Friends-to-lovers is THE best way to yearn 👌 Ppl We Meet on Vacation, Song of Achilles, & more books

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

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  • @frankundercoverdragon6288
    @frankundercoverdragon6288 3 года назад +3008

    Achilles's son be like: two bros, buried together, five feet under cause they're not gay

  • @HBDiniz10
    @HBDiniz10 3 года назад +3394

    Song of achilles is honestly one of the few books i've read that the ending is ridiculously sad and tragic but it still leaves you satisfied... very hard to do that

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +592

      yes exactly!! she pulled it off well, so despite the tragic ending u still had closure :)

    • @catherinet.6584
      @catherinet.6584 3 года назад +96

      yes and also I’m pretty sure all of us knew the ending going in, yet the author wrote in such a beautiful way that I didn’t feel “spoiled” (if you know what I mean), like I shouldn’t keep reading. It only made the ending even more tragic! Madeline Miller did such a great job

    • @HBDiniz10
      @HBDiniz10 3 года назад +45

      @@catherinet.6584 absolutely!! I knew patroculus was going to die but that made the whole ending so much more interesting, as it kept going after his death

    • @TheThreeBookshelves
      @TheThreeBookshelves 3 года назад +8

      May I introduce you to The Travelling Cat Chronicles by Hiro Arikawa.

    • @laakmtpoata9044
      @laakmtpoata9044 3 года назад +3

      You should also read “Mother Earth” by Chinghiz Aitmatov, the most heartbreaking book I’ve read in my life

  • @nenes24
    @nenes24 3 года назад +2103

    cindy: my only critique is that both characters are blond
    also cindy: **dyes her hair blond**

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +521

      but im not dating a blonde person!!

    • @ellias
      @ellias 3 года назад +236

      @@withcindy am I nothing to you 🥲

    • @Blue81111
      @Blue81111 3 года назад +22

      @@ellias offf sorry buddy

    • @iJustWannaBeNameless
      @iJustWannaBeNameless 3 года назад +11

      @@withcindy would you not pursue or dye your hair again if you met a blonde you liked

  • @jemwithouttheholograms8806
    @jemwithouttheholograms8806 3 года назад +2658

    Friends-to-lovers trope getting the respect it deserves

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +462

      i prefer them over enemies to lovers TBH

    • @-lovecassy_333
      @-lovecassy_333 3 года назад +8

      @@withcindy - same

    • @paolagonzalez-yd2hj
      @paolagonzalez-yd2hj 3 года назад +53

      friends to lovers is my fav of all time and it’s really good and beautiful but you have to admit it’s 2837489492929% better if its wlw or mlm xD

    • @gordonramsayslambsauce
      @gordonramsayslambsauce 3 года назад +67

      @@withcindy friends to lovers is less likely to be toxic or abusive too

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 3 года назад +1

      💯

  • @alexinator-hh5fe
    @alexinator-hh5fe 3 года назад +2211

    A piece of celery is better than a piece of cardboard because I swear that's what 90% of love interests in YA books are

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +275

      well his personality was like a piece of celery so...

    • @anacaly
      @anacaly 3 года назад +53

      @@withcindy Well, at least he‘d be somewhat tasty …

    • @jessicaturner8634
      @jessicaturner8634 3 года назад +39

      @@anacaly I hate celery, so I'd have to disagree.

    • @ohwellthenB
      @ohwellthenB 3 года назад +13

      90%... You're being nice

    • @alenanela1743
      @alenanela1743 3 года назад +1

      This comment makes me very very happy :) Because it is so painfully true.

  • @kodokuna.
    @kodokuna. 3 года назад +1306

    Madeline Miller has this very unique ability in her writing to make years pass in minutes without feeling rushed or skimmed through. It’s most prevalent in Circe, where the story takes place over hundreds of thousands of years but it feels new and fresh, never skipping a moment even when the time skip is like nine thousand years

    • @pranjalpatil3360
      @pranjalpatil3360 3 года назад +18

      That is so on point!! She got Talent

    • @UKLeonie
      @UKLeonie 3 года назад +10

      True facts, you forget the time lapse like nuthin.

    • @BexMcInulty
      @BexMcInulty 3 года назад +5

      See that's where I personally have to disagree. I couldn't get into the writing because the pacing made it feel very detached.

    • @Catastrophic_31
      @Catastrophic_31 2 года назад +5

      @@BexMcInulty i had the same problem realising that i was not reading it carefully.. Reading every single line so clear makes it super magical that I was surprised they were almost 30 when I was dwelling in their 16 years period but without being confused and detached

  • @KrisMF
    @KrisMF 3 года назад +584

    describing achilles as "the guy you'd pick first in gym class" made me LAUGH so hard idk why that really is just his whole vibe lmaooooo ALSO I agree with you that corpse-patroclus narrating was visceral af. the whole ending sequence had me *screeching*

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +96

      The ending sequence was the best part of the book, she tied it up very nicely while keeping u invested

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 года назад +2330

    ‘Pride and Prejudice’ is the OG Enemies to Lovers. Jane Austen is the High Priestess of this trope ❤️

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +518

      she invented it

    • @PokhrajRoy.
      @PokhrajRoy. 3 года назад +84

      @@withcindy WE LOVE HER FOR IT!

    • @Octobris
      @Octobris 3 года назад +38

      Her mind

    • @Sharpe1502
      @Sharpe1502 3 года назад +46

      I’d argue that Shakespeare did it first with plays like Taming of the Shrew, Much ado About Nothing, and Midsummer Night’s Dream.

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android 3 года назад +2

      So trueee

  • @brunaonizuka9136
    @brunaonizuka9136 3 года назад +742

    "This book is about a girl that goes to Scotland to visit her dad, the train crashes and she dies... the end" I GASPED

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +104

      A short story indeed

    • @sarina9994
      @sarina9994 3 года назад +11

      lmao the fact that i got an ad right after she said that so i had to hold my gasp for an entire 15 seconds

    • @TheCrazeace
      @TheCrazeace 3 года назад +7

      And then an advertisement suddenly played after she said that as if on cue 😂

    • @booktales1687
      @booktales1687 3 года назад +2

      @Nina okay but that’s a really good dark twist though.

  • @tanishjain7851
    @tanishjain7851 3 года назад +846

    The problem with showing racism in stories that i see today, is people either blatantly have no clue or they just dont care, and just use it as a plot device, so it not only lacks realism and sensibility, it also loses the commentary the author tries to show in the book

  • @lyssa4679
    @lyssa4679 3 года назад +253

    i think in original greek mythology, achillies DOES actually have his ashes literally mixed with patroclus’. very fruity.

    • @kanishkadhania4971
      @kanishkadhania4971 3 года назад +22

      YES HE DOES

    • @lhc23_
      @lhc23_ 2 года назад +15

      Yeeeeep, I can confirm that I was there.

  • @yakamoose
    @yakamoose 3 года назад +1024

    You built up People We Meet On Vacation so much, I was expecting you to say, “anyways I gave it three stars lol”

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +283

      LOL that is my usual style isn't it

    • @o_o-lj1ym
      @o_o-lj1ym 3 года назад +100

      Literally some reviewers be like “this book had it all. I loved the characters writing and plot. This book is definitely on my favourite books of the year list. Anyways I gave it three stars.”
      Like I get disoriented

    • @casie6609
      @casie6609 Год назад

      ​@o_o / it has some horrible reviews (like all books do) and I'm really debating on buying it 🤔

    • @tsuki3752
      @tsuki3752 Год назад

      if cindy wasn’t so honest i can see her going into book marketing lol. deliberately leaving out her own feelings of the book because she’s so good at advertising it and hyping it up… until we hear her actual review lol.

  • @floffy2695
    @floffy2695 3 года назад +332

    Maybe it's because I'm ace but I've always adored the emotional intimacy that comes with friends to lovers. I'm a firm believer that good romance always begins with a good friendship, and while there are exceptions (and people have different taste in romance and there is no single "good" formula), this rule is applicable in general to most cases.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +43

      It provides a solid foundation for the relationship!!

  • @studybuddy.
    @studybuddy. 3 года назад +671

    Okay, but enemies to friends to BEST friends to lovers is my jam ngl

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +96

      oooooo yesssss

    • @jennybe4766
      @jennybe4766 3 года назад +75

      i agree! i also adore (childhood) friends to enemies (to friends) to lovers

    • @aarud8953
      @aarud8953 3 года назад +9

      @@jennybe4766 that ones the best

    • @emberie
      @emberie 3 года назад +11

      @@jennybe4766 ooohh is that catradora

    • @jennybe4766
      @jennybe4766 3 года назад +4

      @@emberie yeess good example!

  • @bedhairismybae5480
    @bedhairismybae5480 3 года назад +989

    Almost nobody seems to get that enemies to lovers isnt some person insulting and being passive aggressive to the other person and then being nice because they want to smash monke style and then suddenly there’s secrets being spilt post coitus that they behind their mean asshat exterior there were easter eggs of them being nice ALL ALONG. there are a few gems ofc. But friends to lovers is generally better because of all that ✨pining✨

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +313

      i think enemies to lovers is hard to pull off well!! friends to lovers tho... much more easy for pining

    • @a.a.6318
      @a.a.6318 3 года назад +133

      Too many writers try to do enemies to lovers in the route where one of them is definitely in the wrong, but then the author doesn’t properly redeem the wrong character, so it ends up representing an abusive/toxic dynamic.
      The easiest route that allows for it to be healthy is to have both characters have a genuine misunderstanding of one another where neither are in the wrong. This doesn’t mean that one can’t be on the wrong side, but just means that they themselves are not an active agent in the situation. The best example I have of this is in the show, The Dragon Prince, with the two characters Rayla and Callum.
      The only example I can think of for the first route is with the show, Avatar: the Last Airbender. The creators were originally gonna have Zuko(the one in the wrong) with Katara, and quite frankly, with the way they masterfully did Zuko’s redemption, they would’ve made a healthy enemies to lovers.

    • @hlalelwakunene4638
      @hlalelwakunene4638 3 года назад +32

      Still hold that Shera and the Princesses of Power (Catra and Adora) is theeeee best EVER...Friends-to-Enemies- to-Lovers story EVER

    • @amperbm
      @amperbm 3 года назад +19

      @@hlalelwakunene4638 you are absolutely right! That's one of the best enemies to lovers relationship ever written, and with the added previous friendship?? Flawless.
      I think enemies to lovers is one of the easiest tropes to fuck it up, so even though I love it, I'm always a bit weary of stories with it.

    • @a.a.6318
      @a.a.6318 3 года назад +21

      @@hlalelwakunene4638 Ehhh, I felt that Catra's redemption was too rushed :/ I feel like there should've been more tension and definitely more unforgiveness that happened. Also far too many people have said that Catradora reminds them of their own abusive relationships so yeah...Catradora isn't exactly the ship I'd use as a good example of enemies to lovers. Catra's redemption wasn't strong enough for that

  • @studybuddy.
    @studybuddy. 3 года назад +641

    How many SoA fans here have listened to *Achilles, Come Down by Gang of Youths* almost religiously? It’s practically the theme song at this point.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +91

      ill have to check out the song!

    • @ln4750
      @ln4750 3 года назад +59

      @@withcindy quick note it's a good song but TW it is explicitly about su!c!de so - just so you know so everyone is on the same page going in. Great dark academia banger but emphasis on dark.

    • @takes1tomango
      @takes1tomango 3 года назад +15

      oh my greek mithology conversion last wear was playing hades > finding achilles, come down on youtube > reading SoA and then Circe.

    • @Awesomesauce1_8_6_4
      @Awesomesauce1_8_6_4 3 года назад +11

      *Literally* the anthem! That's how I found out about the book! The comment section on the song was full of quotes!

    • @Awesomesauce1_8_6_4
      @Awesomesauce1_8_6_4 3 года назад +6

      @@takes1tomango the way that I love all of those things so much! Spent half my free time this year playing Hades and just finished Circe! I was already a Greek mythology fan tho, thanks to the Percy Jackson series when I was in middle school.

  • @briemayo8412
    @briemayo8412 3 года назад +768

    I'm really happy with your Song of Achilles review. As someone who is a massive Greek mythology nerd I really like your honesty surrounding your rating! And thank you for reviewing even though it was not the easiest to get through. There are so many sweet nuances in the book that if you're not a mythology fan they don't resonate the same way and that's okay.
    Cheers!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +149

      Yeah I definitely wasn't able to appreciate it fully because I'm not as well versed in Greek mythology, but thank you for understanding ♥️♥️

    • @kaitlynb5467
      @kaitlynb5467 3 года назад +13

      I felt so bad for 2 days after reading the book bc I had mixed feelings since I was really hating the gods and hence the Greek mythology. But after few months, I respect the Greek mythology and I think it is rlly fun. But I still stand by how most overpowered gods were rlly insufferable

    • @jass8689
      @jass8689 3 года назад +7

      I used to have ancient mythology class in middle and high school, and I also live in the Balkans and have lived in Greece... so although I appreciate Greek mythology, I grew up with it so I'm also pretty over it at this point

    • @lulunatic3871
      @lulunatic3871 3 года назад

      is there any way that I can enjoy the book while learning the Greek mythology from the scratch? cuz that's what I do now and I hope I can also resonate the same feeling with you about this book

  • @anacaly
    @anacaly 3 года назад +404

    I have to say, Idc if it’s friends-to-lovers or enemies-to-lovers - as long as they have history, it‘ll always add another layer and therefore depth to the relationship that just isn’t there if the characters meet for the first time in the book 😍

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +65

      Valid points were made 👀

    • @amperbm
      @amperbm 3 года назад +29

      My absolute favourite trope is friends to enemies to lovers. And lovers to enemies to lovers again is also very good. Either way, history does make everything better

    • @seaweedwithrice
      @seaweedwithrice 3 года назад +8

      @@amperbm omg finally someone else who loves friends to enemies to lovers! the angst is just too good not to enjoy

    • @giuliapaschoarelli4480
      @giuliapaschoarelli4480 3 года назад

      @@seaweedwithrice Any recommendations?

  • @13edThyme
    @13edThyme 3 года назад +202

    Cindy talking about Friends to Lovers while wearing her “yearning” merch just hits a little different LOL

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +31

      Very appropriate attire

  • @Julie-ep6yk
    @Julie-ep6yk 3 года назад +349

    Friends to lovers is SUPERIOR!!!!! The pining, the yearning, the mutual love and understanding!!!!!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +32

      It is truly the best!

    • @thatb1h855
      @thatb1h855 3 года назад +2

      @@febreeze heartstopper is a good one, it’s a 4 volume graphic novel series by alice oseman!

  • @cobaltspace5283
    @cobaltspace5283 3 года назад +294

    One thing I really like about when you review books is that even if a book is about a topic you’re not super into, ex. “Song of Achilles”, you can still acknowledge that the writing is good despite not being interested in Greek mythology. Unfortunately it feels like a lot of people will just ignore good writing in a review if the book doesn’t cater to their tastes so it’s just nice to see a reviewer who’s willing to give credit where a book deserves it.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +57

      Yes! The writing did indeed slap ♥️

    • @supposedlymel
      @supposedlymel 3 года назад +9

      Me and two friends buddy read Circe and it took me way longer to get through it than them despite the writing being good. I'm just not into novels like that but can understand Madeline is an exceptional writer

  • @alleyaellarina6828
    @alleyaellarina6828 3 года назад +168

    EXACTLY person A being in love with person B for the longest of time but not confessing because they don't want to ruin the friendship not realizing person B is in love with them too all along and person A just okay with the pain as long as the person B is happy PEAK YEARNING

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +40

      EXACTLYYYYY or they dont realize their feelings for each other all this time they just know its the most important relationship despite having other partners

    • @Octobris
      @Octobris 3 года назад +4

      Me when it comes to my best friend.

  • @_larchiviste_
    @_larchiviste_ 3 года назад +239

    Song of Achilles is a masterpiece period. Friends to lovers is just so good when done right!!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +35

      It was indeed very well written!

    • @_larchiviste_
      @_larchiviste_ 3 года назад +8

      It was! I read it thanks to a friend's recommendation and have never been do happy with a decision in my life lol

  • @carlixalfonzo
    @carlixalfonzo 3 года назад +207

    I came faster than Cindy's war flashbacks when someone mentions ACOTAR

  • @queendsheena1
    @queendsheena1 3 года назад +183

    A romance that says you can be happy outside of romance? Happy existence is the way to live.

  • @jazzy8834
    @jazzy8834 3 года назад +152

    As a greek mythology nerd, I loved the ending of Song of Achilles as well.To me, the author ended the story in an amazing way, I feel like just knowing that after all the pain and struggle they were able to meet felt like a good way to end the story.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +32

      Exactly! The ending was satisfying yet still emotional

  • @studybuddy.
    @studybuddy. 3 года назад +297

    I never read SoA because I know I would spiral into heartbreak for months. But I’m obsessed with SoA playlists, they have no right to be so good. Cindy, you HAVE to listen to *Achilles, Come Down by Gang of Youths.* It will CHANGE you. 💔

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +42

      Understandable!!

    • @JAAAY62
      @JAAAY62 3 года назад +1

      I just listened to it. It's super long but really good!

    • @8ri1
      @8ri1 3 года назад +5

      I read it and you’re right I was heartbroken…still am…will probably always be…😫

    • @CuteArwen
      @CuteArwen 3 года назад +5

      I’ve read the book over the weekend, I was really sad while I was reading, but to me it wasn’t that memorable. Definitely not worth even a week of recovering

  • @nenes24
    @nenes24 3 года назад +66

    glad to know you too struggled to get through the song of achilles in the middle, i thought the war setting "slowed down" the pacing and even made it more boring because (unless my memory fails me) it was mostly narrated by patroclus who did... basically nothing, it was all very passive. it's one of the cases where i understood where the hype was but just didn't work out for me. loved to hear your thoughts on the ending, i had forgotten certain details
    this one quote at the end of the book was also quite beautiful: "But fame is a strange thing. Some men gain glory after they die, while others fade. What is admired in one generation is abhorred in another. We cannot say who will survive the holocaust of memory."

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +14

      I love that quote!

    • @NoOne-cf4ii
      @NoOne-cf4ii 2 года назад +1

      Same. I love Greek mythology and it actually made it better, except for the war for some reason. Knowing they were going to die and how made it worse. I felt sick when I first read “what did Hector ever did to me”

    • @niyaakbar1098
      @niyaakbar1098 2 года назад +1

      @@NoOne-cf4ii I think knowing they were going to die made it better imo, even tho it made me feel sick knowing their fate. It just goes to show how well Madeline Miller writes. Achilles saying “What did Hector ever do to me?” Was just a perfect add to how tragic the ending is

    • @NoOne-cf4ii
      @NoOne-cf4ii 2 года назад +1

      @@niyaakbar1098 I understand that. Im about to read circe now im excited to read more of her worl

  • @sayenka6093
    @sayenka6093 3 года назад +878

    Cindy holds up the “Ferryman“: So I will be giving this book away.
    Me: That‘s very generous of you.
    Cindy: So now let me tell you why this book sucks!
    Me: Hold up 😅

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +229

      Enter the giveaway knowing what ur signing up for!

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 года назад +60

      @@withcindy The transparency we subbed for.

  • @Bonniedums06
    @Bonniedums06 3 года назад +83

    Now we need a lovers to strangers just to balance the yearning

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +40

      THAT SOUNDS SO SAD

    • @booktales1687
      @booktales1687 3 года назад +13

      The fear I felt from reading this is ✨ indescribable ✨

    • @Violetduffy
      @Violetduffy 3 года назад +6

      Have you heard of 5 centimeters per second? *sobs*

  • @imagenietion
    @imagenietion 3 года назад +39

    People We Meet on Vacation was SO GOOD. The moment I knew I was reading some good shit is when I was so invested in and worried about their reunion that I didn't even see the "just one bed" trope coming. Beach Read was also really good, but I loved the romance in this one so much more. I just love the tension, history and stakes that come with friends to lovers. It's such a superior trope

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +6

      Yay so glad u loved it too!!

  • @localscoundrels
    @localscoundrels 3 года назад +65

    TSoA really resonated with me in that 'choosing to love each other as much as and as hard as they can even with the inevitability of death and fate looming in the background.' And like you said, the ending was perfect for closure! I'm glad to see your review because it did not occur to me just how much would be lost for someone who does not enjoy Greek Mythology. Keeps my ass humble LOL

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +7

      Awww yeah they were so devoted to each other even beyond "the end" 🥺

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 3 года назад +1

      Your avi is a whole mood. Love it.

  • @mounnalogue1215
    @mounnalogue1215 3 года назад +35

    there's just something about liking your friend then hinting & teasing each other to confess together and all that spirals to ending up together. You get both the yearning AND the wholesomeness -- from someone who ends up with her close friend.

  • @crystall8632
    @crystall8632 3 года назад +74

    Emily Henry’s banter is SO GOOD!!! I loved people we meet on vacation and beach read so much! :)

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +13

      yes i def plan on reading beach read!!

    • @annikab.5366
      @annikab.5366 3 года назад +3

      you're trying to tell me that PUPPY FACE IS GOOD????!???

  • @Musikchic47
    @Musikchic47 3 года назад +146

    I feel like Song of Achilles is a good book, but yes I could see that if you don't care for Greek mythology or history, then you might not like it. The biggest complaint I heard about it from other reviewers is just that "it was boring"

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +49

      it does have a very slow pace so i can see how ppl would find it boring. i struggled to get thru the middle and was only able to get thru it cuz i listened on audiobook!

    • @Musikchic47
      @Musikchic47 3 года назад +15

      @@withcindy I did enjoy it because I've been obsessed with Geek mythology since I was a kid, but I love that even if you don't like it, you can still appreciate the book as a good piece of writing. I do love how she makes the characters feel like they actually existed in history even though they are just based on folktales

    • @musicalnerds101
      @musicalnerds101 3 года назад +2

      @@withcindy yo the audiobook is hella good idk if I would’ve finished it without it 🤔

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 года назад +2

      I actually have the opposite conundrum as to why I haven't read it off my shelf. I've loved mythologies since I was a kid (mostly learned from other than long reading, prolly an ADHD thing tbh), so it's the act of reading a book that's putting me off.

    • @lynxaway
      @lynxaway 3 года назад +2

      Hahaha I think it’s the other way around too-people who are really into Greek mythology don’t tend to like it because of the ways in which it diverges from the original myth

  • @ellias
    @ellias 3 года назад +14

    LMAOO THE AUDACITY YOU ACTUALLY PUT UP MY MESSAGE I-

    • @ellias
      @ellias 3 года назад +10

      - STAND BY EVERYTHING I SAID

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +6

      The internet needs to know how much attitude u truly have !!!

    • @This_Is_Just_To_Say
      @This_Is_Just_To_Say 3 года назад +2

      I'm happy my scrolling through the comment section paid off and I found this follow up xD

  • @marthago7097
    @marthago7097 3 года назад +22

    As a mythology buff, I am so happy you liked the ending of SoA despite not caring for greek mythology. And I 100% agree with the vague ending. That last paragraph was my favorite quote in the book.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +9

      That last paragraph works as is, no need for expanding ♥️

  • @mena4397
    @mena4397 3 года назад +83

    As someone who loves the way TSoA ended, I felt very personally attacked by Elias' text as I too have a very sparse knowledge of Greek history.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +29

      Haha he came for our NECKS

  • @-Desire
    @-Desire 3 года назад +18

    Honestly any pining (though himbo/dense love interest pining after the girl is my drug) when done well is GOLD to me

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +3

      THAT IS ABSOLUTELY MY DRUG TOO

  • @PixelatedFolf
    @PixelatedFolf 3 года назад +31

    Friends to lovers seems like the type of trope you would typically expect to be bad but sometimes if executed properly, it would be so good. Just the secret yearning makes it all the better for me.
    Love your videos Cindy, keep up the amazing work!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +8

      I find enemies to lovers harder to execute!

    • @PixelatedFolf
      @PixelatedFolf 3 года назад +3

      @@withcindy I agree! Sometimes authors would overdo it and you most often see it as a toxic kind of relationship rather than something that is actually a wholesome and meaningful one that enables growth between the two characters. That's what I see most often about it and it makes it harder to make it more realistic than absurd and bad.

  • @lime8887
    @lime8887 3 года назад +49

    Friends to lovers does have a lot of yearning/pining which is fun to read, too much of enemies to lovers is just bullying and the fact that people like that concept makes me want to cry

    • @studybuddy.
      @studybuddy. 3 года назад +19

      Okay, but enemies to friends to BEST friends to lovers is my jam ngl. The middle part is necessary.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +18

      i prefer YEARNING over BULLYING any day

    • @lime8887
      @lime8887 3 года назад +5

      Do agree with that, when “enemies to lovers” is done right it can be good

  • @danivaav
    @danivaav 3 года назад +43

    *SPOILERS OF THE SONG OF ACHILLES AHEAD*
    I *looove* Greek mythology, and imo the ending is perfect as it is. I do enjoy open endings (they can be so frustrating sometimes, but they make me feel something, points for the book) and tbh we basically *know* they're gonna be happy together, no need to restart the story. We are aware of how much they love each other, we know what they feel and they will say all the extra stuff eventually. Giving us an extra page would've been like opening a "What will they do now in Elysium? The adventures of Achilles and Patroclus" and that would've been like the story needed a sequel. It doesn't. Love your honesty, tho. Cause it did take me ages to go through the middle of the book. Also, daaamn, your friend would make me cry in 0.38 seconds, but that's on me.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +7

      Exactly! It gave just the right amount of closure ♥️

  • @rachellewabissa5233
    @rachellewabissa5233 3 года назад +113

    I love how these trips feel like your super-organised friend has planned out a trip for the team

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +31

      It definitely takes the pressure off for you to plan anything, you can just hop on for the fun ride 🤪

    • @rachellewabissa5233
      @rachellewabissa5233 3 года назад +3

      ​@@withcindy You are the best, depressed, organised book friend

  • @anurimabiswas957
    @anurimabiswas957 3 года назад +146

    I SO AGREE PEOPLE WE MEET ON VACATION IS LIKE IF WILD CHILD HAD PEOPLE ON A VACATION BUT THE GUY WAS AN ANTISOCIAL BAD BOY!!!!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +25

      wild child? r u talking about the movie or something else :0

  • @jjmastermind
    @jjmastermind 3 года назад +15

    the way i stopped in the middle of writing my final essay for the semester to watch this

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +3

      THIS is ur final essay now.

  • @mounabelaid1326
    @mounabelaid1326 3 года назад +84

    Nobody's doing contemporary romance like Emily Henry!! "People we meet on vacations" melted my cold stoned heart like no other romance had in long while hahaha Her other romance "Beach read" is also great and I would highley recommand it for when you're craving a healthy dose of cheese. She has another book coming out in 2022 and I already asked my library to buy it as soon as it comes out that way everyone there knows I'm a thirsty bitch ✌

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +26

      im def gonna read Beach Read next year!!

  • @AnaCarolinaVanzetta
    @AnaCarolinaVanzetta 3 года назад +31

    Oh it wasn't just Achilles' son who thought "no homo". Most male historians think the same, even though it's practically described on page in real documents and stories from the time "yes, homo ". Greek mythology nerd and historian here. To Ellias: no, that was the perfect ending. It left you yearning 😉 for more and at the same time satisfied.

  • @teacup890
    @teacup890 3 года назад +46

    YES!!! FRIENDS TO LOVERS IS 👏 ALL 👏 ABOUT 👏 YEARNING!!! THANK U CINDY OUR QUEEN THE TROPE DESERVES SO MUCH MORE HYPE

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +4

      YESSS THEY ARE THE BEST COUPLES

  • @Alexia-vi7gp
    @Alexia-vi7gp 3 года назад +13

    I completely agree with you about the ending of The Song of Achilles. I think that ending was so much more satisfying than any kind of conversation could have been.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +5

      yay!! be careful tho or ellias will come for ur neck!

  • @maryamjuma1704
    @maryamjuma1704 3 года назад +3

    i agree with you on the ending not needing an extra page; i think achilles and patroclus' story was so well known and this whole greek tragedy, that keeping their reunion private allowed them to keep a piece of their story for themselves.

  • @nhatduy71
    @nhatduy71 3 года назад +117

    i’m kind of sad cindy didn’t like SoA but her review left me more dead than patroclus 💀😂

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +65

      NOT MORE DEAD THAN PATROCLUS 💀💀💀💀

  • @Devil-qq3do
    @Devil-qq3do 3 года назад +26

    "It's gonna make me thinks love is real" exactly 😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +3

      My heart can't take it 😭

  • @witchplease9695
    @witchplease9695 3 года назад +15

    I’ve always preferred friends to lovers more than enemies to lovers. It’s more natural, while the latter is almost never done right and turns into an abusive relationship.
    But the superior and most underrated relationship trope is lovers to enemies. Not simply bitter exes but full blown trying to end each other. That’s the main relationship in the book I’m writing.

  • @caycecarson
    @caycecarson 3 года назад +23

    [[SOA spoiler alert]] As a lover of Greek mythology and SOA I appreciate that you recognized the excellent writing and I'm glad you liked the ending. Its the only lgbt book I've let myself read where they both die because in the end they are still able to be together 🥺

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +16

      i love that they both died but COULD STILL BE TOGETHER!! SUCK ON THAT HATERS

  • @luuuuux_
    @luuuuux_ 3 года назад +9

    I appreciate Cindy immensely for giving me recommendations on what not to read. If not for her, I probably would end up buying a bunch of terrible books. Instead, she has introduced me to multiple wonderful books and has steered me away from terrible ones. Thank you, Cindy, for sacrificing your sanity to spread bad book awareness.

  • @obviouslybored5428
    @obviouslybored5428 3 года назад +7

    I'm so glad you said it! People keep recommending The Song of Achilles left and right, to anybody and everybody, and it always makes me a little bit skeptical, because like you said, not everybody cares or wants to care about Greek mythology! I personally adore it, I've literally studied ancient Greek and greek mythology in school, it's my jam, so that book was incredible to me! But I've seen people start this book thinking it was historical fiction? And I'm just like... this is what happens when you just listen to the hype and try to completely adhere to trends instead of just... going with your own taste...
    Anyway I'm so glad for your review, I hope it will help people understand that recommendations should be tailored to the person you're making the recommendation to.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +1

      Thank u!! Glad I'm not alone in thinking this way when it comes to recommendations

  • @calvinmcdaniel4299
    @calvinmcdaniel4299 3 года назад +25

    6:58 was the moment I realized that the bar is so low when it comes to dating lmao 🤣 like is it that hard to find someone who has that mentality of "i love that you exist in the world, differences be damned". Damnit, gotta add this book to my to read list, I look forward to it 🙂

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +4

      awww i hope u enjoy!!!

  • @vatsmalts8831
    @vatsmalts8831 3 года назад +5

    "Never mess with the passion of Greek mythology nerds. That's the lesson from here."
    Oh god... As a Greek mythos nerd myself, this brought me back to the times I ranted to my friends about stuff they don't understand. Don't mind me sending this lovely quote to them to remind them to leave when it happens again haha

  • @corineofroses
    @corineofroses 3 года назад +45

    i’m so happy to see so many people eager to travel! those trips are gonna be awesome, they both sound super fun! also, really wish i had studocu when i was in school - definitely would have been more motivated to study lmao

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +4

      makes me happy too! :D

    • @llamabean529
      @llamabean529 3 года назад

      Let's hope a new variant doesn't spoil it....

  • @Flareontoast
    @Flareontoast 3 года назад +8

    Haven't found a comment about it yet so I apologize if this is redundant: the thing about Patroclus and Achilles being buried together is actually in a way based on the original text: Achilles says at some point and he wants his and Patroclus ashes to be "mingled together" after they both die. Madeline Miller just gave us the actual better version of it and fulfilled his wishes :'o

  • @shailejanarain
    @shailejanarain 3 года назад +15

    so happy you loved people we meet on vacation. emily henry is seriously the best contemporary romance author rn. also, absolutely love your yearning tee

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад

      she is fantastic!! i def gotta read Beach Read

  • @junkosllette
    @junkosllette 3 года назад +4

    for the burial thing, i think (?) in The Odyssey which is like an official sequel to The Iliad, odysseus goes to the underworld and finds Achilles and Patroclus there. so officially they did meet in the underworld. i felt so satisfied when i found out about that.

  • @Ola..
    @Ola.. 3 года назад +17

    Love, Rosie is one of my favorite movies. I’ve seen it too many times to count. People We Meet on Vacation is one of the very few romances I have ever given 5 stars. Coincidence? I think not ma’am. Best-friends-to-lovers is top tier.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +5

      I definitely think there is a correlation here 👀

  • @corarara6482
    @corarara6482 3 года назад +1

    I'm don't really read romance, so I SHOCKED when People We Meet on Vacation made me ugly cry at the end. I could really relate to the very specific fears of intimacy with someone you care about... The fear of what happens if it doesn't work out and what comes after. It was done so well

  • @biblackbookish7979
    @biblackbookish7979 3 года назад +26

    I've been hesitant about reading "People We Meet on Vacation". I've just started reading romance books (more like listening to romance books they make great audiobooks), and I thought that this one will be your typical over-hyped romance where it reads more like subpar self-insert fanfiction. But with this high of a review I'd have to give it a shoot.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +1

      Hope u enjoy! It def felt better than other romance books I've tried out

  • @emmanuelasbon31
    @emmanuelasbon31 2 года назад +2

    Them being buring together is actually part of the ancient texts. It's mentioned that they were buried together in a golden urn.

  • @lhiannicole
    @lhiannicole 3 года назад +9

    we LOVE seeing the hype for friends to lovers finally resurfacing once again

  • @sayhellotohaps
    @sayhellotohaps 3 года назад +2

    Cindy's voice is honestly so therapeutic. I could literally listen to her all day.

  • @rhiannonfisher2792
    @rhiannonfisher2792 3 года назад +5

    The Song of Achilles has been my favorite book for about seven years now. I’m a super big Greek mythology person (thanks Percy Jackson) and while I know the book is basically fan fiction, it’s so beautifully written and the ending gets me every time. I can totally understand why the middle would be hard to get through though if you’re not interested in the mythology. Even I just skip over the longs names and things sometimes on re-reads.
    Also I literally just finished People We Meet On Vacation today and yes! It was so good. As a writer her banter is what I aspire to be able to write. I only wish the climax of them in Croatia had been a little more drawn out and I agree that I wish they weren’t both blonde. But it gave me all the feels and I’ll def pick up another one of her books.

  • @llamabean529
    @llamabean529 3 года назад +21

    imagine if the celery guy was her long dead love called from beyond the grave to guide her but they don't remember each other but have flashbacks because his death was so traumatic for both of them.....can I be a author now???? Please?

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +9

      OMG PLS THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN SO MUCH BETTER !!!

    • @booktales1687
      @booktales1687 3 года назад

      Please be an author!!

  • @_thepleathersfine_
    @_thepleathersfine_ 3 года назад +23

    Oh gosh I was listening to this while drawing and when cindy said “ferryman” I thought it was gonna be more fairy dk- 😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +8

      i tried really hard not to pronounce it like FAIRY

  • @wowwhatacharmingfish
    @wowwhatacharmingfish 3 года назад +1

    A bit late but yeah the song of Achilles definitely made me cry. I am a Greek mythology nerd, but I really enjoyed the ending that the author added, it seemed perfect for them. I also liked how, and this was in the Iliad as well, that the story continued even after Achilles' death, because the story isn't just about him and his love, but the legacy of his rage.

  • @maggropaint1364
    @maggropaint1364 3 года назад +8

    So excited for this video! I listen to the audiobook for Song of Achilles each summer. We love the pain

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +6

      the narrator does a great job!

  • @fedupwithusernames
    @fedupwithusernames 3 года назад +3

    While I love it when Cindy loses her mind over SJM's books and the like, her energy when talking about a book she rated 5* is really * chef's kiss * !

  • @bianconera10ale
    @bianconera10ale 3 года назад +6

    there're many versions of achilles' death and burial and in some of them their bones (achilles' and patroclus') do end up mingled together (even in the odyssey)! In Plutarch' s retelling of the life of alexander the great there's this bit about how him and hephaestion (his "partner") went to commemorate patroclus and achilles' tomb together!!! i know you dont care but the cool thing about mythology is if that you want a particular ending for a story there always is and for its very nature is always "canon" lol

  • @tjain3721
    @tjain3721 3 года назад +26

    the song of achilles is just me sobbing whilst also being in love with the language like yes my little gaybies

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +4

      they were indeeed gaybies

  •  3 года назад +5

    Actually, in Greek mythology, when you die you don't get to enjoy the afterlife with those you love. Although you did go to Hades, you'd be just a shade, basically a shadow of yourself. It's the reason the heroes in the myths did grandiose acts, because once they died they wanted to have achieved immortality through fame, through the retelling of their deeds since once they were gone they would just exist as a meaningless shadow in Hades.
    It's kind of depressing, but that's how my professor explained when we were discussing Achilles and the Trojan war in Uni.

  • @Random-Saurus
    @Random-Saurus 3 года назад +3

    I personally never enjoyed the ancient Greek dramas that we had to read in school, so I was surprised when I read the Song of Achilles and actually enjoyed that aspect of the story. Otherwise the middle part would have been hard to get through. The author explained the mythology way better than my teachers. Still it helped that I knew at least a little bit about the world because of what teachers forced down our throats. Whenever a character that I'd heard of before was mentioned I got this little satisfying spark of recognition and felt like what I learned in school wasn't a complete waste of time.

  • @samiai8905
    @samiai8905 3 года назад +13

    I love how start off Ferrymen by enticing people with a free book then proceed to advertise it in the worst way possible. It really does suck knowing what happened to it, I got massive Angel Beats vibes and could see it end in such a bittersweet way.
    I feel like a lot of YA Fantasy Authors for the books who you gave 3 and 2 stars to could honestly benefit from writing short stories instead. The root of so many problems really do come from the fact that they have to fill in space to complete the 3 act structure.
    It would be pretty cool if the industry switched things up a bit and have their authors (esp their debut ones) to release short stories in anthologies (kinda like how Japan does it with their manga) so the authors can experiment, people can get a taste of their style, and debut writers can get the experience they need to polish up their book. I've read several short stories with premises that could totally fit a whole novel be so much better in like 20 pages.
    It really is worrying how a lot of debut authors (esp in YA Fantasy) have a meh release

    • @booktales1687
      @booktales1687 3 года назад +1

      This is the coolest idea I’ve ever read.

  • @jeelezara317
    @jeelezara317 3 года назад +14

    The last two lines (paragraphs) of ASoA had me crying for so long, lol. And Patroclus was just.. ❤️😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +8

      the last two lines were GREAT

  • @tiredbooknerd
    @tiredbooknerd 3 года назад +5

    "my main complaint about this book is that both of the characters are blonde."
    this really took me back to when my blonde mother told me (blonde daughter) that 2 blonde people shouldn't be in a relationship cause they don't look good together

  • @Noespaca
    @Noespaca 3 года назад +2

    I'm not a big romance reader, but I'm definitely checking People Who Meet On Vacation soon, it sounds right up my alley
    And, as someone who loves Greek Mythology and The Song of Achilles, I think it says a lot about the story that you were able to enjoy it despite not knowing much about the actual myth!

  • @TheFlowerbeast
    @TheFlowerbeast 3 года назад +32

    Of course, the ferryman had to be a handsome white guy. imagine if he looked like an ordinary guy...
    like, I really want a YA book where the main characters are plain-looking but their journey and traits are not about their plain appearances. I want a book where it's not about loving yourself. Just an MC doing their thing
    If you know any YA book like that, pls let me know

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +10

      yes we need more ordinary looking people in books!!

    • @NinjaTherapist
      @NinjaTherapist 3 года назад +8

      I'm in the process of trying to get a book published. I made a point of writing ordinary-looking characters and my literary agent specifically criticised the descriptions of two of the main characters because he didn't find them sexy -_- so frustrating

    • @thatb1h855
      @thatb1h855 3 года назад +3

      i think it’s that we like looking at people who are attractive, and it makes characters easier to sympathise with if they’re hot?

    • @booktales1687
      @booktales1687 3 года назад

      @@NinjaTherapist your literary agent needs to chill lol

  • @no-xh4ir
    @no-xh4ir 3 года назад

    cindy, honeslty, your opinion is the only thing i take seriously when it comes to books like i literally discovered the best ones because of your reviews!!

  • @-lovecassy_333
    @-lovecassy_333 3 года назад +10

    6:35 - I feel like this was directed to me soo much, I promise I’ll get the book, thank you 😂❤️

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +5

      haha hope u enjoy it!!

  • @hollywooddarling
    @hollywooddarling 3 года назад +2

    In Chinese fan spaces, double-death is a HE (Happy Ending), which could explain why most people felt very satisfied with the ending of The Song of Achilles, especially with the time and space given to let them be buried together. It probably dates all the way back to the ancient and most famous Chinese folktale The Butterfly Loves (Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai)

  • @emmabookworm4971
    @emmabookworm4971 3 года назад +7

    31 minutes of Cindy
    The best way to end my day🥰

  • @Cherry_min
    @Cherry_min 3 года назад +1

    A cool idea I thought for ferryman, it would be cool like if she's falling for him because that's what she finds her "ideal " type, having a internal conflict of staying in limbo because it's comfy instead of going to the afterlife.

  • @nitzeart
    @nitzeart 3 года назад +6

    “I love when fantasy has a romance because I’m a cheesy bitch” hahaha I felt this so much. This is me. Like seeing me in real life you would never think I’m a hopeless cheesy romantic but yep. Love me some romantic side plots.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +2

      yes! some ppl think i hate romance but that is false... i just want romance done well!!

    • @nitzeart
      @nitzeart 3 года назад +2

      @@withcindy yes! My favourite stories always have some romance side to it, but it has to be done well. (Or else, have some found family instead. A mix is best). I love how you answer almost every comment haha you're awesome :)

  • @avaisoffline
    @avaisoffline 3 года назад

    insta-bought ppl we meet on vacation!! hopeless romantic, banter, and YEARS OF PINING *chefs kiss*.
    YESSSSSSSSS gimme gimme

  • @DishonorToUsAll
    @DishonorToUsAll 3 года назад +325

    Fun Fact (as fun as death can be): . In the Odyssey (playing after the Iliad), Odysseus sees Patroclus by Achilles’ side when he visits the underworld 😊

    • @alicezanini6123
      @alicezanini6123 3 года назад +28

      Girl I was already crying while reading the comments because I love that book so much AND NOW YOU KILLED ME 😭❤️

    • @charltownsend5299
      @charltownsend5299 3 года назад +2

      Auuwww. J just finished the book and this is so comforting

    • @limi5275
      @limi5275 3 года назад

      @@alicezanini6123 lllllllllllllñpllñl ooooo re areeesaesee3e rydytyurd e dsdttdaryats e s

    • @PichuElric
      @PichuElric 3 года назад +1

      Broo that is so cute

  • @Ohh4udumn
    @Ohh4udumn 3 года назад +28

    I knew the “conflict” in People We Meet on Vacation would be anticlimactic but I was still disappointed.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +14

      Honestly at that point I just wanted them to get together already 🤣

  • @lifewithjown
    @lifewithjown 3 года назад +2

    I love that Cindy is loving People We Meet on Vacation. that book took me on a mental vacation when I cant travel due to covid. also who doesnt want any Alex as a travel buddy?

  • @yashikacarstairs
    @yashikacarstairs 3 года назад +7

    Not Cindy mixing up Achilles and Odysseus 😂. Achilles wasn't there when the suitors came to Helen.

  • @intraining3026
    @intraining3026 3 года назад

    Friends-to-lovers is iconic. Also can confirm as someone who has had to babysit coworkers decades older than me, can confirm age does not stop anybody from acting like a teenager

  • @MrRoro_su
    @MrRoro_su 3 года назад +5

    heck yeah . a 2nd trip. So happy that they're selling as hot cakes. the trips sounds fun and have fun

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +4

      Thanks so much! I'm excited 😆

  • @idabergh-smith179
    @idabergh-smith179 3 года назад

    You talking about how both love interests were blonde and that you didn't like that reminded me of when I used to have this huge crush on a guy in high school, and the one thing that made me not be interested in him was when I looked at a picture of us together and realized that we were both blonde and blue-eyed, and we basically looked like we could be siblings just because of that. Ever since I've decided that if I ever get into a relationship with someone who's blonde, I'll either force them to dye their hair, or I'll dye my hair myself. It was lowkey traumatic seeing the guy I was heads over heels for and think "oh that looks like my brother" honestly

  • @rafaela00002
    @rafaela00002 3 года назад +6

    the song of achilles is a book i feel so conflicted about because on one hand, i really like the book by it self, but as a retelling of the iliad i think it's very bad, the characters feel like completely different people :( also i'm pretty sure the thing about the characters being buried together is in fact mentioned in the iliad, patroclus' ghost ask achilles this (we don't see if it happens or not because the iliad ends with hector's funeral)

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  3 года назад +1

      ahhh did u think they were acting out of character? i am not familiar with any of these stories so i couldnt tell

    • @rafaela00002
      @rafaela00002 3 года назад +4

      @@withcindy yeah, like patroclus hating fighting doesn't make sense when he's one of the best warriors (while also being described as kind), achilles by today standards is a horrible person (and i say that as someone who loves the character), like the girl he saves in SOA is his slave/war prize in the iliad, achilles' mom being against the relationship comes out of nowhere. it's been a while since i read it, but that's some of the stuff. the book still have a very beautiful writing imo, i just don't understand why the author changed so much, especially when the original looks at themes of legacy, death, and grief in ways that are still relevant for a story so old

  • @fena_reti
    @fena_reti 3 года назад +4

    When you compared “people we meet on vacation” to “love, Rosie” I was instantly sooooold 🥺🥰

  • @olgal8971
    @olgal8971 3 года назад

    i personally dont have any interest in greek mythology at all and i dont have any knowledge on greek mythology but song of achilles was so accessible for ppl who has no knowledge in greek mythology. and my god the way it was written is so beautiful. sometimes i read a sentence and i was stunned at how beautiful it was written it just ugh so beautiful. i loved it so much and i was sooobbbbinngggg in those last few chapters. i still cant move on from this book.