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Umm Umar is certified in Pre-School Parenting by The Children and Parent service, UK.
She is also the author of “The Parenting Tools”
Professionally she was a teacher for many years.
Academically, she has masters in Islamic studies as well as many certificates in various fields. She has also taken some Ijazas, and trainings related to marital coaching, and parenting.
Pls join my WhatsApp channel where all live sessions are announced:
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This is an Islamic channel for Women. Here you’ll gain the secrets and practical tips on how to improve your life as a practicing Muslim woman.
We take holistic approach in this channel. You’ll find all sorts of content that concerns ladies in every area of their lives.
Together, we will transform your marriage. Bring peace and happiness to your children by providing calm but firm parenting. If that’s something you’re interested in, pls subscribe.
Umm Umar is certified in Pre-School Parenting by The Children and Parent service, UK.
She is also the author of “The Parenting Tools”
Professionally she was a teacher for many years.
Academically, she has masters in Islamic studies as well as many certificates in various fields. She has also taken some Ijazas, and trainings related to marital coaching, and parenting.
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Ghosting is beneath you....
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Selecting the right spouse mini booklet and journal digital version: www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1811515999/future-husband-journal-future-spouse Get the Housekeeping shortcuts journal, to nourish the natural womanly tendencies. (It has a selfcare section too): Digital version: www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1797367024/housekeeping-week-gift-housekeeping?ref=listings_manager_grid Hard copy: a.co/d/avdUBeC ...
You CAN be angry around your children! (Muslim ladies)
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Married family members fight all the time!
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Teach your child obedience, where it really matters. (Muslim Ladies)
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For registration (Limited spaces available) docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfTMebUODzF3XqZT0VNE9k9Nz9IrtYcpHbANTUlLL0pJLsEyg/viewform?usp=dialog Once you've made the payment, and sent the screenshot on the number given in the form, you're in. You'll be contacted before the course begins. Approximate Start date: 10/2/2025 Basic package (videos) = £20 My parenting book : UK: amzn.eu/d/50SYQhx U...
How often do you need to give your child consequences?
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The 20 wisdoms I learnt about in laws from 3 different cultures
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💎 We will address the positive features that I’ve seen in different cultures. 💎 Is it really a possibility to end the in law issues? 💎 Should you treat your in laws just like your own family? And sooo much more inshaAllah. Raise Masculine boys: ruclips.net/video/Q91UxaEIImc/видео.html Raise Feminine girls: ruclips.net/video/H0pdpK8ZxQM/видео.html Find and select the right spouse, pls watch this...
I can't take it anymore. Toddler even follows in the bathroom
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How to influence my husband to take me out more often?
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If you want to know how to find, select the right spouse, pls watch this: ruclips.net/video/UED0W4T5hDw/видео.htmlsi=JCa-UwAUe9rvcMky Selecting the right spouse mini booklet and journal digital version: www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1811515999/future-husband-journal-future-spouse Lingerie: onelink.shein.com/5/4467swtv8bpe Lip tint: onelink.shein.com/5/4469stif2f80 Get the Housekeeping shortcuts journ...
Very clingy 1.5 yrs old, what's shall I do?
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Do you have such a person in your life?
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Do you have such a person in your life?
Save your name! Guard your reputation!
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Save your name! Guard your reputation!
Use your womanly gifts and be his dream! (Ladies only)
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Use your womanly gifts and be his dream! (Ladies only)
When and how to bring up my negatives before marriage
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When and how to bring up my negatives before marriage
Insert some magic into your relationship (Ladies only)
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Insert some magic into your relationship (Ladies only)
Feels like you have no interest in relationship with your husband? (Married Ladies only)
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Feels like you have no interest in relationship with your husband? (Married Ladies only)
The feminine Hygiene (Married Ladies version)
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The feminine Hygiene (Married Ladies version)
The key to your happiness. (Ladies only)
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The key to your happiness. (Ladies only)
Is your husband in the wrong? (Ladies only)
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Is your husband in the wrong? (Ladies only)
Transformative marriage conference coming up soon inshaAllah!! Ladies only.
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Transformative marriage conference coming up soon inshaAllah!! Ladies only.
All things friendships! How to make them, keep them, break up with them
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All things friendships! How to make them, keep them, break up with them
Have I scarred my child forever by being harsh?
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Have I scarred my child forever by being harsh?
Teach your boys these skills so they can thrive!
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Teach your boys these skills so they can thrive!
❤️ Tips to decrease friction and increase love between children. Fight sibling rivalry.
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❤️ Tips to decrease friction and increase love between children. Fight sibling rivalry.
Have more time for things you value!
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Have more time for things you value!
Select the right spouse (Muslim ladies), assess him, qualities to look for and much more!
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Select the right spouse (Muslim ladies), assess him, qualities to look for and much more!
Jazakillah khair for this❤
I feel like called out sheesh I am going through this same phase haha i thought this person matches with my standards and now I can protect my deen this way... but got ghosted XD how am I gonna face this? I have been a person who values honesty over anything and now this person just disappeared in thin air without any explanation which makes me keep wondering what could have been the reason.. idk how to overcome this however i do know that i will never let anyone's behavior dictate my self worth and i will never be able to forgive this person. Hasbunallah wa niyamal wakeel.
Gosh that feels horrible. You don’t want to marry such a person anyway! A friend said to me about such people, “Manners are something we are told to consider in the man we marry” if they don’t have that, it’s as if Allah protected you from them. Don’t worry my dear, your husband is out there. Allah will bring him when the time is right. 💖
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Ustada iam also safa
So nice to hear from you Safa 💖
Yes
This is why I love sleeping 😂
Haha
Yes
بارك الله فيك ❤
وفيك بارك الله 💖
JazakiAllahu khairan kaseera. Give them a moment of......?
A moment to process
It's great to know what could cause such a Mama's boy in a husband. As mother's we should be weary not to raise our boys to turn out like that .
May Allah make us best mothers.
There’s nothing wrong with a son feeling dutiful and obligated to his parents. In fact, that is required in Islam. It’s only a problem when he can’t stop the injustice.
So what about if the in-laws have cut off the son and his wife after an argument between he son and his mother n sister. The wife didn't say too much, but was deeply hurt and was treated badly. So now she has no connection with them, but the son has reconciled with his mother, and keeps a civil relationship. The wife doesn't want to speak to her mil as she doesn't call her anyways. In some ways is this better for the wife as she has ill feelings, resentment and bitterness towards her mil? Is it ok that the wife has no relationship with the in-laws?
Different things work for different families. If this is working for you, that’s great. Islamically it’s not a requirement to keep in touch with in laws if you’ve tried your best and it’s not working. However habeebty try to let go of all the anger and resentment. The bond of negative feelings is still a bond that keeps you captive. It’s limiting. So leave the matter on Allah completely. He will take your rights fully. If you’ve committed injustice against them, try to rectify that to the best of your ability and do tawbah so you’re not liable on the day of judgement. Only after you fully let go of resentment, you’ll be free. You can live to your fullest potential inshaAllah. My dear this world is too insignificant. We’re only focused on how we come across in the sight of Allah.
First upon in villages i observed one thing they treated daughter in law as a outsider. Means how much she eat,how much house work done or not. Most imp due to baby planning or other financial issues affected couple personal life. As usual shaitaan win..😢
Ya Allah that’s horrible!
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Jazakallahu khairan sister 💞
Waiyyaki my dear
Ma Shaa Allah. BaarakaLlahu fiik
I once saw a video in which a father was repeating a thousand times to his his son that he “is not a woman”. He wasn’t a muslim tho. However, I feel what is better than reiterating that statement is treating men like men and using words like “you are a strong little MAN” “you’re an amazing BOY!” instead of using sentences like “you aren’t a girl” which might awaken his curiosity and open the door of shaytān to get the better of him.
MashaAllah! A very good point.
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"teach them to anticipate your needs". This engulfs alot of teachings in itself. They will learn to think ahead in all aspects of life. Barakallahu feeh
Baraka Allah fiki❤
Yes, yes, yes!
Wa bil walidayni ihsaana there is laam sister
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Mashallah Jzkillahu khair dear❤
Waiyyaki my dear
Wa alaykum salaam warahmatuLlah wabaarakaatuH
JazaakiLlahu khairan ❤
Walaikum Salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Jazakillah khair ❤
Waiyyaki my dear
1000% Agree
10000000%!
Don’t be influenced by what married ladies say (negatively of course)……..?!
Shukran so much
It is my pleasure 💕
I have no idea what I'm listening to or how I got here, but good points.
Glad to have you with us!
جزاك الله خيرا ❤
I don't get people when they don't vocalize or ask for an apology rather expect you to get over with it with time. Some of them just say, "Forget that!" or simply "Sorry" with nothing to add on further. Healthy way of apologizing is to taking into account people's feelings and showing remorse. Talk and communicate.
Exactly! They have so much negative pride. Not good for relationships.
@Ustadha yes true!
“Sorry, I made you feel that way.” and sometimes you shouldn’t simply say “it’s okay” or “no problem” when someone apologises to you. Some people, sadly lack basic manners. Instead you could say to them something like “apologies accepted” or “I need some time to process my feelings, but thanks for apologising. It was needed.”
I love these clips 🤍 Allaahumma baarik
Subhaan Allāh I just love the story of yūsuf عليه السلام 🤍 so many benefits in it
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❤❤❤ It’s so true! I often notice some women being affectionate and playful with their husbands, and I can’t help but feel a bit uneasy about it because I wasn’t raised that way. It’s really difficult for me to express myself in that manner. I find myself struggling, even though I know it’s perfectly acceptable for a husband and wife.
My dear I understand the difficulty of getting out of your comfort zone, but that’s where most growth happens. So pls challenge yourself, take small steps towards being playful and affectionate. It will be awkward at first, but by the 10th attempt, it’ll become so natural inshaAllah. Don’t give up on your dream version of yourself and your relationship 💓
Is the damage already caused reverseable?
Of course! You have to put in the effort though