So.... There was a man who went to a guru. He cried and cried about how crazy he was becoming because of the people in his life who constantly came to him for advise and solutions to all of their problems. He felt burdened and overwhelmed. The guru handed him a bottle with a rubber duck inside. The bottle was tightly sealed. The guru told him to take the bottle home, get the duck out of the bottle, without breaking or doing anything to unseal the bottle . For weeks, the man took the bottle home and couldn't find a way to get the duck out. The guru would send him home every day with the same instructions. FINALLY.... the man returned to his guru and handed the duck in the bottle back to him saying... " NOT MY BOTTLE... NOT MY DUCK... NOT MY PROBLEM!!! " the guru said to the man " well done my friend... WELL DONE.! !"
My spiritual coach says that if it's not immediately affecting you or your inner circle and there is nothing you can do about it = it's not your business.
Each teaching is medicine for a specific illness. There is no intrinsic truth or goodness to any thing. You can't prescribe aspirin for hunger. It's all conditional. If you are distracting yourself with other people s problems. It's time to face that gaping hole in your heart and walk. Resistance is futile. Plus it generats heat friction conflicts. You know. Resistances
Exactly. I just donate what I can to causes I care about, send my well wishes, and try to carry on. I also just try to lead by example and help where I can. What else can I do? In some situations I can do more.. but I’ve learned recently a big lesson that I’ve been learning over the course of my entire life… stop carrying the weight of the world on your heart
My son is in an abusive relationship and I believe has a substance abuse problem. So hard not to interfere, but I'm going to Al-Anon and have let go of the guilt that somehow I'm responsible. I'm taking care of myself. He needs to choose differently. He's a grown man.
Thank you for posting this. I also have a son with substance abuse problems and toxic relationships. I love him so much and want happiness for him. Taking care of myself and loving myself is the answer. I love this “Don’t pick it up” video.
The homophobia in the world and online makes me argue so much. It destroys my self esteem and peace. It’s not my job to change other people’s opinions.
Bounty the quicker picker upper 😂 You are not a paper towel. LOL! I used to be that way with a family member but I had to step away because I was feeling heavy by talking with her. I picked up what she was feeling. I would get so exhausted every time. I'm happier now that I stepped away.
This is actually what happens on psycedelics, that's very interesting. Especially close to the end of an psycedelic experience. You just don't pick the stuff of the world up anymore. But the cool thing is you don't need that experience when you just listen to the now. It's literally the same effect but in 'real' life. I love it❤
Thank you Kyle - so easy to pick stuff up, the ego thinks its irresponsible not to do so , however that obviously has not solved anything ! except to make us feel heavier. This resonates.
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I have gone thru hell today and this is exactly the reason - picking up other people’s shit!! OMG, this ia an answer to my prayer! Thank you!
I’m not sure what it exactly is about the words you said in this video. But something really just clicked for me… The not picking up of things. It’s really more of a feeling
Really deeply needed to hear this today. I have been feeling emotionally defeated recently, this helps so much… **puts down luggage** …Thank you Kyle 🙏🏼
0 seconds ago The world is a better place because of people who pick an issue such as you Kyle cease ! You picked up transforming us ! and stopping child trafficking
This is SO difficult at times. LOL. Yet, SO NECESSARY. Keep reminding us please. It helps. Maybe if I had a spank machine to run through each time I pick up things.
There is nothing to do, nothing to hold onto, nothing at all anywhere. Life moves ahead no duck to move, any outside influence is not yours. Let life live you be in the new density, it is beautiful! Peace and blessing to everyone let it be🌹❤️
I have to pick up everything until I eventually get a cart and also push a sofa. Lol That’s when I’m alive JK That’s when I’m exhausted and asking myself am I a bad person if I don’t do the “ right thing”.. I pick up people, task, goals, other people’s issues, other people’s children, i pick up identities, ie teacher, mother, fixer. How do I filter. I keep saying, not one more project. Remember priorities.. not other people’s priorities, my priorities. So selfish of me.. 😂gawd help me 🤦♀️
OMG, I pick up so many things that don't even belong to me. I been working on that for so long and I've gotten better but I still have a long way to go. Thank you for this video !!❤
Spot on perfect timing for me in this very minute. I came outside to disengage from a clusterf*ck of energy with my work right now... spinning into a frenzy in emails. And yes, I contributed to it by picking it all up and declaring myself the sole solution maker in it. I let that go and I choose to know me as the higher viewer of it all. The seer. not the doer. Thank you Kyle.
Hey Kyle. You may not know who I am. But I just wanted to say: thank you for being an amazing teacher. I'm going through the worst part of my life and I am seriously contemplating suicide. My life has been spiraling downwards significantly. I've meditated for a while and things have changed somewhat for the better but the crux of it all sadly can't be resolved. I've lost my rights to work and to get Healthcare, I can't help my family get pension or food, I just wanted to share one last thing with you before I go. Thank you for what you do and please continue. You're an incredible person that has changed many lives.
I’m not quite sure how to not pick up what is going on in the world right now. I feel like I have a responsibility to protest against what is happening, and can’t help but to feel the pain of all those suffering. How do you not pick it up if you deeply care? I feel compelled to be a voice, and feel a sense of purpose to make space for those caught up in a genocide. How do you not take that on as your own? How am I meant to turn away?
Yeah man. This is exactly what I have been experiencing. Writing about and dreaming about at night. I feel so on the same frequency with Kyle. It's weird
What a sad situation for the people who are alone and really stuck, who can't figure something out for themselves that is vitally important and consequential, who really, really need input from others who can give insight, give perspective. They're f**ked if no one wants to help, who are only interested in themselves. For someone who never did anything wrong, who would be so grateful for the input, for the help, but there is no sense from anyone else that they even should try to help. Those who are lost are f**ked.
THIS WAS SOOOO GOOD KYLE TY ❤❤❤❤ i beleive the world needs most to heal is,what yiir doing !!! The world 🌎 needs emotional trauma healing!!! And you help with this so beautifully and loveingly ❤❤❤your such a huge blsssing thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤
You are genius. I can’t tell you how specific this is to me today. The messages I got yesterday too were “it’s not your problem!”. I’m taking on way too much and I think I’m about to actually break. I’ve learned a big lesson though to set up boundaries, which I’ve never really done
😊Articulation of that which I was feeling. We're in it, but not of it. Sometimes I forget and get too involved in the 3D. Then I remember who I really am. And this is how we claim our health and happiness. I as an empathic being am sensitive to the pain and loss of others. I am reminded, this is not my energy, my energy is skipping through life, drama free and at peace these days. I call it staying on my own path. Thanks for the reminder. It felt like a cheerleader pep talk, and I needed this! Super video ❤ mahalo😊
Hi Keale, you don’t know HOW MUCH I needed this today….Synchronicity !!! Thank you sooooo much !!! I love You my dear soul-brother !!! I will listen to it again…tooooooo good !!! And you are so TRUE 💕🫶🏼✨🌟☀️✌🏼 P.S. …and the paper towel….LOLLLLL so funny and TRUE….I’m done with picking up all the shit 😁😄🤣🫶🏼
So.... There was a man who went to a guru. He cried and cried about how crazy he was becoming because of the people in his life who constantly came to him for advise and solutions to all of their problems. He felt burdened and overwhelmed.
The guru handed him a bottle with a rubber duck inside. The bottle was tightly sealed. The guru told him to take the bottle home, get the duck out of the bottle, without breaking or doing anything to unseal the bottle .
For weeks, the man took the bottle home and couldn't find a way to get the duck out. The guru would send him home every day with the same instructions.
FINALLY.... the man returned to his guru and handed the duck in the bottle back to him saying... " NOT MY BOTTLE... NOT MY DUCK... NOT MY PROBLEM!!! " the guru said to the man " well done my friend... WELL DONE.! !"
“No more ducks given” 😅
Not my monkey, not my circus…
"you are not a paper towel" 😂 I died
The part of me that was a paper towel died
My spiritual coach says that if it's not immediately affecting you or your inner circle and there is nothing you can do about it = it's not your business.
How do you know if you are able to influence something or not?
“there is nothing you can do about it”
you can ALWAYS do something about it!!( otherwise you are on the side of the oppressor)
Each teaching is medicine for a specific illness. There is no intrinsic truth or goodness to any thing. You can't prescribe aspirin for hunger.
It's all conditional. If you are distracting yourself with other people s problems. It's time to face that gaping hole in your heart and walk.
Resistance is futile.
Plus it generats heat friction conflicts. You know. Resistances
Exactly. I just donate what I can to causes I care about, send my well wishes, and try to carry on. I also just try to lead by example and help where I can. What else can I do? In some situations I can do more.. but I’ve learned recently a big lesson that I’ve been learning over the course of my entire life… stop carrying the weight of the world on your heart
Yes but it dosnt stop one worrying.
LMAO 😂IM NOT A PAPER TOWEL 😂THAT WAS AWESOME 😂😂😂😂
“anything that creates a stressful energy is not yours”
Wow Kyle. I needed this beautiful reminder. Thank you
I have been picking up other family members' issues. I am setting it down.
Exactly, it’s the old "not my circus, not my monkeys" method.
Same here.
❤❤❤❤❤
Everything is you. There is no one else here.
💯❤
Thank you.. ups me. Thank me! 😊
‘Anything that creates a stressful energy is not yours’ … I needed this TODAY Kyle .. magnificent man x
Idk how the universe knew I needed this EXACT message but it sent it to me. Thank you ❤️
My son is in an abusive relationship and I believe has a substance abuse problem. So hard not to interfere, but I'm going to Al-Anon and have let go of the guilt that somehow I'm responsible. I'm taking care of myself.
He needs to choose differently. He's a grown man.
Thank you for posting this. I also have a son with substance abuse problems and toxic relationships. I love him so much and want happiness for him. Taking care of myself and loving myself is the answer.
I love this “Don’t pick it up” video.
You taking care of you is going to model behavior for him to care of himself
Ok! I hear you!! I’m Daring myself to not pick it up!! 😄 TY 🙏
I started to give up control and just be. I have been so much happier. Everything is just stress I don't need. Thank you Kyle for making a difference!
Ahhhhh sweet freedom....
"it's not you it's what you have been picking up."
LOL “You’re not a paper towel” straight UP. I needed this reminder deeply. …. ❤ Thank You, Kyle!!!
“I’m not a paper towel” - my new mantra
The homophobia in the world and online makes me argue so much. It destroys my self esteem and peace. It’s not my job to change other people’s opinions.
I am so ready for the Truth to pick me up ❤
Brilliant....ahh what a revelation! I'm choosing to not pick it up....GAME ON ! It's time to be picked up....what relief ❤
Yep I stopped watching the news years ago. I don’t need to know 99% of it. Very very very very very rarely does it affect me.
Same here. I am careful as to who I follow on RUclips and I use my discretion with social media.
My energy is so much clearer for it!
“I dare YOU to be picked UP”❤️🔥
Yaaaasssss
I can picture a guardian angel becoming totally exasperated with all the things I keep picking up and getting distracted by. 😅
Ahaha
That was me a bit ago before choosing to watch this.. I was scrolling social media looking for something to pick up.. Timely message.. Ty God and Kyle
I like this new game of “Don’t pick it up “ that I’m playing
Perfect. Thank you.
Bounty the quicker picker upper 😂 You are not a paper towel. LOL! I used to be that way with a family member but I had to step away because I was feeling heavy by talking with her. I picked up what she was feeling. I would get so exhausted every time. I'm happier now that I stepped away.
Excellent thank . Thank you for sharing
Yessss😊. 😮. I can do this. I let it go.
This talk is a game changer! 🎉
Love this so much. Real information 💎💛Will apply this
Bless you 🪻
Such a great message!
amazing grounding and peace from this.
This is actually what happens on psycedelics, that's very interesting. Especially close to the end of an psycedelic experience. You just don't pick the stuff of the world up anymore.
But the cool thing is you don't need that experience when you just listen to the now. It's literally the same effect but in 'real' life. I love it❤
Thank you Kyle - so easy to pick stuff up, the ego thinks its irresponsible not to do so , however that obviously has not solved anything ! except to make us feel heavier. This resonates.
Everything shows up right on time ❤
I love this so much. Yikes.
When i put it down in the moment, I feel a lighter breathe
THAT was a remarkable talk. Thank you! I really needed to hear it this way.
I accept your dare. I want to see how light I can become.
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I have gone thru hell today and this is exactly the reason - picking up other people’s shit!! OMG, this ia an answer to my prayer! Thank you!
This was fucking needed man.❤
I’m not sure what it exactly is about the words you said in this video. But something really just clicked for me… The not picking up of things. It’s really more of a feeling
Really deeply needed to hear this today. I have been feeling emotionally defeated recently, this helps so much…
**puts down luggage**
…Thank you Kyle 🙏🏼
Amazing. I needed to hear this, thank you ❤
Mike drop literally 💙
Omg I love you, thank you!❤
Omg! And don’t we go out of our way to dig stuff up? Thank you for pointing it out in this manner.
Can you do a sleep meditation on this? You are triggering my denial… I will work on an extreme life detox, then hopefully return healthier mentally
I love this! 💖
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The world is a better place because of people who pick an issue such as you Kyle cease ! You picked up transforming us ! and stopping child trafficking
Really good
Such brilliance…literally 🤍✨🙏
Thank you Kyle
This is SO difficult at times. LOL. Yet, SO NECESSARY. Keep reminding us please. It helps. Maybe if I had a spank machine to run through each time I pick up things.
💙💛💙
Divine Timing~
Thank you.
Still remembering to melt in the hot tub of this Now moment 😌
There is nothing to do, nothing to hold onto, nothing at all anywhere. Life moves ahead no duck to move, any outside influence is not yours. Let life live you be in the new density, it is beautiful! Peace and blessing to everyone let it be🌹❤️
I love this new awareness! It really cuts through the bull I was picking up and then had to feed! LOL Blessings always!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you. Your words are exactly what I needed to hear today.
Wow! Truth Bomb. I have been the "Bounty quicker picker upper" my whole life! Just realized I don't know who I am without that way of being😮
BEAUTIFUL!💖💖💖
ENJOY rediscovering
YOU💝
Perfect!!!! Thank you🙏👍🤸♂️🧘🏻xxx
Love you Kyle ☺️🫂
I have to remind myself of this over and over and over again. JUST DON’T PICK IT UP!
I have to pick up everything until I eventually get a cart and also push a sofa. Lol That’s when I’m alive JK That’s when I’m exhausted and asking myself am I a bad person if I don’t do the “ right thing”.. I pick up people, task, goals, other people’s issues, other people’s children, i pick up identities, ie teacher, mother, fixer. How do I filter. I keep saying, not one more project. Remember priorities.. not other people’s priorities, my priorities. So selfish of me.. 😂gawd help me 🤦♀️
Bloody marvellous!! 🤗💕✨
OMG!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! 💗💗💗
Thank you Kyle i chose not to be à paper towel ❤
OMG, I pick up so many things that don't even belong to me. I been working on that for so long and I've gotten better but I still have a long way to go. Thank you for this video !!❤
Perfect for everyday but exactly what I needed this day. ❤Thank you so much.
right now I am aware of not picking things up, and by not I found my space for inner peace
Spot on perfect timing for me in this very minute. I came outside to disengage from a clusterf*ck of energy with my work right now... spinning into a frenzy in emails. And yes, I contributed to it by picking it all up and declaring myself the sole solution maker in it. I let that go and I choose to know me as the higher viewer of it all. The seer. not the doer. Thank you Kyle.
Super profound! Needed this today! So much love and appreciation for you and your work!
Spitting straight fiiiiiire as usual 💥🔥
Thank You Kyle! This video feels really really good.
I’m going to watch again.
Much Appreciation
•Other people’s pain is not your pain•
•When you pick up other people’s pain you stop them from healing•
• They need to feel what they’re feeling•
Hey Kyle. You may not know who I am. But I just wanted to say: thank you for being an amazing teacher. I'm going through the worst part of my life and I am seriously contemplating suicide. My life has been spiraling downwards significantly. I've meditated for a while and things have changed somewhat for the better but the crux of it all sadly can't be resolved. I've lost my rights to work and to get Healthcare, I can't help my family get pension or food, I just wanted to share one last thing with you before I go. Thank you for what you do and please continue. You're an incredible person that has changed many lives.
It comes right in time. ❤
This is so beautiful. Thank you
I’m not quite sure how to not pick up what is going on in the world right now. I feel like I have a responsibility to protest against what is happening, and can’t help but to feel the pain of all those suffering. How do you not pick it up if you deeply care? I feel compelled to be a voice, and feel a sense of purpose to make space for those caught up in a genocide. How do you not take that on as your own? How am I meant to turn away?
I think he's saying turn within ❤
Thank you
Yeah man.
This is exactly what I have been experiencing. Writing about and dreaming about at night. I feel so on the same frequency with Kyle. It's weird
What a sad situation for the people who are alone and really stuck, who can't figure something out for themselves that is vitally important and consequential, who really, really need input from others who can give insight, give perspective. They're f**ked if no one wants to help, who are only interested in themselves. For someone who never did anything wrong, who would be so grateful for the input, for the help, but there is no sense from anyone else that they even should try to help. Those who are lost are f**ked.
Well timed video. Thank you Kyle 🙏🏿
Thank you Kyle!
Thank you Kyle. Best pep talk ♥
THIS...right on time. This has just been revealed to me today. Just BE...its okay...all is well.
Thank You.
THIS WAS SOOOO GOOD KYLE TY ❤❤❤❤ i beleive the world needs most to heal is,what yiir doing !!! The world 🌎 needs emotional trauma healing!!! And you help with this so beautifully and loveingly ❤❤❤your such a huge blsssing thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤
You are amazing Kyle Cease
Let it Go
Wake Up live the life you love
This was SO timely as always! THANK YOU!
You are genius. I can’t tell you how specific this is to me today. The messages I got yesterday too were “it’s not your problem!”. I’m taking on way too much and I think I’m about to actually break. I’ve learned a big lesson though to set up boundaries, which I’ve never really done
😊Articulation of that which I was feeling. We're in it, but not of it. Sometimes I forget and get too involved in the 3D. Then I remember who I really am. And this is how we claim our health and happiness. I as an empathic being am sensitive to the pain and loss of others. I am reminded, this is not my energy, my energy is skipping through life, drama free and at peace these days. I call it staying on my own path. Thanks for the reminder. It felt like a cheerleader pep talk, and I needed this! Super video ❤ mahalo😊
Saying, "That is not mine.," helped me.
I say, This is not I, it’s my creation and I permit it to dis-create. I give it no more creating power.
I LOVE this! Another beautiful message of love…thank you Kyle. I’m NOT a paper towel….love it!
Hi Keale, you don’t know HOW MUCH I needed this today….Synchronicity !!! Thank you sooooo much !!! I love You my dear soul-brother !!! I will listen to it again…tooooooo good !!! And you are so TRUE 💕🫶🏼✨🌟☀️✌🏼
P.S. …and the paper towel….LOLLLLL so funny and TRUE….I’m done with picking up all the shit 😁😄🤣🫶🏼
Wow this is tremendous to feel and be sharing this space with all of you
Wonderful wonderful video.
Thank you.
Differentiation i would say in psyc words. Omg Kyle, beyond the beyond thank you!