Growing Pains: Carol Grieving over Sandy

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  • Опубликовано: 25 май 2018
  • Growing Pains Season 5 Episode 5 "Teach Me"
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  • @runforit420
    @runforit420 8 месяцев назад +47

    The world lost another fantastic actor yesterday. R.I.P. Matthew Perry 😢

    • @timobrien8809
      @timobrien8809 8 месяцев назад +7

      Still hard to believe he is gone.

    • @kenyattasimpson8468
      @kenyattasimpson8468 6 месяцев назад +4

      I saw this episode last week and it's just....😢

    • @deannaroberson1451
      @deannaroberson1451 4 месяца назад

      @@kenyattasimpson8468
      The episode that Sandy died entitled “Second Chance” would be hard for me to watch knowing that Matthew Perry is gone for real. I would be bawling my eyes out.

  • @ZipGB8
    @ZipGB8 4 года назад +143

    Tracey Gold was excellent when acting out emotional scenes on this show. Spot on with the emotions.

    • @officialgilmore22
      @officialgilmore22 3 года назад +10

      Absolutely! I can't think of too many better actors in these kinds of hard scenes.

    • @jalenbrewster6777
      @jalenbrewster6777 2 года назад +7

      She did a pretty good job for acting

    • @heatheringram6287
      @heatheringram6287 Год назад +6

      She really was

    • @derekllewellyn6663
      @derekllewellyn6663 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@jalenbrewster6777years she was in TV show on doing live concert in person picture awards TCM hollywood movies on Amazon prime video on Netflix about biography book of the same

  • @isaiahangelo
    @isaiahangelo 4 года назад +69

    This is what made Jason Seaver an ideal father. He validated the emotions of his children and let them go through whatever emotional stuff they needed to go through to get to the solution to their problem and if there wasn’t one he made himself available for comfort

  • @Aqweius
    @Aqweius Год назад +44

    The range of emotion Tracey displays on her face (non verbal cues) throughout this scene is acting "gold" in itself! Brava fine lady!

  • @Blackbohnstergaming
    @Blackbohnstergaming 3 года назад +106

    Thats the thing with grieving... it never gets easier. You just learn how to live with your grief and live a normal life again.

    • @1992balto
      @1992balto 2 года назад +4

      Ya......I know It hurts very much

    • @ebonyrushharrington2197
      @ebonyrushharrington2197 Год назад +2

      Tracy Gold an talented actress, whom said that she was fat or what not are so wrong!!!!!, should apologize whom did , am glad nothing had happened to her/ she is not even big, look (s) good, has an average nice shape for her size

    • @Animals_Gone_wild
      @Animals_Gone_wild 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yep been in hell nearly a year now. After finding my best freind of ,43 years decomposing body

    • @Animals_Gone_wild
      @Animals_Gone_wild 7 месяцев назад

      @GHOSTPRO4 at this point I'm Leary of even thinking what else could happen. Since that day a year ago this Dec 2 my life has turned into one bad luck after another. Basically every thing I've accomplished or done with my life over the last 16 years has been lost stolen or taken

    • @meganbateman5634
      @meganbateman5634 Месяц назад

      I lost my mom to cancer 4 years ago and I hated her for it. Not day goes by that I never miss my amazing mom. The pain never goes away but you can't let it stop you, you had to find a way to pick up the pieces and keep going.

  • @robertborich4404
    @robertborich4404 4 года назад +71

    Like Michael J Fox,Tracey delivered exceptional acting abilities.

  • @goddessnoele
    @goddessnoele Год назад +21

    Alan Thicke was one of the best TV dads. RIP❤

    • @sharonjensen3016
      @sharonjensen3016 8 месяцев назад +3

      I'm sure he'll be there to look after Matthew Perry, wherever they are now.

    • @meganbateman5634
      @meganbateman5634 8 месяцев назад +2

      I agree Jason Seaver was indeed next to Phillip Banks, Carl Winslow, Danny Tanner, James Evans, Dan Connor, Mike Brady, John Walton Sr, Charles Ingles, Alan Matthews, George Lopez, Cliff Huxuble, Michael Kyle, Red Foreman, Al Bundy, and Tim Taylor. We need those dads back on TV right now.

    • @taraponiewozik7066
      @taraponiewozik7066 20 дней назад

      @@meganbateman5634Tim Taylor should be on that list as well. John Walton is my favorite though.

  • @ManMonkey600
    @ManMonkey600 3 года назад +46

    I never even realized they had some continuity in regards to Sandy dying. A lot of these sitcoms they throw some shit out there like this and then it's never mentioned again.

  • @lilPopper
    @lilPopper 8 месяцев назад +16

    Hits different after learning of Matthew Perry 😢
    R.I.P.

    • @mztweety1374
      @mztweety1374 8 месяцев назад +2

      I thought about this too. RIP MP

  • @user-le4pp9qb5h
    @user-le4pp9qb5h 8 месяцев назад +6

    This hits pretty hard...I lost a really close friend right around Christmas time years ago to a horrible car accident and I remember spending that holiday with my family and I couldn't even think straight I was so overcome by grief...will never forget the way my family was there for me and just let me grieve in my personal way while making it known they were there if I needed them..

  • @NicoleHMorley7269
    @NicoleHMorley7269 6 месяцев назад +14

    The line that always makes me emotional is when Carol finds out Sandy died and she says "WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS SECOND CHANCE" 😭🤧

  • @erinjohnson4273
    @erinjohnson4273 2 года назад +20

    I can relate to Carol feeling like that. October 4th is always hard for me , because the man who was my best friend and really truly loved me passed away. I've healed, but I think of him and I'm still waiting for that love I found with him. RIP Ronald Pierre Wright. Always in my 💜

    • @zinozee8929
      @zinozee8929 Год назад +4

      How nice to come in to a world, go out away from home and family and meet somebody and have such an impact that they cherish your name even after you’re gone with no blood ties loyalty just pure love ❤️ rip Ronald Pierre Wright

    • @erickbuckner4485
      @erickbuckner4485 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@zinozee8929 He was a good man

  • @ericbrett3095
    @ericbrett3095 4 года назад +63

    My first wife passed away almost 15 years ago. We were married for almost 16 years. I can tell you it doesn't get easier, there are good days, bad days, and there are days I feel just like it happened yesterday. At the time our children were 15, 13, and 10 and I know they feel the same pain as I do. What kept me going was them, I lived by the motto "failure is not an option" for years. Even today I still feel grief so I know what the character Carol is going through.

    • @seppukumouse8005
      @seppukumouse8005 4 года назад +7

      It never gets easier, it's learning to cope with it. Mother day is sad day for me. I lost my mother to cancer. Everyone at speak their about mom and the thing they do. I just stand there thinking I can't do anything anything anymore with my mom. Time heal all wounds but some scars dig deep to our very souls. Rest In Peace to your wife, gone but never forgotten.

    • @1990sDialUpWeb
      @1990sDialUpWeb 4 года назад +3

      I’m sorry

    • @susancnw59
      @susancnw59 4 года назад +3

      I'm so sorry. We lost our second son 28 months ago and his wife (they were married 8 months) just started dating again & it feels like we have lost him again. He told me after they had been friends/co-workers for a month & he told me he was going to marry her...I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @saraoliver4545
      @saraoliver4545 4 года назад

      K ok 👍

    • @bigwillietheb
      @bigwillietheb 4 года назад +2

      my friend I wish I could say I know what your going through but I can't , cause I have never been married , but all I can say is I am sorry for your loss

  • @ddjmfan
    @ddjmfan 4 года назад +49

    I love this scene between Joanna, Alan and Tracey. The parent/child chemistry between them was palpable. Very real and believeable.

  • @leastlikedcritic7529
    @leastlikedcritic7529 Год назад +5

    I'm glad they brought this up in this episode, and Carol finally found some closure.

  • @COWGIRLBABY19841
    @COWGIRLBABY19841 10 месяцев назад +4

    The thing about grief is that it doesn't get easier but day-by-day you find you do move on but you're never the same.

  • @jessicap3263
    @jessicap3263 9 месяцев назад +8

    RIP Matthew Perry. 😢

  • @byronbenguche
    @byronbenguche 2 года назад +13

    Tracy Gold should have gotten a Emmy for this performance

    • @thomasnee270
      @thomasnee270 Год назад +3

      Absolutely. Even though Tracey Gold's character reminded me of all of the snobby girls that I went to school with at the time, her acting in this scene is incredible. She displayed such a raw and powerful emotion here especially for a person of her age during this episode.

    • @erickbuckner4485
      @erickbuckner4485 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@thomasnee270 You’re so right

  • @emmasumlin6487
    @emmasumlin6487 2 года назад +13

    What a spot on actress. She is simply heartbreaking

    • @SuperMarioBrosIII
      @SuperMarioBrosIII 2 года назад +3

      Emma Sumlin so true Emma and by the way you resemble Ashley Johnson?🤔🤗📺👍

    • @moviescenesbinge5142
      @moviescenesbinge5142 2 года назад +2

      Thank you I have never gotten that before but thank you. 😁

    • @moviescenesbinge5142
      @moviescenesbinge5142 2 года назад +2

      (This is my other account haha) sorry confusing

    • @SuperMarioBrosIII
      @SuperMarioBrosIII 2 года назад +2

      @@moviescenesbinge5142 You are very welcome, Take care!👼🕊💗🙏

    • @TKPRKIE
      @TKPRKIE 10 месяцев назад

      no.. she overacts so much, it’s not believable at all. i don’t understand how y’all genuinely think it’s good acting..

  • @emmanuelmontperous3537
    @emmanuelmontperous3537 3 года назад +18

    They don't write this good anymore 😪🙌🏽❤

    • @martykeaton182
      @martykeaton182 2 года назад

      What do you mean?

    • @emmanuelmontperous3537
      @emmanuelmontperous3537 2 года назад +2

      @@martykeaton182 name a recent sitcom that tackled a real issue like this with this tone..most television today is just bad with a handful of good shows to watch..

    • @martykeaton182
      @martykeaton182 2 года назад

      @@emmanuelmontperous3537 It’s been a while for me watching those kinds of shows except old ones. Plus out of curiosity, any chance of naming at least one bad show?

    • @emmanuelmontperous3537
      @emmanuelmontperous3537 2 года назад

      @@martykeaton182 watchmen for starters,Dr who WAS good till the 13th doctor got there Batwoman is terrible and is being forced to be renewed it has less than half a million tuning in,Dear white people is another but that's getting canceled

    • @martykeaton182
      @martykeaton182 2 года назад +2

      @@emmanuelmontperous3537 Nobody needs to watch Batwoman if they don’t want though.

  • @jamesm6862
    @jamesm6862 Год назад +6

    Growing Pains is the greatest sitcom and greatest show ever! It's funny and serious the acting is great the pacing is great with high energy it has fun storylines and it has a fourth wall episode called Meet the Seavers that's very creative and brilliant my favorite part in the episode is when the set guy carries Ben over his shoulder haha. It's serious the greatest show!

  • @rodneysexton1034
    @rodneysexton1034 4 года назад +46

    This was so sad for Carol missing Sandy.

    • @Toyotaboy497
      @Toyotaboy497 4 года назад

      RODNEY SEXTON Sandy’s dead.

    • @thomasnee270
      @thomasnee270 Год назад +3

      It surely was. This is why I believe that teenage/young love is the most purest, honest, and innocent form of connection. Everything is natural because most teenagers haven't been hardened yet by life's cruel experiences. At least that was the case for me.

  • @paulmendrina1449
    @paulmendrina1449 9 месяцев назад +7

    Watched this last week then he really died today...crazy

  • @DarleneYoung-yr5rp
    @DarleneYoung-yr5rp 8 месяцев назад +4

    Older you get, it's harder to date in fear of losing, I am with you, Carol it's been 3 years!

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener8693 3 года назад +17

    I think Carol should have gotten involved in something that speaks out against drinking and driving.

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener8693 3 года назад +6

    I felt this same way when my friend Wendy who was my caregiver and travel companion who died from stage4 lung cancer.

  • @ShadowCammando24
    @ShadowCammando24 2 месяца назад

    This is what great parenting looks like. ❤

  • @briandecarlo1847
    @briandecarlo1847 Месяц назад

    My brother passed away. He was 42. It's been 10 years, and no, it doesn't get any easier. Every single day, he is always on my mind. Different shows he would have loved, watching his 2 daughters grow up, he would have been so happy. I know he is. Everyone still misses him. I find myself crying sometimes. To me, it felt like I dreamt I had a brother. It just doesn't seem real. It's only been 10 years but it feels like forever. But the pain never goes away. There will always be someone missing. It never gets any easier.

  • @torquoisegeorges9439
    @torquoisegeorges9439 2 года назад +11

    Poor carol 😢

  • @JF32304
    @JF32304 4 года назад +28

    Joanna is so wife/mom material its insane!

    • @ddjmfan
      @ddjmfan 3 года назад +1

      She's a natural.

    • @ddjmfan
      @ddjmfan Год назад +1

      That's why she was chosen to play this role.

  • @MyJustin316
    @MyJustin316 4 года назад +8

    when i saw this on the disney channel as a rerun as a kid i felt sorry for carol no wonder why she had a crush on the man that was too old for her

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener8693 3 года назад +6

    I feel this same way after my friend Wendy died of cancer.

  • @aph1976
    @aph1976 8 месяцев назад +2

    I liked that Growing Pains had Sandy die in one episode but had Carol continue to grieve for him in following episodes and didn't just forget about it.

  • @faithfoxx7951
    @faithfoxx7951 2 года назад +4

    Good show. 👍

  • @danielsteele4712
    @danielsteele4712 4 года назад +22

    You really cared about Sandy a lot, didn't you, Carol?

    • @Ally-lo2go
      @Ally-lo2go 4 года назад

      @Sylvia isgod wait how do you know that

    • @Ally-lo2go
      @Ally-lo2go 4 года назад

      Sylvia isgod i-

    • @rikadojean-jacques3928
      @rikadojean-jacques3928 3 года назад +2

      I mean she know that she has to get on with her life but I don't know since Sandy died it just seems wrong to go with someone else

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Год назад +4

    Excellent scene, and good acting. I wish though they went with the alternative sincerity was that Carol wasn't afraid to risk being happy with someone else, but actually decided that she didn't want to be with anyone else. Nothing wrong with remaining single.

    • @littleogeechee223
      @littleogeechee223 8 месяцев назад

      She was so very young. You can’t make such huge and important decisions that young. I’m sure Sandy wouldn’t have wanted to know that she was down here grieving her life away over him, never having another love, never experiencing having a family of her own. That’s unrealistic and cruel to wish on her.

  • @brandon074
    @brandon074 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good advice in this episode for anyone who lost someone close.

  • @Kobraki1
    @Kobraki1 2 года назад +3

    Sandy: could I be any more dead

  • @billslattery5415
    @billslattery5415 3 года назад +6

    drinking and driving there isn't any second chances

  • @ninademci1500
    @ninademci1500 8 месяцев назад

    The first time I saw the episodes about ‘Sandy’s’ dying, I was in my late teens and cried because he was around my age. Watching it as a Mom, I cried because it’s a loss no parent wants.

  • @shannonstephens2425
    @shannonstephens2425 2 года назад +4

    I lost an ex to a car accident last year I understand this

  • @abinashmishra329
    @abinashmishra329 8 месяцев назад +5

    This scene is especially poignant right now because of Matt Perry’s untimely passing.

  • @IRONMANFAN2008
    @IRONMANFAN2008 2 года назад +2

    I was just going through that what see was going through. My mom ex died and we did a piece of crying but im better. It gets better over time.

  • @darcybrummett7004
    @darcybrummett7004 2 года назад

    You’re gonna make me cry again.

  • @Lou-jl4ov
    @Lou-jl4ov Месяц назад

    these sitcomes are a laugh a minute!

  • @Trip_Fontaine
    @Trip_Fontaine 11 месяцев назад +1

    I know this is a weird video to say this on, but I had such a huge crush on Carol when I was a kid.

  • @jeffreycone7504
    @jeffreycone7504 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is why Glen Close became obsessed with Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction.

  • @rockstarslasher5140
    @rockstarslasher5140 4 месяца назад

    Rest in Peace Matthew Perry!

  • @YouTubeGalPal
    @YouTubeGalPal 9 месяцев назад +2

    This showing up on my algorithm hours after Matthew Perry's death hits me 😢

  • @Scorch1028
    @Scorch1028 Год назад +4

    Jason Seaver is a psychiatrist, so he knows exactly what's wrong with Carol. 😆

  • @gretchennelson7056
    @gretchennelson7056 7 месяцев назад +1

    Paul had to go through that hell twice..first with John, then with Linda.

  • @montecarlo4294
    @montecarlo4294 8 месяцев назад +3

    Who is here after the death of Mathew Perry? 😢

  • @shawnteeisme
    @shawnteeisme Год назад

    OMG Robin sounds just like his dad!

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv 2 года назад +8

    Carol was a neurotic mess before and after Sandy died.

  • @tonycherry5270
    @tonycherry5270 7 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂😂
    When does it get easier
    I’m not happy I’ve been mad at myself because of what been happening
    When does that easier?
    Day by day eventually I’ll be happy
    To me it work that way I’ll never be happy without true love

  • @torquoisegeorges9439
    @torquoisegeorges9439 2 года назад +4

    😢😭🥺

  • @navidpey194
    @navidpey194 8 месяцев назад

    Rip Mathew Perry

  • @RockFan89
    @RockFan89 Год назад

    I always thought this scene was written strange. My parents never wouldve questioned why I wasnt dating during my teen years. .

  • @evaflor817
    @evaflor817 5 месяцев назад +1

    And why I'm crying again? 😖

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel7675 7 месяцев назад +1

    Could Carol BE in anymore denial?

  • @carmesundae2
    @carmesundae2 5 лет назад +8

    waht is the Title of this Episode?

  • @richierich3541
    @richierich3541 8 месяцев назад

    This has aged well.

  • @clairespareoomcheepicheep7092
    @clairespareoomcheepicheep7092 2 года назад +1

    Death should not be a part of life to begin with!

  • @tonycherry5270
    @tonycherry5270 10 месяцев назад

    I wanted to get married every since I was 11 years old in middle and high and the last school I wanted to be in love
    They didn’t even care
    They didn’t even care about my family
    It took 37 years to be in love and here I am depressed and lonely
    Being in love is never for me first a lost of family and now it get harder and harder
    I agree with Carol in a different perspective
    I was in love
    I’m grieving about family
    I’m grieving about being in love why ?
    Why do we get hurt?

  • @richardvergara
    @richardvergara 4 года назад +10

    Carol is so extra.

  • @edwardbright9434
    @edwardbright9434 Год назад +1

    show like ths an more shown compassion love also tough love ch 19 ch 10 ch25 show help make America great because these shows were real to everyone ok

  • @brentoesterle3186
    @brentoesterle3186 3 года назад

    Empire freaking out their be their hands

  • @brentoesterle3186
    @brentoesterle3186 4 года назад

    They're saying things are aren't bad matter liked inirlicity

  • @purplegirl1010100
    @purplegirl1010100 3 года назад

    Poor Candace Cameron.

    • @harlankrissoff9966
      @harlankrissoff9966 3 года назад +4

      Tracy Gold not Candace Cameron

    • @sexykitten0814
      @sexykitten0814 3 года назад +4

      Actually, poor Carol Seaver.

    • @countryexplorerlady916
      @countryexplorerlady916 3 года назад +9

      Candance Cameron wasn't from Growing Pains she was from Full House. This is Tracey Gold being Carol Seaver