My husband cheated and I decided to forgive, every now and again I get triggered mostly if similar incidents occur say with friends or coworkers and then he chimes in like he " told me" and I just didnt find out ( which i did) and as the years go on I feel like he tries to distance himself as far from the truth of it or gives me justifications for it as it was him being a man Or minimizing it as " at least i didn't have a baby " like his father did. pretty soon he gonna be telling me I made it up. Cause hes a narcissist.
I have been going through the same thing, my husband would talk to me and everything would be good and in a split second he changes and i am like i don't understand. And it makes me feel like i did something wrong. The next thing is that i don't know what to expect next.. but still makes it looks like a bad person and I am still questioning myself.
I love that you all post each week day. Definitely helps me recommit myself to my partner each day! Thanks for this show and I love the focus on you and not the other person changing. That’s an eye opener, it’s something I knew but the way you all state it continuously has me taking a hard look and taking accountability REGARDLESS of how the other person behaves.
My husband cheated and I decided to forgive, every now and again I get triggered mostly if similar incidents occur say with friends or coworkers and then he chimes in like he " told me" and I just didnt find out ( which i did) and as the years go on I feel like he tries to distance himself as far from the truth of it or gives me justifications for it as it was him being a man Or minimizing it as " at least i didn't have a baby " like his father did. pretty soon he gonna be telling me I made it up. Cause hes a narcissist.
I have been going through the same thing, my husband would talk to me and everything would be good and in a split second he changes and i am like i don't understand. And it makes me feel like i did something wrong. The next thing is that i don't know what to expect next.. but still makes it looks like a bad person and I am still questioning myself.
I love that you all post each week day. Definitely helps me recommit myself to my partner each day! Thanks for this show and I love the focus on you and not the other person changing. That’s an eye opener, it’s something I knew but the way you all state it continuously has me taking a hard look and taking accountability REGARDLESS of how the other person behaves.
This was awesome. Your shows are always great
My marriage needs help. Please help me I want to make it work.
A lot of these are traits of a narcissist and yet we dont call a thing a thing and if they arent a narcissist then what are they?
I am fine until he tows the line HARD that he never, ever, did this thing. Triggers me every time.