why is it so hard to live in the moment?

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  • Опубликовано: 4 янв 2025

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  • @ruriohama
    @ruriohama  Год назад +35

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    • @avraz.hawraz
      @avraz.hawraz Год назад +2

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    • @zoltanfabiansk5795
      @zoltanfabiansk5795 Год назад +1

      I registered to your coaching many weeks ago but never get feedback! Is it working only for someone or are you select only someones or?

    • @LavaCreeperPeople
      @LavaCreeperPeople Год назад +1

      your life is slipping from your hands.

    • @evin572
      @evin572 Год назад

      wow you pretty 😍

    • @chemist_biologist
      @chemist_biologist Год назад

      Dear Ms Ruri, can you please make a video about how to get accepted into med uni in italy

  • @AcidGlow
    @AcidGlow Год назад +5

    *Be happy in life, that's all that matters. Our time is limited* 🙂⏳

  • @humbleviewpoint
    @humbleviewpoint Год назад +109

    'Depressed= living in the PAST. Anxious = living in the FUTURE. Only at peace in the PRESENT.' Great quote! Thank you.

  • @aryangoyal2303
    @aryangoyal2303 Год назад +192

    "You get depressed because you're living in the past.
    You're anxious because you're living in the future
    You're only at peace, when you live in the present."
    This line!!! It's so true!!!!!
    You never fail to make our life more and more good!!!
    Thank you for your effort and help ❤❤❤❤

    • @LavaCreeperPeople
      @LavaCreeperPeople Год назад +1

      your life is slipping from your hands.

    • @lilshinobi7802
      @lilshinobi7802 Год назад +1

      Buddha enlightened that 2600 years ago.

    • @theendofdaysprophet
      @theendofdaysprophet Год назад

      "Lose your life for my name's sake and you shall find it" says Jesus
      Just so much to explain here, but it works for me. 😊

    • @romedick
      @romedick Год назад

      Оказывается и в Америке есть душные старики

    • @Blizzpoint
      @Blizzpoint Год назад

      Actually a darn great line!

  • @diwanrai4352
    @diwanrai4352 11 месяцев назад +2

    Most of the time our thoughts don’t have meaning… just consuming energy and more frustration… nha let it go, just live in the moment
    Plan for the future, Live in the moment ❤😂

  • @itsblakematthew
    @itsblakematthew Год назад +261

    They took my 20s, I’m taking my 30s! 😤

  • @ihavetubes
    @ihavetubes Год назад +105

    “Our life is what our thoughts make it.”
    ― Marcus Aurelius

    • @montero034
      @montero034 Год назад +3

      The thoughts can hurt your much more than anyone or anything else could do

  • @annaspeaks373
    @annaspeaks373 Год назад +3

    Thanks for posting right now. I just want to film a new video for my channel and all my neighbours drilling walls so I can’t say I am angry I am more than furious. So now I can watch your video and hope they will give me a time for filming.

  • @HeroicEnglish
    @HeroicEnglish Год назад +36

    In today's crazy fast world, living in the present takes real intention. Have clarity on what you want to do with your life, setting goals that makes sense, and making progress towards them will keep you motivated and happy. Ruri put it beautifully, it's your life, so paint it with your own colors. Embrace the now and live your best life. Cheers to being present and loving it! - Heroic English

  • @chrisbunka
    @chrisbunka Год назад +22

    As the Steve Miller Band says, “Time keeps on slipping into the future.” So fly like an eagle and enjoy the present. And as Ruri said, those healthy habits you develop in your youth will serve you very well when you need your health the most in a couple of decades. And cherish family and friends now because you will eventually lose them.

  • @tupak5567
    @tupak5567 Год назад +27

    Stop waiting for the right moment cuz your life is happening right now 💯

    • @NajdiJoInspires
      @NajdiJoInspires Год назад +1

      The right moment is now - don't sit and wait.

  • @KaiValentino-r5w
    @KaiValentino-r5w Год назад +26

    "You don't wanna kill yourself, You just wanna kill what's inside of you" Really makes you think and that we must internally fix our issues to achieve our true selves. ..If you ever feel stuck, Dont give up...Find a way out and find the motivation. Find what makes you happy.
    Whether you lost a partner, family member, Broke and starving find a niche that makes you happy thats healthy and stick to it and work on self motivation

  • @Christian-ve4bs
    @Christian-ve4bs Год назад +55

    I can honestly say that your channel is the only channel that helped me change my life for the better

    • @GuadaSanzberro
      @GuadaSanzberro Год назад

      So true!

    • @JustAn0therSoul
      @JustAn0therSoul Год назад

      maybe you find even more help with jordan peterson 3 hours for the next 30 years video or any eckhart tolle video :)

  • @valdidar
    @valdidar Год назад +1

    So True, people are always happy in the future where they achieve their goals and don't enjoy the journey

  • @maximilianoventura7947
    @maximilianoventura7947 Год назад +15

    I’m a runner who has aspirations to do ultramarathons one day and recently my eyes have been open to a new way of looking at life like a race. Not a quick one but a very very long one. What Ive taken away from watching people run 100 mile races is that you don’t accomplish them by thinking of all the hard miles ahead of you, but instead by just being in the moment as you run. The journey of life is an even longer one and it can be much more fulfilling to live and embrace each moment rather than thinking about the hardships ahead of you. Might as well enjoy the time we have am I right

    • @Franzr03
      @Franzr03 Год назад +2

      Hi, friend. Did you know! I am also a runner. But I have some problems with myself.
      I'm trying to give up alcohol for the life of me, it's kind of hard for me right now.
      Watching these types of videos allows me to keep pushing my dreams and being a better person.
      I'm living my present and focusing on my own. Thanks for your message

    • @maximilianoventura7947
      @maximilianoventura7947 Год назад +1

      @@Franzr03 Thanks for sharing! Life can get rough sometimes but we have to remember that a brighter future is closer than we know it. I just know that God has great plans for your future. You just have to keep moving.

  • @purple_mang0
    @purple_mang0 Год назад +1

    You get depressed because you're living in the past. You're anxious because you're living in the future. You're only at peace when you live in the present. live authentically

  • @travelmaker.
    @travelmaker. Год назад

    I'm glad.. I found your channel. 😊🙏
    I lost my life due to relationship break up. And by watching your videos, it made me realized how myself is important. I have to improve myself by doing what is best for me..

  • @sayedhossainkingdom9255
    @sayedhossainkingdom9255 Год назад +12

    My life is unbalanced right now . Rejected from Turkiye burslari scholarship,fail in University entrance exam. Study in a subject and degree which I don't want. I feel broken.

    • @StevenMoreno06
      @StevenMoreno06 Год назад

      Force brother ❤❤❤

    • @sayedhossainkingdom9255
      @sayedhossainkingdom9255 Год назад +2

      @@StevenMoreno06 I just waiting for Romania scholarship results if It gone I will broken Completely.

    • @StevenMoreno06
      @StevenMoreno06 Год назад +1

      @@sayedhossainkingdom9255 hold on bro

  • @nikyabodigital
    @nikyabodigital Год назад +7

    Ruri video quality is leveling up.
    Clearer camera, good background & good audio. Good equalization of music and vocals. In good volume too.
    Also cuts have been improved. It's not so noticeable now.
    A good listen to while working out. Inspiring gal.

    • @Chan-cm9do
      @Chan-cm9do Год назад

      Ruri is improving herself more and more day by day. More quality Ruri vlogs are coming every day.

  • @Wayback-intime
    @Wayback-intime Год назад +1

    Just found this channel yesterday.And I'm so happy I found it , helps me a lot!

  • @MrZorret
    @MrZorret Год назад +1

    Personal sucess AND Happiness dont always come in the same time, thats the challengue of life
    good work, young girl

  • @KeithCarmichaelInFL
    @KeithCarmichaelInFL Год назад +3

    Every time I make a choice, I make sure it's what I want to do. It has taken me decades of self evaluation to do so, but it's truly the BEST way to keep yourself happy! You wake up with yourself every morning, make sure your happy!

  • @Vikoboi
    @Vikoboi Год назад +3

    take care of yourself Ruri and lots of love! The same goes for all of you!

  • @Veins1
    @Veins1 Год назад +1

    Thank you for talking directly to me in this video. you are right, and I needed a reminder.

  • @danielg3918
    @danielg3918 Год назад +2

    Love this video. It's so important to give yourself time to rest and recover

  • @cayplusconnects
    @cayplusconnects Год назад +5

    Everyday is a gift that's why it's called the present. Staying in the moment, mindfulness and learning to say ‘no’ can help us get ahead in everyday life. Great share always from you, Ruri 🌅🌼

  • @GuilhermeSalieri
    @GuilhermeSalieri Год назад +1

    This video came in the right moment, i was looking at the streets in the front of my house and thinking why i was not feeling alive and free the way i usually was. I think maybe it's a bit deeper than what the video is showing, in my case, but it definietly helped.

  • @LeRoskal
    @LeRoskal 11 месяцев назад +1

    You're smart
    In every video you have a new app or device which can help us getting better
    Great way to make money from ppl who just need advices

  • @fjtahsin57
    @fjtahsin57 Год назад +14

    I really get motivated every time I see your valuable content on RUclips. However, it's really hard to see people talk about the actual fact of reality and how to execute that properly 😊

    • @Aizen0528
      @Aizen0528 Год назад

      I got the same feeling.

  • @GuadaSanzberro
    @GuadaSanzberro Год назад +4

    Thank you, Ruri 💜 I love your videos

  • @Blitz_Beast
    @Blitz_Beast Год назад +2

    It's rare I find a person online i genuinely respect, whether i agree fully with them or not. I've gained motivation from your blunt vidoes recently and have pushed myself to deal with the pain of discipline and actually started working towards my goals, and rest can be a struggle to let myself have. I have the utmost respect for you, Ruri, and am very grateful for the time and energy you put into your content. Would be a massive pleasure if i ever ran into you someday. Thank you 🙏🫡

  • @blackhorsespace
    @blackhorsespace Год назад +1

    cuando tu talento es muy grande, detenerte a pensar es caótico, mejor ponte a crear o a hacer lo que te gusta... 😍

  • @Anime-yz4fk
    @Anime-yz4fk Год назад +1

    watching your channel for a long time, and you have actually changed me a lot
    thanks!!

  • @cherry26-26
    @cherry26-26 Год назад +2

    I can't even explain how grateful I am, thank you so much for your videos, you saved my life. literally. I found you when I needed help the most, I have suffered a lot with depression and trust issues, so much that I just can't control my thoughts anymore. I'm often being dragged into this vortex. Seeing you explain so many things leaves me in peace, kisses from Brazil ❤

  • @murphy6700
    @murphy6700 Год назад

    As a long-time Zen Buddhist practitioner, you are absolutely on point. There is no moment other than this present moment. Learn from the past, prepare for the future, but live for NOW.

    • @murphy6700
      @murphy6700 Год назад

      PS Glad you're working out, too. That's part of the 'mental health/physical health' balance.

  • @Aishalh
    @Aishalh Год назад

    Peace when you live in the present 0:24 wow this is one of my fav words at the moment and always ! ;) ruri

  • @SeanTheTitan
    @SeanTheTitan Год назад

    I don't know how I found your channel but all your videos are exactly what I need, thank you.

  • @chillappreciator885
    @chillappreciator885 Год назад

    And yeah, I forgot to mention, every time i see the preview with your face I think that you are beautiful human being. I see the amount of pain you endured and still going forward. Maybe I'm seeing myself

  • @nec0x
    @nec0x Год назад +1

    Its great to see you are now having 1 million subscribers and you know you will get to 2 million hopefully I believe in you :)

  • @soloveletters
    @soloveletters Год назад +1

    This is just the video I need for my birthday
    Its really good, thank you

  • @King-colombia
    @King-colombia Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @maifishinglife
    @maifishinglife Год назад

    Thank you ! This video couldn’t come in a better time. Much appreciated.

  • @kilika89
    @kilika89 Год назад

    Appreciate the final message in the end. Needed to hear this.

  • @aniopara
    @aniopara Год назад +1

    Your videos are highly revealing and inspiring. Thank you and keep doing what you do.

  • @kashulovesmusic3139
    @kashulovesmusic3139 Год назад +1

    Life can be in our own hands or others hands but our individual self and innocent self can decide what to do when to take action and what our ambitions and aspirations are to achieve and become our better version at last ma’am you are amazing you tube creator keep up your good and genuine work respect

  • @feverishchic
    @feverishchic Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I almost give up for what i'm doing now.. when I watched your video I realized Im not alone.

  • @clau_sing_
    @clau_sing_ Год назад +2

    That's something that worries me every single day

  • @xoidace
    @xoidace Год назад

    That thumbnail is way better. Progressing is resting and I have seen its effectiveness throughout the route that I am on. Struggling with overthinking is a quirk trait of mine. I have to take full ownership of it to manage that. Great video!

  • @walidheraz3309
    @walidheraz3309 Год назад

    The ending was so beautiful, thank you

  • @italico2792
    @italico2792 Год назад +2

    For me it's really hard to not compare myself with others. I always compare and see that my life isn't the way I want and expected and I feel like I'd like to be in a relationship or go on holiday, or go clubbing but I feel very lonely. Thanks for your videos Ruri❤️

  • @domenichaberer5713
    @domenichaberer5713 Год назад

    i commented on the "stop wasting time" video that i personally didnt like the style of the footage and editing cause it felt (very professional but) less personal.
    not this time! this video felt super personal with the usage of own footage and more personal environment while still looking super professional! I really like it.
    independent from that, the topic and content of this video is great and actually very helpful thx!

  • @ziyaerel2015
    @ziyaerel2015 Год назад

    If Ruri said something, take it seriously…l always did. She is suberb to inspire people! Look at more than 1 million subscribers! They can’t be wrong! Eh? We’re always appreciate your precious effords. Thank you Rurisan.

  • @BVRNERMVSIC
    @BVRNERMVSIC Год назад

    "Anything outside of this moment...is imagination."

  • @ForSeroquel
    @ForSeroquel Год назад

    Ive been going to the gym since last year, but ive been SUPER inconsistent since 2023 started, i have no explanation why, I genuinely want to be consistent again, ill start by making goals again.

  • @MYTENGRIWAY
    @MYTENGRIWAY Год назад

    TENGRI BLESSING YOU! LOVE YOU!💘🤍🇰🇿

  • @tells934
    @tells934 Год назад

    Thank you for bringing me a smile on my face when i was feeling really bad and lost. Your content is always really good and we can see the hardwork behind it

  • @TAmmajak3139
    @TAmmajak3139 Год назад

    Don't live for someone expectations. So impressive!!!!

  • @JRLeeRadio
    @JRLeeRadio Год назад

    Like your content!! plz keep it going~^^ and congrats on the 1 mil milestone!!

  • @afoxcatartvideos4877
    @afoxcatartvideos4877 10 месяцев назад +1

    I feel depressed not because I am in the past. I am in the present and I still feel depressed

  • @songnana9281
    @songnana9281 Год назад

    It's been a while since the last time I watched your videos and for the beginning of this video, your makeup is so gorgeous!!!

  • @Michi-ez3gj
    @Michi-ez3gj Год назад

    人に合わせるよりやりたいことに素直に従うのって大事だよなと改めて感じました。ありがとうございます。

  • @zetristan4525
    @zetristan4525 Год назад

    Nice sharp ending!💥

  • @funnytv-1631
    @funnytv-1631 Год назад +6

    Reflect on your life right now. Do you have enough alone time? Not loneliness, but solitude… spending quality time with yourself like you would with a best friend.
    Breathe in and assess the balance of time for yourself versus the time you give to others. Everyone will have a different balance. The question is - does yours match up in a way that feels right to you?

  • @syambethan6094
    @syambethan6094 Год назад +1

    so powerful word coming from powerful woman...
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @CeruleanHaven
    @CeruleanHaven Год назад

    thank you, i needed this

  • @jarvis_plays
    @jarvis_plays Год назад

    Your videos serves as rays of sunshine for people like me who are at the brink of losing hope in life. Thanksss🙂🙂

  • @TeaDrnkr
    @TeaDrnkr Год назад

    The philosopher seneca says the same about rest. "The mind must be given relaxation, it will rise improved and sharper after a good break."

  • @PersonalFeed-lx3ml
    @PersonalFeed-lx3ml Год назад

    I know you for the first time today, thank god, your face made my day

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Год назад +2

    Thank you so so much Ruri for making such a amazing contents for us and your videos are too too helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you have a beautiful day💓🙂💫

  • @MattAgustin
    @MattAgustin Год назад

    This video has such a beautiful underlying message, Ruri ❤
    Sending you so much love and peace, my friend.

  • @xevilman1
    @xevilman1 Год назад

    I cheer for you Miss O!

  • @rawdave5554
    @rawdave5554 Год назад

    You’re a champ Ruri

  • @RadioRelax87
    @RadioRelax87 Год назад

    It's all about having a vision, having a plan, and applying the plan everyday.

  • @tanjounokamioku
    @tanjounokamioku Год назад

    I've come to a point in life where I can't feel adequate in the present. I wasted 20 years of my life. A few years ago I decided to change my reality by dedicating myself to my work and studies, but with this I just noticed how far I am from the point of finding effective, actual comfort in my life. My job is not enough, my skills are not enough, I am not enough. I fail interview after interview, challenge after challenge and I feel no progress at all. I know my competitors are doing what I should while I rest and stealing the place I sacrifice my entire body, mind and soul to be in. Almost dying in an accident didn't help as well, which makes me even more scared for the future. Scared of dying before I find what I look for. I feel like I need to save the time I lost. I can't feel happy and I can't rest until I achieve my goals, because I cannot live a single moment of peace without the thought that I still haven't achieved them. My family and friends tell me every day that I should live in the present, not think about my failures, enjoy the process, but to me, not thinking about or acting towards the goal I haven’t achieved during every waking moment is impossible. Life seems just too short.

  • @robmetalhead6185
    @robmetalhead6185 Год назад +1

    Easier said than done depends on an individuals current situation and circumstances distraction is helpful though since it keeps the mind occupied and reduces the overthinking

  • @simsixzero
    @simsixzero Год назад

    The beautiful, intelligent lady Ruri Ohama is the best teacher I have ever met

  • @flippinbeastIG
    @flippinbeastIG Год назад

    Thank you for the words of encouragement

  • @robmetalhead6185
    @robmetalhead6185 Год назад

    It’s about realizing what you can control and unfortunately the stuff you can’t especially when things get chaotic they certainly do feel that way basically an emotional overload or burnout with all the responsibilities in life

  • @jaysaywaza8126
    @jaysaywaza8126 Год назад +1

    That was an amazing video,thank you so much! It help a lot!

  • @KY-sz1sb
    @KY-sz1sb Год назад

    Living in the current moment and my own story without others' reputations are tips to be relieved form anxiety. Meanwhile, the goal is located in the future and I myself am composed from myself in the past. Looking back on my life, I particualrly have focused on the past experience and cennected it to the future. I realized that I ignored the present. This may be one of the reason why I have been depressed thesedays.

  • @tomiziexd1779
    @tomiziexd1779 Год назад

    Thank you Ruri, you always help me

  • @raiden7821
    @raiden7821 Год назад

    I have watched so many videos which cover all of that however I watched more than 10 videos for that
    You described everything in such short video, I like it

  • @tnxstaff
    @tnxstaff Год назад

    Grazie Ruri ❤

  • @melodyshortmusic
    @melodyshortmusic Год назад

    True that's right thanks for being so nice content creator

  • @ingenieriayconstruccion66
    @ingenieriayconstruccion66 Год назад +1

    Great tips Ruri

  • @mohamedabdullahi3187
    @mohamedabdullahi3187 Год назад

    Every video you upload is amazing ,thanks Ruri Ohama your tireless efforts .

  • @j.carlos99
    @j.carlos99 Год назад

    My girlfriend loves you, from Japan, Yamaguchi! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, we are really surprised that you are younger than us, but we can learn a lot from you. You are doing great, good Job! ☺️👍🏽

  • @AmericaThailand
    @AmericaThailand Год назад

    Ruri, you are a genius. You’ve seriously had a huge impact on my life. Domo Arigato! :)

  • @nl1318
    @nl1318 Год назад

    Well said Ruri!

  • @sondertekken
    @sondertekken Год назад

    Hi Ruri I dont know if youre gonna read this but, I just wanted to say I really really appreciate the effort in your videos~~!!

  • @professorJorge11
    @professorJorge11 Год назад

    Your hair looks pretty

  • @ayushmourya2831
    @ayushmourya2831 Год назад +1

    Nice content Ruhi that's really happening 😢

  • @stephre7176
    @stephre7176 Год назад +3

    Ah, vielen Dank für die motivierende Erinnerung, (wieder) mit Meditation zu beginnen. Ich weiß aus eigener Erfahrung, dass tägliche Meditation sowohl mein Wohlbefinden als auch meine Willenskraft stärkt.

    • @leaf3376
      @leaf3376 Год назад

      Warum Deutsch?

    • @stephre7176
      @stephre7176 Год назад

      @@leaf3376 Aus Spaß an der Freude auf diesem Polyglott-Kanal. 🙂 Aber ok, vermutlich wäre es respektvoller, Englisch zu verwenden. So here is a translation: Ah, thanks for the motivating reminder to start meditating (again). I know from my own experience that daily meditation strengthens both my well-being and my willpower.

  • @stevebernardoni777
    @stevebernardoni777 6 месяцев назад

    I love your channel ruri it's wonderful God bless you

  • @muradprohere
    @muradprohere Год назад

    thank you ruri 💜 this is a problem I wish to overcome

  • @jaspreetanttal8032
    @jaspreetanttal8032 Год назад

    So being perfect because you want not Just because other people want you to be perfect ❤❤❤.

  • @digimei2143
    @digimei2143 Год назад

    thanks for this video, i should have known this 10 years ago. 😸

  • @robertavila1863
    @robertavila1863 Год назад

    I have been ADHD afflicted too. But it makes victories that much better

  • @afsalmuhammad1857
    @afsalmuhammad1857 Год назад

    The last lines (conclusion) was very good.

  • @n.hemavathi3451
    @n.hemavathi3451 Год назад

    Thanks for your help. It was extremely helpful to me. I am living the past and future. I can not overcome this throughout. I try to come out every day. I hope that l will live to the present moment. It was interesting and awesome content.