backstabbing your own friend or someone you love. Jealousy can change you and do things you’d never thought you’d do you should try to control yourself with these emotions

  • @vlogswkai
    @vlogswkai 9 месяцев назад +1

    lailas feelings were valid. she basically got taken away from her best friend. like in the birthday plan. she was trying to explain that she was having a sleepover bday party and then the other girl just starting making plans with her father and when laila was trying to explain that they were using the projected and everything. the new girl listened to her for not even 3 seconds.

  • @zsucksatgaming
    @zsucksatgaming Год назад +2

    I love how right in the beginning when the food fight happens the lunch lady is just like "nope I have nothing to do with this"

  • @bekkr.asmr_rawrahraaah1106
    @bekkr.asmr_rawrahraaah1106 Год назад +29

    This is what happened when I introduced my two best friends, when they met they got close and completely forgot about me and ignored almost everything I said and did…it went from something simple like them being in all the same classes without me to them gossiping about me and planning basically every hangout, sleepover, and event without me

  • @epicplayz6132
    @epicplayz6132 Год назад +274

    "Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know there always there" One if the best quotes ever Dhar Mann, keep up the good work!💙💙💙

  • @Kayledoescodes
    @Kayledoescodes 6 месяцев назад +2

    that was the crazyist love I’ve ever seen💀

  • @luvvplaysx
    @luvvplaysx 9 месяцев назад

    I want this video to have more parts like this duo is amazing I want more videos about them!

  • @angie26909
    @angie26909 Год назад +34

    This happens a lot to me when I have friends especially when your "friend" leaves you out like you never existed.

  • @Rebecca-vt8el
    @Rebecca-vt8el Год назад +95

    I was separated from my best friend during the lockdowns, and I wish I'd heard "Friends are like the stars: you can't always see them, but you know they're always there", that would've really helped me push through. Dhar Mann videos are so inspirational. Thank you for making such amazing content.

  • @KolaAndJos
    @KolaAndJos 9 месяцев назад +3

    Who was here when the original thumbnail was her holding a knife then her holding a fork then the current one?

  • @birdmanscool7030
    @birdmanscool7030 Год назад +11

    I love the part where she backstabs her friend

  • @BlueAsBri
    @BlueAsBri Год назад +482

    We’re not just telling stories we are teaching best friends to never backstab eachother great content dhar Mann ❤️

  • @hilarytiago1753
    @hilarytiago1753 Год назад +74

    "Good friends are like stars. You don't have to see them but you know they're always there" important note

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Год назад +12

      Thank you for watching, Hilary. I hope the message of this video inspired you.

    • @erenayicoz4226
      @erenayicoz4226 Год назад

      Dhar Mann only comment, let's change that

  • @deku-qc7rk
    @deku-qc7rk 8 месяцев назад +1

    everyone’s saying that she was “left out” when her friends clearly tried to include her multiple times but she was the blind one and couldn’t realize it-💀

  • @aurelia5884
    @aurelia5884 Год назад +3

    went through this part of life actually, I can actually say that the girl action/reaction over this situation are completely right and accurate. It is always so painful to see your friends you just made suddenly gone like speck of dust come and go~~ :(

  • @lillian_gisch13
    @lillian_gisch13 Год назад +53

    We’re not just telling stories, we’re teaching kids to not be selfish jerks

  • @meowmeow9617
    @meowmeow9617 Год назад +34

    When the principle came to Laila, I was both heart warmed but angered at the same time. For the 9 years of my life going to school, no one’s done anything like that for me.

  • @Absolutecx7amp
    @Absolutecx7amp Год назад +4

    I lowkey feel her cuz at school I always feel like my crush likes someone else and not me but I know she does because she blew a kiss at me when I gave her money.

  • @FatimaTheKpopFan
    @FatimaTheKpopFan 5 месяцев назад +2

    “There is always a duo in a trio”

  • @ablue5419
    @ablue5419 Год назад +17

    With a friend like that you don’t need enemies.

  • @ims2DD
    @ims2DD Год назад +470

    Jealousy can always take over, dont let it get over you! It can cause you to do bad things without you thinking it is bad. Thank you for posting these videos Dhar. The videos you make are amazing because this is actually very inspiring to many people and help them learn life lessons! Thank you :D
    Edit: I started WW3….

    • @ekkowithak-yt
      @ekkowithak-yt Год назад +10

      No u are wrong he is supporting gays

    • @weaponsmith
      @weaponsmith Год назад +16

      @@ekkowithak-yt nothing is wrong with gays

    • @MilitaryFighter13
      @MilitaryFighter13 Год назад +15

      @@ekkowithak-yt There is nothing wrong with being gay, explain to me how it’s wrong.

    • @xdpost2432
      @xdpost2432 Год назад

      @@MilitaryFighter13 he’s probably christian

    • @freerobux6318
      @freerobux6318 Год назад

      Dhar Mann sucks! my content is better!

  • @Mrgoose2.0
    @Mrgoose2.0 Год назад +8

    😭 Dhar really changed the knife into a fork lmao 😭

  • @choas2323
    @choas2323 Год назад +6

    4:39 "you didnt have to cut me off"

  • @KlebApple
    @KlebApple Год назад +24

    6:50 W principle ngl

    • @AYT04
      @AYT04 Год назад

      Dhar should make a movie but add inspirational, educational and helpful tips in life scenes in it. That would be so cool

    • @joshr7777
      @joshr7777 9 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠@@AYT04he does that every video tho-

  • @TheRivrPrncess
    @TheRivrPrncess Год назад +43

    Good lesson for those in a trio friendship. If each friend is looking out for the happiness of the other friends, then there is no room for jealousy. When you are friends with someone and they are reacquainted with an old friend, be happy for them and when you are invited to be with them you should accept the invitation. If you are feeling left out, be honest but kind and tactful when you express your feelings and concerns with the goal of maintaining the friendships, not of getting your way.

  • @XX_BLOXBURG.VIDEOS_XX
    @XX_BLOXBURG.VIDEOS_XX 7 месяцев назад

    I can relate to her so much, when my best friend would hangout with other friends and they laughed and looked so happy together I got jealous 😭

  • @Iheartmyself832
    @Iheartmyself832 Год назад +2

    Who else feels like this at school 😢

  •  Год назад +26

    We’re not just telling stories, we’re backstabbing friends.

    • @Tam_1
      @Tam_1 Год назад

      Doofy the dragon episode 1! :D so lovely lol

    • @zoebowers
      @zoebowers Год назад

      @Doofy you have two videos....

    • @zoebowers
      @zoebowers Год назад

      ​@Doofy dhar has 10M subs

    • @zoebowers
      @zoebowers Год назад

      copied comment

    • @prodbylaij4743
      @prodbylaij4743 Год назад +1

      omg you are so funny and original

  • @Colainurbasement
    @Colainurbasement Год назад +153

    "Good friends are like stars,"
    "You dont always see them,"
    "But you know they're always there."
    What an greatful message to use!
    I love your videos alot dhar!

    • @JaydenNguyen.
      @JaydenNguyen. Год назад +1

      Read my name

    • @awooger
      @awooger Год назад

      me when im a bot

    • @maxxgd7639
      @maxxgd7639 Год назад

      You would be lying to yourself if you meant this

    • @playroblox7222
      @playroblox7222 Год назад

      You copy it so you think dhar will notice you

    • @diala1978
      @diala1978 Год назад +1

      @@playroblox7222 dude, we don’t know if she is serious and what if she really mean it, not like all people do this. And btw dhar still didn’t even notice her so just leave her alone.

  • @LLL_ALDC
    @LLL_ALDC Год назад +13

    Me and my one best friend used to be really close together and we started growing apart last year but this year it’s completely different because all her classes are with my other friend to join their friend group and now they’re super close and I feel really excluded

    • @Lost.In.The.Void.Forever
      @Lost.In.The.Void.Forever Год назад +1

      I can relate my old best friend Natalya and I were besties but after summer we grew apart and out of the blue she started hanging out with my bestie and I felt so left out

    • @nayvicervera8903
      @nayvicervera8903 Год назад

      @@Lost.In.The.Void.Forever dang I felt left out too