Breakups: Looking for the best form of revenge?
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- Bad breakups with cruel behavior can tempt us to thoughts of revenge. The trick to kick-starting Karma lies in non-interference. This is the magical property that levels the playing field and does for you, what you could never achieve with malice.
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I once heard that when a relationship ends you don’t mourn the end of the relationship, you mourn what the relationship could have been.
Yes, it’s ‘the dream’ we mourn most of the time
What you "thought" it could have been
and yet the other person didnt get it....
and the person may not reach out, but once you start feeling good about yourself, that is YOUR beginning
absolutely
Well said 👍🏼
He wanted me after he was living with somebody and now he says he DOSENT Evan like me to my girl
A huge AMEN there!
You have to remember your life before them,,and remember you made it that far without even knowing they exsisted.
Yes this is true. I'm trying to reboot myself back to that point. They aren't even worth the 'lesson' I'm supposed to learn from the bad relationship.
@@nailpolishinhale forreal!
I love this!!!
Simply put, go no contact. Work on you and you will heal. Do not in any way try to contact them, look at their social media, look at their pictures, nothing. I'm not saying it's easy. IT'S HARD. But it's the only way. No contact.
Mitchell these are good points
It’s been 10 months and I once never checked his social media and no contact. He’s dead 💀 to me
True...
@@chynadoll77cyn59 and they didn’t reach out? Wow
@@mariahsmith5380 It is better if they don't reach out. They are supposedly an ex for good reasons after all.
I seriously cried at the last part of your video. "I want you to be happy, I want you to be free, the best revenge is to cut the mental chord, quit feeding the beast, let life do in its own and you'll see miracles happen". I really lifted by that sentence. You made my day. Thank you! 😘
I even downloaded this video so that I can watch it again and again.
I cried during the whole video
"He could feel the absence of my presence".
That’s right
Success is the best revenge. Moving on and finding someone else who is better in every way.
True.! An experiencing that myself.!
No, that's not always work.. Sometimes life so sucks, that your ex may marry someone who you thought better than you. The best revenge is to love your self fully, retract your energy like what Susan said.
The best revenge is success. Go out and be successful! Their loss. No more fuel from you!
Wow...".I want you to be happy...but more then that...I want you to be free. " I have to buys your books. You sort of rock my world.
Thank you!!! Love you kind words, LittlePoet
What books?! I'm new to her channel
My sentiments exactly
She HB ... look on Amazon, Susan has a little ~30 page booklet ($0.99 Kindle version) that is very helpful IMO. I also did a one-on-one phone session with her and she is fantastic.
Love your channel little poet
OMG needed to hear this today..universe talks to us through beautiful people like you :)
thanks Sue B
@@SusanWinter You don't sound very grateful. Always makes me laugh when you lying women put on a bright, cheery, vibrant front in your pics and videos, smiling like butter wouldn't melt, but then your online messages and texts reveal what frigid little ice queens you really are.
אתם מדהימים. המילים שלכם מרגיעות. תודה
I agree with this... when we think of them, we give them some of our life force. .. and they love it! I choose to be free. I'm hoping it will get easier with time.
How are you now dear?
This is so true. Anytime you just leave it and don't get involved with someone's bad behavior, the universe orchestrates the perfect lesson. I have had it happen to myself, and I have seen it happen to others. Every time, without a doubt.
Hi Greedy Rick. Isn't that amazing? If we get out of the way the universe will actually correct the situation. Thanks for your terrific comment and observation.
@@SusanWinter But what if we get in the way?
The topics in this video are so true! I have witnessed them myself. I don't know how they work, but they do. It is simply letting go of your attachment. It isn't easy, but when you do, I have seen how powerful that Force is in delivering a crushing blow of Karma. Plus the ex DOES feel the withdrawal of that energy. It is amazing, and yes, your hands are clean. You simply let go. I have watched this video over and over. So encouraging! Thank you Susan!
Big C, you are welcome! It is rather magical. And unless you've experienced it yourself, it might seem that one is making it up. But it's a real thing, as you know and have experienced
Iam going thru this right now. I cant able to get mad at her even she dumped me twice. Its LDR and she cheated on me twice but still I cant get myselr angry with her, because we didnt argue or what its just the distance and she cant take it. Im so lost right now in pain and I wish soon Ill be okay. 😥
Will it work if he's not my ex or present bf?
Mandy Gangotre did it work?
what do u do whan u nick'door nigthbourth is sexall hassmeant police don't help he's partner don't believe me whan I have got all the texted and all the cards he got my number of the door whan it was for the gas man keeps getting my letter out of my boxs and going to over thing I don't what tham to go
There is never any need to seek revenge on anyone. The laws of Karma will take care of all that. Just sit back and life will do the rest. Not that we wish harm on anyone, but if someone goes round being a bad person, sooner or later it will catch up with them, and they will reap their just deserts, without you lifting a finger. "As you sow, so shall you reap"..."What goes around, comes around" etc.
Joanna Henwood : Amen!
I like your reply. Seeking of revenge could create a loop, where people are dragged into, again and again. Now I would think deep if I want to go into a relationship where a person is expressing forms of revenge early on.
Laws of karma? Universal punishment system? You know there are murders and rapist still walking around free and will die peacefully in their sleep. That happens. So tell me where is this karma or universal punishment system you speak of?
@@brienmaybe.4415 Perhaps because there is so much negativity around that person already, the law of nature has no room to act. Hell, I don't know but you make a good point.
@@brienmaybe.4415 Google is your friend.
Hi Susan, I would just like to add that you are so right about feeding the beast and them living odd that energy from thoughts. My children's father left me for another woman and I was absolutely devastated! I tried everything to get home back for months but it was completely useless, he had absolute no interest whatsoever in getting back with me. He broke up our family as we have to children together and he told me many times he was in love with this new woman and he had no plans to ever get back. I was broken hearted but I could not imagine my life without this person..as you mentioned in another video..I was fixated on the dream that he fulfilled. A family, stability, love although looking back it really wasn't what I thought it was. Anyhow, as I decided to consciously move on and stop seeking him, I stopped contacting him, started to go out with friends and allowed them to get on with it. And guess what happened..he came back..telling me h had made a huge mistake and he wanted me back..he still says it now, he is still seeing this other woman but he is kicking himself. I just wanted people out there to know this as it is true!! And now I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in ever getting back with him, I feel like he is mentally 'blocked' from my mind and heart! I puts amazing! Thank you for your wonderful words of wisdom and sharing xxx
Katie, thank you so much for your note. I'm truly sorry for this huge upheaval in your life. But isn't it amazing how the power hidden behind this event has shown you a whole new reality?? And how liberating this knowledge? I'm thrilled you've come to this point. It's an incredible observation to witness how depriving our ex of our thoughts, activates their desire to regain our love. By that time, we rarely want them. Not only do we set ourselves free, but we turn the tables. For evermore, you'll be 'the one that got away.' Every man carries this story. Ask the men you know. They all speak about the one they let get away and kick themselves with wondering how they could be such a fool.// As for the dream, you've got that awareness. It was the dream you wanted, not the man. he activated the dream and was the conduit to the dream... but not THE DREAM. You now have new dreams. And you'll find those who want to participate in the dream you have, with you. What a lovely note. Sending you a virtual hug!!!
Thank you I have only just read this..I have now moved on and met some amazing guys along the way...it hasn't been easy, I have a chronic illness, I'm a working single mother of two children, so finding a partner hasn't been a priority for me as I need to heal... However I have met somebody wonderful now.. GoneRe the nights I cried myself to sleep and thought life was hopeless...I am now very grateful for the experience as I have now realised as you said, he was not the dream...he activated it but was not it!! Had he'd not cheated I would still be in a loveless, empty unsatisfying relationship, always miserable and wondering why I was allay feeling so negative.. So to all you viewers out there, give it time, be patient. I don't have good looks, a great body or anything but by being rid of him, pushed me into raising my vibration and I am so much happier single.. Hang on I'm there, nothing lasts forever. Thank you Susan for all your very encouraging and kind words, by watching your videos, I am actually successfully dating and things are going well.. All thanks to your wisdom, you are truly an amazing woman xxx
YAY!!!!!! EXCELLENT, Katie. Loved your commentary. Thank you!!
Revenge only shows they still have your emotions captive. It's the absence of caring that shows you've really moved on. If they never cared, they'll never care that you left. But if you're content with your life, they'll wonder if they made a mistake.
You have been the best coach on speaking about relationship that I have ever seen! Keep up the good work!!
Fannie Miller thank you for saying that! Your words mean a lot to me. 😀
She's definitely THE best!
This is one of the BEST channels for relationships!
THANKS, Big C!
It s actually the best for me..
Chris Eleuterius This IS the best channel for adult dating and relationships!
I am 66, and it’s a whole different world out there! Susan Winters has saved my life!
"He felt the absence of my energy" that is so true and powerful!!!!!
Thank you Amazing lady!
Jennifer Bang, you look stunning
@@lioydwilliams1850 🙂
@@jenniferbang4506 which country are you from?
I had your Australia moment. The moment I felt at peace with the breakup and started feeling strong, I was enjoying vacation abroad and what do you know? He contacted me. After almost 6 months of no contact. Apologized and admitted he could’ve handled things differently. Funny how the universe works. Let go, cut the chord. You are so right, Susan. Keep doing what you’re doing. Your videos have helped me through a pretty rough part of my life.
Haha this is the first time I've ever heard someone say what I was thinking all along. As soon as they feel that emotional bond slip away or cut they want Your emotional support. And they tell you they miss you. Happened to me not so long ago.
That's correct. Amazing, isn't it? The animal instinct feels the lack of our psychic energy feeding their ego. Thanks for the confirmation and for watching this video.
I wonder when they finally do call how many go back to them cause in a way we are addicted to their energy just as much if not more.
@@LadyofCleves65
SUPER SUPER TRUE.
MY PROBLEM IS I LOVE HER ROUND BUBBLE BUTT .
I LOVE THE SEX .
So weird happened to me numerous times. Years it took me to get that liberating feeling that I was free then practically the intstant I had that feeling I was contacted.
I did what she said in the video and today he went to my job. But I told him to leave me alone. I believe that your ideas are helping me a lot because I was having a depression because of this guy. Thank you Susan winter
I didn’t want this video to end... thank you!
Jill googe,you are absolutely Charming 🌷🌹🥀🥀🌷🌷🤙
Jill googe,hope you are with a good man cause you are too precious!
I had a terrible break up. I hadn't heard from her or thought of her much in 6 months. I was at a dinner and ended up sitting, by a lake and a fire, talking with woman I met that evening, until 3 in the morning.
When I felt it was time to say goodnight, I walked her to the cottage and out of nowhere she gave me one of the most amazing kisses I had ever experienced. Within 10 minutes of that kiss, I recieved a message on my voicemail from the woman I had separated from. She asked: something happened. I can no longer feel you.
What an incredible video. I’m two months no contact, but “no contact” doesn’t mean “no energy.” That’s where the power is. I’m vacationing with friends in a few months when covid dies down, and I know I need to use the next few months for self improvement and stop giving her the energy of my thoughts. Hopefully by then I’ll be at the same place you were, and the cherry on top would be to hear from her again. Who knows. Incredible video. Thank you.
Just to add: I watch plenty of “ex back” type channels, and they all say that there’s always a possibility. I get the vibe from yours of “even if there is, let it go and move forward.” I think that’s what everybody needs to do regardless. Moving forward is, well, the only way forward.
I’m Mathew from Australia 🇦🇺 Thankyou so much Susan
It’s been just over 6 months since my split with my GF
It’s been a real struggle too let go
I’m slowly getting there
I’m not crying anymore
It’s been the first time since our break up where I havnt cried
I’m really working hard too cut the cord
I feel it’s not too far away 🤗
I call those people emotional vampires and I call the disconnect psychic cord cutting. Great video. Control your thoughts and control the energy. I agree with everything you said. Powerful lecture and 100% true.
Thank you Susan. This is what I needed. Revenge is for amateurs. Cut the mental cord and let life deal with them. Thanks again. This is priceless.
So f***ing accurate.What i love the most about her advice is the fact that she really focuses on the heal and not on fake hopes like other promotional-mercatory "coaches".
I have always thought this but no one ever explained this like you .Finally I understand 8 years of mental abuse and how he thrives on depleting my energy
Hi Gayle. I'm so happy to read your comment. Yes, that's the key to your own mental freedom and to disempowering your ex. Wishing you well on a new life with ALL of your energy going toward yourself.
Thank you.my companion is a Narc......Ex companion.We still live together.......
Makes this all a little more complicated.
@@gayelspence5615 you deserve better
Yep. Started to move forward with my life and cut all contact. My ex contacted me and I ended up finding out that he totaled his car, hitting a palm tree on his way home from work from over partying and over working🌴💥🚗 did I feel bad? Maybe. did he deserve it? Yes. thank you for this message I think everyone needs to listen to this
I want to be free, too. This is so helpful I just got back from a trip and the moment I got home I got a message from my ex. I understand I was keeping myself in a place of pain by feeding the thoughts I need to stop talking about him to my friends even when tryouts my to figure out what he is doing. I am cutting the cord and making a conscious effort. Thank you Susan wonderful advice on your channel x
Thanks for your comment.
Finally someone on RUclips with intelligence. I've been watching dozens of videos after my breakup which happened about 45 days ago and this is the most sane, powerful and brilliant recipe for recovery and freedom. Now it's up to me to do the mental exercise that she's talking about. Wish me luck.
I absolutely love your advice, thank you so much. You are so right and what you have said I have heard/read before, that even when you are thinking of someone all the time you are feeding them with energy, even when you have no contact with them at all they can feel that energy and presence. That cord of energy that connects you to that person is preventing you from being available to receive what you really deserve from someone else. So I totally agree, cut the cord, take the high road, walk away with your head held high, at the end of the day their life will be a mess without you anyway. And you are so right, God, the universe or whatever one may believe in, has a way of leveling these people who have wronged us. We don't have to do anything but walk away.
Will it work if he's not my ex or Present bf..I love someone who dont love me..I did alot of efforts for him..I got too much attached to him...We used to talk alot alot..Sometimes he shows interest but sometimes he make me feel i m nothing...I really cried for him alot..He knows how much i love him but he dont value it..yesterday he told me to leave him alone...i begged him to stay but he said go away...I really want to do this method of cutting cord so that he can feel my absence
What makes your videos so genuine that they don't come out of theories or nonsense blah blah we hear on RUclips , no , they come from your own experience followed by educating your self about what happened with u in the past ... that's what make them so believable and true .. you are the best .. a real relationship guru
Thank you Sarah!! I want to reach through the computer and give you a hug!!
you deserve a BIG hug filled with LOVE for sharing these valuable techniques ( gained in the hard way) with us for FREE . some people in this world are Above the world and you are one of them .. i wish you an international fame and success
Sarah, we definitely have a mutual appreciation and society between the two of us here. Thank you again, from the bottom of my heart. Your words are so inspiring and they keep me going. All the best!
Just walk away and don’t look back sounds hard until you do it , next thing you know it’s a year later and you are 👍
“Nerve cells that no longer fire together, no longer wire together “ Joe Dispenza. Thank you Susan you are a Genius 💕🙏
*'Cutting the energy cord'* is not only true for love life but also for other areas of life. Wonderful advice.👏🏼
Cut the Core, Stop feeding the beast, when you free yourself from mind and soul, the minute you starting to do so , they will soon notice your absence and whatever the rest they do will blow your mind ... That's the kind of Revenge you should set yourself for, and the rest of revenge games are for immature. So freaking true. Love you Susan, You again made my day. And I never get tired of watching your videos even if I've watched them already. One of the only greatest addiction for long lasting wisdom. Thank you!
Hey Susan ... I have to tell you that EXACTLY what you said, happened to me recently! I decided to move on from a Friendship/Flirtation Thang and I just Moved on and Ignored this person and after a Month ..They Reached out to ME....LMAO!!! So, what you're saying is SOOO TRUE!! xo
That is an incredible revelation to know that not thinking of someone, is starving them of your energy! Great info!
BRAVO👏👏👏 One of the best videos I've seen! I've dealt with the exact feelings you're describing. I'm just leaving "her" to Karma. God bless you & have a wonderful day... much like yourself😎
CASH TAYLOR!!! Oh my, this is a beautiful comment. Thank you. And as for Karma, that's the part that's truly astounding. I swear, I witnessed events unfold in front of my eyes that I would have happily paid to make happen. They occurred because I didn't interfere. Please know the whole Universe is on your side. You'll see!
You are my inspiration, Susan.
I watch this everyday to give me strength. Thank you!! You are a Godsend.
Jesus gave us the Best solution. "Forgive and Bless your enemy." God takes care of the rest. I have been rejected and hurt by three men and later.. when finding out about them..They are all in a bad unhappy place. I still pray for God to Bless them..
😇👍
thats beautiful and i agree
nduncan79
I am not sure if there is karma or not..but my xhusband left me for a woman who had money and now he is married to her and in her territory. She has all the power and is very mean to him. He has to pay rent and not even allowed a key to the door. The second man.. he had a business and a nice home when he threw me out and now he lives in a fifth wheel with two cats and severe Arthritis. The next man left me and married another woman and later I got a letter from him telling me his wife didn’t love him..he was not well..he thanked me for the only two years of peace he had in his life. I don’t know what happened to the 4th man. I lost track of him. I was hurt but I did not ask God to do that!
@@kathleenwharton2139 I was agreeing with you praying for them and wishing them the best. Vengance is the Lords. Sometimes you have to pray for mercy on others behalfs that wronged you. Im sorry for the mens misfortune. Not thrilled how they treated you either but, you seem healed after yalls time together so thats a blessing.
nduncan79
Yes! I am Healed. And now it is all behind me..I can understand. There was a lesson or more there with every man. There were things about me..needed to be seen and fixed. Your enemies are your best teachers. It was not very pretty though!
I appreciate your informative topic. I experienced this exact thing. I did just that, cut the cord /forgave/ and moved forward! Life is Glorious!
This is the best video for cutting the cord from someone that I have ever seen. Thank you for sharing your fantastic experience - I guess we are all truly connected by energy. Disinterest IS the greatest power - it’s just getting there which is the hard part. THANK YOU. I’m going to watch this again.
I love this video. I've listened to it over and over again in the past few weeks since I first heard it, especially when I'm feeling bad. It's all I have. I can do nothing more. This person broke my heart terrible and I let them walk all over it further for months after that until one day I got my head out of my a-- and stopped communicating with them and later blocked them months back. It wasn't until then that I started to heal. But it's been very hard living with the pain, anger, and indignation they caused me and left me with. Thankfully I was never rude or ugly to them, I kept my class. But still it hurts so much and I just want to see this person acknowledge the wrong they did to me, the harm, the pretty way they threw me aside for someone else the moment their needs changed or the opportunity arose and the sad, hurtful justifications they gave that unfortunately I feel for at the time. But I agree with this video, maybe I'm not there yet but one day the healing and closure will be complete in my heart and mind and I won't think about them anymore or care (though I don't care for them now, I don't want them back) and I'll be free and focusing on myself, living my own life and creating my own happiness. And if and when that day comes, if they contact me, all I'll do is look at that message and put my phone away. They'll have to live with the actions they've then realize they committed and what they lost and who they had, and hopefully that will make them grow too on day into a better person, but they'll never have me or what we had back in their life.
all I can say is damn!! I've been searching for answers and you are basically an angel giving them to me.. this video all by itself was so informational I just want to say God bless you and just continue to help people the way that you been doing💙💙💙
Hi Eric. Thank you for your gracious words.
When i called him crying hurt i remeber me feeling a Sharp pain in my heart and i remeber right at that moment he laughed and said" just admit that you still love me and you cant live without me so just admit that and i will be nice and talk to you " "let go of your ego"and he enjoyed seeing me hurt .he could be on the phone with me and i would talk for almost 2 hr complaing crying yelling telling him i love him and all that without him saying a word and when he gets tired he hangs up with out saying bye and when i call back he blacks me .it hurts so bad and we have a 5 year old
Best video you ever made!! Wow! You raised the bar on our healing. God bless you! Thanks so much!
Thanks Lucy!!!!!
SO SO SO SO SO POWERFUL SUSAN!
They always call when you've let it go. The sucking of the life force is depleted! And they know it! Wow so true! You're very deep and you're profound. Thank you!
Even though this is a reminder of something I‘m already aware of, it has helped me so much. Thanks Susan!
Jacqueline Rimmer,your pretty smile can make the news!
This is one of Susan’s best of the best videos. I am feeling so empowered and grateful for Susan’s guidance!
Dear Ms . Winters ,
I thought what you said about making the mental cut was , hocus pockus. Well it worked in my situation , too. I am astounded . Thanks for helping me. God Bless and Gods speed.
I still think it's hocus pockus. And what of those situations where you did cut off all that energy you're feeding them, and yet they never try contacting you?
A beautiful, powerful message. Cutting off their “supply” is the most freeing gift we can give ourselves. I harken back to the old saying, “Living well is the best revenge”. Well, there is a great deal of weight in that statement. I may be bleeding inside, but my love light is on 24/7. Thank you, Susan. Keeper video. ❤️
This is absolutely amazing and I wish I found this sooner. Thank you Susan. The best relationship advice I've ever heard to this day.
Thank you Sydney.
Omgawd Susan! Love this! My husband tossed separation papers in my face three months ago and I've been thinking about it, crying burdening friends and family with "why..boohoo, cry cry" even quit my job to be at home, reasoning with him - how pathetic! This is the best advice ever! Thank you so much 💓
Listening to this for the third time. Suzan thank you again and again. You shine in so many people's life's. I want the very best for you and your beautiful energy. You are an amazing shining angel to us in need of help. You have made me a stronger, wiser, being . I'm humbled to be your friend. X
How beautiful. Thank you.
Another youtuber referred you on her community page... I really have to thank her because you are amazing.. your videos aren't long and I can tell you now I listen to one of them over and over for an hour... why are you so amazing?? Everything I needed to hear you've told me in under 10 mins... you're amazing.. simply amazing
My old addiction is on holiday with his girlfriend who was his previous ex girlfriend...(he used me as the rebound) she currently treating him like crap as she might aswell have a remote control for him🤣he's spending all of his hard earned cash on her...so it's good to know they're putting each other through their own personall hell....my work here is done🤣🤣🤣the more drama you create the more Karma you get😉
Your a sad person..
"Cut the mental rop" : those are the best words ever.
Thank you so much for making me realize what I needed to do to feel better and to stop thinking of him all the time and to allow my mind to let him go.
Whenever i listen to you i just feel peace and calm like my someone close person giving me advice..Thanks❤
ABSOLUTLY MIND BLOWING AND BRILLIANT!!!!
Amazing true Info , I have experienced this before with a partner a few years ago , wen u finally stopped thinking or caring or hoping , everything turned around she wanted me to bring her back from Malaysia to Australia to get married after she had two relationships in the mean time , the moment u cut that thought and move on this happens , did I bring her back to oz , NO !! With a smile 😊
Trust me you are the best, I have seen people talking about relationship, but you are unique and the advice you give is precious, lots of love.. Stay blessed.
Wow... It blew my mind, it’s amazing and freeing , my good karma brought me to your channel Susan
Love you lots..
Thanks a lot form India 🙏🏼
I've been watching this segment last year, almost everyday,.. getting a deeper inspiration for the worst heartache i have even encountered,. One year has passed, this pops up again in my feed and now, I am just laughing all about it. Thank you Susan. I cant thank u enough for all the videos u have shared for us. You have helped us to choose ourselves and let go of the pain that will never be productive at all..
This happens to me.i felt good, I stopped thinking about him and I felt that text coming that evening. It happened every time. I have had to block him now and really move on.
Can't agree with this more! My best revenge was to become the best version I could be and enjoy life as much as I could. Then by chance I met him again several years later, I was happy and feeling good about myself, he couldn't stop contacting me since...I stayed polite and calm, as I no longer obsessed with him. I eventually got my power back, for me that was the best revenge!
OMG, this has happened to me several times in my life. We are connected in ways we do not even know.
Sandy M, you look stunning 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌺 🌺🥀 🥀.
Sandy M,you deserve a better man!
Dear Susan - You not only help us heal but also empower us with your amazing words that has such a profound effect on our minds and hearts. What you said has helped me so much immensely - "Revenge is a game for amateurs. You want a sophisticated technique and you want a real revenge? Cut the cord on mental connection. Quit feeding the beast". That's savage! Thank you. I am positive that Universe will give you in abundance everything you deserve, for helping heal millions of hearts in the world. Thanks, again.
This has been the best advice i have listened after tormenting myself for months of trying to get my ex back. thank you ver yesterday much susan..
THANK YOU!!
Best video! 1000% on everything she said. When you finally let go and switch your thinking. Then the miracles start to unfold!! Happened to me.
Stay the course people. You’ve got this!!!
Shes been through 3 men and now onto her 4th this whole year, she always asks for me and how I'm doing which brings up my feelings of hatred all over again.
I started a dating coach business for men 2 years ago. Your videos are real, practical, and spiritual. This is one of my favorites.
Amazing! thank you. Im going to practice this technique NOW! Im not giving him any more thought, good or bad.
Fantastic I am Shanti. Let me know how goes.
This is so powerful! You make me realize how much power i have been given away! It does takes time, and a lot of effort, but it is definitely possible. You know something. I have to accept My bigest fear is having him come back and begin able to recognize if its real or not, but why would i worry so much about it? I promise i will surrender! You are gold, thank you for sharing so much knowledge!
Diana,your pretty smile can make the news
I receive that ! and I PROMISE, I will PRACTICE it. 🙌
We can both get your ex back , if you want
I agree with everything you said and I am struggling to cut the cord. She keeps sneaking back in my mind. No contact for a year but I still think about her. Trying to break the cycle for good. No malice, but if Karma pays her back for her betrayal, so be it.
This is very true. After months of the torment of my thinking about him, I made a decision to focus on me and my life and being present in thought for my best interest and when my thoughts turned to him, I stopped myself and said "no ...I do not give you this power over me" and oddly enough out of the blue I received an email from him. Go figure. Thank you for your videos, they are wonderful!
Will it work if he's not my ex or present bf..I m inlove with one guy who dont love me back..I got too attached to him, sometimes he showed me interest but sometimes he say that he dont have anything with me...I feel so bad bcz i really love him...we have been talking from new months and usually call each other..Yesterday he told me to leave him alone..i begged but he told me to leave..I really want to try this method of not thinking bcz i want him to feel my absence..plzz reply me dear
Wow, I never saw it that way, you’re right, it’s the energy that keeps them in a power position
Love you Susan, the right words at the right time.
The trip you explained was exactly like mines! I was on the middle of the ocean in Jamaica and he texted! Ruined my whole trip bc I was totally over him! But he snuck back up into my emotions!
You have to strong, diligent and self persevering when you’re trying heal.
You’re a truly gifted woman. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
THANK YOU!!!!!!!
You are so clear and to the point; I love that!!!!!!
I really have been trying and, yet, he appears in my dreams, or he becomes the first thing that comes to my mind as soon as I wake up.
How can I avoid that? How long does it take to totally clear our energy from the ex energy?
Oh man Susan, I left my home in Canada to be with my partner in Australia and after 13 great years he broke up with me, leaving vulnerable and alone. Cutting the cords of thoughts about him is a struggle but today I managed not to contact him so I'm hoping I get stronger and persistent with each day. Thank you for your videos!
Great words of wisdom Susan, yes absolutely, 'thoughts are as real as a poke in the eye' - Edgar Cayce and the etheric cord is very real. Love your videos Susan. Thank you!
Susan, Thank you for coming into my life. was my most positive friend and helper in 1917. Happy vibrations to carry you're amazing advise, encouragement, teacher.. I love you
Best advice ever! 😘😘😘
Lyric G. Thank you!!!😊
I was starting to finally give an earnest effort to break away from my Ex. I started concentrating more on myself, and doing things to keep me distracted from dwelling on the breakup. The moment I started feeling good, and staying busy, She calls me out of the blue. I hadn't heard a thing from her for 6 weeks.
Me as a 44 year old man for about a year I have to pain with my ex-girlfriend her having this power over me but once you explained it to me in a simple but deep spiritual way I gain my confidence and understanding that I wasn't the one who made the mistake I realize now with my respect and confidence as a good person not just feeding into her power and her mind games but I want to thank you again for inspiring me and watching your videos for the first time today thank you very much
Thank you for this. Just ended a 7 year relationship last week. Very comforting and uplifting. In time, I will heal. Thank you!
May God give you the strength to move forward with your life..
Iiving on our energy without us physically in their life! ha! couldn't have pulled out the scissors quick enough! thank you for confirming my intution 👏❤
Although I only found your videos on this past Sunday, and it's been only four days since then, I watched your videos over and over again in the last few days, and I must say, everything you said in your videos was spot-on. I was obsessing over someone for the last 30 days, and finally, I am starting to get over him by not thinking about him, and catching myself whenever I do after watching your videos. I am forever grateful to you for all you do for people such as myself!
I am here to update. This is probably the most powerful method to get revenge on an ex because I followed Susan’s advice to the tee.
Prior to finding Susan on here, I was miserable thinking of the person day and night. I was even worried that for the rest of my life, the feeling of lack of closure and the “What could have been” would be a part of me forever and ever. Well, five months later, I received a message from him. I still remember the moment I received his e-mail. It was an amazing moment I would never forget.
Thank you, Susan, for your magic advice!
This video works for me all the time. I have a shortcut link of it on my fav bar and watch it each time I have a break up/heartache (which is quite frequent as I wear my heart on my sleeve lol). somehow we hurt even if we are the dumper haha. I brood; loose my appetite and cant focus on work for a few days after each break up and mentally obsess about that person for a few days. so this video gives me the courage to go back out there and try again and again bec I know deep down that what's the worst that can happen - we get a heart ache for a few days .. but this video will put us back on track.. so good luck everyone on your search for love.. don't be afraid of a heart break.. it is always temporary..
Susan, I just wanted to give you a very warm, and heartfelt thank you. I found your message when I needed it, and your word helped immensely. I can't thank you enough for helping me through my own rumination
I love how you put it .quite feeding the beast!!
Wow thank you for this one Susan, it really spoke volumes. I tried so many times to extract myself from this relationship. It was a real cat and mouse, push and pull, battle of the egos. I am stupid for thinking I could beat this individual at his own game. I did get sucked into trying to seek revenge, but I realised it was destroying the person I was, I have lost friends and family because of my stupidity. The last time we broke up it got violent. I lashed out at him verbally and he grabbed me and threw me against the duchess, I fought back with vengeance, punching kicking and finally biting his arm to let me go. Crazy stuff, really crazy stuff. He left, but soon contacted me demanding apologies and telling me that he was prepared to stand by me if I was to see a psychologist about my "mental issues". I stood my ground and said, no thank you. You can shove the relationship, as far as I am concerned it is toxic and not worth salvaging. In saying this however, and it has now been almost 8 weeks since that incident, I cannot stop thinking about him. He has tried to contact me on occasions, however, I am doing all I can to stay away and not respond. He wasn't a good person, and so many people warned me, but he was generous and had his quirky little characteristics I started to fall in love with. I feel really awful about what I did to him and how angry I got, but I had so much resentment towards him for all the lies, cheating, games etc etc. I wanted him to hurt. But coming from someone who was stupid and played the game, it is not worth it. It is so not worth it!! I am now picking up the pieces slowly to sanity again. It is difficult as I continually ruminate over him also. I am using Hypnotherapy, reading all kinds of material, listening to you, exercising again and staying focus on priorities, however, I won't lie, I am finding it super difficult not to contact him again for that adrenaline rush. Thanks for your advice, I love that you are direct and powerful in your convictions. xx
amazing !!! thank you Susan,what a wonderful video . this mirrors my experience too .
Crystal, this is amazing. Isn't it wonderful when life creates sitautions like this? Karma, energy, or what-ever balances the situation. Thanks for your note.
crystallight1113,you look stunning
Your advice and counsel is keen. It resignates on all levels. You have definitely found your life's purpose, something I've been praying to be revealed to me. I listen to tons of various motivational speakers, ministers, and all of the likes. Very few completely resignates with my intellect, and inner being the way that your videos connect. They say that your gifts, and (or) purpose can be found near the source of your deepest pain. The only thing that paralyzes me is heartbreak. I love being in love, and being in a committed relationship, but the 5 times I've been in love have inflicted the worst pains of mylife. I'm ex Army Infantry, so I know pain, and pushing beyond the point of complete exhaustion. I've had a broken wrist. I've walked 25 miles on a healing stressing fracture in the center of my foot. I've exercised to the point of thinking that I would die. None of that compares to the pain I've endured during those previously mentioned heartbreaks. Each of those pushed me towards pivotal points in mylife. I'm writing a book because of 1 of them. I never knew that I had that gift. I faced am extreme fear of entering into the military because of 1. I got saved because of 1. I've learnt significant lessons during the healing processes of them all. Like, you can only control yourself in all situations, and circumstances. Like, you can love a person with all of the love available in this world, but it's that person's free will choice to receive or reject it. Anger for the rejection will only hinder the holder. It's better to do what your friend does, go within and do the inner work, switch the focus to self improvement. Anyway, thank you for listening to the call destiny
i was that guy who fed off energy and am learning the hardway, but it was mainly because of work and school. I was so stressed out and if she wanted to see me, I would get mad but I always wanted her there. I regret it so much now, and realize that I love her but she moved on recently, however, I have been working on it. Do you have any help on getting her back. We spoke last about 2 weeks ago...
Hi Ween. Yes I do have advice for getting her back. There are a series of discussions that cover this topic that you can find by looking through my titles. And, I'm shooting today for another viewer about getting her back (when you're the one who messed up). Step 1: Apologize. If you haven't already do so. Heartfelt and sincere. Step 2: Change. Prove through concrete actions that you've changed and become a new man with a new valuation system. I'm happy to work with you on this as it's one of my specialty areas:
www.susanwinter.net/consultation/
great thanks!
@@SusanWinter No amount of apologizing is going to work if you went too far. There is a limit.
Thats the key. When you think of the person, just say "STOP." I think she is right, and the more you can do this, the better. I want to see what happens.