Interview: How to plan when divorcing a narcissist

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025

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  • @odette8905
    @odette8905 5 лет назад +16

    Finally - a rare professional who gets the personality type. Great piece. Thank you.

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  5 лет назад +1

      Odette F Thank you. I hope it helped. Please like it, share it and subscribe so that you get more in the future. Let me know of any content you’re interested in for my future videos.

    • @gameplayers802
      @gameplayers802 4 года назад +1

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  • @elbamora9624
    @elbamora9624 6 лет назад +20

    GOD, AFTER ALL MY SUFFERING , PLEASE LET TODAY BE THE ANSWER TO MY PRAYERS

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +2

      elba mora My RUclips page has many videos on this topic. If you find them helpful, I would appreciate it if you would give them a "like" and share them so that more people get to see them. Thanks!

  • @supastar9805
    @supastar9805 6 лет назад +11

    I really wish I had this information 8 years ago when I went through my divorce. I’ve spent the last few years understanding and realizing that i was married to a covert Narcissist. Finally walked away from a 20 yr marriage and still trying to cope with the financial mess he left me with.

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +4

      Supastar it’s always a challenge. Better times are coming.

    • @johnalstoniii1342
      @johnalstoniii1342 6 лет назад +2

      Your not alone,im going through the same ,getting ready for a divorce after 10 years of marriage

    • @djmidas7
      @djmidas7 5 лет назад +2

      I have my first hearing next week. Did your spouse lie on the court documents about finances and slander of your parenting ?

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 5 лет назад +7

    Hi too late for me I am going through divorce with a narcissist and he lies and smears and hides money and makes out he is a great father etc. He has gathered up an army with his charm and has the best lawyer money can buy there tactic is aggressive! They are running rings round my lawyer who seems to not be interested.

  • @penelopelambson9128
    @penelopelambson9128 6 лет назад +16

    Being prepared surely is a wise approach. But by the time most victims gather their wits to pursue divorce from a narcissist, they are in trauma and exhaustion from the relationship. They can barely think straight enough get themselves together , much less compile supportive witnesses or documentation. Often they have been abused and isolated so have no preparation at all. The narcissist swoops in and obliterates them in court. It’s unbelievably unfair.

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +2

      Penelope Lambson I agree but what’s the answer then?

    • @johnalstoniii1342
      @johnalstoniii1342 6 лет назад +2

      Your so right ,seems like the narc gets to win all through their sins.Its so sad to see the victim turned into a villian.But we all reap what we sow ,according to the Bible

  • @dorothykaliati2256
    @dorothykaliati2256 4 года назад +4

    Im getting ready to divorce my narcissist oh 26 yeaes.

  • @myadhdlife4869
    @myadhdlife4869 2 года назад +2

    And then there’s the covert narcissist.

  • @enochgray950
    @enochgray950 4 года назад +2

    My lawyer does not understand how to deal with a narcissist.

  • @nickolasbedford2121
    @nickolasbedford2121 6 лет назад +6

    Great information. Any tips regarding how to find a local attorney with this understanding and mindset??

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +1

      Nickolas Bedford Unfortunately, no. I get calls from all over the world asking that same question I never have an answer for it.

  • @stellaercolani3810
    @stellaercolani3810 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you.

  • @ilzefolscher747
    @ilzefolscher747 6 лет назад +4

    Awesome interview :-)

  • @graceditchfield123
    @graceditchfield123 6 лет назад +3

    I wish you where in illinois!

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +3

      Grace Ditchfield I wish I could help you also.

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +2

      ranch3w I don’t know anybody well-versed in this area to tell the truth.

    • @graceditchfield123
      @graceditchfield123 6 лет назад +4

      Brad is a pioneer! He definatelly is setting a trend for other attorneys to get the knowledge and understanding of this problem.
      Just look at the tragic Colorado familly. The killer of his wife, and children definatelly showes NPD traits in many interviews.
      With that said our justice system courts and judges also need to understand the problem. Unfortunately most victims will not take this further as understandably as they have children with those troubled mentally people.
      I have even reach out to journalists as our media would be an excellent educational and awareness tool.
      This is a way bigger problem that is also a growing trend due to lack of awareness and partly of where we are as a society
      Long post but again : BRAD THANK YOU FOR MAKING A DIFFERENCE !!!

    • @michelekoupai
      @michelekoupai 5 лет назад

      Would love to work with you on Coaching your clients who suffer from complex ptsd after going through their relationship/divorce with the narcissist! God bless you. We need more attorneys like you in California who GET IT!

  • @dianedavis1591
    @dianedavis1591 5 лет назад +1

    Good afternoon everyone I have a question I live in Kentucky, Do they have a Narcissist attorneys in Ky

  • @Ekowal1965
    @Ekowal1965 4 года назад +1

    Just run. Pick up your shit and move. As fast and far you can. F...k the divorce just go,

  • @DarkerSideOfDawn
    @DarkerSideOfDawn Год назад

    What if your narcissist is a psychopath?

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  Год назад

      That’s something I can address. Psychopathology can be a very dangerous trait in a person. You should find a counselor or therapist for assistance.Thank you for watching my videos and for your comments. I hope they help you. Please subscribe so you’ll get notices when I post new videos. Thank you, Brad M. Micklin, Esq.

  • @7117hpr7117
    @7117hpr7117 7 лет назад +2

    Where is this man located.

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  7 лет назад +3

      Nutley, New Jersey.

    • @7117hpr7117
      @7117hpr7117 7 лет назад +3

      I am in PA. I hired a lawyer about a month ago. Your videos and seminars are great. I really appreciate them. If I had know the extent of my wife's narcissism I definitely would have sought out your help. Thank you for what you are doing. She has destroyed my life with allegations of false abuse. Criminal charges and a PFA. She hired a lawyer in October and told me she wasn't attracted to me anymore, she didn't want to be married to me and told me to leave the house. This after getting her boobs and tummy tuck. I wouldn't leave so she went to plan "B". Police involvement. You videos are great, you are doing a great thing. Thank you very much they will be a great help to me.

  • @lzorrila01
    @lzorrila01 6 лет назад +1

    Can your law firm help people outside of New Jersey?

    • @bradmichaelmicklin234
      @bradmichaelmicklin234  6 лет назад +1

      Wajma Zorrilla no, sorry. What do you need?

    • @lzorrila01
      @lzorrila01 6 лет назад +1

      Brad Michael Micklin I need advice for someone in another state. She is a home maker for sometime now and her husband is suffering from Narcissist Personality Disorder. Which is making her life hell as well as their children. She needs advice and possible representation...

  • @shawnyork2083
    @shawnyork2083 3 года назад +2

    Dont waste time didnt say anything. Content maker should delete this waste of time

  • @robertphelps573
    @robertphelps573 6 лет назад +4

    If you're planning on divorcing your spouse you better be planning on going to hell too because Jesus Christ Himself told you He will not let man put your marriage asunder

    • @ang_ro
      @ang_ro 6 лет назад +12

      Robert Phelps 😂 Hell after death isn't real; but hell on earth is staying married to a narcissist!!

    • @Florida-is-my-home
      @Florida-is-my-home 6 лет назад +16

      Robert Phelps- You’re absolutely wrong about that. One of the biblical reasons a Christian can divorce their spouse, is if the spouse is an unbeliever who leaves the marriage. A narcissist CAN’T be a believer. True believers repent from their sins and follow Jesus. A narcissist doesn’t repent, and they most certainly DON’T follow Jesus!!! And they worship themselves, love no one except themselves- they were never “in the marriage” in the first place. They most likely left you before the marriage even began. And do you really believe that God wants His children suffer unnecessarily due to abuse? What kind of God do you worship? That’s an evil god, not a loving Father!!!! Marriage was made for people - people were NOT made for marriage!!!! When God instituted marriage, He said that it is not good for man to be alone. When you’re married to a narcissist, you’re always alone. It’s EVIL to compel people to stay in a situation that leaves them abused and hopeless!!!!!!

    • @maggiesalle2256
      @maggiesalle2256 6 лет назад +10

      You are not rightly dividing the Word of Truth. We are not supposed to associate with narcissistic people. We are not to throw pearls before swine either.

    • @horsesence101
      @horsesence101 5 лет назад +6

      God may hate divorce but he hates a bad marriage more!

    • @sylentknight
      @sylentknight 5 лет назад

      Robert, have you ever told a single lie in your entire existence ?