The 20 wisdoms I learnt about in laws from 3 different cultures

💎 We will address the positive features that I’ve seen in different cultures.
💎 Is it really a possibility to end the in law issues?
💎 Should you treat your in laws just like your own family?
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First upon in villages i observed one thing they treated daughter in law as a outsider. Means how much she eat,how much house work done or not.
Most imp due to baby planning or other financial issues affected couple personal life. As usual shaitaan win..😢

[@Ustadha]

Ya Allah that’s horrible!

[@alwayssweet7574]

So what about if the in-laws have cut off the son and his wife after an argument between he son and his mother n sister. The wife didn't say too much, but was deeply hurt and was treated badly. So now she has no connection with them, but the son has reconciled with his mother, and keeps a civil relationship. The wife doesn't want to speak to her mil as she doesn't call her anyways. In some ways is this better for the wife as she has ill feelings, resentment and bitterness towards her mil?
Is it ok that the wife has no relationship with the in-laws?

[@Ustadha]

Different things work for different families. If this is working for you, that’s great.
Islamically it’s not a requirement to keep in touch with in laws if you’ve tried your best and it’s not working.
However habeebty try to let go of all the anger and resentment. The bond of negative feelings is still a bond that keeps you captive. It’s limiting. So leave the matter on Allah completely. He will take your rights fully.
If you’ve committed injustice against them, try to rectify that to the best of your ability and do tawbah so you’re not liable on the day of judgement.
Only after you fully let go of resentment, you’ll be free. You can live to your fullest potential inshaAllah.
My dear this world is too insignificant. We’re only focused on how we come across in the sight of Allah.