STOP LISTENING TO YOUTUBERS! 🙅♀️ HOW TO DE-INFLUENCE YOUR PERFUME EXPERIENCE!
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
- Just a rant because I'm trying not to be so influenced anymore. Not meant to offend any other creators. I'm speaking from a viewer and consumer point of view.
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Before You Tube perfume videos I only had 1 perfume!!!! Imagine that!!!
The good old days!! Lol
Sadly I had like 5 body sprays. Now I add 10 bucks to body spray money and have 5 edp perfumes
Me too and it lasted me a couple years. I'd buy a new one when the old one was done. Wasn't even a 2nd thought and now I have almost 100 perfumes in my collection. I love all of them, but still...I have enough.
Every point you made is so true. I am starting to stop watching perfume videos. Or being more selective of the channels I watch. I can’t afford it and it’s way too much consumption. I am watching declutering your home, living more simply, being happy with what we already have. This is helping.
That's also the path I'm headed on! Best of luck to you!
Agree 💯 I started getting irritated by reviewers that called a fragrance their holy grail only to have it in their declutter video a few months later. Or once they started getting sponsorships would look down on designer fragrances even though they weren’t paying for those niche ones they were recommending. Now I watch but have to go try fragrances first. Too many failed blind buys. Lesson learned.
Yes exactly!! There is one RUclipsr that complains constantly. What a big headache everything gives her and she's always decluttering everything. so I don't even listen to her anymore.
I agree! That’s why I stopped buying what RUclipsrs recommend. I will put them on a list and try the ones that sound good to me, but I’m not blind buying anymore!
Hi Carmen! 💖 LMBO at smelling like a barista 😂 All valid points on both the creator and viewer side. Important to pay attention to our own tastes and budgets. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
I really did not make the budget point well. 😕 I wanted to scrap this video but it is what it is. Lol. I was trying to say that we have to stay in our lane with our budget and the content we consume. Lol
@@CarmenScentrix I understood the point and was seconding it! You made the point well 😉
i stopped buying fragrances based on influencers since only 20% are good and the hype more often not justified.
Great advice.. thanks❤
I'm glad you resonated with the things I said. I'm trying not to buy so much too.
I think I’ve become immune to being influenced lol 😅. It takes a lot for me to become really interested in a fragrance everyone is talking about. You’ve made so many excellent points 💖
Thats what I've been working on!! Just not falling for the fomo or influence and for some reason it's working lately!
It took me a lifetime to realize I have sweet taste in aroma. I have and appreciate many other aouds, or mysterious scents, even masculine-marketed parfums but my heart lives with sweet (Amber's, fluffy ones, vanillic, 🍬)
All frag heads understand what u said 👍🏽
Knowing someone's tastes and what they pick up on is very useful in judging the utility of their opinion for you, I agree.
You definitely have some good points. This is your journey, and you are learning more about yourself and others.
How refreshing of a point of view ! I have always thought this. Why would I listen to someone who doesn't like patchouly doesn't like florals,or gourmands? I believe you should not be reviewing something that you have an issue with. Yes you make complete sense. There is one reviewer who I won't name. but she's always complaining. Everything gives her a headache, so I stopped listening to her because it becomes kind of whiny after a while. constantly decluttering, I can't afford to do that . It's OK to change your mind, but when it becomes a constant compulsion, that makes me not want to listen to that person anymore because I don't Declutter my stuff like that . I am a new subscriber as of today. Most of us here watching don't have that type of a budget in order to buy 300- $500 fragrances. I also don't watch most of those anymore. because simply I can't afford something like that and I do not want to go over my budget.
Yes! Watching people who are more relatable is easier! I'm glad you found my topic useful!
I have now developed a sensitivity to aromachemicals and I'm slowly decluttering them out of my collection so just a heads 😅 I'm now that whine-y too 😆
I love your channel and how real you are!! I watch reviews on perfume but I only buy it if the notes are something I love. There are certain notes my nose just doesn't like. We all have the right to change our mind and love what we love even if its just for the moment. Keep doing what's best for you😍😍😍
Thank you!😊 I really debated posting this because I don't want to offend anyone. I am myself am trying to stop being influenced because I don't have the funds to support this addiction. I'm learning how to be more careful and Mindful when consuming content.
very insightful video! i agreed a lot with the difference in tastes portion. ‘cause i loveeee smelling like a strawberry shortcake doll, but i often hold back from purchasing very gourmand berry perfumes ‘‘cause a lot of influencers say they’re “too sweet”! like girl, the GOAL is to smell like Lotso Loving Bear!! also, you’re absolutely beautiful 🍓❤️🫐
That was really well thought out, Carmen. Thanks!💕
All of this very much makes sense!
Great advice for those just starting out on their perfume journey! I’ve been learning some of these same things over the past few years 😌
Totally agree, especially about subjectivity and aroma chemicals. A woman sat in the seats across the isle from me on the light rail yesterday wearing about a gallon of light blue (or something very similar) and that Iso E Super was just a total assault on my senses (like I was stuck squinting my eyes and hoping I don't get a headache)...I get most people are anosmic to something. Personally I can't smell MFK gentile fluidity gold and a few other musky perfumes but can persistently smell the harsh woody aroma chemicals. They don't realize how strong some of these perfumes might be to other people...I love perfume would never tell someone they shouldn't wear perfume or anything like that but it can be uncomfortable to be around a noseblind oversprayer. There are no youtubers who have exactly the same taste as me - I always sample.
Glad you survived that assault on your senses. That's so pungent. It's in so many guys colognes too so I smell it everywhere.
I also would not tell people what to wear but as a sensitive person myself, I try to be considerate when spraying. I try to match the occasion and location I will be at. Specially when being around food. I don't want to ruin anyone's meal. I've ruined my own before lol.
I don't get fomo from youtubers, but I do have it, when I see a good price and fear I may never get it again. I have many times let that price go and almost always regret it 😩. But on the good part it keeps money in my pocket
What a faaaaascinaging video. I watch perfume content nearly every day and it never occurred to me how important base note perceptions are. Awesome point
Love this type of content. You're doing a great job!! ❤
That means a lot to me, thank you🤗
I'm glad you said that about Love Don't Be Shy, because I really thought it would be my next marshmallow love
We absolutely are responsible for influencing others ! Maybe not you or I particularly who don’t make any money but I still think we hit that audience that might possibly,perhaps be influenced ( if that makes sense ) I know I have definitely been influenced by some of my friends on here !! It’s crazy 😜
You really have valid and honest advice ,at the end of the day we are all responsible for our own decisions , but not everyone who listens to us or others ,think rationally and that does make me feel bad 😞 I went through the coffee stage also 🤦♀️
Thanks for sharing and you absolutely make sense
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I made sense?? Thank you! I really didn't think I did when I was making the budget point. I never really said it but I meant for us not to set out to desire things that we cannot afford. Stay in our budget lane. Lol
I admit, I’m not the best at describing fragrance in deep detail. You are at another level 😅
You describe them perfectly Rose. I don't even discuss notes very much. But I'm definitely not talking about our types of channels in this video.
@@CarmenScentrix thanks love 💕😉
I totally agree to this message. I went to several perfume shops to smell all the hyped up constantly reviewed perfumes by these youtubers and I do not get it the hypen at all. Those that I like actually arent or are rarely reviewed.
It’s true we all like different smells and Can pick up different inconsistencies.
Don't feel like you have to be all done up to do a video,come on as your natural self which is what viewers should appreciate. It's sad though if viewers are commenting on how your appearance is.i feel if your giving us content and being real that's enough.i know you may feel self conscious cause I'm like that also,so I get it.but it's sad your not filming enough because you feel like you have to be all makeup and hair.😢😊❤
Thank you so much for your kind words💗. It's more me being self conscious. I definitely want to look a bit presentable.
It takes a while to understand what we like and don’t like. I am still in the experimenting stage and trying different things to determine which notes work for me and which ones don’t. I am also finding my nose evolves and things I used to like I don’t like anymore and some things I did not like I am liking now. It’s a process. I like your advice here thank you so much for sharing.
Yes! It's very important not to go all in when you think you like something. If you keep down the path of testing perfumes, you will keep evolving! Thanks for watching 🤗
Loved this video of yours ❤ totally agree 😊
Thank you 💓
She doesn’t like vanilla woody notes/accords. Vanilla sandal wood candle to her right 👀
😆 That candle smells like sweet marshmallows to me. Kind of like Kilian Princess 🤷♀️ It's one of my favorites of all time!
100% agree. I personally can't stand everything Demi Rawling recommends. I don't like her Kilian recommendations and I can't stand CH Good Girl I think our tastes are polar opposite which is a shame because I like the format of her content.
I understand you! I liked Demi's recommendations till early 2020 while she was still living in Australia and didn't have such a huge niche collection. At some point when she got into super complex niche smells I realized that 9 from 10 of her recommendations I can't stand... I fall in love with Delina because of Demi and it's probably gonna be in my collection forever. ❤ I still love Demi and watch almost every single video of her but now I take her recommendations with the grain of salt
thank you for saying this!
You made so many good points 👏🏾
Thanks girl😊
Perfume is so complicated 🤦♀️I always thought I hated patchouli but then I fell in love with Gris dior 🤷♀️makes no sense to me LOL
Enjoyed your recitation which was really helpful.
Glad it was helpful!
And that’s why I say no one has my taste! 🤣🤣😭, perfume is equal to art and food we certainly are not going to have the same taste, I just think RUclips is a business a market to sell and make money, last week Blanche Bete was the thing this week BoraBora is all over my feed lol, I ended up purchasing a fragrance I never heard of I’m sure it will be a fail but the point is I purchased what I wanted not what I think I needed 😉 this was very entertaining I want to send you NYC vip I’ve never smelled such a strange musk I wonder how you will perceive it!
Ok but Blanch Bete really is that b*tch. Lol. That was worth the hype and I tried so hard not to contribute to the hype because of the price but it's sooo good. It changed the game for me! I'll talk more about that in the future.
NYC Vip? Is that from Carolina Herrera?
@@CarmenScentrix nothing wrong with a hyped fragrance, if it’s good it’s good 😊 I sampled Blanche 😉
When you are starting out, its difficult and you do change your mind a lot. I find i have a good idea of what i can wear now and dont really change my mind a lot.
I'm still having to declutter perfumes I loved a couple years back and now I can't even wear them 😩 I want to get to the point where my taste is no longer evolving!
But yes i do think youtbers should be much more on the responsible side and appeal to that. Not many are.
Yes, Carmen be my therapist. I need this!! 😂❤❤❤
Yes! I did think of me and you! I hope this helps. But you found a hack to still watch expensive channels and then get the clones. That's a better way to do it!
@@CarmenScentrix I have to keep coming back to this video to stay in check 😂🙌🏼
I'm trying to keep myself in check for this no buy!!
I just know this video is going to hit my soul 😂❤
Great points. That’s how I feel about sweet vanillas and extreme gourmands. Can’t do it.
My vanillas are the opposite of yours. I have to have an earthy or other note like tobacco, amber etc.
So once I see the base notes I don’t even bother or sample first to see if it work.
My scene profiles are warm/ spicy or fresh/clean aesthetic
Extreme sweet Gourmands , sweet candy vanillas or girly florals usually won’t work for me.
Love don’t me shy was awful for me and it was so over hyped. Smelled like cough syrup.
I got caught syrup at first too. LDBS is really weird to me. Every time I smell it, it's weird. Then I wear it and actually love the whiffs I get. It's odd.
Hi Carmen! I love seeing your beautiful face ❤❤
So true .
Lol 😂 love don’t be shy - I overwhelmingly smell the marshmallow. Yes I get the orange blossom but overall to my nose the marshmallow is prominent and actually does not let me enjoy the floral aspect. I think it’s because I love florals and don’t love gourmands.
Yeah that makes perfect sense! I bet my patchouli gourmands smell like all patchouli to people who dislike patchouli.
I have a video kind of touching on that. Discussing my least favorite notes and why people shouldn't take my advice on them.
This is a great video! I agree with everything you said. Definitely don’t shut up and keep making this kind of content lol
Awwhh thank you!!🤗🤗
Really good points❤
Great advice. Thanks
I watched a tik tok that said you you look good in all your content then your followers expect it. So I gave up trying to look ok 😂😂 well at least half the time I’m a mess. I also don’t change my clothes if I’m filming back to back anymore. You look great 👍🏼 though so don’t worry.
I think you do always look great!
That's also why I don't try too hard to be honest. I can literally do all the makeup and lashes but I only do natural looks for youtube because I'll be setting unrealistic standards for myself lol.
I use the gurus to know what scents not to pay attention to most of the time. I can’t stand to follow a crowd.
Yes!! That's why it's also important to talk about what we actually truly enjoy instead going with the hype!
Most influencers influence according to those filling their pockets. Influencers should influence society to be genuine, kind, and disciplined in all aspects of their lives. I’m tired of them doing the same videos or acting like they can smell the juniper berry in the mid, no you can’t just stop with that crap. You’re reading the notes as you do the review. A master perfumer can, someone who studied actual perfumery can,…not LTLG and his narcissistic sensitive ego. Just wear what you want and what you like when you want.
Ja ja ja Amy glam review perfumes with notes she doesn’t like. Then she does long declutter then she does hauls again
Definitely gotta keep an eye on the budget and there are many I don’t watch anymore because maybe they started with more average priced perfumes and then they started getting PR (or just have much larger budgets and started to get more confident in their buying and buy really pricey ones) and now they mainly do $200 and up perfumes. There is a push for buying especially among those expensive niche only channels. I’m responsible for my own actions and so I have stopped watching the channels that constantly push “this is a must have” type attitudes. And definitely the massive over consumption (and the fact that I accepted it and started doing it myself….ugh) is shocking once you step back.
It is shocking 😲 when we add it up. The things we've normalized would be insane to non perfume people. I'm afraid to evaluate the price of my collection. Lol.
I've had to hold back on Watching very expensive channels too but that's OK. We all have our people and budgets. Oh the transition from affordable, to designer to then only niche is too real. Lol. It happens to all of us in a way.
@@CarmenScentrix it is shocking….I started to add just the tray I had out one time and quickly stopped because even just that tiny portion was crazy expensive (my collection is almost entirely under $100 a bottle and largely under $50 a bottle). I’m good with people spending how they want/can but it quickly becomes unrelatable and uninteresting because it’s just so far out of my budget and reality. Yes, you’re right that transition does happen to us all to some extent. The “cheapies” eventually many of them smelled cheap to me (not all but many) and many designer got so boring. I’ve bought a lot of middle eastern actually in the last maybe 6 months because they are cheaper usually and smell amazing (many dupes).
@@kara8911 Same for me! Most of mine are all affordable under 50 and yet the value of my collection as a whole is scary to think about. I recently have been doing some thinking about that and will make a video about that too. 😬
@@CarmenScentrix I’d like to see that video. A good look at reality is important. I’m currently selling some, of course at a loss but still.
I too wait super long to film and hoard packages 📦 omgosh! Lol 😝 This was a really good point of view. It’s crazy because a lot of the perfumes you love I really enjoy but I also love amber scented fragrances and I do enjoy some musky perfumes. This was a really good video. Girl I have bought some fragrances that have been super overhyped and then the joke was on me and my wallet. 😅 oh no not that the love affair is over 🤣 but I feel you I so do that too lol! You are seriously so funny 😆 not that you wanted to smell like a barista 😁
I hoard packages too! Lol
I've definitely played myself and my wallet too! Lol
@@CarmenScentrix girl I’m over here like girl you need to get it together 🤣 stop believing everything you hear 😝
You look lovely! ❤🥰
Thank you 💗 😊
Same with fragrance SM groups.
Scented water is too subjective.
I love when you talk with your face but I totally know what you mean and I tend not to post as much 🤷♀️I need to do more without my face LOL
Yes it's easier to spontaneously film when you dont show your face. I enjoy those types of videos too.
Actually, Carmen, hand videos are very poetic or can be :)
Right! I enjoy them too!
Agreed! P.S. Your hair is so shiny, what do you do to them?
It's called Pura D'or Apple Cider Vinager Shampoo.
My hair never looked that good before or after that bottle of shampoo. Lol.
@@CarmenScentrix thanks! ☺️
Chemicals? Molecules? 😂
Lol lol lol! I got the Reminiscence Les notes Gourmand and my review was like "errr marshmallows don't smell like neroli Guimuave! This isn't gourmand it's green and flowery Heliotrope!" 😂 lol the only gourmand from that line was dragee in the white bottle, but that had the chemical in that smalls like tar to me!
The disappointment has been real! I feel our noses are so similar in that they are sooo good at picking up things!
@@CarmenScentrix how is your sense of taste? My dad works in food and tests / grades cheese and has a good sense of smell and taste... he says I'm a super taster lol, we tend to be hyper sensitive to chemicals. So for instance I can ALWAYS taste sweetner. Can't abide zero sugar or any artificial sweetness.... how about you?! Are you one of us?! Lol....
I can taste pesticides used in strawberries, I can taste the type of fertilizer they use in tomatoes (they use a fishy one). I looked it up after tasting fishy tomatoes for a while lol.
I have super senses! It's an adhd thing I think 🤔
I can smell what's in people's pockets sometimes lol
@@CarmenScentrix Haha! a Super Taster!
@@CarmenScentrixyes, I think (not that I've verified it) that the 'super sense' ADHD could definitely be a thing 🤔😮🙌 xx
You look beautiful 😍
Muchas gracias Rose!
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