Phoebe Bridgers Waiting Room Lyric Video

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @mhaselton1022
    @mhaselton1022 2 года назад +4603

    the bittersweet reality of knowing that what's for the better isn't what you want.

  • @alexandra.1702
    @alexandra.1702 3 года назад +5236

    that build up and repeatedly “I know it’s for the better” is so fucking beautiful

    • @fredddie1509
      @fredddie1509 Год назад +11

      666 likes

    • @ninaa3699
      @ninaa3699 Год назад +181

      i can not stop hearing it as no, it’s for the better as if she’s begging herself to stop wishing for it yk

    • @Fabiolalave
      @Fabiolalave Год назад +16

      @@ninaa3699 this just made cry even more

    • @Therealsofiathefirst
      @Therealsofiathefirst Год назад +15

      Breaks my heart a little more each time she sings it

    • @splaat239
      @splaat239 Год назад +41

      It's like ur trying to repeat it and convince yourself it's true

  • @erikdanielson277
    @erikdanielson277 Год назад +1631

    the transition from "know it's for the better" to "no, it's for the better" hits different each time I come back to this

    • @anouk_ferg123
      @anouk_ferg123 11 месяцев назад +38

      its only "know it's for the better" not "no"

    • @whyarealltheusernamestaken
      @whyarealltheusernamestaken 11 месяцев назад +10

      i have never ever thought of this.

    • @saydiparker3697
      @saydiparker3697 8 месяцев назад +3

      😊

    • @p3xo
      @p3xo 6 месяцев назад +5

      that’s a cool interpretation but idk if thats what she actually meant

    • @cupsushsva8149
      @cupsushsva8149 3 месяца назад +2

      @@anouk_ferg123 It's and interpretation, lol.

  • @rhi.mae.cameron
    @rhi.mae.cameron Год назад +853

    The grief you go through realizing that the person you want most in the world will never want you in the same way you do

  • @ivy8116
    @ivy8116 Год назад +458

    The repetition of I know it’s for the better is almost like chant, an urge to self, a weak reassurance. It’s almost painfully relatable

  • @user-pw5qd3oe9j
    @user-pw5qd3oe9j 3 года назад +4094

    my grandpa passed away almost a month ago. this song came on the next day when it was pouring rain and i saw a double rainbow. As the song got louder the rainbow got brighter. I believe it was him telling me he’s okay. He was a gay man and a painter and knew how to mix any color. He is the rainbow, the color, the light, the wind, the music, we become everything when we leave our human self. life is magic. Believe in the magic. I love you all ❤️

    • @jgarcia5542
      @jgarcia5542 3 года назад +116

      my deepest condolences💔your words are so gut-wrenching, yet beautiful. i truly wish you the best, and may he forever rest in peace.

    • @maddyguimond7602
      @maddyguimond7602 3 года назад +66

      stop it bc i’ll sob rn.

    • @plantita3183
      @plantita3183 3 года назад +38

      Thanks for this beautiful story, I hope you are doing well♥️

    • @emilyvarallo8663
      @emilyvarallo8663 3 года назад +25

      i’m so sorry for your loss, this comment is absolutely beautiful it brought me so much peace, hope you’re doing well

    • @allisona5403
      @allisona5403 2 года назад +13

      I’m so sorry for your loss lovey. He sounds like an incredible man. I’m always here for you. Just reply to this if you ever need me. You deserve love and happiness

  • @toptsun8484
    @toptsun8484 2 года назад +3553

    Ah, the pain of accepting that just because you want someone doesn't mean you're good for them

    • @Allysepearl
      @Allysepearl 2 года назад +73

      But like not even ur not good for them I’m sure your good for them. for me it’s the fact that I loved them so much but they dropped me just like that, everything out the door cuz they either planned it from the beginning or don’t know how to deal with crap and it hurts so much because I know it’s for the better but there’s a doubt in my head saying is it for the better? It is but it hurts so much, all the happy memories when I felt so happy and safe having her that I can’t get out of my head no matter what.

    • @luna8613
      @luna8613 2 года назад +9

      @@Allysepearl I absolutely feel what you're going through. The same thing happened to me a few months back. I loved him so much, I wanted us to be the endgame and he just left me by giving me crappy reasons as to why we shouldn't be together. But I know that being with him would've ended up hurting me more than the breakup. It has only been 2 months for me, but trust me, things will get better. There are obviously days when I cry and miss him but he seems like a distant person to me now. Like yeah, we crossed paths for a while but it's always good to know that I avoided a lot of future hurt and sadness.

    • @laures8937
      @laures8937 Год назад +7

      @@Allysepearl same here I loved him but he didn’t know how to love or think he deserved to be loved from the beginning so he never gave me love 😕

    • @luvvsammy
      @luvvsammy Год назад

      real

    • @kysblight
      @kysblight Год назад

      @@Allysepearl this literally happened to me

  • @perpetualMess.
    @perpetualMess. 7 месяцев назад +1276

    Welcome back, so glad to see us all gathered here today.
    The song is available on Phoebe’s SoundCloud, and she is the one who uploaded it!

    • @katewhite4019
      @katewhite4019 7 месяцев назад +32

      this is not okay.

    • @hannaburney6681
      @hannaburney6681 7 месяцев назад +59

      How the fuck did this happen twice 😭

    • @hiraisapple
      @hiraisapple 7 месяцев назад +2

      😭😭

    • @SamEspineli
      @SamEspineli 7 месяцев назад +4

      Im literally sobbing rn WHYYYY

    • @jadie466
      @jadie466 7 месяцев назад +1

      WHY

  • @effiehughes5353
    @effiehughes5353 Год назад +3425

    i literally will not cope without this on spotify

  • @livinlikelarry2862
    @livinlikelarry2862 3 года назад +2258

    I’m so mad this isn’t on Apple Music it might be one of the greatest she’s written

    • @flugshub8873
      @flugshub8873 3 года назад +14

      Pirating off here lol

    • @livinlikelarry2862
      @livinlikelarry2862 2 года назад +58

      @@SN-bk5xj *cries in Apple Music user*

    • @katarinakatavic8929
      @katarinakatavic8929 2 года назад +1

      @@SN-bk5xj really? i can't find it

    • @SN-bk5xj
      @SN-bk5xj 2 года назад +1

      @@katarinakatavic8929 Oh, that’s weird. Maybe it depends on which country you live in or something.

    • @molly_delahunt
      @molly_delahunt 2 года назад

      peekaboo

  • @shaun9120
    @shaun9120 Год назад +1000

    this song being removed from spotify is truly my villian origin story

    • @LaraBird
      @LaraBird Год назад +5

      SAME IMMA START THROWING HANDS

    • @domina4893
      @domina4893 Год назад +4

      I thinks it’s back up again bc it works 4 me 🤞

  • @achoo5891
    @achoo5891 Год назад +297

    "you're the gun to my lips that will blow my brains out" part is so painful knowing ur sticking around someone who isn't right for u and will ruin u but u stay anyways

  • @ziris
    @ziris 3 года назад +1653

    I'm not exaggerating when I say this but this is the best lyric video ever created for a song.

  • @anna-cp7fr
    @anna-cp7fr Год назад +1474

    who's here after it's not available on spotify anymore? 😭

  • @kafkatamura3703
    @kafkatamura3703 Год назад +275

    When the "know it's for the better" starts i go through stages of grief and then break down. I think of my life, of my resilience, of my anger, how i desperately cling to this life that only hurts and hurts and hurts. I imagine myself clutching on to my chest in a fetal position, begging myself to stay. And i always do. Telling myself it's for the better, i'm doing better, i will feel better, it will end, the sun will rise again, i am alive, i am alive. But there's a resignation to it, every fall breaks me, i will never be whole again, someday i will run out of things to ruin inside me, that will be the end, but for now i will try again. And it hurts. Hope hurts.

    • @valross599
      @valross599 Год назад +8

      this hit me hard.

    • @lifeisjustaclassroom
      @lifeisjustaclassroom Год назад +5

      hope sure does hurt. it's almost evil.

    • @sabinasmatusikova7822
      @sabinasmatusikova7822 Год назад +8

      if no one had told you yet today, I'm proud for you for holding on. it's not an easy thing to do. take care of yourself, stranger

    • @kafkatamura3703
      @kafkatamura3703 9 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@lifeisjustaclassroom i just read somewhere that grief is amputation while hope is incurable hemophilia; you bleed and bleed and bleed.

    • @s1mplel1z
      @s1mplel1z 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @daxypoo-gp4hz
    @daxypoo-gp4hz Год назад +453

    “ I want to make you fall in love as hard as my poor parents teenage daughter. She’ll be the best you ever had if you just let her. “

  • @franca2829
    @franca2829 Год назад +8210

    why was this masterpiece removed from Spotify 😭😭😭😭

    • @Emmaaaaisawesome
      @Emmaaaaisawesome Год назад +194

      I’m having a horrible

    • @priscilla7573
      @priscilla7573 Год назад +241

      no literally i just wanted to cry man

    • @layah6231
      @layah6231 Год назад +263

      no literally this is why im listening on here now😭

    • @rue4258
      @rue4258 Год назад +271

      it’s a national crisis

    • @autumn8275
      @autumn8275 Год назад +96

      Literally why I'm here rn

  • @Expired_coke
    @Expired_coke Год назад +407

    It’s okay guys Phoebe took it off Spotify because she knows it’s unhealthy how much we cry with it on repeat

    • @AshaSara
      @AshaSara Год назад +17

      we "know it's for the better" haha

    • @twillowd6930
      @twillowd6930 10 месяцев назад +7

      backthen she probably saw our playlists’ names and decided she had seen enough 😔✊

    • @Expired_coke
      @Expired_coke 10 месяцев назад

      @@twillowd6930 her scrolling through playlists and seeing “crying playlist “ , “kill me” Ect .

  • @nataliea3139
    @nataliea3139 3 года назад +883

    well I just got a “for the better” tattoo today so this song is now on my body forever :)

    • @folllowthrough
      @folllowthrough 2 года назад +15

      id love to see this, this is an incredible idea

    • @bee__222
      @bee__222 Год назад +5

      Can’t wait to do this

    • @irisieye
      @irisieye Год назад +4

      ughh! i wanna do this

    • @Iwillcommit_Arson
      @Iwillcommit_Arson 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@irisieyeI read your comment as "ughh!! I'm doing it"

    • @dopediamonds-y9s
      @dopediamonds-y9s Месяц назад

      Sick 👌

  • @phoebesfilms
    @phoebesfilms 7 месяцев назад +876

    so we’re here again.

  • @TrickyBixnatch1213
    @TrickyBixnatch1213 2 года назад +110

    The hand writing changing as it’s written during the repetition is really cool to watch, in my opinion

  • @kiw044
    @kiw044 Год назад +2723

    everyone gathering here because it got removed from spotify is so funny to me we're all so desperate

    • @jaciesalzman3630
      @jaciesalzman3630 Год назад +4

      Fr

    • @cyenvi2972
      @cyenvi2972 Год назад +3

      literallt

    • @zned4206
      @zned4206 Год назад +50

      I AM STILL MAD. THIS WAS MY MOST FAVORITE SONG FROM HER. IT WAS MY MOST PLAYED SONG IN SPOTIFY WRAPPED LAST YEAR. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND I AM INCOMPLETE WITHOUT THIS SONG.

    • @eilidhb2571
      @eilidhb2571 Год назад

      :((

    • @Tarantel_lla
      @Tarantel_lla Год назад +5

      Exactly my dude

  • @mae3870
    @mae3870 Год назад +687

    screaming and crying until it’s back on spotify

  • @kennainthealps
    @kennainthealps 2 года назад +506

    i want to get this entire song tattooed on my body

  • @mimi-mj8ny
    @mimi-mj8ny Год назад +236

    how am i supposed to continue through life WITHOUT THIS SONG

  • @tayahfraser8059
    @tayahfraser8059 Год назад +299

    taking this song off of Spotify was definitely NOT “for the better” THE PEOPLE ARE DYING PHOEBE

  • @eiliftherfst
    @eiliftherfst 3 месяца назад +8

    it felt like a soft whisper and a warm hug for the first few minutes and by the end of it, it's like we're draped with an anchor that only keeps pulling us down

  • @maggiebarr4665
    @maggiebarr4665 Год назад +87

    it’s so hard. where does all this love go?

  • @roseyyy_
    @roseyyy_ Год назад +172

    if she doesn’t bring this back on spotify or re-record it i will never recover

  • @inez1634
    @inez1634 Год назад +72

    actually cannot believe that i gotta listen to this on RUclips now

  • @calypso8520
    @calypso8520 5 месяцев назад +22

    me violently sobbing over the difference of “know it’s for the better.” and “no, it’s for the better.”

  • @DiscoGoesOn5067
    @DiscoGoesOn5067 2 года назад +120

    I know it's for the better, and yet, I yearn for them.

  • @amandah7280
    @amandah7280 2 года назад +125

    This so fucking beautiful....sometimes it's better to keep the friendship when it's so transparent that you are in love, more than you can admit.. It's about moving on. Sometimes it's for the better.

  • @s0phgretch3n
    @s0phgretch3n Год назад +133

    Your video is saving lives after waiting room was taken off Spotify

    • @djbddndb2142
      @djbddndb2142 Год назад +2

      REAL

    • @djbddndb2142
      @djbddndb2142 Год назад +8

      i’m literally screen recording it to save to my files so i can listen to it offline again

  • @emeliasversion
    @emeliasversion 2 года назад +320

    i’ll never get over the fact that i heard this song live

    • @Andyyoureastar
      @Andyyoureastar 2 года назад +5

      When how where WHAT

    • @Andyyoureastar
      @Andyyoureastar 2 года назад +3

      No but seriously what venue?!

    • @Andyyoureastar
      @Andyyoureastar 2 года назад +8

      My dream is to hear this live :(

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 2 года назад +3

      @@Andyyoureastar the waiting room outdoors in omaha nebraska !!

    • @Andyyoureastar
      @Andyyoureastar 2 года назад +3

      @@emeliasversion woah that sounds amazing!!! Never even been to that state haha so happy for u❤️

  • @mila-iy2bl
    @mila-iy2bl 2 года назад +45

    this will forever be the best phoebe bridgers song ever

  • @keskksi
    @keskksi Год назад +16

    i can see how in the writing it tells us that you want to believe it was truly for the better and the way phoebe sings it too, i can feel it in my bones, it’s truly one of the most beautiful songs ever, it’s bittersweet and it makes you want to cry

  • @edwardosquidwardo8686
    @edwardosquidwardo8686 3 года назад +387

    If you were a teacher, I would fail your class
    Take it over and over, 'til you noticed me
    If you were a waiting room, I would never see a doctor
    I would sit there with my first aid kit and bleed
    I want to be the power ballad that lifts you up and holds you down
    I want to be the broken love song that feeds your misery
    And I can wish all that I want, but it won't bring us together
    Plus, I know whatever happens to me, I know it's for the better
    And when broken bodies are washed ashore
    Who am I to ask for more, more, more?
    But you're breathing in my open mouth
    You're the gun in my lips that will blow my brains out
    I want to make you drive all night
    Just because I said maybe you should come over
    Want to make you fall in love as hard as my poor parent's teenage daughter
    She'll be the best you ever had if you let her
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  • @airedirst
    @airedirst 4 месяца назад +7

    "i know it's for the better" are my favorite lyrics in this song, love this masterpiece!

  • @natasharobb3375
    @natasharobb3375 2 года назад +51

    After meeting the boy that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with on a sailing trip and him not only living halfway across the world but also having a girlfriend I needed to find the strength to live AGAIN. This song was suggested to me by a friend and I ended up falling in love with it. After not only getting heartbroken by this boy but also loosing my boyfriend to suicide 3 years earlier.

  • @hopekeeley2122
    @hopekeeley2122 3 года назад +349

    I think about her when I hear this
    I don’t know how she feels but however it goes I know it’s for the best. I wouldn’t trade our friendship for anything even if we don’t talk nearly enough. I know I’ll eventually move on but right now I’m helpless.

    • @izzie481
      @izzie481 3 года назад +1

      well, did you? move on?

    • @hopekeeley2122
      @hopekeeley2122 3 года назад +11

      @@izzie481 I tried, that ended bad. I think I am though

    • @morelorel
      @morelorel Год назад

      did u move on now

    • @hopekeeley2122
      @hopekeeley2122 Год назад +2

      @@morelorel yep

    • @naddy2400
      @naddy2400 Год назад

      @@hopekeeley2122 Im happy for you

  • @hooo-ho2ib
    @hooo-ho2ib 7 месяцев назад +134

    here bc it’s been taken off spotify again

    • @bethlocke1543
      @bethlocke1543 7 месяцев назад +3

      why does she do this to us

    • @catvalentine7599
      @catvalentine7599 7 месяцев назад +2

      Again? SHE DID THIS IN THE PAST?😭😭

    • @axxuses5738
      @axxuses5738 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@catvalentine7599yea 😭😭😭

    • @aiviloui
      @aiviloui 6 месяцев назад +1

      it's back I think, just saw it

  • @chillinvillain7800
    @chillinvillain7800 2 года назад +104

    I swear she knows exactly what I’m feeling

  • @Trailtracker
    @Trailtracker Год назад +23

    this made me reconsider my opinion of all lyric videos ever. my god its art

  • @sakkhogun1334
    @sakkhogun1334 Год назад +13

    My grandfather died a few weeks ago. I dreamed of him yesterday and to be honest it didn't feel like a dream. It felt like he was actually there and enjoying life while it lasted and my mother was sitting at a corner and crying hard cause she knows what's to come next. The other day when I was returning from University, I saw someone exactly like him, sitting in front of me on the bus. It almost feels like he is somehow trying to communicate or trying to pass some signs to me and my mother that everything is gonna be okay. Don't worry about me and live the rest of your lives happily! I miss him so much.

    • @kanye8260
      @kanye8260 Год назад +3

      hey i know we’re strangers on the internet but reading this comment genuinely just wanted to make me say smth. i hope youre living your best life and you know that someway somehow, in whatever way you believe in, your grandfather is watching over you.

    • @sakkhogun1334
      @sakkhogun1334 Год назад +2

      @@kanye8260 heyy! Thank you very much! Hope you are doing well and yeah i have been well recently. Life goes on honestly

  • @peribow
    @peribow 4 года назад +90

    Damn!!! This video is so cool ! It really captures the energy of the song

    • @sonder.a
      @sonder.a  4 года назад +9

      Thanks! Glad you like it!

  • @danseavy2516
    @danseavy2516 2 года назад +31

    She's really the best female singer I've ever heard

  • @sera10110
    @sera10110 2 года назад +95

    this whole videos is so beautiful. the artistic representation is incredible

    • @sonder.a
      @sonder.a  2 года назад +8

      happy you like it!

  • @wizardsavelives
    @wizardsavelives Год назад +15

    *knowing that what you want isn’t what is for the better but you wish it was because you think it’s for the better for you*

  • @lehx7647
    @lehx7647 4 года назад +92

    I've been a huge fan of Phoebe Bridgers for the longest time so when this video popped up in my recommended I instantly clicked on it. This is absolutely stunning 🥺

  • @sofiastolbovoi4940
    @sofiastolbovoi4940 Год назад +24

    Lyrics
    If you were a teacher, I would fail your class
    Take it over and over 'til you noticed me
    If you were a waiting room, I would never see a doctor
    I would sit there with my first-aid kit and bleed
    I wanna be the power ballad that lifts you up and holds you down
    I wanna be the broken love song that feeds your misery
    And I can wish all that I want, but it won't bring us together
    Plus, I know whatever happens to me, I know it's for the better
    And when broken bodies are washed ashore
    Who am I to ask for more, more, more?
    But you're breathing in my open mouth
    You're the gun in my lips that will blow my brains out
    I wanna make you drive all night just because I said, "Maybe you should come over"
    Wanna make you fall in love as hard as my poor parents' teenage daughter
    She'll be the best you ever had if you let her
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  • @Amber-alison
    @Amber-alison 4 года назад +65

    the drawings and animations are so beautiful and make the listening experience even better

  • @lucasmccoy9480
    @lucasmccoy9480 Год назад +16

    i am SOBBING she took it off spotify

  • @moonscreek
    @moonscreek Год назад +63

    its only been 8 hours since its been off spotify but im having waiting room withdrawal symptoms

  • @jadah1114
    @jadah1114 Год назад +54

    Anyone else listening to this desperately because it was taken off Spotify??

  • @katherinedyal4025
    @katherinedyal4025 3 года назад +94

    A gorgeous lyric video for a gorgeous song. Thank you for this!

  • @cret9n
    @cret9n Год назад +39

    repeatedly listened to this song on spotify when i got broken up with and having it removed feels like a punch to the gut :,(

  • @s0phgretch3n
    @s0phgretch3n Год назад +18

    This song shatters my soul with every listen but it’s so beautiful

  • @gracetanner4132
    @gracetanner4132 3 года назад +27

    I cant believe she wrote this masterpiece HER MIND 😱

  • @leviblue1795
    @leviblue1795 3 года назад +390

    holy shit why didn’t she release this it’s so good

    • @iris-pt4hq
      @iris-pt4hq 3 года назад +7

      @@cloudbustingmp3 we have the same name HAHAHA

    • @jeremyrobinson9660
      @jeremyrobinson9660 3 года назад +2

      This song and Radar.

    • @Iris-xb9wb
      @Iris-xb9wb 3 года назад +11

      @@iris-pt4hq wait we all have the same name lol

    • @teencrisis4750
      @teencrisis4750 2 года назад +17

      I love the Iris’s in this comment section

    • @Iris-xb9wb
      @Iris-xb9wb 2 года назад +4

      @@teencrisis4750 luv you too🤞🏻🤞🏻

  • @sarahhoneroth7070
    @sarahhoneroth7070 Год назад +99

    being in this comments section rn is like watching the library of alexandria burn

  • @mialavine53
    @mialavine53 3 года назад +47

    considering getting spotify solely for this song

    • @rileymark48
      @rileymark48 Год назад +5

      that’s what i did and now it’s gonnneeeee😭😭

  • @stormydayolivia
    @stormydayolivia 2 года назад +82

    Can someone give me more songs like this that sound so beautiful but crush your soul?

    • @alexswab5773
      @alexswab5773 Год назад +10

      Old friend -mitski yw😞

    • @djbddndb2142
      @djbddndb2142 Год назад +19

      every song by phoebe

    • @sophiarose8210
      @sophiarose8210 Год назад +9

      Complex (demo) by katie gregson!

    • @Dead00017
      @Dead00017 Год назад +7

      The night we met "will destroy the shi inside you

  • @kateklein5942
    @kateklein5942 3 года назад +45

    i wish he would love me back and realize that i love him so fucking much. he just doesn’t care anymore

  • @ireneortiz583
    @ireneortiz583 7 месяцев назад +6

    this was one of my favourites songs ever until i experienced the lyrics. now it triggers something disturbing everytime i listen to it, but even so i sometimes come back to it to feel it. they hurt me so much i dont even think i love them anymore, and yet, here i am. they were the gun in my lips that blew my brains out. i guess its for the better

  • @Jdoesntwrite
    @Jdoesntwrite 2 года назад +26

    replaying the hell out of this. love the video

  • @lucymadden8158
    @lucymadden8158 11 месяцев назад +1

    Truly one of the most beautiful songs I’ve ever heard in my life. Phoebe is just such an incredible songwriter and I can relate to this song so much. Although it’s six and a half minutes long, it feels so much shorter. Just beautiful ❤

    • @staygold902
      @staygold902 11 месяцев назад

      Everything she does is the gold standard. Masterpieces is what she creates and I'm definitely here for it

  • @breanneherbert6905
    @breanneherbert6905 Год назад +6

    Thank God this wasn't on Spotify last month, I would have shattered my heart more than he did

  • @staygold902
    @staygold902 11 месяцев назад +2

    One of pheobe's masterpieces. The rise of a heavyweight musician

  • @KingofCowboys
    @KingofCowboys Год назад +9

    you are single handedly upholding my mental health right now

  • @allysaunooke129
    @allysaunooke129 Год назад +9

    I loved him desperately and he didn’t even try to treat me any better. He was severely emotionally detrimental. I will always love him, but I can’t be with him. I know it’s for the better.

  • @ericaploof998
    @ericaploof998 2 года назад +19

    I tend to accept people way too easily.
    No matter how broken they are, I'll always feel some kind of sympathy. No matter how hard I try to push it down. Even the most horrible people. I think, what if your life were different? What if the world was different?
    Could you have been more? A better person?
    No matter how emotional or mentally ill someone is, I remind them they are human. And that it isn't their fault. That I still love them. I still care. I still see you as a person.
    And to have only one person say that to me my whole life, I thank him for that. My best friend (platonic), who may not see me as his best friend. But he sees someone else as his.
    That's okay.
    And maybe one day I can accept myself like I accept others. And as he accepts me.
    Maybe someone will fall in love with me someday, and all those superficial crushes I had will pass me by. Maybe they will become more. Maybe they will stop turning out so horribly.
    Perhaps somewhere in my swirling mind is a girl trying to dig herself free. With hopes and dreams and a want to show herself. She never gives up.
    Maybe I shouldn't, either.

    • @euxsuamae
      @euxsuamae 11 месяцев назад +1

      you're poetry

    • @ericaploof998
      @ericaploof998 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@euxsuamae this means a lot to me, thank you.

    • @euxsuamae
      @euxsuamae 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ericaploof998 honestly you deserve so many more words than that and i spent a lot of time staring at the screen and trying to think of something BUT DSMN THIS IS SO HARD IM SORRY

    • @euxsuamae
      @euxsuamae 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ericaploof998 ALSO you probably hsve an incredible taste in music and i think you'd like achilles from emma birdyshaw

    • @ericaploof998
      @ericaploof998 11 месяцев назад

      @@euxsuamae I understand! That means even more to me that you think I deserve more words than that :)

  • @gennieshu3451
    @gennieshu3451 Год назад +12

    i wish this was on spotify i can’t cry in complete peace

  • @ImTheVxper
    @ImTheVxper 9 месяцев назад +16

    We had to put my cat down yesterday and I wasn’t sad but today I put this song on and have been crying for 30 mintues now, I never got to say goodbye to my cat

  • @Trex_Matcha
    @Trex_Matcha 6 месяцев назад +4

    i love the "know it's for the better" the lyrics become unrecognizable just like how the writer gets more and more tired writing it and relapsing

  • @mimi-mj8ny
    @mimi-mj8ny Год назад +18

    at least all the pharbs are all here at the same time

  • @icedmatchawithchai
    @icedmatchawithchai 3 года назад +12

    this song, this lyric video I- it’s perfection

  • @d3fn0tbrii
    @d3fn0tbrii 2 месяца назад +8

    03:08 = "know its for the better" part for if yall only wanted to hear that

  • @zoeykear7195
    @zoeykear7195 2 месяца назад +25

    I'm starting to think that this isn't for the better

  • @loveddheartt
    @loveddheartt Год назад +20

    they just took this off of spotify and i couldnt be sadder rn.

  • @jaynolen9644
    @jaynolen9644 Год назад +14

    greatest unrequited love song ever.

  • @tylerbeckles4547
    @tylerbeckles4547 Год назад +21

    Spotify took the song away from me so now I’m here, how is it for the better?!?!?!?

  • @clarejacob2226
    @clarejacob2226 Месяц назад +2

    i've waited for him for over a year now, and i will continue to wait for him. because i *really really really* like him.

  • @syannamartinez6803
    @syannamartinez6803 Год назад +6

    unimaginable pain and sadness every time i search this on spotify and it still hasn’t been added back

  • @sabrinawinchester
    @sabrinawinchester 10 месяцев назад +2

    this is gut wrenching, soul crushing, most heartbreaking song for me

  • @j0sietpwk
    @j0sietpwk Год назад +6

    this song literally tears me to pieces everytime

  • @zelciaalicia5722
    @zelciaalicia5722 7 месяцев назад +1

    The best part for 3 minutes...my dream come true. I need more song like that

  • @chillinvillain7800
    @chillinvillain7800 2 года назад +77

    **Ukulele**
    Verse:
    D
    If you were a teacher,
    G
    I would fail your class
    Bm
    Take it over and over
    Gbm A
    'Til you noticed me,
    D
    If you were a waiting room,
    G
    I would never see a doctor
    D
    I would sit there
    Gbm A
    With my first aid kit and bleed,
    Bridge:
    G D
    I want to be the power ballad
    A Bm
    That lifts you up and hold you down,
    G D
    I wanna be the broken love song
    A Bm
    That feeds your misery,
    G D
    And I can wish all that I want,
    G D
    But it won't bring us together,
    A Bm
    Plus I know whatever happens to me,
    G A D
    I know it's for the be-e-et-ter
    Instrumental:
    D G Bm Gbm A
    Bm G D Gbm A
    Verse:
    D G
    And when broken bodies are washed ashore
    Bm Gbm A
    Who am I to ask for more, more, more?
    Bm G
    But you're breathing in my open mouth,
    D
    You're the gun in my lips
    Gbm A
    That will blow my brains out,
    Bridge:
    G D
    I want to make you drive all night
    A Bm G
    Just because I said maybe you should come over,
    G D
    I want to make you fall in love
    A Bm G
    As hard as my poor parents teenage daughter,
    Em G
    She'll be the best you ever had if you let her,
    Instrumental: Bm G D Gbm A
    Outro:
    D
    I know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm G D A
    Bm G D A
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Bm
    Know it's for the better
    G
    Know it's for the better
    D
    Know it's for the better
    A
    Know it's for the better
    Outro -x3-: Bm G D A

  • @sixtix407
    @sixtix407 Месяц назад +2

    This song shatters my heart into a million pieces.😔😔😔

  • @FatmaFatma-uo9cf
    @FatmaFatma-uo9cf Год назад +6

    Phoebe please I can't do this anymore please put this back on please this is damaging my physical and mental health please you don't understand how strong this song has me on a chokehold please.

  • @yikeparade7035
    @yikeparade7035 Год назад +3

    haven’t been here in a couple weeks since waiting room was put back on spotify but i would like to humbly thank you for getting me through the very difficult six months when this was taken off and i had to come to this video several times every day. thank you so so much i will never forget this kindness also this lyric video is one of the best I’ve ever seen 🌹

  • @mcpowell3185
    @mcpowell3185 3 года назад +429

    the way this song isn’t on apple music makes me very angry

  • @metaylorsversion3091
    @metaylorsversion3091 Год назад +5

    my comfort song, why is it off spotify help i can’t live without it😭

  • @jamie3373
    @jamie3373 11 месяцев назад +5

    I can't believe this is 6 minutes long, it feels so short when I listen to it

  • @shallyhutch4032
    @shallyhutch4032 3 месяца назад +1

    This is not just music , it’s masterpiece

  • @mare9317
    @mare9317 2 года назад +6

    this video is so powerful. thank you for sharing.

  • @josephhernandez1885
    @josephhernandez1885 11 месяцев назад +7

    My dad passed away on New Years of 2022. We were all at the hospital in the waiting room when we got the news that he was gonna go. That completely devastated me and shattered me to pieces. People would tell me that it is for the better than him to suffer in pain more. It gave me 2nd thoughts about how it could be for the better. RIP Dad

  • @buncitas
    @buncitas Год назад +10

    day one without this song on spotify i wanna kms

  • @Atlair-pt4yk
    @Atlair-pt4yk 2 месяца назад +2

    This song's the reason I'm alive in all honestly
    It feels like a warm embrace somehow

  • @jesiagustin4812
    @jesiagustin4812 3 года назад +27

    i know its for the better. repeat it. it is for the better