Amy Must Make Room For Chris In The House If She Wants Him To Move In | Little People Big World
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2021
- Chris told Amy that he wouldn't move in with her unless she started being more organised and made room for him in the house. Today, she starts organising the garage.
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Amy should hire someone to help her purge & organize. Chris is extremely patient.
People like Amy won’t let their possessions go.
I’ll do it, I hate clutter
@@nancystamper8705 Nice of you!
Let me know if you are near NM!
I think her hiring an organizer is an ok idea. Sometimes it is hard too get rid of things. Add to That not knowing how to organize what you have left. ☺️
Chris like you said its good having another house 🏡 so don't get rid of your house or youl be homeless if things don't work out..
I don’t blame him for not wanting to leave his place only to move in to a completely cluttered and messy space. He’s too old for that.
She is so selfish! Glad She is not with Matt anymore. Chris will eventually dump her too
Amy really wasn't the best housekeeper ever.Just watch the old episodes she got upset because her inlaws wanted to help her organize the house. I do understand having people in your house cleaning but everyone needs help because that house was in a mess.
Amy is a complete slob
Have you seen her cooking? No doubt she knows her way around a kitchen but... her fingers are always in her mouth. No thanks.
Amy is a hoarder.
Just watch the older episodes. The house was a complete mess. The kids didn’t even have sheets on their beds.
Good for Chris helping Amy to face her challenges with hoarding and disorganization, and stubbornness. They’ll never make a happy long term relationship until they actually make changes, which is hard for all of us.
She is not just hoarder, she is very disorganized and even more egocentric and controller. I really can't stand her personality. I like very much her kids and grandkids but her🤮
List his faults he's not a saint
That will be hard because she is bossy and don’t want to admit it she is a sloppy hoarder
Chris, needs to run and don't look back.
I agree. Chris is.not interested in this marriage. Amy is pushing the marriage but she is in for the shock of her life. This relationship will definitely not work. Amy is not a very nice or genuine person. Her smiles and laughs are very artificial and I can clearly see her as very vindictive. She is pretty much begging for love. This is situationship between them that's destined for disaster. Its not a relationship. Her preparing meals for him is not going to truly be in love with her. He is clearly not ready for marriage. Amy is not what or who he is interested in. He is just going along with the wedding Amy is planning. Big taboo on this relationship_situationship
That's what is was just thinking
I agree that he should fun. He is not marriage material. You can see he is not enthusiastic about all the excitement that Amy brings to the table. All she is doing does not impress him. I have doubts about his masculinity. Its very obvious that this whole relationship is more exciting to Amy. Chris has zero interest. This will be the social media disaster that will go down in history. Matt is laughing on the inside because he got rid of his burden.
At chris age he hasnt married before? Amy should surely make amends..And clear up some of the hoards to make space for chris
Amy, do you hear Chris, Amy has always been messy when I first started watching LPBW years ago the house was a mess.
So what ur saying is it was her responsibility to keep that big house tidy? Her kids and husband were the problem.
He’s frustrated with her and she doesn’t get it.
She is very self centered
She did get it actually. And hoarding is a real problem.
Why doesn't she just get a storage unit
Amy is hard headed.And it better change .Really she never kept house before either.
With Amy it's her way or no way and she never did keep a clean house before so why would now be any different
I remember that from the early seasons. She was always going through piles of clothes heaped on the floor to dress the kids. It all makes sense now.
I totally agree and she's not going to change. Look at the arguments she's had over the wedding plan with Chris
Man she could easily afford a housekeeper if she doesn’t want to clean her house. It’s hard to relax when stuffs not in order and there’s junk all over the house.
Somewhere, a certain ex husband is watching this, laughing his ass off. Your problem now, Chris!
So true
That is so true run like the wind Chris before it's too late
🤣🤣
But between the sheets Chris is laughing hihihi
Pretty sure Matt was the one who treated Amy like shit, not the other way around.
She whittled it down to "just because I dont pick up a cup of coffee five minutes after I use it." That's a sign that shes delusional.
She is in denial.
He was like...ya but there are flies in the cup
Personally I would love a relationship where the guy had his own house & I had mine.
well if your getting married i would think you guys want to live with eachother.
@@queen.kristal8395 I hear you. I have the mentality that familiarity breeds contempt, distance makes the heart grow fonder etc. etc. But only @ their age, certainly not while you are raising children.
Married with 5 kids and i do feel the same way. I like my personal space still, sometimes i wish marriage is like that so people don't get tired of each other, excitement is still there and you don't expect much from each other when it comes to getting help with chores and getting into each other's business or fighting over financial.🤷♀️
Thats not a relationship mam
@@shaunadillon9600 Depends on how you define a relationship.
Run, chris, run.
Scary
@@heatherziegenbein9866 he seems like such a nice bloke for some reason they like bossy women what is that?
She keeps saying she wants Chris to move in, but she doesn’t hear him.
Typical Amy. Matt tried everything to help get her more organized...she never admits she's wrong either. It's a very bad habit she should have had in check years (and years) ago. She cannot blame it on Matt and the kids now.
Chris doesnt seem he really wants to get married. Amy isnt going to change. He needs to accept her like she is or leave altogether.
Every marriage requires compromise. Amy has a hoarding problem and needs to deal with it, even if that means getting professional help. She will be better off in the long run as will her relationship with Chris.
Yes I Agree .
Amy has emotional baggage. It's manifested by clutter. Her new husband sounds reasonable and healthy for her. I'm glad for Amy. It's hard to move on and make huge changes. I wish them the utmost happiness! ❣️💞
Amy has always been a messy housekeeper. I have watched this show from the very start. The house was always cluttered and had stuff piled up in every room. Nobody cleaned up . Chris will have to get use to it.
These two will never last!!
Consider her height too
She always had a house full of kids, kids friends, juggling Matt and all his bullshit, omg, what did you want from her? She was very very busy!
Obviously it just doesn’t bother her. She could easily have had a housekeeper
Totally Agree
Angela Pooh !
Well said !
Have a good day 🌺
She needs to make room for him if they are getting married. NOt to make him feel he does not belong there.
They know what their struggles are, neither of them are in denial! I love their honesty especially Amy's!! They will get through anything!
I was thinking exactly that! She’s not bitching! She understands the assignment and to be honest that basement doesn’t look all that bad!! The office definitely needs work but a room divider or a floor to ceiling storage unit with doors could fix that! Everyone saying Amy always messy but with 4 active kids and an absent husband it s hard to stay on top of everything. And with the divorce, while necessary, comes negative emotions snd feelings of grief. Which can manifest as depression. As someone who suffered from despondency I understand that. It s very difficult when you re in the clutches of that to get out of that. And I ll be willing to bet a lot of what she was holding onto were memories of past years when the kids were younger and they were a family unit. That also feeds depression. There’s an opposite of disorganized. And that’s hard to live with also. I know people so anal you can’t touch their glass table without them coming right behind you with a rag and Windex. And forget about bringing your kids over to a place like that! They seem to have a good way of talking things through
@@kathleenoverton3263 If I could thumbs up your comment a million times I would. You have the same thoughts as me when it comes to Amy being messy and the reasoning behind it. You said it perfectly! Have a Good Day!
just be happy for these two loving people. They are good people, I respect them.
Some of those cups have flies floating in them! That's just pure nasty!
I hope Chris realizes that it will always be this way with Amy she is a hoarder he is not I’m not trying to put anyone down but I understand where he’s coming from and it’s something he really needs to think hard on before he commits to it you cannot change your person you either except them as they are Are you need to get away because she’s not going to change
Amy is for Amy they do better living a part and dating
@@JohnDoe-hg1sv Totally agree with you, Amy has a strong personality, she hasn't shown that side of herself to Chris. He needs to watch more of the old episodes. LOL
Totally agree
I remember the state of her house when the show started... 😅
I’m like Chris super organized. Everything has it’s place. I would be putting a room divider in the office.
Mrs wouldnt move a damn thing when I moved in. 2 years later, my clothes are still in a backpack and the relationship is ending.
👍👍👌👌
Two years? You must have loved her.
Huh
I sure bet Matt is happy that this hoarder is now Chris' problem lol.
She's not really a hoarder. She just has clutter.
@@satinkaschilling5221 that's what all hoarders say
Thats down right nasty
Matt was a hoarder also. If you ever watched their show from the start.
@@susananderson9619 what’s “downright nasty”?
If she really wanted him there it would of already been done.
Exactly
Bingo i agree, she had enough of the you have to do this now, you have to do that now in her last marriage so he needs to back off a bit, she is one lady that will dig her toes in she even admitted rebellion .
@@caropapa Chris does not have to wait they are getting married I'm on Chris side she had long time to make room run Chris Amy will not change she would not do it for Matt said you can go
@@JohnDoe-hg1sv Do you honestly think they will get married, if she really wanted to she would have made space when the subject of moving in was discussed. Whats that saying about changing spots overnight? Anyway all the best to them no matter what happens.
If Matt had said the same thing to Amy she would have blown up and had a fit
Oh she's feeling the same way here ...just trying to hide it. She can barely hide her contempt.
@@susansmith493 I didn't think of that Susan. You're right.. Amy is on her best behavior right now. Once the wedding is a distant memory? Watch out Chris.
Those blowups and fits will come, honeymoon phase only lasts for a while.
How old is Chris? Never been married! Gives in to Amy before marriage. Watch the drama, drama, drama!
Amy is a micro manager. Excuses Excuses!! Get it done.
So true. Amy get your sh#t together ❤ for your relationship.
Not surprising. She made Matt feel like an outsider in his own home too.
Exactly. Never got a good feeling about her. She just seems mean
Matt made himself s stranger in his own home. He was never there for his family.
@@carolinemcclain5233 perhaps Matt was trying to get away from her and maintain his mental well being?!
@@carolinemcclain5233 She was extremely abusive, controlling and WILDLY passive aggressive. It was evident from the first episode. Poor Chris.
@@carolinemcclain5233 In the early years Matt was busy flying around the country because of his "Little Persons Company." But when he was home? He was building and creating WITH his kids. Matt built that empire known as Roloffs Farm even though Amy fought him every inch of the way. It was HIS vision. No Matt? No LPBW show.
Fun Fact: Amy didn't want to buy the farm and the old farmhouse almost three decades ago... Matt had to convince her. Looks like Matt was right, lol.
She needs to learn to live by herself and not be codependent. Be a whole person first with a whole person. Clutter says a lot.
Yes. It means that there is more to life than having a clean house
Amy is used to living in a messy cluttered house. Chris is very clean and organized. I wish them well , and I Hope This Marriage works , only time will tell. If I was Chris I Would Still Hold On To His House.
Even from the first show about her family the house has been messy. Maybe this will kick her in the butt but then she will have to stay tidy. Yeah that won't happen. Then the bickering will start.😣
Yep, Chris is already telling her what he doesn't like. But Amy, is Amy, very messy, not tidy at all. She herself looks messy. LOL
Not going to work.
This is ridiculous. Chris should go binge watch all of the shows where Amy lived on the farm with Matt. SHE WILL NOT EVER CHANGE.........
You say that as if you know her
Amy was mother and a wife not a merry maid service. Children and husband's also need to pick up after theirselfs it not just her responsibility.
She's loaded, just get a cleaner and organiser in a few times a week!!
He isnt even married yet, and he needs a place to escape to once a week......Hmmmmm
Yes concerning right ???
Isn’t this his first marriage? I’m not sure. But he’s an old dog having to learn new tricks. I don’t blame him.
It's funny amy sees Chris asking for a lil space as pressure but wants to marry soon without allowing him to have his belongings moved in..... but amy makes everyone else the bad guy..and rebels he is asking for a lil space not get rid of all her stuff.. office space ,garage space.. ... thats it... she is lucky he doesn't want his dishes, furniture,,etc
Wow, you don’t marry someone and expect them to change overnight.
You shouldn't expect them to change ....period!!! Good day...
Amy is so wrong for Chris!
CHRIS is so wrong for Amy!
I think Chris should have discussed this with Amy in private and not on television. 🌼
She is in the wrong here. Not my business but wow! They are engaged!!!!
If it's public then it's everyone's business 🤷
Anyone who saw the earlier seasons of LPBW knows what a messy pig she was , the house was a mess 24/7.
She has four kids and a lazy husband
Ole Chris musta missed the episode where there was an organizer hired to declutter the farm house. The one that Matt beotched about the huge mess!! Also when Amy said and then he can tell me the wedding date, did y'all feel as uncomfortable as they looked?
God bless Chris... wow lol
Amy isn't listening...lol
Big news" Noooo
She never listened to Matt...
Amy has never been a clean person!
She had Matt to blame before!..
You be enough to piss her off???
Amy saids...
Then saids you dont know how what
His box's impacts her???
YOUR KIDDING ME.... Right...
Chris laughing is a trip...
Oh Chris my dear...
Oh dear God help him!
She needs a organizer to help her
She has hired one several times. She will not change.
OMG!!! I can't stand Amy, she wants everything her way. She doesn't allow Chris to have his own opinion in anything. She thinks he is a marionette and if he didn't get strong with her he is going to end under the sole of her shoe. Be careful Chris!
Chris needs to chill. I think Amy is a good woman. Her husband cheated on her with his office manager and this guy is using her for whatever fame he can horn in on. I dont like him, this marriage is doomed.
He seems attracted to her charm all so . They both seem like good honest people that love each other.
Neither one are going no were ! GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH !!! AND GOD BLESS 🙏❤🙏❤
I can't stand clutter, and it can cause problems in a relationship.
Same would rather have an empty room
Cant stand hording. Anything not used is gone
Me too
Put in storage until you feel like doing then there's no pressure for either couple
Amy could hire an organizer to finish off the office and maybe the garage. Clever idea by Chris to have the rolling shelving in the garage.
Chris is such a sweet and cute guy!
I know this is old but the more i watch the more she gets on my nerves. Who does she think she is? Never satisfied always grumpy when it does not get her way plus playing the LP card whenever she can, the Roloffs need to go away, but i have to say Matt looks a lot happier
Matts a great business man and provider.
I'm glad matt find a nice lady Amy really did nothing for Matt she said she just wanted to go places all the time I thing she is using chris
I think Amy & Chris do not make a good couple
Amy won't make a good couple with anyone.
I can see another divorce in the future.
I can understand that it might be difficult for Amy. My suggestion would be to get these neat large cabinets with doors. They can fit nicely along a wall. Everything can be tidied in a very short time or hidden for the time being.
Can't Amy give all those stuff to Charity
Wouldn't that be nice, don't know if she's trying to hold on to her kids' stuff, she should give it to them, if that's what all that stuff is.
Actually Amy and Chris seem very comfortable with each other. You can tell they love each other. He's not afraid to say how he feels opening up with her and she's not afraid to listen and to appoligize if she made him feel a certain way. And as far as him helping her clear up and organize stuff that's a fine line she has to decide for herself first on what she wants to keep. It's called compromise and having open communication and going from there.
Love amy but if the kids are long out and it looks like you still have a full house....its time for the Hoarders to do a crossover episode.
Good lord Woman, men are allowed to have standards too. If this was a guy leaving piles of mess for his fiancee to work around there would be no argument, she would automatically be in the right but because it’s the woman leaving coffee cups out with flies floating in them he’s getting called a big jerk. Nice double standard and sexist to boot !!
She is going to lose him keeping him waiting to clean up and stop hoarding. He is a good man. Who is that lazy to not take pride in what you own and keep it straightened up?
Altough it's easy to precive her as being lazy, most people who have a hoarding problem suffer from some kind of mental illness. It's easier said than done to clean and organize for various reasons and alot of times it just gets worse. But i do understand your point aswell, taking pride in your home and keeping it tidy is something that is very important to me personally. I hope she can make some changes :)
#1 Nobody Maybe for others but not for Amy I don't think. I believe she's inherently a very chaotic and untidy person. When Matt decided to renovate the farm house which turned out beautifully, Amy in the end simply bastardised it with mess all around and Matt told her so many times. She had no respect for her surroundings and if I'm living with someone like that I would lose it too....either that person goes or I go...simple as that. Time will tell how this coupling will last.
Hadn't seen her in a long time since I don't watch the show anymore. She looks a lot older, wrinkly so that might be another reason for him leaving her. LOL He's gained lots of weight due to her love of cooking. Wishing them the best of luck.
@@BlueTilda96 she isnt a hoarder, just selfish. Matt says the same thing. No wonder he left
Purging and organizing is great. Changing a lifetime of habits is extremely difficult. The chances that the clutter will return are really high.
She for sure procrastinated just look at how long for the divorce and to get out of old house? Just do it sheesh!!!!!!
I'm definitely the Chris in my marriage. Honestly, after years of marriage, the little things do become really annoying. I shouldn't have to pick up and "nag" a grown man about picking up his damn shoes and socks. Every. Single. Day. For 14 years!!!
We are still happily married and have compromised A LOT but damn it's still annoying 😒
I feel your pain!!☹️
Honestly just learn to let it go and not have high expectations from your man. He's still human and I'm sure there are things that you do or don't do that annoy him as well. We have to learn to pick our battles wisely. My husband has a bad habit of peeing in the toilet and not flushing it. It's still annoying. He has gotten a little better but he doesn't flush all the time. I just sigh and do it myself or I leave it there and he eventually does it. I just don't think its worth arguing over.
Poor Chris. He seems like a nice guy and I’m afraid he is in for decades of misery. He needs to go back and watch LPBW from the beginning. Amy made Matt miserable. And their house was beyond just messy. The kids slept on beds without sheets even. I’m glad to see Matt so happy now.
Yes, you can tell Matt is really happy now. He issue is wanting to hand over the reigns to the farm but not the control. Zach already told him he won't have it if thats the way its going to be. So both Matt and Amy still have their same old issues they always had. Neither ever learns.
It's not like you have the garage full omg it's not bad he needs to relax
You don't know how much room he needs to bring his things in. He is moving from a house full of his own possessions and furniture into her house and all he is asking for is the garage and the office. I think that's pretty amazing.
@@cremebrulee4759
Want some cheese 🧀 to go with the wine 🍷 I don't live there
Omg can anyone make a statement
These days
It's just a show
He’s not particular at all. Amy needs to Marie Kondo her abundance of belongings.
Y’all are really on here commenting like you have no flawed traits. Like fake a seat and humble yourself. Amy of incredible for all she has achieved and on top of that being a little person. She’s also an incredible mother!
Well said
Those racks on wheels are ingenious for a garage!! I’m constantly putting things different places and moving a shelf so I could looks for something would be heaven ha! 🙌
Amy is a vindictive person. You can see it here in her responses. She can barely cover up her contempt at having to make any effort. When this relationship ends, she and her fans, will claim (again) that she was the victim.
Exactly. She made Matt miserable. Glad he seems happier now.
She seems a bit of a actress when doing the interviews...with the smiling and the eye rolling
@@karentaverna7396 lol the smiling while being passive aggressive is scary.
No way, she laughs at her faults and has a good sense of humor... but she is older and set in her ways. It's not easy to change. No one is perfect
Chris, For the love of God don't sell your house! You and Henry are going to need a peaceful place to go when she's in her bitch mode....runnnn!
Exactly.
If your a hater than just say that. Lol
😉😂😂😂😂
@@aabanlafeez6166 Lisa is just saying how it is, doesn't mean she's a hater, even if she is it's Good advice for Chris to not sell his house because he might need his house later on.
He may need to return to it in the future.
Amy is set in her ways just as Chris is in his ways, it's not going to be easy if they both don't work it out, I'm not a hater of Amy but there's no getting away from the way she is.
@@sophiajoyceferry7150 yes… because you know her personally huh?
Shes trying to prove a point. Why get married? She can totally date him without being married. They are so not ready for that commitment. It's Amy's revenge to show Matt that "look I'm happy and married and found someone better than you and we're so madly in love and I moved on and fell in love first and I can finally not be miserable with you anymore" that's all this is. It's ok to date for years and not rush into such a heavy commitment especially for the wrong reasons
Chris is a gem!! I hope Amy gets it and she starts to clean or at least hires someone to do it
I really love how Chris talks with Amy. I like how they openly communicate. He's lightened up, I love that lol
😮Chris, you saw what the farm looked like.This will be the same. Get on her.
Chris should help organize when he moves in
What is it that Amy does it all really
Amy has to soften her ways now for Chris. Time to share everything. It isn’t my or mine any more it’s ours from now on. Be happy the both of you. Amy let him in all the way now.
I think after all those years with Matt and being unhappy, she dug her heels in and became stubborn in some ways (and maybe her messiness was a subliminal thing that developed). Now at her age it has become her armor, a way to have some control and not be hurt. I think if she had met Chris first, her personal life would have been happier and we would see a softer Amy. Everyone is so quick her to judge her for her stubbornness, but we don’t know what really happened day to day over those 20+ years… I hope that little by little she takes off that armor so the rest of her life she can be happy… unfortunately being tied to Matt and the farm means that pain will always be present… Hopefully she can heal and find happiness!
Con todo respeto para Amy siempre e tenido la sensacion que ella nunca va a aceptar el divorcio con Matt pero creo que Criss es un magnifico ser humano y la ama much🥰🇬🇹
Hoarding problems or she is not a fan of keeping her house clean? Either one is disgusting! Making space for your love one and keeping your house clean SHOULDN'T be any pressure. I'm under the impression that she is very stubborn is her way or take the highway and that will end this relationship as well.
Amy has had a long marriage and it takes time to sort shit
Sorting really isn't the problem. It's her vindictive, belittling manner. Chris should run!
@@susansmith493 part of me feels they are rushing into marriage too fast. Shes not wanting more kids. They have plenty of towels and plates. I think chris likes the fact she has 4 fantastic kids, grandkids which he hasnt got and he knows shes soild regarding her own money, no gambling or drug, drinking issues with amy. I think mat is a problem with his drinking and cheating which he has never said he didnt. I feel sorry for amy as like amy said you never go into marriage with divorce in mind. I felt matt was cheating on amy with his partner when the kids was younger. He was quiet rude to amy in a clip it kinda shocked me.
disorganization or hoarding can be due to trauma in childhood.
She just needs a little help to go through it and organize it. She literally has a half empty bookshelf in that office. Most of that stuff can probably fit if it is organized and put away. I'm glad that they are working together and helping eachother through their own quirks
She should just hire an organizer to help her with the office and garage if it’s too overwhelming for her.
He seems like fun 😬 lmfao
I can see why Matt is looking a lot happier without her selfish ways. She doesn't like it when she doesn't get her own way.
do not pressure her it is not easy to divorce and lose everything that she work hard she needs someone to be there to make her feel as good as she is
Run ... Chris is one of those!
Omg I'm so like Amy and my husband is like him😂🤣😂🤣 but I really appreciate his organization because I function better with order. 😍
Instead of complaining, he must help
I don't know why but I am like 100% convinced that Amy and Chris are not going to last long. She just seems like a very very difficult person to be married to and Chris is like super go with the flow right now, but eventually that shit gets on your nerves and once he starts pushing back they are gonna break up. I only watched one episode when he moved in with her and then went to tell Matt they were going to have their wedding at his farm and I could tell like right away that ain't gonna last. Matt and his new girlfriend on the other hand seem better suited for each other. I hope im wrong, but thats just what I see between them two...
I must agree 👍
Now you know they both too old for these types of Shenanigans
Amy is bringing the same issues she had with Matt in this new relationship. The only thing is that she at least for now she doesn't get mad when her bf tells her to clean up. Is kind is sad.
This is so old he already lives with her. Tlc is wrong for reposting this
yes it is sad your right
@@denisejohnson2840 no he said be for he was not leaving with her
@@JohnDoe-hg1sv they live together now
@@denisejohnson2840 how do you know they live together
Give him the What's for.
You are a hoarder if you having use it in six months throw it Away
Amy will find a way to mess this up. She has way to much masculine energy.
I have to feel for Amy on this one. How long have we been knowing her?? We all know being organized isn't necessarily her forte and hey I get that it's not mine either really. Some of us have a hard time looking around imagining organization with our eyes, but rather sort of a disheveled Picasso painting, if you will. We all have things we are good at and we all have things we aren't so good at. Amy is a superior cook and hard worker and always did for her kids so what she wasn't a perfect organizer but there was a household of her kids that didn't lift a finger to help her either but just contributed to the mess making it hard to know where to begin thus paralyzing you. If you must get technical, it's a form of perfectionism believe it or not, because if you can't do it or make it perfect, and you know you can't, you simply cannot begin. Now...you can't tell me Chris hasn't watched all those old episodes and has the knowledge of this all along. He didn't just pull this out of his hat at the last minute and decide to hold it over her head and decide to humiliate her on national TV. It's a very controlling cruel bargaining chip to tell her you refuse to set a wedding date until she gets organized and makes room for him!! Then make her cry and feel bad accusing her of putting off things to keep him from moving in!!! Are you kidding me right now??? She actually humbled herself and apologized to him and I have never seen her do that with Matt or anyone with her little stubborn self!! LOL She really loves Chris!! Look Chris she's been like that all her life do you think chastising her is going to magically make it go away?? Newsflash buddy it's not. When you love someone you love them in spite of themselves!!! You aren't her damn father nor are you her controller!! And then to say you even discussed this problem with your brother and sister???!! Well that had to make Amy feel real confident. Do you think she relishes and enjoys being disorganized? Trust me in NO way does she. Furthermore with your outstanding organizational skills why the hell aren't you hands on, down and dirty, patiently helping her and teaching her some things you know rather than hold it over her head. That's what a real man who loves a woman would do. Take her hand, guide her. She's not your damn slave, HELP HER!!! Amy please search yourself deeply, his controlling nature is beginning to rear it's ugly head after all this time. It NEVER gets better, it only gets WAY worse. Love doesn't act like that. Love is kind and most of all LONGSUFFERING. You don't have to suffer and be uncomfortable on ANYONE'S account!! Love accepts you for who you are and gently takes your hand and teaches and guides you kindly. It doesn't hold a wedding date over your head until YOU get your shit done. It pitches in like a partnership and makes it fun. Think twice Amy, think twice. By him holding back and waiting on you to magically get organized until he moves in is suspect because hmmm...who is the one procrastinating now??? He's not stupid he's been knowing you a long time and he knows you can't just all of a sudden change out of nowhere!! The longer you take the longer he gets to enjoy his space at his own house. Open your eyes it's not your game, it's his.
Holy crapola your spot on 🤔😲😳 Run Amy.....
Wow I love this comment. See and listen to what your partner is showing you and saying to you. She shouldn't have to appoligize for being who she is. And he should of offered to help her not sit and watch her.
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The Form Of Perfectionism that you were talking about is what I have. I cannot seem to get over my depression enough to not look at the mess and think I can't clean it up to be perfect and it's so daunting and over whelming when I look at it. (It's not near anywhere as bad as Amy.) But My God I can't just seem to do it. For the first 15 (been married 20) years of mine and my hubby's marriage I had a SPOTLESS HOUSE. I mean I was super O.C.D. Then I got into a deep depression with horrible anxiety and I just cannot seem to get it done. It makes me feel like HORRIBLE person. :(
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That garage is bigger than my apartment.. 😳
I am just like you Amy. I have to learn how to organize by researching until I was blue in the face. Maybe hire a professional organizer. Get some help. I get it beautiful lady.
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