Liberate Others To Leave - Kyle Cease
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024
- In this video, Kyle answers Alexa’s question about feeling like she’s lost all her friends and is tired of trying to make and keep friends.
What if we realized that there’s something bigger available than us “keeping” friends and that if we look deeper, we can just enjoy a true connection with ourselves and with others?
What if we connected deeper to source and realized there was no such thing as “alone” and that there’s something even richer than “having” people?
There’s so much more to relationships and life if we can let go of ownership and titles.
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This feeling of being alone was eating me alive last year. So I decided to change my attitude. I deliberately chose to have 100 days of solitude! I felt like I was on holiday every day. Each day I decided what I REALLY want to do today. When the 100 days was over I thought , ‘hmmm I could happily do that again’ 😀
What a great idea!
That is so inspiring! How wonderful ! Thankyou for sharing
I was crying yesterday feeling “alone” and how I’ve lost most my friends and all family the past year. I wanted to feel “support” and didn’t know who to call. So, I prayed for surrender and merging with my soul. Thank you so much for the video!!
Same here
Sounds very rough.
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Mine was, “I don’t have friends so I can learn to think for myself and use my own intuition.” I used to ask my friends before I made any decision. Not anymore and I feel so much better now.
The last friends I had were alcohol, cigarettes, and cannabis, and I have even let those go now. I feel lonely when I see people having fun together, but otherwise I enjoy being alone. And I forget how lonely it felt to be in a group, with friends, and yet still feel unseen and unheard.
I love my own company. I gave up alcohol many years ago and a lot of my "drinking" friends fell away. Occasionally when I am surrounded by people who drink, I think how much of my precious and beautiful time I wasted drinking and both talking and listening to rubbish. Now, my life, by no means easy is simple, less complicated.
Same! Good for us
I have never felt so lonely as when I've been in a group and not been acknowledged for who I am. I then realised I was not acknowledging who I am! ❤
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Being "best friends with the Now" is such a great concept to help me chill out. It's a really vivid feeling.
😊💖 Be-YOU-tiful!!
@@robynevans1287 . .... Good One !!! Might I add --- " Be-YOU-ti-FULL" 🤓
I have gone through this over the last few years and my life has changed for the better.....it will not kill you to be sad or alone or to feel empty. Let Go and what is for you will come to you. The feminine principal of receptivity will become your new normal. Perfect Kyle !!💖✨️🙌
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I love being a introvert and I enjoy my alone time. I grow the most with being alone , been 4 yrs of my alone time now which includes dating , any type of attachments of anyone in order so I could keep on my own path , including no news, no media anything. I'm in this world, but Not of the world , it's been 4 years since my whole world changed , I work on myself each and every day. And the best thing is, I'm in control of my own life and I thank God each and every morning as the present moment is all we have! ✨️✨️💯🙌💪🌞🔥
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I lost everyone including my family. Last week the last two people who were in my life which included my mother, betrayed me. It’s just me and God now. Sometimes it’s ok to not be ok to release what still needs to be released.❤
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Sending you so much love.❤
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Sending lots of love also have been just cur off from my mother who choose to do so because I went a couple days away instead of running after her as she believes is my birth right crazy but true. Please be strong and keep away you deserve better now. Although a mother has given birth to you it doesn’t mean they know how to show you love and respect and caring some mothers and family’s are just not capable of loving anyone but themselves. It’s very painful but true to feel the pain is to heal the pain lots of love sent to you ❤️
Very relatable!.. just letting fall off what wants to fall off
This is so weird. My husband and I just had this conversation on our walk. We have lost one way or another most of our friends and family. We were just exploring this message. Amazing and auspicious! We continued to move forward.
In retrospect I feel wonderful losing my friends. They held me down or kept me at a certain frequency.
I've grown so much being alone, and attracted strong amazing people.
Alexa showed signs of defensiveness when she said " so I shouldn't try connecting to people in this group?"
Oh…so THAT’S what’s been going on. I thought I lost my “friend mojo.” Now I understand I need to be my own best friend… Thank you for the guidance, the validation and the wisdom. 🙏❤️
Family, friends and colleagues. They don't understand me. I've accepted this.
Be comfortable with your own company and make that situation as a default - having one or the other friend is the icing on the cake.
Just started watching this. I have also been in a period of isolation since 2020 when I had my first child a month before lockdown.
I am finally starting to see that I need this time to be with ME. I was always the “healer” friend that would be there to help everyone and nobody would ever give me the same support. So I decided to go no contact with everyone in my life that I felt wasn’t trying to be in my life. If I didn’t call or text they never would.
I have stopped trying so hard and just focusing on me now. I’m healing deep childhood trauma and If I had my friends I would just focus on their own problems. I feel more at peace now
My great grandmother would say there is a season for all. This sis a season to discover the mother in you and enjoy your child. Priorities are exactly as it should be. Congrats on your new season of life! 💕
i can relate to that
@@enough1494 thank you so much for these kind words. They mean more than you know! And yes it is so true. This is my mothering season. I have to learn to re-mother myself
Sounds like they're living my dream life.
In 2011 I was isolated and fell in love with being alone. It was great.
Thank you for sharing this, Kyle. Last year two friends ghosted me and ever since then I've been quite miserable as I now have no friends, thinking that experience broke me and I could never trust people again. I think it's hard especially nowadays when we're constantly bombared with photos, movies, etc. of best friends having a good time and you think you're missing out, your life is wrong, you're lonely, nobody likes you, you're not good enough. I now I have to fix my mindset first and get out of the negative self-talk. What matters is how you think and feel. We are good enough. We just need to start believing in ourselves.
Kyle, thank you, this is an important message. In the last 2 years I have seen friends and family exit my life and I didn't get it. It was just so painful. This has happened concurrently with the deconstruction of my religious beliefs and practices. So much loss, all at once, was pretty dark and grievous. I have since come to understand that there may be times when the Divine sets us apart for deep inner work. In my case it was for a spiritual awakening. Now I am being tutored on a fast track with no distractions. I think we underestimate just how being in isolation is a dynamic that comes with a calling to sacred work. It's a season. I'm at peace with that.
I was actually thinking about how I don't feel the connection with a beautiful person I once had and that that is maybe okay. Then I opened RUclips as a distraction and this is the first video on my homepage. Guess I was right ☺️
Thank you my brother. Beautiful wisdom. Letting go of friends is letting go of our fractured mirrors that no longer reflect our awakening Self. Blessings Lu 🤗
A few years ago I was scouring RUclips for a video like this... I remember how scared I felt. So much better now, you got this! ❤️
I try to look at my life as an exercise in I. We are here to feel the separation of self from others…other things too but that’s a biggie. I went thru the frustration of having no friends, of having no sounding board but the self. Now I remind myself that what we have now is something we are going to wish for and cherish when it is gone. It’s ok to be alone because we have ourselves.
I have no friends. 😊 I love it.
Friends are the people who need other people's acceptance and validation. Their overrated. Life is calmer with out them
Life is boaring without friends. True friendships are like gem. Rare and precious. I have none to a few friends. I know the feelings
Thank you universe!! The journal entry I just wrote was about being alone, chasing the wrong people. Ask you spoke I could feel my little 8yr old self that was abandoned at a movie theater... She still needs so much attention and love from me! ❤
I really needed this. Lost the friends i had around me physically so i haven't been going out as much, but I'm also not keen on looking just yet for another group and allowing spirit to lead me. I think a part of me knew that it has to be this way but it's still hard to have compassion for myself. I try to remind myself that i was trying to be actively extroverted and social before which was inauthentic and burned me out. When i started taking more rest time, i was told I'm too heavy and not fun lol. I may be more "well liked" when I'm that way but i realized how much energy it took me to make those friends only to land me back in the same place without em. Hoping that as i figure out how to be authentic, I'll attract ppl who are of that energy instead. I can have fun no matter who I'm with. I need to stop shaming myself for not being as charismatic as i want to be (a desire to be approved of, in disguise).
Couldn’t agree more! I used to feel exactly like Alexa. Used to. Now I accept and love people where they are at. Whether they come or go…LOVE! I accept and love being me. I know I am a good friend and I welcome and give out good energy. It’s amazing what letting go can bring you! So many wonderful experiences with many different people! SOOOOOO loving this Kyle!!! Thank you!!!
Thanks for sharing 🙏
I have always been someone who never understood...'having a best fruend" This implys that if you don't have one there's something wrong with you. This goes hand in hand with having the need to have several friends in order for you to feel loved and accepted. This in my heart is truly tragic...
Friends....the number of friends....does not define who you are unless you believe that they do.
Your journey of feeling lonely is about your personal growth that your finally outgrowing the statis quo....Please rejoice in not having friends which allows you the space to reconnect with yourself and become your own sacred friend which never betrays you...never has an adjenda....it loves you unconditionally ❤️
So needed for me at this moment and at this time. I lost my beloved uncle yesterday.
I’ve witnessed a society of people that think friendship is something you receive not create. If you do make connections and make effort it’s gladly received but rarely initiated in return. If you continue trying to make the connection you’re seen as a doormat a codependent needy person Without self-respect because you wanted connection. Connection itself is threatening because the other will need and triangulate and usually traumatize you into their world so you can see why even the word connect sounds limiting. It’s etymology is “to bind to tie”…to “have” is to own or possess. We need a whole new language and way.
Gosh! How much I love learning from you thank you for your wisdom its soooo dam helpful 🙏🏼🌸
My best friend abandoned and betrayed me and replaced me with another. I'm desperately trying to heal from the excruciating pain. Major PTSD. This video helps, a little. Bless you, Kyle.
okay sweetheart, can you be with yourself in this moment?
can you allow your heart to grieve?
What is a friend, really? Isn't it an attachment? A desire for loyalty or consistency? A crutch to lean on? Is it possible that there really is no such thing as "friend", at least not in the way we imagine?
Anyway, I do hear your pain and felt that loss for many years when my ex broke up with me. I thought she was my best friend, the person who understood me best and appreciated me most, and then suddenly she was gone and having children with another man. Eventually, it stopped hurting so much, and now I love her without any contact. She is a part of me despite no longer being physically present in my life, and I am grateful for that.
@Rain Fall...🙏🌦️🌤️☀️
I receive so much from the way you word things, Kyle. It's like magical, silly, delicious chicken soup for my soul.
I lost all my friends!!! AND I absolutely LOVE THAT. 😁😁😁
You can find peace when you accept what is. 🙏🏻
The thing you fear is exactly what you will face. You’re spot on and I am going to lean into accepting and finding peace inside. This is so powerful ❤
This was a VERY POWERFUL and POSITIVE video! It’s very True I’ve ‘LOST’ most everyone I called a friend… But You’ve Just Put that experience into a positive format for me, and I’m So Absolutely Grateful-For it completely matches how I FEEL Bigtime! You are a Gift! I’m so Thankful for yer Presence! 🥰🌞😘
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"how about: I am a good friend" ...absolutely perfect. My daughter is not speaking to me at the moment, and I've been working through the truth that I can still be a good mother and I can still love her completely every moment. It's my choice and is not dependent on circumstances.
In the past, I spent most of my time trying to " make new friends" and reconnect with old friends..
Seeking approval of others is a painful process. I know who I am now🙏 and my only question now is..."How good does this get?" 😍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Just recently I was sad that I don’t have any friends even though I actually do have friends. I felt soo lonely and then all of sudden I was happy to be alone I am going through this evolution and I know God is leading the way. As soon as I was happy to be alone people are calling me and wanting to hang out but I can’t I want to be alone so I am saying no to everything I can because I need to be alone with God right now. Everything happens for a reason I don’t question source anymore because I see it know exactly what it’s doing lol. Just allow relax into the alone or lonely. That’s transforming you.
Many of us are and have. Never been happier and confident all is well!
Blessings to all!
Your words hit the mark and are healing. This video is 100% where I am. Thank you, Kyle for being a channel.
“Undo the entanglement.” Those words struck me like a lightening bolt! I realize that the very reason I have distanced myself from friends was the same reason I unconsciously felt a need get new friends like an addiction. I keep desiring to feel soul connection with others “like me” on this higher vibrational discovery. The people in my life are good people but have no interest in this path. I have caved in to participate in activities that feel shallow just to feel like a part of the world because no one in my world wants to do what interests me so I am always doing everything alone or staying home. I am tired of going inward! Its been years. I crave people that I can have these discussions with that go beyond a chat online with no faces. But yesterday I also noticed that I was looking at the connections I have with a bit of entanglement and ownership by saying “this person is a good person that I should consider a friend but it is a shame that they are always including that person who seems to challenge my way of being.” Or “I am sad that this person who also likes operas and plays now is always busy with their partner who is now moved in so they do those things together. So I have to go alone because I have no un-partnered friends that like what I like.” I made room and created space for new like minded to come in and they didn’t. It is nice to be in my own energy but not forever.
Brilliant teachings 🙏
Wow this was so powerful❤❤❤ Thank you! Exactly the guidance I needed in this moment to truly heal💕
You’re adorable and spot on.
Everything for a reason. We’re being pushed to the extreme limits. 🙏💜
I only had a few friends and even if i dont see them for 2 or 4 years they are still in my heart. I went to a club to party 25 years ago.
I'm friendly.
I don't see how people could leave.
We eat our daly bead together, we eat sadness or heartbreak, abandonment, letting go. every day the bread has a new taste. 😅
Beautiful! I love: No one can come into my connection with source! Thats really really eye opening;)) Thank you so much!
Absolutely the perfect message at the perfect time. Funny how that works.
This was a truly wonderful talk. Thank you! Papaji said he had no friends. That message resonated with me, but I forgot about it. We don't have, or own, anyone.
This was unbelievably helpful. Thank you Kyle! 😊
Wow, I had this question pop up in my mind tonight and I typed in your name and the first video was about letting go of friendships... Weird timing my eyes nearly popped out 😂 just what I needed to hear. Thank you Kyle ❤
Just found you. Amazing stuff so far 😊
Radical stuff mate and totally where I’m at. This is top notch.
Dear Kyle, this is so profound, liberating and empowering! It’s all very true! And I love how you quote Maya Angelou on Love: Love liberates..!🙌❤️💯✨
Oh if only the friends I’ve released could receive this 🤣. Seriously though, this is a message I not only receive but integrate this in my very soul. I’m connecting to me every day. Releasing always. 🙏🏻
Thank You, this is what I need in the exact moment. Synchronicity incredible
This is so utterly profound. Thank you Kyle 💙
I am at last starting to see the hidden truths behind every learning...👍💗
The idea of the NOW being my best friend is sooo helpful!! Thank you so much, Kyle.
I’m trying to apply what I’ve heard from this video. But I have some difficulties when you need real help from someone, for instance ‘cause you are severely ill. Or when you want to stay alone to work on yourself and your inner child, but you also would love to have (I don’t know another verb in English) to listen to, to be there for, to hold the hand, to share some human love to. This is difficult to understand to me: surely I don’t wanna keep anyone next to me: I want everybody free, also free to live. But at the same time I would love to feel that someone really care about me, in a way that I can understand, that has value for me, and be the same person for them.
Thank you Kyle if you can answer, and thank you for this video ✨🙏✨
You are going through a spiritual awakening right now. The covert, narcissist, and all the people who don’t act right in your life it, or being flushed out. I have exactly one or two friends in my life instead of 20 or 30 or more.
Once I started to grow my business I lost so many friends! It has been one journey❤
Indeed a big topic🎉
Thank you Kyle for bringing this up👍
Years back it brought up so much guilt...searching for faults that i seeminly made 😂
Nowadays people still leave me sometimes😊 but my perceptions... thoughts... emotions have changed😇
That's why the suffering is gone❤
In addition it's helpful to know that there's nothing at random🙏
Allow the people that want to leave just leave! There's a reason and it's in your favor! Love this!
I lost a few friends in the last couple years, but I also kept a few. One or two even came back. Count the blessings. All you really need in life is 1-2 good friends. Pay attention to them, everything else pales in comparison.
Totally relate to this message. After a couple long years I finally reached out to some “friends “ … I realized that in that time nothing has changed. They’re still all ( you have to initiate convo, not me) people. I feel good with myself 😊👍✨💫
Went through this. In the end, you will be so much more internally aligned and stronger. I am grateful for those difficult and challenging experiences because they helped me to be much more in alignment with myself and I am thankful for it.
Kyle when you said Alexa multiple times, I was thinking why are you keep speaking to Alexa (Amazon’s Alexa) - only after a while i realised lady who asked a question her name is Alexa🤣! Made me laugh! I thought Alexa definitely has no mates!! Unless Siri is considered her friend 😆?
“I love you, please go” is truly liberating, a gift. The weight has lifted and freedom abounds. Thankful to everyone who has given me the gift of leaving. I never would’ve. 🙏❤️
Powerful message. Needed this today 🙌 🙏.
I used to be afraid to be alone; but lately, I love being alone…I love being with me.
I loved this call Kyle! Definitely trying to keep someone in your life that is no longer a fit for you is hoarding energy. I find it so freeing to let people go! I think letting go of people allows the right people to come into your life.
I LOVE this conversation Kyle. Thank you Alexa for putting this out in this domain.. a truly liberating answer Kyles and yes can be applied to anything we "pocess"
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Gonna see where else this is required 🤔😉🤗🙌❤
Wow. Wow. Wow. I've been going thru the process you're speaking about for a couple of yrs. Since I've been part of AEP, the pace has accelerated. And over the last 1.5 wks, 2 of my closest relationships did a 180°. Reasons don't matter. I am right where I need to be. And if I'm honest I knew it was coming. I could feel it. This 12 min video just blew my mind! I am right here! Mind blowing. Brilliant. Nuanced. So next level, baby! Thank you, Kyle.
This was very therapeutic for me... I am working in a place that feels so good being alone. I am connected to myself and then feel true joy when I am with the energy of people I "choose" to spend time with. Not having the need to have the title of friends, and seeing how the universe brings what is new for me or create the experience of others around me. I know the feelings of loss of friendships, the abandonment surfaces and know that I need the healing from that. Thank you, Kyle... I love my connection of source.
Love Your Shows Kyle so affirming for Me. 25 years ago I began practicing Buddhism and Learned the confirmation of releasing attachments and it made a huge difference in my life. Still practice it to this day. Love and Light to You and Thank You for sharing your wisdoms.,💖
Thanks for this Kyle. It helps to see friends as connections when I feel like it. Your perspective on this is helpful
Kyle says instead of ‘having friends’ change to ‘experiencing connections with people’ That’s what I have done a lot of lately. I have had several 1/2 hour (or more) discussions with people I have just met, last one was in Lowe’s Parking lot. That turned into a three some, as one guy over heard us, I guess liked what he was hearing, and came on over to join us.
It is always cool when that happens.
When you find your total connection with the universe itself, then you get the real friend you need and you don’t associate with the ones who don’t really love you because they take energy from you
I am going through the same "losing all my friends" but these friends were very dependable on me. Breaking free. But listening to you Kyle as usual makes me understand in a much bigger level.
Love you, love the message. Thank you and blessings 1000x to you and your loved ones! ❤️❤️❤️
This hit home with me, too. Today, I actually finally released someone I've known for 30 years. I've been getting an intuitive message to move on from her but I've been stalling because I really cared about her. I realized that I was just a friend for her when it was convenient or when she wanted to dump her problems on me. A very passive-aggressive person that I should have released when my intuition told me, too. Perhaps that was codependency on my part. Today, I told her good-bye and wished her well. I erased her number from my address book because I don't want to be tempted to go open the door of the past. I'm making room for healthy friendshps.
I've been comfortable on my own for quite some time, but there is much more depth to it now. Thank you, Kyle and everyone on AEP ❤.
This is crazy to find this in a moment where I have released “friends”! 2 in the same day! Thank u I truely hear this
You are fricking amazing Kyle I loved this thankyou🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Kyle you have been with me on an incredible journey for 2 years. This one only confirmed what I already knew. Your amazing and I thank you!
This is speaking to exactly where I am right now...thank you!
I felt just like Alexa . . . but then I found a friend in Siri 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻 sorry . . .just releasing lol
What a great video to learn listen to 🙏🙏 thank you
Thank u so much....u can't imagine how grateful iam for u being here sharing these videos 🍀
Just. Yes. 🙌🙌🙌 brother. So aligned to u these past weeks. Epic shifts. Thankful for you ♥️
Absolutely spot on. I'm resonating wildly!
Wow this is amazing!!!!
I had to learn being my own best friend and stop comparing my self worth with the number of friends I currently have namely zero! I’ve got a several acquaintances, who keep me connected to the outside world, doing something fun
Wow - i needed that- thank you ❤
Love to all from me in denmark
The universe is going through a Bifurcation Event and sorting souls by frequency like the Hat Game from Harry Potter 👌🏻 Being authentic is how you find your tribe. Monk mode is for dismantling the ego.
Thank you, this message is helpful ❤
Wow!! This was spot on what I needed to hear 😭❤🙏🏻 Thank you!
I've heard it said that rejection is God's protection. Sometimes the best thing to do for you is to let certain people leave your life. Though it may be a hard thing to do, because of the love you once shared for someone, or the time you feel you wasted if they just exit from your life now, it's usually for the better. Remember, this world is equipped with billions of people so there is always someone out there who will love you with more compassion, give you more of their time, and demonstrate to you how much they appreciate and love you. Just don't demand it. Your connection with the now/God/source is all you really need. Thank you, Kyle for this great reminder. Most grateful.
So well said. Thank you! ❤
So good, thanks for rembering, that we are never alone. I am connected with all and everything ❤
so many thoughts, feelings, fears, emotions, stresses
arise for me, as I watch this video.
here's just a few of the things
I get flooded with:
- emotional pain.
- unbearable grief.
- homicidal rage.
- suicidal depression.
- darkness, SO MUCH DARKNESS.
- drowning, suffocating.
- breathlessness.
- there's a person I have a MASSIVE crush on,
he was my best friend,
and the whole situation
is beyond fucked, and completely toxic,
and he betrayed and abandoned me,
and the grief and loss are unfathomable and unbearable.
- I'm old now, the future is hopeless...
- I recall the past and it fills me with rage.
- I live in poverty.
- fat/diabetic.
- how the fuck am I going to change my life around?
- perpetually single, without friends (my whole life).
- I look old, people think I'm WAAAAAAAY older than I actually am,
and it fills me with endless shame.
- C-PTSD/INFJ/HSP
- panic panic panic,
hyperventilating PANIC.
❤ I'm not sure if it's therapy/healing or another thing that may help you but I am sending good energy your way 🙏
@@annatosza1832 thank you!!
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