I’m really, sick of people saying “I know men have it hard but girls have it harder” That just isn’t true. Your sex doesn’t determine how hard, your life is. A man would have to go to work everyday, protect he’s family put food on the table and he doesn’t complain about anything, and he does it because he is a man. A woman would take care of kids and they cook clean, they also have it hard but they wouldn’t complain because there a woman. Men and woman don’t have it equally as hard, because your sex doesn’t make your life harder
@@BoristheromanianBadger-sz7ngno. Women have to go to work while looking after their kids cooking cleaning and washing. Also while we have period pains and are scared to walk alone
ever had your balls kicked? ever tried to have babies but had a sperm cramp? plus scared to walk alone who knows a killer could be behind not for women but also for MEN dont a crybaby:)@@missjlirose278
I had an ex in high school where the dad was super protective of his daughter and was so strict on her dating, she needed to be treated like a princess. Then there was me only 2 years older. They allowed their son to treat me horribly right in front of them. Complete emotional abuse. Aware of his cheating, encouraged it even. They would tell my parents I was sleeping in another room when I wasn’t. They raised their sons to be the men they were scared their daughter would find. Absolutely disgusting
@@lenuothenulenuo738 Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for e.g.: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1 umm......wtf going out at night on the road is different thing like everyone should be carefull mens aren't scared about going out at night alone and getting raped but girls are I am not saying that only girls go through rough times everyone does but but the thing is that no one is talking about these things
@Gursaaj How is that the same? The meds thing does make sense but they're not related at all. Sometimes you have to walk outside, like my sister. Shes in culinary school and works at service until 10 pm sometimes. You don't have control if you're SA'd, kidnapped or anything else like that
@@BANGPINK99 @🖤BTS ARMY🖤 i said very simple thing... u should not go at night where u might be attacked in a lonely road alone. if u get attacked not at all your fault but if u put yourself in a position where u might be attacked then u gotta take some blame.. Btw it isnt just rape, there is bugglary, crime, shootings, etc. even I or any other man would not go out to a place like this alone.
Haha more like take your mind off your sons and teach your daughters after you taught your sons OR THEACH BOTH because most parents teach their sons using a belt or wire but exclude using those for girls-(I’m not saying this is wrong it’s 100% ok to do) so the boys know not to do something because they will get the wire or hot spatula on their butt but females don’t know what consequences are sorry for those who I offended this is just my thought just meant like teach them equal
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Pfff oh stfu… you sound like a whining baby just like her… you weak ppl aren’t gonna last very long when the power goes out and there’s no more food for you to buy! And boy O boy I can’t fkn wait to watch you losers cry
@@roebuck08 we should protect our daughters and sons but also teach our daughters and sons but at the same time we wouldn’t have to protect if we teach
"Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons" Gurl your the best!!! Out of so many languages you chose to speak facts !!! Nah cuz I've been stanning you fom so long, you are literally an eye opener to so many people!!!
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons" I swear once I heard that my heart has awakened to see the true heavenly words spoken out of someone's mouth. You truly blessed me Edit: Y'all if y'all gonna start a war, start a war in another part of the comment section, not in my own personal reply section, I'm just trying to appreciate this young lady's courage to say such true words. Also, tysm for the likes.
Teach our sons to what? Not be attracted to someone, I get that people should control their feelings but it’s really not fair because men go thorugh as much problems as you guys do
Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for eg: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1 how is It are fault that these things are happening to woman exactly? Like this should not happen any way. You should NOT have to worry about these things as a young woman or a lady in general.
@@_-Pascal-_ My Dear, you need to wake up, we are in the real world not in a fairy tale... Even as a man i don't go alone at night in a lonely road. BTW if u r getting hurt it is not your fault but if you are putting yourself in a position where you might get hurt and then do get hurt then it is your fault.
IDK, but I'd definitely not say "instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons" is the best thing I've ever heard. And it would definitely not be in the top 1000 either, and if you mean teaching your sons to know that girls will have unmeetable expectations and never date girls when you're young, I agree that is an accurate but very pessimistic lesson to teach them. I would encourage my son if I had one that wanted to date when he is young to remember that girls will have expectations that you cannot meet like everyone else. If he truly likes her then he shouldn't be afraid to voice his disagreements about her expectations with her if he truly cares about her. Besides that, date when you're older because there are many bonuses. 1. You have enough life skills to know when you see a potential toxic relationship. 2. Those girls who babble about all their struggles will also have life experience to know that guys don't want to hear it because it is and sounds very demeaning towards them and that the guys have experience in life. 3. It lets you know situations in relationships are toxic not the people themselves. For those who disagree with me, hi. Also, have you guys ever had that one friend that always complained about how life was so hard for them or the friend that keeps giving excuses for something they did? It gets tired after a while. What is better trying to fix problems or complaining about problems?Even if we add a 3rd option of complaining about problems while fixing them, does that change the answer? That doesn't mean bringing up problems is bad because there is a difference btween addressing issues vs complaing about issues. Complaining makes everyone miserable. Addressing issues attempts to create solutions. Addressing issues can devolve into complaining if people are mad. For those who say "but it's not all men," why are there barely any positives/sympathy towards men when this phrase is said or "men have it hard, but women have it harder" statements? The truth of the matter is it's just different for several reasons. Biology, neurological processes, societal issues, morality etc. makes it very difficult to compare both gender's problems because they innately function differently. Comparing the severity of problems of different groups just divides more people.
“I protect all, and allow all to be taught. I am someone that knows what to do, and why it should be done.” - Someone I met at a park that clearly has his brain working.
Yes. Dats the best, at least. Teach the boys to respect girls and teach the girls to respect boys. But yh, more crucial about the boys to respect girls because as she said, its never easy to be a female. Never.
@@victoriastang who said their moms been teaching that? Once they grow up they learn that by them selfs but at least parents should teach boys to respect women instead of doing all of this.
The boys in my class thought the thing with school dress code was stupid. A friend of mine got dress coded for wearing a tang top, because it was showing her shoulders,one of the boys really pulled up his sleeve and said "oh no you can see my shoulder are you gonna dress code me?" I started laughing. Edit: I didn't expect for this to get a lot of attention damn.
@@lexi3007 all them though it was stupid, as soon as they heard about it they all made the "are you serious rn because that is stupid" face. (Yes, they have their own face for something like that)
Can we all agree we all have it hard? On one hand, historically, women have been oppressed, not been able to vote, seen as objects to their husbands, been forced into arranged marriages, sold through human trafficking, etc. (1 in every 4 women have also encountered sexual assault in their lives) Even nowadays we have to fear for our safety when walking home alone at night. Unjust school dress codes, catcalling, being told we are “asking for it” by showing out shoulders, etc. On the other hand, men are very often called weak for showing sadness and emotion (which is much more harmful than you would think), statistically are more likely to be violently attacked, stereotyped by “feminists” who hate all men without good reason. Some men can’t even be alone with their child in a public space without people being suspicious of him being a pedo or a kidnapper. Many men will be called horrible names just for asking a women out and simply being polite about it. Not to mention being called to war unexpectedly throughout history And I’ll say, a lot of the “struggles” mentioned in the comment section are things that both men and women go through
You know, the people that treat you like you’re never good enough will never go away. They will always exist in your life. It only matters is how you respond to it
I agree but it doesn’t mean we can’t talk about it and try to change it. If we just sit quiet and complacent to what the world is, positive change will never come and we’ as women are doing exactly what everyone tells us to. If our ancestors sat quiet there would still be slavery and women wouldn’t be able to vote or open a bank account. Your response does matter, but this is a great response. Calling out behaviors we feel are unfair is exactly how we change the world to be better for future generations. If you’ve gone through this, why do you want future generations to go through the same things?
I would say teach and protect your kids in general. Because no matter how much you teach after a point people develop their own thinking set and values which might just deter from your teachings so let's teach them with all we have and then protect them all the same
What she meant was that some fathers/mothers don’t let their daughters get into a relationship with a guy because they don’t want anything bad to happen to them, but if they have a son they don’t teach them how to actually respect women and be a decent guy
@@Mess_of_a_Maniac Ummmm i dont think your thinking right either. im sorry but if a man turns into a violent person a lot of the time its not the parents fault. so its very unfair to tell a parent that there son ended up like that cus of them.
@levshorts Not always sometimes *people* become like that as they were neglected as a child but in some cases yes the parent could not do anything even if they were a good parent
“It’s distracting boys” As a boy, I can 100% confirm it is more distracting when a random person gets reprimanded in the middle of class than a female happening to have arms.
Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for eg: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1 everything has risks even walking out your frount door but you still do that almost every day though don't you? Yes most parents do teach there sons but some don't and even the ones that do excuse certain behaviours because " they have a crush on a girl" or because " boys will be boys" and stuff like this. I'm not saying all men are bad or all parents don't teach thats not what im saying at all and please don't take this as and attack in anyone because it's not
@@tikarogers2717 Yes tika, i understand this isn't an attack, we are having a discussion to understand both sides, for your point- Do u know why you can go outside? because the army (which consists mainly of men btw) protect us, but if you know that hey there is a bomber outside my door, but since the bomber should not blow the whole block up i will go out and do /this/ that etc. It sounds insane doesn't it? U teach people not to kill right but the homicide rate is America alone is 17.2%... So tika tell me will u go out in such a scenario where u know the person might kill u. its the same for going out at night alone. If u do go out take precautions but as a kid, parents don't want to let anyone hurt u that's why they ask u to not go out meanwhile teaching their sons to not hurt women... As for your behavior point, there always will be an excuse. Isn't a terrorist excuse he was hurt as child or he was alone and stuff. I hope you understand. 1 last thing, i want u all women to understand that this is a real world and there are times where you must learn to survive.
@@gursaaj1 I understand your point and I think both sides can be equally right some parents aren't good but most do teach and protect their children at young ages and I do understand the world isnt all we were taught and rather than pointing blame we should all take precautions when going out no matter the gander anything that can happen to a women can happen to a man aswell. Thank you for having this discussion it was really nice and I hope you have and amazing rest of your night
@@tikarogers2717 I am glad u understood, but to reclarify even if 30% of parents don't teach [BTW 99.3% parents do teach ] you can be safe with little precautions. why hope that someone is doing their job as an parent, man or woman? ain't I right? Thank you for having a health discussion, i hope you spread the message, bye
facts the mindset of not having to protect your children is stupid, there will always be bad people on this earth no matter what, if you dont protect yo children you a bad parent
@@doris9251 I‘d argue a lot of girls arent well teached either. The only reason boys dont get comments like those is because of biological physical advantages
she is the best and when she says "eat less" it just someing i wanted to hear if someone mad what girls hate that is what i wanted to hear!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Idea: why not both. I mean u can protect your daughters (just not excessively). And they should teach their sons (and daughters) manners. Honestly society is kinda gross on how we view womens appearance and stuff
All the issues she was talking about aren't caused solely by men. It is more important to teach people to be more accepting and understanding. Also, just have a good BMI and you're fine, if people still are talking about you, ignore it. If you are healthy just keep it up. If you aren't, try reflecting on what they said, because I don't think being severely obese is good
So i shouldn't protect my daughter if i see my son beating him up? Should i instead just yell hey stop! Ohh that must of hurt! Stop it or your grounded- Oop she ded x.x my bad
it’s an unrealistic quote, though. you should be doing both, as a responsible parent; teaching your sons and protecting your daughters. you cannot control what other men do to your daughter. that is out of your grasp. teach your son, so he doesn’t become a monster, but protect your daughter, too. because not every man had loving parents to teach him.
I am saying bcz i anyhow like her this sentence. But yes both boys and girls need to understand and respect each other. Cuz this is how we can maintain a good bond
@@bentalker6078 See, not even you understands that EVERYONE is worth something, woman too. I hope your gonna be a Woman someday, in your next Life, then you gonna see what is so bad about being A woman. In my School, boys can walk around EVERYWHERE without an shirt, but if WE show a little bit kin, on the shoulders or on our stomach, we have to wear a jacket the whole day. Maybe you man understand only a LITTLE BIT how we feel, it's not feminism, it's the life
once, a teacher would make all the girls stop at her door and she would take a ruler to their skirts, and if it was too short you were sent to the office…so humiliating. Especially since they were uniforms and my family couldn’t afford to get new ones every year, and mine were always too short. smh
At my old high school they made the girls kneel in front of the class and the male teachers would do it while the girls were begging for a female teacher or to do it in private like in the hallway so I started a protest and my petition got over a thousand signatures and it made the news 🥰
Every boy line up like narutos shadow clone jutsu get your kunais out and fight as a boy i say this is ridiculous abd i personally silence every school
How bout instead of letting your daughters play victim teach them to actually be proud of there privilege Yall will do anything to become the minority huh Pathetic
“Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons.” It’s true however, you should educate AND protect your sons and daughters bc while it may not be boys it may be grown men and/or women that want to kidnap your children Edit: I didn’t mean to start a war, I’m so sorry😭😭
Protect your sons? No that would be silly, the overwhelming amount of male suicides doesn't warrant protection at all. Clearly only women should be protected because women are queens and men are men who have it so easy in life that they end up killing themselves.
@@L1TM it was a sarcastic comment aimed at the people who keep saying "protect your daughters, educate your sons". I actually agree with you here, both should be educated. I'm not arguing against you or anything, I just hate the blatant sexism against men in these comment sections, coming from people who have never experienced what it's like to be a man.
@@Notyour_frog Ah yes, so that's why the video creator commented on mens issues being easier 😂😂😂 it goes both ways love, stop trying to cope. You're being blatantly sexist right now by excluding me based on my gender.
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons" This is actually something boys from my school said in a stage presentation..everyone was cheering and clapping trust me every girl was crying..like..WE GOTTA SAVE THEM THEY ARE PRECIOUS!!!!!
@mimusa56 let’s teach everyone that it’s not okay to be violent and understand what no means. They will have better platonic and romantic relationships and they will have less of a chance to end up in jail.
"don't protect your daughters, teach your sons." she said it all
I can’t wait for this comment to have over a thousand likes
@@creativelights1247 frrr i was her 500th like btw
and teach your daughters too
How abt we do both??
@@chuuchuuutrain I bet ur a boy
As a wise man once said, "There is nothing that a teenage girl can do without being mocked."
Wilbur 😊
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@@n30ngl1tch yes 👍
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"Don't protect your daughters teach your sons"
This girl is so wise!!!!
Can you explain please I don’t understand
‘Don’t protect your daughters,teach your sons’
PREACHHH
Exactly Exactly say it ❤😂😂
I’m really, sick of people saying “I know men have it hard but girls have it harder” That just isn’t true. Your sex doesn’t determine how hard, your life is. A man would have to go to work everyday, protect he’s family put food on the table and he doesn’t complain about anything, and he does it because he is a man. A woman would take care of kids and they cook clean, they also have it hard but they wouldn’t complain because there a woman. Men and woman don’t have it equally as hard, because your sex doesn’t make your life harder
@@BoristheromanianBadger-sz7ngno. Women have to go to work while looking after their kids cooking cleaning and washing. Also while we have period pains and are scared to walk alone
Think about it as if other stuff like actually living tho. Who had it harder simply because of their gender?@BoristheromanianBadger-sz7ng
ever had your balls kicked? ever tried to have babies but had a sperm cramp?
plus scared to walk alone who knows a killer could be behind not for women but also for MEN
dont a crybaby:)@@missjlirose278
The community is messed up fr. You are perfect the way u are
She is not perfect. Do u have brain damage?
1000th like!
It was me of 999
True
Lala is fake she doesn't have a bf called Joshua
I had an ex in high school where the dad was super protective of his daughter and was so strict on her dating, she needed to be treated like a princess. Then there was me only 2 years older. They allowed their son to treat me horribly right in front of them. Complete emotional abuse. Aware of his cheating, encouraged it even. They would tell my parents I was sleeping in another room when I wasn’t. They raised their sons to be the men they were scared their daughter would find. Absolutely disgusting
That is absolutely disgusting and awful. I wish you WELLLLL!!! I hope you are doing better now.
im so sorry-
I'm so sorry
Is it because some dudes wants to be controlling towards woman? 💀 why do some guys do this
Victim
“Whatever a girl does it is never enough”
What she said is true and will stay true until somebody changes it.
It's the same for guys and everyone, it's never enough your life isn't harder because your a woman.
Best quote ever is , don’t protect your daughters, teach your sons. She said it all and I feel her pain
This is more educational than school. We never learn how to live in the outside world.
Ikr in my school my teachers never taught the boys how to act right with girls or about harassment. They only cared about our studies.
@@lenuothenulenuo738 Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for e.g.: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1 umm......wtf going out at night on the road is different thing like everyone should be carefull mens aren't scared about going out at night alone and getting raped but girls are I am not saying that only girls go through rough times everyone does but but the thing is that no one is talking about these things
@Gursaaj How is that the same? The meds thing does make sense but they're not related at all. Sometimes you have to walk outside, like my sister. Shes in culinary school and works at service until 10 pm sometimes. You don't have control if you're SA'd, kidnapped or anything else like that
@@BANGPINK99 @🖤BTS ARMY🖤 i said very simple thing... u should not go at night where u might be attacked in a lonely road alone. if u get attacked not at all your fault but if u put yourself in a position where u might be attacked then u gotta take some blame..
Btw it isnt just rape, there is bugglary, crime, shootings, etc. even I or any other man would not go out to a place like this alone.
SHE SPEAKING FACTS
“Don’t protect your daughters, teach your sons”
Edit: SHIT SHIT AHHGGG WHY IS THIS BLOWING UP LOL
facts
Faxs
Yes fr
teach everyone, there are girls who do fucked up things too
Haha more like take your mind off your sons and teach your daughters after you taught your sons OR THEACH BOTH because most parents teach their sons using a belt or wire but exclude using those for girls-(I’m not saying this is wrong it’s 100% ok to do) so the boys know not to do something because they will get the wire or hot spatula on their butt but females don’t know what consequences are sorry for those who I offended this is just my thought just meant like teach them equal
Instead of protecting you daughter, teach you sons.
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"DON'T PROTECT YOUR DAUGHTER, TEACH YOUR SONS " THE DEEPEST AND MEANINGFUL LINE I HAVE EVER HEARD.
thats if i can find mine 💀
“Don’t protect your sons teach your daughter” vise versa
@@shhpinningonall WAIT WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT
Maybe teach both or get rid of the parents!
Pfff oh stfu… you sound like a whining baby just like her… you weak ppl aren’t gonna last very long when the power goes out and there’s no more food for you to buy! And boy O boy I can’t fkn wait to watch you losers cry
" Don't protect your daughters, teach your sons"
PERIODTTT
OK cool so I just won’t protect my daughter ever wtf y’all are dumb
@mimusa56 Finally something fair for both sides these bitches are beyond sexist men have to deal with women.
@@mimusa5625yes
Copy cat
@@abhijahmiriam7806 wdym
You have no idea how much this video is soooooooooooooo true, I swear this world is messed up
Wdym no?@Jannatandumar
"instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons" strong words from a woman❤
"Don't protect your daughters, teach your sons." Words of a legend.
Can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not, but we should absolutely protect both our daughters and sons lmao
Real
@@roebuck08 we should protect our daughters and sons but also teach our daughters and sons but at the same time we wouldn’t have to protect if we teach
i’m so happy rn because the likes were at 554 then i liked and it became 555😊😊
Actually both are important
"Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons"
Gurl your the best!!! Out of so many languages you chose to speak facts !!!
Nah cuz I've been stanning you fom so long, you are literally an eye opener to so many people!!!
@Jack Wrath Bro get outta here she is obviously better than you
@@Its_honeythedragon she is a "pick me"
@@Sky-uw5lv aint no one care shes still way better than a comment bot 😭
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@Jack Wrath But who knows you? No one bro means your content is not good enough
This is true
Instead of protecting ur daughters teach ur sons
Omg my jaw dropped
"Don't protect your daughters teache your sons" Best quote of 2023
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons"
I swear once I heard that my heart has awakened to see the true heavenly words spoken out of someone's mouth. You truly blessed me
Edit: Y'all if y'all gonna start a war, start a war in another part of the comment section, not in my own personal reply section, I'm just trying to appreciate this young lady's courage to say such true words. Also, tysm for the likes.
no matter what you do some men will end up as pieces of garbage, u cant even call them men. so how about you do both to ensure safety.
wth
And teach your daughters that they need to respect men too. Way too many entitled ass bitches who think men are supposed to bow down to them
@@Imveepbeep what
Teach our sons to what? Not be attracted to someone, I get that people should control their feelings but it’s really not fair because men go thorugh as much problems as you guys do
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons" AGREED🙏🏻🙌🏻❤
Edit:The mandatory "Mom I'm famous"😎
Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for eg: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1
how is It are fault that these things are happening to woman exactly? Like this should not happen any way. You should NOT have to worry about these things as a young woman or a lady in general.
@@_-Pascal-_ exactly I agree with u
@@gursaaj1 They're also not taught to not do it.
@@_-Pascal-_ My Dear, you need to wake up, we are in the real world not in a fairy tale... Even as a man i don't go alone at night in a lonely road. BTW if u r getting hurt it is not your fault but if you are putting yourself in a position where you might get hurt and then do get hurt then it is your fault.
She said it all😔
THANK YOU!!! Nobody I know understands 😢. She said it all with "don't protect your daughters, teach your sons."
"Instead of protecting your daughter teach your son"
SHE SPAT FACTS
Edit:wow ww3 going on in the replies
THAT’S WHAT I SAID TOO
@@A_Rock_Star8 i know great stuff is meant to be reapeted
@@A_Rock_Star8 yeah she is right great stuff has to be repeated
FACTS
And teacher your daughter
*”instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons”*
GURL THIS IS THE BEST THING THAT I HAVE EVER HEARD
Same
What if you dont have son tho-..
Yes it makes sense but it is also necessary to protect your children because unfortunately there are horrible people in this world
Samee
IDK, but I'd definitely not say "instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons" is the best thing I've ever heard. And it would definitely not be in the top 1000 either, and if you mean teaching your sons to know that girls will have unmeetable expectations and never date girls when you're young, I agree that is an accurate but very pessimistic lesson to teach them.
I would encourage my son if I had one that wanted to date when he is young to remember that girls will have expectations that you cannot meet like everyone else. If he truly likes her then he shouldn't be afraid to voice his disagreements about her expectations with her if he truly cares about her. Besides that, date when you're older because there are many bonuses. 1. You have enough life skills to know when you see a potential toxic relationship. 2. Those girls who babble about all their struggles will also have life experience to know that guys don't want to hear it because it is and sounds very demeaning towards them and that the guys have experience in life. 3. It lets you know situations in relationships are toxic not the people themselves.
For those who disagree with me, hi. Also, have you guys ever had that one friend that always complained about how life was so hard for them or the friend that keeps giving excuses for something they did? It gets tired after a while. What is better trying to fix problems or complaining about problems?Even if we add a 3rd option of complaining about problems while fixing them, does that change the answer? That doesn't mean bringing up problems is bad because there is a difference btween addressing issues vs complaing about issues. Complaining makes everyone miserable. Addressing issues attempts to create solutions. Addressing issues can devolve into complaining if people are mad.
For those who say "but it's not all men," why are there barely any positives/sympathy towards men when this phrase is said or "men have it hard, but women have it harder" statements?
The truth of the matter is it's just different for several reasons. Biology, neurological processes, societal issues, morality etc. makes it very difficult to compare both gender's problems because they innately function differently. Comparing the severity of problems of different groups just divides more people.
“Do not wear eyeliner-“ *cutely puts on eyeliner😚*
“Whatever a girl does is never enough”
So true ❤
“Whatever a girl does, it is never enough”
Facts
Edit: people are having a war rn in the comments😭🫢
"Whatever a human does, it is never enough"
Facts
@@Lydia-is-a-person-on-the-world whatever a drama queen says is never enough
True
oh you didnt have a mother figure?
@@yvangi9690 oh i did im just not a simp XD
Protect daughters, protect sons,
teach daughters, teach sons.
DO IT ALL
“I protect all, and allow all to be taught. I am someone that knows what to do, and why it should be done.” - Someone I met at a park that clearly has his brain working.
Your right se should of said this
Preach
Yes pleease
Yes. Dats the best, at least. Teach the boys to respect girls and teach the girls to respect boys. But yh, more crucial about the boys to respect girls because as she said, its never easy to be a female. Never.
She’s preaching to the choir. U go girl 🫶🏻
This girl said it allll!
"Don't protect your daughter , teach your son's "
Best quote of the year by : Lala 2023 ❤
Yess! I know.. not all guys are like that but still its pretty true
true
You know she didn't create that quote, right?
teach your daughters
Yes I am a son
“instead of protecting your daughters, teach your son”
She’s speaking factssss
And what have women been teaching their sons exactly? To rape, beat, and mistreat women?
@@victoriastang who said their moms been teaching that? Once they grow up they learn that by them selfs but at least parents should teach boys to respect women instead of doing all of this.
Boys don’t have to if they want to hurt woman let them they’ll get punished and it’s nun of your concern either
@@Aashni_brahmbhatt That makes no sense whatsoever.
YES
She understands girls problems that's so good she is talking right 😭❤️
Yes girl so true I am so thankful. Someone finally said this online.
"Instead of protecting your daughter, teach your son"
Gurl i stan you 😭❤️
@Jack Wrath kindly get off this channel
@Darktion shut ur goofy ahh up
Hello fellow army 💜
@Jack Wrath nahhh, don’t spread hate.
@JackWrath3..Go away and never return
“Except of protecting your daughters, teach your sons” DAMN RIGHT THAT IS 👍
I. Love. You. Lala. TV❤💓
Brain dead 🤦♂️
How about both?
@@tropical_berry_angie1619 yeahh exactly 💯
That’s really stupid libtard ideology
She explain a hard truth in a very easy way 😢
Love you lala❤
She explain a hard truth in a very easy way 😢
Love you lala ❤frr
The boys in my class thought the thing with school dress code was stupid. A friend of mine got dress coded for wearing a tang top, because it was showing her shoulders,one of the boys really pulled up his sleeve and said "oh no you can see my shoulder are you gonna dress code me?" I started laughing.
Edit: I didn't expect for this to get a lot of attention damn.
Never seen such Gentlemen like this ....gotta protect them at all cost .
@@lexi3007 all them though it was stupid, as soon as they heard about it they all made the "are you serious rn because that is stupid" face. (Yes, they have their own face for something like that)
omg pookie !!! Is he 6,9 🥺🥺
Yeah a "tanG" top
Sigma
"instead of "protecting ur daughters" teach ur sons"
MIC DROPPED
Exactly , I love youuu laalaaaa ❤🫶🏻👍🏻😊
Can we all agree we all have it hard?
On one hand, historically, women have been oppressed, not been able to vote, seen as objects to their husbands, been forced into arranged marriages, sold through human trafficking, etc. (1 in every 4 women have also encountered sexual assault in their lives)
Even nowadays we have to fear for our safety when walking home alone at night.
Unjust school dress codes, catcalling, being told we are “asking for it” by showing out shoulders, etc.
On the other hand, men are very often called weak for showing sadness and emotion (which is much more harmful than you would think), statistically are more likely to be violently attacked, stereotyped by “feminists” who hate all men without good reason. Some men can’t even be alone with their child in a public space without people being suspicious of him being a pedo or a kidnapper. Many men will be called horrible names just for asking a women out and simply being polite about it. Not to mention being called to war unexpectedly throughout history
And I’ll say, a lot of the “struggles” mentioned in the comment section are things that both men and women go through
Facts literally this comment is so true I don't understand how the comments protecting the woman get so much like but not the ones about me so unfair
"Instead of protecting of daughters, teach your sons"
Every parents should listen to this..
To bad that the dads aren’t here to lisen to this 😂😂
Except a dad of a daughter can't teach every boy in the world. Doesn't make sense.
They do
you have to do both. it's not a either or situation.
Ikr😬
As a man, and hearing this line " Instead protecting your daughters, teach your sons" Is truely just perfect, even I as a man I agree
Pick me boy
@ Katrine battle
No he's not he's just being nice
@@elijerome4139 no he's not, that saying is stupid and insensitive
@Katherine battle, so you like when someone judges you? That saying is real!
@@farheenkhurshid8941 girl can you clarify what the fuck you're talking about cause I don't understand you?💀
FACTS MAN, FACTS.🫡
When she said instead of protecting ur daughter teach ur sons
OMG THIS GIRLLL❤❤
You know, the people that treat you like you’re never good enough will never go away. They will always exist in your life. It only matters is how you respond to it
I agree but it doesn’t mean we can’t talk about it and try to change it. If we just sit quiet and complacent to what the world is, positive change will never come and we’ as women are doing exactly what everyone tells us to. If our ancestors sat quiet there would still be slavery and women wouldn’t be able to vote or open a bank account.
Your response does matter, but this is a great response. Calling out behaviors we feel are unfair is exactly how we change the world to be better for future generations. If you’ve gone through this, why do you want future generations to go through the same things?
@@jayde_884 exactly !!!
this is giving boys will be boys
Exactly what I was gonna say
I completely agree
I would say teach and protect your kids in general. Because no matter how much you teach after a point people develop their own thinking set and values which might just deter from your teachings so let's teach them with all we have and then protect them all the same
Fr tho
Ya fr
Bonk bad
Teach good
Gender doesn’t matter
exactly
What she meant was that some fathers/mothers don’t let their daughters get into a relationship with a guy because they don’t want anything bad to happen to them, but if they have a son they don’t teach them how to actually respect women and be a decent guy
Your makeup looks so good and facts
The last words are truly amazing ❤😢
I love how she puts eyeliner on when she says people say don’t wear eyeliner to show she doesn’t care
but it actually looked bad 💀
@@psivy5942actually the right side was really cute!! but the left didn’t match and it was an awkward shape lol
"instead of protecting your daughter,teach your sons"
SHE SLAY
terrible advice. protecting your child is great
@@LevsShorts99 yes but she means keeping them from everyone and everything. Idk what to say except ur not thinking right
@@Mess_of_a_Maniac Ummmm i dont think your thinking right either. im sorry but if a man turns into a violent person a lot of the time its not the parents fault. so its very unfair to tell a parent that there son ended up like that cus of them.
@@LevsShorts99 I agree, but some of the time, the way they grow up can have an effect on attitudes.etc.
@levshorts
Not always sometimes *people* become like that as they were neglected as a child but in some cases yes the parent could not do anything even if they were a good parent
thankyou so much ❤ u are an inspirastion to all girls and u litterally said it all in the last sentence ❤
Girl u r 100% right!
“It’s distracting boys”
As a boy, I can 100% confirm it is more distracting when a random person gets reprimanded in the middle of class than a female happening to have arms.
Ikr
Danm right because uhhhhhhhhhh those biceps like wtf stup up
I feel like a lot of people complain about school dress code, mean while a lot of schools have uniforms and don't even get some sort of a choice 😭
Finally a actually agreeing boy with this omg ty
@@ItzDimondCrystal I knew most boys were stupid but I didn't know they were that big of idiots lmao
"instead of protecting your daughter.. teach your son- " THE TRUE FACT...
Men are taught not to hurt woman and rape etc.. if u know that u might be hurt by going out at night, then its your fault as well. for eg: if u take too many meds it isn't the doctors fault, even if doctor tells u that it is not good for u, some people still take it... its the same thing, u know that u might be attacked why take ricks. even as a man i avoid going on a lonely road at night.
@@gursaaj1 everything has risks even walking out your frount door but you still do that almost every day though don't you? Yes most parents do teach there sons but some don't and even the ones that do excuse certain behaviours because " they have a crush on a girl" or because " boys will be boys" and stuff like this. I'm not saying all men are bad or all parents don't teach thats not what im saying at all and please don't take this as and attack in anyone because it's not
@@tikarogers2717 Yes tika, i understand this isn't an attack, we are having a discussion to understand both sides, for your point- Do u know why you can go outside? because the army (which consists mainly of men btw) protect us, but if you know that hey there is a bomber outside my door, but since the bomber should not blow the whole block up i will go out and do /this/ that etc. It sounds insane doesn't it? U teach people not to kill right but the homicide rate is America alone is 17.2%... So tika tell me will u go out in such a scenario where u know the person might kill u. its the same for going out at night alone. If u do go out take precautions but as a kid, parents don't want to let anyone hurt u that's why they ask u to not go out meanwhile teaching their sons to not hurt women... As for your behavior point, there always will be an excuse. Isn't a terrorist excuse he was hurt as child or he was alone and stuff. I hope you understand. 1 last thing, i want u all women to understand that this is a real world and there are times where you must learn to survive.
@@gursaaj1 I understand your point and I think both sides can be equally right some parents aren't good but most do teach and protect their children at young ages and I do understand the world isnt all we were taught and rather than pointing blame we should all take precautions when going out no matter the gander anything that can happen to a women can happen to a man aswell.
Thank you for having this discussion it was really nice and I hope you have and amazing rest of your night
@@tikarogers2717 I am glad u understood, but to reclarify even if 30% of parents don't teach [BTW 99.3% parents do teach ] you can be safe with little precautions. why hope that someone is doing their job as an parent, man or woman? ain't I right?
Thank you for having a health discussion, i hope you spread the message, bye
I love that last line. I’m going to live by that.
You makeup 💄 looks magically good ✨
"I have not lost myself by not wearing makeup I have found myself"
-somebody
You have to protect and teach all of your kids cause no matter what, there will always be parents who didn't do the same with their own kids
Exactly, all children need both protection and instruction
facts the mindset of not having to protect your children is stupid, there will always be bad people on this earth no matter what, if you dont protect yo children you a bad parent
Yes toy need to protect their children👶👧👦 but girls mainly get comments because of the boys. So teach your sons.
@@doris9251 I‘d argue a lot of girls arent well teached either. The only reason boys dont get comments like those is because of biological physical advantages
Ik
The savagery of her wearing eyeliner at the part when she said that people hate me for wearing eyeliner 😍
she is the best and when she says "eat less" it just someing i wanted to hear if someone mad what girls hate that is what i wanted to hear!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"TEACH YOUR SONS" very well said. 💯
@Jack Wrath hah! You wish 🤣🤣 ur a bot and if u weren’t then you would reply to me 🤣🤣💀💀🤓
This girl went from HEY JOSHUAAAA to speaking straight up facts.
Her content is getting a lot better in my opinion
@@saanvisthavarmath1279 faxs
I love your lip colour and your thoughts you are right we face this everywhere
Why is this so freakishly accurate?
“Don’t protect your daughters, teach ur sons.”
She said it all
Good job copying comments
@@Shonen_edits. bro shut up
No
@@Shonen_edits. I didn’t copy anyone I don’t copy ugly people
@@Swant_E this person is accusing me and btw it’s auto-type I tried to say *any* sorry
"Except of protecting your daughters, teach your sons" YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!
Yesss
Wait but that’s just saying that all those problems were caused by men? Is that really fair to say?
Idea: why not both. I mean u can protect your daughters (just not excessively). And they should teach their sons (and daughters) manners. Honestly society is kinda gross on how we view womens appearance and stuff
All the issues she was talking about aren't caused solely by men. It is more important to teach people to be more accepting and understanding. Also, just have a good BMI and you're fine, if people still are talking about you, ignore it. If you are healthy just keep it up. If you aren't, try reflecting on what they said, because I don't think being severely obese is good
thank u
True I Love You sis❤
Beautiful true words have been spoken ✍️
"Don't protect your daughters, teach your sons" FR THOOOOOOOOO 😤✨👏👏👏👏
So i shouldn't protect my daughter if i see my son beating him up? Should i instead just yell hey stop! Ohh that must of hurt! Stop it or your grounded- Oop she ded x.x my bad
@@Rheax_anime huh?
Yes slay queen you go!!
@@Rheax_animeprotect your daughter..but don't lock her in her room and tell her to not go outside at night
@@haydencejohnston3025 so you say women cause more pain too men?bro that just taking side of men ,both gender cause pain equally too each other
“Instead of protecting your daughters,teach your sons” TRUEST AND SLAYY WORDS EVER SAID ✨❤️
This is comment that feels like something I would say so Slayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
@@itsthecolorlavender16 💗
This is your most beautiful make up! I love it!
This is why I love you Lala
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons”. Girls you win my Heart again... YOU said a whole things that sometimes school Don't say
Dear, one can't change the mentality of the wolves out there to pounce at women or preach them. One can only protect his girls from them.
it’s an unrealistic quote, though.
you should be doing both, as a responsible parent; teaching your sons and protecting your daughters.
you cannot control what other men do to your daughter. that is out of your grasp. teach your son, so he doesn’t become a monster, but protect your daughter, too. because not every man had loving parents to teach him.
I am saying bcz i anyhow like her this sentence. But yes both boys and girls need to understand and respect each other. Cuz this is how we can maintain a good bond
THANK YOU GURL FINALLY SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS
Feminism but if a man speaks out he gets called bad bad things
@@bentalker6078 See, not even you understands that EVERYONE is worth something, woman too. I hope your gonna be a Woman someday, in your next Life, then you gonna see what is so bad about being A woman. In my School, boys can walk around EVERYWHERE without an shirt, but if WE show a little bit kin, on the shoulders or on our stomach, we have to wear a jacket the whole day. Maybe you man understand only a LITTLE BIT how we feel, it's not feminism, it's the life
@@bentalker6078 Everyone does
You said the true words . 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Yasssss you slayyyyy that is the attitude of a real girl
Out of all the languages she could speak, she chose to speak facts
Facts is not a language... It's a sentence which is true... and if you think it's a JOKE then wow it's so funny that I will laugh after a decade :)
@@aestheticvideos53 it’s called a joke honey
@@aestheticvideos53dude there is a word called "joke" ever heard of it?
@@aestheticvideos53 Its a freaking joke bro. You think I graduated high school thinking facts is a language 😭💀
@@aestheticvideos53 I wanna post this on r/whoosh so bad
I’m freaking subscribed
lala u r so pretty
"Don't protect your daughters, teach your sons."
The wisest thing I've heard all day.
If u say this in here they say : Boys are stubborn and don't listen. TF WHY DIDN'T YOU TEACH YOUR BOY FROM AN EARLY AGE TO OBEY YOU BAS-
Facts
@@LiLme134 yeah kids never listen 😭 girls and boys both deserve respect I have seen girls and boys bully they never listen 😭😭😭😭
Must’ve heard some dumb ass shit yesterday for this to be wise
WHY IS SHE BEING SO MEANN IM A BOY LIKE EHAT THE FREEK
once, a teacher would make all the girls stop at her door and she would take a ruler to their skirts, and if it was too short you were sent to the office…so humiliating. Especially since they were uniforms and my family couldn’t afford to get new ones every year, and mine were always too short. smh
At my old high school they made the girls kneel in front of the class and the male teachers would do it while the girls were begging for a female teacher or to do it in private like in the hallway so I started a protest and my petition got over a thousand signatures and it made the news 🥰
@@kellypatrick7022 im so proud of you girl
Every boy line up like narutos shadow clone jutsu get your kunais out and fight as a boy i say this is ridiculous abd i personally silence every school
But being covered up gives you protection from predators that’s why the Islam is the most beautiful religion
@@peanutbader6656 shut up
Can you please do a ted talk? That is pure facts.
Everything is so true u slay girl
“Don’t protect you daughters,teach your sons.”-lala 2023
"Insead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons." Preach 🙏 🙏 🙏
How bout instead of letting your daughters play victim teach them to actually be proud of there privilege
Yall will do anything to become the minority huh
Pathetic
Down in Ohio. Swag like Ohio.
No wonder your in ohio
WHY ARE YOU SO PRETTY >>>>>>>😍
that is so true and this is so funny and i love your vidoes
“Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons.” It’s true however, you should educate AND protect your sons and daughters bc while it may not be boys it may be grown men and/or women that want to kidnap your children
Edit: I didn’t mean to start a war, I’m so sorry😭😭
Protect your sons? No that would be silly, the overwhelming amount of male suicides doesn't warrant protection at all. Clearly only women should be protected because women are queens and men are men who have it so easy in life that they end up killing themselves.
@@dylancrosby2451 what?? I think you replied to the wrong person.
@@L1TM it was a sarcastic comment aimed at the people who keep saying "protect your daughters, educate your sons". I actually agree with you here, both should be educated. I'm not arguing against you or anything, I just hate the blatant sexism against men in these comment sections, coming from people who have never experienced what it's like to be a man.
@@dylancrosby2451 ohh ok
@@Notyour_frog Ah yes, so that's why the video creator commented on mens issues being easier 😂😂😂 it goes both ways love, stop trying to cope. You're being blatantly sexist right now by excluding me based on my gender.
This woman needs an award for speaking for herself and other women like myself
Who t f is attracted to saggy pant? XD
@@acedemonprince3784 probably you
i aint gay
@@acedemonprince3784 and i dont waste my time
@@analyze2010e you responded back so you just wasted your time XD
You go girl ❤ You said it all❤❤
Fr thank you for saying this
“ don’t protect your daughters, teach your sons”SLAYYYYY GURLL
Edit: omg I have never gotten the many likes
Slayy sister
I hate that saying so fuckin much
Doesn't change anything :/
Was always watching and I will come and three day is it everyone describes to 100 million
@@peachyrose4564THAT'S WHAT IM SAYING. These people really think "teaching" your sons will change anything.
"Instead of protecting your daughters teach your sons"
This is actually something boys from my school said in a stage presentation..everyone was cheering and clapping trust me every girl was crying..like..WE GOTTA SAVE THEM THEY ARE PRECIOUS!!!!!
@mimusa56 what?...
@mimusa56 let’s teach everyone that it’s not okay to be violent and understand what no means. They will have better platonic and romantic relationships and they will have less of a chance to end up in jail.
Girl I love your videos
YAS SLAY love the ending !!!! And the whole video slay
“Don’t protect your daughters, teach your sons”
those are the words of a true leader ❤